Aw. I love how Ben said it that Lennon is like a sponge he is absorbing whatever energy you guys are both giving so you have to be your best self! I need to take that advice in for myself as a parent. ❤️🙄

Y’all… you two are GEMS. I loved what you said about a relationship not having to be 50/50 all the time. A relationship truly is about having each other’s backs, you’re 100% right. Allowing each other to feel what we need to feel and so on. I admire you both as individuals and as a romantic couple. You two compliment each other so well. What a true, true blessing. 🤍 And Jenn, I just want to say, I am proud of you. You are thriving. Blessings to Ben as well. Again, both are 💎’s.

I wish so badly that you two have a podcast! Can just listen to you talking all day! Love all your thoughts and advices 💙

Jenn, your honesty has made me so much less scared about being a PCOS person with horrid doubtful anxiety who is considering being a mom. Thank you seems so small but honestly thank you for being so raw and honest through everything, you've helped me so much and i know so many others...all the love to the three of you

I really love how you guys analyze and break down the way you guys communicate.

I totally understand how you said that during the pandemic your anxiety diminished because of less social situations. I truly did not suffer because of lockdown lol. Of course there were lots of struggles with seeing so many people sick, my government being so negligent and whatnot, but in terms of my personal comfort, I was much happier working from home and being by myself.

You both are such a wonderful example of a healthy relationship! Especially since you both keep it real, acknowledge bad days, try to communicate, and make small thoughtful gestures to each other. Its both realistic and inspiring! Thank you for sharing this with us, always rooting for y'all

So sad about your divorce. Wish you both happy lives ❤

I love that you two are open about the work that goes into having an honest/healthy relationship. What you both said about what you say vs what the other person feels in terms of tone hit me super hard because I never knew how to describe that feeling. I am an emotional person and when I would say things like “it’s the way you said it” people would say I was being sensitive for no reason. I am single with no children but I love when you both do these videos because not only do I learn about you but I also learn things about myself . Best you and the fam ❤️❤️

Honestly ive just hit the 6 month mark of marriage with my husband whom Ive been with for 10 years (since HS) & these are all so true & comforting to listen to. The dynamic oddly still changes once married & u have shared priorities.

the energy, vibes, words you speak are so eloquent and motivating. I love it when you two get together and speak so much. can’t wait for the podcast if you guys ever pursue that!!

Damn the child is going to be so emotionally available

Wow, they seemed to have it together with excellent communication skills and genuine love for one another. I wonder what the heck happened that they had to call it quits?

I always love to see and admire how you guys listen so intently and actively to each other. I’ve been working on it and it’s so nice to see you guys try to be your healthiest selves.

My heart is exploding just watching you two bask in one another’s love and energy. Thank you so much for sharing, Jen! Biggest takeaway for me : It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it 👏👏

no because I literally teared up when I saw the turn down service pic. SO thoughtful , I hope to meet a husband who cares for me the way you both care for each other

Y'all have been doing amazing

i loved this video so much. I love how you finish eachother's sentences, its super cute. I look up to you Jenn and i really love your videos so much. and the Dentist appointment... hahaha, love that

Who’s here now that they’re going through a divorce. However they are co-parenting so fabulously, her new video of how they are showing up for their son is so amazing.

My bf and I have been having little fights more recently and watching this just makes me realize how I can be a better gf, communicate better and be more understanding towards him. So thank you ❤️ Update: he broke up with me because we argued so much 😭 Update again: we got back together after a little over a month of the breakup 😂

Aw so sweet. I am typically the type of person who is scared of relationships but u guys r my ideal version and then I think about having someone with whom I can share my life.

I can feel the genuine sincerity of how much appreciation Jenn has for Ben at 14:40! Lol that little sigh says it all! Wishing you two lots of love 🥰🥰

Every year they do this q and a and it is so nice to see that they have grown so much 🖤the only thing that remains constant is that- their gaze at the each other while he/she is talking 🖤🖤🖤🖤

Having a child is so much work but there’s nothing that compares to reliving the magic of everything by experiencing it with them!

I love just the pure love that radiates from these two. They are both so sweet and genuine people and seem to have such a strong relationship.

Just want to say that I love you, Sophia and Weylie. I’ve watched y’all three separately before y’all three became close friends, and I just love the friendship between you guys. Such wise, young women on different but similar journeys.

Both of you are so articulate, and ofc lovely. But Ben also speaks with such a thorough thought behind every sentence he says. It always amazes me!:) Also, this level of understanding and communication between partners are super rare. So inspiring

Do you guys notice the way ben look at Jenn gosh he loves her so deeply and when jenn is endorsing betterhelp he could subconsciously recite some of the words in the script i love those two thank you Jenn for letting me beleive in true love a lot of appretiation

Honestly, I am not one to comment, however I am so compelled to send you both major appreciation! Your videos are like therapy, it makes me want to become a better version of myself even though what you are talking about is no where related to what I am doing in life. Sending warm hugs!

You two are so lovely! I really resonate with taking time to appreciate the little things. Like everyone else, my life gets pretty hectic and busy but my partner and I make time for the little things to show each other we care. Perfect example for me: Gordon always puts the Aircon on in the bedroom before I go to bed, so the room is nice and cool when I go in and I can sleep well ❤️ Little things that show he's thinking of me 🥰

you guys make me want to have a family, you have shown me its not as scary as people made it out to be I have learn a lot from the two of you

This was super insightful especially because I've been struggling internally on how I feel about having kids! Love the idea of seeing the world through a newborn's eyes and how it can be refreshed for adults!

It’s amazing that we’ve been able to see you both grow so much in this season of life being parents to Lennon. And you both light up talking about him 🥺❤️

Why am I cracking up at your two-handed heart with Ben in the beginning being a circle? 😂 Love you two.

I loveeee how you both listen; really listen so intently to what the other is saying! you can really see the love and admiration you have for eachother - so beautiful x

You two are so lovely to listen to! Continuously growing and helping each other out where and when you can ❤️

aww Jenn you look SOOOOOO happy and loved when you were talking about the turn down service. gosh you two really understand each other so well. i strive for this in my relationship!

i love and appreciate you sharing your journey of motherhood with us :)

thank you for this video. I find this genre is full of the heavy negatives of having a child, and you have given an honest but optimistic look on parenthood and has given me lots of hope.

I really enjoy all the deep talks you two delivered to the world. The vibe and the words the tones are so on point. Love you guys.

Love when you guys do these q&a videos together. 🥰❤️ Beautiful couple & family. 🙌🏼

I think its amazing how you guys have such an open and communicative relationship! 💕

Watching this while pumping. Love to see a positive, but realistic relationship on here. My husband is also named Ben, and I am also the planner. When I saw the notification pop up for your Ben’s dentist appointment, I thought for a second it was for my husband. My comment is not cohesive at all, but tired mom brain just wanted to let you know just how happy I am to see you with your forever.

OMG I like the way you have a very CREATIVE lifestyle though out your day, Also you are a POSITIVE mom full of kindness and positive ness around you, and I really want to say that THANKYOU so much for always working hard for us❤️

i love the fact that one looks at the other when the other is speaking, it's so beautiful.

What an amazing video y’all. Thank you for taking the time to film this! I so so appreciate hearing both of your sides and Input and where y’all are both coming from! So full of incite. Much love to you three!

You can tell how much they respect one another. Both of them are great listeners and they're both great with communicating their thoughts and emotions.

Absolutely love the transparency and communication that you share as a team. My boyfriend and I have both been into enneagrams and personality types as it helps us both understand our individual selves and each other! All love to you guys and the little one! ❤️

As always, thank you so being so informative, realistic, and uplifting! Makes me less worried to be a parent one day. Seeing how you can ben support each other and divide up the work is GOALS. Also LOL @ ben getting a workout from running around entertaining Len

I relate to Jenn so much, I’m a Virgo too. Of course that doesn’t matter tho but there’s a lot of similarities. I also give/do practical gifts and gestures to my boyfriend. Booking a dentist appointment is great or giving him a facial, buying him better pillows etc. It sounds funny but I enjoy giving practical gifts too!

I really appreciate you guys. Thank you for always being open about your journey and struggles and just the reality of your lives. I’ve been watching your videos since 2010 and I cannot tell you how much I’ve loved to seeing you grow and adapt to your different life stages and how you’ve only became MORE inspiring as time went on. Wishing you, Ben and Lennon only the best, always. 💗

Ben's 'money' Korean heart 🤣🤣

OH MY GOD JENN AND BEN ARE BACK WITH THEIR ANNUAL Q AND A VIDEO!!!! We love you 💜 Lots of love

Jenn, I Love Your Videos sooo much!!! No matter what emotional state I am in, when I watch one of your videos I am smiling, I am calm, I am so peaceful and relaxed. You guys are such a breath of fresh air. I love your perspective on life and your own introspection. Your effort and love shows, and you are so honest and real. I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate you and your work!! ❤

I love your love. SO sweet. Thank you for sharing your growth and journey as individuals and as a collective. 🌻

Did not see their breakup coming - I loved seeing them together 😢

another beautiful video. You and Ben are just couples / relationship goals.

I'm so glad I'm doing parenting whilst my fav youtuber does it too!! My daughter's 18 months now... and i absolutely ❤️ the differences that's she's showing.. how much she's growing, and without me realising, me as well, growing as a parent. Sending love from one parent to another 💕

this give me a hope for marriage 😂 you two are so adorable 🥺

aww love this kind of positivity. love all your advice. Stay healthy Jenn , Ben and baby L

always so inspiring how you learn to be a parent and be a better version of yourself like you two I try to become little by little more confident and serene

Love the way, you guys are looking at each other while the other is speaking..goals❤

I will be moving in with my boyfriend this coming up month and the way you both gave a few examples of how you communicate and show appreciation for one another has really got me thinking in a different light and perspective on how to approach this new chapter of my life and relationship! Super excited and thank you like always, for sharing! ❤️ Also, starting therapy for my anxiety this March too :’D!

I like how you said to pick your social groups, quality over quantity, Over the course of the pandemic, you dont realise how much relationship improvements you had between you and your soul self. How to learn to assess yourself more, how to communicate with yourself more, enjoying every piece of existence.

jenn, thank you so much for sharing how the pandemic has worsened your social anxiety. I'm in the exact same boat, and I thought I was just being overdramatic. it's gotten to the point where I feel like crying at just the thought of going out for like 5 minutes to order takeout. none of the people in my circle have told me they felt this way to the same degree as I am, so I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only person who has completely changed from it. much love to you and your family

you're both glowing!!!! absolutely loved this, thank you for sharing these insights and wisdom!!

Jenn thank you so much I wish you realize how much awesome positive influence you are giving all of us:)

Love these relationship videos! Keep up the great work!!

Ben's anecdote about feelers vs. thinkers was great! I've never been able to put it in words, but it's so true. "Feelers" are feeling how the other person said something.

I agree not everything is 50/50. Polarity in a relationship is key!

the way you both look at each other makes ME emotional 🥺❤

Learning that a marriage and family management is not about equality but EQUITY was so important to my marriage. being able to shift responsibility and baring the mental or emotional load when your partner needs some relief is so fundamental to creating really healthy roots for your family. You know that you can rely on each other no matter what the circumstances are.

“Isn’t that just money?” 😂😂😂

Aww my fiancé does the “turn down service” for me as well. It always makes me feel so loved 🥰

Their videos together are so welcoming. I feel like I’m sitting in their living room listening to them talk 😂

I love your annual Q&A ♥️ sending love to you both

Aww your relationship is so inspiring! Thanks for sharing! xx

I have immense love for both of you and seeing you guys becoming parents is incredible 🥰♥️

Love these kind of videos. Thanks for making em Jenn!

I love the way Jenn editing the videos😆so cute💕

This was so beautiful to watch. ❤

Love the Enneagram test!! I’m type 2 (sometimes type 7 lol) and my husband is type 6 aka we say I help us to live and he helps us not to die 🤣. You need both 🥰. 5 months in and even though marriage can be hard at times I love it!!

This is very inspiring :) They are so in tune, I love it :)

i hope that i find that kind of relationship. love u both jenn and ben!

You two make me believe in love 💗

Looking at your parenting journey gave me a lot of perception 🥰

The way Ben looks at Jenn 😍 is priceless. Whaaaw 😊

So cute! I hope you start posting what i eat in a day! Love those videos

I am an Enneagram type 6. I just saw a video that stated - under stress, I become a type 3 and when I’m calm, I become a type 9. So, y’all are just two extremes of my personality! Might as well adopt me as Lenny’s big sis 😂

Thanks you for sharing, your relationship is so healthy !

I love you both… your energy you radiate and your honesty. Thanks for beating a great examples for couples out there ❤️

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Thank you for the sharing. These are such useful tips since we are going to be new parents. 🥰

You two are my role models!!

You two look so happy with each other. That's cool.

I feel like you guys are that cool couple that everyone wants to hang out with 😎

I love it when you guys do Q&As. I always learn so much and it makes me feel less terrified to grow up :)

Surprisingly, this helped me a lot. Thank you

Just listening to them talk is therapeutic.

Loved this 😍