On Being Ugly

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karakamos

karakamos

11 жыл бұрын

this is maybe more important for me than for anyone else
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@prisk9816
@prisk9816 6 жыл бұрын
"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.
@mabena5759
@mabena5759 6 жыл бұрын
PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂
@Maysoon3121
@Maysoon3121 6 жыл бұрын
PrisK TF , she is not ugly
@Evil_Beauty
@Evil_Beauty 6 жыл бұрын
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.
@prisk9816
@prisk9816 6 жыл бұрын
Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is
@Maysoon3121
@Maysoon3121 6 жыл бұрын
PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .
@corabrei
@corabrei 6 жыл бұрын
The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.
@DHarvey-Scarola
@DHarvey-Scarola 6 жыл бұрын
very true
@Stylomagic
@Stylomagic 6 жыл бұрын
Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.
@0001Nikola
@0001Nikola 6 жыл бұрын
I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.
@Heyitsdaave
@Heyitsdaave 6 жыл бұрын
Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad
@j.celestekee658
@j.celestekee658 6 жыл бұрын
Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.
@MotifMusicStudios
@MotifMusicStudios 6 ай бұрын
How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕
@K-a-n-d-i-s
@K-a-n-d-i-s 6 ай бұрын
I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young
@theharshtruthoutthere
@theharshtruthoutthere 2 ай бұрын
@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
@SudeshKumar-jz2xd
@SudeshKumar-jz2xd 5 ай бұрын
"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment And being ugly does not have to stop you from making an Accomplishment" These words touch my soul deeply❤
@overdosedmiawallace
@overdosedmiawallace 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented
@eloise-mariebamford1737
@eloise-mariebamford1737 3 жыл бұрын
Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS
@geanidrl7527
@geanidrl7527 3 жыл бұрын
Ok philosopher 😂
@overdosedmiawallace
@overdosedmiawallace 3 жыл бұрын
@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨
@geanidrl7527
@geanidrl7527 3 жыл бұрын
@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 3 жыл бұрын
@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation
@ehhilfe2917
@ehhilfe2917 5 жыл бұрын
HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART
@jazmyneanaya9575
@jazmyneanaya9575 5 жыл бұрын
lisa Xvxv amen
@everydaycece2558
@everydaycece2558 5 жыл бұрын
Preach Sister
@malizzaacole5995
@malizzaacole5995 5 жыл бұрын
lisa Xvxv AGREEEEE
@wihh87
@wihh87 5 жыл бұрын
It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where
@helloootheresirr4839
@helloootheresirr4839 3 жыл бұрын
yes yes
@user-pt4fw6px4d
@user-pt4fw6px4d 6 ай бұрын
i literally cried today about how I am not as pretty and feminine as all the other girls and this popped up on my feed … thank you so much … needed this ❤
@waxtrax_
@waxtrax_ 5 ай бұрын
I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways
@joelymatthews9627
@joelymatthews9627 3 жыл бұрын
she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice
@natasharules770
@natasharules770 3 жыл бұрын
'Should'
@thatsEforEveryone
@thatsEforEveryone 3 жыл бұрын
@@natasharules770 what about it?
@natasharules770
@natasharules770 3 жыл бұрын
@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality
@thatsEforEveryone
@thatsEforEveryone 3 жыл бұрын
@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks
@hine6063
@hine6063 3 жыл бұрын
First Class Experience exactly.
@lupamartins8830
@lupamartins8830 3 жыл бұрын
KZfaq: 31 year old virgin 21 with no friends On being ugly Being ugly: my experience Me: Are you trying to tell me something
@aciddecay
@aciddecay 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭
@divyanayak9594
@divyanayak9594 3 жыл бұрын
I know I am ugly 🐸 Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt
@Brandon-nl1nf
@Brandon-nl1nf 3 жыл бұрын
Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....
@aciddecay
@aciddecay 3 жыл бұрын
@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad
@kushpie7973
@kushpie7973 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@esm1817
@esm1817 6 ай бұрын
Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤
@Ruckus88
@Ruckus88 5 ай бұрын
You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.
@thelibtard7358
@thelibtard7358 5 жыл бұрын
Having this sharp and insightful mind at a young age is way more exceptional than having nice cheekbones.
@sydneyreyes7852
@sydneyreyes7852 4 жыл бұрын
The Libtard exactly
@Ahmed-nc2qz
@Ahmed-nc2qz 4 жыл бұрын
naaa she's depressed so this "insight mind" is irrelevant lol
@malevolentgg9675
@malevolentgg9675 4 жыл бұрын
I prefer nice cheekbones
@vvthetalentlessduo6976
@vvthetalentlessduo6976 4 жыл бұрын
Ok
@Xxrocknrollgod
@Xxrocknrollgod 3 жыл бұрын
Malevolent GG agreed
@megbubbz
@megbubbz 5 жыл бұрын
I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao
@suzyyqq7046
@suzyyqq7046 5 жыл бұрын
@@joys8634 are u happy now
@fee6145
@fee6145 5 жыл бұрын
Please remember me
@megbubbz
@megbubbz 5 жыл бұрын
@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis
@megbubbz
@megbubbz 5 жыл бұрын
@@fee6145 i will :))
@fee6145
@fee6145 5 жыл бұрын
@@megbubbz thanks c:
@madtheghost337
@madtheghost337 6 ай бұрын
In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.
@valerieschleiter1780
@valerieschleiter1780 6 ай бұрын
That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels
@user-iz5nu3fm6q
@user-iz5nu3fm6q 5 жыл бұрын
Why did KZfaq recommend me this ? Is that a sign...
@Porknappa
@Porknappa 5 жыл бұрын
it is! same here 😆
@morgyn6417
@morgyn6417 5 жыл бұрын
Guess I’ve joined the club 😂
@Amina-yl7im
@Amina-yl7im 5 жыл бұрын
X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jjzamorano88
@jjzamorano88 5 жыл бұрын
X facts what they tryna say
@elyjulie1389
@elyjulie1389 5 жыл бұрын
same lol
@anonemos
@anonemos 7 ай бұрын
You're not ugly. And this is not a compliment, this is a disagreement. And the video is absolutely beautiful Edit: For those who complain about people saying she's not ugly: I understand the point of this video and agree with it. Except the part of her being ugly, which is quite an important part. I'm sure she wouldn't believe this comment, but i just wanted to say my honest opinion. It's amazing that she found a way to accept ugliness, but it's sad that the ugliness is not there in the first place. The belief of ugliness brought her so many interesting and deep thoughts, but definitely also many problems.
@albin2232
@albin2232 7 ай бұрын
She's lovely!
@helvete_ingres4717
@helvete_ingres4717 7 ай бұрын
I don't find her ugly at all. That being said, when she describes herself as 'ugly', I get what she MEANS, I'm not like calling her crazy for saying that. She doesn't fit the standard of a hot babe or whatever. But to me, 'ugly' means unpleasant to look at - and I don't find her to be that at all. To me, ugly people have a dullness or a deadness behind their eyes - she's very animated which means living, and as she says theyre's something inherently beautiful in that.. And even going by the most conventional beauty standards her eyes are a really beautiful color, so she as at least one 'beautiful' feature in the conventional sense. And she would look even better if she had gone ahead and had her shower too
@irisinmars
@irisinmars 7 ай бұрын
@@helvete_ingres4717 REALEST
@ASMR-Podcast-Psicologico
@ASMR-Podcast-Psicologico 7 ай бұрын
Agree totally
@swimteamsaj152
@swimteamsaj152 7 ай бұрын
lliterally what i was going to say if she loved herself her beauty would shine
@leslyminaya623
@leslyminaya623 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽
@dianmelgaard8137
@dianmelgaard8137 6 ай бұрын
Being “beautiful” is objective But having a beautiful soul is extraordinary, and is way more important I love that you are letting others know ways to appreciate themselves when they might feel lost🫶
@ohwell6571
@ohwell6571 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point
@thatsnotmyname4091
@thatsnotmyname4091 5 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@burpreynolds3250
@burpreynolds3250 5 жыл бұрын
They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.
@kaitlin3102
@kaitlin3102 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.
@perfumaphilia3246
@perfumaphilia3246 5 жыл бұрын
We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.
@grosslyincandescentsnowfla6924
@grosslyincandescentsnowfla6924 5 жыл бұрын
She just needs to looksmax
@tylarjones9281
@tylarjones9281 7 жыл бұрын
Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.
@finemrespice7031
@finemrespice7031 7 жыл бұрын
The fuckin point!!
@melissaharding7754
@melissaharding7754 6 жыл бұрын
I was the 666th like
@RaggedyRosemary
@RaggedyRosemary 6 ай бұрын
When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy! Love this vid! :)
@ExtremePainGames
@ExtremePainGames 6 ай бұрын
This is on an epic scale. What a wonderful human being. Wishing you a warm journey.
@winnieheart
@winnieheart 6 жыл бұрын
This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔
@MarilynbabyZ
@MarilynbabyZ 6 жыл бұрын
winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅
@queenbeyonce1538
@queenbeyonce1538 6 жыл бұрын
winnieheart's adventures ME TOO
@MissSunshine221
@MissSunshine221 6 жыл бұрын
winnieheart's adventures same
@alina24499
@alina24499 6 жыл бұрын
saaame
@jessicaflowers6795
@jessicaflowers6795 6 жыл бұрын
winnieheart's adventures SAME!
@akalink77
@akalink77 6 жыл бұрын
KZfaq lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.
@lovenostradamz9888
@lovenostradamz9888 6 жыл бұрын
akalink77 same
@daisygonzalez8999
@daisygonzalez8999 6 жыл бұрын
Same 😂
@graceguetschow4198
@graceguetschow4198 6 жыл бұрын
No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly
@Tamiiiiina
@Tamiiiiina 6 жыл бұрын
or that you seem insecure
@kelliannespry3912
@kelliannespry3912 6 жыл бұрын
right
@breathej.4872
@breathej.4872 4 ай бұрын
Hands down, the best KZfaq video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.
@nikaweres
@nikaweres 6 ай бұрын
You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.
@hannahanderson5658
@hannahanderson5658 3 жыл бұрын
As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.
@mpro9446
@mpro9446 2 жыл бұрын
this is beautiful
@yettiluch1
@yettiluch1 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.
@WilliamsDarkoh
@WilliamsDarkoh 2 жыл бұрын
you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.
@putinsgaytwin4272
@putinsgaytwin4272 2 жыл бұрын
Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty
@dalpaengi
@dalpaengi 2 жыл бұрын
@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..
@jwalt8019
@jwalt8019 8 жыл бұрын
You have an amazing outlook on life.
@justiceteachesAI
@justiceteachesAI 6 жыл бұрын
Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude
@lesliehasenkampf7088
@lesliehasenkampf7088 6 ай бұрын
No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!
@r0bophonic
@r0bophonic 5 ай бұрын
What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.
@BubulinaMC
@BubulinaMC 3 жыл бұрын
Most regular women look like this in the morning, without make up, bleached hair and styling... she just looks like a regular woman to me.
@everly9629
@everly9629 3 жыл бұрын
ikr? blonde? blue eyes?
@IIIISai
@IIIISai 3 жыл бұрын
facts
@guymontag1078
@guymontag1078 3 жыл бұрын
True
@Username-1939t9
@Username-1939t9 3 жыл бұрын
ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it
@acspeter7
@acspeter7 3 жыл бұрын
She looks like Scarlet Johanson without makeup 😁
@CrayCristy
@CrayCristy 5 жыл бұрын
Holy crap please write a book
@ryanjohnston8237
@ryanjohnston8237 5 жыл бұрын
wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.
@womp9465
@womp9465 5 жыл бұрын
Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a KZfaq video
@womp9465
@womp9465 5 жыл бұрын
Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao
@Pensive_117
@Pensive_117 5 жыл бұрын
@@womp9465 This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.
@solitudence6529
@solitudence6529 5 жыл бұрын
Tea Times Two shes so ugly
@yabsig2359
@yabsig2359 5 ай бұрын
your Intelligence and openness is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing those thoughts! They're really eye-opening and take away a lot of pressure! ❤
@anon19086posts
@anon19086posts 2 ай бұрын
If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this
@lottiej742
@lottiej742 6 жыл бұрын
Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x
@aestheticflower8584
@aestheticflower8584 6 жыл бұрын
Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you KZfaq??? but then I actually loved the video
@itselena43
@itselena43 6 жыл бұрын
she just needs makeup and she's fine
@itselena43
@itselena43 6 жыл бұрын
and a better haircut
@Ana-dl7zl
@Ana-dl7zl 6 жыл бұрын
Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial
@sleepybb8781
@sleepybb8781 6 жыл бұрын
She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.
@DavisAshmon899
@DavisAshmon899 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder how she’s doing now
@rosie5348
@rosie5348 4 жыл бұрын
Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)
@Isabeltherat
@Isabeltherat 4 жыл бұрын
Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)
@noodlery7034
@noodlery7034 4 жыл бұрын
@Ilya K ????
@brucopera
@brucopera 4 жыл бұрын
Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person
@toooooor
@toooooor 4 жыл бұрын
Il mio Nome. @moonsludge
@paulinehajek4269
@paulinehajek4269 6 ай бұрын
You're a star. Shining so brightly. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤
@nnjack9931
@nnjack9931 6 ай бұрын
This is old and just popped up. You are not ugly at all.
@indiawalker2778
@indiawalker2778 6 жыл бұрын
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.
@nefelibata4190
@nefelibata4190 6 жыл бұрын
more like a privilege.
@ShockResistor
@ShockResistor 6 жыл бұрын
Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.
@CelestialDraconis
@CelestialDraconis 6 жыл бұрын
Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.
@dweliq2993
@dweliq2993 6 жыл бұрын
Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.
@elleelle5847
@elleelle5847 6 жыл бұрын
I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol
@1tecito
@1tecito 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video
@ashley1919100
@ashley1919100 5 жыл бұрын
Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@rein2430
@rein2430 5 жыл бұрын
Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok
@issyxox8416
@issyxox8416 5 жыл бұрын
no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite
@theblackrose3583
@theblackrose3583 5 жыл бұрын
True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie
@silvia___228
@silvia___228 5 жыл бұрын
I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average
@morticialechatnoir6884
@morticialechatnoir6884 4 ай бұрын
It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.
@ewaijulka
@ewaijulka 6 ай бұрын
Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')
@LeeorAlexandra
@LeeorAlexandra 6 жыл бұрын
Your energy is so pure and clear I feel it from my screen
@gigixxx1836
@gigixxx1836 6 жыл бұрын
^^
@Mi-gs7xg
@Mi-gs7xg 6 жыл бұрын
Lol ikr
@sarbnitrof4663
@sarbnitrof4663 6 жыл бұрын
Can you feel her Chakra too?
@onepunch9578
@onepunch9578 6 жыл бұрын
Aaron White no it’s nen
@sarbnitrof4663
@sarbnitrof4663 6 жыл бұрын
lel yeah i bet. I bet she can sense her ki as well.
@suzzsheff4988
@suzzsheff4988 6 жыл бұрын
"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.
@aerbald
@aerbald 4 жыл бұрын
It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.
@michaelg9082
@michaelg9082 4 жыл бұрын
@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves
@aerbald
@aerbald 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation
@jimmyj4044
@jimmyj4044 3 жыл бұрын
Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.
@sushipbestdeck8995
@sushipbestdeck8995 3 жыл бұрын
That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment
@Echelon111999
@Echelon111999 6 ай бұрын
I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.
@juni4626
@juni4626 6 ай бұрын
You are a true Angel!!! Thank you for your gift, I really needed it
@jasminerichardson3041
@jasminerichardson3041 5 жыл бұрын
“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.
@tl4176
@tl4176 5 жыл бұрын
That is beautiful
@LauraLaura-mv4xh
@LauraLaura-mv4xh 3 жыл бұрын
but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.
@cimmerianfable
@cimmerianfable 6 ай бұрын
​@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤
@pillbugm8914
@pillbugm8914 6 ай бұрын
@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.
@bellabastien969
@bellabastien969 7 жыл бұрын
People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful
@rachelanderson5619
@rachelanderson5619 7 жыл бұрын
Bella Bastien who cares how smart she is being smart isn't physical beauty, that's not the point the point is she's happy who she is and that's all.
@stigludwigsen
@stigludwigsen 7 жыл бұрын
Intelligence isn't physically appealing dumbass.
@bobbyhill9830
@bobbyhill9830 7 жыл бұрын
Rachel Anderson being attractive is everything
@rachelanderson5619
@rachelanderson5619 7 жыл бұрын
Bobby Hill I never said it wasn't, so you might wanna read my comment again.
@zaxlorax7605
@zaxlorax7605 6 жыл бұрын
Bella Bastien Easy by you to say it unless your pic. isn't you. Don't you think?
@onlyamaryllis3022
@onlyamaryllis3022 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.
@billybob1723
@billybob1723 5 ай бұрын
What a wonderful video. You're a special person. Thanks for sharing with so many.
@bewbala
@bewbala 6 жыл бұрын
"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy
@carla-vv2xw
@carla-vv2xw 6 жыл бұрын
it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol
@bewbala
@bewbala 6 жыл бұрын
It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.
@rightwingersexposed8800
@rightwingersexposed8800 6 жыл бұрын
Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.
@SuburbanoidMisfit111
@SuburbanoidMisfit111 6 жыл бұрын
What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?
@LCbabyxO
@LCbabyxO 6 жыл бұрын
Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote
@NonStopParis
@NonStopParis 6 жыл бұрын
Who TF decided what beauty is anyway
@Maha-wm9tx
@Maha-wm9tx 6 жыл бұрын
evolution, that's who
@buttaz3000
@buttaz3000 6 жыл бұрын
babies lol
@kateisasmartass
@kateisasmartass 6 жыл бұрын
Natural selection
@laurah2113
@laurah2113 6 жыл бұрын
white people
@Ayesha_5782
@Ayesha_5782 6 жыл бұрын
NonStopParis Society.
@rock.lobsterXx
@rock.lobsterXx 6 ай бұрын
I AGREE!!! i love this video and i love how you were able to word what ive been thinking!! thank you you’re amazing and beautiful 🙏🙏
@YogaCandi
@YogaCandi 6 ай бұрын
Such an insightful young person, these words are coming from a place of inner wisdom, there's nothing more beautiful than that 🥰
@Nooobbb232
@Nooobbb232 8 жыл бұрын
Your eyecolour is so beautiful
@lilyhill5095
@lilyhill5095 6 жыл бұрын
Mia Wallace I know! I couldn't stop staring at her eyes. The colour is incredible
@svar4842
@svar4842 6 жыл бұрын
Still ugly tho
@svar4842
@svar4842 6 жыл бұрын
thomascampr haha calm the fook down, just a lil joke
@somethingaboutfootball702
@somethingaboutfootball702 6 жыл бұрын
Axel 1010 a joke... right..... haha...ha...ha
@svar4842
@svar4842 6 жыл бұрын
No ketchup, just sauce, raw sauce BOOM YO GAA The ting goes GRRRRAAA pap pap ka ka ka skibidi pap pap and a pu pu drrr boom SKEEYAA
@lottiej742
@lottiej742 6 жыл бұрын
This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.
@VoteRFK
@VoteRFK 6 жыл бұрын
Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...
@evad2180
@evad2180 6 жыл бұрын
I love ur profile picture!!
@DoctorDoom69
@DoctorDoom69 6 жыл бұрын
Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???
@rachelisodd9548
@rachelisodd9548 6 жыл бұрын
Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?
@marixcx
@marixcx 6 жыл бұрын
Zac Loves Yaaa That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp
@nelladenzel7127
@nelladenzel7127 5 ай бұрын
You just said so many important wonderful and true things and I think I will come back to this video really often! It really reminded me what‘s important and what things i do not have to care about. Thank you for this video and being so honest humble and intelligent!
@MonaE_1C37
@MonaE_1C37 3 ай бұрын
I'll reflect on this video a lot, I really loved this. Thank you
@TheDaha
@TheDaha 3 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?
@gabor6259
@gabor6259 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this BEFORE that.
@hazy92
@hazy92 3 жыл бұрын
me 😂 i love KZfaq algorithms
@TheDaha
@TheDaha 3 жыл бұрын
​@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)
@hazy92
@hazy92 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..
@TheDaha
@TheDaha 3 жыл бұрын
@@hazy92 mhm! 😂
@citiz3n942
@citiz3n942 8 жыл бұрын
And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.
@jasonkelly2173
@jasonkelly2173 8 жыл бұрын
Truesay
@IrinNovy
@IrinNovy 8 жыл бұрын
+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.
@citiz3n942
@citiz3n942 8 жыл бұрын
+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.
@IrinNovy
@IrinNovy 8 жыл бұрын
reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.
@stephanni98
@stephanni98 7 жыл бұрын
+05candyman Those people arent worth it.
@hayleyzenchi6626
@hayleyzenchi6626 6 ай бұрын
Thankyou for sharing this beautiful message 💖
@sabrinacowan1766
@sabrinacowan1766 6 ай бұрын
Looks are overrated. I wish we could be friends.. I find your spirit to be absolutely beautiful… refreshing.. just keep growing brighter my love !! ✨🙏
@Xbitxx
@Xbitxx 4 жыл бұрын
I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities
@4ka07_muhammadrizky
@4ka07_muhammadrizky 4 жыл бұрын
The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady
@laysoe2257
@laysoe2257 4 жыл бұрын
Gay
@Xbitxx
@Xbitxx 4 жыл бұрын
Lay Soe your mother...
@laysoe2257
@laysoe2257 4 жыл бұрын
Hamm lol daddy’s mad
@maylily820
@maylily820 3 жыл бұрын
Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old
@theinternettrashcan
@theinternettrashcan 5 жыл бұрын
I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD
@heinzlitzel3818
@heinzlitzel3818 5 жыл бұрын
Wow spongebob was already talking about it a long time ago lol
@harbear7325
@harbear7325 5 жыл бұрын
@@heinzlitzel3818 was seconds away from commenting this then i saw ypur comment XD
@heinzlitzel3818
@heinzlitzel3818 5 жыл бұрын
@@harbear7325 HAHAHAHAHA
@patrickbucheli7656
@patrickbucheli7656 5 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with that. Don't be proud to be ugly because if you would be proud, that would mean that we never have to brush our teeth, never take a shower etc. Don't be proud to be ugly. Just don't care what other think about you and try to get the best out of you. Inside and outside.
@oddity4650
@oddity4650 5 жыл бұрын
I think I am ugly I just accepted how I look, oddly people say I am not ugly, it don't change my opinion about my self thou.
@cool_baby98808
@cool_baby98808 6 ай бұрын
the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.
@shreejadm3148
@shreejadm3148 6 ай бұрын
I can listen to her for hours ❤
@xZippy
@xZippy 7 жыл бұрын
Being ugly in high school = night terror. Boy I do not miss my teen years.
@mithubird9755
@mithubird9755 7 жыл бұрын
Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.
@Alina-gf4ku
@Alina-gf4ku 7 жыл бұрын
Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.
@coolcat5714
@coolcat5714 7 жыл бұрын
Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot
@fruttojuli_blog
@fruttojuli_blog 7 жыл бұрын
I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.
@zaxlorax7605
@zaxlorax7605 6 жыл бұрын
SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.
@KB-cc7yd
@KB-cc7yd 6 жыл бұрын
I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.
@artvid-1915
@artvid-1915 6 жыл бұрын
Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!
@yaseminkhan3891
@yaseminkhan3891 5 ай бұрын
Good for you, young lady! You have an acute mind, a beautiful soul and a great personality. It takes courage to speak out the way you do. ❤
@wondertyzipp8260
@wondertyzipp8260 6 ай бұрын
I just want to say, your eyes are so pretty! I'm so envious of their colour and how vibrant they are ✨️
@TheDailyEgg
@TheDailyEgg 5 жыл бұрын
"I'm ugly and I'm proud" --Spongebob Squarepants
@zenov8469
@zenov8469 5 жыл бұрын
inspirational stuff
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 5 жыл бұрын
SpongeBob was on to something then...
@nathanhunnisett6199
@nathanhunnisett6199 4 жыл бұрын
ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMiqh5NhqN_VXZs.html This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up. Science behind mewing : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hNyfi8KoqtrbdJ8.html
@6ixlxrd
@6ixlxrd 3 жыл бұрын
"Is that what he calls it?" -Squidward OG Tentacles
@vivisuehodgden3148
@vivisuehodgden3148 5 жыл бұрын
I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes
@stxxk
@stxxk 5 жыл бұрын
Tru
@yarakarim1821
@yarakarim1821 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@Mx.Pickle
@Mx.Pickle 5 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@miyanasidney2696
@miyanasidney2696 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@filipandrejevic4427
@filipandrejevic4427 5 жыл бұрын
Why the fuck you lyin'?
@hermitwatcher8997
@hermitwatcher8997 5 ай бұрын
Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time
@avalon_in_the_sky
@avalon_in_the_sky 6 ай бұрын
this actually opened my eyes a lot, even ten years later. thank you :]
@carltonjohnston8408
@carltonjohnston8408 7 ай бұрын
I don’t like the comments of “you’re pretty” or “you’re not ugly” because that totally defeats this whole topic. That’s like saying yes it’s important to not be ugly, let me convince you that you’re not ugly. This is about even if you are ugly or are judged by someone as ugly, how to not be hurt by it, not feel like shit, not let it impact on your self esteem, not be self conscious of your looks, not feel inadequate or not good enough. It’s an incredibly hard thing to be ok with and I like how Kara is trying to adopt a mindset whereby she can be ok if she ever feels or thinks or is judged as ugly.
@EyeLean5280
@EyeLean5280 6 ай бұрын
But what if we a) really don't agree that she's ugly and b) worry that she's coming up with all this other stuff but actually isn't able to shield herself from feeling bad?
@WateryFire
@WateryFire 6 ай бұрын
But very very few people in the world are ugly (they are usually deformed in some way) and this girl is in no way ugly. It’s important to have a realistic view, somebody calling her ugly does not mean she’s actually ugly. So you don’t accept you’re ugly and then not get hurt but realize you’re actually not ugly and the other person currently holds a fantasy image in their head they deem as beautiful and that has nothing to do with you, your looks or reality. Reality and objectivity is important. Learn to discern truth not adapt your emotions according to other people’s views, that’ll get you in trouble in life.
@carltonjohnston8408
@carltonjohnston8408 6 ай бұрын
@@WateryFire There are so many flaws in your comment. Lots of people hate looking at their image in mirrors or photographs, they don’t like how they look, they think they are ugly. What you say in believing you’re not ugly is impossible if you do believe you’re ugly. What if you have been called ugly many times in your life and you know you’re not good looking, how can you believe you’re not ugly and that anyone who says you’re ugly is wrong? What you say does nothing to address being hurt at being or being judged as ugly. Ugly is subjective, attractiveness is subjective. But the whole subject here is how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if judged or seen as ugly by others. What you say does nothing to address these issues, you’re actually pouring fuel on the fire because what you are saying is “ugly is a terrible thing, it’s so important to not be ugly, let me tell you that you are not ugly, so it’s ok”. You do think being ugly is a terrible thing don’t you?
@carltonjohnston8408
@carltonjohnston8408 6 ай бұрын
@@EyeLean5280 but that’s not what this is about. What if someone wants to do a video about “how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if you are judged as ugly by others”. Are you going to just respond - oh you’re not ugly so it doesn’t matter. This is a topic lots of people want to try and change their mindset on. I wish Kara did this video by saying “I know I’m not ugly but I want to do a video on why you shouldn’t be hurt if you think you are ugly or judged as ugly - so that people don’t keep responding by dismissing the topic by saying “you’re not ugly so let’s not even go there”.
@Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr
@Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr 6 ай бұрын
@@carltonjohnston8408i think you are reading into their comments too much. Most people watch like 10s of a video then comment. The only context the commenters have is a video title implying the person is ugly, and the face of a person who most certainly isn’t ugly.
@alma4833
@alma4833 8 жыл бұрын
she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with
@mayagarcia9855
@mayagarcia9855 6 ай бұрын
your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.
@Tyrenexg
@Tyrenexg Ай бұрын
You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.
@thewatermelonseed1300
@thewatermelonseed1300 5 жыл бұрын
This should be a Ted Talk.
@harleyquiinnnn
@harleyquiinnnn 5 жыл бұрын
YES! So much more people should hear that!
@origamilester706
@origamilester706 9 жыл бұрын
You're really intelligent, which makes you 10x more attractive tbh
@xiaoyizhang9388
@xiaoyizhang9388 8 жыл бұрын
OrigamiLester bruh , , , , , , , rather ,,,,,bruh
@eartianwerewolf
@eartianwerewolf 8 жыл бұрын
OrigamiLester being attractive isn't important. Woah. way to go lol.
@StupidChaudhryboy
@StupidChaudhryboy 8 жыл бұрын
+OrigamiLester Are you ugly?
@origamilester706
@origamilester706 8 жыл бұрын
RZA DAGZA well, beauty is subjective, but i would say im pretty average. why?
@origamilester706
@origamilester706 8 жыл бұрын
RZA DAGZA is my opinion less valid if im considered ugly by society?
@SpookyEmmm
@SpookyEmmm 6 ай бұрын
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and not in an unconventional way - in a TRUE way! Your heart, mind and authenticity make you GLOW! 💖✨ Truly, energy is the first thing I see, when I look at someone. I clicked on this video because, seeing you in the title card (or whatever they’re called), I was GENUINELY confused! Looking a certain way becomes irrelevant when there is hate in a person’s heart. You are absolutely, unquestionably more beautiful to me than SO many people who “society” counts as beautiful. As for that part - the insecurities that beauty standards thrust upon us, finding a look and a style you love and totally rocking it, without caring what anyone else thinks is so HOT and the authenticity that comes with it is positively beautiful, in every way!! And fuck any dummies that disagree!! You just keep on shining!! 🥰😍✨🍀♥️♥️
@ketsu_kit8920
@ketsu_kit8920 6 ай бұрын
Blud missed the entire point
@Rflowers321
@Rflowers321 6 ай бұрын
@@ketsu_kit8920I don’t think so. They’re not commenting on physical attractiveness, which is what the video is about
@EC-yd9yv
@EC-yd9yv 6 ай бұрын
True beauty you are!! Imagine how beautiful the world would be..If ppl worked on and cared about their inner beauty as much as they do for outer. Thank you for sharing your beauty. 🌹
@missybeans1
@missybeans1 10 жыл бұрын
You guys are missing the entire point of the video. She didnt ask how she could make herself look "pretty" she said she is content with her appearence
@studmalexy
@studmalexy 6 жыл бұрын
100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.
@edwardkenway6630
@edwardkenway6630 6 жыл бұрын
You guys need to return to the way of the prophets
@Mar198
@Mar198 6 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of a khaled hosseini quote that goes "beauty is an enormous, unmerited gift given randomly, stupidly."
@scarlettt.s9822
@scarlettt.s9822 6 жыл бұрын
Marielle Muro- Buckingham love that guy
@dorisblok
@dorisblok 6 жыл бұрын
it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.
@tenacioustrees.8737
@tenacioustrees.8737 6 жыл бұрын
With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.
@ufknw0tm8
@ufknw0tm8 6 жыл бұрын
This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across
@PrimerCinePodcast
@PrimerCinePodcast 6 жыл бұрын
You mean the Khaleesi, mother of dragons?
@somerandomdude7776
@somerandomdude7776 5 ай бұрын
God bless you for this beautiful message, coming from a beautiful soul 🙏❤️
@TopNotchPersona
@TopNotchPersona 10 күн бұрын
Very nicely said. You're absolutely right. Beauty is incredibly subjective anyway, and to most actual people, it includes personality and attitude. That being said, when I was younger I did have body image issues, so I know what it's like to let these get in our head and mess us up. It can be hard. But the realization that one is all and all is one really helps take us out of our heads. Thanks for sharing this. I hope you're happy and successful at this point 🙏
@stuartkeating6508
@stuartkeating6508 6 жыл бұрын
I don't know how I feel about KZfaq "recommending" this for me. I feel like they're trying to tell me something...
@xxxxjuanitaxxx8942
@xxxxjuanitaxxx8942 6 жыл бұрын
Stuart Keating lol same
@ismokebeats6988
@ismokebeats6988 6 жыл бұрын
Yh probably something to do with our google searches, because this hit me in the gonads straight away. Anyway back to my dead life time to get high and stare into nothingness lol.
@love4musicuk
@love4musicuk 6 жыл бұрын
same, lol
@catlady715
@catlady715 6 жыл бұрын
Me too, Stuart. lol......
@ahmadhumayun4379
@ahmadhumayun4379 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah they are and I'm sure you do know what they are tryna tell you 😂😂
@isaiahjackson9983
@isaiahjackson9983 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad that 95% of the world doesn’t have a mind like hers 😩🙌🏾🔥
@alessias.4733
@alessias.4733 5 жыл бұрын
Including you.
@tomaspalomaki5814
@tomaspalomaki5814 5 жыл бұрын
Alessia S. Am I ugly? U don't even know what I look like.
@alessias.4733
@alessias.4733 5 жыл бұрын
@@tomaspalomaki5814 what? I was saying that most people don't have a mindset like hers and most likely the person who made that comment is just as superficial as most people.
@wren7574
@wren7574 5 жыл бұрын
That's a random number
@sarahgloria1402
@sarahgloria1402 5 жыл бұрын
If you really think like this you won t give a fuck about what others think
@clay20161
@clay20161 6 ай бұрын
i hope she is living well, love you💚
@karma_653
@karma_653 4 ай бұрын
girl people would die for ur eyes- ur getting ur glow up soon + u look fine!!
@ambram22
@ambram22 3 жыл бұрын
"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow. I needed to hear everything she just said.
@myaatheist2744
@myaatheist2744 3 жыл бұрын
Right on ✊
@treacheroustea926
@treacheroustea926 3 жыл бұрын
@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?
@treacheroustea926
@treacheroustea926 3 жыл бұрын
@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?
@treacheroustea926
@treacheroustea926 3 жыл бұрын
@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.
@Joao-ur7ey
@Joao-ur7ey 2 жыл бұрын
It actually is if were ugly and put the effort in becoming better looking like going to the gym, eating better and healthier, sleep better and etc.
@sitas9827
@sitas9827 3 жыл бұрын
"In a blind world, how many people will you impress?"
@jamalempfehlung9841
@jamalempfehlung9841 3 жыл бұрын
What
@hancy3013
@hancy3013 3 жыл бұрын
@@jamalempfehlung9841 if everyone was blind would you still be beautiful
@hideouslyugly1361
@hideouslyugly1361 3 жыл бұрын
The world isn’t blind in seeing how ugly I am cuz that’s exactly what I am and it’s obvious😔😣
@equim7363
@equim7363 3 жыл бұрын
The problem is, we don't live in a blind world. Alternative version: "In a hermaphrodite world, what will be the point of being beautiful?"
@hideouslyugly1361
@hideouslyugly1361 3 жыл бұрын
@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth
@rinafagan2680
@rinafagan2680 5 ай бұрын
this video is such a smart and beautiful take that i needed. thanks for the perspective
@WiseIceBear
@WiseIceBear 4 ай бұрын
The thing that helps me the most is hanging out with my friends/family, because then it is very easy to realize that people who are actually important to me don't give a damn about my looks and neither do I. You have an extraordinary mind which makes you beautiful and I think that all of us has something what makes us unique and beautiful. This video helped me a lot, thank you.
@carlingnugent
@carlingnugent 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with her that humans are super bizarre looking as a species.
@Danuxsy
@Danuxsy 4 жыл бұрын
That doesn't make sense, everything is relative.
@hasou5289
@hasou5289 4 жыл бұрын
@@Danuxsy it does how is it relative when we are literally the only species with completeley different looking specimen each generation
@princessofpower4862
@princessofpower4862 4 жыл бұрын
Tigers are the most beautiful species. Humans are funny looking lol
@nathanhunnisett6199
@nathanhunnisett6199 4 жыл бұрын
ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMiqh5NhqN_VXZs.html This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up. Science behind mewing : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hNyfi8KoqtrbdJ8.html
@masonprice1522
@masonprice1522 4 жыл бұрын
@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild
@anjaraj
@anjaraj 6 жыл бұрын
I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..
@Danipieee
@Danipieee 5 жыл бұрын
Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!
@mistywest6295
@mistywest6295 5 жыл бұрын
Anja R me too
@mgal6234
@mgal6234 5 жыл бұрын
If you worry about it when you’re young, it’s hell when you get older... It will bury you.
@MattisWell.20
@MattisWell.20 6 ай бұрын
What’s beautiful is that you have the capacity to think this way, when much of the world now tends to define beauty arbitrarily. What a brilliant mind you have. Bless you, friend🙏
@Wither246
@Wither246 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. You helped me a lot, really.
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