R, you have tried so hard, to make this person be a good partner, father, & man. It's on him. Not you. You deserve so much better. Stay strong. Find your own happiness. For the right reasons. Not for your kids. So happy you went home. Keep doing for YOU! You, happy, will make for happy kids!!! It will... Not a forced family. The kids won't hold you for not trying hard enough! As long as you are truly happy, you'll be the best person, mother, friend, daughter, partner. Don't sacrifice your own, for anything! Sending all the positive vibes your way!

Although I said under the video where R said she was moving to DC that I thought she deserved better, I'm just an outsider looking in at the end of the day but, I'm glad she's moving on nonetheless because she deserves someone who values how amazing she is! And I know she'll find that now that she's prioritizing herself (and her sons of course) ❤

Girl stop apologizing. We have all been in your shoes. I’m just glad you can tell your story and learn from your experiences. I’m glad you back with your family and your support system. Keep your head up and looking towards God. You got it girl! 😊

R you are a great definition of a good human. You still speak highly of your children’s father even though he has done you wrong. Take care of your mental and those boys. You got it girl 🫶🏽💖

R, you are so incredibly strong. You should be proud of yourself for choosing you. Sending you so much love and light. ♥️

I am so happy to have another episode with you all together again. R, sorry you're having relationship problems, but truthfully having kids with someone you barely know almost never works out. Past episodes when u spoke of Mez, it always seemed like u were trying to prove to the audience that everything was good, which from the outside looking in showed even more doubt. But like you said, u tried. And this happens often in life, its all about how u adjust and bounce back. Keep choosing you!!

Can I just say I knew that man was shady because the pictures he would post either didn’t include R or had R blurred!! Seemed like he wanted to appear single and not like a family man. You deserve better R!! And kudos to you for knowing you deserve better and taking action.♥️ You are showing your sons how to have self love and self respect!!

I’m just praying things get better for R she deserves the world ❤❤❤ love and peace for you R

Wish we had the gang back together under different circumstances. Sending all my love to you R as you navigate this thing called life… big hugs sis

Damn, I'm going through a break up and I cannot imagine doing it with kids with no nearby family. Shit is really tough but R you are so beautiful and your spirit is so kind. God has so much in store for you and your boys! As corny as it sounds, pain helps us grow. Love you ladies!

I had to replay that part where Kyle talked about the Quran, Im so shocked and so happy Kyle really, as a muslim girl l love that for you. Send you a lot of hugs and I wish you peace, love, and courage. Would love to meet you one day If you come to Paris ❤

I'm so sorry R, you and your babies deserve more..but what I would give 2 to have a family like yours ❤️

R you deserve so much better than that. Sending you all the love.

Dear R, You are beautiful, kind and talented. We love you. You are doing a great job!

R, you are courageous and so inspiring! Praying for you and the boys I know that this is all apart of God’s master plan hold your head up you’ve got this mama bear ❤

R I’m proud of you for standing your ground and doing what is best for you but also your boys. Your journey of healing may be hard and long but you got this

💙 Love the way that R can call her Dad to come get her! Wish I had a Dad I could call upon to rescue me 💙

Thank you for sharing I can relate with the situation so excited for the future and thanks again for sharing it makes me see my situation in a different way and how I. Can be better love you guys

I love this show, its very relatable for me. This episode was much needed and I loved the transparency!!

thank you for sharing R. you are so strong

R I am so proud of you!!!!!

Yes R that is an amazing idea..I've had so many times I needed someone to call and had noone. You are such a strong and amazing woman! I'm so proud of you and thankful for sharing!

I know it was hard R, but we sensed you weren’t happy and was honestly trying really hard to make it work from the moment you went to DC. I hate all of this had to happen but I’m glad you chose yourself and your children. You got this girl! Sending you lots of good energy & healing. 🤎 ..I’m curious to know Cheyenne, your mom & your dads initial thoughts when they heard what happened.

Wow. Sending you so much love R! At the end of the day though such a blessing in disguise for you to be back at home with your family surrounded by so much love🤍

We’re proud of you R!! ❤❤❤❤

I’m sending so much prayers to you R. I have been there and it’s the worst feeling ever. Sending you lots of positive vibes and hope. God bless

My heart breaks so Kylie because you can tell she tried so hard

R thank you for sharing! ❤️ we got you girl!

R, I’m just soooo glad that you and the boys are safe !!!

I hate that this had to happen.. but I'm grateful that it did. GOD literally had to allow this man to break Kyle's heart for Her to accept that they were simply 2 people who had 2 kids.. with NO LOVE or real chemistry. I knew from EVERY interaction I've ever seen from Mezz.. between he & the family, he & Kyle, he and Chey.. that he's obviously uninterested, DETACHED, and bored.. with his own kids, with pursuing a romantic relationship, with EVERYTHING. he's definitely a narc, uninvolved father & lacks maturity and accountability. Welcome back, Kyle!! 💗💗💗 thank you for the honesty & transparency. I love you & I pray that you take all the time you need, to heal.

So emotional 😭feel your hurt R ,glad you are back home surrounded by family and friends not glad for the situation how it came about , but sad to say Meez is not ready to settle down still have some growing up to do.Sending love and prayers that you get through this

Praying for you R! Glad you & the boys made it back home safe and sound with family. We as Women can only take so much and as you mentioned you tried your boys will appreciate it more the older they get. Keep your head up girl.

Thanks r for being so transparent honest calm open funny and Shannon and chy thanks for being so honest brought some laughs into this love how y’all support each other

The thing is you guys are all right. Some lessons just have to be learned by living them. True love is an even energy exchange and that part of it should and will be easy. For your next relationship now you know that and I truly believe you’re about to feel so happy. If you’re flying solo atleast your flying free 🕊 🙌💖

God Bless You R, each of you actually. I’m literally just still taking it all in, but truth is many (if not most of us) have also had to live & learn. It’s all good, you are amazing and you did the right thing each step of the way. Just like your dad said a few shows ago…it’s not a problem unless you make it one. Sending you all blessings, hugs, kisses and love. My sistas!!!❤❤❤

I just love R's support unit. Keep ur head up.

I enjoyed the conv. and dealing with relationships is never easy. Your blessed to have your mom, dad, sis and others for support. Easier said than done, but just know you have the strength in Jesus to “endure” All trials.

Virtual hugs for R… You almost made me cry through this episode 🙏🏾

R, you got this! You tried as hard as possible. You’re blessed w a great support system. You’re going to be alright! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

I’m proud of you R to try all options to save your relationship. Sometimes that what it takes to realize your worth. This had to happen for you to move on happily. Now, you can have a fresh clean start knowing you gave it all your best. Good Luck ❤

Awww R we love you and so glad you’re back home with your family. I’m supporting you 100% in your decision. God spoke and will always provide what we need 🤍🙏🏽

Sending you so much love and prayers R❤

I’m so proud of you R! Chey thank God for you and Zach and y’all parents for being such a great support system for R and the boys! Sounds a lot like my family and my sister and our relationship. Chey you’re so much like me as a sister bc I’ll bleach his damn clothes too. Lol! I wish you all the happiness R! I hope this is a great adjustment for you and the boys♥️

That literally blows my mind that they were upset that you called your family !! Damn right i would call my family !!! R you are so strong for all this ❤

R, you are a beautiful soul and spirit, I believe you did everything you could to have something solid and a family. As disappointing as dude is right now, it's good that you went through this part because now you truly know your journey going forward is going to look a little different, and that's ok, your energy does not need to go anywhere it is not deserved. I'm glad you are back in Cali, where you have all the love and support needed. You and your babies will be good, and you deserve so much joy. Keep that beautiful head of yours up❤❤❤

So sorry that happened to you R. Keeping you in my thoughts 🤍 good luck on building yourself and your brands this year! You got this 😊

Sending prayers for you all. 🙏🙏🙏

My sister is going through a bad relationship and it’s the hardest most heartbreaking thing so I relate to u so much r Congratulations and kudos to u for respecting yourself and your kids and getting out of there ❤

So sorry your going through a lot of things R ... Seriously you are a light to so many people in the world ❤️💗 but we always gotta take care of you inside so I know it's hard to change a lot but it's for the better and I think great things will happen I'm praying for you and the greatest blessing is you HAVE SUCH A GOOD SUPPORT IN YOUR FAMILY SO I truly believe you will get through this better then ever !!!!

Kyle I'm 😭 hearing your story I'm praying for you beautiful ❤️ you telling your story will help so many people I promise I've been there did it ..I love you !!!!

R thank you so much for sharing your story because you did not have too. I must say that with time comes great healing. As you take this time, please remember to feel all of your emotions do not try to disregard them. Cry when you want to cry, be angry when you want to be angry no matter what just act however you feel. In doing so, this will help you to heal even faster. I will be praying for you. Trust me when I say you are not alone. We have all been in your shoes at one point in time. We love you 🤍

R Kyle Lynn, I am so happy you found out! That situation has made you stronger and wiser, the lessons and blessings will only make you more beautiful and with the help of your family there's nowhere to go but up! Stay Strong!!

A real professional therapist is needed. Love and blessings to you all.

Praying for you and your sweet boys 🙏🏾It will all work itself out.

R, you are such an inspiration. You tried it and it didn’t work out and isn’t of staying for the kids (no judgement to others who do), but you did what was best for you and your family. Like you said in this video you had the courage to walk away. I’m glad you have such a solid support system to hold you when you need it most and continue to encourage you. Shanan and Chey shout-out to you both for being a listening ear during this episode and during this time. You are all role models of how loved ones should be in a time of need - ride or die but also a listening ear. Love you all and sending R and the boys prayers❤❤

Just hearing your story made me so sad R. Because I can tell you’re hurt but putting on a brave face for the show. It will get better though! One day at a time. I’m praying for your healing. ❤

R I am truly praying for the man God has for you. You definitely deserve all the happiness in the world.❤

I was here before. I feel for you R. Put you first and the rest will fall into place. Remember you can’t make anyone be what you want them to be

You gave it your all with your child’s father R you had to go through this so you wouldn’t have any lingering of a thought of him when your future husband approaches you sending love and light your way ✨

I’m so happy finalllyyyyyy

Beautiful job R with being transparent! I have profound respect for you! When you create your “safe space” fund. I want to be a part of it in Mississippi! Im a social worker and i would love to be a safe open door or assist with helping women get a room or whatever they need! Great idea!

R, stay strong you're an amazing women ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

R - your spiritual piece of this episode… I can resonate some and do not worry about any of it! I’ve been through similar journey moments too. No big deal! I get it.

I'm so so sorry you've been through this Kyle! It is horrible you've tried so hard to make him be a good partner, father and person! I know when the boys are older they are going to be very very proud of you! You are one awesome strong mom💙

R - All I can say is You have done everything possible to keep your family together. I think the boys father is going to look back one day and its really going to hit him, that he messed up & messed up bad.

Stay strong R. Just focus on you and your kids. Let your family hold you tight and give you strength. Tbh you guys always seemed like complete opposites but I hate that it ended that way. The new goal should be for y’all one day to develop a good friendship for healthy coparenting and just give the boys happy and peaceful parents.

I normally only listen on apple podcast but I had to come here to say men ain’t shit! R you deserve the world and that fool can’t even give you a pebble. With God and your family in your corner all your blessings will continue to come way! Take some time to truly heal and recover. As long as you’re happy your babies will be happy too. Sending you so much love girly 🫶🏽🙏🏽

#Silentwatcher I normally never comment but Kyle you are amazing one day the one for you will come along & it will feel just right, In the meantime grind make your coin live and shit on these n***** sis!! Love seeing you 3 all together again💞

Good for you kyle for leaving!! U really tried but honestly you deserve to be outside someone woll accept you & your kids ❤

I hate to say this but she’s not done. I could be wrong and I pray that I am.

If you can next week update us on how it was when he came there and where did he stay at when he was there

R Kyle- Congrats on making the best decision for you! Make sure you get therapy for yourself and the kiddos. Art Therapy is great for kids. ❤️

R, at the end of the day no one can say you didn’t try. Multiple times! You should have no regrets everything happens for a reason and your blessings are right around the corner. The sad part is he’s going to have front row seats to what could have been and what minimal effort brought instead. Once he sees your rise be prepared for him to disrupt your rhythm.

I remember feeling uneasy about you moving to dc because of the fact that he wanted you to uproot you’re life without a solid commitment of marriage , I understand the new age disbelief in marriage but at the same time it takes serious commitment to go through one but I say that to say if a man can procreate with you twice and want you to move across country and not even speak of a proposal / marriage that is a huge red flag and myself and my babies wouldn’t have came . I don’t like the idea of continuing to make children when there is no real commitment involved . I’m so happy you have your support system my heart hurts to know you went through this with children . Prayers to you and keep reading that Quran ❤️.

You got this R

We love you R 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

Join tender when you are ready to get out there. Personally I start dating someone as soon as the relationship end it makes me get over the person in a week

Everything happens for a reason r, sometimes we don't kno that reason but God does and he's got u and ur kids n mez to...take a breather..

Yesssss!!👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌

Im shaking im so mad😭 I’m sooooo sorry R. You really do not deserve this. I thought I was healed but this sounds just like my ex and now I wanna throw hands😭😭😭

Kyle you are beautiful and deserving and you will the right man that is going to love you and your children properly.

R, I wish you could see what we see. You are a beautiful and strong woman! There is some man waiting on you and will treat you the way you deserve! Welcome home!

Hello Kyle, sorry for that, just take time for healing and decide what you really want. Happy that you’ve tried to make this relationship work. And don’t forget if a man wants you in his life, i will do everything to make it happen. Take time for you, be strong for YOU first and for your children after. Love you friend And I don’t think it’s the right timing to put Messier in the podcast, you guys need to discuss, to heal before doing a positive discussion here. Think to your kids and don’t wash nasty things on internet for your sake.

I know R has to co parent with him but she’s being a little too nice for me! LOL

He don't deserve u God has better for u.u are beautiful his loss

I’m glad R is back home with her village!!! Sending you so much love & positivity ❤️ Thanks for sharing & take care of yourself 🫶🏽

Let me just say R you are so kind and so gracious even after all he’s done. We support you. I know you do what you do for your boys because if not I’m sure you would be right with your sis on bleaching his shit because I sure would!😂😂😂

R God is still God and he is still good mama ❤❤❤ sending you love & light

R, thank you for sharing some raw moments with us. Sending healing and prayers your way. 🫶

Ryder!!! 🤣🤣🤣 stop talking around the kids

R you much better then that and you just take care of your kids and you have help with your family and friends

Ryder and her comment on the way to school 🤦🏽‍♀️😂 it’s only funny cause I can hear her saying it

I need R to do a Q & A I have wayyyy to many questions 😩😩

Also prayers to YOU & your beautiful boys! Maaaaannnnnn screw Me……. Ok ok ok Chey said grace so yeah no prayers for that guy right now 😂

Love your podcast. #Newsubscriber

R you and the boys deserve better

😡 wow.. just wow. I’m so sorry R, but glad you got your answer. I have prayed to God in similar situations and God always delivered the answer in the same way. Praying for your peace but I’m glad you’re back home. I hope you can find peace with just you and those two boys of yours until you meet someone who deserves you.

Oh R! My hurts for you my girl! We ain’t mad at chu for trying for your family to stay together.. Anybody who will say they wouldn’t are damn liars regardless if y’all met at the club & had a one night stand that led to your beautiful child(ren) cause I know I would try too.. He has showed you. Don’t belittle your self no more for him just cause he is the children’s father! You deserve so much more than he ever gave you (even if we don’t know what he did for you) One day you will find a man who’ll love you & your boys! 🤟🏼✨🌸🫶🏼

R you tried to make it work for your boys it’s ok at least you tried but you definitely deserve better snd you will receive

🙏🙏🙏🙏 r!!!!!