Psychology FACTS on TikTok

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@edwardlwittlif Жыл бұрын

Psychology Tip: To test if your friend is a narcissist, tell them you have a live squirrel inside your chest. Now *pay close attention* because their next reaction will tell you everything. If they have a hopeful look in their eye, it means they are a squirrel, and they think the squirrel in your chest might be their long lost sister. But if they have a hungry look in their eye, *they are a cannibal squirrel* and you need to flee as fast as you can

@FocusedFighter777 Жыл бұрын

This version is how acurately F'd up it is when SHE says hers: both at the same BS to me. Aslo, Shiba Inu from SH2, profile pic.

@dandelionsoup3246 Жыл бұрын

I told my friend this, and they chased me down and assaulted me, and now I’m on life support… guess she really was a narcissist/cannibal and actually a squirrel! Thanks for this helpful tip!

@isagf4804 11 ай бұрын

Instructions unclear, now I have a bunch of squirrels living in my kitchen and my friend stole my dad's jet

@doggoadexx2680 11 ай бұрын

@@isagf4804what the hell happened?

@cinnamonafton7973 11 ай бұрын

What 😀

@Ellnador Жыл бұрын

As a psychologist, it’s always really validating and humbling when people disagree with my professional opinion because it doesn’t coincide with the PSYCHOLOGY FACTS they saw on TikTok once

@mane53017 Жыл бұрын

I can't believe that's a thing

@minghao-o Жыл бұрын

help imagine you tell them smth and they go "well tiktokboy32554 told me otherwise so stfu"

@randombubble1462 Жыл бұрын

@@minghao-o lmao

@ceciliarosa4047 Жыл бұрын

its so annoyingly cause u have to go through so much work just to form a correlation NOT CAUSATION in psychology but these tiktok psychologists only have to type something on their phones for people to see it as “real facts”

@JB-ku7uz Жыл бұрын

Honestly the tik toks are probably as educationally rigorous as your schooling was

@andythedishwasher1117 9 ай бұрын

I've known schizophrenic people that, when exposed to this concept of 'dark psychology', experienced serious exacerbations of their paranoia after contemplating the possibility that people were doing this to them. It compromised their interpersonal relationships to a massive degree. This stuff hurts people.

@andythedishwasher1117 9 ай бұрын

To clarify, I'm specifically referring to the term 'dark psychology' as propagated through these clout-chasing 'influencers' as opposed to actual techniques of psychological manipulation, which are referred to by actual professionals as 'psychological manipulation', not 'dark psychology' because they aren't sorcerers and neither is your toxic ex.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

How could helping someone watch out better hurting them, I feel mpre at peace knowing all the ways ppl could attack me

@Plutonium.2 6 ай бұрын

@@guythat779well you’re not a paranoid schizophrenic apparently

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

@Plutonium.2 yeah im realistically paranoid, every action i did was justified in the eyes of others eventually Because im up to date on all the dangers

@andythedishwasher1117 6 ай бұрын

@@guythat779 Again, that kinda definitively means you don't experience the same imbalances as a paranoid schizophrenic person, so I'm curious what relevance this comment had to you.

@dogski2822 8 ай бұрын

I love how they call it “dark psychology” like it’s some forbidden school of magic and not just emotional manipulation

@zarajday Жыл бұрын

As a psychology major, it drives me crazy how much pop-psych has poisoned most people's concept of how the human mind works. It seems anyone can make up a new difference between men and women, or how to tell if your crush likes you, and people will spread it around like influenza. Actual psychology is so fascinating that I struggle to see why people need to make up things to talk about.

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

The human mind works like a charm too bad you're using its power on Chad Chad. Life is composed of food,sleep, entertainment, and goals.

@ethangrant8736 Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt that was near entirely incoherent

@AG-vh3lx Жыл бұрын

Thanks for highlighting these two terms "PSYCHOLOGY" and "POP PSYCHOLOGY" as people' tend to conflate the two Especially Gen Z thinks that Pop psych is actually psychology and totally remain oblivious to the fact that Pop psych is just another branch or field of study in Psychology .

@Cleanyourdamnmirror Жыл бұрын

Actual psychology is sometime absolutely unscientific and rubbish since a. we don't really understand what happens in people's head and b. a lot of psychologists sells pop psychology. So it's extremely easy to understand why people are so interested by pop psychology since it always has been a thing, even in the actual discipline.

@_o6629 Жыл бұрын

@@Cleanyourdamnmirror 🤡

@phospadparadschaa Жыл бұрын

Calling people “females” or “males” is incredibly embarrassing behavior

@msmknz Жыл бұрын

And a bright red flag for real 🚩🚩🚩

@strangeaelurus Жыл бұрын

@@msmknz it's not even red atp it's vermilion

@tamarleahh.2150 Жыл бұрын

Or it's not a native speaker

@outlawthesecond7597 Жыл бұрын

if you aint a scientist or a doctor you arent allowed to say it

@WillowBark157 Жыл бұрын

@@outlawthesecond7597 could you explain why please

@entothechesnautknight1762 7 ай бұрын

I wish we could get dark versions of other scientific fields, like Dark Geology (cursing rocks to have the opposite effects alt health gurus say they do) or Dark Entomology (Breeding killer bees in your estranged parents backyard)

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

Dark geology: throw a uranium mineral at your ex's window Dark chemistry: open the gas stove at your ex's house during the winter Dark biology: poison your neighbour Dark physics: car go vroom over mother in law

@clottadams5028 3 ай бұрын

Health effects of rocks? That ain't geology, that's quackery.

@sanguillotine 2 ай бұрын

Dark geology is when you make volcanoes erupt or reunite the continents into Neopangaea

@ashikjaman1940 2 ай бұрын

Dark Physics: The Manhattan Project

@sanguillotine 2 ай бұрын

@@ashikjaman1940 I feel like dark physics actually has to do with dark matter and dark energy. I would say the Manhattan Project was actually very bright physics.

@theperson6511 11 ай бұрын

The last tiktok in the dark psychology part about the hot and cold technique is an actual manipulation tactic called lovebombing, which is used by abusers in relationships or sometimes even friendships. The abuser is abusive towards the victim, however when they try leaving the relationship or start getting cold they'll start showering them with love and affection in order to keep them which creates an unhealthy definition of love in the victims mind.

@blockytheblock1 2 ай бұрын

Isn't this also used in cults?

@dragons_of_magicgirl368 2 ай бұрын

@blockytheblock1 often times it is a tactic used in cults, yes

@TheFiteShow Ай бұрын

onlyjayus is an actual psychology student iirc

@millennialboomer6780 Жыл бұрын

I like how they treat manipulation tactics like they're some kind of "dark magic". Really adds a lot of whimsy to the act of lying and manipulating people

@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath Жыл бұрын

psych tiktoks out here using their dark psychology powers to manipulate people using mysticality and whimsy

@ernestomiloli8414 Жыл бұрын

The way you used whimsy makes being a dirtbag seem so magical.😅

@aiaikawa4012 Жыл бұрын

@@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath this comment is hilarious from a kokichi pfp (I love kokichi)

@amazingzie378 11 ай бұрын

When you add “dark” in front of any other field, it sounds silly. Like “dark engineering” or “dark agriculture.” Imagine being like “hey! What are you studying?” and they respond with “oh! I’m majoring in dark environmental science with a minor in dark geology.”

@mikaroni_and_cheez 10 ай бұрын

@@amazingzie378dark calculus Which is just regular calculus honestly No matter your skills in any given field, even advanced mathematics, We shouldn't be dealing with numbers too much. There's something scary about the imaginary number and I had to crash through at least two weeks on using the damn thing Don't remember a single equation but I'm okay with that. We built the tower of babel with the power of numbers now look at us there's literally greek in my formulas :(

@clairecosio Жыл бұрын

we always talk about "psychology facts" but never "psychology opinions" 😔

@ProfessionalBugLover Жыл бұрын

we always say ‘why are psychology facts?’ and never ‘how are psychology facts?’

@noahscott7263 Жыл бұрын

Call that psychoanalysis

@Jane-oz7pp Жыл бұрын

I just want to know how you psychology feel

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Chad Chad had a yikes take like below the tiktokers meow 😺

@joe.mama.0 Жыл бұрын

Huh true

@Deepseadread6 10 ай бұрын

I am a person with npd and I’ve been feeling pretty awful lately because of this “narcissistic abuse” rhetoric online and seeing creators I look up to repeating it, and I was pretty scared to watch this video because of how awful people are to anyone with a personality disorder but omg thank you for being so normal it actually made my day to see someone even just sympathise with a hypothetical “narcissist”. The bar is low but that’s still incredibly rare so thank you so much, genuinely.

@Entityyy303 6 ай бұрын

Omg this!! I'm not diagnosed with npd but I share some characteristics, what pisses me off is that it just feeds into the stigmatizing ideology of "good mentally ill" vs "bad mentally ill", like you wouldn't say depression abuse or OCD abuse, so why is "narcissistic abuse" a thing,, there are different kinds of abuse like emotional, physical, mental, etc but narcissistic abuse is not one of them and it only serves to villainise people with npd, whilst also ignoring the fact that a lot of people with personality disorders suffered abuse and trauma. Y'all just say abuse istg

@Deepseadread6 6 ай бұрын

@@Entityyy303 especially considering the fact that “narcissistic abuse” is literally a term made up by reddit it is not a real phenomenon or term recognised within psychology

@fae567 5 ай бұрын

@@Entityyy303 So real ! I'm sick of these "mental health advocates" who will slap the word narcissist as an insult to whatever they dislike. They seem to completely ignore that npd also stems from trauma and narcissists are victims and suffering in some way too.

@Enter.403 5 ай бұрын

To be fair, a lot of people with NPD are abusive and form toxic relationships with people. Their symptoms are basically characterized by lacking empathy, having difficulties controlling emotions, having anger issues, having an inflated sense of self, lashing out at people and being manipulative. Of course, I think people with NPD can heal, but they rarely seek treatment because they don't see problems in their behaviors. I do believe that personality disorders are heavily stigmatized, and people with personality disorders should be met with compassion and understanding. Coming from someone with BPD, which is similar to NPD in a sense that were both stigmatized for being abusive, manipulative, and impulsive, I do understand how upsetting it is to be defined by our disorders, and to be automatically labeled as horrible people who only hurt others.

@Deepseadread6 5 ай бұрын

@@Enter.403 i should correct you on a couple of points- 1, people with npd don’t actually have an inflated self esteem. The name is misleading but we actually have exactly the opposite. Npd develops from trauma and delusional episodes of grandiosity we experience are our brains way of coping with extreme self hatred. 2. “A lot of people with npd are abusive” isn’t actually true. A lot of people will armchair diagnose their abusers with npd sure, but out of people professionally diagnosed we are far more likely to be victims of abuse. There are people with npd who are assholes just like there are people with autism or ocd who are assholes. My abuser had BPD and I’m not going around saying I’m a victim of BPD abuse. 3, we aren’t unlikely to seek treatment because we see nothing wrong with us. Most people with npd are well aware of our illness, and we have the highest suicide rate of any cluster b disorder. We are unlikely to seek treatment because our diagnosis is so heavily stigmatised that some therapists will outright decline to help us, which you can probably imagine doesn’t feel great.

@puZZy14 11 ай бұрын

"eat up,sluts" I LOST IT😭💀6:59

@bethanoni95 Жыл бұрын

Repackaging emotional abuse tactics as "dark psychology" is really fun and cool

@hyiso811 11 ай бұрын

Every time they said "dark psychology" it made my eye twitch and then scream... THATS NOT A THING! IT'S NOT A THIIIING!!!!

@bologna2169 11 ай бұрын

🖤Dark psychology fact🖤: abuse💥 the shit 💩out of your loved 😘ones 😏💕

@Rosemary46840 11 ай бұрын

@@hyiso811not that deep man

@acanthocephala 11 ай бұрын

@@Rosemary46840try googling “hyperbole” and using it as a device to perform rhetorical analysis on the previous comment. or don’t, idrgaf bc youtube comments aren’t that deep which you clearly don’t understand XD

@vvvvvv66666 11 ай бұрын

@@Rosemary46840it is

@annierebeccaa Жыл бұрын

Funny, apparently we’re rebranding emotional abuse as “dark psychology.” Really has a cool ring to it

@char531 10 ай бұрын

@voidboi2831 10 ай бұрын

me when dark psychology (gaslighting) (psychological abuse) (manipulation)

@freakymoejoe2 10 ай бұрын

The dark side of psychology is a way to many abilities that could be considered...toxic.

@thepeasrolledoffthecounter7552 8 ай бұрын

@@voidboi2831Oh chill bud, it's just a joke! I was testing you!!!!!

@the_goddess_1859 7 ай бұрын

I mean that's what they essentially did to modern "dark YA". It's all just some form of misogyny or abuse

@touyatodoroki7935 11 ай бұрын

real psych fact: if you have a friend that consistently makes you feel worse, they're not worth it. full stop. a responsible person prioritizes their mental health over the temporary amusement of others. i can't even count all the perfectly good friends i've had to cut off since they wouldn't quit lovingly babying toxic people even when they themselves were turning toxic... because they were adamant that wouldn't be very nice. ugh.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

Ims need a citation on that paper Just the concept of defining "worth it" has got to be exciting

@connorburton1009 9 ай бұрын

Those "Dark Psychology" TikToks have the same energy as that prohibition-era grape juice with a label essentially saying: "Warning: Do not follow this series of detailed steps or this grape juice would turn into wine."

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

Hey absolutely don't mix potassium chlorate with some iron powder and zinc and coal powder then put it in a pipe To avoid that absolutely do not boil nleach till you're left with half its volume That'll make a pipe bomb and you absolutely dont want that

@CDN_Bookmouse Жыл бұрын

I love how the "dark psychology" bros are just an update to the thinking of "insert gifts, receive sex;" that we're just robots that just need to be hacked correctly to reliable dispense The Sex.

@gorevoid691 Жыл бұрын

It probably makes sense from his perspective since he seems like he might be an actual robot

@rascalscoot Жыл бұрын

lmaoo

@AsuraTheBass Жыл бұрын

I dont know why but reading "dispense The Sex" just made me cringe but also kind of laugh?

@talentlessidiot8384 Жыл бұрын

"Dispense The Sex" *I n t e r e s t i n g . . .*

@toxihex876 Жыл бұрын

I love it when a homo rapeiens makes a youtube video saying something like "and what are women gonna do when realistic robot dolls come out, huh?". Not be harassed. That's what we're gonna do.

@BigFanOfManyThings Жыл бұрын

As a ‘female’, I can confirm that we will indeed fall in love with anyone who constantly speaks in sarcasm, because if overused, it never loses its humour and in no way appears like they think we are stupid 👍🏼

@joelle4226 Жыл бұрын

I actually hate sarcasm. it’s so annoying just be sincere

@graphicsloth Жыл бұрын

Oh wow, you're SOOO smart for noting this. *prepares to no longer be single*

@ASweetShortCake Жыл бұрын

Yeah! Once, I had a male creature sarcastically say my dog was hanging out indoors when I saw that he got ran over by a car! I had never felt so attracted before!

@talentlessidiot8384 Жыл бұрын

If a man talks to me sarcastically I have no choice but to just break up with my girlfriend and become straight Like its just so attractive when a man talks to me like I have the mentality of a bag of rocks

@archerymidnight3422 Жыл бұрын

Oh really, that's super interesting

@foy5051 4 ай бұрын

"They call him 'Headless' for more than one reason" is genius 😂

@Rubyskies 10 ай бұрын

The fact that calling it ""dark psychology" is basically just a method to make extremely toxic or manipulative shit sound like something "cool". Gotta love it/s

@hime.danshi 10 ай бұрын

fr! also using different names for it is just bs

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

That's a lie, why would anyone need to work harder to make Manupilation sound cool when it already does If we look at the other names for similar things throught history we fund machiavelian traits and the dark triad Those sound even cooler Nah dark psychology is just a cute digestible name they got off of a book that is easy for simple bozos to understand immediately It's not cool, it's special ed

@Rubyskies 6 ай бұрын

@@guythat779 Jeez?? I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume this is either a joke or you mean something completely different than that sounds like and that you *don't* think manipulation is actually cool or sounds cool. Because that's honestly disturbing.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

@Rubyskies i did say it for funny purposes But it's completely factual that Manupilation sounds cool by default Thr word gaslight spread like fire from obscurity so easily for that reason

@r.j.whitaker Жыл бұрын

When they refer to women as "females",you know their advice is going to be toxic.

@katherinebattle3780 Жыл бұрын

But you definitely don't think it's toxic for women to call men "males." Also female is another word for woman.

@occultsupport Жыл бұрын

@@katherinebattle3780 fr. I dont get the hate for people calling women females in this comment section. It's just another word for woman! What's the big problem????

@ghost_horses. Жыл бұрын

⁠@@occultsupport I think it’s because a majority of the examples used in this video are for men trying to get women, and in a lot of those videos, they refer to women as ‘females’ way more than theyre calling dudes ‘males’. This is the same for a lot of those dumb dating advice videos too. But referring to women as ‘females’ is seen as rude because that word gives a connotation that you think lesser of them, like they’re animals. They do mean the same thing, but again, different words for things can have negative or positive connotation that put a spin on things. Calling men ‘males’ can also have that same negative connotation, but it isn’t being pointed out as much because it simply isn’t being used to describe men by people like the examples in this video more than they are calling women ‘females’, so people are less inclined to point it out in the first place. Sorry for the essay, I just like explaining things and I hope you understood.

@katherinebattle3780 Жыл бұрын

@@ghost_horses. bebe can you open your fuckin eyes? Women are calling men "males" to degrade them more then any of the men you've met in your life. So you can stop lying now

@echo_the_oread Жыл бұрын

@@katherinebattle3780 Female is not another word for woman. The terms male and female can be applied to any animal while man is define as “human male” and woman is defined as “human female.” This makes using the terms male and female come across as dehumanizing.

@beardiemom Жыл бұрын

There's something that *really* freaks me out about those "dark psychology" videos: Half of them look like an abuser's handbook and I've had a friend that definitely did that cycle of validation before pulling away to me. And it pains me to admit that it worked until he went after my partner.

@ASweetShortCake Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry that happened to you, and you’re right. They’re just adults teaching minors (mostly teenagers) that it’s okay to manipulate and abuse someone, and giving step-by-steps on how to do so.

@peteryeeterson5766 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, those videos are literally just “how to abuse the person you’re romantically attracted to”. Great thing to show teenagers, who as an age group already lack empathy because their brains aren’t fully developed yet.

@elliottmcpeek7443 Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through that. I completely agree though, that's basically exactly what it is if not just manipulation. So gross how that blonde person is presenting it like some cute informative video

@ginny3599 Жыл бұрын

What did you do then? I recommend kicking people out of one's life that do that. If someone makes you feel bad, let them go and look for better friends. I wouldn't stay in a work evironment either, where they use this shit - find a better place if you can.

@beardiemom Жыл бұрын

@@ginny3599 Oh yeah, I kicked him out of my life. Three times before it (hopefully) stuck, one of which he infiltrated our online friend group under a false identity. Absolutely agree that you should remove people from your life that are manipulative/abusive like that.

@eggmon420 2 ай бұрын

The “getting inside their mind” thing isn’t going to make them obsessed with you, it’s going to make them worried they did something wrong.

@thepeasrolledoffthecounter7552 8 ай бұрын

I don't know if I'm just really fragile in terms of friendships but whenever someone tries to do "psychology test" bullshit on me I just feel betrayed and I don't remember staying friends with people who have tried it

@dragons_of_magicgirl368 2 ай бұрын

It's not 'being fragile' if someone feels the need to test you as a human being, they're betraying trust in a relationship

@lizzie31 Ай бұрын

nah, that's not fragility, that's basic self-esteem and healthy expectations of how people treat each other. don't let this garbage 'content' convince you otherwise. these people are a classic loud minority in their beliefs; don't settle for people who try and dishonestly test and manipulate you and you'll find others who will treat you as well as you deserve (who you can then treat well in return!).

@beep3242 Ай бұрын

One of my closest friends did something along these lines with me many years back. I think she was feeling insecure or having a mental health episode, and wanted to test to see if I cared about her. I didn't respond how she thought I should, so she got really sad and despondent. When I found out that she'd done it, I felt kind of betrayed. I told her in no uncertain terms never to do anything like that again. It genuinely hurt me. Thankfully, it never happened again, and our relationship is great. I think feeling betrayed or otherwise upset is a fair response, since it's basically an admission that they don't trust you.

@mx-0163 Жыл бұрын

You just have to compliment the human females. Say nice things like "I really admire the shape of your skull" or "My favorite part of you is the part that's covered in skin". Works every time.

@kkuudandere Жыл бұрын

that's true, find somebody who loves all of you! the parts with skin AND the parts without 😌

@abbycantrell1369 Жыл бұрын

As a skeleton, I find this to be very manipulative as I'm a female without skin. It makes me question if i accidentally got skin on me from my last meal, but I do like being complemented on my skull shape as i spent a lot of time shining it every morning.

@artdeco777 11 ай бұрын

not everyone has a body you know

@vanilla4983 11 ай бұрын

I tried this on a ghost and it failed :(

@pixpixpixpixpixpix 11 ай бұрын

@@abbycantrell1369youre the funniest person on earth

@_.may._ Жыл бұрын

After watching this and downloading TikTok I've become a licensed psychologist. Now I can keep the money I saved up for a psychology degree and buy a private jet. Thank you Chad Chad. 👍🏻

@UrMissingSock Жыл бұрын

Replied to this the minute it was commented

@JoHarryDaddee Жыл бұрын

But why when you can manipulate your friend for their dad’s private jet? Speaking of which there was something I wanted to tell you

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Chad Chad has no skills she can only talk meow 😺

@savannahmac29 Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt the fuck lmao? What’s that supposed to even mean

@Claire-cc6xy Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt loser much?

@AdamOfIngolstadt 11 ай бұрын

Can we just appreciate Chad Chad for calling out the weird ableist "How to tell if someone is a narcissist" tiktok? People with NPD get demonized so much in media and made out as villains when they're just people with trauma-based personality disorders, and calling out the colloquialism of disabilities is so important

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right I Don't agree with the exact reasons but the result yes Just the term narcossist is overused and means nothing anyway, it's like how politicians say "terrorist" It just means "that guy, well i dont like him and quite frankly that makes him the bad guy" Second reason is id rather ppl dont point out my behaviour to others thsnk you very much, like mind your own business

@K0D4_W1TH_.WH1SK3RS 4 ай бұрын

Yeah, she is truly the woman we all want but don’t deserve. She lives up to her name, right? 🤩

@icravedeath.1200 3 ай бұрын

People like that have made it a fucking headache for me to get an assessment for anything. Ableism can go get fucked.

@_.aria_blaze._ 3 ай бұрын

absolutely. i have HPD and my good friend has NPD, it pisses me off how it's so normalized to stereotype and demonize cluster B disorders. especially NPD and ASPD. edit: my "HPD" turned out to be a misdiagnosis but my point still stands

@icravedeath.1200 3 ай бұрын

@@_.aria_blaze._ the stereotypes make it really fucking hard to diagnose.

@who-why-what 7 ай бұрын

As an overthinker the "get in her head one" is gonna put me in a coma

@myroc1 Жыл бұрын

I love the thought of Narcissist's testing each other for NPD by just endlessly manipulating each other in a glitched out loop of lies.

@speedweed6747 Жыл бұрын

New Democratic Party?

@beehivebat4766 Жыл бұрын

@@speedweed6747narcissistic personality disorder

@MIK4IRIN Жыл бұрын

@@speedweed6747 narcissistic personality disorder

@Jane-oz7pp Жыл бұрын

three people took the bait, and it wasn't even good bait. Sad.

@beehivebat4766 Жыл бұрын

@@Jane-oz7pp ah yes, the bait of clarifying for a question that really has no impact on any of our lives. Oh the humanity

@ellisbrehme8695 Жыл бұрын

As an incoming psych major who wants to be a psychologist for a living, the concept of “dark psychology” is probably the funniest thing I’ve ever heard. It reminds me of the dark academia aesthetic and dark magic, which must be what they’re connecting it to. Also, the dark psychology hot and cold girl was also in Drew Gooden’s video about getting taller. I think she spreads a lot of false information.

@crazyowlgirlcncowner Жыл бұрын

She just loves pulling into out of her ass i guess

@HadalStreetlights Жыл бұрын

as an occultist it was the dark magic connection i linked to first. especially surrounding the concepts of like forcing people to fall in love with you. baby witches grow out of that stuff as they learn how magic actually works. is it similar with psychology and intellectualism?

@Sours56 Жыл бұрын

@@HadalStreetlights I thought about dark magic too. I don't do anything occult-y but it definitely gave me the same vibes as those black magic tiktoks

@Z5Z5Z5 Жыл бұрын

People dont Iike her she got into a huge online mess and is one of the most hated tiktokers

@freudiannipslip Жыл бұрын

@@Z5Z5Z5 what happened with her?

@unknownedleaf 9 ай бұрын

here’s a light psychology trick to seem like a good person: 1. Come to terms with yourself and figure yourself out and how you plan on building yourself to become better. 2. Patience is a virtue. Having a lot of patience is key in becoming a kindhearted individual. 3. Be genuinely nice to people, even if they respond with hostility. 4. Know your limits. Understand that you cannot help everyone. You do what you can, not things you can’t.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

Wait a minute you're tricking me into fixing myself Nsh i want ways to control ppl Like "take stands even if you dont care so ppl respect that you have a spine" or "give some criticism even if you have none it makes ppl think you're honest and also softens them for when you actually need to be honest"

@ELLIGUTS Жыл бұрын

4:17 “The first to forget is the happiest.” Ahahahah yeah I’m really happy when I forget something and then have a mental breakdown because I’m stupid and useless and can’t remember a simple thing.

@lizzie31 Ай бұрын

yoooo i feel this. memory issues are suuuch a blessing bro!!! totally not part of what makes my ADHD a disability at all haha!!!!! oh fuck i forgot to go to bed on time again im so happy

@ELLIGUTS Ай бұрын

@@lizzie31 me except i stay up way later than i should because i want to 🔥💯💯

@realperson4993 Жыл бұрын

The "narcissist" one is infuriating and common. Pseudo-scientific psychology combined with the demonization of NPD just. melts people's brains

@lu-__- Жыл бұрын

istg people throw around the words narcissist and antisocial in the same way they used to throw around depression when someone was sad because they lost a game in 2013

@SeymourDisapproves Жыл бұрын

It really does just feel like everyone just moved on from using the word "psychopath" to describe shitty people to using the word "narcissist." Some people will run through every disorder in the DSM before they think to reflect on their behavior

@TheBanana93 Жыл бұрын

@@SeymourDisapproves Thats why I just call them "C*nts"

@urheehoo Жыл бұрын

neurodivergent femmes are the most popular people to call narcissists i've noticed

@sewageskank6730 Жыл бұрын

@@urheehoo moms and ex-boyfriends are literally the only ppl accused of being narcissists. apparently no one else can be one

@shekinahlouis2643 Жыл бұрын

I have my final paper for my Psychology degree today and this really helped to get in some last-minute revision. Thank you Chad Chad! 🙏🏽

@lycheedragoncookie Жыл бұрын

Good luck man!

@khrishp Жыл бұрын

You plannin on using the hot-cold-sarcasm-humor-darkpsych methods to make them love you to get the grade? Nice, true alpha-sigma lone wolf gigachad behavior.

@shalmali-379 Жыл бұрын

Good luck!!

@andykuchta1384 Жыл бұрын

You already are got the power 👁️💋👁️

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Chad Chad will bring you down a letter grade you should be listening to me meow 😺

@monstrousmoss Жыл бұрын

*[cracks knuckles]* oh boy, it's ableism o'clock! for all of yall with npd, bpd, aspd, psychosis, or any other stigmatized disorders/symptoms, you're swag and you deserve happiness. posted with love from someone who very likely has undiagnosed avpd and some kind of paranoia/derealization thing going on.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

Is it abelism if they still have all the same abilities as le generic person? Also if you're calling it abelism are you implying ppl with any of these is habdicapped mentally ?

@monstrousmoss 6 ай бұрын

@@guythat779 I mean, mental illnesses are generally classed as a whole type of disability… and impairing someone's ability to function (i.e., their ability) is a major requirement for something to be considered a disorder. not sure what you mean by that last sentence

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

@@monstrousmoss i meant that you're basically saying they have no agency and they're retarded

@bunnimoe 11 ай бұрын

its so weird seeing them say "this is dark psychology so be careful" like its some type of forbidden spell

@idontknow_whattowritesooo130 Жыл бұрын

we stan certified and licensed professional psychologist chad chad

@noonelooksatusers Жыл бұрын

yes

@fuzzypasta Жыл бұрын

absolutely

@sai-gn7kg Жыл бұрын

ofc

@ProfessionalBugLover Жыл бұрын

obviously

@pepperonisocool Жыл бұрын

@milopacheco5519 Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad content like this is trending. Chad Chad is a great example of being extremely funny while still shutting down harmful behavior, its extremely fun to watch and good to know this content is reaching so many people.

@philosophy_bot4171 Жыл бұрын

Beep bop... I'm the Philosophy Bot. Here, have a quote: "Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes" ~ Oscar Wilde

@ten1982 Жыл бұрын

fr !!!!! these videos help So much to pinpoint warning signs and red flags u probably missed before!!!

@Void-qz1zd Жыл бұрын

@@philosophy_bot4171 bad bot

@Foolishly_Royalty Жыл бұрын

@@Void-qz1zd still better than "This clip is-" and "This is why he quit!!" "This is why your father left you (Making fun of bots)" posted by said bot

@jannatulferdousi7629 Жыл бұрын

I think I fell in love with her all over again after she used the Sherlock theme. I shit you not I GASPED so loudly and started smiling like an idiot😭

@Handsome_frog12 4 ай бұрын

"Always use sarcasm" This would be my HELL because I can't understand sarcasm 😭😭

@Dhruv.s03 7 ай бұрын

"THEY CALL HIM HEADLESS FOR MORE THAN ONE REASON" TOOK ME OUT 💀💀

@starrstruck Жыл бұрын

As someone who studied psychology in BitLife, I can report that all the psychology facts in this video were completely truthful.

@lucystoner Жыл бұрын

If u take someone to the movies enuf times they'll marry you

@karuchan4989 11 ай бұрын

@@lucystonerif someone says excuse me to you and then thank you that means they're attracted to you

@IHateYoutubeButStillUseIt 10 ай бұрын

if someone says 'sorry' they want to marry you (100% PSYCHOLOGY FACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1)

@nayalydejesus8806 10 ай бұрын

@@-pansy.flower-pfff just buy them a bitlife citizenship. They'll fall immediately 100% guaranteed

@UrLocalHellspawn 10 ай бұрын

Same!

@astr0b0nes Жыл бұрын

As an asexual who laughs way too much and way too easily, can confirm: the only times I've felt sexual attraction is when I've accidently looked at someone while laughing

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Pokemon PFP and watches Chad Chad Chad oof 🤧

@mustavengemario Жыл бұрын

Fr?

@gregoryboatswain1605 Жыл бұрын

That's kinda wild to me, I won't lie

@ckw4244 Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt what’s wrong with that 🤨

@tychopanda Жыл бұрын

@@ckw4244 They're a loser that's been lurking on chad chad videos for months instead of doing anything meaningful. Pay them no attention.

@Cursedkitten 11 ай бұрын

These dark psychology facts really just validating my distrust and confusion with guys I was with in the past. One in particular was so damaging. I feel dumb but I really fell for the one where they are super sweet and loving and then completely pull away and pretend like ur not there and do it again and again. At a very vulnerable state I fell for this and it was confusing and painful. I grew to hate the guy and eventually cut things off and he still randomly tries to message me claiming he really cares about me. It’s sick. I found myself disgusted with him and feeling like he was so fake but never feeling like I could be sure. Just this overwhelming feeling I could not ignore. Because he didn’t do or say anything directly to make me feel that way it was all in the behavior. He chose it words very carefully so I couldn’t really call him out. When I tried to ask about things it was always. That wasn’t my intention and stuff but I felt like it was. He let it slip once saying he loved “teasing” me by playing with my emotions and easily manipulating me. I always wondered why he smiled so much when I was crying, upset or sad or saying sorry. I wondered why he always wanted me to tell him all the painful things and confide in him but seemed to be taking notes more then trying to help. Why he would laugh and smile the only time I saw a genuine emotion in him. And he smiled again when he said that but it was like almost a scary smile. It made me feel….unsettled and disturbed he said he was just joking after but he wasn’t. It stuck with me and he was good at making me think it was in my head and my own insecurities. I won’t lie he had me in a desperate place for a while. When I started to heal from the trauma I was dealing with I realized something slowly every time I saw him I felt more and more unhappy. I always felt unhappy around him but it was like I became more aware of it because I wasn’t consumed in my own insecurities anymore. I wasn’t blaming myself anymore. Every time I saw him I couldn’t wait to be away from him his energy was so toxic, I found him annoying overbearing and unattractive, I was extremely bored and I wondered what the fuck did I ever see in him? The last time I saw him he couldn’t handle me at all. He started to get nervous just being around me because I wasn’t letting him manipulate me and I wasn’t scared to speak my truth anymore regardless if he liked it, I left like 30 mins into seeing him out of shear boredom and at the time I actually puttied him. I realized how insecure he actually was. And I felt bad for him for a long time after and tried to be friends but he wouldn’t stop trying to play those old games. Always asking me about my life right away to gauge my emotional state and waiting for an opening. It was so gross and really pathetic. I couldn’t believe I once thought I loved him. Dark psychology is real and honestly people use it alot more then u think. People need to make U insecure and keep u down because they are to insecure to be what you deserve. Or to just treat u right. If they can convince you I deserve less u will never realize U deserve better. Never stay where u are unhappy. Never let a person mess with your mental health. Be weary of people who just come around when ur down. We can’t think clearly when we’re in a bad place. We don’t see people for who they really are. Our senses can become dulled by pain, fear, or desperation. And There’s a lot of vultures out there.

@Enisims 11 ай бұрын

Okay?

@Ong_imbored 8 ай бұрын

Are we gonna talk about the kissing skit that chad chad did😂

@jklroxmysox111 Жыл бұрын

So I’m a real life therapist (licensed and everything) and also a very online younger millennial. The landscape of mental health and psychology discourse online is so interesting. Like, yes, anxiety is a lot more normalized now. Fantastic. People are more aware of neurodivergence. Great. But also not everyone you meet has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder and not everything is directly explainable by a psychology “fact”. Like the only thing that’s true about people is that nothing is universally true.

@natkatmac Жыл бұрын

It's people who have no idea what the DSM is explaining to other people who also have no idea what the DSM is how to diagnose a complete stranger based off one manufactured interaction.

@kjarakravik4837 Жыл бұрын

I started studying psychology two tears ago and the most frustrating part about it was having to learn about all these older renowned psychologists coming up with their theories and acting like they were universally true

@ASweetShortCake Жыл бұрын

“Like the only thing that’s true about people is that nothing is universally true.” Preach!

@elvingearmasterirma7241 Жыл бұрын

@@natkatmac I often wish to print out the entirety of the DSM-5 and whack anyone who says: Oh but the DSM says being trans is a mental illness Just. Start with a solid hip swing.

@wompppwompwomppp Жыл бұрын

As someone with diagnosed BPD but doing a lot better these days, it's gross to see how crucified people with it are. It's one of the most emotionally torturous disorders and although there's plenty of people who don't get help and let it ruin their and others lives, there's lots of us doing work to get help and be better people and control emotions better.

@claire-ix4ct Жыл бұрын

My psych professor told us that “everyone is a psychologist, because we all see behavior being performed daily and can make inferences based on our experience. What separates the psychologist from the researcher is the mitigation of biases and putting aside that personal experience to evaluate and test a phenomenon.”

@JhericFury Жыл бұрын

"The difference between science and fucking around is writing it down" to quote one of the myth busters

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

The difference is they are getting paid meow 😺 I skipped the whole Chad Chad video

@mookiemon Жыл бұрын

I don't remember if my professor said anything similar, but he DID say that if you suck your thumb as a baby you'll grow up to become anal retentive, so... I dropped my psych major and became a poet because what the fuck.

@michaelhaydenbell Жыл бұрын

They really said that?? HUGE red flag.

@erins4262 Жыл бұрын

I would also argue that education is important, more important really.

@runyoufool2856 11 ай бұрын

As a psychology student about to write a psych exam, I can confirm this is exactly what is in my text book. 😊

@toothfairy10133 6 күн бұрын

im actually aware of everyone's presence all of the time

@nomoretwitterhandles Жыл бұрын

That "dark psychology tip" about saying "Oh I have something to tell you, actually nevermind!" is exactly why I broke up with two different people lmao. I get extremely bored of mind games. Like aight, have fun with your lack of communication skills, I'm gonna go make out with someone else.

@scarletstarlet8085 Жыл бұрын

real like I don’t have time for solving some weird puzzle you decided to throw at me

@Jane-oz7pp Жыл бұрын

Word, I'm a hot bitch, I'm not wasting all this on someone who can't even manage to communicate. I dropped three people in the same week (I'm non-monogamous) because they wouldn't communicate directly.

@negligible_reality Жыл бұрын

yo big facts, i don't have time for that childish bs. like you can use your words, or i'm just gonna dump you lol. 💀

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Watching Chad Chad is the first problem 😲

@mustavengemario Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt ☠️

@Gambito99100 Жыл бұрын

Chad Chad: "YOU are a psychologist" Me, an actual psychologist: "how the fuck does she know? 👁👄👁"

@mandarinablue8438 Жыл бұрын

Me as a student in psychology. Ahaha yes, actually no, uh ...

@monaanom2356 Жыл бұрын

same 😂😂😂

@Palebloomingsnake 11 ай бұрын

I just noticed, the background music around 11:55, its the same ambient music used for the Earth realm in the roblox game Royale High.

@justagalwhocomments 11 ай бұрын

That’s why it felt so familiar

@erinnnns 6 ай бұрын

yess I thought I was the only one who realized

@fryingoil 6 ай бұрын

Real psychology trick: tell a girl you like honey and you have a jar of honey with you. If she has a hopefull look in her eyes, she is actually a swarm of bees in disguise hoping to steal your honey. In any other case she is still a swarm of bees in disguise looking to steal your honey but simply hiding her facial expression.

@guesmpwuam 6 ай бұрын

why is this not a top comment

@__melinda___ Жыл бұрын

I love the private jet one. I like imagining that woman has done that "trick" a lot and thinks everyone around her are narcissists, when actually they're giving her a confused, incredulous smile that anyone would just make up a private jet story like a first grader making up really obvious shit to impress people.

@buzzinbea 11 ай бұрын

If any of my friends said they had a private jet I'd literally laugh out loud 🤣

@elizrebezilmadommdo1662 10 ай бұрын

Fr. Imagine a grown woman approaches you and is like, "Hey my name is Janet and by the way my dad owns a private jet. Just kidding! I don't, but since you're laughing at me, that's probably a red flag that you were planning on using me and you're a narcissist. Okay bye!"

@prettybigpengus 8 ай бұрын

me and my friends make minimum wage we're not even getting a car past 2004 💀

@SarahGraceBennett 7 ай бұрын

And those who frown at her do so because they think she's definitely full of shit

@diesix4086 Жыл бұрын

The funniest thing about that one woman who was like "here's how you spot a narcissist" is that if she actually bothered to research NPD even a little bit she'd find out it's a traumagenic mental disorder. That people get via repetitive childhood trauma due to a certain dysfunctional/abusive parenting style and it's often comorbid with CPTSD, just like BPD. And not something you can just "tell" somebody has or use in place of ways to describe somebody who's egotistical, arrogant or an asshole. That and it's also hilarious that she's implying all people with NPD are abusive or going to manipulate you. Way to stigmatize an already very demonized mental disorder lol.

@entrapta.exe_ Жыл бұрын

finally someone with common sense

@diesix4086 Жыл бұрын

@@entrapta.exe_ Ty, I try lol I love learning about various mental disorders and actual psychology/how the mind works. I'm getting sick and tired of people using narcissistic as a synonym for abusive, toxic or power hungry or whatever other negative trait somebody could have since it's stupid and doesn't make sense to me hahah. Most people don't label somebody with BPD as an awful person right off the bat (most of the time, I happen to have it) but in comparison to that and in my experience as well as through a lot of observation, people are often very prone to labelling somebody with NPD as abusive and self-centered just because they have the disorder or have traits of it without any other reason. It infuriates me to no goddamn end lmfao.

@cthulhu8164 Жыл бұрын

The funny thing is, if *you* looked up narcissism, you'd realise it's a seperate thing from NPD. You're making a mistake in assuming "narcissist" *means* NPD, and it doesn't. You're not wrong about what NPD is, but its existence as a personality disorder comes from the much simpler and less serious "narcissism", a preoccupation with one self. The name itself came from Narcissus, a mythical man from a roman poem who would reject women's advances before being cursed by the gods to be in love with his own reflection, hence "narcissist" means someone who is overly obsessed with one self and one's needs, often at the expense of others, just like how you can be "obsessive" and not have OCD, how you can be "depressed" but not have "major depressive disorder". The real irony is, your problem is based on over-applying psychology and DSM-V to assume people are talking about a personality disorder when they're talking about a personality trait, to complain about someone not looking up NPD despite the fact they weren't even talking about it. "You can't use it in place of ways to describe somebody who's egotistical, arrogant or an asshole" yeah, agreed, some people overuse narcissist to describe people they don't like, but "egotistical" is actually a synonym for narcissistic. You CAN in fact, use narcissist to describe somebody who has an obsession or admiration of themselves, like self-absorbed, conceited, etc because that is the literal definition. Not every word that is used in psychology is exclusive to psychology, and assuming some tiktoker who thinks you should trap people with games to see if they're narcissists or have NPD (cause doing either is nonsense and useless) is also someone who would ever do enough research to use narcissist vs NPD properly is a you problem. Clearly they have 0 idea of what they're talking about, you want them to at the very least be more accurate in using terms they don't understand so they have, 0.5 idea of what they're talking about? And I only say this, because this overly educational view also trivialises and changes words, like how "anorexia", a symptom of low/no appetite, became short hand for "anorexia nervosa" a mental disorder where people avoid eating, so that now, anorexia is useless because you have to specify lack of appetite anyway, because people assume it means AN. "here's some advice if you ever feel anxious-" "UMMM I highly doubt you have the necessary qualifications to be giving people advice on how to manage symptoms of Generalised Anxiety Disorder, sweaty 💅"

@diesix4086 Жыл бұрын

@@cthulhu8164 Holy shit I feel stupid hahah, thanks for correcting me. This actually clears up a lot and oh man I really wish I looked at that more. Nobody's ever really told me this nor have I seen anything about it so this is very relieving to hear. That is some funny as hell irony on my part and I'll fully admit that you were right in stating that my problem was that I thought NPD means narcissist when upon looking up narcissism and actually researching the things you said you're totally right in that NPD wasn't being talked about, it's not used in the same way and I was wrong for thinking that. You bring up a *lot* of good points I failed to see or think about and it's very nice to have it pointed out, and to reflect on my views about this as well as potentially other things I could be wrong about as a result of learning a bit more. I kind of assumed that since narcissism is a trait of NPD that people weren't using the word correctly and that is so stupid of me to have though for (now) obvious reasons. I'm face-palming at myself hard hah. Once again thank you, and I'm very sorry for not making sense beforehand. I'm very glad to have learned from this. ^^

@diesix4086 Жыл бұрын

@@128treehugger I was trying to express my frustrations with people using the word narcissistic/narcissist as a way to negatively describe somebody, and how using it in the way people do when they say something along the lines of "here's how to spot a narcissist" or "here's how to piss a narcissist off" is harmful because it stigmatizes people with NPD which is already a very heavily demonized disorder and in my point of view implied that people are just assuming somebody with NPD was automatically abuisve or going to manipulate people when obviously that's a stupid take, as in you can't just assume that bc somebody has the disorder that they're a bad person. CLEARLY I was wrong, that's not at all what was being talked about and it turns out I was mixing up what the meaning of narcisissm is vs what NPD actually is. Simply put my understanding was flawed and I was swiftly schooled. ":)

@salt7505 7 ай бұрын

Fun fact, tinnitus joke spiked my tinnitus.

@TheDragonl_ 7 ай бұрын

1:23 people usually tend to look at someone who they feel safe with when they laugh. So the fact is almost right

@tilltronje1623 2 күн бұрын

So in order to defend the lie that this was a fact, you made up another lie and called it a fact too?

@naoree Жыл бұрын

I really hate the laugh one because it happened to me. A few years ago I was chatting with a friend of a friend, he made some funny jokes so I laughed. About 10 min later I mentioned my boyfriend and the dude got mad "If you have a boyfriend why do you laugh at my jokeS?!". I had to explain to him that I laughed because it was funny, not a pleasant conversation to have! We were in our mid 20s, still blows my mind how aggressive he became

@BwooHuraca 11 ай бұрын

It's weird that some people interpret "laughing at a joke" as "this person is hot for me" rather than "this person thought my joke was funny."

@error-try-again-later 11 ай бұрын

Didn't you know? Having a boyfriend means your sense of humour turns to ashes and gets absorbed by your pancreas. It's the sacrifice you make in order to feel love. #TrueBiologyFacts

@xLiLlyx98 10 ай бұрын

@@error-try-again-lateryour body's hormonal makeup will change so that you're only able to laugh at your boyfriend's jokes anymore. Only one dude at a time, ladies!

@missjoasia123 9 ай бұрын

He’s a narcissist, jk jk. Probably a red flag for real tho 😂

@thepeasrolledoffthecounter7552 8 ай бұрын

I have many friends with great senses of humor and it's pretty easy to make me laugh... oh no... looks like I'm about to date everyone in my inner-to-sorta-distant circle

@Zectifin Жыл бұрын

I love how they always say "this tactic is guaranteed to work!" no its not. most people you're going to chase away with your creepy manipulative behavior. I heard a story recently where the person said their ex would do the "we need to talk" thing just like the creepy guy in the video and then refuse to give them any details and give them stress and anxiety all day until they could talk to them in person, and then it would even be anything important, not even a serious discussion. They said they told their ex they didn't like this and asked them to stop and they agreed to. Then they continued to do it so they broke up with them. It's manipulative behavior meant to stress someone out so that when you talk you're way more likely to agree with whatever they ask because you're so relieved its not some relationship defining discussion.

@ginny3599 Жыл бұрын

Oh, they did the same at the last job I was. Truly hateful disgusting people there! I left that fucking shithole of a place and worte them a super bad kununu review (because of course they do more shitty things there then that and even go against the law).

@ettaetta439 Жыл бұрын

Yep, it's a way to constantly exert your power over them and make them more likely to submit to you if they already have low self confidence.

@Hello-hello-hello456 Жыл бұрын

Yeah any sane person would see through the bullshit in like 3 days

@sgfuckinghuntress Жыл бұрын

Yeah! Like I'm pretty sure a good portion of girls are gonna be like "oh cool" when you do the "Nevermind" trick on them 😭😭

@Krinbo 9 ай бұрын

That’s a prodigious derrière right there

@MeiMei447. 11 ай бұрын

8:45 my ex kept doing this to me so many times💀boys don’t try this it’s not funny it gets annoying :/

@BambolaNera99 Жыл бұрын

i love that so many of these are "dark psychology" facts, like its an entirely separate branch of psychology they teach in universities. just imagine the possibilities of a work of dark academic fields... dark sociology... dark linguistics... dark law.. dark environmental science and sustainable technologies... business management and economics...

@juliaourofinoscalia3468 Жыл бұрын

how are there no comments on this the joke at the end was hilarious

@joelwoodall1050 Жыл бұрын

All business management is dark business management

@alcidesprieto1967 Жыл бұрын

It's like some Harry Potter fiction

@elliottmcpeek7443 Жыл бұрын

LOL

@nunyabusiness164 Жыл бұрын

dark ceramics... dark painting.... dark art history..... dark accounting

@yuki97kira Жыл бұрын

Theres a story of a woman whose bf told her she smells..lots of times to the point she get self conscious. She did shower, wear perfumes etc etc but he still said she smells. So finally she confronted him and was like, my friends and family said i smell fine, i shower daily, etc etc and if she smells to him lets just break up. The guy finally confessed his dad told him to do that because if the girl think shes smelly she wont break up with him cuz she wont have confidence to find someone else Guys...DONT do this. This is mental. This isnt dark psychology, its borderline abusive

@HadalStreetlights Жыл бұрын

idk about "borderline" to be honest. i think it pretty soundly qualifies as manipulative at the very best, and as emotional abuse at worst. either way i feel like calling it abusive is appropriate.

@SunshinePIRRATA Жыл бұрын

IT IS ABUSIVE, let's stop sugar coating mfs treating people like shit, they're not just mean, they're not just pathetic, they are abusers, he was emotionally abusing her to gain the confirmation that she wasn't going to leave him, that's abuse.

@jemmabean Жыл бұрын

No need for the borderline.

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

More fantasy stories from Chad Chad watchers 🥱

@SunshinePIRRATA Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt Get a life

@gracypop123 4 ай бұрын

As a grad school counseling student the class I had about Dark Psychology was one of the hardest but best class Ive taken. So glad I had a course about that and not the ethical standards Ill have to know and abide to

@rida-18 10 ай бұрын

The "I wanna tell you something... Oh nevermind" has occurred to me many times. It was so funny cuz I always respond with "Okay not a problem" or lately, just absolutely ignoreeee the existence of that text. Drives the other person crazy.

@jeremygreen2883 Жыл бұрын

As a psychology teacher, these "dark" psychology facts on social media drive me up a wall. I try to debunk this stuff to my impressionable teenage students all of the time. Ugh!

@claudiaalvarado5518 6 ай бұрын

Yep fucking same

@diamcole Жыл бұрын

"Gimme your shoes bitch!" I lost it 🤣 9:59

@washada 9 ай бұрын

‘’Dark psychology’’ sounds like the modern version of making a Faustian bargain for forbidden power.

@CharlieCole89 3 ай бұрын

3:44 as someone with (mild) tinnitus i can confirm that this is Why i have it

@danii.pocketz 3 ай бұрын

tinnitus by txt 😨

@_bloueming 2 ай бұрын

@@danii.pocketzYEAH WANT IT ‼️‼️‼️💥💥💥

@DAREALJELLYHERE_OFFICAL Ай бұрын

@@danii.pocketz😰

@Eggaroundtheworld 10 сағат бұрын

@@danii.pocketzI thought the same thing 😭

@danii.pocketz 10 сағат бұрын

@@Eggaroundtheworld lmaoo

@viv771 Жыл бұрын

That "I ain't callin' you a roofer" joke was genuinely hilarious perfect set up and delivery

@jaxsolaris1177 Жыл бұрын

S tier joke

@melr5755 Жыл бұрын

@@jaxsolaris1177 If you did not understand why that joke was so funny you are just uncultured smh

@jaxsolaris1177 Жыл бұрын

@@melr5755 I did understand, otherwise why would I have called it S tier??

@nekorina9011 Жыл бұрын

"In order to make females love you, you have to use sarcasm because it shows intelligence, a trait females love" that actually made me gag LMAO - these pick up bros talk about us like we're chimpanzees at the zoo and it's so fucking disgusting. Also no, plenty of women actually DON'T like sarcasm cuz a.) it makes you sound like an asshole when you don't know if the person actually likes it, and b.) as a neurodivergent person who struggles to pick up when someone is being serious and have had sarcasm used against me before, all it'll do is confuse me as to why you're not being straightforward. Ofc there are neurodivergent people who probably do like sarcasm, but as it goes with any human being (which these dudebros don't seem to view women as), it depends on the person - there's not catch all tricks like they always imply.

@Alissa.Fine24 Жыл бұрын

Gosh, maybe you're just not their target female. They have a radar that detects women who love sarcasm and their alpha behaviour (for legal reasons, that's a joke)

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Imagine being this pressed Chad Chad watchers man 😔

@SunshinePIRRATA Жыл бұрын

I don't like when people sarcasm me, but I like sarcasiming others 😈😈

@brook_angel Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt "imagine being this pressed" dude you've got over 80 comments on a channel you very obviously dislike Get a life

@jemmabean Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt87 comments on this channel, you must really like it here 😊

@svguruget0 5 күн бұрын

as someone with npd im so happy that chad called out the woman in the end misusing "narcissist". im sick of the constant demonization of all of cluster b so seeing content creators being aware of actual narcissism really makes me happy

@kisskaashi 3 ай бұрын

5:29 i genuinely think someone did this to me bcs this is what just happened this week … and it lowkey worked 💀. it made me feel like shit but i like his validation

@elisecode2212 Жыл бұрын

she's so right, it's like "here's how to check if someone is trying to manipulate you...by manipulating them"

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

If you think about it, every interaction you have with someone os msnupilation You kissed your partner??!? What are you trying to do, imbed your image and pavlovianly attach it to a good feeling? Manupilative whore

@shinyminunthetheatregeek2036 Жыл бұрын

The way people treat narcissists, ppl with BPD, and similar disorders like bombs about to explode is seriously upsetting. Yes, disorders influence people's behavior, which means that it might lead to harmful behavior, but literally everyone has the capacity to harm and manipulate others, just like everyone has the ability to recognize their mistakes and change! There is no Bad Scary Person Forever disorder. Humans are complicated. And sometimes, it's hard for people to do the right thing. That doesn't mean it's impossible.

@Shirumoon Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I've been such a horribly toxic person in the past and I'm sure I could get a really stigmatized personality disorder diagnosis if I went to the right psychiatrist. But you know what? I worked my ass off on bettering myself, keep cutting out toxic friendships and am in a relationship with a men that won't take any bullshit. Especially the latter has helped me tremendeously. Unpopular opinion: every abuser needs an abuse victim that is also traumatized or mentally ill to begin with, otherwise they would leave asap and not get stuck in there. Which shows that every single person can better themselves in ways and should have that as one of their personal goals.

@psychicbyinternet Жыл бұрын

@@Shirumoon "Unpopular opinion: every abuser needs an abuse victim that is also traumatized or mentally ill to begin with, otherwise they would leave asap and not get stuck in there." I don't know what you mean by this but it sounds bad.

@michaelio6548 Жыл бұрын

@@psychicbyinternet I’m gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and say that maybe they meant abusers find mentally ill people to be easier victims but if that is what they meant it’s very poorly worded

@a1exneedsahamdleplease Жыл бұрын

One of the nicest people I know has BPD and it make me so sad that they have to be so secretive about that. They’re a genuinely good person and I wanna support them. Yeah BPD can lead to some bad behaviors but that doesn’t mean people that have it are monsters with no free will. They’re brains are just wired a bit differently that’s all.

@shinyminunthetheatregeek2036 Жыл бұрын

@@michaelio6548 Yeah, that's what I think too

@jstarstudios7110 2 ай бұрын

God, that Amanda lady has the most terrifying smile I've ever seem

@thehipoglucido1 2 ай бұрын

I love the small eq changes you do for the mini sketches. Found your channel today and I'm having a blast ignoring that I have work to do

@OneAndOnly.H Жыл бұрын

For the whole “make somebody fall in love with you, super toxic” the whole “well, it’s good for people to be aware about it”… why not just present it as, “signs that someone is manipulating you into a romantic relationship” and not literally tell people that this is supposed to be a manipulative tool to get others attracted to you? Because uh… maybe that’s terrible advice you should be giving never??

@Alissa.Fine24 Жыл бұрын

Because it's Jayus..... Not the first time she does something toxic

@OneAndOnly.H Жыл бұрын

@@Alissa.Fine24 I feel like I’ve seen too much of the whole: “this advice is SUPER toxic and you shouldn’t actually do it, but let me still tell you how to do it anyway!”💀

@Alissa.Fine24 Жыл бұрын

@@OneAndOnly.H it's their way of getting you to want to watch their shitty content

@mustavengemario Жыл бұрын

fr. As an aroace i wouldn't like it if someone purposely tried to woo me in the most toxic way ever.

@hanatemonstas4485 Жыл бұрын

@@mustavengemario No matter of sexuality, no one likes being manipulated.

@katkatattack Жыл бұрын

My cousin is in grad school for psychology, so I sent her this video. She said it helped her ace all of her past and future exams. Thank you, Chad Chad.

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Chad Chad didn't help anyone all she has is 🧢

@neff6185 Жыл бұрын

@Mewobahh and all you have is lame copy paste insults, stop wasting your life in this comment section 🤦

@Zectifin Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt cringe

@turtleqqqq Жыл бұрын

@@neff6185they unironically like Meowbah, what do you expect

@mementoil 8 ай бұрын

"well i ain't callin'you a roofer" excellent

@funky_frog0986 11 ай бұрын

i watch your videos while i crochet. it keeps me from getting really bored, so thanks!

@Kween.Eileen Жыл бұрын

I had an absolutely terrible day, but watching your video made me feel so much better and made me laugh so much. Thanks, Chad Chad 💜

@bethanythatsme Жыл бұрын

Hope life feels lighter soon

@Kween.Eileen Жыл бұрын

@@bethanythatsme thank you

@digitalharmony26 Жыл бұрын

I feel you. Hopefully tomorrow is better for you ❤

@FlamingTurtleCake Жыл бұрын

the advice at the end was really helpful! sad about Chad Chad's jet tho.

@leppakerttul Жыл бұрын

i can relate, wish you the best^^

@mycomputersucks7602 Жыл бұрын

"FARMHOUSE" is by far the best advice and psychology fact ive heard in a while, thank you chad chad!

@paixamourchanel9084 2 ай бұрын

oh I love I found this page today! My seventh video and I haven’t stopped laughing. Also, I quit social media a decade ago, so you’re officially my social media news anchor.

@WeirdDarknessOfficial 2 ай бұрын

Just discovered your stuff. Loving it 😍 ❤️ 💖. Your sense of humor and creative editing and production skills are the perfect combination! It's not surprising that you have 2m subscribers. Looking forward to binging more.

@Zactheflyingcat Жыл бұрын

I love the idea that psychology has this light and dark motif. I wonder what they'd call reverse psychology

@Alissa.Fine24 Жыл бұрын

Oh, they're yet to discover it. And when they do, they'll probably mislabel it as something ✨ q u i r k y ✨

@Jane-oz7pp Жыл бұрын

pop psych is a fucking scourge

@meowbahhyt Жыл бұрын

Chad Chad's piercing motif made the video unwatchable 🥱

@damienearl8302 Жыл бұрын

@@meowbahhyt My dude, this might be besides the point, but you didn't even pick a good account to piggyback off of, no one cares about Meowbahh anymore

@HadalStreetlights Жыл бұрын

makes me think about irl magic systems and i think they see it similarly. i wouldnt be shocked to see them talking about "mind control" or "deadly curses" by other names sooner or later. it's very stupid.

@cuddr710 Жыл бұрын

"are you calling me a liar? Well I aint't calling you a roofer" genuinely made me laugh

@busehazr5123 Жыл бұрын

10:49 I love the self insuring smirk at the end as well 👍🏻 I believe her %100 without a doubt in my mind.

@blankaschejbalova1730 4 ай бұрын

I don't wanna sound like i'm insulting her but she looks a bit creepy 😭

@mranima748 7 ай бұрын

Dark psychology, like how there’s magic and dark magic

@likeaustralia13 Жыл бұрын

As a dark psychology wizard, I’m guffawing and tittering the day away watching this video. Thanks Chad Chad. 👍

@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath Жыл бұрын

shadow wizard money gang. we love casting spells

@rafaelmoreno6331 11 ай бұрын

@@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath this message is brought to you by The shadow government

@Bllue 7 ай бұрын

Know I'm thinking of how to build a psychologist wizard in dnd. Dissonant whispers definitely falls under dark.

@kathleenwright5842 Жыл бұрын

The “dark psychology” reminds me of how I was treated in my pre-teen/teen relationships. It’s been 15 years and I’m still working on the trauma and trust issues. Please be good to each other!

@thepeasrolledoffthecounter7552 8 ай бұрын

Same fr😭 I don't think I suffer really bad trauma but it's still there

@dokagon75 8 ай бұрын

I just don't date. Feels like a waste of emotional resources.

@Bllue 7 ай бұрын

@@dokagon75i don't disagree with you but this doesn't work for everyone

@placeholderdoe 7 ай бұрын

I really hope you’re doing better now

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

So the advice is solid? Would you say there was any room for improvement?

@laila5946 7 ай бұрын

About the laughing one, I think there is some substance to it, and the 'fact' is that when people laugh in a group, they tend to look at who they like the most. It's not necessarily romantic, but I definitely do this.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

Did you consider that you're mentally weak?

@laila5946 5 ай бұрын

@@guythat779 Uh....thanks?

@guythat779 5 ай бұрын

@@laila5946 no sweety I didn't compliment you yet, look awake for yhe camera at least

@farenbrosca9496 Ай бұрын

I love the guy at 7:40 talking about dark psychology, it feels like how magic works in Final Fantasy, like I could say "yeah, I'm studying to become a Red Psychologist"

@ranpo_edogawa Жыл бұрын

As someone who has NPD, all of these TikToks about "how to spot a narcissist" are certainly.... interesting and horribly demeaning to those of us who have the disorder since its usually caused by abuse and manipulation 😭

@alisteruiz Жыл бұрын

Honestly tiktok treats any disorder in the most offensive stereotypical way possible and make people with those disorders sound like theyre insane or just awful people its so damn weird

@csokissuti7343 Жыл бұрын

You should see how they treat autism.

@alisteruiz Жыл бұрын

@@csokissuti7343 omfg its crazy 💀💀

@Claire-cc6xy Жыл бұрын

@@csokissuti7343and adhd

@Jane-oz7pp Жыл бұрын

Anxiety and Tourettes, too.

@bitnewt Жыл бұрын

It is so hilarious that they refer to "dark psychology" like some kind of forbidden magic when it's just acting confusingly.

@PoppinPumpkins 7 ай бұрын

As a Psych major in my second year, this makes me cringe and laugh.

@guythat779 6 ай бұрын

As a stem student you make me cringe and laugh

@keysmashingnerd 6 ай бұрын

10:33 hanami from jjk

@flippanties Жыл бұрын

It's honestly wild to me that despite the fact that mental health awareness among younger generations is way better than it once was but people with Cluster B personality disorders like NPD are still treated like some creepy monsters lurking in the shadows just waiting for the opportunity to manipulate you like bruh...they're just people with a specific disorder.

@lexa2310 Жыл бұрын

Yeah, but it's a disorder that can really fuck up the people around them too. It may not be their fault, but it's no surprise people are cautious about them and might want to keep their distance.

@SharkUsingaComputer Жыл бұрын

@@lexa2310 cluster Bs are much more likely to hurt themselves then others. they are demonized just by existing

@lexa2310 Жыл бұрын

@@SharkUsingaComputer How so?

@Vivi_9 Жыл бұрын

@@SharkUsingaComputer honestly I wish this were true but narcs are far more dangerous to others who get entangled

@highdefinition450 Жыл бұрын

Tf is Cluster B lol