Both mental and physical bullying cause so much illness and even death in some cases. It really breaks my heart that there are people out there that feel the need to bully someone

Bullies are just depressed themselves. However their desperation turns them into abusers and sometimes indirect murderers, and that only adds to their guilt. I always assumed this is why my bully committed suicide. Being abused on top of being a royal cunt to everyone for it.

Unfortunately bullies take pleasure in seeing the suffering they have caused. Seeing the damage will give them only joy. It is totally pointless.

We, in the US have a bully for a president and because of him, my anxiety has been terrible.

I was bullied till i had to move school, i had death wish and wanted to shoot people in my school

Kyle Gawron they really are after I have an anxiety attack I always fall asleep because they are so tiring. My muscles are always tense and I am always tired because I have to cope with anxiety

@@abigailjunek for real and cause you shakeing and muscles tense for so long your muscles are all aching

After I calm down from an anxiety attack, my fiance has to rub over the muscles that are tense afterwards until I basically crash from the exhaustion.

@@abigailjunek ya I just dealt with one today

@@kylegawron5358 ya

So did mine... I just wanted to hug him.

I teared up

I cried

I know the feeling and I just felt for him.

unless you have an anxiety attack you simply cannot relate to how painful and truly frightening they are... his co-workers have no idea what this man is dealing with...

Same

I know the poor guy :( I know how anxiety feels. Of course mine isn’t at all close to being as severe as his but I hope he can find something that will help him and calm his nerves. He is amazing and he is doing the best he can

I know... Made me tear up

I think know I'm suffering with anxiety but I think it is as severe as his and it pisses me off when no one knows what to do even if in in a class with teachers who are supposed to help with kids with shit like anxiety and all that and then they have no clue what they are doing

@@thatsabadname6242 Hi! fellow anxiety sufferer here! Your not alone! People you walk by everyday share your frustration with the lack of understanding. We share your pain and fear and the the garbage that comes with it. It's o.k. even when you can't possiably think straight and start freaking out. It's o.k. breathe... it sounds stupid but it helps. I know the square breathing technique but I like the one I learned from a sharp shooter in the military with P.T.S.D. It's how they still themselves to take the shot. Breathe in slow to count of four. Hold breathe for 4. Breathe out for count of four. Do a couple times and you can feel your heart rate go down. If you can't do to four, breathe for as many as possiable, even if only one or two until you can get to four. Shut your eyes. If afraid to shut eyes, cross them until blurry or stare at one thing while doing it. Hope it helps. Much 💓

They where amazing! True compassion all the way. I love it! God bless them.

especially the lady with ginger hair. I wish she had been there when I was younger and ran away from home and had a panic attack. Unfortunately the officer that found me wasn't very forgiving, but I understand it could've been annoying being called out for something like my case...

@@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 The thing is... It SHOULDN’T be annoying. Mental Health should be taken just as serious as physical health. YOU are valid and deserving of compassion from healthcare workers and paramedics

I felt same kindness and care when I was in mental ward my first times.. bless there are such big hearted people around us...

@@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 Yes, she is so wonderful with Paul. The sad part is that Paul feels that he let himself down most of all. He had high hopes that he could go back to work. Then those hopes were shattered. Glad he has someone who will talk to him now!!

Perfectly said. It was *incredibly BRAVE* of him to fight his fears and go go work. He fought back against his crippling anxiety and depression and that is a win in my book... Guy is tough as nails. I dont even know him yet I'm very proud of him and I wish everything in this world that he keeps fighting and continues to have the upper hand. It breaks my heart when people suffer internally and they think they are "bothering" or "troublesome" to others. I detest the stigmas that surround these issues and they shouldn't exist. These paramedics were wonderful and showed him such compassion 💕👏 The healthcare system (especially in the States) is so broken, but especially for people suffering with mental illness. Its absolutely deplorable and shameful what goes on. 💔

HERE HERE!!! Such truths need to be spoken more often.

Paul really broke my heart T_T I wish I could have given him a hug and told him it would be alright and that he did not let his wife down! Gnaaah! Mental health is an issue with BOTH GENDERS and it is waaaaay more common in men because they're not supposed to be communicative about their personal issues which is toxic! Men should be able have a safe place and be around the right people in order to have a more effective and positive outlet. Mental health is so important. But I am super happy to have seen Paul be able to get the care and compassion he needed during his stressful episode! T__T anxiety attacks are NEVER fun or good!

Exactly, it is not easy at all to beat that mindset of feeling like a failure for not doing everything you wanted to because of your anxiety, I know from experience. Trying to fight it and remind yourself that you did something today and you did better than the previous day in any little way will help in the long run. I would recommend having a calendar in easy view with markers showing your overall experience that day so you can strive to do at least a little better than the day before.

I have the same problems I used to cry my eyes out in the backseat on my way to school and my parents felt so bad for making me go in that my dad would just cry in the front seat as well. It’s truly a terrible experience and I don’t even know what I have anxiety about

I hope you have a good support system and techniques that help.

@@SweetGoddess420 i do :)

My heart goes out to him too, my anxiety attacks come in waves, I’ll have them everyday fore a few months, won’t be able to leave the house because of them, and then there gone and I feel on top of the world, my best self, like right now I’m 100% and that will last fore a few months, and then it happens again.

@@kylegawron5358 I am glad you have a good support system! It helps so much because you have a shoulder to lean on and someone to vent to and who will listen. Anxiety attacks and panic attacks are not fun. I have had them before and crap, are they quite scary. So I can sympathize with you on this.

@@dankman9250 hoping and praying you find constant peace someday x

Some microdose of magic mushrooms - and have GIANT effect 💯 Like they trigger the unbalance in the brain…

😭💔Paul, the poor soul 😢 such a sweet and gentle man. He deserves all the love and hugs.

He has good reason to be afraid. The Tories in the UK have killed at least 17,000 disabled people -- so far -- with their austerity measures, denying disability payments to people, causing them to die of their disability, or in some cases to starve to death. Some just commit suicide rather than face pain and slow death from being abandoned without an income and no way to hold a job.

why on earth would anyone bully this guy? terrible. they should be fired.

@@noongourfain Those of us with mental health issues are the easiest targets for bullying. I was diagnosed with autism in middle school as well have PTSD from all the psychiatric abuse I went through as a kid. Have been where Paul is before, it’s not a fun place to be. You could be in a stadium every seat filled attention on you and everyone showing you they’re there for you. But you still feel completely isolated and alone, and that nobody cares. The worst part though is that yes, you can manage it for a time. But it always lurks waiting to come back at any moment.

After reading all of these about people with anxiety, I guess I’m really lucky. I take medication and have had it under control for 30 years. I was finally diagnosed when I had a total freak out and was taken to hospital. It took awhile to get the medication regulated, but I’m good. I am also retired now, so stress is so much lower. Good luck to all. Don’t give up.💝

me too, when he said no one would talkwith him that just did it for me

I have major depressive disorder, anxiety, and was diagnosed many years ago with bi-polar. I had an attack out of the blue driving with my husband and daughter... I turned left on a red not even slowing down. I didn’t get a ticket or anything, thankfully I was 2 blocks from home. My legs shaking on the pedals, body vibrating. I’ve never done that, my spouse got to see how they can be and how out of no where they will come. Happy conversations, and BAM! I wanted to cry with him, your just reduced to nothing, and exhausted after!

I wish I was as lucky as you in those regards Midnight Mist. For me, I suffer from a mix of severe Social Anxiety and Depression. I try to avoid going out alone in public but when I have to, if someone of something triggers it, I can never find a calm quiet place to handle it. Where I live, there's always someone nearby when you can't handle them being nearby. A lot of times, it will cut important shopping short or cut errands short because I was to get home before it gets worse. Trying to fight one that's on coming long enough to get somewhere you will feel safe seems to drain you even faster.

🤗 for you

I have similar problems. Unfortunately I am a young college student and often aren't taken seriously when I do have attacks. I have been lucky to have my mother understand my problems and often she is the only thing that calms me. Being alone doesn't help, breathing exercises dont always help, medications dont always help, but my mother ALWAYS does! I am so so lucky to have her and I am so sorry for anyone who's attacks are tricky and stubborn! The only thing you can do is remember that your friends and family care about you and that you are SO SO SOOOO strong!!!! I hope that anyone who suffers from these problems always remember that you are loved and no one will ever leave you to suffer alone! ❤

@@shadowneko2841 I thought I was the only one who had social panick attacks. They were so bad that I couldn't go out without having a major panic attack. I couldn't even cross a street without getting dizzy and having a panic attack. It has crippled my life. I now take medication but I have come to a point that I don't want to go out. I feel safe when I'm home

me too... I was tearing up.. For sure..

Same. I felt so terrible for the poor guy..

Exactly!..it is a very common problem!...and needs to be taken seriously. The brain is very complicated but it's becoming more understood

Anxiety is one of the most common mental health disorders in adults along with depression.

@@eliseedgar4524 it's also very common in children

@@mazg4707 Yes it is

I have anxiety and it breaks my heart for him I recently had my first anxiety attack and it really just drains you.😞

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Kaiser Schnitsel Sr. You jerk

@@kaiserschnitselsr.9228 really

I'm like that everyday.

I’ve been there... PLENTY. It is sooooo scary, freightening, embarrassing, emotional. I puke 🤢 or get nauseas from anxiety and it sucks.

I was born with heart issues and had anxiety throughout my childhood, but the first time I had an all out, true and severe panic attack, I thought I was having a heart attack and that was the end for me. It was terrifying. All I could think about was my boys not having their Mother anymore. It was not just mental but also physically extremely painful, it was agonizing pain. I wouldnt wish this upon my worst enemy. My heart goes out to everyone suffering from mental illness. It breaks my heart 💔💜 Stay strong, love to all. Be kind everyone, you never know what someone is truly going through on the inside

You feel like will die! You also mentally feel like u ran a marathon. So tiring!

@@ittybittyhomestead6782 That's exactly what an anxiety attack feels like! Heart racing and palpitating ridiculously fast in a way that makes you feel as though you're gonna die.....

I've literally called 911 in the US because I wanted to kill myself and they took me to the ER and the people in the ER treated me like dirt. They put me on a wheelchair and left me in the hall and gave me nothing. Said I was fine and not psychotic so I had to leave. Another time it happened and I was literally going to kill myself but my mom stopped me after she found my note and the police took me to the ER and the nurses left me again and were every rude even though I was completely broken down. I had a severe headache from crying and I told the nurse upon arrival and she said they would give me ibuprofen and xanax. I was there for 6 hours and they left me the entire time with nothing. Right before I was discharged I demanded they give me the ibuprofen and xanax which they finally did. Then they also told me to stop coming to that hospital. If I ever felt like I wanted to kill myself I should go to another hospital which was much farther away. I am lucky I didn't actually do it but they did not help and I went through years of more suffering before finally getting good treatment and getting better.

The United states dont have compassion for other people or countries it's all about money

I feel so sorry for people in the US. A lot of them have no idea how different it could be for them 😦

The same happened to me.

Absolutely.I'm disabled because of depression,generalised anxiety,panic disorder and PTSD.I've gotten rolled eyes from EMTs more often than not.You're made to feel as if you're a waste of their time.

I agree, that's it!.. the way you feel stupid or pathetic is absolutely awful!... you are not silly or weak your ill and need support and understanding!...just like someone with any illness...I know I've been there. People that bully others at work should be seriously reprimanded or be the one to lose their job. Hope you're recovering Paul xx

Yes we need to protect paul

It is rough. I literally broke down crying for Paul. I give huge props to the paramedics that treated him. ❤️

Me too. Its awful. 😭

Ya it is rough I suffer from severe anxiety and depression.

Ericha it is horrible and so hard I agree. 😢

Virtual Hug ❤️

Many people don’t believe in mental illness.

I think the issue is, everyone suffers. A great many people have had the world turn it's back when they were suffering. Everyone responds differently to hardship. Some become bitter and angry. It's very hard for this kind of person to see people publically showing their feelings, and getting sympathy and understanding. The mentality is, "I suffered greatly and learned to shut up instead of cry out. So everyone should shut the hell up and not sympathize with weakness." It's also difficult because, if you try to express a hardship, people will act like "regular pain" doesnt hold a candle to clinical pain. It's as if you have to have something wrong with you, for your pain to be valid... Just what I've experienced, anyway.

@@llIlIlllII I agree with your comment. Many seem to attribute the fact that they themselves have dealt with “worse”. I just think that pain and trauma or people’s hardships shouldn’t be measured. What one person perceives as normal may be totally hard for someone else to do. Sorry That probably didn’t make much sense. Anyway have a good day.

Same, I could never afford these ambulance rides I just have to hope nothing that bad ever happens

I think it is horrible America doesn't have this. As a Canadian we pay a lot of tax but it's worth it. We want everyone healthy. I dont understand american ideology on health care.

@@amandahunter6722 It's called greed. People would rather be stingy with their money and then just pay for themselves than help their neighbors. Doesn't seem very patriotic to me.

@@amandahunter6722 call it republican ideology, because it is not shared by all Americans.

@@margithammer8835 I am more on the side of Republican and I can connect the broken healthcare system is the root of a lot of our issues.

The saddest part is a gent like him may benefit from additional monies to assist while he's trying to manage his anxiety, but many people are happy to see disabled people underfunded. It's not often because they think of a gentleman like Paul, they're thinking of these "welfare Queens" who refuse to work and game the systems. Sending a letter to your politicians to let them know you want people like Paul to recieve the funding they need to live lets them know it's time to re-examine the system and finally put money in to getting people real meaningful help.

People really underestimate how horrible mental anguish can be and just how bad it can get.

Id rather be an amputee than for my anxiety to get that bad With good mental health I could overcome the challenges of not having an arm, but with bad mental health you can't even overcome the challenges of existing

Happened to me too, my dad was mad at me when the school called him to take me and he missed half a day of work.

Yikes! Now that i read someone say this, this could explain the seizure i had once. I feel so bad for you that not even your close family believed you. It must have made you feel alone and helpless. That makes it even harder. I have medically induced ptsd for 5 and a half years. Had very bad experience at the hospital and 2 surgeries. The anesthesiologist messed up big time in the first one, to put it in short. I didn't heal well, and have been in pain ever since. When my pain get worse, i get anxiety attacks during which i cant function. And when i have to see a doctor, i get anxiety attack too due to the fear of the nightmare repeating making doctor visits impossible as i can never speak sensibly during the visits. Been changing GP many times, but most just mocked my situation and were very condescending towards me. Just 2 weeks ago i finally found a good compassionate gp. On all the referrals to specialists, she writes long paragraphs explaining my situation so if i have a panic attack during a visit to a specialist, i don't need to speak, they can just read. Every time i visit her, i cry. It is the first time anyone has been so understanding and cared so much (besides hubby with whom i have been blessed). I wish there was an easy solution to this. Love and hugs to all brothers and sisters going trough this. Wishing you all to find the right person for support and help.

@@SpiritDragoness I’m so sorry you had to go through all but but I’m so happy you finally found someone who listens to you and doesn’t undermine whats actually happening. It gets better with time even if it’s over a very long amount but everyday is another hurdle we got though.

Happends to me too. Its your body going into shock from hyperventilating

@@artofhobo it’s so annoying at this point. Still very scary but I get genuinely annoyed lol

Yes! My first panic attack, I lost feeling from the waist up. I had no clue what was happening. I just knew I couldn't breathe and couldn't feel my body. I was given a bottle of water opened for me and i grabbed it with both my palms because I had no motor function in my hands. I remember crying and knowing I was crying because I could see tears in my eyes, but couldn't feel the tears roll down my cheeks. I had a splitting head ache as well. I had no clue why they insisted I went in a wheel chair instead of walking myself since I could feel my legs. I had no clue just how close I was to passing out. This went on for an hour and took my several hours to truly stabilize. To this day, it's unknown how I didn't pass out. That was six years ago this week and I still remember it like it happened yesterday.

i had a panic attack at band rehearsal because my friend was hyperventilating. and that whole week i had been suffering from anxiety and panic attacks. so when i saw my friend hyperventilate it triggered my panic attack. i stood up to seek help. and i fell to the ground. to this day i’m embarrassed because of it. but my legs were jelly and were going numb. and i was freaking out. the techs helped me, and then they were paying attention to him and i was scared for my friend. but thankfully we both are alright now!

I m so glad.. y'all told me your stories. It helps alot. Do y'all take medicine? Is it helping for y'all. I'm still having trouble with mine

@@Ashley-pn2is i do not take medicine. we were looking for medication for me but my doctor said we should wait and see

@@kayla7497 wow. That's awesome. I think. I started taking some for me.. for proble a couple months now. And it's been a rollercoaster

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope it starts to get better soon.

What do you mean taken aback? You mean you don't like it? :/ I think its nice that they actually care for the patient's mental wellbeing too not just physical. It means so much. When you feel you are being cared for it can help you get better faster. I say this from personal experience. The one time i had to be taken to the hospital in an ambulance after an accident is still engrained in my mind. Mainly how caring the paramedics were. ( I'm from Hungary btw ) They made me feel at ease in the middle of panicing. One of them kept talking with me on the way changeing the topic to take my mind off the accident. Luckily i only had a few bruises / cuts , a small bone fracture and almost torn ankle ligament ( so no surgery needed only 2.5 month of casts ) . But i remember it hurt like absolute hell and in the middle of panicing i honestly believed i would lose my foot . Since then my favorite saying is: " The man makes the uniform, not the other way around. "

ImmaterialDream in the us we have very varied ambulance services, in my area (georgia, usa) they take A LONGGGG time to get to you, and usually a very long time to get where we are going or not taken at all and treated at home. even though we have a lot of major hospitals close by. so idk it's very varied

@@ImmaterialDream i think they might mean taken aback as in 'just really surprised' as opposed to not liking it

Healthcare is the US is just like everything else in the US. Money, greed and lack of empathy and compassion for anyone by the politicians and many citizens.🇨🇦

Same in doctor offices. It’s a business.

Whoa. So in Germany, they don't even ask questions about the patient's health or reassure them? They just put them in the ambulance and go? I get if they have to do that because there's a critical illness or injury going on, but to disregard the patient if he or she is able to answer questions and is alert and aware seems rather cold, clinical, and detached.

Wendy H. Agreed. Hugs from South Africa as well.

I agree. They reacted just perfectly. Love from Japan.

Same here. Lots of hugs from SA (how I wish our ambulances and hospitals were as good as in the UK...)

I live in SA. Paramedics didnt know what to do with me.

That’s so nice, glad you got some kind of help. Hope things go well! Panic attacks are so scary😭

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what do you panic about

Thats true

Ambulances are covered under national health care in the UK.

I also have anxiety and my psychologist taught me a breathing exercise that really helps. Breathe in slowly for 9 through your nose, hold it for 4 and breathe out for 8 through your nose AND mouth.

it's not a cure, but it does help... I've been there... good luck to you

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