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Iyanla: Fix My Broken Family Part 1 | Full Episode | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN
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Күн бұрынPART 1: The Henry family is in crisis. Father Dwight is a serial cheater struggling with addiction, while mother Thelisha is an emotionally unavailable woman who seems numb to (or unaware of) the frequency of her husband’s infidelities. Throughout their dysfunctional relationship, both Dwight and Thelisha have sought support and comfort from their two daughters, Avanté and Lakesha. Will Iyanla be able to change this family dynamic? (Original air date: October 8, 2016) // Don’t miss the two-hour premiere of “Iyanla: Fix My Life,” on Saturday, October 31 at 9/8c on OWN. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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@thelishaglover4852 3 жыл бұрын
I conducted an update that aired in January of this year that aired on OWN’s IFML. However to all those who haven’t seen the episode and are interested in an update...my children are doing well, I am happily divorced (Thelisha Glover) and dating. I am currently in med school to become a Physician Assistant (Morehouse School of Medicine) and me and my children are healing together from the wounds of our past. To those who are in toxic relationships, there is hope and a way of escape. You must have faith in God, believe in yourself, get the help needed to escape, and most of all DO THE WORK! Prayers and blessings unto you all.
@ceebee8255 3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you!!!!! God bless you and your family. Beautiful update. 🤍
@martaneledwards5325 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am I’m so happy for you.
@TIJD19 3 жыл бұрын
Watching you go through all that pain really touched me deeply. You are so beautiful, I felt like crying looking at the hurt in your eyes.I am so angry you were treated so badly by a man you trusted to have your best interest at heart. Honestly hun, he never deserved you. I know you grieved for a very long time but know you are a queen, a real man will cherish you not destroy you. Keep sweet and thank you for giving so many of us women hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
@pennyc9235 3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you. You and your girls deserve the world ❤️
@VerSpnc 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@GoitseC 3 жыл бұрын
The moment that man lay on that couch like it's his house, I knew he was about to get on my nerves 🙄
@all_my90 3 жыл бұрын
Like a spoiled child.
@tayanacadena7008 3 жыл бұрын
Right! I was like “sitcho azz up!” 😂 😂 😂
@abaabeebeauty9170 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@carmieapples7737 3 жыл бұрын
He was out of order when he walked through the door. You could tell he was going to be "manipulative ".
@taishabrooks8806 3 жыл бұрын
Yeeees he irritated my soul
@briananordahl1605 3 жыл бұрын
I love how iyanla, continually expressed how she DIDN'T like his AGRESSIVE behavior. As a surviver of DV, seeing her do that made me feel her POSITIVE POWER she has
@karabomothupi9759 3 жыл бұрын
Garbage. Women love aggressive men.
@IraRochaa 3 жыл бұрын
@@karabomothupi9759 you’re sick
@karabomothupi9759 3 жыл бұрын
@@IraRochaa You know you want me
@xxxtrddy 3 жыл бұрын
@@karabomothupi9759 you’re a reject aren’t you...?
@shanb.9690 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr I’ve watched these episodes over and over again and I must be honest and say that I have to find a episode and watch it when im feeling low battling depression going through all the hurt that I feel quite frequently to get myself bacc grounded, I know that I should seek therapy with the things going on inside of my head but until I can be brave for the inner little girl inside of me who harbors all of these different emotions good bad and indifferent I must say watching these episodes do help me, I wish that I could meet her one day her energy her spirit is electrifying her wisdom and knowledge her intellect and the way she carries herself the way she speaks even her tone is very comforting it draws you to her and makes you feel like you can open up idk her outside of this show and I know that ppl are ppl all over the world but I will just say that you can tell that she is anointed and has a special calling on her spirit on her soul and for what she’s allowed us the viewers to watch and consume I just wanted to say that I’m so grateful for that I can go on and on but I truly do thank God for using her as a vessel to help ppl of all different walks of life, SO IN CLOSING ID LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU MRS IYANLA FOR YOUR SERVICE FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE AND CONTINUE TO DO YOU ARE TRULY A BLESSING TO SO MANY BROKEN AND HURT PPL ALL OVER THE WORLD‼️‼️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢 MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU SAFE AND MAY YOU OBTAINED EVERYTHING IN LIFE THAT YOUR HEART DESIRES ABUNDANTLY💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@LeaFaye 3 жыл бұрын
yooo WHO ELSE LIT TF UP when iyanlas son stepped in to protect her. WHOOO gave me the chills! Thats a man right there!!!
@luzvega5069 3 жыл бұрын
Replayed it like 5 times
@karabomothupi9759 3 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@WatchHWuMove24 3 жыл бұрын
Most males would especially the ones with a good relationship with the mother....
@mb4635 3 жыл бұрын
@@karabomothupi9759 what’s wrong with that she said
@meriwhaa5095 3 жыл бұрын
@@mb4635 nothing Chile, trolls are going to troll
@Fee07 3 жыл бұрын
She is a prime example of people holding you back. She divorced him and now she's doing AMAZING! Sis is attending Morehouse SCHOOL OF MEDICINE!!! What he doing? Probably still cheating lol. I'm so proud of her!
@morganamugler1562 3 жыл бұрын
Are you serious? That is incredible!
@tiarra03 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I love that for her!!! Yeesss!! 😍
@hahnspetty5596 3 жыл бұрын
where she at I'm interested
@Fee07 3 жыл бұрын
@@hahnspetty5596 you can look for her on Instagram but her page is private.
@bettysmith1362 3 жыл бұрын
@@hahnspetty5596 ⁹
@lynn682 3 жыл бұрын
"I don't do well with masculine aggression. It's disrespectful." Periodt.
@ashpooh1231456 3 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@cladius2292 3 жыл бұрын
I thought they were at his home when the son stepped in... I probably would have one punched his @ss to sleep.... 😂 big dude, skinny arms, and close quarters🥊
@GoldSoulRetrospective 3 жыл бұрын
Right! He was so disrespectful I can only imagine how he treated his wife and children all those years.
@harmalalkaloid 3 жыл бұрын
This..
@JasonSmith-zv1rg 3 жыл бұрын
That's because you have a Jezebel spirit.
@queenvee9729 3 жыл бұрын
I find that when you're pretty or kind-hearted, some people want to ruin you.
@mckenziepayne5185 3 жыл бұрын
Or they could already be pretty and broken and they still will try there way to crush you men do that to
@JM-qf1vb 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@asmahayaat 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@airwreckajane 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all don’t know how badly I needed to read this
@ladyhoneybee6able 3 жыл бұрын
True
@sadejuanasealey7981 3 жыл бұрын
I knew her healing started once she walked away from that car ...That was the walk to freedom girl I'm so proud of you
@OdeeBee 2 жыл бұрын
Same. "If you want help" those were power golden words
@nubiangold1296 3 жыл бұрын
This man is the true definition of a narcissist.. Gaslighting and blaming his behavior on everyone else. When he can't manipulate: he'll ghost you.
@Beth5171 3 жыл бұрын
That part!!! ☝🏾
@ameliagumende6337 3 жыл бұрын
Preach🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@tammie4272 3 жыл бұрын
Too Real!!! 👏🏿👏🏿
@blackbutterfly3008 3 жыл бұрын
YEEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
@islandgirlruby2750 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Manipulation is their game. They want to be the center of attention. They throw tantrums like toddlers.
@moniquejohnson2465 3 жыл бұрын
The wife is gorgeous...she deserves so much better.
@Iconickhalif 3 жыл бұрын
SOOO MUCH BETTER
@4us2grow 3 жыл бұрын
actually Ms. Johnson.. she deserves what she has. She is as much the problem as he is. The only difference is.. this show is about saving the women.. not the men. She knew he was what he is long ago. It could be argued that.. if it wasn't for her inaction, he would have learned the things he needed to learn to move forward in his manhood.. a long long time ago. It could be argued that her apathy is just as toxic as his substance abuse and emotional manipulation.
@marquitaarnold285 3 жыл бұрын
@@4us2grow 👍👍👍 Yes women are fighters l just hate seeing one waste years fighting for the wrong man to try and keep her family together this man is a complete a****** and he didn't even try to pretend for the cameras he embarrassed his whole family 🙏🙏🙏 Going off on Mrs Vanzant 🤐
@angelawilliams6913 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@angelawilliams6913 3 жыл бұрын
As soon as she heard about the other women he had a child wit that the red flag for her to pack her bags along with the kids and left
@newmank0217 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla’s son rolled up and he started singing another tune. That man was ready to knock the coke outta his system for him.
@ellenicoletv4095 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
@yahneyoung5505 3 жыл бұрын
Smoke🌬🌬🌬
@LoveFireWellness 3 жыл бұрын
And I love seeing it! 👏🏽👏🏽
@dre7821 3 жыл бұрын
Not the coke, but the son was on go!
@bulletpr00f101 3 жыл бұрын
Her son wanted all the smoke.
@Daniel23544 3 жыл бұрын
That man's energy is GROSS. From the first minute he sat down, I knew he was the problem. She should have left him in 1997.
@evalynmaina5347 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@shelocsher2396 3 жыл бұрын
“Trusting ppl is not good for me.” Usually spoken by a person that can’t be trusted. Like himself.
@paigelee3563 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss 👏🏾
@BrookeAppleton 3 жыл бұрын
💯🎯
@tannamoorer6119 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@alethiamillner5603 3 жыл бұрын
Yup projection!
@catherha1 3 жыл бұрын
Yes my ex husband 😂
@eileensanchez2841 3 жыл бұрын
I love it when a man is so disrespectful his wife but as soon as a real man steps up to him he acts like a little punk that he is
@SarahR2D2 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@cecilemuntu5401 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌
@oldwalt4645 3 жыл бұрын
I was ready to jump through the screen and put hands on him myself. He acted like the coward he is when Iyanla's son stepped in.
@autumnsunsets5091 3 жыл бұрын
@TheBestFighter It's best to resolve issues without resulting in violence. Putting your hands on someone does not make you strong.
@autumnsunsets5091 3 жыл бұрын
@TheBestFighter That's true, I agree with you
@lindsayjohnson6560 3 жыл бұрын
When he said "you a life coach now?" to Iyanla I laughed. It's called fix your life- that's what she does!
@coacht1738 3 жыл бұрын
He's manipulative and will try anything.
@tisayvette 3 жыл бұрын
And he called her!
@kjackson2693 3 жыл бұрын
He didnt know her son was on set though lmao sent him right back to his car
@Nayahpooh012 4 ай бұрын
LOL!
@Bee-lieve623 4 ай бұрын
LOL "Right back to his car." 😂😂😂😂
@apacademy Ай бұрын
Yeah but, Damn, Everything had him running to his car.
@stop08it Ай бұрын
😂
@maje4120 3 жыл бұрын
He probably picks fights just to go out and leave to cheat...
@MiamiPush2theLimit 3 жыл бұрын
Yep 💯
@Brooke_LakefireSSO 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@faithe5251 3 жыл бұрын
Correct😂🤣😂
@MamiRicaaaa 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly right
@FOREVERPRETTY19 3 жыл бұрын
Well he not supposed to be cheating and also I'm 100%, he is cheating I've no doubt what that boy is doing
@erikaInDR 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that he back downed when a man came in the picture SPEAKS VOLUMES.
@abigailsimpson5904 3 жыл бұрын
Yes.. that's how these men are. Especially narcissistic men. They only have strength for women.
@alexdolye9717 3 жыл бұрын
@@abigailsimpson5904 "strength". It's a predatory move. They're weak and pathetic and go after those they think are easiest. Like a lion picking off the the baby animal in the group. I feel bad for his kids, hopefully the other child that doesn't live with him is shielded from his antics and grows up to be a good man. Cause he certainly isn't.
@abigailsimpson5904 3 жыл бұрын
@@alexdolye9717 it's very sad trust me. She moved on though. She divorced him and completed medical school or something of the sort.
@crossyroad2494 3 жыл бұрын
No its because its not one of those fight shows
@erikaInDR 3 жыл бұрын
@@crossyroad2494 I'm speaking of his tone and agression...those things disappeared when a male stepped to him.
@bellah.8796 3 жыл бұрын
"I'm not that, brah".... "I AM that though - this is my mom, son..."
@bpt466 3 жыл бұрын
I was so proud of Thelisha when she walked away from the car and didn't let Dwight manipulate her. 23:40
@Coratime 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!!!!!! That part made me PROUD!!!
@karameldrip9703 2 жыл бұрын
She never should've went. Iyanla told her what it was but it's good that she went back.
@rainypuddz 3 жыл бұрын
Ms. Iyanla’s son was ready to pull Dwight’s muffin cap back, Blue! 🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂 Don’t jump up in my mom’s face while I’m around. Anybody can get it. 💯
@mspryce 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sodiecakes5901 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 that part!
@tiffanyyoung4786 3 жыл бұрын
I hollered when the yellow shirt popped up👀👀👀Dwight said "I'm not about that", but Queen Iyanla's son was about this and that!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@autobotdiva9268 3 жыл бұрын
knuck if you buck
@labellefemme886 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, this man defended his mother like a lion
@titubavengeance6623 3 жыл бұрын
His posturing in the beginning was completely child like.
@alisayoung 3 жыл бұрын
I'd sayyyyyy... About 4 years old!
@ninaedwards345 3 жыл бұрын
He’s the definition of a man child
@foxylilmimi 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly he shrank into a pure child. Not sitting up like a man. Leaning and slumps over nonchalantly
@justcathi427 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@5822huron 3 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable
@Saturdayz_In_The_Fall 3 жыл бұрын
“Right now he’s being manipulative. He’s making YOU WRONG.” I felt that!
@ellomgbofu1174 3 жыл бұрын
I like how Iyanla express’ herself. I don’t do well with masculine aggression. It’s wonderfully said.
@randomchizz8668 3 жыл бұрын
That woman is so broken , she has no tears left . It’s so sad .
@10062898 3 жыл бұрын
She is DRAINED
@camielledavis7664 3 жыл бұрын
Yes so true
@YTD07 3 жыл бұрын
@laurence Mackey I agree, too young to be even thinking about marrying someone, should be focusing on a career or passion fr
@cassandrafreeman3461 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@MariamTalks 3 жыл бұрын
@@10062898 yep she’s cut off numb drained
@Zanderthegrape 3 жыл бұрын
21:17 When Iyanla’s son said “IM THAT THO!” I felt it!! A good man defending his mother who is being disrespected by another man. YESSIR INFORM HIM!
@moniquejohnson2465 3 жыл бұрын
YES1
@msboone8796 3 жыл бұрын
I felt that in my soul. I love knowing she has that back up. She deserves to be protected.
@seektruth562 3 жыл бұрын
I felt that in my SOUL
@Clonehalle 3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!! As soon as they showed that he was her son, I shouted out "I know that's right" and "Son come through now"...so glad he was there 🙌🏾
@wintermistique3399 3 жыл бұрын
Yessssssssssss! Loved it! Her son was letting him know!
@hiscountrigal1764 3 жыл бұрын
"I wanna get out." The voice change! The clarity! The straightening of her head! I still have chills from the joy I feel for her breakthrough👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@cb4664 Ай бұрын
I heard that. It was almost guttural. 😂
@betterthanemril988 4 ай бұрын
I’m glad the son stepped in. Sometimes you need someone to step in and give that person the same energy
@lovebutton2933 3 жыл бұрын
When Iyanla’s son jumped in... she had that...”Das ma baby!” Look on her face. I was proud... he ain’t even my son.. 🤣
@ms.kmorrow 3 жыл бұрын
Right!?! Me too! I loved that!
@TheeMichellesMind 3 жыл бұрын
Same!!! 💯
@TWills-tg6fc 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@HoneyPie1978 3 жыл бұрын
Brooklyn Nyc in the house, didn't even know he stays on set with her!👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏾
@iamDavidaRose 3 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!
@camdenhunt7565 3 жыл бұрын
The way Iyanla called out his toxic masculinity phew, she don't waste no time! LOL
@diangoodas 3 жыл бұрын
Rapid response, wow.
@nixxb449 3 жыл бұрын
With respect, I really don't agree with that term toxic masculinity. To be masculine is not toxic. The behaviour of the individual that is exhibiting negative or toxic behaviour is toxic whether you are a man or woman. We need to stop buying into this term.
@SynterraSteen 3 жыл бұрын
@Andrea Mackintosh I’m so over this anti man “men are trash” rhetoric. Women can be/are trash too. If toxic masculinity is a thing, toxic feminism needs to be too. I’ve met some terrible “feminists”
@Ash2beauty 3 жыл бұрын
@@SynterraSteen toxic masculinity is simply a man using his stature, strength etc(natural God given traits) to intimidate/manipulate a woman. And it is a thing , I would know as a woman that survived a marriage filled with mental/emotional/physical abuse. I have a problem when people flip a man’s issue and says “women r this and that too”, ignorant to the fact that God has given the man the divine role as the “HEAD”. If the boss is acting a dang fool, you can expect the workers to do the same.
@nixxb449 3 жыл бұрын
@Love Jones completely agree. Being masculine or feminine should not be linked with the word toxic. It's purely the behaviour of the individual that should be considered as toxic behaviour. People really need to break down the meaning of words. This guys in this series clearly exhibits emotional abuse, manipulation, deception (among other things) towards his family. I would say the same thing if the roles were reversed in this situation.
@0r0r0 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is so amazing for still seeing a hurt little boy inside of him, while the rest of us see someone who isn't worth any time or effort. She really is an angel.
@RachaelJohn 2 жыл бұрын
Right?! 😍
@serenelibra61 3 жыл бұрын
Husband: "I would love to see you turn and walk away from me because she call you, I would love to see it"... Wife: Turns and walks away.... Husband: sileeeenceeee
@christaldunaway1256 3 жыл бұрын
That show me that he’s physical with her
@serenelibra61 3 жыл бұрын
@@christaldunaway1256 Agreed. He's clearly abusive and I'm sure in more ways than one.
@kamarabbrown9697 3 жыл бұрын
She had so much power then
@Coratime 3 жыл бұрын
That took so much courage for her to walk away. It wasn’t as easy as it looked.
@serenelibra61 3 жыл бұрын
@@Coratime Oh I know it wasn't easy at all. Breaking free in fear from all of that abuse, control, manipulation, and chaos... Never easy...
@MrBeautiful2908 3 жыл бұрын
I could never cheat on my wife in a million years. She means too damn much to me.
@bplatonova 3 жыл бұрын
How can you compare yourself to a boy?
@ErikaDenise1603 3 жыл бұрын
Speak on it
@krysj7087 3 жыл бұрын
Amen brotha
@chevonjosephs7296 3 жыл бұрын
His a boy Jamil dont compare yourself. Continue to love your queen sir, she loves you dearly too.
@nikita6013 3 жыл бұрын
A REAL MAN , that’s doesn’t need Xtra marital affairs and Brags on how much she means to Him 👑Take Notes Men & Woman .. that DONT respect Loyalty
@shemekalg 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla's son stepping in made my heart and soul smile.
@divaqueenbgrant2782 3 жыл бұрын
Chiiilee
@keethemortgagequeen-kedram9665 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@ldenirg 3 жыл бұрын
I smiled so big. I wish the men in my family would step in and do just that with what I'm going through.
@adannastlouis4783 3 жыл бұрын
11111111111111111
@tracyporter2921 3 жыл бұрын
Ok O
@RodneyDodson 3 жыл бұрын
I must be really stoned because Iyanla seems like a goddess of wisdom right now. Seriously, like she was an angel brought to earth to help create more peace. Now i have the munchies.
@esethuntloko3288 3 жыл бұрын
He walks away all the time but the world comes to an end when others walk away from him 💀💀
@meauxjojo 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla’s son: “I’M THAT” YES! Dwight turned into a little boy real quick.
@lifeisbeautiful9455 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly he didn’t want his butt whoooped
@gloria_o 3 жыл бұрын
REALLL QUICK!
@MoBetta08 3 жыл бұрын
Like iyanla said this can happen in the world. Someone will whoop u azz being disrespectful.
@shaquoyag1484 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 facts
@kimora7964 3 жыл бұрын
Coz he is a coward
@JohnnyFaith 3 жыл бұрын
i once had the privilege of meeting iyanla at the Mall of AMerica!! she hugged me in her bosoms' and i felt more in those 10 seconds then i ever have my whole life. them are healing hands
@karmenwashington2760 3 жыл бұрын
Lololll
@isciasoverall6393 3 жыл бұрын
I envy you! ❤
@jomaema 3 жыл бұрын
That's beautiful to hear
@CassieCas0106 3 жыл бұрын
Awww man! What a privilege! I’m sure if I ever met her and she hugged me I would probably start crying.
@zionstayfit920 3 жыл бұрын
Coffee with Cassie same lol
@adryprincess5069 3 жыл бұрын
When Ivanya's son came to her rescue....I got chills!
@actualwakandangirl7121 3 жыл бұрын
His body language said it all at the beginning, the way he sat on that couch swaying his legs while talking to Iyanla showed his character already.
@sallymatanhirre 3 жыл бұрын
When Iyanla said, "I ain't sending you home tonight, I'm sending you and your girls to a hotel so that you can eat pizza and watch movies." That's it right there...Life goes on. Ain't no need to worry about that narcissist
@sharondavis3535 3 жыл бұрын
People need a break to think...some people don’t want you to have clarity. Some of us are soo beautiful and talented
@KEESHWASH 3 жыл бұрын
Right!
@sexyblackjag 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist are the devil in flesh
@Hfgv281 3 жыл бұрын
@@sharondavis3535 thisssss
@Hfgv281 3 жыл бұрын
@@sexyblackjag they show up as such but they're unwell. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental illness. One of the most difficult to treat. Most self medicate and are also addicts. Not justifying their behaviour or toxicity. Just noting their behavior is related to an illness. One they'll likely live and die with. One that makes their lives horribly miserable and they project that outward.
@bokani79 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is everything our Mothers warned us about men. He is everything I hate about controlling men.
@nabintuizelte7194 3 жыл бұрын
And that's because he's not a real man but a boy
@buttercupslongnails 3 жыл бұрын
everything
@serene2414 3 жыл бұрын
U so right, and she betta run for the hills if he can't be fixed ,and i really doubt he can be. He is a complete narcissist manipulative for sure, and on top of that he is on drugs and drinking. That life of hell wont end until she leaves him, and she need to leave without him knowing til she is safe somewhere. He reminds me of my own father whom was very aggressive with women. I appreciate Iyanla interrupting the pattern, and trying to wake up this woman. God bless her because it's obvious he has installed fear in the household while he does whatever he wants while his wife and daughters suffer internally.
@serene2414 3 жыл бұрын
@Rochelle carmel 💯 you right!! She should of been left.
@genesisshollins9326 3 жыл бұрын
What Iyanla says: "Okay, take a breath." What she really means: Get yourself self together before I get you together😅🗣
@pinkcashmeres 3 жыл бұрын
She’s so good at telling folks off.
@bellagrace9812 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 60 seconds in and see what the problem is. This buffoon never grew up and is a child who has an excuse for every asinine thing he's ever done. Time for this beautiful lady to move on.
@kendeeceez 3 жыл бұрын
Hit the nail right on the head! The “buffoon” part SENT me! 😂😂😂
@brittanyjackson38 3 жыл бұрын
Girl what....u ain't never lied😂. Not even 60 seconds in I knew he was the problem. His whole demeanor
@lumiere7216 3 жыл бұрын
@@brittanyjackson38 This man is a G I A N T baby. Whew, Lord!
@ToriEats 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss way too gorgeous to be on the arm of this fool smh
@Mipasse 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Hilarious but sad! SMH
@lolastj 3 жыл бұрын
its easier to make Iyanla his enemy than for him to face his faults. This man is a master manipulator.
@longtea1 3 жыл бұрын
Yep he's a narcissist and have some deep issues he refuse to talk about it.
@PaperMario64 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@sweetlow8805 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!
@fckyofeelinzhoe 3 жыл бұрын
Yup from the time he came in
@amapleh 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is a sorry excuse for a man but a master manipulator he is not....when a person knows their worth...
@michellecamara9714 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Iyana is still able to remain calm and not let his behavior take over
@wendyrondon1895 2 жыл бұрын
Iyanla looks like she gives the best hugs. I wish I could receive one of her hugs...
@staceylane5515 2 ай бұрын
Me Too❤
@TyphanyGarcia 3 жыл бұрын
This is a whole TYLER PERRY MOVIE 🍿 The moment she said “ I want out “ , the start of a new life and a great script
@NODE1975 3 жыл бұрын
😁
@corrinaamato8805 3 жыл бұрын
her update at the top of the comments are awesome.. and yes she is starting a beautiful life
@yasmingoldberg596 3 жыл бұрын
If this is truly a Perry movie that means a light skinned man in a bad wig is right around the corner
@vanessak.2353 3 жыл бұрын
"Back up off my momsss, son " straight Brooklyn 🤣🤣
@4glo728 3 жыл бұрын
Better know it! We were yelling 'Shoop' by Salt 'n Pepa, in Damon's honor!! every time we seen that protective scene!
@adonnarowe1811 3 жыл бұрын
YES!!
@morganbrown2751 3 жыл бұрын
I’m that ♥️
@paralegalkc 3 жыл бұрын
Ayeeeeee! Back up off my momma son!!!!!!
@DanaeLaurenTolbert1 3 жыл бұрын
Flatbush, Brooklyn style.
@conolivia 2 жыл бұрын
The chills I got when I saw the numbness one of the daughters had. That’s scary
@kitthecat6543 3 жыл бұрын
This man came back to control the show at the end, like I get to decide when I come back and you will accept me! Iyanla was like I ain't ya wife, see ya tomorrow lol
@kashataylor6430 3 жыл бұрын
This man body language is wearing me out. He is sitting there worse then a child.
@arnishascott2438 3 жыл бұрын
My child is autistic and he doesn't even act like that.
@lumiere7216 3 жыл бұрын
not surprised. This man is a giant baby
@HereIAm731 3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for someone to mention that lol
@AnotherShyFlower 3 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing! Smh like sit up!
@Miz292 3 жыл бұрын
That’s the first thing I noticed. It’s so off putting.
@charissew4798 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is from Brownsville, Brooklyn. Her son is about that life, he protected his mom.
@sheliajohnson4540 3 жыл бұрын
Brooklyn in the house
@bigb4078 3 жыл бұрын
Brooooooooklyn 😜💪🏽🤟🏽
@darksister7660 3 жыл бұрын
Kudos to her son. Standing in. I think Dwight was shocked that he did step in, because he is not used to people doing that.
@lexiemendoza3450 3 жыл бұрын
Damon came in and that Brooklyn came out with the quickness
@75catholic 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanlas’ son was about to rock his world and fold him like a church program. Don’t roll up on moms like that, quick and permanent death.
@desmonaelloydadashofdes7853 3 жыл бұрын
When he popped up i said yeesssssssssssssssss you better act up son he not bout to respect her in front of you
@songspassion 3 жыл бұрын
Lol! Not like a church program though 😂
@taviadeann1596 3 жыл бұрын
@@songspassion that took me out lmao 🤣 😂 😆
@keepthechange1 3 жыл бұрын
More like a CHINESE fan! 🤣
@missj2559 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂💯
@OneLoveRSR 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that when Iyanla asked what does Thelisha want, and Thelisha says "I want to heal" as opposed to "I wanna fix my marriage" is important! She's saying she wants to feel better FIRST! She (possibly unknowingly) is putting herself FIRST! That's important! Something inside her already knows that she is the priority, but just needs guidance.
@nadieralacey2407 3 жыл бұрын
Yes‼️💯❤
@akinimueni 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@liviagrant-d9516 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@pamelahartfield7575 3 жыл бұрын
@OneLoveRSR I agree with what you are saying. I love how Iyanla held her hand and hugged her tightly when she said, "I don't want to do it alone". And, none of us should have to do it alone. We should all have at least one friend or relative and a caring therapist to help us heal. But, most all, Jesus is a Healer, Comforter, Provider, and Shelter in the time of stormy situations✝️
@ashleetyler429 3 жыл бұрын
Yes someone said she got a divorce, took her maiden name back and is a physician assistant
@J9eve 3 жыл бұрын
Her son stepping in made me smile so big
@locdbeauty1922 3 жыл бұрын
The way he initially came there laying out on the couch when Iyanla was trying to access the situation spoke volumes. It showed exactly who he was and what he does to his family on a regular.
@empowermenteducation777 3 жыл бұрын
"Hold on take a breath. Let me tell you what I don't do. I don't do well with masculine aggression".. yes . QUEEN
@nalelinaare6588 3 жыл бұрын
❤💯💯💯💯💯❤
@kennd011ie9 3 жыл бұрын
We love a legit queen
@loveleighladey7945 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla is such a classy queen. She handled that cowardly bully wonderfully.
@35aturner 4 ай бұрын
Their baby girl broke my heart. She loves her daddy but she is numb to his abusive ways just like her mother.
@priscillak88 4 ай бұрын
“I’M THAT THOUGH”, come through son🤗 I wonder what his daughters thought when they saw this episode. Hard to see your parents in a certain light.
@yolandaspruill4549 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Iyanla son stepped in and let him know and defended his mother I’m dat!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾😎😎😎
@shawnese1 3 жыл бұрын
Wait
@imaqtat16 3 жыл бұрын
The show wasn't even 5 minutes in before he started to act foolish.
@MiamiPush2theLimit 3 жыл бұрын
Cocaine does that 😩
@tyrarenae3486 3 жыл бұрын
He's like a child who demands attention! Sickening!! Very controlling and demonic! 🤭
@imaqtat16 3 жыл бұрын
@@tyrarenae3486 right!
@Shortlady82 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr you felt that too!
@serenity2655 3 жыл бұрын
A Whole Mess! Smh. He looked 10 on that couch.
@mayaali455 3 жыл бұрын
You can tell that he was out of control, out of his element, and powerless. Pattern Broken= He didn’t know how to respond without running
@trezelleinc8106 3 жыл бұрын
That’s EXACTLY HOW THEY ACT. Like a deer in the head lights lol
@cheerTILidie 3 жыл бұрын
POWERLESS!
@sierrahines1804 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanala was so nice yet straight forward with her. The lady was extremely pleasant and receptive of help. This was a great episode for women going through all walks of life.
@2000wattz 3 жыл бұрын
When Iyanla’s son stepped in and checked Dwight for getting in his mother’s face, my heart swelled! I love seeing black men protect and defend black women!!!
@blackdiary4109 3 жыл бұрын
@Jane Doe angry and violent ? Is that how you’re describing black women ?
@jadahall1002 3 жыл бұрын
@Jane Doe whatever Karen 🙄
@hiitsme3039 3 жыл бұрын
@@blackdiary4109 yes most of them
@blackdiary4109 3 жыл бұрын
@Jane Doe “your people” oh so you just feel insecure about your own so you have to watch show where black women are “clowning themselves” to feel better? I understand now.☺️ I’m sorry you’re feeling that way and hopefully you’ll be able to find peace without any negativity about others women
@blackdiary4109 3 жыл бұрын
@@hiitsme3039 yes I see. Thank you for your answer. I hope I’ll find you under another black women video.
@therozziedozzie 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla's son wanted ALL THE SMOKE, and Dwight wasn't ready for that!
@4glo728 3 жыл бұрын
We were just yelling at how noble and sexy Damon is!! BK, Baby!!
@baileywilder2964 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what cowards do he stepped to the women but men is a differnt story
@cherrlynnmurray 3 жыл бұрын
@@baileywilder2964 HE'S TOTALLY A COWARD...I CAN TELL BY HIM SAYING TO HER "I WANT TO SEE YOU WALK AWAY FROM THIS CAR", THAT HE HAS BEEN VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TO HER AND THE FISTY DAUGHTER.
@justice4896 3 жыл бұрын
Right...
@barikiwa22 3 жыл бұрын
Men narcs are powerless infront of real men lols
@rennaeh6682 3 жыл бұрын
When iyanla said the lady’s kids have already been threw it, you can tell that woke her up! I felt that!!
@bethewalt7385 4 ай бұрын
Through it not threw it in this case, they went through it not thrown like a ball...
@cb4664 Ай бұрын
Yessss
@lockito123 2 жыл бұрын
Can we just have a moment of how beautiful thelisha is 😮💨
@skielahjayne2659 3 жыл бұрын
It really be the ugliest dudes with the most audacity. Women DO BETTER. Stop letting these fools take you for a ride
@mzquinn4 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!
@saharastorm179 3 жыл бұрын
PURE AUDACITY!!!!....Uuuughhhhhh, so unattractive 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@ChiChichiwe01 3 жыл бұрын
Right!
@lateefajohnson61 3 жыл бұрын
Facts🙌🏾🙌🏾
@dspenderella9671 3 жыл бұрын
Ugly and fat I'm like wtf she has a cute face she could've done better.
@endeeyah 3 жыл бұрын
Did he say trusting people is not good for him!? You literally cheated😭
@cjandlayyy6837 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@jazs2300 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo i knew he was full of it from jump
@sidel3080 3 жыл бұрын
Right and had a baby! Like gtfoh!!! He’s childish, he’s a liar and has no self control. I feel sorry for him. She can always leave and find better. him on the other hand, he’ll never change.
@aconi9836 3 жыл бұрын
Him trying to set the tone but iyanla wasnt having it
@shatoriarose5421 3 жыл бұрын
Right! And then laid back on the couch like a bratty 9 year old. Whoo I can’t. 🙄
@problemchild170 3 жыл бұрын
He started crying and walked out only 8 minutes in, I hope she leaves this man
@SandfieldBunny84 3 жыл бұрын
Come thru SON, he said I AM THAT!!!! Baby I felt that, that was a real man right there. All that mouf was gone in an instant.
@rania3830 3 жыл бұрын
This dude really came up in there laying back on that sofa like it was his house.
@alisayoung 3 жыл бұрын
I think it was more like ... A "very small" and afraid person doing all he could -- which is to behave like a 5 year old
@jeremystrong3154 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@kitthecat6543 3 жыл бұрын
I honestly forgot it wasnt their house until your comment lol he made it look like he was the big man of the castle and it was his house lol
@Thepinkxx 3 жыл бұрын
Ew
@sabrina.natalie 3 жыл бұрын
Update: I looked up Thelisha on social media. Looks like she divorced him, as she goes by Thelisha Glover now, which I’m assuming is her maiden name. (If they did divorce, I’m glad. Never thought I would be so happy for a dissolution of someone else’s marriage, but oh boy, that marriage was so incredibly unhealthy and toxic.) And it looks like she’s currently in medical school to become a Physician Assistant, which is incredible! I pray that Thelisha is healing and I pray that she has a happy and more fulfilling life.
@bellagrace9812 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the info. So good to hear she left buffoon.
@gloriadoucette6787 3 жыл бұрын
Wow !!!!! That's awesome. He is not a man or a husband.
@deond5248 3 жыл бұрын
I went to look as well. It looks as if she already is physician assistant. She graduated in 2019. She looks way happier! If you look through her pictures, she is stunning compared to how numb she looks in this video.
@dododiva387 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she moved on from him. He's the biggest gaslighter and manipulator I've ever seen
@Queensofafrica8 3 жыл бұрын
Thank Goodness....
@user-gm2ix2ii3k 3 жыл бұрын
I loved when Iyanla's son defended her. I need that type if son for my future son 💯💯
@Soundsliketara 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla: no mind altering drugs Him: 🤨
@ATeamAnticsMiami136 3 жыл бұрын
Knowing he on cocaine.. he was tweaking
@daryllyons6853 3 жыл бұрын
He's dangerous, all signs are there. Get out and don't look back.
@headmaster6261 3 жыл бұрын
Not that. He was led astray, he was alone for a long time. Maturity Wise.
@yukicross989 3 жыл бұрын
@@headmaster6261 he’s abusive point blank period. He has no respect for woman and is quite hostile towards woman. He also does not know how to take accountability and would rather manipulate. Ain’t no lonely in this he is just a damn demon.
@headmaster6261 3 жыл бұрын
@@yukicross989 A woman made him like that.
@ckimon 3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree!!!
@ontherisewithcandyceevette3037 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Rebekah_emeth 3 жыл бұрын
His body language towards Iyanla was very aggressive. I am so glad her sons were there to protect her against this hostility.
@ao8973 3 жыл бұрын
Qqeqqeqq
@fibonaccibrown9711 4 ай бұрын
I LOVE how Iyanla's son made it clear I AM THAT! You gone watch ya mouth talkin to my Iyanla because quote YOU DON'T GET TO DO THAAAAT!!
@m.alequin1049 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla's son was not having it.
@parisprince1602 3 жыл бұрын
All he did was sit in the couch and I knew everything about him!!
@TiffanyTalksRealEstate 3 жыл бұрын
Preach!! Girl
@slayvega1714 3 жыл бұрын
Yoooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yes!
@starting21over 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Body language is everything.
@phreshking5747 3 жыл бұрын
Hes annoying and disgusting
@exquisite_f1213 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤣💀
@marrionwatima797 3 жыл бұрын
Wow what a beautiful son he stood up for his mama like a lion.
@underthemoonandoverthesky 3 жыл бұрын
A REAL man is what Iyanla's son is.
@kravetv5972 3 жыл бұрын
You don't mess with moms. Nope.
@wowso4 3 жыл бұрын
His a lovely man
@SuperTruthful 3 жыл бұрын
He didn't have that same angry energy for Iyanla's son..he backed the f up and left.
@toreybovie2435 3 жыл бұрын
20:48 “Oh she’s your life coach now?!”... yes she’s literally a certified life coach, THATS WHY SHES THERE!! 😭💀
@jacqulynwebster6591 3 жыл бұрын
That's when I hollered! 🤣😭🤣😭
@misstinahamilton5714 3 жыл бұрын
This dude is a piece of work fr
@cjandlayyy6837 3 жыл бұрын
I CANNOTT😭😂
@candicevance8190 3 жыл бұрын
Haha dude is all over the place
@Beybappe 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@lucaredtarot419 3 жыл бұрын
The wife on this episode is such a stunningly beautiful woman I wonder if she realizes that 🤯
@suchafknladyyy 3 жыл бұрын
Probably not then she was so worn down but now she's doing 100x better she left him and is dating again and she's still beautiful 🥰
@minnied84 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. Absolutely beautiful
@renelll1 3 жыл бұрын
She does now!!
@nycgirltee 3 жыл бұрын
@@suchafknladyyy I was gonna say the same thing but happy to hear she's doing much better ♥️
@suchafknladyyy 3 жыл бұрын
@@nycgirltee yes ma'am I love to see a glow up 🙏🏾🥰
@anovemberstar 3 жыл бұрын
"he just gotta be glad he got his bits and parts in the places God put em" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@cayej 3 жыл бұрын
He doesn't trust people b/c he's not to be trusted. The statement about padding is SO true.
@Stelly2015 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla son’s saying “cuz I’m that though!” Standing up to that coward. Okayyy, sexy 😂 21:24
@adrianabarber1372 3 жыл бұрын
6yyyyju
@irritism1227 3 жыл бұрын
Dwight's entire demeanor CHANGED as soon as Iyanla's son stepped in! That male aggression subsided QUICKLY! Smh
@keenbean9186 3 жыл бұрын
IKTR!!!
@fatoujane 3 жыл бұрын
for real 😭😭😭 GOOD LOOKING OUT son
@princessscott8774 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss son!
@monax9243 3 жыл бұрын
"Afforded me to have a son outside my marriage". He actually thinks it is a privilege because he brought home a son? He never even acknowledged and apologize for the hurt he caused her. 😭😭😢. We must no longer invest the best years of our lives with men who want a victim not a partner.
@ashekkam5094 3 жыл бұрын
When he said that crap, I think my neck broke, looking at the screen....Like did he just say THATTTT
@chiamakankorikailechukwu9189 3 жыл бұрын
Afforded!, as if the presence of the male chromosomes boosts your 401K. How ignorant?
@chrissy1448 3 жыл бұрын
He said that as an underhanded comment to his wife. To make her feel less than for not having a son for him...it's disgusting and vile... This guy is not a man, just a little immature boy...
@ogookpala 3 жыл бұрын
To be honest, I think I and hope it’s just his lack of mastery of the English language. I always remember that magic Johnson said he “achieved the HIV virus”. Always found that funny.
@LovinMe60 3 жыл бұрын
Clearly he didnt know what the word "afforded" meant🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@naynaimyles754 3 жыл бұрын
Iyanla hugs look so loving and nurturing😍🤗
@andreaholmes5697 2 ай бұрын
I say that all the time. I know there’s so much healing in her hugs!!!
@antoinettejohnson2188 3 жыл бұрын
This struggle love ain't it sis run 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
@annamaye4056 3 жыл бұрын
No amount of money in the world could make me tolerate this type of disrespect, she’s setting a bad example for her daughters!
@Adrienne21B 3 жыл бұрын
HE is a bad example for his daughters
@TheMwendaa 3 жыл бұрын
Wrong. She is trauma bonded to this individual, from emotional abuse To where she isn't operating as an emotionally healthy person would Abused people are NOT OK mentally. I wish people would get that
@anneshaadams 3 жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@Iconickhalif 3 жыл бұрын
Girl bye. Don’t talk unless you’re in her shoes. Have a seat
@linglang7322 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad u wouldn't. Well I'm more then glad. We all have our own personal battles and as a woman I'm glad this isn't one of yours.
@joycelockhart2320 3 жыл бұрын
When that wife was strong enough to walk away from that vehicle - I clapped for her! I sincerely hope she kept that same energy!
@mckenziepayne5185 3 жыл бұрын
There divorced now .
@meelahmanifestslove 3 жыл бұрын
What she said about women and their attraction to men based off their relationship or lack thereof with their father is so accurate and profound. It goes the same way with men and their moms.
@LeshaFBaby 3 ай бұрын
I loved how her son stepped up and always come back to this episode just for it...he almost got the liquor beat out of him and wasnt talking about nothing
@clipaqua8848 3 жыл бұрын
She reads these people like a BOOK. Dangerous woman. It’s like watching national geography
@Pink_celeb420 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 spot on!
@cjandlayyy6837 3 жыл бұрын
Frll
@memberperks674 3 жыл бұрын
And, she does NOT miss
@looknbakatu 3 жыл бұрын
she's EDUCATED & LIFE EXPERIENCED!, BUT! some people have that "gift', she's VERY! intuitive!
@GoddessFactor007 3 жыл бұрын
@@memberperks674 Never. She's also Yoruba priestess; her connection to spirit is undeniable.
@losquintz 3 жыл бұрын
So is Damon Vanzant single 👀coz him stepping up for his mother that way was very attractive 😅😂
@facesbynalumali7475 3 жыл бұрын
VERY! He was giving me all kinds of Brooklyn King teas and I am her to sip! 😍😍😍
@steveeleigh3731 3 жыл бұрын
@@facesbynalumali7475 and that tea is hot❤❤
@yanikeonpurpose 3 жыл бұрын
Stevee Laya ... like a large mug of Earl Grey, no milk. I’m English lool 🤣🇬🇧
@eboniwade5152 3 жыл бұрын
Ok do it wasn't just me that was turned on by that I had to see that again
@locksitupofficialaccount1463 3 жыл бұрын
Oh so that’s what it was
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