Robert Greene - How To Seduce Anyone With Psychology

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Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game.
A seducer does not turn the power off and on-every social and personal interaction is seen as a potential seduction. There is never a moment to waste.
Seducers are never self-absorbed. Their gaze is directed outward, not inward. Pleasure is a feeling of being taken past our limits, of being overwhelmed-by another person, by an experience.
Finally, seducers are completely amoral in their approach to life.
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Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, and The 50th Law. His highly anticipated fifth book, Mastery, examines the lives of great historical figures such as Charles Darwin, Mozart, Paul Graham and Henry Ford and distills the traits and universal ingredients that made them masters.
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@betterchapter 6 ай бұрын

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@lNGSOC 6 ай бұрын

@snide0 5 ай бұрын

@WaspMedia3D 3 ай бұрын

Nope

@victorwurtz9388 24 күн бұрын

@williamalexander6130 Жыл бұрын

Yeah that thumbnail is everything 😂

@Mauly10 Жыл бұрын

You’re right😂

@apexthagreat3788 Жыл бұрын

Got my attention 😂

@unclegrandpa1476 Жыл бұрын

Pineal gland

@andygcold Жыл бұрын

You got to finger the mind 👉🧠

@mohammedkj1239 Жыл бұрын

I opened the video because of the thumbnail 😂

@aishamalan522 Жыл бұрын

- KEY---> Get them to talk about their childhood - Something that excites them take note and come back to it later - Say something a little bit disturbing or strong to get them to think about you when they get back home...the art of planting seed in someones mind

@mattyslit Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this

@leogaussbell1622 Жыл бұрын

@@kitkat129 For example u know that a person likes books and buy them a lot, but he/she doesnt know u know that. So just make a strong point out of the blue about why books are pointless ...or absolutely necessary

@conar_campbell Жыл бұрын

- And dont forget to finger their pineal gland

@JTFSIX Жыл бұрын

@@nemeropromeste4963 Yeah in this fucking culture - YEH FUCKING CREEP

@JTFSIX Жыл бұрын

@@leogaussbell1622 Just stop dude - Try this one.....What days do you prefer to wear a thong? "Perfect".....she'll look at you with disgust but at the same time be surprised how bold you are.....fuck it.......You will literally be on her mind all fucking day long.....Be a man......don't Prance around in skinny jeans / assert yourself....WHAT DO YOU WANT - SNAP THE FUCK OUT OF IT., Dude I look like a cross between Fiona Shrek and Danny Devito... and I don't give 2 kittens with there mittens on about what she thinks - DO IT!!!!!

@infallibl Жыл бұрын

It's quite spooky when you've just realised you almost do most of this naturally..

@eggzie2676 Жыл бұрын

It's not spooky it's just a different feeling of something that's unusual. 🙂

@thething6936 Жыл бұрын

like I be questioning myself if I am really a narcissist. am I tho? 'cause I've been like this since I was child and I thought that's just how all people are. I only became aware of this through a yt recommendation I got last week and have been doing research ever since. not that I want to self - diagnose myself with such disorders, I just want to get rid of a habit I unconsciously set upon.

@austecon6818 Жыл бұрын

Haha yeah I've always naturally done this on dates and no wonder they always go well and I get positive feedback... Sounds like most dudes a really bad at dating lol. Lucky for me!! I just genuinely want to know about her past and relationship with parents to work out if she's wife material...

@kftv12 Жыл бұрын

@@thething6936 I feel the same exact way

@nguyentamphong9964 Жыл бұрын

For me this the only way to have a proper conversation with someone, I don't even use this as a way of seducing

@simranbansal9303 Жыл бұрын

I've been doing this since 2 years and it opens people up faster than you can crack a walnut. Warning: use this superpower wisely because once people talk to you about their childhood and they like it, they're gonna want to do it again and again and suddenly you're the unpaid therapist. Another tip: a way to mirror people is to ask them what they just said but rephrase it a little. It shows you're listening, and repeating their own words back to them makes them fall in love with you.

@m97297 Жыл бұрын

How do you avoid becoming the unpaid therapist?

@abhi-_- Жыл бұрын

@@m97297 ask for payment.

@user-cx1jv2vp2t Жыл бұрын

@@abhi-_- ^ the only right answer

@simranbansal9303 Жыл бұрын

@@m97297 but serious answer, set boundaries. Tell yourself what things you wouldn't do for a particular person of a certain rank. Like if they're very close, maybe you can be their unpaid therapist. For friends not so close, you just gotta define what you won't do and stick to it. You'll gradually realise doing what makes you drain out and then, set those as boundaries

@m97297 Жыл бұрын

@@simranbansal9303 I see, thank you for giving a serious answer.

@Teamshmo Жыл бұрын

Just letting people talk and mirroring them alone works well. Ask them a question and repeat part of their answer. They will be excited you asked and are listening and will like you much more

@marcusantonius117 Жыл бұрын

Ok mr. Pick up guru. Sounds like u get a lot of girls by just being an interviewer

@krest2012 Жыл бұрын

Give examples

@chrisortiz2466 Жыл бұрын

@@marcusantonius117 it’s called carrying a conversation. Girls like to talk about themselves

@finalamv8561 Жыл бұрын

@@krest2012 "How was your day" "it was good a stranger complimented me today" "oh someone complimented you?" basically u repeat what they say in an open ended question type of way so they talk more about it

@FeeSpeech Жыл бұрын

Thats how i know someone isnt listening or starting to try manipulation lmao

@DUKEHadToDoItToEm Жыл бұрын

This literally just happens naturally when you're someone who hates pointless "small talk"

@knownstranger2570 Жыл бұрын

So do u directly ask such personal questions to someone u don't know well? I hate small talks(find it a waste of time) and I have a hard time talking to new ppl cuz of it but this happens to me when I talk to someone I'm really comfortable with

@roger_something Жыл бұрын

I hate small talk as well so usually if I'm talking to someone more than just passing by, I want my conversations to have meaning and be going somewhere otherwise my time is being wasted. So I actually will just straight up ask questions without hesitation. I think it has more to do with my autism, because sometimes I will realize I asked something personal after I have said it and then I will add a "if that's not too personal of a question" Usually they say oh its not too personal and answer.

@bluemountainw1789 Жыл бұрын

I hear lots of people hate small talk but why is it so hard to meet them in real life?

@knownstranger2570 Жыл бұрын

@@bluemountainw1789 prolly cuz this is something that one won't reveal very easily in social settings

@edvinkarlsson9368 Жыл бұрын

@Nonconformist_ZH nah

@krimsonkush1227 Жыл бұрын

Just be careful. Trying to get someone's interest is one thing, trying to control them is another. Some people pick up on these things and will not tolerate manipulation. You just might push away someone who could have played an important role in your life.

@abhi-_- Жыл бұрын

I believe circumstances in which u create ur first impression about different people also make a huge difference on whether they will stay or leave you... If one can keep their mind open to opportunities that present themselves then they can become master of their lives. Hard work only works in conjunction with right opportunities. You cannot force anyone to like u.

@ariljacott8529 Жыл бұрын

True true

@HorrorWorldx Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Some of this in the video could be counted as manipulation so use it wisely

@CrisisHipHop Жыл бұрын

Yeah yeah yeah

@icestationzebra8636 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely HATE psychologists/psychiatrists. Manipulators and usurpers. They are the mid-evil clergy of our time.

@flippinjimmy8677 Жыл бұрын

The person who designed the thumbnail deserves a raise

@volume2517 4 ай бұрын

Gross.

@mhoop5381 Жыл бұрын

Learning how to engage and socialize is a very powerful tool. Being socially advanced is often more powerful than even physical power. When you can psychologically control a situation, you can control any person on the planet.

@James-xb2yj Жыл бұрын

Girls would trick me into fighting other guys so it would bring attention to them. I picked up right away then threatened to get big girls to demolish then

@kevingaje4654 Жыл бұрын

Mindfuck it is

@natco6365 Жыл бұрын

this

@blastdouble1979 7 ай бұрын

Imagine having both😤

@dogegang7743 5 ай бұрын

Whoaa

@crissieroserose Жыл бұрын

Peoples favourite subject is themselves ..’getting people to actually listen to you is hard

@theanikiforovich Жыл бұрын

So true 😅😅🤣🤣

@mmendoza1190 Жыл бұрын

I stay away from those people

@luhniso Жыл бұрын

@@mmendoza1190 “those people” are most ppl dude maybe even u without knowing. Most (if not all) humans have some level of narcissism in them.

@ericcunningham9776 Жыл бұрын

No it’s not if you have charisma…then the tables flip what’s hard is the ablility to both active listen and hold people attention conversations…when you do that that’s when you become a social magician hehe j

@Brad_Pittstop Жыл бұрын

I can relate. I have to admit that being very wanted by sexy women, made me a raging narcissist. I didn't even care about what someone else had to say. Until I fell in love and got my heart broken (after having two kids with that person). I changed my outlook on life, I changed how I treated people. I became a much more approachable and better man-father. Although my ex took my kids from me, which is slowly killing me. I distract myself from that pain by helping others nowadays. People can change.

@muhammedakinyemi7560 Жыл бұрын

I read Art of Seduction and practiced it most of my teen age. I turned 24 and was just consumed with work and life outside the University and became susceptible to someone who used one of Greene's technique (isolation) to manipulate me so badly that it derailed my career for a minute. Looking back, I saw how harmless, flirtatious, persuasive, Seduction can be very damaging to the recipient. It's a tough, vicious, unrelenting cycle.

@NobleWolf33 Жыл бұрын

Now imagine what a sociopathic narc can do? This comes to them naturally but that is the thrill.

@gustavalbericchidurocher9764 Жыл бұрын

What is isolation about?

@muhammedakinyemi7560 Жыл бұрын

@@gustavalbericchidurocher9764 the person tries to make themself the only fun, safe, thrilling, place for you to be and remove you from all the comfort you had previously known. This may seem fun until they start to to use it to manipulate and control you. And make you feel crazy. But you've already been isolated from support systems so you just Gaslight yourself into believing that they're doing what's best for the relationship. When you finally get out, you'll realise how much of yourself you've lost and how the relationships survival depended on them making sure you needed them at all times.

@sxckme.sideways_3955 Жыл бұрын

Ive been thorugh this many times. Its ugly if someone does this to you. It can take years out of your life.

@muhammedakinyemi7560 Жыл бұрын

@@sxckme.sideways_3955 I now live in fear of giving vulnerability so I just keep away from people in any form other than friendship.

@dr.js77 Жыл бұрын

Stay positive, work hard, make it happen.

@Brad_Pittstop Жыл бұрын

Money, good looks, power, intellect.

@Mr.SirMan Жыл бұрын

have faith

@raavanangaming4175 Жыл бұрын

Ok sir any tips sir

@Ministry_0f_Truth Жыл бұрын

"Stay positive" may have a bit different meaning during pandemic :)

@Si_RED666 Жыл бұрын

@@Brad_Pittstop just like a gta character

@rickyrick6624 Жыл бұрын

This video perfectly describes how I talk to everyone in my life for the most part and it’s one of the most useful skills you could have because your able to have multiple people trust you and believe in you on a more deep and personal level which you could use to your advantage in a way but the trick to keeping this up is to never doing that person dirty or making them feel bad because thats what causes them to trust you less and it takes a a step backwards in that deep trusting relationship you want to have with them and if you never insult or judge that person they’ll stick and trust you forever knowing that nothing negative will ever come out of you or towards them(i don’t really know if that made sense I’m just ranting and putting my thoughts down but it’s a skill especially people my age lack that is very advantageous in life in general and people will only ever associate you with being a trustworthy genuine person which people are just attracted to in general)

@ROCKNROLLFAN Жыл бұрын

This is exactly why I'm getting out of explaining myself to people and telling them all of my personal buisness like I did in the past because it usually resulted in them using what I told them against me and to size me up.

@CRAZYROME Жыл бұрын

They always do

@hamzaislam7920 Жыл бұрын

This happens. Toxic people become leeches, they would learn from you, copy you, stalk you to get one up and then as they get a little confidence, they size you up. Tip: Always take a head start in things and be silent about it. Don't tell your goals or what you're doing to anyone even if they die asking. Silence is power.

@johncasey1020 Жыл бұрын

True, don't wear everything on your sleeve.

@penalty5992 Жыл бұрын

Just let out a juicy fart

@newlifegroupinc Жыл бұрын

@@penalty5992lol

@erickcr8778 Жыл бұрын

I feel like natural seduction, meaning, if there is chemistry and a connection, is one thing. And knowing exactly what to say, how to say it, saying to yourself things like “if they think about me when they get home then I’ve implanted myself in their mind…” sound manipulative and somewhat psychotic. In other words the fact that the seduction is calculated instead of it being organic is weird.

@uchihakiller201 Жыл бұрын

He basically telling you that there's people out there who manipulate. He's just an example

@toptiercrip Жыл бұрын

That's not manipulation lol that's someone who mastered seduction

@GaunterODinn Жыл бұрын

Lol a low level

@fernandocarneiro804 Жыл бұрын

Actually that's bullshit, some people don't even like to talk or to listen, there is nothing you can do in some cases. In almost all cases it's more about the other person than you. His tips are true, but you have try with some people until you find one that likes being seduced by this games. Some are more interested in what belongings you possess, how people see you, your personality, your looks, what you have to offer etc

@kernalsander9395 Жыл бұрын

Welcome to reality

@yourdude4197 Жыл бұрын

Just realized I’ve been subconsciously doing this when I was still dating my ex especially when we get into deep wholesome conversations. No wonder we really clicked naturally. And when I try seeing new people it just does not work because I try too hard. EDIT: I’ve reflected upon what my friends and I usually talk about. I kind of feel a stronger and deeper connection to my college friends whom I’ve just recently met compared to some people I’ve known for a long time but only on a surface level

@HalosOpulence Жыл бұрын

The only thing that is flawed about this is that person won’t treat you the same. You might end up in a relationship, however, they’ll never know you like you know them. It takes an irrefutable concern to get to know your partner or anyone really.

@leimarocampo6997 Жыл бұрын

This tricks are to get fast in a trust spot with the other person, not only relationship, with friends too, friends are a come-go in your life, what you learn from the other is when it comes to do the decision, me personally use these tricks to have a better trust bound with the other, but if I listen something I don't like, pretty sure I'm the one who can do something about it because I'm the listener, I'm not dropping my info and if I'm doing it is 20% when the other person is talking a lot more 80%. I've consider myself at this point like very social, so I'd try to come to a 60/40 where I talk more, knowing what spaces leave because someone who only listen and doesn't speak in the end isn't very attractive cause is talking to a wall, but socials skills takes time too!. Oh time...

@Goo_Gle. Жыл бұрын

This is so deep

@oshorai3258 Жыл бұрын

Oo nice observation. Well... The little trick is... Never let it become too personal. And try avoiding psychological dependency.

@maheshnanavare1517 Жыл бұрын

00.43 Giving attention, listening to people make them like you. 1.34 Find what exicites them❤🧡 2.00 Having similar in your life or atleast fake it, connects you with them 3.41❤🧡 4.32 Very important to not do any wrong ❤🧡❤❤ 1) Talk less. 2) Don't judge or be harsh on anyone about anything even if they deserve t. Be always gentle with warth & praise on people 3) Listen carefully, attend it.

@bugatti1199 Жыл бұрын

Just saw three videos from you and I‘m already addicted 😂

@zoricaradanov907 Жыл бұрын

None of it matters if you’re not atracted to the person who’s doing it to you

@michaelcaine9909 Жыл бұрын

😂 imagine some woman that resembles a gila monster with ass breath and long boogery nose hairs coming out of her nose with long flat saggy breasts and brown stains on the rear of her pants and yellowed fungus coated toenails asking what high school you went to lol like she's going to find a way into your heart with that 🤣

@RodneyKimbangu Жыл бұрын

Do you listen because you were attracted or were you attracted because you chose to listen?

@Brad_Pittstop Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. It's the eyes that make us interested, then someones intellect, heart, kindness can make us fall in love. But everything starts with physical attraction.

@Ken4JCML Жыл бұрын

@@Brad_Pittstop I think both physical and psychological attraction have to come together at first sight. The right looks & vibe it is.

@davitsurguladze6643 Жыл бұрын

Well, if you are on a date, it's safe to assume that they somewhat like you. I wish I had known this earlier, this year I had 9 failed dates 😂

@shadowspire Жыл бұрын

I have been mirroring people for a long time. I always get along with everyone, people always seem to open up to me, there’s a lot of rivalry where I work and it’s always us vs. them and once you’re in a group you don’t leave. However I always am able to go back and forth and I always am welcomed whereas that’s not the case with the others, there’s always animosity towards them. It’s helped me climb the ranks in our company fairly quickly.

@khamulajosh4805 Жыл бұрын

Great content 💯

@jf8468 Жыл бұрын

Greene is truly a treasure

@rainjolix999 Жыл бұрын

This is what i call an open minded and i love it

@september6946 7 ай бұрын

Hi Robert Greene, thank you for this short but all so sweet words ❤.

@khuziplays5651 Жыл бұрын

So in short be curious and communicate, so many words for such a simple idea

@anyutka19 Жыл бұрын

I don’t know. I’ve been doing this for as long as I remember and I end up becoming peoples unpaid therapist. It’s actually emotionally draining

@StonedNoob Жыл бұрын

Same here. It’s also quite a lonely place to be in.

@owiyanna Жыл бұрын

Damn. I felt that shit

@flaiirenn Жыл бұрын

lol me too. it's a curse. it's easy for me to charm someone and make them comfortable with me, but i end up becoming their unpaid therapist if i don't set some boundaries and distance. but that's ok, because we're always the ones that know everyone's secrets. we can be real dangerous!

@betarubber9546 Жыл бұрын

The greatest thumbnail of you tube history

@amirhosseintabari82 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for producing this type's of video It was so intresting🙏🏻💚

@chandrashekharahire4798 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much Sir

@mindbully Жыл бұрын

I like this. I think I’ve inadvertently practiced it.

@svetlanakouptsov7976 Жыл бұрын

all of this doesn't matter if you're not the guy's type and he's set against dating you. These things work with the proper circumstances

@manjaybella6970 Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@diesertan4181 Жыл бұрын

No social tactic works when the other person's prebuilt their idea of you, these things don't work under proper circumstances, it's just they don't work in your circumstances

@edvinkarlsson9368 Жыл бұрын

@@diesertan4181 yeah, why would you find yourself in a conversation like that and how?

@johncasey1020 Жыл бұрын

If you can't make a sale one day, that doesn't mean that you can't make a sale to the same person later.

@dinamo.slavonija Жыл бұрын

theres something called "setting the mood" you should learn how to do it...

@How_exactlyinhindi 6 ай бұрын

I am here to admire your creativity In thumbnail. Amazing

@ShirtHarmony Жыл бұрын

Who does your thumbnails seriously lol! Great channel, great videos, GREAT!

@vishwanathranjansharma566 Жыл бұрын

Great👍 work and great thoughts.. Really helpful... Thank you❤.

@drg8034 Жыл бұрын

Great advice! Now sociopaths, narcissists and psychopaths know how to step up their games!

@cry-rs7vv 8 ай бұрын

Yes we do

@1Kinesis Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this information

@vodgeee 8 ай бұрын

That was very insightful - thanks so much !

@jayveazie7928 Жыл бұрын

Very good! Exactly what I needed to know!

@Brad_Pittstop Жыл бұрын

Having problems with the ladies? I have the opposite. Most times in my life, pussy fell out of my pocket. Now that I am clinically depressed, and sex has lost my intrest. I couldn't care less about women.

@khamulajosh4805 Жыл бұрын

Just noticed the thumbnail ... And the whole pineal gland thing going on there😂💯💯

@J0HANLIBERT 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the guidance

@SKYTutorials Жыл бұрын

I searched for a total different video, but this Is a video I never knew was that interesting

@ViioLAzZ Жыл бұрын

Wow what a channel 👏🏻

@bhavyasharma8091 6 ай бұрын

My childhood is the last thing I want to talk about. Difficult childhood.

@SaniBravo Жыл бұрын

This was actually pretty brilliant

@joelaubriel1529 Жыл бұрын

I like that I learned something new thank you

@mobilemcsmarty1466 Жыл бұрын

good stuff here, I really liked the reminder about avoiding anti-seductive tendencies. for sure I don't like them done to me, at the same time it's easy to forget you're doing some 😎

@H4Hamburger 6 ай бұрын

That thumbnail goes hard

@GodsPrayerLandscaping Жыл бұрын

Absolutely brilliant

@BRYN_IT Жыл бұрын

That Thumbnail is everything

@bsmoovetv111 Жыл бұрын

Wow especially that anti seduction list at the end. 🔥🔥😮 wow.

@MrParamethius Жыл бұрын

Omg thank you! This video helped me save so much money. Roofies are expensive these days, manipulation is free

@Mr.SirMan Жыл бұрын

have faith, step out & not be afraid of getting knocked over 🙏

@makariupulu8225 Жыл бұрын

2 mins and already subscribed

@ralph4140 Жыл бұрын

That thumbnail is wild,damn😂

@Bloom0to9 Жыл бұрын

Mirror and get excited when they talk about something that's meaningful to them, use the word "yes" a lot with a huge smile. I done this all my life but I actually do enjoy listening to most people. HOWEVER, if you are interested in getting into a relationship, the interest NEEDS to be genuine and LONG TERM! Which means you need to have a reason for interest. You need commons grounds e.g. shared hobbies and interests BUT more often than not, it's usually sexual attraction that makes you interested. Because they need to offer something that you want otherwise the interest is usually not genuine and stops at friend level. This is why narcissists genuinely don't have long relationships... Cos they need to be offered something e.g. a partner that makes them feel good and looks good to make them look good. Narcissists usually see the world negatively. Psychopaths' on the other hand see value in using EVERYONE... So just be careful cos if you usually don't get a long with people and then all of a sudden , someone is crazy interested in you, they probably want to use you. Girls get a lot of interest because it's common for men to search for multiple woman while a woman waits for the man to come. This is also a reason why it's easier to manipulate a woman rather than a man.

@TopGrandTour Жыл бұрын

Very Informative and entertaining, first ever video watched

@Sun-WukongsPeaches 3 ай бұрын

Takes Notes

@nimityaka Жыл бұрын

Omg I genuinely looooved hearing about childhood of my ex husband, looking at their old family photos. I enjoyed it. And he was smitten with it every time we went to bed and before sleep I asked him to tell me stories from his childhood. He was making fun of this but I know secretly he loved it.

@satyamev4670 Жыл бұрын

This says everything 👍👍

@cre8gnr8nrg Жыл бұрын

Interesting especially just eliminating the last part

@justoldog 4 ай бұрын

good advice!

@user-pi4qd8ik5i Жыл бұрын

Thumbnail should be in museum

@ohmielevisope4237 Жыл бұрын

Seduction only works if the other person finds you attractive or worthy. Getting a relationships is easy but keeping one going is the hard part but it is very posible. There are many couples that have had lifelong relationships.

@colin750 Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@paulalfredpascual1437 Жыл бұрын

Good catch

@thorie79 Жыл бұрын

I found that showing interest just pushes them away, because the game is too see who has more value and thus who is chasing who. If you're the one chasing, you have lower value and they lose interest. Being curious is often a sign of desperation. I don't know what works, but just being curious doesn't.

@ClearWater7.62 Жыл бұрын

When you like someone, you show the most interest alot times that only pushes them away. And people always ask why they can't find love. Life is strange.

@SanjoManigos Жыл бұрын

yep, if you are being a stalker they just gonna go away from you.

@arande3 Жыл бұрын

Right, well it’s not the curiosity itself that is the problem, it’s their interpretation that it’s a sign of desperation

@saulgoodmann3077 Жыл бұрын

Mate trust me, you’re either showing TOO much curiosity or you just haven’t met the right people. You can be super duper curious but only show a little at a time, dont just unload it all, let it be a tugging game, where they also throw it back at you with their curiosity, be more mysterious and spontaneous in a fun flirty way, being 100% straight up makes you look like a piece of blank paper, just plain and square, nothing all that special. Just spice it up and keep trying

@Johanlob1 Жыл бұрын

If you show interest with action instead of just talk thats way more effective

@chrisrobinson611 Жыл бұрын

Let’s keep it simple. If you hate small talk, you’ve already been doing this. I find it interesting learning what makes someone themselves. All of the life experiences, all of the bad times, the good times… I want to know. On another note, the eyes say a lot. I can’t count how many women have said, “Why are you looking at me like that?” While blushing. What I’m doing is saying something like, “I want you.” While looking at they’re soul. I promise they feel it. Note: I’m not doing this to just any tweety bird that crosses my path. I am genuinely interested in who I pursue. At the same time, think of it like a game. Practice on those who you don’t want.

@arthurbushie998 Жыл бұрын

Crazy. Much appreciated

@calebhopkins3346 11 ай бұрын

Be you because the people who are attracted to you are going to give you alot better experiences. And always aim to be the better you. That should be our focus

@thomasjames9678 Жыл бұрын

2:25 - I find those are preferences or a part of their personality most of the time. If spiders scare them, that's a fear, if they love comedy movies that's a preference, indexing their personality traits and preferences as you said goes a long way when you revisit it in the same conversation or next time you talk to them, bring up things that they can relate to, experience them with yourself and connect to you with. Having the benefit of knowing their likes and dislikes gives you the power to pick and choose your likes and dislikes to disclose, keep the conversation going, and allow for that trust to build. 1:54 - as said, mirroring people is powerful. I've found through experience that as you said, letting them talk makes them feel like a star, occasionally comment on your own life to make connections with theirs here and there but being there and listening is half the battle. Many people don't care to listen but when you are there listening, day after day, they eventually confide in you, open up to you about personal matters, and form a bond.

@elinebelle5128 Жыл бұрын

I've been laughing on the thumbnail this whole video like you can't not to

@Ackermanmedia 6 ай бұрын

THIS IS THE ABSOLUTE SECRET to making fast connections with anybody you want. This is the skill I learned very early on. But it was very easy for me because I genuinely care about people and listen with interest. Somebody who is fake and doesn't care about anything or is pretending can't do this effectively.

@tourdhorizon97 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Imnotyourdoormat Жыл бұрын

This is GUARANTEED to work. "Love bombing" is the malignant narcissist's top tool for their initial addiction phase...

@miaomiaou_ Жыл бұрын

Exactly. If you are unfortunate enough to be seduced by someone like this, you don’t forget it

@moonstar9101 Жыл бұрын

Someone used these mind games on me. When I found out, I just felt devastated. I now have problems trusting people. It’s not nice realising you have been manipulated. Because you will never know what their true intent was - whether it was good or bad.

@EricRomeoCooper Жыл бұрын

Only works on people who can be seduced because I dont open up to anyone, I dont get excited and I dont obviously since I dont get excited, if someone says something off the wall I dont really care for it. lol

@ACHMAN_09 6 ай бұрын

Daily doses of seduction distilled from greatest psychology books

@Mr.SirMan Жыл бұрын

respectfully, this video is smooth

@juhaszgergo5611 Жыл бұрын

when a woman want to be with you she will look for you. Everytime you speak something you seduce or not another person. Do not be in a relationship with someone who you don't know. That means you have time. If she has no time for you, then move on.

@Blast010 Жыл бұрын

😊Love from India❣️🇮🇳

@crucialmoments3073 Жыл бұрын

Nice info👌

@elhadji13 Жыл бұрын

This definitely works

@chrisvincent782 Жыл бұрын

WHAT SCARES ME ABOUT STUFF LIKE THIS IS: YES, ITS POWERFUL AND ITS A GUARANTEE THAT SOME OF THE WRONG KIND OF PEOPLE WILL NOW USE THIS FOR NEFARIOUS PURPOSES

@garyoz1821 Жыл бұрын

All is fair in love and war.

@plastic0o Жыл бұрын

Yeah 🤦

@ericcunningham9776 Жыл бұрын

Well it’s a good thing you’re aware of that it might help you discern peoples intentions in the future

@bawbbie7875 Жыл бұрын

WHY ARE YOU YELLING R3T4RD

@kftv12 Жыл бұрын

Trust me the people who are evil don’t need this video those people have it figured out long before anything else In life ..

@tattoobobby3103 Жыл бұрын

That thumbnail is wild bro....😂😂😂😂

@justwatch3021 Жыл бұрын

i know what happends in last two days .. tq sir....😊

@rishikeshwagh Жыл бұрын

Thumbnails done right

@Apartmenttherapy333 Жыл бұрын

I usually just sit quietly and people will just start letting it all out 😂 ❤ it’s definitely in my energy…. I don’t judge people either lol GOO OFF ✨

@FREEDUMB4ALL Жыл бұрын

I've always "mirrored" people. it just came naturally. It gets most people to instantly let down their walls.

@HT_Ray Жыл бұрын

Gold!

@Ihyjayce Жыл бұрын

going on a date this weekend, recommended just in time 😈

@awaambot2014 Жыл бұрын

The thumbnail seduced me😂

@loveinthematrix Жыл бұрын

People can be moved deeply by me - and I actually often choose to not move forward because it freaks me out. I have seen people’s spirits come alive through conversation. I sometimes don’t know how to handle the intensity of the connection. I often act disinterested so this doesn’t happen. I fear rejection but I also fear deep closeness. I am on the autism spectrum so I can’t always handle the depth of connection but spiritually I have access to doing so very easily. It’s weird. I don’t know what to do with it sometimes. Like almost always - because I am kind of emotionally unavailable.

@johncandlewick6561 Жыл бұрын

Same thing. People are very confortable around me. They just open up and talk. Im very observant by nature. Sometimes my silence makes them nervous, but when i speak i calm them down. Doing this yin-yang effect. Like you my biggest fear is living with extreme solitude mixed with being afraid of relationships. Sometimes people think im really interested in them, when in reality im interested in knowing who they are just for the challenge. I could be very dangerous if i wanted too as normally i will be aware of their inner workings and they wont be of mine, but i would never feel good doing it to people i like. Unless i would be dealing with someone trying to fuck me over or trying to manipulate me.

@gokengeyi3306 Жыл бұрын

Seduction with psychology...wow..very interesting video...😃😃👏👏👏

@souvikbhattacharya2233 Жыл бұрын

Time to practice

@husseinawed3272 Жыл бұрын

It's really true... I'm definitely gonna try it

@user-lk7nb9fi3x Жыл бұрын

Hey man thanks.

@Mammasitta Жыл бұрын

Fantastic! ❤

@TheGlaucoRicci Жыл бұрын

It is easy to not fall for this, just be aware of what are you saying and what are you listening, don´t agree to everything right away in your mind even if you think they are right, take time to digest what you heard and read, dont talk too much, manipulative people likes to use your own feelings to fool yourself, só dont let yourself be carried alway by temporary excitement. =D