Planning, Authenticity & Positive Negativity

Planning, Authenticity & Positive Negativity | Lady of the House Life

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@heidihaeni7783 2 жыл бұрын

Melancholy piano makes me feel safe.

@estherwiseman4380 2 жыл бұрын

I think you are handling your negative feelings in a positive way, Nikki. Thank you for being up front and honest with your emotions and feelings. No one is smiling and positive 100% of the time; especially when we have lost someone near and dear to our hearts. Love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼

@bethvarady9206 2 жыл бұрын

You are just so strong, you're going through so much, yet you put every effort into seeing the light and beauty in your life. I hope you're taking the time you need.

@theetsycoach 2 жыл бұрын

I can’t imagine anyone finding your videos sad- I play your videos on repeat in my earbuds just for the calming music and calm way you speak - your my Go- to KZfaqr as I go about my day and need a good dose of calm amidst the chaos of mom life ☺️

@Petra_T_J 2 жыл бұрын

Me too! I am so grateful for this wonderful music! And the videos too of course ❤

@marguerittetwinkle3624 2 жыл бұрын

I second that! You wrote the literal comment I was going to leave for Nikki here.

@ruthlloyd1163 2 жыл бұрын

This !💕

@TracyLambertLovesPaul 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I was thinking. Your channel is always calming and inspiring. . ❤

@maryalexander1019 2 жыл бұрын

May the Lord bless and comfort you and your family. ❤️🙏

@Sophia-su6ru 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki it’s ok to acknowledge that you are feeling negative , it’s absolutely ok. God wants us to feel our sorrows ….. thank you for sharing such a personal time in your life. We are here for you

@luella2897 2 жыл бұрын

I am in complete agreement with Sophia. Prayers for strength and comfort at this difficult time. (HUGS)

@HerCupOfCOZY 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear you're dealing with tough times, Nikki... you bring us so much beauty in our daily lives! We're all here for you! Praying for you and your family 🌹

@janellegott2461 2 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you. You had me tearing up at the very end of your video as you were climbing in bed. I could just feel your heart. The Lord is our refuge. Let his presence fill your heart and home. Thank you Nikki 🌷 for sharing your life and its beautiful precious moments. God bless.🙏🏻🌷💙

@christiestrickland5641 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love the music in your videos as well as the content. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable thoughts and emotions in such an honest way. You truly are one of my favorite youtubers. You and your family are in my prayers.

@hannahlynn5531 2 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you and I’m praying for you. I can hear the sadness and weariness in your voice but you’re still handling yourself with so much grace. Blessings to you sweet Nikki, I know God is right there with you.

@MargaretBieler 2 жыл бұрын

When I’m down I tend to clean and reorganize. It make me feel good to make a space beautiful. Also, exercise. I like Ballet, Yoga, long walks.

@dorimartin6751 2 жыл бұрын

I was so glad to see you get back into bed!! Nikki you are a beautiful lady inside and outside. I appreciate you listening to your body and heart. Rest is good for us always. Please do take time for yourself and your family. Blessings and prayers to you.

@paulamcgarghanpeter4662 2 жыл бұрын

My heart OVERFLOWS with tears for your sister's passing... may our God , my dear sister, be your joy and strength! Take time to cry. Take time to be healed. You are a reflection of Father God's salvation and BEAUTY. Prayers and tears , Your Vermont born sister in Christ , in rural South Australia . P.S. Life is too brief to NOT be AUTHENTIC. I love your gentle ways and music. Never thought I could just listen.... SHALOM ⬆️⬆️✝️✝️🙏🙏💌💌💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐😍🙏💌💌💌💌💌💌💌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@emmabroadley6152 2 жыл бұрын

I love your gentle honesty. When I am feeling down I like to walk on the sand dunes and talk to God. That always helps me

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

That sounds lovely.

@0JReynolds 2 жыл бұрын

Grief is so painful and it’s so personal. I just wanted to go somewhere like the mountains to sit alone with my thoughts when my daughter passed away in April 2020. Right at the beginning of Covid. It was a nightmare. I sought out God. That is how I found your channel, you quoted Bible verses. Since I was the executor, I was so busy I had no time to really grieve. Then when I did, I just sat, crying at night alone to think. It’s a journey, I did find writing my daughter letters helped. Take care & I am so sorry 😢 ~ Janet 😘

@donanunnery6130 2 жыл бұрын

Even your sad videos are inspiring . Literally no one is happy all the time . It’s so nice to see how someone else works through the sadness and the grief . Organizing things when I feel chaos help me to feel calm . I love , love , love you’re calming music and actually clean to that type most of the time now , it makes cleaning feel purposeful and not rushed ❤️

@T_O_C_TOWN_EXPRESS 2 жыл бұрын

Your video gave me the strength to continue purging my garments. By the way, I love being respectfully authentic. At the same time, I have to constantly keep in mind that everyone has to heal at their own pace. God bless to you and your family as you transition through this stage of life.

@ritaosorio660 2 жыл бұрын

I enjoy the music. It is soft and airy - peaceful.

@marcelakrabel343 2 жыл бұрын

Great video. Very authentic and I can relate. Whenever that mood creeps in I rest, i allow myself to do nothing. Then I go buy myself a couple of favorite magazines or get some beautiful decor books from the library and enjoy browsing. I bake, I chat with my kids who make me laugh, i journal, I’ve been writing Psalms. I’ve also been listening to Revive Our Hearts podcasts. ❤️ Hope this is encouraging to someone. Every new day comes with just the perfect amount of grace that is needed.

@marguerittetwinkle3624 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki, I want you to know that you REALLY make a positive difference in my life, in my actions everyday. I hope the sun can show bright for you again very soon...you are in my prayers.

@dianemoore1184 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki, I do the same thing. I go through my wardrobe, I organize closets, drawers, cabinets, the pantry, whatever. Not only is it, “a positive place to be negative,” but it’s a way of being in control. Our own therapy 💕

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, that's what I'm gaining from it. A place to feel in control when I feel out of control.

@dianemoore1184 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLadyoftheHouse 💕

@krystledawn8047 2 жыл бұрын

Grief is love's souvenir. It's our proof that we once loved. Grief is the receipt we wave in the air that says to the world: Look! Love was once mine. I love well. Here is my proof that I paid the price. Glennon Doyle Melton, Love Warrior

@laura2842 2 жыл бұрын

glad that you recognize when you nee to honor your mental health. blessings

@kathleengauthier9702 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I too have lost a sister. It has been many years since her passing, but she was only 28 years old and such a loss. There isn't a day that goes by that I do not miss her. The video you shared about your loss brought back a flood of memories about that time. I hope you can be extra sweet to yourself at this time and give yourself the freedom to have all your feelings. It really touches my heart that you are willing to share your life with all of us at this very difficult time. Lots of love to you and your family!

@janineeisentraut3303 2 жыл бұрын

I love how honest you are about your feelings. God's mercies are new every morning💗

@lisaaiello5873 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being a light in this dark world. You truly inspire me to be the best version of myself! I love your content! Your music selections are like a breath of fresh air! God bless you today and always.

@catherinecorn7182 2 жыл бұрын

You are not being negative. You are IN the grieving process. Those who have allowed themselves to grieve can relate. 💗 It is an emotion you absolutely must experience and works through to move onward in your life.... Otherwise, you will stay trapped. I like to keep my wardrobe simple.... I would actually liked, nay, need more pieces. 🤣 when the cashiers literally recognize you by your dress, you might be in need of an update. 🤔 I have 2 " around the house" skirts and blouses, 2 " going to town" skirts and blouses. And then i have 2 blouses and wear with all 4 skirts. I love your colors and flowers.

@carolynhopper3056 2 жыл бұрын

Keep being authentically you. Choose the music, share the tears and the raw emotions that come with genuine sorrow. It may be a part of healing. Mothers, daughters and sisters are sobbing today and asking for God's mercy. Breathe.

@rachelgustafson1207 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. I need to catch up on your videos in case you shared more. I want you to know that I’m right there with you. I am really missing Mom today and a little sad too and watching your video while doing things around the house is like being with a friend. I hope you enjoyed the spa. Thanks for being real. 🙏🏻✝️

@janetcovington6938 2 жыл бұрын

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

@kayburris8464 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki I pray you take the time you need to heal. You've been through alot. Thats what i do go to bed and talk with God.

@rooftopworship 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t feel sad coming to your channel. There is a peace and calm over your videos which is why I enjoy watching. I’m so sorry for your loss. Blessings

@amiwilliams7713 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, what has happened to compassion.... Nikki my heart hears you and so appreciate you and your authenticity. Your life reflects real life and you are an inspiration through it all!! Good times and bad times. Allow yourself the time to feel , to cry, to be sad... This is what makes us human! Thank you for sharing your heart through it all. Praying for Gods peace and His love to envelope you and your family in this time!

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ami🌹

@amandazplace5663 2 жыл бұрын

Hmmmm. I guess one person's melancholy is another person's peaceful.♥️🇨🇦

@jonirennirt2391 2 жыл бұрын

Praying for you and your family as you walk through your grief. Beds...they are just so comforting. Ahh how I would love to be in mine. Haven't been able to sleep in my bed since last May when I had a horrible fall which had just broken my whole body. I've been in a recliner ever since and I hate recliners!!! Ha! Oh and Ihate a ticking clock also!!! So funny you talked about that! Nikki I think those 2 floral dresses are just gorgeous!!! I am so glad you got to spend some special time with Summer and have a spa day. Much love and blessings!!!

@natali9881 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss, Nikki. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I love your creative choices for your videos. :)

@leannglasman7147 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being your authentic self. I really appreciate the creative, contemplative, organized, funny, loving, business-minded, family-loving, faithful Nikki. I appreciate your commitment to your standards. In this present world where we are pushed to "go with the flow", it encourages me to have your example, to have you in the sisterhood of modest, conservative boundaries. You should feel off today. You are experiencing the death of your sister! This is a life changing event. It is heart wrenching. You now must figure out how to live your life without her presence. 😢 Many of us among your subscribers have suffered such an event. We understand your grief, lethargy, confusion, and lack of direction. You deserve time off! Please know I am praying for your family. Give your mom a big hug from me. Losing a child is so painful. Rest, my friend. 💙

@THEKITCHENCEO11 2 жыл бұрын

I wonder how we are alike in so many ways. I can't stand ticking clock, especially when trying to sleep at night. I like your music selection. Calming to watch and work along. Truly inspiring!

@krissykimono 2 жыл бұрын

Acknowledging how you feel is the healthiest thing you can do. Sweeping it under the rug and trying to suppress raw emotion, especially during times of loss, will take you to the limit. Take your time and be true to yourself. I support you.

@ladyofthehouse2017 2 жыл бұрын

The music you choose always brings me comfort. ☺️ I come away feeling grounded again and filled with peace. ♥️ I am so so sorry for your loss. Praying for you.

@lianeabeyta4515 2 жыл бұрын

the garden and nature will always center me and brighten any day... it makes me peaceful and grateful ... the breeze, the sound of birds.. the sky... Its a wonderful world, like the song says .

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

So true!

@loreleifriedl8715 Жыл бұрын

Lol, your music choices are one of the main reasons I watch your channel over others- that techno music so many use sets my teeth on edge!

@TheLadyoftheHouse Жыл бұрын

I can understand that!

@tamararussell-czwartacky7105 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you, Nicki. I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. Grief is so difficult and hits us all differently. 💔 You are still in my prayers. 🙏🏻

@JourneytoHomeSweetHome 2 жыл бұрын

It’s times like these you must give yourself grace. You are strong. I don’t know if I could make a video if it were me. It’s ok to not be ok for a while. You’re grieving and it’s ok. Thank you for sharing that. Sometimes, I feel like we always have to put on a good face for everyone but Nikki you don’t. It’s ok to take a break from everything and focus on yourself. Hugs. 🌸🌺🌹

@revjen759 2 жыл бұрын

I like the music! It’s calming.

@karmakomodia 2 жыл бұрын

My son, my only child died in 2018. It was devastating .. still is. I suppose it always will be. I don't know if I would qualify the natural response of grief as negative, however, it changes you. The day after my son died I was in rehearsal.. I was numb.. but I pressed on.. It felt like my legs were encased in cement.. but I kept going. I decided to live my best life because my son was no longer able to live his life. Some may think that is heartless, but I know the joy my son had when he knew I was happy. He loved to make me laugh.. I loved his sense of the ridiculous and his amazing mind. When I start feeling negative.. I can hear him say". MOM, stay in the Light" ( I don't really hear him.. but it's my way of keeping myself from sinking into despair) I know he is in a better place and his sorrows are over and for that I am grateful. Dearest Nikki. You're so lovely. I send you and your family my deepest condolences.. Cry when you need to.. but continue your journey of bringing beauty to this world.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

My condolences, that is so sad. I loved hearing your approach and why, thank you for sharing🌹

@MyAriaWeb 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki you and your family are in my thoughts💖 Everytime I felt negative or I couldn't cope with the daily routine I always reached for your old videos. You helped me a lot💖 Now I wuold like to help you too but I am not good with words like you, just want to say you are amazing in and out. Take care💖

@vanessacruz8576 2 жыл бұрын

I sincerely enjoyed this video and I have always enjoyed the music you have selected for all of your videos. Life is filled with unhappiness, pain and grief. Which is why your statement of surrounding yourself with beauty will resound in the majority of your viewers. We must also make an effort in our daily lives to seek the beauty that surrounds us. It could be a butterfly we see in the morning on our way to work, the smile of a stranger when you hold the door open for them, the warm embrace of a friend that you happen to bump into at a store. The moment we start to appreciate the wonderful little things in life, the easier it will be for you to see God’s hand in all things that are beautiful.

@belindaskeel2843 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki - you are such a beautiful soul 💗 thank you for being you

@lindaleclair8938 2 жыл бұрын

Each person deals with grief in different ways. I think you are wonderful! Your videos always bring me a peace, even if there is some sadness. Today we are back to temps for 14 wind chill, so I am cold inside and outside. Just looking at your pastel dresses was relaxing to me!

@juliecarns 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Nikki, Pushing through to clean up and make breakfast was a big accomplishment after the emotionally exhausting day you had the day before that. Attending Bible study was a lot, too; go easy on yourself. Your contemplative music is beautiful and reflects your videos beautifully. Is the tray on the oval table in front of your couch new? Wow, just exquisite! I am ruthless with decluttering when in a mournful situation and being honest about those items does help me accomplish something essential. All the best to you and your listeners, hugs, Julie 🌷

@missinpearls 2 жыл бұрын

My prayers are with you and your family. May God give you strength in this sad time. Thank you for sharing your life and being real. Please take care of yourself and don’t push yourself too hard.

@fanirivers4505 2 жыл бұрын

We are all different, I find your choice of music very relaxing.

@roksannastephens4375 2 жыл бұрын

Awh Nikki honey, may God wrap His wing around you, rest your soul and calm your heart! 🙏 Oooh yes that clock is pretty!

@btuller1772 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video. I deal with negative a lot right now. I work in daycare and with staffing issues, an elderly mom, husband and home and no real end to the overtime at work and no solutions to the problems. Plus it's gloomy Ohio in the winter the negative gets to me. I'm with you on doing little things. It does make a difference in my house and my attitude. I may not have time or energy to tackle big things but I can take 5 minutes and put away laundry or empty and fill the dishwasher and it does help the mood. And there are weekend days where it's ok to walk around in my PJs and robe and rest. Finding and giving yourself grace, that the situation your in is not what you want but God has a plan and he is hope and so much more.

@bevsines876 2 жыл бұрын

Once again Nikki my deepest condolences go out to you and your family. I actually wasn't aware your sister was I'll. When someone young looses there life, to me, it becomes a tragedy! What you have done for her sounded so special. Bev xx Please take care.

@dddd1005 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. And I love your music. I find your videos to be so relaxing.

@Petra_T_J 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Nikki, thank you for sharing this, for your transparency in a sensitive, fragile season of life. I am going through something similar after losing my dear teenaged son a week before last Christmas... I can relate to feelings of negativity and being uninspired - even though the grace of God is carrying and streghtening us in those moments of deep sorrow, and even fills our heart with joy that is anchored in His love and promises. Finding beauty in creation is the number one thing for me right now. Early morning walks in the forest nearby or just a couple of minutes breathing fresh air in the garden helps me lift my eyes on Him again. And to know that there is so much beauty and goodness in life lived in His love - both in this world and in eternity. Lots of blessings to you and your family. His love will never fail ❤

@Narda1968 2 жыл бұрын

I love your naturalness. 😇😇😇

@marenlatham4349 2 жыл бұрын

What you are sharing is so healthy. Please don't listen to any negative comments about "coming to you to be cheered up." This is real life and we all go through it. God bless you in your mourning. And I really agree with your decision to take away the things in your wardrobe that are not serving you right now. I have done that before and I have found it to be an incredible relief to open my closet and have it be full of only things that I want and am happy to wear. It's draining to continually be seeing really pretty dresses that you spent good money on, reproaching you because you are not wearing them. It's the same thing as I said before about turing your house into an idol and you end up serving it instead of it serving you and your family. Your clothes can do the same thing. They serve you, not the other way around, so it's nice to get the ones that are pulling on you and reproaching you out of your sight. It doesn't mean that they are gone forever, but especially right now, you just don't need that.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

I think what I share can be unexpected because of certain feelings I'm currently going through. It was so interesting to read your thoughts on the closet, all very true, thank you!

@THEKITCHENCEO11 2 жыл бұрын

My way to replace negativity is taking pen and write something or grab a pencil to draw/ scribble.

@nancyruizalvarez4982 2 жыл бұрын

I’m watching your videos for the first time today, and they’re so soothing and inspiring. Thank you for letting us into your life. I love your style (love your dress!). Sorry for your loss.❤️

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here and your kind words🌹

@jackiemaccaskill2111 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely loved your last song playing ... beautiful. Xo

@angelapatzer9096 2 жыл бұрын

What a wonderful idea. Finding ways that negativity can be useful. Thank you for the beautiful video.

@glendagai 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Nikki, thank you so much for being so real. I am still saying a prayer for you as you walk down this path of loss. Your music is so peaceful for me, and I have learned so much from you regarding being the Lady of the Home. I am not your usual demographic of subscriber. I am much older, retired and happily live alone with my pets. You can reach all ages and interest and make an impact in so many lives. I make my home a peaceful environment that reflects who I am. I have a Bible study in my home and I want it to represent love for Gods children and you have helped me. Thank you for not making your bed, for not getting dressed for showing us it’s is all OK.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you for that Glenda, thank you!

@seasoul12 2 жыл бұрын

I find the music that you use so incredibly beautiful... I adore it. Your videos are really soothing and inspirational...love them so thank you! 🌸🌺🌸

@ChristaSterken 2 жыл бұрын

That’s so interesting how music affects everybody differently. I get it. You’ve only had one video that had super upbeat section, but it was a little too much because I had a headache that day ha ha. I don’t find your music melancholy, I find it peaceful and a place to shut my mind off. Which is practically impossible! I think the more I’ve become practiced at presence, and just being comfortable in the space of the moment, what formerly felt melancholy simply feels reflective. I love the music you choose

@LifeWithFlowers 2 жыл бұрын

Prayers for you 🙏🏽💗🌊 My wardrobe is also a positive place where I can be negative.👗

@MC-zx5jh 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki you are just such a nice loving person. You further encourage me to live for God.❤🙏

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

That is the best news!

@elizabethhart4215 2 жыл бұрын

You are such a strong woman! After everything that has happened around you and your family you stay as positive as you can and I applaud you for that because I know it’s not an easy thing to do 😊 I love how uplifting and relaxing your videos are no matter what! I love everything about your videos and I really love the dresses you wear 👗 I was wondering where you buy your dresses from?

@rachelruiz8399 2 жыл бұрын

HI 👋 NIKKI SOO NICE OF YOU TAKING TIME WITH YOUR SISTER AND SPA DAY👍

@GratefulWindee 2 жыл бұрын

Hugs,Nikki.'hope you feel better soon.Thanks for doing this video inspite of what you are going through.

@danielleb6064 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing the honesty of your emotions with us. That's true life and it isn't often acknowledged in socal media. I have that same clock from Michael's in white! I agree it's is beautiful and quiet. I use mine on my desk and it brings me a little joy each time I glance at it. My other comment seems to have disappeared, so I hope you don't get this twice.

@donnaerickson3059 2 жыл бұрын

Taking rest is a good thing. Our bodies tell us what it needs. I love Dawn @theminimalmom . I know she’s often said she doesn’t really care about fashion and the lack of making a decision about what she’s wearing has been beneficial in this season in her life. IMO everyone can use minimalism. I think when we purchase and bring in more than we need it causes an ongoing burden. Having less gives us more time to spend with our families, serving others, and we are able to do the things that really matter. Not to mention it saves money. I often feel I’m a better steward of the money the Lord provides. And someone can always use my discarded things. I know it’s a relief, Nikki to go through your closet!

@nancymusser9504 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki...Thank you for a heartfelt video. ❤️ my heart aches for all you’ve been through but so thankful you got to have a beautiful tribute to your sister. When life gets out of control I tend to gather some sort of list to follow and this seems to settle my mind. Like you did. ❤️ I think you were smart to take a little spa time later. I love how you went through you closet. Great idea! I absolutely love your beautiful site. I have gleaned so much from each video. Thank you❤️. Take care.

@janetbrittain8020 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your reality. When I thought about what you're going through with grief, when you walked into your room with the camera, my first thought was, "If that was me, I would probably crawl into the bed if I was in that mood." I've been there, and my wardrobe is also a good place for me to go when I feel like that. It's something I can bring order to and something I can control. So I guess it made me feel like I wasn't the only one when I saw you crawl into the bed at the end. I pray you will have better days and light will shine in your heart again.

@jackieconway8095 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I found myself just yesterday in that space and the one thing that keep coming back to me was praise and worship even though I did not praise or worship yesterday I wish I had so today I did and that is how I started my day and I felt so much better that I could even really enjoy exercise today were yesterday I was working hard to stay focused on it but today was a lot different I pushed through in praise and worship that really made me smile as I thought during your video I hope that blesses you like your videos bless me be blessed always 0:)

@lisaporch8922 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki it is not your responsibility to make peoples lives happy or to uplift them. Shame on them for making you feel like that’s your “job” ! We watch your channel to share in real life❤️ If you were just happy all the time those same people would say your “faking” your life. We all have difficult times and I think your doing amazing even making videos right now 😘. We are all praying for your family🙏🏻. Thank you for including us all in your life ❤️

@jessieelliott3157 2 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry to hear what you are going through Nikki. Ive had my share of struggles lately also and the positive way i deal with my negativity is upping the exercise. Ive increased my milage of walks in nature and take on the steep hills with a sense that the more out of breath i get the more my mood will elevate. I would be a total mess without my walks lately. They help me sleep better too. The other thing is keeping up the minimal of routines. I dont go all put with rountines when im down, but i keep it simple. Bless you and your family Nikki.

@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 2 жыл бұрын

The world itself feels heavy, let alone when you've just lost someone you love. It's okay to have some time to adjust and have those feelings. For me nature lifts me up. I am blessed to live in a beautiful mountain valley where nature is everywhere. All I have to do is look out a window and see the sky, the mountains and trees. In regards to your music, I love it. I don't really feel that it makes me sad, but I do like a melancholy sound, for some reason. A personal question , how many siblings to do have. I had only heard you mention your brother and a sister that taught you how to paint roses. I pray you are feeling better now since it has been a few days since you made the video. Love and prayers to you sweet lady.

@carolynhopper3056 2 жыл бұрын

Please be open to God's signs from above. The sweet little rabbit who appeared at your mother's door... such a gift . Peace.

@namebrandkids2558 2 жыл бұрын

Its 11:30 pm and i should be sleeping but i just stumbled on your videos and im in love and inspired again and just motivated and all that good stuff... Your home is absolutely georgious...i see the pride and love just radiating off the walls!

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Hello and welcome, I'm so glad you found my channel and feel inspired, I hope you'll stay! Thank you for your kind words 🌹

@debiwaleski1797 2 жыл бұрын

You may know this already Nikki but, I want to share that grieving is a process with a lot of changing emotions. Grieving is said to take a year. A year that brings changing stages that leads to the final stage of acceptance. It is a very uncomfortable time. It’s important to be easy on your self as much as possible. You will know what is best during this time.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you🌹

@debbiestott3651 2 жыл бұрын

I think as women we can get strong emotions. We can only take it to Jesus or a very trusted friend, or do something for someone in need usually brings me back into land. Life certainly gets busy and we sometimes just need a rest. Loved the video and your channel.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Debbie🌹

@ice72527 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being real! And honestly showing us the house after the gathering and how you were feeling. It seems odd to me when everything looks perfect during a moment of life when things are hard. I appreciate your openness and honesty! I pray that you will feel God's love and peace as you grieve the loss of your sister. You are so dear and dearly loved. btw... I love the music that you choose for your videos.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🌹

@susanvelez6534 2 жыл бұрын

I hope your doing well darling, I had no idea you had a sister. That is beautiful that everyone helped out sounds like everything went well

@christinesomales2841 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us.

@rachelelder6967 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss sweet lady. I love your calming music it really helps me to stay grounded in life. Follow your dreams! Love your sweet voice

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🌹

@jenniferb.7250 2 жыл бұрын

Nikki, thank you for sharing your hard day. I’ve had some similar days and find reading or getting outside gives me some space to feel the feelings.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing that Jennifer 🌹

@lindarobertt6206 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Nikki, You inspire your viewers with your honesty. The clock from Michael's is beautiful and I'm hoping to find it. Nikki, what was the name of the video where you showed the Kate Spade dome shaped purse? I think that purse was beautiful and thinking of buying one for my daughter.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Linda! I'm not sure of the specific name of the purse unfortunately.

@lindarobertt6206 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLadyoftheHouse Actually I meant the name of the video where you showed that purse. Do you still like that purse?

@evamarieguibac5267 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss...

@eileenrowland1772 2 жыл бұрын

I love your music selection so calming!

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@collidge1984 2 жыл бұрын

Love the music. It calms me and makes my day better. Sorry for your loss. You are handling this with grace.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Debbi 🌹

@trishawall9619 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being real Nikki! 💜

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure 🌹

@serenarodriguez1940 2 жыл бұрын

Love love love your videos 🌹💕

@ChristianInstrumentalHymns 2 жыл бұрын

Your videos always inspire me!!

@karmakomodia 2 жыл бұрын

I love the music you choose.

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@lianeabeyta4515 2 жыл бұрын

with that beautiful clock ... I would put a slightly larger framed mirror behind it ....with maybe a small votive pink glass candle holder... so you could get a glimpse of the back of the clock detail

@TheLadyoftheHouse 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, the back is so lovely. When I was a Michael's the other day I noticed they now have several in stock!

@toniwadsworth7577 2 жыл бұрын

When I am feeling overwhelmed by grief, it helps me to take a short nap. My constant focus on loss, or guilt, or anger is exhausting so I try to rest my brain completely at some point in the afternoon . I give myself permission to nap and just knowing that I have a scheduled nap coming up in the afternoon helps me to push through the day. Be kind to your brain. Give it time to rest and recharge. 😴

@lobro4018 2 жыл бұрын

Same here