Filming a relaxer touch up/update video this weekend! Make sure you’re subscribed if you’re interested in seeing it! And feel free to comment any questions so I can answer in that video 🤗
@mrsj10772 жыл бұрын
My arms are tired! My scalp hurts! I'm tired of tryna deal with this. I spent 3 hours washing, hot oil n deep conditioner, straighten, curled, and wrapped My hair. Next morning I woke up to an afro!!!! "This shyt is killing me" 😩😩🤣
@lynp59882 жыл бұрын
That's why I don't bother straightening my hair. It never stays straight 🤣
@ProjectosSemFuturo2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 thats why im here, im tired as well 😂 wanted some inspiration
@christianwatson59912 жыл бұрын
@@ProjectosSemFuturo me too sis me too 😭😭😭😭
@Secret101.2 жыл бұрын
@Mrs J I roller set my hair on Monday night 4 hours out of my life with the whole process...yaaaayyyy🙂🤗 😵💫😵💫 Checked my hair Tuesday morning b4 I went to the gym. I was still good!🤗🤗 I kept it tied up in the gym, came home feeling good, took the scarf off and screamed!!! 😱😱😱 My whole head was curly except the ends😭😭😭😭🤣 Wth!! At this point I'm definitely converting over to a relaxer...2.5 years Natural.... Hard work, time and hours!! Man....my arms are tired of being tired👀😫😩🤦♀️
@youknowwhatflav99162 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo guurl it's real out here 🤣
@rickelleHale Жыл бұрын
6 years natural and I’m over it at this point. So now I’m here watching your videos!
@karmickarma5948 Жыл бұрын
Some ladies have the time to deal with super thick long natural hair, others don't. Do what's best for you, happy growing and styling ladies
@warriorwinter223310 ай бұрын
Ayeeee 💫🙌😌✅💅💯☝️😏🌃🥂
@Arielle_C932 жыл бұрын
Definitely feel your pain. For me, it's my crown that won't behave. I have 5 (yes FIVE) different textures in my hair and I've never been able to blend them in the 12 years I've been natural. My braid/twist outs look awful. Every part of my hair will stay defined, then the crown will turn into a fully shrunken fro. Love my hair but I'm tired 😫
@JadetheGoober Жыл бұрын
I feel you! Why the lord thought it would be cute to give me a 4b/4c crown and 4a/3b/3a sides and nape I will never understand
@actorjulion1012 жыл бұрын
I hate when people say things like: "Oh, YoU sHoUlD lEaRn To LoVe YoUr HaIr" to us re/texlaxed folk. Because if we didn't, then why would we even give af to make certain accommodations for our hair and for our time overall and not just shave it all off lol.
@Cutthecamerasdeadass18992 жыл бұрын
I'm natural and have been told that when I mention I want to straighten or texlax... like bruh this is MY hair stop with that fake positivity to make me feel and yourself feel better
@TheJessCasonBrand2 жыл бұрын
This is a good a$$ train of thought! Thank you!!!
@Entertain_Mehhh2 жыл бұрын
I think people need to worry about the hair on their own Halas. To have relax or texlaxed hair you have to do it and take care of it too everyone I know with relax hair do love their hair, which is why they stretch their relaxers so it won’t go thin.… people are literally miserable and have to take their frustrations out on others
@StopSelfDoubting2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@90sbaby12 жыл бұрын
OMG YES Im virgin headed with like half 4a half type 3. The middle is the 4a. The front sides and back are all perfectly natural type 3 curls. However I need to texlax the crown to get it to the rest of my head texture, I guess. Glad I came to this video because I was googling if I can intentionally under or partly relax my hair thinking I made it up since my all natural mom looked at me crazy. I saw you say TEXLAX and I looked it up and thats exactly what I wanna do so now Im happy to know its a thing.
@asiarobinson21942 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I been natural 7 years but after having twins i need easy!! in any part of my life🙌🏾😣 I think im goin to relax my hair next weekend
@sincerelysandi2 жыл бұрын
How did it go🥰
@asiarobinson21942 жыл бұрын
@@sincerelysandi Hey Love it was still curly in some areas loose curls much more manageable than before I wore it straight for about 2weeks now she back in a curly bun😆
@kailahathomas4662 жыл бұрын
I’ve been natural since birth🥺 Never cut or died my hair so I’m making 25 and I’m but to relax it on Monday. I’m tired of crying over my hair. And I need something different 😭 But I’m also scared as hell😂
@asiarobinson21942 жыл бұрын
@@kailahathomas466 oooooo honey I kno you are scared but follow ya heart and embrace change💜 I wish u the best on your hair journey💜
@warriorwinter223310 ай бұрын
@@kailahathomas466how'd it go??? 💁💁💁
@pls.donttagme2 жыл бұрын
KZfaq algorithm giving me these types of videos a lot. I LOVE IT!! youre so pretty, im happy youre happy with your decision!
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you gorgeous! ❤️
@moniquel.chapman19222 жыл бұрын
This was the motivation I needed!!!!
@TOOTIELUV879 ай бұрын
You did a great excellent job! Looks healthy and pretty 😍 ❤
@JazzmynDesir2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, I just relaxedmy hair after being relaxed for 5 yrs. Nonethe less I don't regret it, I love uploading my journey to see the growth. keep it up love I had to sub. thank you.
@Imeraldgyrl2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading this vid. I too, have wore my hair natural for a LONG TIME. And like you I have a lot of hair, so I purchased 3 KITS.Thanks again.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome!
@Jazzycanvibe2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been natural for about 8 years now and idk what my impulse is but I’m wanting a relaxer… crazy but true!
@NaturalBeauty2142 жыл бұрын
You're so pretty and your hair came out so good💕
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤️
@thelmaprice75092 жыл бұрын
Doing good
@thelmaprice75092 жыл бұрын
It doesn't have to burn
@anonymousanonymous8702 жыл бұрын
Try to use chelating shampoo to remove calcium buildup from the no lye relaxer. Your hair look nice and healthy.
@Bananamushroompudding2 жыл бұрын
It’s been 10 years for me and I’m ready to relax it again now. My curls are beautiful but my shrinkage is crazy, and I have a huge head. Lol. Plus I usually have to wear my hair wet but I have excema on my scalp so that doesn’t mix well. So my hair is just always in nappy ponytail and just dry and not done. I honestly don’t take good care of it in this state. I’m ready to relax it.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@Bananamushroompudding2 жыл бұрын
@@RifaC girl I watched your video and permed mine 4 days ago & I've been loving it!!
@Slims_she8 ай бұрын
Is it all of us going back relaxed lol I've been binge watching videos for weeks now... 😅 I might do it my hands is itching me
@tias.66756 ай бұрын
Slims_she Same lol
@Neesha242 Жыл бұрын
My natural hair is defeating me. I’m in my feelings today. I’m so confuse on what to do with my hair. I don’t want to wear wigs or braids and I don’t want to loc my hair. I think I’m having a midlife crisis
@ZayaMarie27 Жыл бұрын
How I’m feeling at this moment
@islandpersuasion4690 Жыл бұрын
Put a weave in. I've gone back to weaves much less stress on my edges.
@Neesha242 Жыл бұрын
@@islandpersuasion4690 I’m going to hold off on that for now. I’ve been doing a lot of research on my hair type/hair science and I believe it’s starting to pay off. 🤞🏾 In couple months I’ll see if it really pays off. 🙏🏾
@OhSoLimitless2 жыл бұрын
Giiiiirl, i have the urge to perm my hair right now! Im so over my natural hair atm
@PainToPurposewithNickieBrown2 жыл бұрын
Your wrap turned out pretty. You did a good job.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@PainToPurposewithNickieBrown2 жыл бұрын
@@RifaC you're welcome sweetie
@cielairambona13232 жыл бұрын
I’m so tempted to relax mine too 😆
@lushpuppy212 жыл бұрын
its beautiful i wouldnt dye it keep it moisturized and wrapped itll grow long and healthy. the key is to not over manipulate your hair. great job
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@kayceefranco70862 жыл бұрын
Jamaican in the house! Girl I've been feeling the same vibe. That's how I got here because...yeah, it's better that I mash my hair than someone else.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
On God!
@0tismadaline2 жыл бұрын
Great result dear,beautiful healthy long hair,welcome to the relaxed hair gangs
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@teamchi932 жыл бұрын
The results look good I can feel the relief of more manageability through the screen Lml, I only made it to a little under 3 years, I just texlaxed it so its not fully straight so it still looks like a blow out and thick still, i'm glad I did lord knows I could not dedicate hours to half the day with this 4c hair anymore especially since my hair is getting longer and gets dirty faster so I have to wash it more often, i'm losing less hair now and wash and detangle is only and hour then 30 min to style outside the shower since I can now vs before 3 or 4 hours with styling in shower, I kept my hair in big twists or braids all that time so my hair could retain length better
@iamdanie_.2 жыл бұрын
Girl I have been thinking about locking my hair, a short cut, relaxing my hair or something. ANYTHING to feel different rn but I'm trying to think if I do it will I have any issues while stretching my relaxers. I've been natural for 6 years and every 2 years I cut all my hair off. Last time I cut it was last August so it's been a year and I'm ready for a change. I'm trying to figure out what i can do with my hair if I relax it. I just want to style my hair and it last until I decide it's time for something new.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Definitely feel you, hair frustration is real!
@EmpressToni2 жыл бұрын
Girl while stretching ur relaxers, remember u have braids, wigs ,locs etc just be sure to wear the styles properly so it doesn't damage or weakens your relaxed hair. Go for it
@itsphillybr0 Жыл бұрын
you are beautiful!!
@RifaC Жыл бұрын
Thank you love
@neilialucas952 жыл бұрын
How long did you let the relaxer stay for?
@levihollywood92342 жыл бұрын
Amazing job u did perfect for the frist time that relaxer made your super bone straight I love it ♥️i relaxed my natural hair 8 months ago it turn'd my hair like brownish redish color.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@sincerelysandi2 жыл бұрын
Did you find out what caused the color changes🤔
@homemadenails56982 жыл бұрын
Hair looks great
@torijohnston85402 жыл бұрын
It looks gr8!
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@seynyesow53162 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I watched this because I have a lot of hair too and I was gonna do it tomorrow but I don’t think one box is going to be enough 😭 thanks !
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Np!!
@pointingitout56242 жыл бұрын
It looks great
@maryedwards20012 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady beautiful job
@tee6690 Жыл бұрын
Im relaxed but my hair hasn't thrive relaxed but when i was texlaxed bk then it was healthy and thick. I might jus go natural stay . I dnt want cancer or thinning hair later in life ... i do believe relaxers do damage internal but I do go to a professional to relax my hair my hair hasn't really grew to its best ability. Your hair l hope you enjoy the journey always go to professional and try training your hair as natural straight next time silk press ... everyone can't do curly stuff ... l love natural staight thats what l will be doing ...
@ella.beautyxo82042 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous hair! How often would you recommend re-relaxing and should I apply relaxer to the whole hair again or just the new growth? :)
@tynishao2 жыл бұрын
10-12 weeks, new growth only
@ella.beautyxo82042 жыл бұрын
@@tynishao Thank you! ❤️
@tynishao2 жыл бұрын
@@ella.beautyxo8204 you’re welcome ☺️
@asiarobinson21942 жыл бұрын
@@tynishao thanks been natural 7 years but now i have twins and not enough salon money sis bout to get relaxer ASAP😣
@amandahernandez6972 жыл бұрын
@@asiarobinson2194 I just recently had twins they are 6 months and I've natural for about 10 years now and its time for a change but since I've had them my hair line is soo bad on one side now 😩 and I'm scared it's going to make it so much more noticeable 😭
@kaylove4507 Жыл бұрын
I like it. It is a little thin but add some clip ins for volume not much will be needed just a few and your good 😊
@jdavis86312 жыл бұрын
It looks good👍
@deviIish2 жыл бұрын
the result is amazing, it looks amazing on you. however i have a question, do u necessarily need to wash your hair 1 week before relaxing it? i’m tired of taking care of it and i’m currently wearing wigs so i don’t need to maintain it. i just want to take those braids off and relax it and be like fck that 😩 helpp
@lifewithjessi86722 жыл бұрын
Ur so gorgeous
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@luxehaircloset_ Жыл бұрын
We must always do what works for us at the end of the day 😍😍If you’d like to switch up your look & give your hair a breather our AMARACHI tape in extensions would blend in so well with your texture with unlimited volume and style possibilities 🎉
@moonhoneymami Жыл бұрын
Youre so beautiful
@quantumfandom8676 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been natural 15 years yall. I’m scared to perm it but I don’t even want to deal with taking the time to straighten it just to wake up with the Florida Evans 😩
@Justamullberry Жыл бұрын
Florida evans is SENDING me😭 I feel you though, I’m almost 10 years natural and I can’t do it anymore
@iChelly411 Жыл бұрын
Girl I'm so over my natural hair. It's too much. Bought relaxer. I'm doing it
@paneshadouglas Жыл бұрын
I gotta do mines better in December I’m doing it again I gotta add it to my ends n leave it longer cuz mines turn to curls then a fro. It’s okay I spent hours washing it out I did better last time from washing in the sink took my hair out. I did in shower this time.
@lindanabbona58102 жыл бұрын
I’m doing it tomorrow I’m ready finally after 6 years natural
@user-hx7ro6rc1z9 ай бұрын
Cute❤
@ShonDaDon212 жыл бұрын
About to be me in a few days can't wait lol
@slylover1232 жыл бұрын
Omg it's so shiny
@latisharenee69642 жыл бұрын
I just did mine today it been 5 years for me too
@AneishaH2 жыл бұрын
have u try to do box braids with relaxed hair? i wonder if it’s harder to keep your hair in braids
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Haven’t tried box braids but I did passion twists and they turned out fine. I think box braids would be more secured than the twist
@Oh_mariam Жыл бұрын
I have relaxed hair I'm currently growing it out because long story short my hair got damaged because it was scared for properly. Also my relaxed hair would've be long if I my I didn't cut my hair accidentally with braids and if I didn't flat iron my hair cause that caused it to be damaged even more. Wish me luck y'all❤
@Ebizzill2 жыл бұрын
I always advise people to give it a chance for at least 5 years, you know, deprogramming etc etc and then do whatever you wish.
@judymungai262 ай бұрын
I also relaxed my hair and it looks amazing
@thequeencityprincess2 жыл бұрын
Hey hun! What do you use to edit?
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Inshot
@HelloMyFavoriteVids2 жыл бұрын
I hope my hair gets this straight... My hair is 3 of your heads 😩
@Top5glamour2 жыл бұрын
This gonna b me after 21 years I'm tiiied
@LifeWithTashii Жыл бұрын
Subscribed just caz yah Jamaican 😂😂
@staciep26382 жыл бұрын
Omg,you don’t need it to burn to be processed,by then it will be over processed then break off
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Yup know that now lol. As I said in the video I didn’t do any research and I’m not that picky with my hair so I didn’t really care while doing it. But thank you!
@jasbee90 Жыл бұрын
I miss the texture of the relaxer but i dont miss my hair falling out 😒
@taniellewilson19862 жыл бұрын
Mi Right behind you. Tired of my hair. It's too much for me
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
😭
@bibichamambuene46812 жыл бұрын
How long did U let it in ?
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Roughly 15 mins
@amstevens72292 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@iAMjasminereneaАй бұрын
I’m doing this TUUUDAAAEEEE
@strega_babeharestreets233911 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t recommend you do the next relaxer - it may shed.
@hairyballsacks35572 жыл бұрын
Did you cut ur ends before?
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
No I didn’t
@GoldCoastInvestor2 жыл бұрын
You look much prettier with the relaxed hair.
@nynycat54892 жыл бұрын
This back handed comment
@kbb6492 жыл бұрын
Girl i relaxed mine the other day
@logitech03002 жыл бұрын
She left the relaxer on for two long, I mean if she left it for less time she could have thicker relaxed hair but love the results
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
My hair is still very thick
@lovelite67372 жыл бұрын
@@RifaC No it’s Thin😳
@gentlesoft21862 жыл бұрын
@@RifaC Your Hair is thick. Your hair came out beautiful
@EmpressToni2 жыл бұрын
So I decided long ago I will be doing a lot experimenting with my hair. All im doing is waiting until after my wedding which I really don't have to do considering I'll be wearing a wig but that's what my fiancé wants. I currently have it in a split dye and I will be bleaching and touching it up for my bday next month. It will be following a lot of bleaching after that until I chop it again and when grows back I will be relaxing it.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Lisapierre2 жыл бұрын
Girlll its only been 3years for me and idk if it a midlife crisis but sis the crack is calling me & now this video popped up if this isn’t god then idk 😭😭
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo it’s a sign sis!
@CR-ce5lf2 жыл бұрын
meeeee right now struggling
@deltonya2322 жыл бұрын
Been natural 5.5 years and I can't deal with it no more. I love my hair but damnnnnn, maintenance is a bish! The creamy crack is calling me too!
@degraciangubane4802 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Brwniee952 жыл бұрын
😭😩 been at it for 5 years its beyond thick but I’m tiredddd
@rithe072 жыл бұрын
Bruh so many of your questions could have been answered just by reading the instructions 😭😭
@staciep26382 жыл бұрын
You don’t need it straight straight,it will be over processed,you need some kinks for the flat iron
@staciep26382 жыл бұрын
@@sophiam9886 most white women hair diameter larger than our ,their hair strength stronger than ours especially when we process our hair.
@scrubz.n.squatz24952 жыл бұрын
It’s giving thin af sis
@Gladiator_in_a_Suit2 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day it’s your hair sis--do as you please. I’m 4 years natural and don’t plan to use chemicals ever again in hair. My natural hair is chest length, when I don’t feel like touching my hair I just band it up and put on a hijab.
@kaylove4507 Жыл бұрын
The only issue with relaxers is that some people were doing them wrong they were leaving them in too long relaxes are actually good for the hair because they open up the hair follicle to bring in moisture because your hair is now more moisturized than it was in the first video. I'm not saying your natural hair wasn't healthy I'm just saying moisturized hair hair that is easier to get product through promotes growth faster. But again that's one of the relaxer is done correctly and it looks like you did your relaxer correctly because your hair is shiny It looks like it's well moisturized and nourished and that's what the bottom line of a professional relaxer will do If you do the relaxing wrong then that's when you get over processing breakage scalp irritation things of that nature but it looks like you did this right
@hairyballsacks35572 жыл бұрын
Uff I told my mom I want this I hope she doesn’t fuck up my hair..been a long time since I relaxed it 😂
@atmanda2 жыл бұрын
Girl stop giving me ideas
@atmanda2 жыл бұрын
It came out so freaking good! I'm so tired of my natural hair, creamy crack is calling my name.
@RifaC2 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo I was fed up!!
@nomsantsoane39842 жыл бұрын
@@atmanda lol 😹 em creamy crack called you mogirl 😹
@mobutter28792 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to see videos, where our health is as important, as our “hair”.. Black women in America are classified as 80% obese… Covid-19 showed us, clearly there is an issue within our community.
@kalynwright11382 жыл бұрын
What? You're weird.
@eridanijay48862 жыл бұрын
She’s not American, doesn’t live in America… you have deep-rooted issues. America isn’t the epicenter of the world and VAST MAJORITY black women don’t live there and aren’t obese. Instead of maybe volunteering somewhere and being useful since you feel the need to “help”, you decide to be slick, judgmental, and arrogant.
@astridediva Жыл бұрын
Stfu 🤫 every race of women care for their hair. Go suck on a d*ick
@lilou74342 жыл бұрын
Stop and please go to a good hairstylist
@dezzydivine257 ай бұрын
Its crazy because a lot of us gotta remember why we went natural in the first place Natural hair is a lot but for some it works for some it don’t I did notice a lot of woman going back natural everything fine than bomb back to breaking off shedding etc. now there going back natural again always do your research perm hair has to be treated with care just like natural hair I’m just tired of hair period 😵💫🥹