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My son's mom left us when my son was 16 months old and I raised him by myself. Drugs and alcohol were more important to her than our son and she left with another guy too. I didn't find raising my son by myself very difficult at all. I really enjoyed raising my son. Now I have 2 grandsons and they're half Filipino.

I'd say being a housewife is not easy in the Philippines versus America. In America we have Dishwashers, Dryers, Washing Machines, Roombas/Wet Roombas (aka Automatic Mops). Also in America women do not take out the trash, cut the grass, rake the grass and set it in bags to throw away, raking leaves, shoveling snow, car maintenance, cleaning the gutters or any other outdoor labor intensive work outside is done by Men in America not Women. We also have out food pre-gutted, cleaned, pre-packed and we have a lot of stuff already ready made, so cooking is even less of a task in America. In the Philippines women work infinitely harder than American women.

We want someone who is needed not needy. Someone who is helpful not helpless. Someone who is loved and loves 💕 We’re not complicated. Men that is 😆

In reality we depend on each other.

Just to point out, most of the women you have shown who are "giving up" and want to be married.. they are not wanting a partnership. They are envisioning a sugar daddy, or a relationship where household stuff is hired out and they are free to shop and do their own thing.

These lovely ladies are on point, in spite of their youth.

Always amusing to see when "independent" people say they are done with being independent. Being independent means that you have an opinion of your own. You do not rely on others to make up your mind. You know who you are and what you want. But this obviously comes at a price. You have to take the responsibility for your actions. That makes you independent. You think, decide and act by yourself and you take full responsibility for it. This makes you independent. Some people seem to want only the benefits without the effort and drawbacks. Sorry folks that's not how it works. Great reaction video. It's always stunning to me how immature westerners are compared to filipinas. God bless you!

Have a blessed day! Life is wonderful when you have someone that appreciates what you do.

The two last comments are the Key to make a man comfortable and true in a relationship: Be supportive and emotionally understanding if he comes home after a tough day. And: A man don´t want/need a emotional weak partner. A man need someone that is stable and is his support in his Safe space that is his home. These ladies know much of how a happy life is built.

Smart and funny. Good vid.

She's really craving love. Sometimes it's difficult being alone. I know from experience

There is a huge difference between what a Filipina thinks a housewife is and what an American woman thinks. American housewives are unlikely to cook very much. Mostly already prepared foods, order in and eating out is considered normal. She will likely expect to put pre-school kids into daycare most days. Many will demand a maid come in to clean the house at least once per week. They expect men to come home from work and take care of kids, do dishes that piled up all day, clean up, take her out. A lot of laundry goes to the cleaners. Because they have nothing much to do all day they get super bored so the man will have to pay for her entertainment like going to lunch with "he girls", having lots of wine, exercise classes, hobbies, play business, and of course cable TV she can watch most of the day. Then she can divorce her husband when she too bored for too long. Then she can have random guys, high drama, and still have her ex pay for her house, food, boyfriends. The reason some of these American women now want to be "housewives" is so in divorce they can maximize the amount of money the court will make the man pay the woman. If she has a job already she won't get as much.

Its a mans nature to provide for his woman. Its instinct to want to make her happy, just like its in a mans nature to protect his woman. If you trust your ability to choose a good man and choose based on his values and not how "cool" he is, then you can trust and have faith that he will do the best he can to make you happy.

Three shining Angels ! Give and take , that is the mark of a strong relationship !

Its great to see such beautiful mature ladies that know how to treat others. These are the reasons that so many westerners are moving to PH . I have refused to date American ladies for years knowing I was moving to PH soon. Thanks again ladies.

Great video, great discussion and a great topic, and loved all the laughter between you guys. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏

All 3 of you are very wise and articulate!

Thank you ladies. Mia give Gary and the girls are best. God bless you both

lets be strong together. ❤ Noone needs to do things on their own.

The women in my country want more than they need. It's all about impressing people that don't matter instead of bettering their family. Most men in the US can provide for their family. But it's not enough to impress these modern women's friends. The women can make more on their own but do it in debt. Strong and independent in the US means living paycheck to paycheck. They want men only to bail them out. In divorce here in the US it means they inherent the women debt also. So the man pays for credit card debt, college debt and medical debt also. That's why most men here have checked out of marriage. I really like these vids your doing. It shows how women in successful relationships think vs how forever lonely women in my country think. Also if your spouse dies your incomplete as a man. it can be difficult and life threatening to deal with. Also Gladys is right no one should should look for completion through a partner but look for someone who can give them a reason to do what they do. I lack that and it's bothering me right now. I feel like I'm working for nothing more than a retirement that I may not live to see or be financially stable enough to enjoy.

Gladys, you are correct. Women here in the west (generally speaking), have lost the art of seduction!

Have a beautiful day, take care and God bless you all. 🙏 😊

Hi. Hope you are all well. I've noticed that many women in the US don't think about consequences at all; because they expect to be forgiven and saved from all their mistakes. To the point they demand it and don't say thank you or appreciate it when it happens. Men, whose instinct is to protect, provide, and save women, are starting to forcibly change that habit... after thousands of years of protecting, they now are conditioning themselves not to. As you said, nobody likes demands. They also don't like people who are ungrateful. Hopefully, the rest of the word doesn't adopt their ways. Now women are taking antidepressants at an alarming rate because they are more unhappy than ever before. They have to work 40+ hours a week, come home to an empty house where they still have to do all their own housework, and now there's no man there to appreciate and help them. They're getting older and, too late, realizing just how frightening and lonely it is to be old and have no family to spend time with. A law has just been passed, in the name of equality, for women to get drafted into the military, and they are very scared. They've gotten everything they've asked for, yet they are unhappy, lonely, and scared. However, if you ask them, they'll still insist that they are better than men in every way. 5his is why men will continue to let them keep destroying their own happiness. Not because men want women to be hurt, but because women refuse to listen even when men try to give helpful advice. Hopefully, channels like yours will begin to help educate all of us on how to get along better in the future.

Good discussions on topics that everyone loves to hear your points of views on.❤

Generally, do Philippine men appreciate all your efforts of seduction, empathy, independence etc?

You are so on point ladies with your comments to these women, unfortunately i'm not sure even if they watched your response to them, that it would sink in.

You are the 3 wise women ....a pleasure to listen too. Would love to thank you in person some day. The best to you and your families. Uncle Tim

This is quality content 👌👌🇳🇴

Good job ladies, why so many guys move here

Very smart and insightful ladies.

The road you walk have always an end.

Treat me good and I will work like a dog. Treat me like a dog and I will act like one. You 3 have a really good outlook on life.

Hi Ladies, I'm American so I can only speak on American Woman, some Woman are very Nice and Loyal to the Men or Husbands and the Children but Many I've met and one that I was married to for 20 years are 😈I needed to use an Emoji because I don't want to say anything derogatory😂I've been single since my divorce and the Women I've met since then are Horrible, like my Ex, who abandoned her kids when we divorced but Thankfully I was given the opportunity to raise them from 13, 7 & 4 and to see them at 33, 27 & 24

Filipinas have so much wisdom

Good video

Men and women are NOT the same. Until women understand this, maybe things can get better. Its why we left. I cannot live my life miserable, if i have to leave to be happy and be at peace? So be it.

Common sense is learned at home with quality parents all three of you women have been taught very well.

I certainly did not get the advanced education and go through all of the hard work so that I could have a daycare raise our children and see my wife all stressed out every day with the same kind bad workplace culture that most people have to deal with. If you work so hard and then you come home to a wife like these ladies, its good. You can see that your work paid off. You can see the benefits to your wife and family. The house and children is enough work for your wife. A wife can still have a career later in life or take course work while the kids are young. Family should come first however, especially when children are involved.

Yup, that's what we're dealing with here, a real 💩show. That's why we're coming over there. Very lovely ladies but that Shay, she's something else ... so much more than just her voice .

Gladys and Shay are beautiful and cute and there Married😭😭but there So Gorgeous♥️♥️I love ya and stay safe

Listen to the way the white women talk in the tiktoks vs how these women talk. It is NIGHT and DAY in how different they are. Which one would you rather come home to? Exactly.

Nice job ladies. Just glad to see you now understand what so many men in the West now have to choose from as far as women are concerned.

I love morena skin color. You look beautiful. All of you.

Shay definitely got the definition correct when she said that a woman can be a strong woman, but at the end of the day can be vulnerable with her man. Loved this discussion because the relationships you discuss are a perfect healthy relationship. Unfortunately there are only unhealthy relationships.

You are all so beautiful. No wonder we are all going east for women ❤

She is not even talking about doing the move, Netflix and Chill is Code for a one night stand. she is not even in the right mindset for finding love while saying it's what she wants.

I take care of myself and have for decades. I have never complained about it once. I don't think it's tiring or difficult. But then again, I'm a man, so no surprise there.

Three very intelligent women here. Too bad a lot of Western women just can't break it down like you guys can. Feminism has clouded the Western woman's mind. Even when a Western woman wants to be more "traditional" their idea of traditional is messed up. They still expect some fairy tale perfect man to take care of them. They are not willing to work on a relationship - they expect perfection right away. Great video Leah!! Hope your channel grows a lot - more people need to hear what you have to contribute socially. Take care there - hope all is well with your family.

If my future wife or girl friend calls me and says she can't replace her tires she's going to learn how by the time the tires are replaced. I believe all American citizens should know how to replace tires becuase cars are the primary mode of transportation in the US.

They kept forgetting to finish the phrase... "A strong independent woman who DON'T NEED NO MAN." That's the mantra. So any actual man who hears a woman utter that phrase needs to absolutely, unequivocally refuse to help her in ANY way. If she needs help, she can call on her sisterhood to rescue her.

I wasn't going to watch this video but I'm glad that I did. It was a real pleasure listening to you three mature, intelligent, thoughtful women. Speak on an issue which is problematic here in the west. I hope women in Asia share your beliefs on relationships.

I appreciate how you ladies think about the conflicts inside of confused Western women as well as the conflicts within yourselves and I'm glad to watch ladies working to figure out these concerns just as I do. See, not only women worry about what happens in a relationship and I hope to be a good enough guy for the woman, a lovely pinay, I hope to marry in the near future. Speaking of being emotionally stable, what the heck is this TAMPO thing all about?!?! I am not at all prepared to deal with it when it hits me like a tidal wave. HA! Maybe that is what true love is: Caring enough and being responsible enough to think through a relationship because these are HARD and someone threw out the instruction manual. Great video! Keep up the good work.

When you see these western women, it's not that they love, appreciate, respect and want men. It's 'I want, I want, I want, gimme gimme gimme. This is why men are done. Strong and independent doesn't mean ugly, angry, violent, aggressive. You can still want a partner, few understand this anymore.

11:37 yes

@ 18:12 it's probably because she knows half her friends are suffering from a STD or an unwanted pregnancy or an abortion aftermath. While the other half of her friends are in dysfunctional relationships that reminds her of her past that she is desperately trying not to repeat. Society, especially in the West aren't raising Boys to be Men and some of these young women are aware that something is really wrong when it comes to dating today. My daughter is 28 and in her quiet world of associates and friends they have discovered herpes carriers lurk heavily within their ranks. The U.S. has much higher life changing STD ratios among young people than the Philippines ever will. The days of having casual sex especially in America without potentially grave consequences are coming to an end. The young people there often engage in drug induced orgies by the time they are 14 and up. I worked side by side with court officials and concerned parents of underaged kids doing the most.

How do you young ladies become so wise and so few years

All of you are wise and the things that you say is very true about a man when a woman is asking from the beginning that's crazy a sweet woman will always get what she want from a real man. All of you have said some things that are really true about a man and I think you young ladies learn that from being in a good family.

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The guest on your left has a very accurate and mature view of the work involved in being a "house wife." If done well and responsibly, then it's certainly a lot of work. Those nutty social media queens you're discussing haven't a clue about life, partnership, and likely never held a job. :) Great discussion! Refreshing to hear responsible viewpoints.

You're awesome ladies, the levelheadedness and understanding of partnership and the roles of each person in the relationship is seriously missing and practically lost in the west. Specifically in the communist land called California. ... Also, unfortunately, the first video is absolutely the normal. And a Man who is conservative is what they want and need, but do not have the values, or the accountability for themselves. I'm so sick of Marxist ideology, I wish more women would idealize women like you three, not cardi b or whoever they watch today.

I just knew I was going to see a “spit take”. Yes we all want to feel like little girls 😂 around our partner. 😝

what the western woman around 9 minute mark said is what you think she is saying. What I mean is she only wants to be taken care of but knowing western women for 68 years she does not intend that she will take care of the house; the man or the family like you do naturally. My first western woman had these values (God rest her soul) but that is gone in almost of the the western world.

I want a Filipina so bad 🥲 Just a breath of fresh air. Im 30, single, and a bit lonely at times. Ive given up on American women. They havent treated me well throughout my life. I also come from a conservative/traditional family. So these are qualities i would love. A woman who actually cares about family and what it takes to build one together. I had one 5 year long relationship from 18-23 that ended with infidelity on her part. It was somewhat of a traumatic experience. I loved her, loved her family, and had to see it all disappear just because she wanted to have experience. Im definitely moving to the Philippines in my 40s at the latest.

Asian women are the best,.😊

Hmmm .... married to a filipina for 16+ years. Could you girls explain the term "Tampo" please :)

I think a woman should know how to support herself first before she puts her life in the hands of a man if she's not familiar with. Most men we'll run out of your life later after you have multiple children. If a man cannot provide basic needs like a home some type of good shelter for his mate and do family planning.

How many of you brought to your marriages independent wealth, professional status and productive knowledge of the world outside their own skins? If you inherited wealth and status from your marriages to husbands more than two decades older than you, it behoves you to show more self awareness.

when a guy bring his wife to usa ,, he finds out hes got to take care of everything, because his lady , does not know how to do stuff in the usa,,, my wife been in usa 9 yrs..

The art of seduction to get what you want? Now that’s definitely a form of manipulation, why don’t you just plainly say what you want that would be the adult and respectful way

I wouldn't touch her, too immature

I've been told that there is a land where there are intelligent, caring, hardworking, independent, beautiful women who want to be in a loving committed relationship with good, caring, hardworking, independent men. They say this place is called "The Philippines" and the women are know as Filipinas. Is this a real place or is it just a fantasy? Wanting to share your life with someone else does not diminish you it lets you grow as a person.

I chose a wife with a 4 yr degree,

As a Canadian, I can relate to the challenges of living with an American. Just yesterday, I overheard someone making derogatory comments about French language courses in an Arabic accent, which was quite distressing. Additionally, my colleague from Florida revealed that he had voted for Trump, which was disappointing. However, we must acknowledge our imperfections and take responsibility for our actions. It's important to recognize that some people may prefer individuals from different cultures or backgrounds, but this should not make it easier or harder for anyone. I try to understand Americans, but it is not easy because they think differently and are too exotic for me. Lastly, it is my personal opinion that if someone does not ride a motorcycle, they cannot be trusted, no matter where they come from. Also, you can't trust him too with a Boston bruins jersey, he needs to have something of red,white and blue with a CH jersey.

A few things, ladies: 1. “Strong & Independent” has been twisted to mean “Lonely & Angry about it”. A woman that can take care of the kids ALL DAY, clean the house by herself ALL DAY, & keep herself looking nice while she does all that, & go out to do her own hobby, go shopping for groceries, clothes, hangout w/ friends, etc, THAT is a strong & independent woman. 2. The women who treat men like dirt & say how they “don’t need no man”, & then crap all over men for going to other countries to find a respectful/loving woman… why are they complaining that men go away? I thought they didn’t need those men in the 1st place. 🤔😉 Those women will live lonely lives, reminiscent of the “crazy cat lady.” 3. I’m SO happy you traditional women, women of value, are FINALLY fed up w/ the disrespect & insults from weak women of the west!!! I’m so happy you’re finally coming forward to defend your beloved(s) & point out to the weak women that THEY are the problem!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!! 🙏 4. Stop calling yourselves just a “partner”. You are so much more than just a simple “partner” to your husband. In behalf of other men like myself, good Christian men & other good men, you are so much more to your husband!!! As the Bible tells us, marriage is Covenant in which a man & a woman are made 1 in mind, body, & spirit before GOD Himself. So, to Christian men, you’re LITERALLY his/our other half!!!!! Just as my left arm & right arm are 2 half’s of my whole body, you & your husband are 2 half’s of 1 whole body formed/made by Christ. ❤️🙌🙏✝️🙏🙌❤️

And there it is, the woman on the right-use the art of seduction to get what you want, and the woman on the left, who believes she can be the strong, independent, woman at work, but be the “ little girl “ as she puts it, and be sweet, loving, kind to her man, and take care of him. The golden rule is, to treat people the way you want to be treated. Not to use the art of seduction, to get what you want.

When God made man and woman, he meant us to be together.

I disagree with you 3 ladies on virtually every point, but thanks for sharing your perspectives! Hopefully you are willing to listen to alternative viewpoints. =)

Do you know what a Stepford Wife is?? Perhaps your attitudes would be different if you lived in the west ??? IMHO

These women....had their chance but they partied it all away and shunned the men that wanted them, looking for that rich stability, now they are getting older and heading for that wall of living and dying alone. No sympathy here for them!

But yet these are the same women who want a 6 foot guy who make 6 figures, and has an expensive house and car. If they dont have that, they dont want the guy. They dont want the guy that treats them right, that has a normal job. I dont feel sorry for any of these women. They wanted to be boss babes... well then be a boss babe, dont come to men now, and want to be taken care of.

You chose some horrible examples girls. These are not girls we normally come across in the US. There are millions of beautiful, sweet, educated and thoughtful American girls that do not talk or act like your examples.

smart women.