REASONS MEN DISRESPECT WOMEN by RC Blakes
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@devinagrace1999 2 жыл бұрын
Women are sexually unsatisfied, and yet, we sill create soul ties, children, and heart ache with disrespectful men. I SUPPORT ABSTINENCE %100. THANK YOU!
@Mizz_JON 2 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@meonly6454 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@elizabethferrari1346 2 жыл бұрын
Dudes of all ages don't know what their doing in the sex arena. It amazes me. It's 🤪 crazy.
@devinagrace1999 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethferrari1346 Okay yes! Its not worth a woman lying to a man and selling her soul for
@devinagrace1999 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethferrari1346 They dont teach men anything correct about a woman's body
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
I'm here for this message. I stopped disrespecting myself, and now Men don't know how to approach me. I dress modestly, I stopped clubbing in 2004 fresh after graduating college. I stopped giving my body away to guys I was dating freely, I stopped being manipulated by no good guys, I stopped tolerating ignorance periodt. I don't entertain ignorance of Men nor women, I set boundaries for everyone who not on my Frequency Spiritually. I TOLERATE NO DISRESPECT ANYMORE. PERIODT.
@lightbulb3406 2 жыл бұрын
Amen woman spiritual I agree may God protection be covered from woman and men.
@kymjoy3964 2 жыл бұрын
Me too sis 😩 good job 👏 👌
@lightbulb3406 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with what you said but men need to stop as well I'm tired of being lonely we need to pray for men 🙏🏻
@JessicaJLatfi 2 жыл бұрын
I'm proud BEST FEELING in the world
@ivelawthomas4246 2 жыл бұрын
Its due to the decadence of society, "Westernized" one at best...; materialism, etc... I suspects single parenting...
@selairarokobu9017 2 жыл бұрын
I got so tired of being emotionally abused that I just woke up one morning and leave Was a prisoner in my own home
@anndavis2920 2 жыл бұрын
my exes were like this and i had to leave for my own mental n physical health. They passed away from their own devices.
@lala5061 8 ай бұрын
That is the worst feeling! Being disrespected in your own house! Im proud of u getting him outta there 🤗
@kathyevans9067 5 ай бұрын
Yes felt like this !
@nataliethomas9943 Ай бұрын
Sad to admit I’m currently living like this waiting for it to change! Dating potential is a BAD move.
@biblequeen4sure823 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor you are on point. When a woman tells a man she's not interested in him, instead of him moving on he decides that it's his job to destroy her. I've had this man run me down, threaten me, harass me, and act like a little boy. I have a right to say NO, and I'm not going to change my mind. This message should be posted on every media site in the world. Thank you Pastor.
@missjaszmine1968 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this epidemic is also occurring in our high schools with our teen girls. Say No and be pursued for an eye for an eye, retaliatory, destruction.
@tajthegreatone9326 2 жыл бұрын
Once I moved out of poverty, I noticed a huge difference in relationships between men and women. While there's some misogyny everywhere, men in this environment are more focused on working with or for women instead of against them. Men also seem more capable of handling things without falling apart. The women are still strong but more feminine in this environment. I can honestly say since I received EFFECTIVE COUNSELING, stopped getting on social media and going into spaces with angry grown boys, stopped listening to offensive rap music and carry myself in a respectful way...I experience more peace in my life. I thank you for your wonderful work Pastor and continue to pray especially for the black community as a whole.🙏
@hymnodyhands 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, ma'am ... circle is important ... sometimes it is time to stop struggling in a bad circle and ready ourselves to move on up a little higher ...
@Point_BlankwithDrdee 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome wisdom 😘
@yaphacurington3316 2 жыл бұрын
People don’t understand that everything is vibrations, energy. The music is all of that and listening to certain types of music depending on its hertz becomes and affects your life, mentality.
@rgw1380rw 2 жыл бұрын
@@yaphacurington3316 I've been listening to specific music for decades, but never was known to be rude or disrespectful to women. My character didn't work for me in the suburbs that was much different than the notorious ghetto that I'm originally from.
@claudiabell4234 2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@faith5217 2 жыл бұрын
My only regret is NOT discovering Pastor Blake's earlier. His teachings are such a blessing.
@vashtikelly6837 2 жыл бұрын
I AGREE TOTALLY.....
@Jujumimi937 2 жыл бұрын
Yes !!! I ignored BUT GOD KEPT KNOCKING ✊ ON MY DOOR 🚪 TO LISTEN 👂🏼 TO MR.BLAKE ❤️🤍❤️🤍
@bunnyboo6295 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 100% agree if I found him sooner could have saved me from an abusive relationship. When you have no one in life to support you it's good to have someone like him to encourage you to take care of yourself and not feel trapped in disrespect.
@Dr.J1972 2 жыл бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly Faith. I was thinking the EXACT same thing.
@preciousmcfarland5265 2 жыл бұрын
Same💯💯💯
@fstblk5 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 63 and been celibate for 10 years. I refuse to allow just anybody into my life because I live alone and have to be careful. I'm so glad to be post menopausal because I don't think under the influence of hormones. A good nurse co-worker told me back in 2005 that when hormones decrease, discernment fills in. It's so true, and I'm fine being alone. A companion would be nice but I'm not looking as I'm just fine being alone.
@sinceresong9907 2 жыл бұрын
lols...omg..so true
@superiorvessel8496 Жыл бұрын
Intuition💜🙏🏽
@deborahavery6325 Ай бұрын
Yes, The hormones or lack there of is a game changer for me. I love it here
@mscotchery9861 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I appreciate this message. I'll be 32 next month and all my life I've been around disrespectful men. The only one who wasn't was my step dad. Even every mate I've had disrespected me. I've just recently came across a man who doesn't give me an ounce of disrespect, ignorance or impatience. He the most calm patient and respectful man I've ever met. It's funny because it didn't happen until I started loving myself and putting myself on a pedestal. As in actually having confidence in myself. Considering myself to be valuable. I left the most difficult relationship of 7 years. I had to let go. And love me. Then I met someone who finally showed me what it's like to be treated as I should.
@soiledskin Жыл бұрын
Congratulations! May it last a lifetime 💫
@naimam3976 Жыл бұрын
Hi sweet dear, how is it going for you know its been almost a year since you wrote this?
@AmaLoveGoddessTV Жыл бұрын
Same. My dad and brother are disrespectful but not my step dad. He’s a preacher.
@DianeRoche-mk7oi 7 ай бұрын
Beautiful 🙏
@dawnallen3536 2 жыл бұрын
This message hit home for me. The disrespect from my spouse has me walking away from our marriage. His words hurt and destroyed me over the years. I’m trying to heal.
@yolandamiles7221 2 жыл бұрын
Same here @ Dawn Allen.
@ayodejiokoloba9849 2 жыл бұрын
Find out why he's abusive ask him questions and get him to adjust it's not easy don't let your marriage go but if u are an abusive person too you need to adjust aswell
@sexygabby30 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayodejiokoloba9849 sorry that doesn’t work. Abuse is abuse and it’s a choice. That’s the mind of evil and will never get answers if so it’s blanket crap. Lies. So no point. Life is too short to allow a person to hurt you it never gets better. It’s their character it’s their whole makeup to want to live in chaos.
@brittneyberry4934 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayodejiokoloba9849 respect your opinion but its evident you are new here. Pastor Blakes teaches the total opposite of what you just told this Domestic violence survivor. DV is verbal physical emotional or financial. IT'S A NON NEGOTIABLE. PLEASE DO THE FOLLOWING: - APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR WRECKLESS ADVICE. - KEEP LISTENING TO THE TEACHINGS OF PASTOR BLAKES - DELETE YOUR COMMENT
@brittneyberry4934 2 жыл бұрын
@@sexygabby30 i agree
@kenyacarl3626 2 жыл бұрын
Men who don't like women, don't like themselves! You can't treat people bad, needlessly, if you truly love yourself.
@cyndigooch1162 2 жыл бұрын
Kenya Carl I totally agree with you!!! 😊
@aubreybryan5332 2 жыл бұрын
Accurate 💯
@dcaramelone 2 жыл бұрын
On the contrary, they LOVE themselves more because they feel women are less than. Men like that only want women for sex, and resent them for it when they dont give them what they want or ask for something in return. Hence the name calling, verbal and physical abuse.Whenever they cant get over on a woman- that woman is almost always referred to as a B****!!!
@mutra9711 2 жыл бұрын
But there is no reason to treat bad anyone even your enemy. This the challenge
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 2 жыл бұрын
That's it!
@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is why this false man has been coming after me: 1) mother wounds 2) frustrated sexuality 3) raised by pimps, no good role models 4) bitterness and self-hatred
@brendaorozco1195 2 жыл бұрын
Abusive men also look for women who have anxious attachments. There are anxious and avoidant attachments and the avoidant will usually attract an anxious women.
@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644 2 жыл бұрын
@@brendaorozco1195 interesting. I think I'm more avoidant attachment, the only place an abusive man can see me is in court. I run far from them.
@anndavis2920 2 жыл бұрын
yes i agree. Ive experienced all this toxic behavior from guys, black n white and some women also. I stay alone n unattached. My feelings and my pride get too injured by the wrong guys taking me for granted and mistreating me. I like to be with one man, if he can be w/just me alone and doesnt get bored w/me and wants to pursue other women. Its a lot of duds out here in the world now. They can pretend perfectly and hide the truth so well that i have vowed to stay celibate before God and myself because i am frustrated and fed up. No guys are true, loyal n honest. Im better by myself. Thank u Jesus!
@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644 2 жыл бұрын
@@anndavis2920 Well, if you're a good person, out of billions of people on the planet, God has many more. Be patient dear, and when those dogs come, go the opposite direction! Never look back. Actions speak louder than words. Don't give up just yet, the right one will come in due season. Keep being the best you as possible, don't grow cold or shady due to their mistreatment, continue to love everyone. God has a special way of rewarding you😊
@Medietos 5 ай бұрын
@@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644: Good to start healing that maybe?
@FUEGOSTARR 4 ай бұрын
I refuse to let anyone diminish my womanhood, self-esteem, dignity, and purity!!! I call on God to remove the spirit of negativity that others have imposed in my direction. I call on God to bless me with Wisdom, clarity, insight, and diligence in these times of stress and disgust! There’s a filthy feminine male in my family’s home who terrorizes me, speaks negativity into my direction, false accusations, lies, manipulation, & all other forms of verbal abuse and I still press on with confidence and quality of character.
@isabelm6198 2 жыл бұрын
Men have disrespected me not because of how I dress or talk, but by not stopping them when they have said mean things to me. I learned my lesson and showed the last man who was gaslighting me and saying mean things to me the door. I told him "you're mean and I don't want you in my house any more I want you gone". (I was helping him recover in my home from colon cancer surgery to remove a cancerous tumor. He was from out of town, didn't have family, had a dog needing care, and lived on the second floor apartment. I was dating him at the time of his diagnosis and felt bad for him. I took a leave of absence to help him recover.) Even in his vulnerability he showed his mean, ugly, ungrateful self. I hardened my heart to remove him from my life. It was hard because I felt so bad for him but he was this dark presence in my home.
@Girlintheewild 2 жыл бұрын
You had to do what was best for you! He can hire a home health service.
@Sari_jesus 2 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy, I know a man in wheel chair, I work for them and he disrespects his wife, like… sir you are in wheel chair and this lady didn’t have to give up her life to take care of you! Poor girl is 33 years old and he is 36. He got into a car accident and now he is in a wheelchair! Yeah he was tall and good looking but now he is stuck in a wheelchair.
@bunnyboo6295 2 жыл бұрын
You're a strong woman I crumble when it comes to pity making accuse for people suffering but perhaps I need to be wising up and realize there was likely a reason he had no one to go to. But you got the right Idea being in pain is not an excuse to disrespect someone helping.
@Dr.J1972 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sari_jesus Lord Jesus help us. The things we tolerate.
@diamondgold5277 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sari_jesus ungrateful she will wake up one day
@marymalloy2848 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, we women must first learn to Respect ourselves.
@katyarnold6757 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree with your comment Mary Malloy.
@larrywolenskimechanical1951 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mary. As a woman you have to be able to see disrespect from a mile away. These boys will test you. No boy starts disrespecting you from the jump. When a woman has clear boundaries boys will stay away. She won't even attract boys.
@achiengcaroline5920 2 жыл бұрын
@@larrywolenskimechanical1951 sometimes they're narcissistic and might not know initially.
@dafnenoel9825 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 👑👑👑
@ashantithevocalist 2 жыл бұрын
@@achiengcaroline5920 I agree with you, we no longer want to PLAY THEIR PART, cover up 4 them, COMPENSATE, make excuses or PLAY DUMB and they are retaliating & as a result we are leaving here.
@sylviamontero6030 2 жыл бұрын
Personally I disrespected myself because I was sexually abused my entire childhood by grandfather. My mother was abusive as well. I learned that abuse was okay and I abused myself and disrespected myself when I was coming of age. I didn’t have role models or Jesus in my life. I dated disrespectful men and ended up in a lot of bad situations. I don’t think us women choose to disrespect ourselves I think we are taught that at a very young age specially when abuse is involved. Thanks for your message pastor.
@giftedwithmelanin6849 2 жыл бұрын
Sad to say you wrote out the story of my childhood word for word. Smh
@MegaLadylove2012 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you know what happened to you as a child is not your responsibility. Please stop beating yourself with a hammer for something out of your control; and I’m so sorry that happened to you Fix your crown and move on
@jennifermartin630 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, abuse almost feels normal. We have to self love and self nurture to break this cycle. For me, I need learn to walk away.
@marylamb7031 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with your outcome of why you disrespected yourself. I did the same thing. I think most of us do. Now the people who are disrespecting, abusing, and neglecting us are the spoiled brats. And they were taught it's okay to be mean, you're number one, weren't taught to share, and were handed everything they wanted as a child. You know mommy's little boy or give that kid what she wants just to shut her up! They learned how to be fakes and manipulators. We grew up with them, played with them, and we married them. I'm 67 yrs. old now. I divorced when I was 38 and never remarried. It's hard having a good heart in this mean nasty greedy world. I wouldn't want to come back here for all the treasures on earth. Thank God for Jesus and the Holy Spirit!
@audreyhopfner2823 2 жыл бұрын
I so agree with you. It is taught. Where were our fathers? Did they not have a role in teaching us daughters how to be treated by a man?🤔🙄. As a child I didn't know what self respect was. I certainly wasn't respected.
@yulezzz7044 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this divine knowledge. Some men are so twisted that they claim their harm isn't "intentional" and that they don't mean to hurt you. They are simply "sorry" for hurting you but continue to break you down repeatedly.
@aayeander2306 2 жыл бұрын
Well, if they are sorry, then they will go get the help they need to heal and do better. Just saying you're sorry is not enough anymore. They need to put action to their words.
@jeneanegrotewiel4184 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been through this
@user-ow8hf8wv3t 5 ай бұрын
...the same thing that you womens doing
@sandramoore5769 2 жыл бұрын
Love yourself and let no one disrespect you
@otiamartin3261 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I'm tired and I will not tolerate anymore disrespect. 😪
@momminainteasy5710 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@SL-ez5rv 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@414_kiaraaa3 2 жыл бұрын
You go girl 🥳🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️💅🏽
@ayodejiokoloba9849 2 жыл бұрын
You all need to take things easy with your men it's not easy try to find out why he's the way he is don't fight with him or disrespect him in return it goes vise versal when you disrespect your man you are a little girl ....little girls humiliate little boys bcuz they haven't grown up
@otiamartin3261 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayodejiokoloba9849 when a man disrespects a woman he is a little boy and little boys can humiliate women because he hasn't grown up.
@svasianfilipiname6603 2 жыл бұрын
That's a dangerous combination: A child in a man's body.
@AD-hh6dd 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an atheist so I doubted Id get anything out of this but I decided to be open minded and listen and boy am I glad I did. I wish everyone would listen to this. It has immense value regardless of your religious background.
@lethalviolet Жыл бұрын
I am atheist as well…I tend to always keep an open mind with many things I am glad I did with this as well! He is a great speaker!
@smileyglitter852 Жыл бұрын
@@lethalviolet I'm glad ladies that you enjoyed this. I love Bishop Blake's myself. I'm tired of the disrespect in this world towards human beings. I hope this helps, p.s a women who loves Christ ...
@lyrical_love Жыл бұрын
Praying The Most High reaches you. 🙏
@kristiansingle784 11 ай бұрын
God bless you
@user-fj8bt4zo3x 10 ай бұрын
@@lethalvioletbut would a leader mentor mentor who was atheist speak this way
@stephanie1611 2 жыл бұрын
Some of these men are horrible. Recently, I met a guy in Grad school and I thought he seemed so nice. He had his own business and was active in church. He was so disrespectful to me the first week we talked. I just couldn’t believe it. He made jokes all the time and when I told him to stop, he made it seem like I was the problem. When I confronted him, he said “ I like peace in my life”. It was horrible. I ended things that week.
@ak-47intelligence75 2 жыл бұрын
Typical . It's the deflecting strategy to make you absorb the blame and stick around like a sitting duck while he dogs you out. Next.
@wisdomknowledgelover6293 2 жыл бұрын
Yea he wanted to take peace away from you!
@MoralOrder1 2 жыл бұрын
He sound like he was narcissistic.
@latinagibbs2770 2 жыл бұрын
Good
@lynettecaballero1660 2 жыл бұрын
He didn't want true peace,,,just wanted his own narcisstic selfish way. Distorted thinking and beliefs. Good for you to see through him and dump him,dust your feet...
@chasidyjoy 2 жыл бұрын
RC Blakes is by far one of the BEST teachers out here. This is very enlightening!
@pamelastewart7128 2 жыл бұрын
You teach what you’ve learned, what you know, by experience.
@kieshamiller8255 2 жыл бұрын
Man of God!🤗
@chasidyjoy 2 жыл бұрын
@@pamelastewart7128 Agreed!
@zoejaiattoh1243 2 жыл бұрын
Sister I say this with every teaching .. I’m trying to get into his classes .. he is the Truth.. HE TELLS IT ON BOTH SIDES !! WHAT BOTH MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO HEAR !! And APPLY .. TO MAKE CHANGES!
@nightswan1234 2 жыл бұрын
@@zoejaiattoh1243 He’s the real deal man! He covers faults of both men and women.
@MeNonya 2 жыл бұрын
I walked away from my ex recently. When he was angry, he called me the most vile things and it escalated. Happy that I said no more. I am still dealing with hateful emails though.
@liahknowsbest5092 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you and sending love your way💯💪🏽🙏🏽🤗
@nafisajingi2386 Жыл бұрын
Be strong dear, you got this💜👍🏾.
@chrissemenko628 6 ай бұрын
That's what's headed my way. I walked away tonight. New Years Eve 2023. No assholes allowed in 2024. He'll be in my Gmail soon.
@PeaceDayCortez Жыл бұрын
He was 38ys old, he was a grown man throwing tantrums like a child. I didn’t deserve the verbal and emotional abuse he put me through. I kept giving him the benefit of a doubt. I kept making excuses for his actions. I couldn’t see myself living the rest of my life on eggshells. I got to the point where I no longer liked the monster he became when he would verbally assault me. He thought I would never walk away, he found out the hard way. It’s going to take me years to heal from his abuse. I’m pagan but the message you gave has no boundaries thank you good sir. 🌹
@rhondajohnson5978 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. As a woman I thank you. I raised my son as a single mother. A few years ago he asked me, " Mom why did you raise me to be a gentleman? These girls want the bad boys " I laughed and replied," Son I raised you to be a gentle man. A woman will always want to be with a true man. In this world, music and the male propaganda is teaching them that women are less than human. A wise man knows the value of himself and knows that he will only become the greatest version of himself is to have, love, and respect his woman." So preach on my fellow brother.
@sylviaj270 2 жыл бұрын
He may also be attracted to the women that like the bad boys. He may need to examine who he is attracted to. He may be overlooking the women that would appreciate him.
@rhondajohnson5978 2 жыл бұрын
@@sylviaj270 I told him that he is a quality man and deserves a quality woman. He is 26 years old now and that was when he was a teenager when he asked me that question. I told him that the bad boys take quantity over quality.
@623katjc 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. For raising your son to help make this a BETTER world, not an uglier one.
@rhondajohnson5978 2 жыл бұрын
@@623katjc I tried my best to raise my son and two daughters to be the best they can be. Maybe they will find away to do just that
@toriyt2714 2 жыл бұрын
Tell him he said it right, GIRLS like bad boys. You raised him for a woman.
@kingdomkid444 2 жыл бұрын
Women are God given GIFTS🙌🏾 Alot of us need this reminder thank you sir Your like the natural father I never had🥰 Thank God for you🙏🏾
@RCBlakesJr. 2 жыл бұрын
This warms my heart. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️
@shamoo260 2 жыл бұрын
@@RCBlakesJr. Pastor you have have a congregation of mostly women so you are capping or placating to that constituency. You should be looking at the cultural environment of society to see what is influencing the mind and soul of people in a unproductive way because nothing happens in a vacuum. We all play a role in making sure our society is healthy but it must first start with family structure
@larrywolenskimechanical1951 2 жыл бұрын
If only women believed they are a gift. That they are the PRIZE. Truth is they don't believe it.
@shamoo260 2 жыл бұрын
No , human beings that have excellence hearts , minds are very sincere in their intentions that's God gift
@kingdomkid444 2 жыл бұрын
@@shamoo260 You should check out his book KINGOLOGY 🥰
@judisnyder4868 2 жыл бұрын
I had a great grandfather that taught me how I should me treated by men by his example. I’m 49 and still unmarried by choice unless I find someone who meets those standards. 🙏🏼💜🦋💖 Amen for this message! My generation beyond has deteriorated humanity with no basic manners and principles. But, if you respect yourself as a woman, be aware you might never marry because they’ll always be a woman who will be willing and less than!
@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed 2 жыл бұрын
Same! I will never forget my grandfather walking with me down the street and I would try to walk by the curb. He said a woman should ALWAYS walk on the inside and a man should be between her and the street. If a man doesn't do this, don't be with him. I still live by this rule.
@soiledskin Жыл бұрын
So true!
@Lxxtz_GarZ 5 ай бұрын
I'm not your age yet but I have to agree. It's so sad because they are really choosing less of themselves but bishop spoke nothing but truth. What real men argue with women?Make it make sense🙃🙃🙃 I once had a man tell me that many many yrs ago and he was right....
@jennifermartin630 2 жыл бұрын
Been listening for a few months and this is so enlightening. I’ve been in a pattern of seeming weak, self hating men trying to heal them and when they project it onto me, I internalized it as something wrong with me. No, it’s a reflection of their immaturity and self hate.
@imanimarie8172 Жыл бұрын
In that position now!! Working on it 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@educationstation3853 Жыл бұрын
@@imanimarie8172lets work together
@juliehardy9723 9 ай бұрын
Dealing with this now. I told him he acts like a 5 year old. His 6 year old even said why do you talk to her like that daddy? I'm done.
@travellady2783 2 жыл бұрын
Just blocked a guy I was really into, I refuse to be disrespected any longer.
@livefromtheground7274 2 жыл бұрын
We tolerate too much by avoiding rudeness. Glad you kicked him to the curb.
@soniawilliams2412 2 жыл бұрын
same here
@nmania3 3 ай бұрын
How was he disrespectful?
@maggiesalle2256 Ай бұрын
Congratulations!
@nightswan1234 2 жыл бұрын
I do agree. There is a large number of men who really have a deep down disdain for women in general. Just a terrible experience now days to encounter one of these immature men anywhere. They're some real haters loose among society.
@Bright-It 2 жыл бұрын
Wait to see ... Near future most of men will have their own Artificial Intelligence sexdoll.
@nightswan1234 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bright-It Ya know E nothing this group of guys do won't surprise me but just when you think you've heard and seen it all they surely come up with something else more absurd like this MGTOW! ( men going their own way) movement. Truly the whole notion is so sad and messed up! Since they appear to be seeking out women who aren't aware of their hateful antics they're sure slow by taking their leave! I'm yet to see one successful whole package from one of those deals! They may achieve some level of success in certain areas but it will never ever be as good as it could be without a woman in it. This seems to be what they secretly realize and hate but will never bring themselves to admit, Oh well. I try to avoid this type of man at all cost!! They are real bad news to anything you may have going that is positive!!
@reginasemenenko148 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bright-It great.
@kra2051 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that rap culture that goes hand in hand with that prison system has birthed homosexuals that hate women & caused so much disrespect. No moral compass whatsoever.
@user-ed1vg9vd8s 11 ай бұрын
It has been discovered that Black women are not safe in relationships with Black men
@lisarochester2978 2 жыл бұрын
My daughter have been on a first date the guy asked her, have you got a beard, you look older than I thought you were , she wore leather pants, he said do you were jeans? She came home feeling sad, what a jerk. She blocked him
@heidebillings8890 2 жыл бұрын
The old adage:Find out what kind of relationship the man has with his mother. This gives great insight.
@andreaviola8675 2 жыл бұрын
People can only do to you what you allow. From the man you date, friends, family, co-workers and your boss. If you do not call out the disrespect and set the boundaries then you will get more of it. You must define what your boundaries are and stick to them.
@talkswithjas7959 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I literally have a 0 tolerance policy when it comes to disrespect. Idc how old you are, if you’re family etc. you have one time to disrespect me and you will be checked. The second time you disrespect me you will be blocked and cut off indefinitely. Ppl think I’m mean an unforgiving, but I think that most people don’t understand that forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation. Imo the church keeps a lot of women in bondage with how they present the idea of forgiveness and loving thy neighbor.
@rasta487 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@nightswan1234 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, amen, amen!
@icequeen491 2 жыл бұрын
@@talkswithjas7959 you are literally my twin flame. I couldn’t have said it better. I will check that man on the slightest disrespect, don’t care how built or hefty he is! To be quite honest, I have taught a few men how to be respectful and thoughtful, Hell I have even had an ex seek therapy when I was done with him. We as women need to be stronger to speak up. Speak and not tolerate disrespect from our dates, husbands, sons, brothers etc
@mysteryandmeaning297 2 жыл бұрын
Kinda true but at same time you can't control everyone. At work you can't always walk away. And I noticed that if you demand respect sometimes they disrespect you anyways still. So calling it out doesn't really work in many situations. Can a leopard change his spots. "What you allow" comment puts all the blame on the woman.
@stephaniepreston-mullins3262 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry bc it's so *TRUE* my husband (52 years old) sometimes says things to me that my grown sons (20, 25 & 28 years old) wouldn't say to a woman. I'm watching this so I can try & do my part. If he doesn't change soon, I'll be living on my own. Thank you Pastor....
@gianelogan7780 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@akilahclark2613 2 жыл бұрын
When someone shows you who they are. Believe them. Until people are aware of the toxicity they bring to the table and seeking to correct it. Thus, by getting self help I.e counseling and going to God.. they are showing they’re not willing or seeking to change. So just have personal awareness. I’ve disrespected my partner and he’s disrespected me. I’m choosing to leave to become better so that I can attract better. All while he attempted to normalize our disrespect. I’m 25 and I wouldn’t be ok with my children experiencing what he’s trying to normalize. He was bold enough to disrespected me in front of his child. I almost fell back into accepting him, but I realized that if it makes me unhappy. It’s not worth my time. Have awareness and remember you’re valued.. and deserving of better, but it starts with you! There’s a lesson in everything.
@andreaberryman5354 2 жыл бұрын
My 20-year-old son treats me like crap. No, you can't come live with me when you go to college. He moved out in April, and I can finally be myself instead of stupid, loud, annoying, bitch, argue, argue, argue.😞💔 I don't want him here. He thinks I'm a joke. I don't get ripped off anymore either.
@arianna6682 2 жыл бұрын
This makes me sad that women have to experience such hurt from men. I’ve been married 22 years and I’ve stayed mostly for the kids. I’m now questioning if it’s the right thing. I really do want happiness and peace. Praying for all of you and thank you for the message pastor 🙏
@KenziVlogz369 Жыл бұрын
Peace be upon you
@gypsygurlgypsygurl3284 2 жыл бұрын
Just went thru a tirade of vile verbal abuse by a co worker for NO REASON. All I said was "be careful" when he was fixing something. Oh...the names I was called, him saying he hated me over and over. It came out of nowhere. The customers were appalled, disgusted and terrified.
@ONLYLOVEIZATION Ай бұрын
How awful!
@nadinedaoud2538 2 жыл бұрын
That disrespect is more prevalent with American men, sadly. My husband was extremely respectful to me and my children but he was born in Jerusalem and grew up in the Middle East. He passed two years ago but I was very lucky and I chose it that way. ❤️
@smores8982 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! If a man is dragging his feet and/or stringing you along, put a stop to it. This line really resonates with me “I would rather have my heart crushed than to lose my self respect” your content is always inspiring and it hits the mark!
@madelinebigio7565 2 жыл бұрын
That part when a inferior man will always do this sabotage there relationships and they are mostly narcissist men
@madelinebigio7565 2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss I agree with you @RCBlake and you said even if we acting crazy you a man and never go to the point of wanting to hit or disrespect her in a abusive emotionally, physically and mentally
@catalinamecham5318 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. If he dusrespects you is time to put a stop
@bmizzle1074 Жыл бұрын
@@madelinebigio7565 Alcohol was introduced to the relationship. Plus, I was trash in a couple other areas. Particularly, insecurity. My first (19 years) marriage ended because of her infidelity. Before this 2nd one I had went 20+ years without drinking. Oh yeah, I've preached at several Pastor Anniversaries. Owe it to my son, myself, women and Society to keep looking in the mirror.
@truthseeker3967 11 ай бұрын
@@bmizzle1074 Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state. ==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry) I WAS IN THIS SITUATION MYSELF- (I vacated the unlawful relationship)
@adellkupa2335 2 жыл бұрын
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@adellkupa2335 2 жыл бұрын
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@karenbarard8411 2 жыл бұрын
@@adellkupa2335 p
@brendamathis9722 2 жыл бұрын
Amen I’ve been abstinent for 3 years now and loving myself so much. Thanks Pastor Blakes
@anndavis2920 2 жыл бұрын
ive been abstinent since 2013 and still counting. Its hard but i want respect from a mature man and no players/haters are allowed in my life no more. This happened in my past and its a waste of my time and energy. I value my time and i want a man that i can be proud of.
@devinagrace1999 Жыл бұрын
Good to hear, I cant even count how many years for me, I haven't been with anyone in years tho 😂
@maureenbernard8848 2 жыл бұрын
I've had the same thoughts recently. Men hate women! I've felt it to the core. Even in a professional setting, I have noticed it.
@andreaberryman5354 2 жыл бұрын
There are toxic tubers pitching HORRIBLE things and men LISTEN and AGREE! We are all entitled, money-grubbing whores using men for EVERYTHING, and we get PREGNANT to trap them. These men are so MAD!😭
@devinagrace1999 Жыл бұрын
They are treating us like dirt
@user-rx7uh9mg4f 10 ай бұрын
They hate us because they so desperately need us women.
@Screech911 10 ай бұрын
I’m 14… and a bunch of guys at school have literally told me on discord that the only thing they will ever need women for is to have babies.
@user-gb9uk6du9m 8 ай бұрын
Some men hate women; there are those who love, appreciate and respect women.
@gem4365 2 жыл бұрын
Everytime I'm going through something I can always count on Bishop to minister me through. God bless and thank you for this message
@lauraa2453 2 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@tgoosby84 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! I am 38. I have never been courted or treated carefully. I morn for myself and decided to be single because I will not be disrespected any long because I have come into knowledge. If I never get married or walk this life physically alone I guess it is what it is. My Heavenly Father understands.
@bem6344 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you get the love you deserve. Praying for you
@Point_BlankwithDrdee 2 жыл бұрын
Sister love I pray your path with your spouse cross. If i were a man i will come straight and make you happier. God still loves you
@sylviaj270 2 жыл бұрын
The thing about that is sometimes we stay single so long that we get comfortable in it and then we don't want to share our lives with anyone because it feels like a major inconvenience.
@susanbradford5457 2 жыл бұрын
Sister that’s how I feel !!!! I just don’t know what to do !!! Try to be nice and they still be rude. Makes me very angry!!!!!!
@sherirose3028 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.thank you for helping me to know I'm not alone. Stay strong in your faith.I love to hear a God fearing man speak truth with the word.
@mediakingsmediakings9982 2 жыл бұрын
Not all women crave toxic men. Many of us inherit them.
@SimonKnight1023 Жыл бұрын
Zero accountability
@user-rx7uh9mg4f 10 ай бұрын
@@SimonKnight1023If you grew up under male figures that made you think toxic is "love" then you would be confused too.
@SimonKnight1023 10 ай бұрын
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f Again, zero accountability.
@brickecharga1102 6 ай бұрын
Wow! That's poignant! You should've gotten hundreds of "likes" like the other commenters.
@sjackson1739 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this man's words since childhood. Omg! This makes complete sense. Yes! Thank You! Sounds like Narcissistic behavior indeed.
@ttime9987 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is incredible!! Literally, just got out of relationship with a man that has the capability to be verbally abusive. He would pick fights. Would make remarks and comments about women in general. I was starting to see that he did not like women. I don't think he is gay but perhaps his experiences with women have triggered him to dislike them. Ladies, if a man argues back and forth with you that is not a good sign. A man who loves women will break his neck to smooth things over or makes things "right". Instead of trying to always be "right".
@tevaristorres8535 2 жыл бұрын
Gotta be gay…men either love women or men.
@dimediamond 2 жыл бұрын
HE might be a lesbian
@ms.b7390 2 жыл бұрын
That tit for tat arguing is a clear sign of arrested development. If I have to witness that and it reminds me of when I go back and for with my toddler…enough said.
@Tend2Rose 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my partner and I’ve broken away from him for the same reason. Verbal abuse, dragging me down, making me feel like I have to perform in the bedroom ( due to too much porn) and he moans about women and feminists and he talks with hatred. He tried control me, but thankfully I have my own place and would leave when he started his verbal. I ain’t taking no more it’s 2022!…time for change
@ttime9987 2 жыл бұрын
@@Tend2Rose Omg, my ex would go on and on about "feminism"
@blackkjuice 2 жыл бұрын
Trent Shelton says (and I agree) to stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
@chastitylampkin6028 2 жыл бұрын
Yea, this is so true what black juice has typed 💓💓💓💓💜💜💜💜💜💙💙👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏
@glendacobb2753 2 жыл бұрын
Well stated.
@sylviaj270 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely correct. when God closes a door don't go beating on the door trying to get it to open.
@victoriabassey9339 2 жыл бұрын
Never read anything as truthfully as @blackjack just wrote....bitter truth but so truthfully true.......... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@victoriabassey9339 2 жыл бұрын
Never read anything as truthfull as what @ blackjuice wrote......thanks so much
@gogowabantwana9437 2 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with someone soon after started listening to pastor I was so stressed but after listening I'm ok and healed not even thinking about him or worried any more I'm just in Peace 🙏thanks Pastor you were sent really by God🙌🙏❤
@lisaappoh6484 2 жыл бұрын
Shared this with a few so-called men. “Fully persuaded in your own mind that as a man there’s a certain way you supposed to handle a woman…. PERIODT!!!!! THAT PART!!! Pastor Blakes dropped the mike after that. 🔥
@kla2026 2 жыл бұрын
You were God sent. I listen to you everyday…EVERYDAY. You’re everything I didn’t have growing up, and forever grateful for your gift.
@angelacapranica7701 2 жыл бұрын
Amen !
@Dr.J1972 2 жыл бұрын
💯💥🙌🏾
@preciousmcfarland5265 2 жыл бұрын
I agree💯💯💯
@kimberlysanaa25 2 жыл бұрын
Agree!! Same here
@ellysiaroy5496 2 жыл бұрын
Amen💯❤️
@imjustmarilyse 2 жыл бұрын
I will never forget hearing a narcissistic man say that the only reason he will ever need a woman is to make babies! That is seriously how they view us and it’s so sad and sickening!
@patriciamalemikia2743 10 ай бұрын
😢
@Screech911 10 ай бұрын
That’s what the guys at my school say too…
@imjustmarilyse 10 ай бұрын
@@Screech911 I believe it!
@Spicynoodle2.0 8 ай бұрын
The creepier part is why do they want kids more than a wife?
@user-ow8hf8wv3t 5 ай бұрын
Dont get me wrong sista' but you lookin us as a somebody who just need to pay for your need...all you lookin on a man iz money...sad but true
@user-hz8bi3lj6v 2 ай бұрын
Problem is too many people these days mistake kindness for weakness.
@aneshrathomas 2 жыл бұрын
Respect yourself❗️ that’s one of the most important ones no lie
@maryford5940 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, too many of these men secretly hate their mothers and treat women with the same hate and disgust! It's psychological and spiritual! Dr. Ford
@stacymurphy2599 2 жыл бұрын
I think some of the lack of respect for women comes from the abundant amounts of pornography that's so readily available and all of the men that watch it regularly including "church going" men. We've been reduced to dirty play things. It's hard to respect that.
@j-tenn226 2 жыл бұрын
I have a male friend who will send me 30 second pornography clips of him and his wife having sex. He doesn’t even say hi or ask me how I’m doing, just dirty clips. It’s unbelievable. I wonder if she knows
@anid7777 2 жыл бұрын
You said "Even Christian men", let me correct that, "so called Christians ". True Christians do not watch porn! 🙂
@coacht1738 2 жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 oh she would definitely know because i would send it to her.
@rjrenee4783 2 жыл бұрын
@@anid7777 FAXXXX 🔥🎯🔨 There's a "MAJOR" difference in a "TRUE CHRISTIAN" and someone claiming "CHRISTIAN" in vain!!!! That's why Christ said he's going to tell them, " I NEVER KNEW YOU!" MT 7:21-23
@melissalindo3019 2 жыл бұрын
Plus woman who pretty much advertise walking porno star/ stripper etc that when they encounter a real woman all know how to do is disrespect
@shv4046 2 жыл бұрын
Oustanding ! Thank you Bishop for your teaching and ministry with Mrs. Lisa. I have tears running down my face...
@48marthakal51 2 жыл бұрын
There's nothing more hurtful is disrespect from the man we love It will broke us down faster then anything. Pastor you are so right Thank you so much
@sharonbenjamin9310 2 жыл бұрын
As a Christian, I've learned to get my sense of validation as a woman of high moral character from God because He loves me without condition. I have not been in a long-term relationship in 7 years because I've setup healthy boundaries in my life. Thus far, my healthy boundaries have helped me to avoid getting connected to a person in an "unequally yoked" relationship. However, people keep telling me that I'm going to miss "the 1" for me due to my high moral standards for myself and others. The joke is on them because they don't realize that "the 1" who's a good fit for me in a long-term intimate relationship will appreciate me for having a high level of self- respect and high standards in my life! 🙌🏽
@susanadamu3867 2 жыл бұрын
Sharon Benjamin you are right girl!
@vilmabock478 2 жыл бұрын
🌷 Beautifully and Brilliantly said! I have so much admiration and respect for your choice. God bless you.
@RachelSDay1982 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, sister!! 👏👏
@sunshine9717 2 жыл бұрын
Plus, the Lord knows your mate. Therefore you don't have to settle for anything. There is plenty of anything out there. But as the saying goes, you can do bad all by yourself. Damn sure don't need a fool adding anything unhealthy to your life.
@wmhhealth2018 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Sharon. As a man I feel exactly as you do.
@pamfigueroa7633 2 жыл бұрын
I keep my earphones on all day listening to you Bishop. I put the volume up as high as I can to avoid listening to the one who stole 26 years of my life. Thank you for helping me wake up to learn to respect myself to know that I am a strong woman. I will start working at the end of the week save my money get my own apartment and my own vehicle and experience life for the first time a life of honor respect and peace.
@niyanyc3242 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@nursegaines3519 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@livefromtheground7274 2 жыл бұрын
Peace & Blessings Girl! You gon be alright!
@RoZzieAwake 2 жыл бұрын
I start March 7th. I'll work until the day I'm gone. I believed a convincing person and trusted that their words were true. Only to give up my independence to be yelled at, cursed out, pushed around, disregarded, ignored, made to feel like a sex object. And I put up with all of it because I had no respect for myself. I'm so ready to get my own place and I swear to never make this mistake again. I hope things are great with you.
@brendalenoir2840 2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you!! Stay strong! 😊
@dianakennard928 2 жыл бұрын
I believe my savior brought me here to listen at you, now I understand why that person treated me the way he did. His mind was already made up to have hatred for me. Because I had love for him. Didn't understand why I was treated like that. Thank you for this god-given message. If you have self hatred for yourself, how can you love anybody else.
@sistalarrissa Жыл бұрын
I’ve sent this to several men; if only they would open up their minds and stop disregarding this good teaching…this isn’t “pandering”…it’s HEALING
@rosesilveira344 2 жыл бұрын
I am a seasoned woman who does not look her age. At work I have noticed men with big egos. Some treat women abusively when they befriend them. Some feel threatened by them. It's the boys vs men. It's like they are clueless and were never taught what is respect. I realized it's the results of parenting. Never have I seen so many narcissists as today. Love your channel
@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed 2 жыл бұрын
My ex was jealous of me and would compete with me. I never understood this. How can you be with a woman that YOU ARE JEALOUS OF??? She is WITH YOU so obviously she saw the good in you as a man, yet you are her biggest enemy. So sad.
@user-qf9el3pt8e Жыл бұрын
@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed and that is VERY prevalent today. Alot of guys (not MEN) tend to be jealous of women perhaps because alot of us nowadays are independent, strong, smart, successful etc. I've seen it to be very common
@ladyk7317 Жыл бұрын
It’s also because their mothers allowed men or a man to devalue her … so the boy feels a betrayal to his mother when he treats his women like a Queen ……this is not our fault ,if he doesn’t want to acknowledge where he is …and wants to be healed ,then he needs a woman like his mother and not a Queen 💪🏾💋
@lauriemendoza4671 2 жыл бұрын
When you oust a toxic person from your life their energy remains in your thoughts, emotions and the physical surroundings you shared. It takes while for the decontamination and cleanse to happen. O..but when it does you smile, begin to laugh again and feel joy. And that person looking back at you in the mirror is once again becoming someone to value and love no longer an unhappy shadow. Thank you Mr. Blakes for helping to get here with your teachings. I send you my love and respect.
@yourstruly1984 2 жыл бұрын
💗🌺💗
@shamtastik6336 2 жыл бұрын
TGBTG... the best teachings ever. When I was at my lowest I ran into his videos and have been blessed every since. Almost like a daughter getting wisdom for her father... I am forever grateful for The Blake's.
@melaniemcqueen3851 2 жыл бұрын
This video is such a blessing! Last week, I have just blocked and cut ties with someone who seemed to have a lot going for him except for the some of the misogynistic behavior I experienced that just creeped up on me including the way he was speaking to me and about other women. It came to a head Sunday before last and realized that if I stick around it will only get worse. I understand that he's been hurt, dealing with PTSD, childhood wounds, etc. Though I want to support him, I have to continue praying for him and his healing from a distance while I myself work on my healing. Yes, I am sad that things did not work out differently. I have to know that I did the right thing and keep it moving. May God continue to bless Pastor RC and Lady Lisa Blakes for their continual outpouring of the Word into our lives!
@anabautista8071 2 жыл бұрын
1. Childish perspectives of men; 2. Men hate women; 3. The woman doesn't respect herself; 4. The respect of a man is rarely celebrated by a woman, but the disrespect of a man is pursued with passion.
@stephanies.3198 2 жыл бұрын
This is really blessings me. My ex husband respected his mom, showed her so much respect and cared for his daughter. But behind closed doors he wasnt the best to me. He disrespected me, publicly, humiliated me, verbally abused me, totally broke my self esteem. I allowed this behavior as his wife trying to talk to him explained how i felt, it never worked. He would cheat, lie to me, etc. I didn't understand it.
@blackkjuice 2 жыл бұрын
It was a self-hating narcissist, projecting its hatred of itself onto you
@aminahcousin9868 2 жыл бұрын
@@blackkjuice Very true! ✅
@gailmatthews8487 2 жыл бұрын
3D
@mariamedel3114 2 жыл бұрын
He did this cause he knew he could.
@25marshalyn 2 жыл бұрын
This is why it is so much rubbish to think if a man treats his mother well then he will treat you well too. Rate a man based on what is in front of you, not what he displays to the public.
@dayciajtalk88 2 жыл бұрын
The root, of it is not having boundaries!!! Once more women start having boundaries and Morals things will change!!!
@msnew3839 2 жыл бұрын
This message confirms that me respecting myself demands respect from others and how I am moving in this new dating life is right. Thank you for this message. Thank you❣
@ebislove4383 2 жыл бұрын
This talk is divinely ordained. People we are in trouble. Everybody who felt this in their spirit needs to repost. This is the message that needs to go viral.
@selenavillarreal9951 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you RC Blake's!! I was in a very toxic possessive relationship with a narcissist he loved bombed me then he devaluated me and then he discarded me like trash. I Never had an idea that I was with a man child this man that I thought was mature at first never really grew up he had abandonment issues insecurity issues and he projected all his insecurities onto me. Thank God I left him it's been 9 months now I know the red flags and I will never be with a man child ever again.🦋 I hope Eric gets help and let go of his ego!
@hs-qk9qf 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the one I know in my hometown, by the same name.🤣
@pamelajasper4128 2 жыл бұрын
This is great and good for you and your renewed strength to let go. I want to offer that when you fully let go you will forget his name, not mentioned his name, not be concerned about his well being ego or anything. Let him go fully 100percent. Recog I've the mask he showed you and the real person behind it who cherishes hurting people. You are beautiful loveable and loved. Stand in that light and continue to move on. Daughters of God don't break for jerks. And the next time there is one red flag, just one, back up several steps. Seeing him daily and a red flag occurs, see him monthly. End it is better yes even after just 1 red flag. Why wait for 2 you're a fabulous woman with options.
@selenavillarreal9951 2 жыл бұрын
@@pamelajasper4128 thank you ❤️
@sharonlundy8579 2 жыл бұрын
Well said💯‼️ I agree with you, I will never turn back to any man that can't respect me far or near.
@FeedingSoulsTG 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your teaching I been listening to you almost 3 yrs. I've learn alot and putting it forth in action.
@litrealred6840 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone should hear this! Thank you for telling the truth! Blessed! 🙏🏻
@gladyshowell5623 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes, I really appreciate the balance you gave on both sides of the spectrum. You are never bias in your expressions....thank you for your excellent support and respect for women.
@sharhughes1086 2 жыл бұрын
I Love RC Blake's teachings! They are golden, he reads directly from the Bible, so you know it's beneficial for your well-being!
@Joyous765 2 жыл бұрын
Deep thanks for your healing message about the prevalence of misogyny in our cultures and conditioning. Blessings to us all!
@lucybendolph6346 2 жыл бұрын
Amen I totally agree with you yes I truly Bless GOD For this Awesome MOG and His Beautiful Wife (Queen) Praying GOD Continue To Bless They Entire Family
@stephanies.3198 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree....it has truly been blessing my life. I got soul ties book and read it in one sitting.
@clarissahoward1901 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@joycewatt800 2 жыл бұрын
It’s soul Food! Food for the soul.
@rhodesia1028 2 жыл бұрын
I like this kind of teaching. More often it is another women trying to teach woman about men. It's refreshing to have a man teaching truth
@spekialcay1 2 жыл бұрын
we very rarely listen when we teach about relationships or just about men but our eyes/ears are perked and in tune when the talk comes from a man! it's powerful to see when that happens...
@joykihiu525 2 жыл бұрын
Mmmm not seen it that way....
@paincoach7500 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being willing to get into the messy nitty-gritty of our issues between men and women and speak with clarity confrontation and authority in a respectful way. Truly genuinely helpful was this message!!
@katrinaandersonward5938 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u Pastor Blakes. I listen to A Lot of your messages while working or doing my cardio. I have to admit this message was very helpful for 2022. I pressed replay 4 times. Thanks 🙏🏽
@sallybyrd3712 2 жыл бұрын
Disrespect for women has always been around but has increased since the 60's and 70's when women started demanding less of men. Absolutely right about the negative attitude in many churches towards women. Very good message.
@anndavis2920 2 жыл бұрын
women have become so co-dependent that they have lost self love and respect for themselves n dont like to be alone so they have opened themselves up to all kinds of evil from guys who hate women because they are jealous and envious of women. So sad.
@andreaberryman5354 2 жыл бұрын
The 60's and 70's was the sexual revolution and the women's movement. Can't get us pregnant anymore? Abortion is legal? No-fault divorce? These distespectful young men and narcissistic young women is what happens when women go to work and nobody is there when the kids get home.
@cindycrawford3891 Жыл бұрын
I kinda disagree bcz modern society wt the gay community on the rise, and so many street drugs, prostitutes everywhere, women are treated very badly these days, hope it gets better.
@hawaiigirl8089 Жыл бұрын
This is a power structure. Women’s Lib. Aka the Feminist Movement TOTALLY LIED 🤥to women by saying after the invention of Birth Control Pills 💊- WE can now date freely like a man & have casual sex.
@ithinkiknowme6450 Жыл бұрын
Prostitution and drugs have corroded the human society since the dawn of time..stop blaming gay community for the things you wouldn't blame straight community for
@JuzzMe-xu4mu 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, we need to stop giving it away easily! You will see how things will change for the better if we all start doing this. RC, I also believe men act this way now because of the internet and all the options they now have. Another great video, thank you.
@sonjalivingston8241 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree MORE
@food4thought692 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you have to respect yourself to the fullest.
@sharonburgins2483 2 жыл бұрын
LISTENING TO YOU TODAY REJUVENANATED MY EMPOWERMENT OF PROUDLY HOLDING MYSELF TOGETHER !
@suzyerichsen6184 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully addressed, thank you. RC Blake you are so needed in our society at these times. May God continue to speak through you...
@lidialupes3763 2 жыл бұрын
I was living with an abusive husband for 24 years x my self esteem was totally destroyed x I started building up my self esteem by reading lots of motivational books x I didn't take divorce into consideration as my church would exclude me x so with 5 children I thought that I couldn't take my church rejection x the last drop was on a Christmas Eve 8 years ago when if my oldest son wasn't home I wouldn't be alive today x I am a free woman since, living in a different country and having all my 5 children with me x I left my country with a broken heart x my pastor rebuked me x it was so painful x thank God that He made a way for me x in those 8 years my Lord healed me and made me whole again x I forgave everyone who ever hurt me x I pray that many women listen this message and love themselves x I love myself now x
@jeannierusso2134 2 жыл бұрын
You poor woman I can't even comprehend what you've been through a special with five children I'm sure it was very difficult. And I'm so happy to hear that your oldest son was there so that you are still able to live in have another chance at a good life with you and your family may God watch over you and continued happiness. Thank you for sharing your story.
@lidialupes3763 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeannierusso2134 that's only half of my life' story x what's best is yet to come x I wrote a book about my experiences during the communist regime, my marriage and relocating to another country x Caught behind the Iron Curtain x I would like to encourage young women to respect themselves enough and not accept ever to be humilieted x
@jeannierusso2134 2 жыл бұрын
@@lidialupes3763 thank you for your reply and I'm wishing you continued happiness and I'm glad your children are all with you.. if I don't respond my phone is going to be going off but it will be coming back on.. I'm running out of minutes or data or something so please take care
@missjaszmine1968 2 жыл бұрын
Praise God! I'm so glad that you had the courage to walk through the parted sea that the Lord provided for refuge. Also praise be to God for your sons courage and determination to assist you. Our pastors and ministers are not our God. Praise the Lord for that. May you and your children live in continued peace, safety and well being🙏🏼💪🏼😘🌅👏🏼🥳🎉💐🌞!
@tamarat.8810 2 жыл бұрын
I love that fact that you hold women and men accountable.
@juditholeary9732 2 жыл бұрын
It was the best of all of your programs yet. Thank You so much. This one's a keeper. Bless You.
@nancymc 2 жыл бұрын
I have tears in my eyes, just walking away from a disrespectful man. Thank you pastor Blakes. What an eye opener this is. You are truly a man of God. I really needed to hear this.
@Mizz_JON 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@ritadoran5039 2 жыл бұрын
We have to carry ourselves as God fearing ladies dress modestly but classy and speak words of kindness not cursing and show people in general we value the gift of womanhood The right man will respond accordingly if he's smart My mother told me before she passed hold your head up high because your a lady 💛❤
@smileyladyT 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, we are daughters of the most High, realize we wear a crown of glory.
@profmj7630 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, ma'am!
@lisaruffin71 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Pastor RC Blakes, for blessing me and the multitude of others needing to hear, listen, and understand why respect is not reciprocated today. I have never posted and/or shared another person's message from KZfaq, however, I felt the need to learn how to share your message on Facebook. I pray we can one day get back to women respect themselves and each other. When we respect ourselves, we teach others how to love, respect and treat us. I graciously thank you Pastor RC Blakes.
@cheyluv6256 16 күн бұрын
This was a whole word 🙏🏽…praying for our men out their. ❤️
@ntombimngomezulu2031 2 жыл бұрын
If I had known you earlier, I wouldn't have sold my soul to the devil and allowing myself to be so used and disrespect by men. You changed the way I look at myself as a woman, in order to attract God's sent husband. Self respect, self love. Take self care. Amen pastor. God bless you abundantly🙏🙏🙏
@loiscarter5634 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Pastor. Finally here at 70 years of age I am hearing God's truth from You in such a way that I am getting childhood healing and understanding of my deceased parents and grandparents etc. So Grateful to have The Grace and strength to deal with my own children and grandchildren to give the words they need to hear and just love until they are willing to listen. SO GRATEFUL
@marycox4510 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN, for i am 65 years young. Never married. I too have grown up in grace and strength.Keep on keeping on
@venusscorpio5919 2 жыл бұрын
Very matured, raw and uncut commentary! God bless you
@leahchalmers2211 Жыл бұрын
Powerful message . I pray we learn the difference as women walk away from the disrespect and appreciate when a man does respect you
@coralharvey7957 2 жыл бұрын
I worked it out a while ago that when a man hurts a woman in any way it usually indicates a very poor self image. Amen Pastor .
@bevee3711 9 ай бұрын
Bingo!!!! It almost makes you feel sorry for them.
@pinnakal1 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I’m a nurse and my married patients tend to recover quicker and come to hospital later in age that those who played the field and hopped around.
@firesign4297 2 жыл бұрын
🙏👍🏿👍🏿 And Thank YOU🙏❤️🙏 For ALLLLL YOU❤️🙏❤️ DO🙏❤️🙏 Blessings🙏😊 From A Sista😊 From By Way Of Brooklyn NYC 😊
@dianaprince9311 2 жыл бұрын
Alone with no family or friends to speak of.
@dedeyeboah5353 2 жыл бұрын
Wow
@toptier6356 2 жыл бұрын
I can believe that.
@Servant_of_TMH 2 жыл бұрын
I kept dodging this, seeming uninterested, I don't know why, I enjoy every single teaching!!! Well I finally watched this today!!! What a blessing!!! Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Blakes!!!
@missjaszmine1968 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the integrity in which you produce these videos Pastor Blake's. Thank you for holding up a moral standard that is godly truly, and is uplifting to all; not only to women but to men who want to honor women, boys who want to honor women. I thank you.
@lolachlih3136 2 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful message i was destroyed in my 7 years of my last relationship of alot of belittling and torn down as a woman and a mother to our children i had to walk away last march and had to start healing this really spoke to me, thank you for your teachings you bring to us pastor Blakes 🙏
@nikkyshamz2696 2 жыл бұрын
It's that broken consciousness that make ladies want or choose a disrespectful man over a solid, consistent, kind, man, i'm glad i've always liked reserved, respectful, solid, kind and ambitious men. Ladies we deserve to be treated well. Let's elevate.
@anabelaferreira9686 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed very much listening to all you have spoken ! I wish to hear more! Thank you
@tressadavis7159 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve just recently started listening to you! I love love love your teachings sir. Many blessings to you & your family. May God continue to use you.
@belindajones6518 2 жыл бұрын
It takes for a woman to respect herself which includes loving herself and knowing her worth not allowing herself to be manipulated misused or abused be prepared to say no to any given situation that does not regard her uniqueness and value
@user-fj8bt4zo3x 10 ай бұрын
We have that trait some more than others but no he's right men have a.major impact influence on the process of a woman fully seeing her worth...
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