A very Dutch documentary. Very clear, no-fuss, rationelle.

Parents really do seriously screw up their kids. It is such a shame.

No I thought I would be relieved from the pain of not being loved. My mom was a covert narcissist too. Poor little old lady Not I thought a man would save me from the pain of not being loved. But when I found out he was abusive it was too late...its been 10 years of hell.

This is the one that GOT me. Every word said here was my reality. And worse. Even the last guy....i didnt come from a 'nice' family, but i was always getting caught up in the hype. I was forced to believe what i was told...adults were ALWAYS right. Until they werent.

My mother destroyed my life and told me I destroyed hers. She says she wishes she gave me up for adoption. I just told her, I do too. I would have had a chance 😔

Absolutely True Aletta

My parents ignored me all my life or i was laughed at by them and told me i was thick. Never a kind word or encouragement

Luz para la calle... Obscuridad en el hogar... My father's father and his mother, my father, to me...It's cyclical. A reason I don't want kids for fear I'd do the same. I don't want any children to experience the hell I did...I wouldn't wish this on ANYONE...

Familiar-“family”