HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK AFTER A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
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In this session we are discussing HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK AFTER A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
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@Atasteofheaven_1 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the toxic person in the relationship is you, because you keep trying to keep together or continue to go back to a relationship that is evidently not meant to be .
@starbiedoll5659 2 жыл бұрын
Whew that hit different!!! So true!!
@dlb2837 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we have to see it in black and white to admit and accept what we already know. THANK YOU for the reality check!
@Candy-hi9on 2 жыл бұрын
You are so right. Being in a toxic relationship can make you a toxic person as well. I can so relate.
@encouragingthesaints 2 жыл бұрын
😳🤯😭😭😭
@Atasteofheaven_1 2 жыл бұрын
Very true, so what makes the relationship toxic? You bring out the worst in each other. Healthy relationships bring out your best. @@Candy-hi9on
@ChristianMotivationMedia 2 жыл бұрын
🍁In a world full of anxieties, remember this verse tonight, “I will both lie down in peace, and sleep; For You alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.” Psalms 4:8
@melissaj.corbin7675 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you for this important encouragement from Our Father’s Holy word. Thank you!
@crujax1554 2 жыл бұрын
I say that verse nightly!!!
@ellaleggett9628 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@preciousmcfarland5265 2 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏿
@JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life. 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, He does! Hallelujah and AMEN 🙌🏼✝️👆🏼💜
@donnab8345 2 жыл бұрын
"Stop obsessing over the toxic nostalgia." That's me. I try to forgive the bad acts, and focus on the good things he did or the good times we had. But that's not the full picture.
@buzzingbee9499 2 жыл бұрын
Same💔
@Erin-pk3ff 2 жыл бұрын
I am blown away!!!! I had no idea what was happening to me! It’s been 16 years and it was financial circumstances that I couldn’t get out of my relationship I had to get a loan just to get out to move out and it was trying to keep my family together they are paying that feeling of failure of all these negative thoughts but I did it and now I’m on my healing journey I am so forever grateful thank you Pastor ❤️
@ursulaursula4912 2 жыл бұрын
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@stephanygoodpasture5541 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you said this. "Toxic nostalgia" sometimes after a breakup we find ourselves hurting and lonely and it's easy to fall into the trap of forgetting the "red flags" I feel are Holy Spirit prompting us to be very careful and ask God for wisdom and guidance in how to proceed. When we are broken we put up with too much b.s. 💔 Let's take time to ask God to take us on that narrow path to loving ourselves first. It takes time and effort to do this but it is worth ALL the effort. Love and patience to everyone going on this journey..
@juliejohnson7996 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@tjhasley4688 Жыл бұрын
I was with a narcissist and my hair began to thin from the stress of it all. I’ve been in a healing journey and my hair has grown back! It’s better than before. Such a synchronicity 😇
@jessieschatz9611 Жыл бұрын
Same! My hair literally fell out.. I'm slowly getting myself back again. *
@angiemillion3498 Жыл бұрын
Wow ladies ! I thought it was from other things ? Now you have me questioning….. is it the toxicity of my relationship
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
Makes my skin crawl now 😢
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
@@jessieschatz9611 ❤
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
@@angiemillion3498 ❤
@jessica70122able 2 жыл бұрын
My dad use to say, dress in a way that people (men & women, young and old) will rush to open the door for you!!! Respectfully!!! That has always been my guidelines for my attire.
@enatihaok3594 2 жыл бұрын
Some comments should be viral
@jessica70122able 2 жыл бұрын
@@enatihaok3594 ❤️
@missjackie7983 2 жыл бұрын
A little four year old boy saw me coming and ran to open the door for me. LOL lol. I thought that was so cute! Even at a young age he was appreciating the nice dress I had on with the matching shoes, purse, and hat.
@jessica70122able 2 жыл бұрын
@@missjackie7983 He recognized a beautiful lady!! Someone is teaching him well!
@munequa81 2 жыл бұрын
My parents taught me that too.
@shreya57805 Жыл бұрын
1. Stop BLAMING yourself. No one is perfect we all make some mistakes bt dont let ur past continue to destroy ur self worth. Take charge of ur self worth 2.Stop BELITTLING yourself for being human. Don't sabotage urself for coming in this relationship and doubt ur decision making capacity just coz something in life didn't work out well. Criticising self will feed ur subconscious negatively to attract same things again. 3.Stop holding on to the TOXIC NOSTALGIA. Dont ignore the horror movie just bcoz it had a happy beginning. Obsessing over the happy moments and forgetting that u were stabbed and shot down later on is stupid and portrays how broken u are. Once u recognize a denom don't let them walk back in!!! 4. IMMEDIATELY have a relationship LOCKDOWN. Go on fasting from relationship. Don't come into one until u r ready emotionally and mentally. Coz if u r damaged and not yet healed u won't be good even to a healthy happy man. 5. Become ur BEST physical version. Gain back ur self confidence. Don't sit all day and gain weight. And do it only and only for ur own self NOT to attract or impress anyone. 6. Know ur psyche. Trace ur patterns of thoughts.. Observe the traits or common traits of ur earlier partners and work on yourself and ur beliefs. 7. REVIVE UR SPIRIT. Give time to yourself to heal. Let those wounds repair. Practice spirituality (any higher power u believe in). Let the higher energy pass u wisdom and strength. Thank u so much sir. For this knowledge and guidance. Deeply grateful to u. 😌 Love from India 💓
@vanessajohnson5449 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@shatorricabarnes5548 2 жыл бұрын
Getting back to myself is like reparenting myself after a toxic relationship. Showing myself the love that I’ve never gave myself . Setting boundaries , being gentle with myself and, choosing to honor myself like never before .
@jeanenelatique 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! We are in a 'like never before' state. I am also working on getting ME back. We will be better than ever before. We can do this! 🥳
@loveinautumn3978 2 жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful sis!
@loveinautumn3978 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanenelatique Sure can!
@bridgettepeppers9168 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@singh11706 2 жыл бұрын
How do I do that? How do I get myself back after all Ive been in was toxic relationships and now to the point where I feel like I've become the toxic person and portray toxic traits.
@dariahorna6086 2 жыл бұрын
"You left Freddy Krueger and the same day you shift it over to Jason, You just live that Halloween kind of life." The way you pass the message is so funny and so serious at the same time. Thank you
@jaydaroyale9019 2 жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy so true
@tamikanorment9580 2 жыл бұрын
Man I laughed at this part but so true!
@ChichiMarie 2 жыл бұрын
Too true ❤️
@renee560 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. “Living that Halloween kind of life”. I had to laugh because it’s so true.
@canttouchthis421 2 жыл бұрын
I hollered out loud.. so sad that’s me
@amy321 2 жыл бұрын
Relationship lockdown - Jesus is ALL you need in the healing process. As a high value person, satan will send many to keep you down, NONE are there to elevate you. Be strong. Rest in the strength of God. Be your own Oak tree of strength. Every time I've left a narcissist, there was another pretty one to step in his place, with the exact opposite personality, but always just the other side of the same coin. I am so sick of fostering grown men until they find their forever home. For my 2nd husband, the lawyer, his forever home turned out to be prison! Please, people, don't fall for the temptation of the devil! I'm praying for all of us!!
@patriciahandy2901 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ATurnergirl 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. We appreciate your prayers.
@ATurnergirl 2 жыл бұрын
Fostering grown men. Is where you had me. Let me add broken to that which is what I’ve run into in terms of dating. I realize hurt people do hurt people. Great point you stated. 👏😊
@joyricherson4570 Жыл бұрын
Uh?
@joyricherson4570 Жыл бұрын
God made us to be interdependent not independent.
@chestnutrose187 2 жыл бұрын
That toxic nostalgia will cause you to do something you'll regret!
@kirox34 2 жыл бұрын
As I was listening to this video and feeling sad about my husband and his lack of concern for me and feeling like I want to reach back out even if it's just for crumbs.... you mentioned the part about finding what's broken within myself that I would allow someone to treat me this way..and I began to remember all the times he has physically hurt me. One specific incident where he pushed me down on the gravel and kicked me in the stomach and called me horrible names popped into my mind and I got this strength from within to realise that the man I'm missing and wishing would love me does NOT exist. I am letting go...even if it means I have to be righteously angry at how he abused and treated me..I am breaking that bond. Please pray for me and my children
@jessicarodriguez8657 2 жыл бұрын
Ohh please I pray u r strong..u have stood strong. Something I am learning is my children will b victims of this behavior. They will view this as a normal n is not. A generational chain will clink to them all due to us not cutting it by walking away from behavior that is not normal. So if we can for our selfs let's do it for sake of our children n how they deserve to learn what is healthy for there tomorrow.
@whiteroseangel1511 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for you and your children 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💜💜💜💜💜
@MsJarie Жыл бұрын
Praying for you, sister. You are dearly loved and you are strong beyond measure.
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
Oh I’m not feeling too good about narcissism right now mad as hell
@torri4777 Жыл бұрын
Yesss! Immediately!!!! Cannot forget that part.
@Keonahawk24 2 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to watch this!! I refuse to allow my ex to keep me down the rest of my life. God will fight my battles and give me rest.
@janayewill3883 2 жыл бұрын
It’s my birthday today and last year I was straddling a man to love me but not anymore.... I’m on to better by loving myself 🥰
@gloryolatunji4221 2 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday ma'am ❤️
@ifyndukuba6496 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday, sis.
@BrittaniMeShay 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Janaye! Onward and upward sis💕
@janayewill3883 2 жыл бұрын
@@BrittaniMeShay awww thnx ❤️
@bem6344 2 жыл бұрын
Yes❤️👌
@jackiesinaa 2 жыл бұрын
Bishop, thank you so much for your teachings! As a 25 year old woman who got out of a toxic relationship a year ago, your teachings has helped me tremendously spiritually, mentally, & physically! I was that one woman who would be in sweatpants all the time, never did my makeup, hair all messed up.. I had to stop feeling sorry for myself & picked the pieces up one by one by the grace of God. It wasn’t easy but it was worth the journey! I’m still learning new things about myself everyday & thank God for the experience & wisdom I gained from the heartache! God bless you & your family!
@arieselenamcdonald9325 2 жыл бұрын
thank you wonderful message God bless you today and always
@kathrinlehto9459 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family! 🥰🌺
@chelbels16 2 жыл бұрын
And your profile makes you look so beautiful what a lost for him !
@Selin-mo1bv 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!
@merouria6524 2 жыл бұрын
Women can't say it because they don't wanna say that sex is THAT important to them. But the majority of women that can't seem to leave a toxic situation 9 times out of 10 it's because the guy is good in bed.
@Sweetea74 2 жыл бұрын
This message just saved my life literally! Without your messages, I would be six feet under by now.Just kicked serial cheater husband out tonight after 23 years. 💛🙏💯👍
@Atasteofheaven_1 2 жыл бұрын
I believe the most important part of releasing toxicity and overcoming any relationship is personal accountability. When you spend time reflecting on where you went wrong in a relationship you tend not to repeat the cycle. When you blame everyone else for a failed relationship, you go into the next relationship with the same "choices" and thinking, dooming it for yet another failure. What I believe he is speaking more on is self esteem. Your self esteem should not be determined by the failure or success of a relationship.
@monicanicole738 2 жыл бұрын
That part 💯
@kendrapalacio7484 2 жыл бұрын
Accountability is what I am focusing on right now 😪
@bigsip37 2 жыл бұрын
Self esteem plays a role in why this would happen to you though!
@Atasteofheaven_1 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree, trauma is the most contributing factor
@annawallace3264 8 ай бұрын
Bishop said it perfectly, “stop blaming yourself as you have been involved with a narcissist, has narcissistic tendencies…..” I have been thru his toxicity ….since marrying him at 18. He was diagnosed narcissistic with paranoia + alzheimers 7 yrs ago. He is now in Assisted Living being cared for (he takes his meds & eats without question to the Staff there). I thank God every day for giving me peace and quiet to heal in post 53 yrs of marriage.
@gerijohnson3850 2 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate as a senior citizen. Two failed Marriages have sent me back to school working on myself. Yes it takes two and both spouses left the marriage but did not want to divorce. Just wanted to string me along and not Man up. I gave in way too often out of traditional relationship dysfunctional behaviors. Women are taught to be long suffering and submissive and yet it's not taught for the man as well. So short story. I am better now. I am loving every day the Lord gives me. Thank you Pastor RC Blakes.
@JT-hx8mq 2 жыл бұрын
Geri, thank you for sharing. May God’s wisdom, favor, grace, understanding ,discernment and shalom rest upon you .
@Nanbebe7 2 жыл бұрын
I agree one failed marriage was enough to show and teach me to be all that I need and that I am enough by myself! I will only accept Gods best for my life. No more excuses and accepting red flags!
@yourstruly1984 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@Believerfearless 2 жыл бұрын
Yes this is my story. I stayed during his mistakes and he left me in mine. But I’m no longer going to wish for things that have failed. I’m taking my power back in the authority of Jesus.
@AmandaOakley79 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I'm going thru now. Married 14yrs, he left to get high & have a baby w a 26yr old prostitute. Chose her over me but refuses to sign the divorce papers. Always texting or calling to tell me he loves & misses me, but of course his actions never line up w those words. Theres something about making those vows before God, it sure does make it hard to detach, especially when ur spouse is in a horribly toxic lifestyle & u know ur the only one praying for him. It is just so hard to figure out whats the right thing to do?! What should I even be praying for? For God to help save my marriage? Or for strength to move on?? It's absolutely horrible day to day, I'm so glad you've risen above it all Sis.
@ed000 2 жыл бұрын
I will always remember "immediately 10× initiates relationship lockdown".... I've been in lockdown after 12 years in abusive marriage. Society teaches it's bad to be single but I say it's a big LIE. I got my power back and I can feel God using this situation to give me a chance never to reduce my standard again!!
@michellescott6142 2 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful and appreciative for this topic .I have experience all of the above you mentioned,but thank God my purpose was discovered and now I am serving God in Spirit and in Truth.May God bless your ministry as you touch hearts all over the world
@amandat7556 2 жыл бұрын
thank you, for sharing this informative information on how to restore self after a toxic relationship. I have found myself in another unhealthy relationship/marriage. I have already began a few steps that you gave in your message. I will follow all seven and begin to heal and move forward to repair my heart, mind and body
@monamona-ld9sc 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@amerokeewiya1320 2 жыл бұрын
Society also teaches that women should settle & accept a man philandering. I’d rather be single with my power & happy than to be with a piece of shit who doesn’t respect me. This is why I have MY OWN MIND.
@ladyk7317 2 жыл бұрын
And that's the word your standard When you respect and love yourself you will uphold your standards It took me til my 50th birthday to LEARN that 💪🏾👏🏾💋
@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430 2 жыл бұрын
Living a Halloween kind of life. 🥴🤣🤣🤣I felt that in my soul. I’m done with Michael Myers and Jason. Im fasting from relationships and embracing God. I will raise the children from both of those relationships to be wonderful human beings
@kaleema1987 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Grateful4Lyfe1 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@jhern2222 2 жыл бұрын
I have been out of a TOXIC relationship/marraige for 3 years. I have been through the stages of blame, shame and depression. I was deceived, gaslight and emotionally abused for years. I have taken the time to rebuild myself and with God I know have stopped blaming myself and have stopped the what ifs!! I saw myself in this lesson. God is forever faithful. Thank you
@Mags765 Жыл бұрын
Blessings I pray I get there one day. Healing 🙌🏽 🙏🏼🦋
@davidcoppotelli3957 Жыл бұрын
And there a lot of others that are with you. We have to Cut our Losses. Its not easy But if we have SHUT It DOWN we Won and we are truly BLESSED.
@TheTattooedSoul24 2 жыл бұрын
Note to self: Stop taking over the abuser's past job! Tough one but possible
@encouragingthesaints 2 жыл бұрын
I have found, as a Christian, it is DEVASTATING to be taught to never allow the word “divorce” to be part of your vocabulary, or to be an option, but then it becomes a very real possibility. It is devastating.
@deetor5551 2 жыл бұрын
Oh for sure! The man or women we are with can make us look really bad in front of others when we have grown as a child of God yet we are looked at as something totally not who we are, energy and power taken stolen... Leave emotionally ask God to help you.
@HernameisSAFFA 2 жыл бұрын
Not left Freddy Krueger and hopped in Jason's bed.😂😂 Preach Bishop! I love this guy's humor and realness.
@samararoberts7596 2 жыл бұрын
Lmbo fr 😭🤦🏾♀️💀🤣😂💯
@brittanyb5942 2 жыл бұрын
"You left Freddy Krueger and switched over to Jason" 🤣🤣 That was GOOD Bishop 👏🏾👏🏾
@mrialg9416 2 жыл бұрын
Halloween kind of relationships!
@Incognitofication 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@jenniferboldeau9313 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@idaleemitchell7376 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Mr. Blake how are you I’ve been listening to you for the past month now and everything you said renovated to me I’m a 57 U-Haul woman and I’m dating a 40-year-old guy one day this guy said to me that he needs children and I cannot have no kids for him and there’s no future there for us and he won kids saw Mr. What should I do
@preciousmcfarland5265 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@sheilablanton4894 2 жыл бұрын
This was definitely a good lesson tonite ..after leaving a toxic narrcissistic relationship..i been FREE an single an i love it..it feels good to think an focus on me now..🙏🙏❤
@tammycarter6184 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you keep moving forward. Happy for you 🙏🙏😊
@JT-hx8mq 2 жыл бұрын
So noted and Amen!!!!
@sheilablanton4894 2 жыл бұрын
@@JT-hx8mq ❤
@nitakalisingh9445 2 жыл бұрын
I am Proud of you. 👍👍
@consuelacharleston2369 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Happy for you! Stay joyous! 😊
@jessica70122able 2 жыл бұрын
The opportunity will continue to present itself until you learn from it!!!
@jeanhawkins8642 2 жыл бұрын
The result of me leaving that toxic relationship was a result of Unexpected Depression and panic attacks for me! But i am slowly regaining my sanity back. By praying and praying all day long. And speaking out loud that " i will not be depressed.. I will get over this "and so can you Ladies. Thank u Pastor Blakes! You are telling my story
@Christine-jg3hf Жыл бұрын
Yes AMEN Thank You All! In The Name Of Jesus 💞🌷💪🙏💯🙏
@jenniferboldeau9313 Жыл бұрын
0pl0
@utaka78 10 ай бұрын
I feel you✨it took me monhts to recover and i‘m still healing✨
@neeksweeks 2 жыл бұрын
You left Freddy Krueger and ended up with Jason. Lol 😂... I can relate unfortunately but thank God after my relationship lockdown... now I can laugh.
@andreamagyar5541 2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people want to be the same, you will be better, once your eyes are open you can not NOT see anymore! You learned the lesson! Use it!
@lilliekjordan7444 2 жыл бұрын
YES, IT HAS BEEN HARD. BUT I KNOW THAT I DID MY PART PLUS... CONTINUE TO PRAY!!! THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG WHEN YOUR NOT LOOKING.
@ssgferrell 2 жыл бұрын
One of the most important keys is do not give them a platform. Fall off the face of the earth... Trust, it will get better
@itsgodfortay 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you R.C this just snapped me out of a mood !!!!! I'm getting out of this toxic situation. Idk why nor how I stayed this long but God! I know he allowed it but now God is ushering me out. The Holy Spirit is walking me through the door to my freedom! I receive it In Jesus Name, I am free 🙌🏽
@ednahchirchir1924 2 жыл бұрын
Monkey bags? That's a new and eye opener
@leighharrell8953 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being an inspiration, I hope you're doing well.
@jeannettemorrone5189 2 жыл бұрын
By God's grace, he pulled me out of a toxic relationship! He also placed me where I need to be and brought me to messages I needed hear.. Thank you for this tonight. I honestly don't even know if I asked him with my mouth, or my heart but he did it, he delivered me.
@sheargenius0073 2 жыл бұрын
You are the Father figure I never had. You have blessed me with the knowledge God has given you!!! You address things no other Pastor has ever spoken so openly about. Thank you!! You and Lisa have blessed us with your ministry!!! Love and peace.
@Burbankelly 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes! I have my teenage son watching your videos with me so he can know how to treat ladies the way God intended and how to look out for toxic women too! You have changed his perspective and life and we both just love you!
@caylabatts9270 2 жыл бұрын
That's amazing Mama! 👏🙏
@melissalondon4222 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you bishop God bless you
@ChichiMarie 2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing mother. Much better than the enabling mothers who condone narcissistic behavior with their actions❤️
@yolih692 2 жыл бұрын
Remember: You were in the newspaper 📰😂😂😂 Pastor is hilarious! Thank you for this word 🙏🏾
@pileshongwe7827 7 ай бұрын
His sense of humor is out of this world he got me laughing too 😅
@tiland03 2 жыл бұрын
That type statement hit the bullseye 🎯
@preciousmcfarland5265 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯💯💯
@jessica70122able 2 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness, (for them and self), learn from the lesson, heal, endure the process….
@chikFromMTL 2 жыл бұрын
It also applies to all types of relationships: family, friends, work, church, etc. Thank you for this 🙌
@lolachlih3136 2 жыл бұрын
This really spoke to me back in March i got myself out of a toxic relationship of long 7 years he was a narcissist i was broken to my core emotionally and mentally but that relationship after leaving has made me turn inside to start healing myself to becoming free and feeling good leaving him made me take my power back! This whole message brought tears to my eyes remembering what i went through once upon a time thank you for this informative video Bishop 🙏
@kristinakellogg1732 2 жыл бұрын
I understand completely. I was absolutely devastated after getting out of my toxic situation. I cant blame all of it on him . I made choices even knowing the Red flags were all in my face. ..the secretive life he led..never introducing me to his family...always wanting to look at my phone if I didnt pick up. If I ever questioned him it was I am working and why you mess up our momentum. I learned to keep silent and pretend all was GOING to be ok even after the abuse. Once I literally lost myself spiraling in a dark hole not even knowing who I was anymore I turned to God. Got in the Word and left this situationship and learning to live all over again..literally. Live in love..loving myself . 🍁🌼🌻🌸🌷🌺
@lolachlih3136 2 жыл бұрын
@@kristinakellogg1732 Amen to that and that's all we can do is alot of self loving and God is with us always 🙏❤🌻⚘
@kristinakellogg1732 2 жыл бұрын
@@lolachlih3136 Amen . Absolutely !! Love you.!! God is with you and me and we are walking in our freedom of love 🌻🌼🌸🌷🌺💕🍁
@lolachlih3136 2 жыл бұрын
@@kristinakellogg1732 love you too ⚘💞 we definitely are and God will keep lifting us and keeping his hands of protection on us❤🙏
@kaleema1987 2 жыл бұрын
In all honesty I don't even remember much about my past relationships because its been so long it's like it never happened. I don't even have any contact with these people. I believe God gives a peace once you move away from all of that mess and it's almost as if these people don't exist anymore. I'm speaking for myself but I see it that way. By renewing our minds and thoughts it makes such a difference. Wonderful video as always😊❤🙏
@missjackie7983 2 жыл бұрын
Protecting your peace just like I am. I rather be by myself I'm used to it and it's quite comforting
@kaleema1987 2 жыл бұрын
@@missjackie7983 Yes absolutely true!
@desreenjackson7638 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaleema1987 Your not wrong.... God has removed the sting and the poison that I don't even remembered it happened!
@kaleema1987 2 жыл бұрын
@@desreenjackson7638 Isn't it amazing how God smooths everything out
@GaminGawdess 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom is too high for a fool… thank you Pastor! This sermon was my turn around❤️
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
Say it again ❤
@lorainegardener559 2 жыл бұрын
Very true teaching I blamed myself I truly loved him all this what you saying 10 years of future faking he mentally broke me 16 months free as a woman over 60 im healing now by God's grace
@twinkiesandspam 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bishop. Watched it twice and this talk made a difference . I healed more in the last 24 hours than I was able to do in the last 2 1/2 years behind a narcissist that had went thru my life twice ...30 years apart and got a total of about 4 years of my life with his lies. There is only one man who has emotionally crippled me twice and no man has ever done as much damage as he did. He is a narcissist and an alcoholic but I am free at last.Thank you Jesus...and Bishop. May God bless you and yours. This gal is good. God has always had me but God is holding me tight now. Whatever a person's earthly Kryponite is is nothing to overcome when you got Jesus on your side.
@feliciasanners5526 2 жыл бұрын
💖💖
@bridgettepeppers9168 2 жыл бұрын
❤🙏🏽❤. Narcissist and alcoholic is the worst. I can relate
@susanruiz5564 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, amen
@invicta_vita 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now. I'm not sure I can do this on my own. You do give me hope. Thank you!
@TheSharmainemartin 2 жыл бұрын
I've been going through this for 3 years and I'm done. Focusing on myself and doing things to make me happy.
@dejamesola 2 жыл бұрын
Personal connection to ELOHIM and Yeshua Hamashiach has been key for me! Truth is, I could feel my mind wanting to slip into a dark place while in the very unhealthy relationship! But through, Fasting, studying and prayer I Got a break-through and am now healing!!! HalleluYah!!! 👏🙏💯
@desiliana2925 2 жыл бұрын
"Stop holding on to that toxic nostalgia" Oh it's so on point Pastor! I'm washing dishes while listening and decided to stop cos I don't wanna be distracted and miss every single word of your guidance. God bless you Pastor Blakes!
@DutchessLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
Nn o
@DutchessLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
No
@DutchessLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
O
@DutchessLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
No
@DutchessLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
Non
@scarlettfreedom3629 2 жыл бұрын
I feel a lot of anxiety and rage and sorrow. Thanks for this. 😭🙏🏻❤️
@farfetched9296 2 жыл бұрын
Learn about self indulgence. Once you embrace your singlehood for HEALING, GROWTH, MATURITY, and the BLESSINGS YOU DESERVE....PLEASE you will run from relationships because you enjoy your PEACE OF MIND, HAPPINESS, & SANITY
@erickahill6579 2 жыл бұрын
This is great teaching! Fasting from relationships spoke volumes to me. God knows that I do not want to repeat the same cycle again. I'm learning to love myself again after a toxic 14 yr marriage with a narcissist🥴🥴. I'm looking at my true self and allowing the presence and word of God to heal me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤ I started my dream business and purchased investment property, these are good distractions!
@ssgferrell 2 жыл бұрын
I so appreciate you, Bishop!!! You help me get out of a bad relationship with a narc... Boy, what a difference a year make.. You are Def a blessing.
@susansookdeo1465 2 жыл бұрын
Bishop I have been living with this marriage I kinda lose myself. Every time we will fight he'll tell me to pack my bags 🎒and leave.married for 35 years.
@robinhicks3179 2 жыл бұрын
@@susansookdeo1465 m ! Cbbvxxx cancel c. Xac coming a cuz x uh nvm M B
@marycaldwell2367 2 жыл бұрын
@@susansookdeo1465 OMG I Feel You Must Leave This Because He Packed My Things I had Been on A Business Trip But I’m Bless With PEACE
@goddessunivers3122 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor 🙌just in time ,as from this Friday , I'm looking forwards to my new life, after 9 years of toxic marriage with a narcissist! Yesterday was one of my happiest days of my life, after winning in the court 🙌❤
@crazychristmas100 2 жыл бұрын
Hi what techniques are you using to recover? I believe someone who is a narcissist just broke up with me in a cruel way and it's been difficult to comprehend and accept.
@dikenamiddleton2821 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never felt so called out in my life!! Sitting here in sweat pants with the blinds closed! Thank you Holy Spirit!! Thanks you Mr. Blake’s ❤️❤️
@tanquantwal 2 жыл бұрын
Me too!! Sleeping in sweatpants. Not even caring🥲
@JustBeingSusieque 2 жыл бұрын
Me currently
@fambam6709 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic nostalgia made you forget that you were in the newspaper shake my head laugh out loud!!! That was too funny and so sad at the same time. 🙂🙁God bless you Bishop! What an awesome and much needed word!
@CandaceLeAnne 2 жыл бұрын
It truly was funny 😄 even with the weightiness of the topic being handled with card and consideration .
@brianpollet3193 2 жыл бұрын
This definitely goes into my list of one of the most powerful videos I can draw encouragement from. So many jewels to be taken from this. One that stood out is “You teach the world how to treat you by the way you treat yourself.” I’m going to watch this many more times with the thought of absorbing a new jewel each time. Thank you 🙏🏾
@alicemwonge8807 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Great one
@GrwninGrace 2 жыл бұрын
This is confirmation that I've been through the stages of recovery. I just wish I could have gotten there years ago. But I know God is always on time, and He allowed me to stumble across one of your videos on purpose. And now, countless videos later, I am no doubt an empowered woman. God bless you and Lady Lisa, Bishop!
@gerraldhm 2 жыл бұрын
“Toxic nostalgia.” Wow. Powerful. Absolutely love how you hit just right!!! 💖
@reneebenotmusic 2 жыл бұрын
Hilarious, truth and sadness rolled up all in one. #3 got me.Toxic Nostalgia-You've been shot, in the newspaper, etc. don't let that demon back in!
@DanielleTRushin 2 жыл бұрын
Bishop You and T. Gaskins have been a God-send for me! You helped reform my thinking during and after my divorce! I’m so grateful for you!!!!! ♥️
@kaleema1987 2 жыл бұрын
Yes so true!
@tevaristorres8535 2 жыл бұрын
chile...I go from one to the other and then throw in the Potters House on Sundays!!!! I had to teach myself these things but I love coming here to stay sharp in this world.
@Alabasterbox 2 жыл бұрын
Yep for me two. I love them both
@Elijah_Dino 2 жыл бұрын
Yessss!! 💖
@purplelily6950 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! RC Blakes, Tony Gaskins and Stephan LaBoussier. I thank God for these beautiful souls.
@wifeytypefem 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, please!!!! Let the Lord use you🙌🏾👏🏾 I need this message, it’s on time!!!
@scarlettfreedom3629 2 жыл бұрын
Same here 💛
@yvonneforeman2966 2 жыл бұрын
God is already using you as a to bring a lot of people out of wherever they're in and I thank you for it
@sheberry2895 2 жыл бұрын
It amazes me that everything I'm naturally on these past couple seasons he speaks about. I almost wonder if all women thought deeply about their healing and relationship with God does this all come naturally because I have been doing ALL of this! I promise it works. I'm literally someone's wife in the making.. I feel it. I'm on alignment!
@jannaw9000 2 жыл бұрын
How do I feel like you are always speaking directly to me? Every one of your videos, every single one. Do you know how much you are truly making a difference for people/women, specifically? ❤️
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗. His videos.... his videos changed my life 3 years ago....I'm addicted I can't let go.🤗 I watched many I've seen over and over again.
@elbushrababiker7221 Жыл бұрын
I remember one time I asked GOD to help me. The wind almost nock me over. Before I got help out of my mouth. GOD was there. It took GOD maybe in my mind a tenth of a second. To get from the Kingdom to Albany New York. Wow!
@wandadacounselor3047 2 жыл бұрын
Lord help us your daughters..
@loveyforlaughs 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 for this God given message. I’ve been abandoned my whole life, except by my Jesus. Thank you Lord for loving all of us, no matter how broken we are. Worst of all, I abandoned myself, belittled myself and dishonored myself, but through it all Jesus saw me, he loved me and saved me. I pray the same for others like me.
@barryhampton6270 2 жыл бұрын
Hi pastor God bless you sir, Men do watch you as well, just want you to know that. I got out of a toxic relationship with extremely heavy losses… this video is spiritual gold for men and women alike, all your content is!
@AB-wk6sm 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Pastor 💯🙏🏿. I’m on the road to recovery over this toxic Narc
@pdoll96 2 жыл бұрын
God is so faithful. He will take you all the way sis. I’m in a place I didn’t think I could be again. Bless you!
@AB-wk6sm 2 жыл бұрын
@@pdoll96 thank u sis…. I believe so. This video helped me so much. ❤️🙏🏿
@irislopezcornwell2746 2 жыл бұрын
21 yrs of dealing with this. Your words are speaking my story exactly! Glad I found your videos. I have been feeling sorry for him. Your videos are helping me heal. Thank you thank thank you.
@mayanmist 2 жыл бұрын
“You left Freddy Krueger and moved onto Jason!!” Oh heavens! Haha
@brigettecannonssorandomsho5918 2 жыл бұрын
Practical biblical direction given in a straightforward, humorous and knowledgeable way. Bravo! 👏🏽
@greener9115 Жыл бұрын
I admire yall comments we are in this together ❤ stay healing and keep shining, with love 💘
@yaazzyy8410 2 жыл бұрын
I am just coming out of a toxic relationship, I feel lost and drained from the yrs of lies and manipulation. I am completely broken. I have been watching your videos and really paying attention to your message Bishop and so I thank you from the bottom of my heart for talking to me and giving hope that I am going to be okay. Sending you love and blessings! 💗🙌🏾
@MaySun74 2 жыл бұрын
Not Freddy Krueger and Jason! 😬🤣🥲… I get it. 😱 great analogy… Thanks 🙏🏾
@ahyanahisrael9399 2 жыл бұрын
We sometimes become broken in order to learn a lesson that is vital to our soul's evolution.
@catrinan.b.9923 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom is too high for a FOOL..Truly… Dearest Regards, Catrina
@goddessqueen5673 2 жыл бұрын
your videos have been a major part of my healing and understanding of life after my toxic relationship. i am on my way to a total healing. and my mind is just way better than it was. i am now woke n have a since of discernment and i've never felt the holy spirit so strong.
@icsharpk 10 ай бұрын
The accuracy in leaving “Freddy Krueger for Jason just living that Halloween type of life…” hit my soul & tickled my spirit at the same time! “You don’t know that you are BROKEN?!”
@user-ir4dj8sy1c 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, wow, wow. I'm one of those men that have been to a point, broken. But I've been doing everything you've said and I'm on the right path. Glad to have found this!
@alicejenkinsmail 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bishop, again your message is spot on. A lifetime of unrelenting disappointment ….girlfriends, family, the narcissistic men in my life have left me heart sick and broken spirited. I have accepted my part in this , now it’s up to me to ask God for his help I know it is the only answer …thank you again for reminding me of the path I must put my myself on to heal! Bless you.
@davidcoppotelli3957 Жыл бұрын
Hey look at you GIRL, Shinning like a New Dime. Boom Baby.
@pamm3284 2 жыл бұрын
Many people curse themselves with self-criticism and create self-fulfilling prophecies.
@TheTabbym Жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor for speaking to me. Been belittling myself for having been deceived into a marriage when we were not even to go past acquintance. Am reminded am human
@josefinetorresolesen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your compassion towards us who have been in hard relationships. You saying that I have to not blame myself, and understand that i'm just human and that it's not my fault - has helped me so much tonight.
@slamb5332 2 жыл бұрын
You are anointed by the Lord . I am learning so much from you. May GOD continue to bless you and your beautiful wife . True follower here !
@hopkins-mccoy5259 2 жыл бұрын
Amen pastor. Your messages are changing lives including mines one day at a time. God bless you, Lisa, AND YOUR WORK. I watch and work on my mind weekly.💜
@tenabranham5086 2 жыл бұрын
Bishop, this came at the perfect time, I just got out of a toxic relationship, everything you said was true, I thought my feelings were isolated, but you should me it’s normal, and it’s not me. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy, bishop this stood me up and put me back on my feet, and I thank you for helping me to move forward. Amen
@moxiematron1471 Жыл бұрын
“Immediately enforce Relationship lockdown! …Recover. Relationship Fast. Allow God to do his work… Be still…Get your power back. Be the best physical version of yourself for yourself. All about encouraging yourself. 💪🏽💖✨ ❤️🩹 healing ✨ awesome message 😎☕️
@CandaceLeAnne 2 жыл бұрын
Bishop, this message was one of the greatest that the Lord God has entrusted to you. And you delivered it with such humor in places, balancing out the seriousness of the topic, in such a warm, inviting presentation style. All of these things, in my opinion, matter. God is using you to disarm crushed souls who would just as soon go into defense mode than to hear from another man who might ravage them further. Thank you for giving us things that reflect the heart of God to meditate on throughout the work day. I listen while I’m at work.
@OG_Bap 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful message 🔥 These are the type of teachings the Holy Spirit personally leads us into, regardless of if we heed to it or not. While it’s important to know God for ourselves, sometimes it takes someone willing to be Gods earthly mouthpiece and spread his Word, to spark something in someone’s spirit and lead them to God and/or back to God 🙌🏾♥️
@kaleema1987 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@normamay8020 2 жыл бұрын
Amen !
@christinelee7740 2 жыл бұрын
I have watched you for almost 6 mths. I wish I had you 8 years ago. I so wish. I learn everyday something new. Thank you for sharing all of your knowledge with us. You.and your wife are.such a blessing.
@corinnenorton8781 2 жыл бұрын
I finally got the NARC to leave my home. I was tied financially as well. Thank you Pastor for your strength to fight this beast. I have reached out to council already to work on myself and healing. I have been preparing and praying every night for years for the Lord to save me. Thank you so much Pastor. ❤️❤️
@karenhiawalyer2420 2 жыл бұрын
This message is for me. I actually was depressed after my toxic relationship, my hair started falling out. Your message about Samson in the Bible made me cry 😢. This was truly God speaking to me. Thank you Pastor. May God continue to Bless your messages and may they reach all that need these messages 🙏
@kayesmith2518 2 жыл бұрын
After being single for 4 yrs after 10 yrs of toxicity w a man. I met a wonderful man, treating me like queen, was so loving and giving but then started showing some red flags after 8 months. Last week he got drunk started yelling at me, I didn't yell back bc rhats not me I tried to calm him and continued to talk calmly and he beat and choked me unconscious, literally almost snapped my neck then, got a gun and shot at me twice. I do thank God that I got away now then when we got married. He had been so great, kind, giving, loving, we prayed and read Bible scripture every day. He got in so good w my adult children. Has everyone thinking he's such a great man I literally had no clue that I would almost lose my life last week. He's already violated the protection order and told my son it was just a mishap. He beat me for an hr and my daughter was banging on the door and called police but to him it was a mishap. I don't blame myself bc I did nothing wrong...Women beware of the wolf in sheep's clothing
@fizahaque 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. i am scared since i just got out of a toxic relationship of 1,5 years... and i immediately met a great guy... but im doubting it big time. everything seems too good to be true. same bday, same way of thinking, cultural background, mindset, everything. so im not sure what to think of him... i really want to take it slow but also heal from my ex, it's all still very fresh and raw... any advice?
@mpumegumbi7337 2 ай бұрын
If I had never got myself involved with my narcissistic ex, I'd never have realised and worked on overcoming my lack of self love, my low self esteem, my people pleasing and lack of boundaries. I'm at the TOP now!
@deep.2082 2 жыл бұрын
So true, Bishop Blake’s, and I really enjoy your teachings. It’s like wanting to go back to Egypt even though you were a slave while you were there.
@begee5847 2 жыл бұрын
The message just in time ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@TS-xz3he 2 жыл бұрын
It sure is!☝🏽
@latoniajefferson104 2 жыл бұрын
My Spirit is now on High after listening to Pastor Blake's! THIS!!!
@ninasimone36 2 жыл бұрын
This was amazing! I needed this. Been in the process of divorce for a year and a half. It's been hard to pick up the pieces and put myself back together. The depth of the verbal and emotional abuse have taken a toll, bu I am fighting through it with God. This was a very practical and tangible way for me to continue to get there Thank you Bishop, for recognizing all that comes with removing yoursekf from a toxic relationship.
@glowgirl2790 2 жыл бұрын
The Lord set me free after a 33year Toxic marriage. Divorce finalized 12-7-2021, praise the Lord !! This was my 2nd marriage. And for sure,quoted by Pastor Blake ,Jason left and Freddy Kruger showed up 3 yrs later, With 8 more demons . My health, finances, self esteem, relationships with God,career, joy, peace, were attacked. Only by crying out to God,and recommitting my life to the Lord, was I delivered. I'm seeking God & His will, the last things i need is a man. Im learning to Love ,know, grow , value and respect myself. Learning to give myself the love I've sought from other. Learning to love, trust God with all my heart . Knowing that God has good plans For my life. Feels great to be free !
@harrietbee1815 2 жыл бұрын
I lived out of the Law and Truth from the Bible . Being in relationships with men unmarried. Being a child of Christ. I learnt alot out of being with a Narcissistic man. You also form soul ties... The First step is repentance.. Remove from why me. ...Follow The order off How Christ wants us to live . Healing came.. To God be The Glory for RC Blake's
@shaunairving1621 2 жыл бұрын
You really have helped me throughout this last year of finding myself and getting closer to GOD.. Thank You so much
@gisellestephen9754 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bishop for your teachings.. They have healed me day by day. Today's message is what I so needed as I have been in toxic relationships all my life. Thank you for blessing us with your time. Much love
@erinangelheart3048 2 жыл бұрын
This was so good and made me laugh too. Toxic nostalgia, Freddy to Jason…
@tgiltd12 2 жыл бұрын
😅😂🤣 I love Pastor's undiluted truth he said "you living that Halloween kind of life! You've been made to believe!!!" Its not real love, We was playing make believe with broken consciousness!!! 😅 Ouch! Truth hurts but it delivers. I thank God for helping us face the Truth, and do the hard thing we KNOW needs to be done. I pray for restoration of all the time, confidence, strength, ambition, resources and vision we lost in JESUS name. Amen
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