What does it mean to be a "submissive wife"? I'm genuinely asking. Does it mean to be devoted? Are your husbands also hoping to be submissive husbands or does it only apply to women? It feels like a very traditional framework, which for me conjures negative associations. To me my husband and I are equals in this partnership/relationship and we both bring different strengths and weaknesses to this partnership. I hear Remy and Chey saying something similar though, they share chores, work and parenting etc. So it sounds to me like they are and consider each other equals too. So where does the submissive part come in? Is the meaning maybe to trust in your partner and let go of some control or to compromise more? As in trusting that your partner is making choices with both of your best intentions in mind, for example? I dunno, genuinely curious.
@simplyblessed2851Күн бұрын
We waited to find out the sex of my now toddler Remy. I would do it all over again if God blesses us w/ another one but my husband is not on the same page. Lol. It was amazing though to not focus on the gender but just our little blessing. We did sage for our theme and ‘We can Bearly wait’. It was beautiful. Prayers for a healthy pregnancy, delivery and baby. I’m more of a spiritual person so I’m so happy to have you join the Crew🙏🏿💕
@oomiesays2 күн бұрын
Shanan you always sound so unsure of what you wanna share - I love hearing you share and talk. Be confident in your perspective You’re awesome!!
@priscillaflores51782 күн бұрын
Love all you ladies and please don’t take this the wrong way .. but I think remy should strictly be to fill someone as I don’t think there’s time for everyone .. I also feel like the original 3 are so much more relatable than remy since she comes off as she has everything under control .. I think she tries to paint the perfect picture when we all know it’s not that ..
@ReginaSanchez-yc7wz2 күн бұрын
I love u girls I raised kids alone now there in there 40s there strong woman's like u girls here teach your kids to be strong don't spoil them too much cuz when u pass they won't know how to take care of themselves sweeties
@nanayaa.o2 күн бұрын
I think it’s beautiful being part of a religion. You still have a relationship with God however your standards and morals are derived from the doctrine of the word. You need the word which is comprised of morals, laws, to govern your life and to understand who God is in order for that relationship to grow. I hope we can break the misconception of being attached to a religion. Congrats remy on the baby!
@ReginaSanchez-yc7wz2 күн бұрын
Beautiful sisterhood God bless u both beautiful sisters
@nicolejones6182 күн бұрын
I like the new addition it flows better
@oliviakirby32832 күн бұрын
I love Remy as an addition, Idk what y'all are talking about!
@ReginaSanchez-sm5yg3 күн бұрын
Chey is a beast a incredible young lady
@NasheFan-wx1qw3 күн бұрын
To those of you who are saying you feel like you know R & Chey better and don’t know much about Shanan is because you’ve seen them share their life on live television and on Snapchat. I understand wanting to get to know her better, but I feel like she’s shared so much on this podcast for you all to see her amazing personality. She has also shared facts/experiences about her life/situation. I honestly feel like maybe you guys would want see her do what Chey & R are doing (snap/ letting y’all see more into her personal life), which Shanan isn’t obligated to do. She already gives us so much on this podcast.❤️
@mamaA62 күн бұрын
This 👏🏽🙌🏽
@NasheFan-wx1qw2 күн бұрын
It honestly frustrates me seeing people comment “we don’t know shanan.” Like huh? 😂 No that’s not true.
@mamaA62 күн бұрын
@@NasheFan-wx1qw same!!! I couldn’t stand for the comments last episode and this one. And like you said Shannan has shared SO much with us! Maybe they needs to pay more attention or something 😂😂🤭
@NasheFan-wx1qw3 күн бұрын
I love y’all, but even before Remy came on…y’all always had trouble with cutting each other off (can be annoying as a listener, please fix it. I say this with love.❤️😭) Also it would be better to have the podcast be longer, now that we’ve got 4 people. I don’t know why it felt like everyone was just taking turns sharing like an interview style, instead of just a conversation between friends??? Idk something didn’t flow.
@NasheFan-wx1qw3 күн бұрын
Congrats Remy!!! I do love the follow up questions that you ask after the girls share their experiences/thoughts.
@saudz42993 күн бұрын
Yall are spicy in the comments today 😮
@mamaA62 күн бұрын
Agreed!
@DAVISFAMILY16 сағат бұрын
They sure are lol!
@unapologeticallyromel70963 күн бұрын
Please add Remy as the 4th host
@unapologeticallyromel70963 күн бұрын
Love your channel ❤
@michellemorales88133 күн бұрын
Remy is a great addition. This was a great conversation. It was interesting to hear how different we all are but at the same time experience some of the same things!
@niawilson54283 күн бұрын
So is Remy staying? Cause I don’t think she’s really the addition the podcast needed. The three of you should just focus on improving and maybe implementing more segments and preparing some outline. It can feel chaotic with so many voices and it feels like no one is really getting to speak fully.
@pinkloading3 күн бұрын
lol I hope they address what we’re saying on the next episode…
@KBMac-tu2mg3 күн бұрын
Zach doesn’t really work though
@lifewithashe41813 күн бұрын
Congratulations Remy❤
@pinkloading3 күн бұрын
So, I don’t understand if you guys read our comments on the last podcast episode? Love Remy but please don’t ask for our opinions if you won’t listen to it or at least address our concerns, or our opinion, etc *:)* Before you record new episodes, if you ask us questions- you should at least address the previous question you asked 🫶🏽
@mamaA63 күн бұрын
Umm respectfully I think this comment is rude. If you don't like the way the pod is going just respectfully don't watch. They don't need to ask us for anything. This is their pod if they want to add 6 more people they can. I think they made it very clear that not every episode is it going to be all of them, some episodes it might be just one of them with a new guest or even just one of them. They added Remy because she has A TON to offer to the pod. If you can't hear and distinguish who is talking maybe watch the KZfaq or maybe really focus on it because I can honestly distinguish who is talking maybe because I'm like a total super fan of ALL of them but... Idk I feel the comments on this episode and the last were not very nice and I'm not liking that. Even the comments about Zach not doing anything I'm not here for it that either! Chey and Zach BOTH equally do a lot. We don't see everything so I think some people kinda needa chill. 🤷🏽♀️
@pinkloading3 күн бұрын
@@mamaA6 this comment isn’t rude whatsoever. They asked for our opinions, and said they would address it in the next episode. This is the next episode, I love the podcast & respect what they’re doing. Huge supporter of Cheyenne & R. My comment compared to the actual rude comments they receive is day & night here. And who are you talking to lol? I never said I couldn’t tell who’s speaking, their voices sound different. I know who is who. Maybe your comment was meant for another person but please don’t try to speak to me like that or address things I didn’t say. I have never said anything about Zach, if Cheyenne and Zach are happy in their relationship. I’m here for that, why would I talk 💩 about a Black couple? Please be for real, girl address who you really wanna address & not me. They asked for our opinions on Remy, and I gave them. I like Remy, I just voiced my opinion & I’m sure they can take *constructive criticism*. I’m not an 🍑 kisser whatsoever, I said what I wanted to say without being rude. You have the day you deserve 😘 *(P.S. the last comment made seem rude but that was directed towards you 🫶🏽)*
@mamaA63 күн бұрын
@@pinkloading all I'm going to say is don't edit your comment after saying something. Also yes you said they needed to address your comment before adding Remy they don't need to do anything. Also I never said you said Zach doesn't do anything I said I don't like the comments about Zach. And again don't edit what you say after someone points something out. Have a great night! Nothing but love on this Pod. ☺️❤️🙏🏽🌃
@pinkloading3 күн бұрын
@@mamaA6 I edited my comments to fix grammar errors. Never to change what I said, I stand on what I said. You’re weird, have a good night boo!! Y’all are strange, I’m not scared of anyone on here enough to change my comment. Lmao weird asf but who are you? I ain’t gotta explain 💩 to you 😭😭😭😭 and if I didn’t say anything about Zach, there was no point in bringing him up babes… Address the people who *ACTUALLY* said something about Zach, not me. Your anger is misplaced & you look dumb
@Milah813 күн бұрын
Kyle why dont you put zaire in daycare atleast 2/3 days a week? Its not alot but it helps!
@keyshaneves19323 күн бұрын
Hey ladies! I’m on my walk looking crazy dying laughing by myself at the “meet and greet” part 🤣🤣🤣 I immediately thought of Chris Brown’s meet and greet pictures so I lost it when Chey said she pictured the little table 😭 btw SHANEN ! I l got so excited when you hinted that you’re still seeing someone 😅 I don’t think you NEED a husband but you’re just so sweet and deserve the world!
@pinkloading3 күн бұрын
So, you guys aren’t listening to our opinion on Remy being a new addition or maybe it’s addressed later in the episode?
@theeusual56833 күн бұрын
Totally related to R and being a martyr mum! I poured always into “for my child” no thought or thing was for just me. So much so I got to a point where my soul purpose was being mum. I am finally slowly starting to pour into finding and creating a space outside mum because I am not just mum! Love this topic x
@MsCailan3 күн бұрын
I like having Remy on but worry about Shannon having space to share her insight/thoughts with adding another person on the podcast.
@pinkloading3 күн бұрын
Exactly, we don’t know Shannan as much as we know Cheyenne & R
@NasheFan-wx1qw3 күн бұрын
That’s why it’s best to have her replace when one of them isn’t on.
@keyonaadoraa.54533 күн бұрын
Remy was a nice addition
@Milah813 күн бұрын
I like when its just you 3 (remy is cool too)😩 other guests dont be as appealing.. maybe its the genres idk
@valariehithe83713 күн бұрын
I need the list
@zoiealyse20093 күн бұрын
Cheyenne I think is doing an incredible job. As the one who’s working and has a job in the marriage I think that you shouldn’t feel like you have to clean as much as Zach bc he has the time to. You’re supporting your family’s lifestyle that requires work so I would give yourself grace there
@stacyscott96003 күн бұрын
YEhhhhh REMY~~~
@bethanyware47993 күн бұрын
the best thing I did with my second was to have a stock the freezer sprinkle. People brought frozen meals to stock our freezer with everything from frozen lasagna to breakfast sandwiches and desserts. So when baby came we had easy meals for at least a month.
@mamaA63 күн бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS REMY!!!!!!!! 🥳👏🏽❤️🥹
@mamaA63 күн бұрын
Im loving this title 😁 AND REMY!!!!!! Yessss 👑👑👑👑😁
@sephorab624 күн бұрын
Remy is the perfect co-host. You guys are all different in many ways and she doesn’t take away from the podcast because she’s a mother also so I think this might be perfect. Even if you do a test run to see how we like the videos and the content, but at the end of the day, I’m all for Remy becoming a co host .❤❤❤
@aal78985 күн бұрын
I think Remy would be a good fit! I love hearing from you ladies.
@lifewithashe41815 күн бұрын
I'm a single mom and it's not not for the weak and my daughter is 18 years
@lifewithashe41815 күн бұрын
Yes add Remy to the Podcast 💃💃💃❤️❤️❤️❤️🤞
@dianaevans16506 күн бұрын
I think it’s an awesome idea to have Remy on the podcast
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
Oh man. This episode is deep. Thank you Danielle for sharing your stories because your strength is amazing. Thanks for showing vulnerability.
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
My heart breaks for Danielle. I am so sorry but please know that God has something better in store for you. Sending a virtual hug because can tell this was hard for you. It took so much strength for you to walk away knowing that you had a community wanting you to work. I need you to know that it’s okay and you did not let anyone down. You rescued yourself and for that I hope you can take solace in that.
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
Hold on don’t do the whole Midwest based off Indiana. We got Chicago which is such an amazing city with a beautiful downtown. A little biased but still. A lot of us Chicagoans don’t mess with Indiana because they are far right in a lot of places.
@KBMac-tu2mg6 күн бұрын
I think remy would be good . As she’s the only one of them married to their child’s father and can maybe shed more light for women who want to remain married and be married to their child’s partner .
@KBMac-tu2mg6 күн бұрын
I vote for your dad
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
Man… my brain cannot be silent. I am always thinking of the next task. My daughter will be talking to me and I’m answering her in my head instead of out loud because I spend so much time in my head. Working on doing better but it’s a lot!
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
I love this conversation because I am the second oldest of technically 7 but 6 that lived in one household and I am so used to handling things because it was me and my older sister who had to hold things down… and we still do. This topic of relinquishing control is so powerful because so many of us black women struggle with it because we carry the weight of the world on our shoulders.
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
I get the spirit of what you’re saying R but for us introverted people, we cannot easily create our own villages. I used to do all sorts of activities with my daughter hoping to make some mom friends but I just sit there not making friends 😅. Considering moving back home because I need my village.
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
Agree Cheyenne… so much fighting between moms. All that matters is that the baby was born and the baby is fed. We have to start supporting each other and stop criticizing. I did not breastfeed because it was too hard after my c-section. I tried to pump for a while but my OB was like “unless this is important to you, stop forcing yourself” and I do not have perky boobs either and my daughter was on formula. I attempted to breast feed for 6 weeks lol. So I think it’s just that lady’s genetics.
@essencepierce2736 күн бұрын
I love that they are getting so much leave! Yes to companies giving paternity leave!