Aw. I love how Ben said it that Lennon is like a sponge he is absorbing whatever energy you guys are both giving so you have to be your best self! I need to take that advice in for myself as a parent. ❤️🙄
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
It's so true! Children can feel it all.
@Rundiamir2 жыл бұрын
So difficult with toddler going through difficult emotions
@katelynncasey53712 жыл бұрын
@@Rundiamir seriously so incredibly hard!
@blank15052 жыл бұрын
Y’all… you two are GEMS. I loved what you said about a relationship not having to be 50/50 all the time. A relationship truly is about having each other’s backs, you’re 100% right. Allowing each other to feel what we need to feel and so on. I admire you both as individuals and as a romantic couple. You two compliment each other so well. What a true, true blessing. 🤍 And Jenn, I just want to say, I am proud of you. You are thriving. Blessings to Ben as well. Again, both are 💎’s.
@blank15052 жыл бұрын
P.S. the dentist appointment🤣 I was literally booking a doctor’s appointment for my partner before watching this video.
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Yes! It's about the bigger picture! x
@candykitty12 жыл бұрын
I agree it doesn't have to be 50/50 but at times, some partner would take it for granted and don't reciprocate... So it's like one is doing everything themselves...
@blank15052 жыл бұрын
@@candykitty1 yeah, I definitely feel that. What do you think is the answer to that?
@valerietan16912 жыл бұрын
I wish so badly that you two have a podcast! Can just listen to you talking all day! Love all your thoughts and advices 💙
@ralucaprepelita84282 жыл бұрын
Let's all manifest this! 🙏🙏
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks Valerie! Just going to stick with YT for now. Hahah!
@a.p67562 жыл бұрын
@@imjennim or maybe you could do one (shorter) video per month that would be low quality/not so worked through where you would share some of your thoughts/current topics/opinions. it would be like a podcast but very low key and chill without the pressure of you making a podcast or perfect video. just Jenn doing her daily tasks or routines while pouring her knowledge onto us 😌
@iPodMusician2 жыл бұрын
Jenn, your honesty has made me so much less scared about being a PCOS person with horrid doubtful anxiety who is considering being a mom. Thank you seems so small but honestly thank you for being so raw and honest through everything, you've helped me so much and i know so many others...all the love to the three of you
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Ahh, I'm glad I can make you feel that way. Tbh, having a supportive partner has been a huge part of transitioning into a parent. Sending you my love! x
@mikepiccolo322 жыл бұрын
@@imjennim I have a cat and no cash
@JackyWacky12 жыл бұрын
She has pcos? I had no idea - when did she say so?
@stinasketch2 жыл бұрын
I really love how you guys analyze and break down the way you guys communicate.
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you! It's what years of couples therapy has done! LOL!
@SilverstreamPJ282 жыл бұрын
I totally understand how you said that during the pandemic your anxiety diminished because of less social situations. I truly did not suffer because of lockdown lol. Of course there were lots of struggles with seeing so many people sick, my government being so negligent and whatnot, but in terms of my personal comfort, I was much happier working from home and being by myself.
@_dearolive2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you! I was able to focus more on my mental and physical health when I was working from home. ✨
@jenniferbielat2 жыл бұрын
You both are such a wonderful example of a healthy relationship! Especially since you both keep it real, acknowledge bad days, try to communicate, and make small thoughtful gestures to each other. Its both realistic and inspiring! Thank you for sharing this with us, always rooting for y'all
@nvarj.10883 ай бұрын
So sad about your divorce. Wish you both happy lives ❤
@Aimlesslytash2 жыл бұрын
I love that you two are open about the work that goes into having an honest/healthy relationship. What you both said about what you say vs what the other person feels in terms of tone hit me super hard because I never knew how to describe that feeling. I am an emotional person and when I would say things like “it’s the way you said it” people would say I was being sensitive for no reason. I am single with no children but I love when you both do these videos because not only do I learn about you but I also learn things about myself . Best you and the fam ❤️❤️
@aznfangrl6122 жыл бұрын
Honestly ive just hit the 6 month mark of marriage with my husband whom Ive been with for 10 years (since HS) & these are all so true & comforting to listen to. The dynamic oddly still changes once married & u have shared priorities.
@nourishedbydorothy2 жыл бұрын
the energy, vibes, words you speak are so eloquent and motivating. I love it when you two get together and speak so much. can’t wait for the podcast if you guys ever pursue that!!
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🤍
@_dearolive2 жыл бұрын
She’s the definition of eloquent!
@kemmilove14272 жыл бұрын
Damn the child is going to be so emotionally available
@carolchen23202 жыл бұрын
Hahahah so true
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha let's hope all our efforts pay off! 😂
@barron7972 ай бұрын
Wow, they seemed to have it together with excellent communication skills and genuine love for one another. I wonder what the heck happened that they had to call it quits?
@itsdaksha28 күн бұрын
Modern couples these days will divorce for minor inconvenience rather than trying to compromise lol
@guidinghandreadings22 күн бұрын
I thought this too! Maybe they just fell out of love (the romantic type of love), which is sad because they seem like such a great team! But at least they're equipped to still have a good relationship together :)
@epicbosss2 жыл бұрын
I always love to see and admire how you guys listen so intently and actively to each other. I’ve been working on it and it’s so nice to see you guys try to be your healthiest selves.
@kaysonekeopine85272 жыл бұрын
My heart is exploding just watching you two bask in one another’s love and energy. Thank you so much for sharing, Jen! Biggest takeaway for me : It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it 👏👏
@sheilao21272 жыл бұрын
no because I literally teared up when I saw the turn down service pic. SO thoughtful , I hope to meet a husband who cares for me the way you both care for each other
@fallencosmoss2 жыл бұрын
Y'all have been doing amazing
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Lynn! x
@winnieobunabor2 жыл бұрын
i loved this video so much. I love how you finish eachother's sentences, its super cute. I look up to you Jenn and i really love your videos so much. and the Dentist appointment... hahaha, love that
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Hhahaha, our love language is to make aopointments! x
@Swalalalyssa28 күн бұрын
Who’s here now that they’re going through a divorce. However they are co-parenting so fabulously, her new video of how they are showing up for their son is so amazing.
@anairaham2 жыл бұрын
My bf and I have been having little fights more recently and watching this just makes me realize how I can be a better gf, communicate better and be more understanding towards him. So thank you ❤️ Update: he broke up with me because we argued so much 😭 Update again: we got back together after a little over a month of the breakup 😂
@candykitty12 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear girl 😔 Sometimes it's hard when it's one sided trying to fix things and the other party isn't making much effort...
@YesJellyfish Жыл бұрын
I'm invested 😭 are you still together?
@anairaham Жыл бұрын
@@YesJellyfish LOL UPDATE AGAIN. He broke up with me 3 months after we got back together. We’ve been broken up since last august. He’s with someone else now. And now I’m casually dating someone else
@khushijakhar62642 жыл бұрын
Aw so sweet. I am typically the type of person who is scared of relationships but u guys r my ideal version and then I think about having someone with whom I can share my life.
@bimsdawns2 жыл бұрын
I can feel the genuine sincerity of how much appreciation Jenn has for Ben at 14:40! Lol that little sigh says it all! Wishing you two lots of love 🥰🥰
@sambhavinaik16482 жыл бұрын
Every year they do this q and a and it is so nice to see that they have grown so much 🖤the only thing that remains constant is that- their gaze at the each other while he/she is talking 🖤🖤🖤🖤
@shantellelee76842 жыл бұрын
Having a child is so much work but there’s nothing that compares to reliving the magic of everything by experiencing it with them!
@MissGermany19982 жыл бұрын
I love just the pure love that radiates from these two. They are both so sweet and genuine people and seem to have such a strong relationship.
@sdl4442 жыл бұрын
Just want to say that I love you, Sophia and Weylie. I’ve watched y’all three separately before y’all three became close friends, and I just love the friendship between you guys. Such wise, young women on different but similar journeys.
@Aibok2 жыл бұрын
Both of you are so articulate, and ofc lovely. But Ben also speaks with such a thorough thought behind every sentence he says. It always amazes me!:) Also, this level of understanding and communication between partners are super rare. So inspiring
@fengyaxin82592 жыл бұрын
Do you guys notice the way ben look at Jenn gosh he loves her so deeply and when jenn is endorsing betterhelp he could subconsciously recite some of the words in the script i love those two thank you Jenn for letting me beleive in true love a lot of appretiation
@eshaldave51712 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I am not one to comment, however I am so compelled to send you both major appreciation! Your videos are like therapy, it makes me want to become a better version of myself even though what you are talking about is no where related to what I am doing in life. Sending warm hugs!
@rosyrosebudhome96092 жыл бұрын
You two are so lovely! I really resonate with taking time to appreciate the little things. Like everyone else, my life gets pretty hectic and busy but my partner and I make time for the little things to show each other we care. Perfect example for me: Gordon always puts the Aircon on in the bedroom before I go to bed, so the room is nice and cool when I go in and I can sleep well ❤️ Little things that show he's thinking of me 🥰
@victoriaruiz46722 жыл бұрын
you guys make me want to have a family, you have shown me its not as scary as people made it out to be I have learn a lot from the two of you
@catthecritic2 жыл бұрын
This was super insightful especially because I've been struggling internally on how I feel about having kids! Love the idea of seeing the world through a newborn's eyes and how it can be refreshed for adults!
@laiaburgos69462 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing that we’ve been able to see you both grow so much in this season of life being parents to Lennon. And you both light up talking about him 🥺❤️
@michaela90262 жыл бұрын
Why am I cracking up at your two-handed heart with Ben in the beginning being a circle? 😂 Love you two.
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Hahahah it's a terrible shape!
@Lilyo19962 жыл бұрын
I loveeee how you both listen; really listen so intently to what the other is saying! you can really see the love and admiration you have for eachother - so beautiful x
@Mymakermovie772 жыл бұрын
You two are so lovely to listen to! Continuously growing and helping each other out where and when you can ❤️
@itsjocex332 жыл бұрын
aww Jenn you look SOOOOOO happy and loved when you were talking about the turn down service. gosh you two really understand each other so well. i strive for this in my relationship!
@tenzin7012 жыл бұрын
i love and appreciate you sharing your journey of motherhood with us :)
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Of course! Thank YOU for tuning in!
@dionneraynertravel49322 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video. I find this genre is full of the heavy negatives of having a child, and you have given an honest but optimistic look on parenthood and has given me lots of hope.
@annesmith35022 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy all the deep talks you two delivered to the world. The vibe and the words the tones are so on point. Love you guys.
@jesusiskingofmyheart2 жыл бұрын
Love when you guys do these q&a videos together. 🥰❤️ Beautiful couple & family. 🙌🏼
@vickylogic2 жыл бұрын
I think its amazing how you guys have such an open and communicative relationship! 💕
@ohmywhatagoodbuy2 жыл бұрын
Watching this while pumping. Love to see a positive, but realistic relationship on here. My husband is also named Ben, and I am also the planner. When I saw the notification pop up for your Ben’s dentist appointment, I thought for a second it was for my husband. My comment is not cohesive at all, but tired mom brain just wanted to let you know just how happy I am to see you with your forever.
@kylieaka87552 жыл бұрын
OMG I like the way you have a very CREATIVE lifestyle though out your day, Also you are a POSITIVE mom full of kindness and positive ness around you, and I really want to say that THANKYOU so much for always working hard for us❤️
@pr3ttygirlt332 жыл бұрын
i love the fact that one looks at the other when the other is speaking, it's so beautiful.
@rose_ammons2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing video y’all. Thank you for taking the time to film this! I so so appreciate hearing both of your sides and Input and where y’all are both coming from! So full of incite. Much love to you three!
@bluejay2867 Жыл бұрын
You can tell how much they respect one another. Both of them are great listeners and they're both great with communicating their thoughts and emotions.
@sk8terpurple32 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love the transparency and communication that you share as a team. My boyfriend and I have both been into enneagrams and personality types as it helps us both understand our individual selves and each other! All love to you guys and the little one! ❤️
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Yesss! I love that you guys use the Enneagram as your North Star. It really helps us understand one another. x
@chipppyyy8922 жыл бұрын
As always, thank you so being so informative, realistic, and uplifting! Makes me less worried to be a parent one day. Seeing how you can ben support each other and divide up the work is GOALS. Also LOL @ ben getting a workout from running around entertaining Len
@TheIsabellV2 жыл бұрын
I relate to Jenn so much, I’m a Virgo too. Of course that doesn’t matter tho but there’s a lot of similarities. I also give/do practical gifts and gestures to my boyfriend. Booking a dentist appointment is great or giving him a facial, buying him better pillows etc. It sounds funny but I enjoy giving practical gifts too!
@afoodiefeasts2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you guys. Thank you for always being open about your journey and struggles and just the reality of your lives. I’ve been watching your videos since 2010 and I cannot tell you how much I’ve loved to seeing you grow and adapt to your different life stages and how you’ve only became MORE inspiring as time went on. Wishing you, Ben and Lennon only the best, always. 💗
@GraceSy2 жыл бұрын
Ben's 'money' Korean heart 🤣🤣
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Hahahha! It does look like the money signal!
@taniyaghosh94522 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD JENN AND BEN ARE BACK WITH THEIR ANNUAL Q AND A VIDEO!!!! We love you 💜 Lots of love
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
We're baaaaack!
@marziamode37272 жыл бұрын
Jenn, I Love Your Videos sooo much!!! No matter what emotional state I am in, when I watch one of your videos I am smiling, I am calm, I am so peaceful and relaxed. You guys are such a breath of fresh air. I love your perspective on life and your own introspection. Your effort and love shows, and you are so honest and real. I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate you and your work!! ❤
@withJocelyn2 жыл бұрын
I love your love. SO sweet. Thank you for sharing your growth and journey as individuals and as a collective. 🌻
@aiden2325Ай бұрын
Did not see their breakup coming - I loved seeing them together 😢
@grishmagurung322729 күн бұрын
well, I guess betterhelp didn't help them so much now
@DuckieM2 жыл бұрын
another beautiful video. You and Ben are just couples / relationship goals.
@nurulamalina4884 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I'm doing parenting whilst my fav youtuber does it too!! My daughter's 18 months now... and i absolutely ❤️ the differences that's she's showing.. how much she's growing, and without me realising, me as well, growing as a parent. Sending love from one parent to another 💕
@foopypoopy89022 жыл бұрын
this give me a hope for marriage 😂 you two are so adorable 🥺
@taralaurensia20652 жыл бұрын
aww love this kind of positivity. love all your advice. Stay healthy Jenn , Ben and baby L
@legeardjulie87192 жыл бұрын
always so inspiring how you learn to be a parent and be a better version of yourself like you two I try to become little by little more confident and serene
@sanghamitrapatro84902 жыл бұрын
Love the way, you guys are looking at each other while the other is speaking..goals❤
@blahblah14292 жыл бұрын
I will be moving in with my boyfriend this coming up month and the way you both gave a few examples of how you communicate and show appreciation for one another has really got me thinking in a different light and perspective on how to approach this new chapter of my life and relationship! Super excited and thank you like always, for sharing! ❤️ Also, starting therapy for my anxiety this March too :’D!
@EveLovelle2 жыл бұрын
I like how you said to pick your social groups, quality over quantity, Over the course of the pandemic, you dont realise how much relationship improvements you had between you and your soul self. How to learn to assess yourself more, how to communicate with yourself more, enjoying every piece of existence.
@poyobink2 жыл бұрын
jenn, thank you so much for sharing how the pandemic has worsened your social anxiety. I'm in the exact same boat, and I thought I was just being overdramatic. it's gotten to the point where I feel like crying at just the thought of going out for like 5 minutes to order takeout. none of the people in my circle have told me they felt this way to the same degree as I am, so I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only person who has completely changed from it. much love to you and your family
@georgiaelliott162 жыл бұрын
you're both glowing!!!! absolutely loved this, thank you for sharing these insights and wisdom!!
@user-rb8co1xc6t2 жыл бұрын
Jenn thank you so much I wish you realize how much awesome positive influence you are giving all of us:)
@DestinationXX32 жыл бұрын
Love these relationship videos! Keep up the great work!!
@amandabulmer79712 жыл бұрын
Ben's anecdote about feelers vs. thinkers was great! I've never been able to put it in words, but it's so true. "Feelers" are feeling how the other person said something.
@laylabug392 жыл бұрын
I agree not everything is 50/50. Polarity in a relationship is key!
@fatimarahman30912 жыл бұрын
the way you both look at each other makes ME emotional 🥺❤
@rainepanda2 жыл бұрын
Learning that a marriage and family management is not about equality but EQUITY was so important to my marriage. being able to shift responsibility and baring the mental or emotional load when your partner needs some relief is so fundamental to creating really healthy roots for your family. You know that you can rely on each other no matter what the circumstances are.
@nina_park2 жыл бұрын
“Isn’t that just money?” 😂😂😂
@LoBarton2 жыл бұрын
Aww my fiancé does the “turn down service” for me as well. It always makes me feel so loved 🥰
@LEXIxGOTxSWAG2 жыл бұрын
Their videos together are so welcoming. I feel like I’m sitting in their living room listening to them talk 😂
@eblena78652 жыл бұрын
I love your annual Q&A ♥️ sending love to you both
@imjennim2 жыл бұрын
Yay! Glad you love! x
@reneemou36722 жыл бұрын
Aww your relationship is so inspiring! Thanks for sharing! xx
@sonamrayray98732 жыл бұрын
I have immense love for both of you and seeing you guys becoming parents is incredible 🥰♥️
@jameschandler_2 жыл бұрын
Love these kind of videos. Thanks for making em Jenn!
@mancy01312 жыл бұрын
I love the way Jenn editing the videos😆so cute💕
@ZeeKansiime2 жыл бұрын
This was so beautiful to watch. ❤
@melissaysitall77032 жыл бұрын
Love the Enneagram test!! I’m type 2 (sometimes type 7 lol) and my husband is type 6 aka we say I help us to live and he helps us not to die 🤣. You need both 🥰. 5 months in and even though marriage can be hard at times I love it!!
@Amda44362 жыл бұрын
This is very inspiring :) They are so in tune, I love it :)
@coffeerain49332 жыл бұрын
i hope that i find that kind of relationship. love u both jenn and ben!
@MidnightMelodie2 жыл бұрын
You two make me believe in love 💗
@JuJu-5082 жыл бұрын
Looking at your parenting journey gave me a lot of perception 🥰
@thandekambhamali60742 жыл бұрын
The way Ben looks at Jenn 😍 is priceless. Whaaaw 😊
@oliviaconstantino67432 жыл бұрын
So cute! I hope you start posting what i eat in a day! Love those videos
@rashmiverma45972 жыл бұрын
I am an Enneagram type 6. I just saw a video that stated - under stress, I become a type 3 and when I’m calm, I become a type 9. So, y’all are just two extremes of my personality! Might as well adopt me as Lenny’s big sis 😂
@elsaakon4023 Жыл бұрын
Thanks you for sharing, your relationship is so healthy !
@nl.17082 ай бұрын
Oof
@emmyseamanes2 жыл бұрын
I love you both… your energy you radiate and your honesty. Thanks for beating a great examples for couples out there ❤️
@lili_imnida2 жыл бұрын
영상 쭉 보고 왔어요😁 진짜 대단하신 분ㅎㅎ
@sr26482 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the sharing. These are such useful tips since we are going to be new parents. 🥰
@jennysong992 жыл бұрын
You two are my role models!!
@jeremysmith96942 жыл бұрын
You two look so happy with each other. That's cool.
@Jackiekha19772 жыл бұрын
I feel like you guys are that cool couple that everyone wants to hang out with 😎
@friedfishh2 жыл бұрын
I love it when you guys do Q&As. I always learn so much and it makes me feel less terrified to grow up :)