When Did The Narcissist Replace You?

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7 ай бұрын

If you're a woman feeling trapped in a toxic relationship and looking for freedom, you've come to the right place. With over 3000+ clients, I've integrated everything I've learned into a comprehensive program designed to help you reclaim your freedom. My goal is to guide you to break free without confronting or trying to fix him. Together, let's rediscover YOU and cultivate your confidence and clarity. To take the next step in your healing journey with me, visit www.rawmotivations.com/breakt...
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@hestercastlemansa2976 7 ай бұрын

Spot on. 7 years ago I was the fool who rescued the poor, misunderstood man from a cold, heartless witch. And now history is repeating itself for the 5th time with one clear, common denominator - the covert narcissist. Poor soul that fell for his sorry story this time around.

@sarahannelowe6557 7 ай бұрын

Yes, he moved on while I was away visiting family. Also has his rotation…

@mightymom1691 7 ай бұрын

Same with mine. Moved on while I was away .

@satcav4173 4 ай бұрын

Word for word, this was the end of my relationship.

@AUDIS477 7 ай бұрын

He did this EXACT THING TO ME… he used transition supply(friends/brothers)…. I knew this was what he was doing before i knew the name to call it.

@BlackHawk500 7 ай бұрын

I was the one he married and he had 3 other women on the side . yes 3 at the same time. The ones I know about but I am sure it was happening my whole marriage. I exposed him to the other women and saved two. 1 remains as she is stuck and believes what I believed for 25 years. The fake person who is charming and pretends he cares. A liar everyday. .

@PassionateFlower 7 ай бұрын

So many of these scam artists and scoundrels prowl the earth. They are born to abusers they idolize then they con their way through life until the day they die with zero remorse and sometimes plenty of flying monkeys balling their eyes out at their funerals. The whole thing is pathetic and disgusting. Sorry you got caught in an abusers web for so long. Now you are free.

@fooled_twice4668 7 ай бұрын

My ex husband used to always exclaim how lucky he was to have me, how pretty and amazing i was such that he would “never need to stray “ -- so when i found out about all the affairs, i couldn’t believe how easily he could lie- all the time. He prob cheated on me on our wedding night- given that he refused sex that night- to control and punish me! I’m so lucky he is out of my life now- and his ashes are in my dining room (cuz the kids…)

@PinkiePi 7 ай бұрын

I hate how often I put a new piece of the puzzle together with each new content I watch. Not surprised anymore and have again re-confirmed what she is. Thanks for what you do.

@lindsay3793 7 ай бұрын

They are only interested in an emotionally void succession of honeymoon phases.

@PassionateFlower 7 ай бұрын

No they love discard phase more than honeymoon phase they get off on breaking people's hearts it's a point of pride for them like a badge of honor.

@prov35-63 7 ай бұрын

@lindsay3793 YES!!! Sex addicts who get bored and move on to the next victim.

@fooled_twice4668 7 ай бұрын

Isn’t it crazy we still think about their bs! It’s been almost 2 years since i first saw him but the relationship really hooked me good!

@lindsay3793 7 ай бұрын

@@fooled_twice4668 Yes, it is such a mindfxck. He had horrific rage issues and was mean AF to me, said the worst things while discarding me... I treated him like a king... And here I am still missing him. He had so many amazing qualities, but treating me with respect was not one of them. I still love him but you can't make someone love you back.

@caroleminke6116 7 ай бұрын

I was the woman after the wife who got replaced before his divorce by a younger woman 😮 but he got caught online & before he could consummate his last affair 😢 we all dumped him so he’s alone now 😊 the final email he forwarded was from a sex worker @ 72 😂

@ReRe_642 7 ай бұрын

Girl you were not the only one after the wife.. you were games like the wife.

@Dicki793 7 ай бұрын

I knew before I left

@albertinazaggi394 7 ай бұрын

They all go by a manual /instructive/book. 😮

@user-uz7rq9nr1p 7 ай бұрын

You literally described exactly what just happened to me. Blindsided with a separation after 17 years of marriage, then she instantly has a relationship with a guy who was just her "friend" before. She was grooming him for months... And I'm off the hook! Thank you, new supply. You literally saved my life. My ex is very sexy and the new guy has no chance....

@ladyvirgo9514 Ай бұрын

My soon ex blindsided me as well, 12 years and BOOM 💥 off to his coworker

@nancymathew471 7 ай бұрын

I escaped from them when they were trying to idealize mee..I could feel there was something wrong with him at that point then he could smell that i was not on his track... Giving a silent treatment he moved on to my friend..i was just normal and didn't react

@Takezo.D.Shinmen 7 ай бұрын

The reverse discard started around January this year, I broke up with her beginning of February, she got engaged two weeks after that and married in March. For months I believed her version of the story that she didn't know that other person when we were together. Thank you for this video, it's painful but eye opening. Now she's trying to monkey branch back.

@teesahurt2074 7 ай бұрын

Yes.. I did experience the trip thing.,. But I just booked my own trip with a few friends and kept it moving. 1monkey don’t stop no show. But it was brutal from him ..

@katherinemccoy5376 7 ай бұрын

About 15 months ago my narc ex met a couple. At first he kept me out of the friendship he was forming with them. Eventually he introduced me to them but I noticed he would call her and only her. I thought it was strange at the time but after listening to this video, I'm wondering if he was grooming her for future supply. After getting to know both of them, their marriage is solid, so he doesn't have a chance but I can still see how he uses them.

@venelinailieva6959 7 ай бұрын

That's so right to the point and reflects reality so much. Every silent treatment and going off for days or weeks pays exactly into replacing. Great video and job! Though so unpleasant to hear for all the people being tricked! Keep up the good work and educating us! Such a big help in the confusion after what happened to every victim!

@fooled_twice4668 7 ай бұрын

yep- i had never had a silent treatment until this creep! the third one, i made it final. can't believe i took him back after the first one! looking back, those treatments allowed constant time with the prior girlfriend, who i thought he broke up with. all the devalue-ing he was able to squeeze in, and get me to take (and assume responsibility for!) makes me search for healing even to this day. but i'm getting there.

@DNCT 7 ай бұрын

But what causes them to start looking for a replacement? Did we just randomly become boring because they “had us” already? Is it because we finally stood up to them and made them be accountable? Thanks for any insight

@amiravdic7451 7 ай бұрын

Probably got molested n neglected as babies so have a never ending need for validation of the opposite sex n sex addiction due to being molested

@user-ci7jf3uy7r 7 ай бұрын

The problem is them not you

@NotYourOrdinaryDogWalker 7 ай бұрын

They are insatiable. They juggle many sources of supply.

@teesahurt2074 7 ай бұрын

Saying no , disagreeing with what they said. Not doing what they told you to do… discard is on the way….

@user-uz7rq9nr1p 7 ай бұрын

She replaced me after I stood up to her. The new supply is a hollow wounded pushover, who will comply and is blind to her games.... He's totally fucked

@ladyvirgo9514 Ай бұрын

Off to his coworker while still married, I know when he replaced me, The day she started working there. At this point( more than 13 months in the divorce process) i have to thank the 🗑 trash for taking itself out. (Both of them because she also knew he is married). Im NOT replaceable because i WAS a great wife. Oh yes, he blindsided me and found pleasure in it

@firebird3639 7 ай бұрын

Yup he started with how his ex of 4 years cheated on him in the house they lived in five months ago. Now im thinking did she cheat at all.

@fooled_twice4668 7 ай бұрын

My ex bf strung me along for 5 months then showed up with flowers on Valentine’s Day. Classic scenario- now that i know what he is. Total covert, whined about trying to leave his current girlfriend at the time…. He prob never really left her. He’s a creep

@Proposal12 7 ай бұрын

Will the narc start arguments with you like clockwork (to push you away) if they have someone else or is that not the case that they have someone else, but just toxic?!...

@PassionateFlower 7 ай бұрын

One never knows for sure but often times yes they start arguments to break up with you to feel vindicated to make it official with the "friend" or ex they have been grooming as your replacement for months.

@Proposal12 7 ай бұрын

@@PassionateFlower Even if they were traumatized by you? ...In general how traumatized can someone actually be seeing someone die? And yes, I still think she has a lot of narc traits...

@BlackHawk500 7 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@RawMotivations 7 ай бұрын

Welcome!

@amiravdic7451 7 ай бұрын

So based on all this how do narcs end up? Homeless? Killed? Idk 🤷‍♂️ anyone ..?

@RawMotivations 7 ай бұрын

Alone

@jamesmartinez7220 7 ай бұрын

Alone or they acquire a poor soul that’s ignorant to their ways or simply doesn’t care. At some point one would think the narcissist would run out of the energy required to secure supply. I don’t know. But, I believe this is true; As the clock slowly ticks they begin to realize what they are, God shows them what they are, and gives them an opportunity for salvation. If they decline…then they will have exacted their last measure of control and will go to the place reserved for souls such as theirs. 🔥

@mosalina1 6 ай бұрын

So my ex didn’t get with his replacement until a few months after he left her. He didn’t even know her when we were married. So did he probably have someone else before her?