Classic Brenda episode. Love the chemistry Kavner and Harper always had. Like real sisters. Comedy icons.
@doowopdude8412 жыл бұрын
When Brenda makes her goal, the part where the lady waves her wig around gets me every time lol
@cami428744 жыл бұрын
I just love Rhoda and Mary they were great and will be missed
@davorawilliams44375 жыл бұрын
Brenda looks fabulous! She finally got some new gear! Do it girl!
@themaggattack2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of Brenda for keeping that fat shaming, shallow jerk away from her! It's nice to see her love herself a little.
@nelsonhall42485 жыл бұрын
I always liked Rhoda she's beautiful smart and not afraid to speak her own mind.
@thomasmagnum3588 Жыл бұрын
Just guessing Kavner submitted this episode for her annual Emmy nomination . She was absolutely brilliant in that last scene.
@bleuskye81244 жыл бұрын
Love Ron Silver. He was so great in this role of Gary.
@MIKIEEYEZ1975 Жыл бұрын
He was an excellent Actor!!
@EphemeralProductions3 ай бұрын
One his best roles! But he has been good in everything I’ve seen him in :)
@Vejur90004 жыл бұрын
Julie was Emmy worthy here.
@g-girl98673 жыл бұрын
That was one of the best episodes. I wasn’t expecting that ending. Kudos Brenda! “You’ve come a long way baby”, as they used to say in those days.
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
Wasn't that in a Virginia Slims cigarette commercial? 😊 when it was " cool" to smoke...
@g-girl9867 Жыл бұрын
@@RepentfollowJesus yes!
@deborahklinlger8565 Жыл бұрын
@RepentfollowJesus Yes, it was & ur correct .
@keithsnider19584 жыл бұрын
RIP Valerie Harper❤️
@randilevson9547 Жыл бұрын
Rhoda and Brenda (Valerie Harper and Julie Kavner) were ALWAYS beautiful, inside and out, heavy or thin.
@thestones8022 Жыл бұрын
The counselor at the weight loss meetings was Gloria Lubitz from Laverne and Shirley's Annual Schotz Talent contest...
@KatieLL7 жыл бұрын
The last scene...good for Brenda!
@lovingmayberry3074 жыл бұрын
Brenda is and was ADORABLE. And that guy was not all that.
@michaelmitchell50983 жыл бұрын
Amen
@annegreenwood36243 жыл бұрын
such talent
@MelodyLovesMusic2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@biancacastafiore3832 жыл бұрын
Brenda and Rhoda are so obsessed with their weight. They are so normal sized.
@annegreenwood36243 жыл бұрын
i loved that jumpsuit it looked amazing another great video
@StrongnBeautiful5 жыл бұрын
Brenda is such a cutie, and sweetie 💞 I would have loved to be her friend, so long as she could control her toxic self depreciation.
@prettyhamburger64622 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's something that makes me sad about the show, I feel like if i watch this often this toxic stuff might slowly leach into my mind:(but i dont want to quit watching because i love this show so much🥺
@irmelinhart2 жыл бұрын
You're right about that with Brenda's character it's so sad because she was so lovely and really really cute.
@themaggattack2 жыл бұрын
People were absolutely cruel to fat people in the 70's. And very objectifying of women. It had her really believing she was unworthy. I'm so proud of her in this episode for being true to herself and not settling for someone shallow who would treat her like crap if she gained a little weight!!
@RepentfollowJesus2 жыл бұрын
Brenda just needed more support from friends. I would have built her up.instead of rejecting her for being down on herself.
@jeanmiller1142 Жыл бұрын
People are not kind to the thin small breasted girls either. I was told that if I turn sideways and stuck out my tongue I look like a zipper. Either way it didn't seem a girl could win if you weren't what was considered picture perfect
@Lilacsinm4 жыл бұрын
I never understood this weird, ongoing thing where Brenda is considered to be fat and unattractive when in fact, she's thin and beautiful.
@mariabell56134 жыл бұрын
I agree. Earlier episodes they always put her in sloppy baggy clothes but she never looked fat.
@peggysullivan53964 жыл бұрын
For back then it was considered overweight - not like now I’m sure it was just for story
@peggysullivan53964 жыл бұрын
If they only knew about keto back then lol
@firouz42963 жыл бұрын
She was gorgeous but on this show she had worst problems: Dressed like a man in women's clothes, that harsh blush and the horrible hair! The seventies femininity completely passed her on this show!
@joeyjohnson55523 жыл бұрын
You have to understand that Brenda and Rhoda used to be much heavier, and this kind of stigma does not ever really leave most women. There is so much pressure on women to be thin and beautiful in society, and when not then, a woman almost always does not feel beautiful, true or not.
@RuiOliveiraTV8 жыл бұрын
Finally Brenda fells good about herself!!
@alondralabute23105 жыл бұрын
What a lowlife that guy was! Assuming he weighed 200 lbs (and he probably doesn't) to say he couldn't ride the elevator with Brenda is to accuse her of weighing 700 lbs for the 900 lb limit. I doubt she's ever weighed 200 lbs even. This guy deserves a kick in the butt.
@johnfd02104 жыл бұрын
I know it is a comedy, but didn't really think that line should have gotten a laugh. She is such a good actress, I really felt her pain at that moment.
@lisapratt1664 жыл бұрын
Alondra Labute men are always portrayed as being RIGHT even if their not. Chauvinism at its grosser finest
@gayled30594 жыл бұрын
@@johnfd0210 The laugh was probably canned, but I felt her pain too.
@eleanorryanryan24423 жыл бұрын
Brings me back to when I used to go to these classes and dreaded getting up on the scales 😀🇮🇪💚
@DaveKaramazov2 жыл бұрын
Exceptional episode. This is one to watch back-to-back with The Mary Tyler Moore Show episode "Rhoda the Beautiful." Very similar episode.
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
I just loved when Rhoda said " I won, Cookie"!
@DaveKaramazov Жыл бұрын
@@RepentfollowJesus , that was a wonderful moment!
@sammavacaist3 жыл бұрын
Julie Kavner started out on this show pretty pudgy but she lost a lot of weight by this season. Supposedly she's still an avid fitness buff to this day.
@emilyedwards98099 жыл бұрын
Another jerk, as usual. Good for Brenda for sending him on his way.
@zimjun74 жыл бұрын
Eric JERKenson.....ha?
@JudithIrene11 жыл бұрын
Way to go, Brenda!!! :)
@fintan35634 жыл бұрын
I thought I could never live without bell bottoms. That was a l-o-n-g time ago!
@elle53742 жыл бұрын
I noticed the other day. It looks like bell bottoms are back cause I seen them at Old Navy. They call them flares.
@jeanmiller1142 Жыл бұрын
Remember in the beginning episodes I always had Brenda in what were called " elephant pants" at the time. I'm sure they used them to make her look heavier than she actually was. Surely she was not a skinny girl and not really Slim either but she does not have a small frame.
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
@@jeanmiller1142 we had elephant bells in the 70s. Mens Levi's. We would have our aunt sew them snug to just above the knee then leave the big bell . Brenda often wore palazzo pants which are in style now. But I'm too short for them. However bells are back !!
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
Oh I though I would die when they stopped making bell bottoms and forced straight legs on us. I felt like I was wearing 1950s pants. I hated it. Bells are back now. Hubby and I each bought flares but we also each got a pair of actual bell bottoms. He has long hair too and wore a 70s shirt with his bells and ran in the grocery store. Everyone was speaking to him and calling him one of the Real hippies. It was great. I didn't go.in but he told me. I need to wear mine out somewhere now. We have the glare arms in shirts and the lacy and crocheted tops to wear over tanks now too. Im loving it. Now to find a couple of decent bandanas or scarfs to tie like Rhoda does. Let's make it a come back. Somebody has to start it! I even bought a pair of ripped up white jeans. Im 59, but who cares? I was an original baby hippie at the end of it all.😊🌼
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
@@elle5374 im thrilled!!! I bought a pair and so did hubby!!
@johnfd02104 жыл бұрын
The woman with the wig...I knew I knew that face...she is one of the "Fun Girls" from a memorable episode of THE ANDY GRIFFITH SHOW.
@valeriebryant52774 жыл бұрын
That's her (Daphne)
@wg83853 жыл бұрын
WHAT??? Which one was she ? I enjoyed that show so much.
@trawlins3963 жыл бұрын
@@wg8385 Daphne. The silly one.
@sheriannemorris351 Жыл бұрын
She actually played the character of Skippy, on the Andy Griffith Show 😀
@bsmerph64002 жыл бұрын
The grape juice mustache slays me. hahahha
@taylor15222 жыл бұрын
Her apartment was some of everything. I love it.
@BettinaBalser Жыл бұрын
For the entire series, I have coveted that handbag Brenda carries.
@Lisa1111 Жыл бұрын
I adore Brenda! 😆♥️
@wpeters43612 жыл бұрын
With that cruel remark Eric had made to Brenda in the laundry room 6 months earlier, why would she have wanted to go out with a jerk like that?
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
She didn't though, did she.
@alancorrea9161 Жыл бұрын
Poor Brenda but she knew in advance what kind of guy he was and saved herself from a lot of hurt , sometimes its better to be on your own. I like when he said if I was ugly would you still go out with me ? He wasn't expecting her to say YES . We all have a little Brenda in us. Look at me I just broke up with my g/f and thats all we were , friends. I had wished and hope it would be more. I paid for the dinners and the movies and even saved her a parking space so when she got home from work she would have a parking spot for her car. I would buy her flowers from time to time and pay for her earrings when she wanted to buy some.When Valentines came I bought her the big stuffed Snoopy she wanted and I was wondering what I would get. You know what she bought me , Hand Soap ! Can you believe it ! she said it smelled good. I finally called it quits for two reasons , I couldn't afford her anymore and I thought there would be somthing between us more ; you see now a little like Brenda.
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
Sometimes its better to not go for the extra pretty girls. Go for someone more like Brenda. She isn't a Narcissist. Dont let a woman constantly use you or walk on you. Stay sweet but be sure to wordlessly have an air of confidence so women respect you. You can't love someone you don't respect. When I was young guys that pampered me turned me off. I was young and dumb and didn't realize what I had at the time. Im ashamed of that. Now that I am older, I would love a guy like you that paid more attention to me and was super sweet and attentive. And romantic and thoughtful . Find a woman who is mature. Not necessarily older. But grown up. Hugs to you for being a good guy.
@AliRedCrownedCrane6 жыл бұрын
Made me go get a bowl of pasta!
@EphemeralProductions3 ай бұрын
I’m fixin to make some chicken noodle soup myself! lol
@Kris-annKingyens Жыл бұрын
I understand why she feels upset. The people in her support group was her friends and she felt she belong.
@BeachComber19778 жыл бұрын
I love them both, fat or thin!
@CDN19754 жыл бұрын
They were never fat!
@pamhoward5102 Жыл бұрын
You will notice how much Brenda looks different from when she first meet the first episode.
@cathe82822 жыл бұрын
I never understood the fat jokes on this show. How even in S1 she could have been considered fat! I was a kid growing up in the 70s and women like Mary, Rhoda and Brenda were who I thought hip, liberated, enlightened women were supposed to be. But having a weight problem and a mother with a weight problem, I was super sensitive to all the times people laughed at Brenda's self-esteem and "weight problems". Thinking, as a kid, "well, if the world thinks of HER as fat, what hope do I have?" I'm glad things like that aren't in writers' notebooks for quick and cheap laughs anymore, but still... Also, I have always loved the sister dynamic between Rho and Bren! Great series!
@nodmabooker3 жыл бұрын
Way to go Brenda 👏👏👏
@TroySundt11 жыл бұрын
omg... its Marge Simpson. I never knew!
@PaulaJoW4 жыл бұрын
Rhoda keeps telling Brenda to stop putting herself down. Where do you think Brenda learned that from, Rhoda?
@jeanmiller1142 Жыл бұрын
I think she learned it from her mother. And I think Rhoda was self-talking as she was saying these things to Brenda. They both needed some help in this area
@thestones8022 Жыл бұрын
Ida
@juannunez57678 жыл бұрын
Only on TV would Valerie Harper or Julie Kavner be considered fat or over weight.
@FigaroHey6 жыл бұрын
Only in the '70s. Americans weren't massively obese then.
@wendycarter75315 жыл бұрын
The writers were ALL MEN
@StrongnBeautiful5 жыл бұрын
Exactly. How stupid!
@fintan35634 жыл бұрын
I wish I were as fat as Rhoda & Brenda.
@ruthestern4 жыл бұрын
We do not remember what appropriate body weight looks like.
@noelsmyth49623 жыл бұрын
This is what real good comedy is,not the meaningless stuff that we've got today, Noel Smyth.
@freakboy405 жыл бұрын
Love Brenda...
@joanwindler17372 жыл бұрын
Eric would of been very lucky to go out with Brenda. His loss
@bobbylaguardia66803 жыл бұрын
In ways they looked like each other
@MelodyLovesMusic2 жыл бұрын
She was so smart. That guy was too superficial and saved herself some future heartache down the line. Very smart judge of character.
@jacquelinelaurence81713 жыл бұрын
Good for you Brenda. :).
@deborahklinlger85656 ай бұрын
Years ago I dated a man who told me to lose weight & I wasn't overweight. I was very happy with my shape & appearance. So I told him to take a hike. Men!!!! Brenda looked fabulous in that bkack jumpsuit. Great episode!!! Love Rhoda. I love the Boho look.🎉❤😊
@paulducharme60oo5 жыл бұрын
I don't have a drinking problem. I drink, I get drunk, I fall down, no problem.
@devinmartin52507 жыл бұрын
lol ...someone post more Rhoda shows I think I watched them all ....
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
8ve watched them several times. Come back and watch them again. Its been long enough to forget some.
@Prieze8685 жыл бұрын
A Madonna looks like Valerie Harper in some pictures
@cmtippens92093 жыл бұрын
As big as all the "feminism" was played up on this show, it is sad to see that they were still judging women's worth by their weight. So superficial!
@back2s0ul8 жыл бұрын
It seems like they put Brenda in frumpy clothes most of the time so she'd look more overweight than she actually was to help sell her as someone who overeats, but still, good for her.
@KatieLL7 жыл бұрын
She was a good bit heavier a little while back.
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
They did that to Rhoda on NTM. I saw layers of clothing. A t shirt, a blouse and a sweatshirt on top of who knows what else.Plus they made clothing thicker back then. Rhoda was never heavy.
@marvinabigby5509 Жыл бұрын
Gary seems obsessed with Rhoda at times
@suzannegirard65562 жыл бұрын
So stupid!!!! What is wrong with having a good spaghetti dinner!!!!
@EphemeralProductions3 ай бұрын
Pasta is carbs which in some people really DOES go straight to the hips. Lol
@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm5 күн бұрын
LOVE THIS SHOW
@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm5 күн бұрын
A GREAT VIDEO
@RepentfollowJesus2 жыл бұрын
Good for Brenda not going out with a jerk. I never liked blond guys back when . Well, ever really. She was never ugly or that heavy. She didn't deserve that. Later in her red top she's amazing ! Love her jumpsuit. I had a cream colored one in the 80s. Wish I could still wear it .Guys like him in the 70s wanted to put their hands all over you first date ,were rude and usually were wife beaters and ran them down all the time. What an awful thing he saud to her. Good riddance. A little plump is fine. Shes thin now but still the beautiful Brenda she always was inside. Men!!
@francesca70935 жыл бұрын
Rhoda: Pretty colors - Ugly blouse
@EphemeralProductions2 жыл бұрын
70s. That says it all lol
@codym88974 жыл бұрын
A picture of Rhoda's Wedding from Season 1 (1974-1975) is shown.
@marchelleharris48423 жыл бұрын
Brenda looked good during season 3. She should have stopped there. By season 5 she was way too thin.
@jackies17292 жыл бұрын
Rhoda, take your own advice! Watching this show has made me realize how unattractive my own insecurities have been and that, we, as women, are the prizes 😊
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
We all need to build up our friends
@pragatibhushan86974 жыл бұрын
Brenda u r the best
@richardswinbusk7787 Жыл бұрын
Great episode Rob Silver as always is great as Gary All the sitcom guys here are the typical jocks of the 70's but Gary always seemed the grounding friend He was less of a buffoon
@MrMenefrego12 жыл бұрын
That blonde guy was one of the worst actors I've ever seen!
@AnnusMirabilus2 жыл бұрын
lol... like Robert Redford with no talent. Brian Avery.... he has way too many roles under his belt for such limited talent.
@69Mucci11 ай бұрын
I actually thought that was Robert Redford for the first second, and then realized he wasn't as good looking@@AnnusMirabilus
@cindysloan1778 жыл бұрын
I hope this wasn't supposed to emulate Weight Watchers. WW doesn't work this way at all. Also, they would welcome Brenda to come to the meetings as long as she wanted.
@feliciagarland84627 жыл бұрын
Cindy Sloan Weight Watcher's in the 70's was 😝.
@lisapratt1664 жыл бұрын
We’re talking about ww in the 1970”s
@RepentfollowJesus Жыл бұрын
In the 90s they were discreet about your weight. I was too young in the 70s. But I remember people dieting on cottage cheese.
@Ashley-zq5ch3 жыл бұрын
I hate this episode. Brenda was never overweight, even if she did lose a few pounds by this time.
@clownfashion3 жыл бұрын
Neither of these women were overweight. This storyline is tired. They just dressed them differently when they were supposed to be "overweight" vs when they "lost weight". You can tell that the creators knew neither was actually plus sized because of the actors they chose in that group scene. Makes me sad that this toxic storyline is so ingrained in Rhoda's character and Brenda's. I understand its a reflection of the time but wow would the show have been 10 times better had they not constantly been self-deprecating. They are both beautiful people.
@DaveKaramazov2 жыл бұрын
Brenda was definitely heavier in season one. Julie Kavner lost a lot of weight between seasons 1 and 3.
@belleve5709 Жыл бұрын
Brenda was my favorite on Rhoda she was just like me
@angeldelightify11 жыл бұрын
Wait does anybody know what pantyhose wiegh
@TwiZoneIncАй бұрын
The guy who plays Eric is the same actor who played Elaine Robinson's would've-been husband in the Santa Barbara church in "The Graduate." It's been awhile since i saw the film but I don't think it was a speaking part...other than him screaming at Benjamin Braddock as he takes his bride away from him at the altar! A very strange part...and another strange one here on "Rhoda."
@cindeed44223 жыл бұрын
Rhoda was the Lucy and Brenda was the Ethel. The overweight frumpy one in the comedy team. Ethel was made to look that way because Lucille Ball put it in the contract. Why did they do it to Brenda. She was very pretty.
@thestones27892 жыл бұрын
GLORIA LUBITZ FROM LAVERNE AND SHIRLEY!! 4:36 AND MOOSE FROM THE pool hall episode...
@m1k3ywestley75 жыл бұрын
Eric looked good in those tight pants. 😍
@doowopdude8411 жыл бұрын
Vaguely. I haven't seen that episode in years.
@shelley50084 жыл бұрын
How did they get the couch and coffee tables to match??
@martyrose4 жыл бұрын
Covered everything with the same fabric?
@michellemohr14332 жыл бұрын
Brenda, how sweet, she hides herself.
@zimjun74 жыл бұрын
4:07 Now that is weird! When Brenda got a hair do like THAT Rhoda said that she looked liked "Harpo Marx!" She hated it!!
@JehanineMelmoth3 жыл бұрын
She hated this one too but was being polite. Look at her micro-expressions! Great acting.
@randilevson954711 ай бұрын
Maintenance is an important part of weight loss. No one should be made to leave if they want to stay in. It is counter-intuitive to leave, and lose out on the group's support. A ridiculous set-up.
@69Mucci11 ай бұрын
Yeah, what happens if you gain back a few pounds and then lose it again? Do they keep making you re-join and leave again? That's ridiculous.
@nathelondon37192 ай бұрын
Go Brenda!
@69Mucci11 ай бұрын
I love how they keep making it sound like Brenda was enormous in these episodes. She would practically be anorexic compared to the way people look today.
@breezygodiva5034 жыл бұрын
In what world is Rhoda or Brenda overweight??? Its been the theme the whole series so far.
@trawlins3963 жыл бұрын
All whyte women act like that. Especially ones in the city.
@JehanineMelmoth3 жыл бұрын
It’s TV fat, not real fat.
@DaveKaramazov2 жыл бұрын
During season one, she was noticeably heavier.
@69Mucci11 ай бұрын
@@JehanineMelmoth Keep in mind though that people in general were smaller back then, so being even a few pounds heavier than everone else seemed like a huge deal. Rhoda and Brenda would both be very thin by today's standards. Even being a couple of pounds overweight.
@JehanineMelmoth11 ай бұрын
@@69Mucci I was around then and that’s simply not the case. Even a model could be UK12 then, whereas now they are UK8
@heidisierra12502 жыл бұрын
I Love Marge!...I mean Brenda ♥️😳🤗!
@scoobydoo88474 жыл бұрын
im so confused whenever rhoda or brenda call themselves fat, or someone else calls them fat. They're extremely thin????? I dont get it. I guess things were just different in the 70s
@trawlins3963 жыл бұрын
Not really. I know women who act exactly like that today. If they go over a size 6 they feel 'fat".
@mariawelsh3190 Жыл бұрын
I guess not hearing Carlton's voice once in this episode should be a big hint where the series was really going🙄
@Cleospatras11 жыл бұрын
12:47 whoa too tight.
@lisap61626 жыл бұрын
aarrrrrggghhhh! you're right!!!!
@jenniferholzman1192 жыл бұрын
You told me Brenda
@BillKing88883 жыл бұрын
Weird - the guy who wanted to take Rhoda out isn't credited.
@AnnusMirabilus2 жыл бұрын
The dude who looked like Robert Redford but had none of his talent? Brian Avery.
@wookinooki9023 Жыл бұрын
season 3 was pretty good.
@YankeeJet249 жыл бұрын
8:00 Elmer Fudd?!?!!
@slf51414 жыл бұрын
😁
@williedawg215211 ай бұрын
I am glad 50 years later... That making fun of someone's struggles with weight loss isn't funny any more.
@ursulasmith64024 жыл бұрын
Women, eat what you want. All models are men.
@jeanmiller1142 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@m1k3ywestley75 жыл бұрын
Eric had a nice basket at least.
@EphemeralProductions2 жыл бұрын
Lol. Naughty boy. :)
@michelemichele52044 жыл бұрын
i loved the show Rhoda, but was turned off when they divorced. the show made me happy. she wanted so much to be married, and it ruined it for me....i do love valerie harper big time....loved her character even when she was on mtm show...
@jeanmiller1142 Жыл бұрын
R hoda is heavier...that top really shows it. By no means obese. She got a bit too thin later on. Brenda looks just right wt
@suzannegirard65562 жыл бұрын
Rhoda is not overweight!!!! This is so stupid!!!!
@sherryhook90662 жыл бұрын
She never was. But, the standards in those days, as well as, the 80s and early 90s, you were considered beautiful only if you were thin and bony. Stupid is correct!
@69Mucci11 ай бұрын
You have to remember how much thinner most people were back in that time... so being even a few pounds heavier was considered "overweight"
@ROXI-zq4fg5 жыл бұрын
I forget to eat all the time...?
@jeanmiller1142 Жыл бұрын
I once forgot to eat for 3 days. got to rip-rowing headache and couldn't figure out why. my mom asked me when was the last time I ate when it dawned on me it had been 3 days
@randilevson954710 ай бұрын
Why was Gary so invested in pimping Rhoda out to Eric? No guy that I know of would want to see his friend succeed where he had failed. Much too ego-shattering for the typical fragile male ego. Oh, wait. Here come the defensive comments.