"People only remember you as much as you triggered their emotional responses". God this is so so true.

THE TIMING???? CRAZY.

the last part is so real. I've always felt lonely and not belonging with anyone, but this one time I saw somebody saying on the internet "of course you don't fit in, you're custom made" and it just made sense.

one thing I realized if you change for the better and people close to you feel uncomfortable with your change, you're doing it right

Notes for myself 🌸- dont be afraid to stand out 🌸- dont try so hard to fit in 🌸- the polarity effect (there are ppl who will hate me but there are also ppl who will love me for who i am) 🌸- dont be afraid to not be liked by anyone 🌸- give ppl something they cant get anywhere (belonging, acceptance, etc.) 🌸- go after what i want despite what ppl think of 🌸- unforgettable ppl are disciplined 🌸- dont be afraid to get cancelled. Get cancelled. 🌸- change is the only constant 🌸- embracing solitude (dont try to fit in if im not comfortable doing it)

I AM NOT AFRAID OF PEOPLE HATING ME.. I LOVE MYSELF SO MUCH. I LOVE THE WAY I AM..

alessia sharing lessons in her human body suit after astral travelling

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Girl why r u getting prettier? Like every single video u become much prettier than before

Mother looks so beautiful ❤

This made me feel so much better. The polarization is so true for me, people either love me or they hate me.

I've always had this kind of insecurity about being "forgettable", so to speak, I even complained "I'm so incredible how come they act so indifferent towards me", anyway I learned a lot in this video, thank you alessia!❤

natural lashes make you look so effortlessly gorgeous girl

mama is sooo beautiful, like a cute villain awww

The timing is soo right! Thank you so much for this video. I love youuu. ❤️🎀

You are defining me. This is exactly how I am. It took a long time because I was a people pleaser but I am totally magnetic now, they either hate me or are obsessed with me. 🔥

IT'S EXACTLY WHAT I'M ASKING FOR RN

She's so pretty. It seems like her beauty increases day by day. Her aura is also becoming more and more positive everyday. Love you 💌Ty for this video

im so happy to relate to everything u were saying. I was never afraid of standing out and all of my friends, relatives or even people I just met told I was really extravagant and that I easily stand out, that I looked smart and confident. I am proud of being somebody that u can spot easily and proud of being myself. LOVE U ALESSIA. im proud of being unforgettable.

the way i was crying and u posted this. the universe rlly knows me when i need help

Been looking at so many related videos these days but here at yours I finally got all my answers! You solved all my doubts. Thank you so much, you are amazing!!! ❤

the way i was crying and u posted this. the universe rlly knows me when i need help wow

You have truly changed my life, and I am forever grateful to you. Your aura has changed since the first few videos you’ve made, and I can tell you’ve had even more spiritual growth, and I’ve grown a lot since first watching you. You are like a mentor to me

your our light when we feel darkness in our journey✨️Thanks Dear

True guys, I realized this way before that I'm the only child in my family who kind of break the traditions and their rules coz simply I've my own reasons and at some points, I just don't find them meaningful. Now I started to notice how some (cousins) are getting inspired by me lmao and its like they've been waiting for someone to speak up. P.s being the odd one is definitely not for the weaks. The amount of hate I got from my own relatives and friends just by simply choosing what I love to do is insane. But I'm also somehow happy that yes I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm just doing what I love and saving another generation of my family to suffer from all those mentally exhausting things. I'm proud of myself. Thanks for this video. It just boosted up my confidence. I love this!

THE TIMING??? YOU SHOWED UP IN MY DREAM TODAY TOO

For the individuals who fear being disliked will eventually become slaves to other people's judgement, as a result they end up seeking validation from strangers, which speaks to their emptiness

Peace be upon you,Alessia. I appreciate you so much as a Muslim. Music is haram in islam and most videos have background musics on it but i really appreciate you for not putting unnecessary background musics on your videos!:) and i most definitely appreciate your perfect timing and work you do for us🤎 cannot thank you enough for how much you builded so beautifully my personality as a person,truly by your help i gained so much knowledge and become unrecognizable whenever i follow your advices.🤎If you're reading this i love you beautiful queen!🤎🤎

Oh my God, my heart beat so fast when I saw the notification😭💗💗💗💗💗

Great video! Also I love that you started using less face filters, you are so so so beautiful ❤

Love your videos so much !! You say a lot of thing that i’ve always thought ❤

ngl this moved me, thank you ❤

Omg the timing of your videos are perfect whatt 😭❤❤

thank u so much love, your videos are such high quality

I was listening song called "unforgettable" loll

yea ! I am one of them. i don't fit in with those group. i am the one who always speaks up, even though so many people hates me.. but there are so many people who loves me as i am. i am so blessed....

i absolutely love this omg thank you soooo much for this!

DON'T BE AFRAID OF GETTING CANCELLED🎀💅

I found you 3 days ago and I’m loving your content girllll 🎉❤

queen posted❤ could u do next time another video talking about detachment in borderline terms? How do you PERSONALLY dealt with detachment as a borderline person? For me is kinda complicated (I also have a sociopatic diagnosis so every time I know someone I tend to manipulate them without even realizing and they leave me as soon as they recognizing that). It would be interesting seeing how you mature your detachment (I know is not easy, and it takes TIME and TERAPY) but everyone has a different way (as a borderline)

OH MY GOD, I just thought “if Alessia posted a video right now it would be perfect” and you just did. How can you always appear at the perfect timing EVERY SINGLE TIME?? It’s unbelievable how connected I feel to you. I love you so much beautiful🤍

This video is a gem literal gem

Mother always knows when to post ❤❤❤❤

Hey queen !!! Tons of love from the deep of my heart!! love u 💋💕

I love what you did to your hair it looks amazing

Absolutely stunning, and such a great topic to talk about!

Thank you Alessia Ma'am. I really needed to hear this, Just know that I'm so grateful to you for teaching me. I love you💓

You look so gorgeous I’m in awe

PERFECT FOR BACK TO SCHOOLLL

Needed this so much❤

You look so pretty in new hair! 🔥🌹✨

Your videos cure me. Keep going.❤

Always on point

Perfect timing omg🤍

This was just so perfect 😮❤

the timing is insane. literally.

You look so beautiful against that pale pink ❄️ Thank you for the guidance 🪽

YOU CAN READ MY MINDDDDDD!!! 😭✨💖

Alessia I feel so proud of you

OMG! Loved it seriously -

Timing!!! Needed this one😭

i just woke up and ofc this vid is here when i need it omg

BABE UR SO PRETTY 🙁🙁💞💞💞💞💞

Im Rania a new subcriber from Algeria you changed my life thank you ❤

I really love her I hope her good day

Alessia,I love your hair!🤎

Tymss for always being with for us!!😭

I was the one girl who always quiet and can't do nothing even tho i am annoyed with loud people cz i am afraid of ppl won't like me if i say my opn but this vd make my life changes! Thank you persephonemind, we all say in union

Sending blessings ❤🙏

You are the best . Thank you sweetheart 👑

You’re only spitting fax and you’re gorgeous girl ❤

Alessia could you also upload your videos also as podcasts? So I could listen to them outside? Your voice and words help me calm my anxiety

16:40 same. I still live this today. But I learn to live with this truth :)

LOVE IT 💕

I was just thinking that why they always label my opinions as overthinking, i have valid points to say what I'm rationally thinking.

THANK YOU FOR EXISTING

mom wake up alessia just posted 🎀

MAKEUP IS SLAYING SO HARD ❤

Persephone!! Pls tell me what type of highlights you did to your hair, so gorgeous gurl

Your videos truly are a sign from god I asked god for a sign and in the same minute not even same minute not even 10 secs later I got a video notification . Maybe it’s finally time to be who I am?

off topic but can you do a makeup tutorial??? i’ve seen your makeup in your other videos and it looks so good!!

Queen👸🏻💫

hiii, can u make a video on confidence and recovering from insecurities or something like that??

Love you sm ❤

Oh my... someone came back to bless my feed ❤ maybe i should subscribe 🤔

MOTHER HAS POSTED!! 🎀🎀

That haircolour suit you Mashallah ❤

"Thank you alessia" we all say in unison

I was searching for a video to watch. And in that minute Alessia sent that she uploaded

THE TIMING😭😭😭

THANK YOU❤

Never wanted to fit in, never will. 😂❤

Well done darling , keep going to do video like this more and more From UK 🇬🇧 . 👍

You know it's a good day when your insta notification says, "New videooo💋"

Thank you ❤

mommy's backkkkk ❤️‍🩹

I came from seeing a stupid video abour high value woman shit and your video really made my day. So interesting and true. Keep going

So timing 🥺🩷

i love uuu💚

queen🔥🔥🔥🔥