Yes this blessed me!! Every guy I’ve dated always told me I’m a wife, and they’d either stop talking to me immediately or they’d feel the need to express to me being married is not in their plans. I never have to express my desire to be married. I use to think there was something wrong with me. But I will continue to carry myself this way, and walk in my purpose. There is nothing at all wrong with me. The right man, my God ordained husband will find & appreciate me. This was an on time word. 🙌🏽

“A wife is not discovered in the eyes; a wife is discovered in the soul.” Bishop this statement was awesome! ❤🙌🏽

A woman who spends time in Gods presence will have these Traits ☺️

My Nani was an Etiquette teacher. Her & my grandfather were also English professors at Bowie State. I remember weekends full of simulated dining. Posture correction. Correct bending over & sitting techniques. Positive mirror affirmations. I literally thought my Nani was Crazy when I was little. 😂 My grandfather took us to the Ballet. The Opera. Fine dining. We weren't allowed to speak broken English. Our manners had to be impeccable. On my Father's side ..My Big Mama was a Geechie/Native American "Uman" loI (iykyk) who loved my grandfather dearly. We sat on the porch snapping peas. Washing greens from her garden, planting watermelon, taking the mattresses out and beating them with a stick...EVERY SATURDAY MORNING!! (Wasn't no cartoons till chores were done 😩😂) tending goats, making ho cakes, hand washing the floors, & cleaning EVERY piece of China with vinegar and hot water. 😩 I was teased relentlessly when I was younger. Called white girl. Thought I was"better than." Called Bourgeois. Country ...You name it!! I was low-key ashamed of my upbringing. But as an adult with a successful husband, 4 Wonderful boys, and a 16 yr long marriage. I'm glad I was raised the way I was. My childhood wasn't ordinary but my adult life is Blessed bc of it.

1. Manners and etiquette 2. Language of the women a.) Tone b.) vocabulary c.) timing 3.Feminine pacing a.) running ahead of a man = stop needing his protection b.) respect his role as leader/ represent him with dignity and Grace c.) stop being proud being his partner 4. Facial Expressions A mean mug is no way to attract kings a.) kind eyes b.) heart is warm but face is cold

What makes a woman attractive to a great man... 1: Manners & Etiquette 🧄 A great man isn't going to tolerate buffoonery. Proverbs 12:4; 1 Corinthians 11:7-9; Proverbs 11:16 2: A great man is drawn to the language of a woman. Proverbs 31:26 🧄 A woman's words will move a great man positively or negatively. A. Tone - Proverbs 21:19 B. Vocabulary - 2 Timothy 2:16 C. Timing - 1 Peter 3:1 3: A great man is attracted to your feminine pacing: slow & deliberate. Colossians 3:18 When we aren't in our feminine pacing, it signifies that - A. I don't expect your protection B. Don't respect his role as leader C. Not proud of being next to him 4: Facial expressions - Proverbs 15:13; Isaiah 3:9 Thank you Bishop.

Don’t have a husband. No man in my life. Just working on being a Queen.😊😊

I often get bullied especially by black women for being too kind and I thought something was wrong with me. I tried to do things that made me “tougher” but it only made me weaker. I’m still learning that it is okay to be kind and not have a mean mug all the time. The video is confirming that there is nothing wrong with me. God made me this way for a reason

I told a man I’m not matching his energy so he needed to change his tone and speak to me like a lady. That’s growth for me because I used to match energy and had no problem cussing someone out. I don’t want to be that way anymore. Maintain your dignity.

When he said “consider this a father daughter talk” made me so emotional 😭 thank you so much for this. My father passed away when I was 11 & I’ve always yearned for his wisdom. ❤

I grew up thinking my whole life men only desire me for my body and looks and I still struggle with that. From being abused as a child by a family member I always thought sex=love love=sex. I'm thankful there are men who speak on these things because I was never taught otherwise

If you can pay for a concert to see Beyonce, then you can, and should pay for an etiquette class. That's WORD! I love you sir!

the man is attracted to the sound coming from a womans soul!! You preaching...my husband said the same thing! i agree with him.

We sometimes forget that is the beauty of the soul that really counts😊

I’m so thankful I grew up under my grandmothers,mother, aunts, teachers that were Ladies!!! They taught me ETIQUETTE 🙌🏾

Thank you for sowing into your Internet Daughters and blessing us with your insight! 💕

I AM ANTICIPATING TO WATCH THIS CROWN ADJUSTING VIDEO BISHOP BLAKES!!!! YOU ALWAYS REMINDS US QUEENS TO KEEP ADJUSTING OUR CROWNS, WALK, TALK AND REMEMBER WHO WE ARD AND WHOSE WE ARE!!! THE KING'S DAUGHTERS AMEN!!!!!💜💜💯💯🖐🏾🖐🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥👑👑🦁🐑

When you said to consider this a father-daughter talk it brought me to tears. Something I never knew I craved and needed. Thank you

WOW!!!!!!!! “When a woman runs ahead she is not respecting him as a leader” I’m always running ahead of my bfs.. I was never told this advice!!!! Thank you!!!! 🤯💞

This was sooo good and highly informative. This is why some women never lack male attention and suitors simply by how they carry themselves and the kindness they operate with. I'm never stepping out of my feminine, I love being treated like a lady by a masculine man. The dynamic is beautiful. These are all facts.

Thank you! I’m a southern woman, I was raised up like this and I still believe this to the fullest! I thought something was wrong with me for a moment! Thank you Bishop 🫶🏾

A Character Of A Person Is What Makes Them A High Valuable Human Being! It’s The Matters Of The Heart That Makes Them Valuable To me!!!

Another fantastic message, Bishop! This was confirmation for me that I really am ready mentally and emotionally to be someone’s wife. Once I graduate this summer I am making a promise to myself to get myself out and about so that I can actually be found. I’ve grown and healed so much throughout my 20s, and now in my 30s I’m amazed at all of the blessings and peace I’ve been granted now that I’ve surrendered my ego and committed myself to being obedient to God. His timing is perfect, and His plan has beaten mine every single time.

Can’t wait! It’s a privilege to be mentored by a prophetic leader. Clearly, something has changed in the spiritual realm. I feel that Bishop is preparing us for marriages that are about to manifest. Thank you so much Paps. We honor you. 🙏🏾

I have been askiing this question forever and you actually give clear instructions that I never would have considered. Everybody says - wait on God, rather than - here's what you need to work on! God can tell us what we need to work on while we're waiting. Thank you SO MUCH - implementing immediately. I'm no Roger Federer. I will be moving slower etc.

Coming to think about it: it is actually a sad thing that grown ups have to learn these days that it isn't only about looks... character, decency, etiquette, friendlyness, how to address people, public behaviour... I was approached by a young man recently. A few years back I would have totally fallen for him, because he's my type 🤣. But this time I told him I can't stand the way he addresses or approaches me. I told him that I was very sorry but he's too rude for my liking. The poor guy couldn't believe his ears, because he was counting on his looks and career.

Been married for 9 years , dated for 1, friends for 2…. He is telling the truth !

1. Refined, polished, and dignified. (etiquette / manners) 2. Language. (tone, vocabulary, timing) 3. Feminine pacing. (*Ladies do not rush.) 4. Facial expressions.

My favorite video to date by far! My earthly Dad is 74 and has never ever taught me anything godly preachers and teachers preach and teach! Thank you 5 fold minister!

I cried as I listened to this. Cause I try so hard to be what I think I'm supposed to be, but I make so many mistakes. Look around trying to find out what to do but no one to teach me. It takes a father to care enough to correct you. Despise not the chastening of the Lord, for whom the Lord loves He chastens. Thank you @Rcblakes for being that for me, and for hearing the voice of the Lord and for showing us the way ❤️

This was done with Excellence! At times I was crying laughing 😂. But Bishop, you spoke nothing but the Truth! I look forward to more.

My Mother taught me to focus on inner beauty. The outer beauty I have couldn't have made me who I am today.

Crying at my desk at work listening to the intro. It’s been hard. Never thought I’d be a single mom after decades of marriage & trying to be a good wife & mother. Was kicked to the curb for a WW. The intro really touches my soul. Thanks RC!

Etiquette is missing in society…I could go on but I don’t want to step on toes……

OMG THAT INTRO SONG BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES… I FEEL SO EMPOWERED EVERY SINGLE TIME I HEAR IT🙌🙌🙌🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎵🎵🎶🎶🎶

Thank you once again, Bishop! This video was right on time as I am softening myself and tapping into my feminine energy. I have a wonderful man in my life who is healthy and serious about our relationship. I want to match his loving, kind, and compassionate energy. This was a right on time message for me and I will share the video.

I NEVER had any idea of feminine pacing, etc. I just thought moving fast meant being active/ agile . I'm soooo glad you're teaching this. May be useful for my next husband.

As long as GOD gives you air to breathe, don't you ever STOP teaching the truth! I was thoroughly blessed after listening. I must admit, I need to work on my "facial expressions"! Thank you❤️. Massachusetts 🙏

This is definitely the father daughter talk I needed growing up. I appreciate the message and I receive it 🧘🏽

It doesn't make us weak. I was athletic from the age of 7- 15. Submissiveness is a sign of respect & honor for a woman's husband.

It truly blessed me to hear this! The traits that you described are traits that I have but also traits that have been unappreciated or criticized, like “Why are you so proper?” or “You’re too nice!”, etc. I honestly feel like this has kept me single because a lot of men are marrying or partnering with the loud, crass, promiscuous, abrasive, ratchet type of women, BUT… these are not the type of men that you described as being high value and that’s the key! I think a lot of women like me have been overlooked or unappreciated by certain men for being softer, well-mannered or thoughtful, but I’m finally figuring out… that’s just not my audience! And I think it’s so important to understand (particularly for us women of color because the cultural norms are perpetuating a different standard) women with class are just as rare as the truly high-value men who can appreciate and recognize a woman like that!

You just got another daughter from Nigeria, started following you 2 weeks ago and I can't stop listening to you every message I tune into comes with mind blowing truths for my growth as a queen 👑 that I am. Thanks for helping me find me

I’m 21 and so happy I’m seeing your videos while I’m still young so I can get ready early and make being a Godly feminine women my lifestyle. I really needed this video. I was avoiding it lol but I finally decided to just watch it. The last part about facial expressions…Thank you so much for this video!!!

They used to promote Etiquette Classes back in my day. If they brought it back, I would be trying to get in ASAP. You act like who you are around. I need a refresher course. I'll never stop absorbing knowledge. ✌️❤️🍷

“A great man is not going to tolerate the buffoonery.” What happened to women who carried themselves in a classy, dignified manner. Quiet, gentle, respectful and well respected? Too many reality tv shows have ruined what should be ladies these days. Young sistas your more then your curves and hips! And what happened to trust, respect & communication. If a man doesn’t display these qualities towards you, then what are you doing? The dating scene clearly doesn’t compare to courtship. And many young ladies don’t make it past the dating scene because your too quick to give up the gold. It’s really sad what’s going on out here these days. I could say a lot more. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ IJS

Ask and you will receive. In his Time, his will has been Done. Sent me a Queen 👸🏾

I’ve been listening to Bishop for at least a year now. Side note.. I’m not a religious practicing individual, I do believe in a God/ universe/ source that provides men like bishop for us on this earth plain.. And many of his contents were very helpful in aiding us as women to be better versions of ourselves. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, from changing and growing out of bitterness and super independent.. to being engaged and will marry my amazing God given gift of a man by the end of this year! Thanks again for your content!! ❤

Bishop 😂 that impression of the woman chewing gum sent me LOL!!! Such a great message. Thank you for always keeping it real with us.

I'm from the state of Louisiana! Having said that, that introduction song was amazing; I am that woman, however; the man I chose didn't deserve me nor value me and I gave him everything plus three kids. So after 30+ years I divorced him; I couldn't be happier. Currently, I'm in a long distance situationship with my guy from another country! Come to find out he's a very high level soulmate or something deeper that I've never experienced before. WOW! Also My ex was a man of the cloth too!☹️

I watch this video at least 3 to 4 times a day and while I lay in the bed wanting to fall a sleep. This is my favorite video, because not only is it funny, but it speaks facts. When he starts talking about forks and going to the bathroom, I cannot stop laughing. My husband watched a couple of video's and said he wished he would touch on men too, because we have issues too not just women. Now I'm trying to go through all his video's to see if there is something I can share with my husband and our son's. I know it is up here somewhere.

Manners and etiquette are soft skills that I teach. ❤

You’re unintentionally funny 😂

I was married for 20 years and towards the end of the marriage i had gained a bit of weight and i could never understand why my husband walked WAY ahead of me all the time. Like we werent even together. And I realized it was because of my physical looks. He wasnt proud to walk next to me. Well that was just one of many problems but it makes sense. so it was just in the reverse of this context.

Thanks for this! 💯 FACTS! Married for almost 3 decades. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

I hate seeing women running over good men, vise verse! The controlling women are draining these men mentally! Like you said Bishop “the husband leads and the wife follows!”🔥 I thank GOD I’m different, a beautiful soul!🙌🏽

I watch all your content, very educational and much needed. Thank you for sharing the content, we need more of it!!! Your videos have changed my life ❤

Thank you for this teaching. I needed this. With being a single mom and having to do everything on your own, sometimes it’s hard turning that masculine energy off. With this and other teachings I can say I’ve drastically improved. So thanks again bishop. Happy New Year to you and your family🎉🎉❤

Thank you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for all you and Lisa do. 🙏🏼

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I think women need to hear you on a constant basis. Some of us don’t know what to look for or don’t care how they behave or influence someone else to behave😢

Patiently waiting. I know it will be a very informative, yet exciting discussion! Keep helping everyone Bishop!

Excellent timely message. True father and daughter talk. I needed to hear this. Now I know the areas I need to work on as I position myself as Godly wife to a Great man. I clearly know what a great man looks like. God bless you Bishop..

This has truly blessed me and opened my eyes. I am too masculine. I am working on tapping into my feminine energy, and this has set the course for me to achieve who I really am! God is bringing me back in alignment

These conversations are always so classy and deep.Thanks Pastor for another intriguing message. Continued blessings on your ministry and your family.🙌

Women listen to this message carefully. Pay great attention to every word & adhere to wise instruction /councel. This will carry you through life to have a peaceful, healthy, trustworthy, meaningful & prosperous relationship.

Thanks Pastor ☺️ I was just thinking about a good word from you. Thanks Lady Lisa!❤️

COME ON WITH IT PASTOR BLAKES IM HERE FOR IT

This was sooooooo good!! I truly have to continue to be myself. Don't allow a job or anything to take you out of your Godly mindset! I'm happy had a chance to listen to this video!

Thank you Bishop, may the Lord continue to empower and inspires you as you put in more wisdom in relationships and marriages

Love these father daughter talks. Keep up the excellent work Bishop

As a Devine feminine listening to this was such a pleasure…. This gave me the confirmation that I am already in my feminine energy I love this great teaching for a woman thank you great king❤♥️🙏🏾 all women need these teachings to be truly Devine feminine.

Very enlightening and eye opening! Thank you Bishop and first Lady for ALWAYS positioning US for God's BEST! ❤💯..BLESSINGS

This is one of the most amazing messages I've heard, it's so illuminating and inspiring! This message is for me. God bless you more for this sir.

You were so on point Bishop. Thank you!

As a 22 year old woman this is exactly like that father and daughter talk I've always needed I love my dad dearly but he never had these types of conversations with me but listening to you has restored my understanding more about becoming a better woman 💕

Thank you Pastor RC🎯Great Message🔥

This message convicted me on things I need to work on. Thank you. ❤

Beautiful Message Bishop.. Your Examples Are Wonderful Points… I Came From COGIC Churches From Baby Up To My Adult Life & My Mother & Father Keep Us All In Line From Purity Class Sunshine Band Young Women & Men Groups… We Was Blessed To Have These Teachings Along The Way & It Has Stuck With Me Throughout My Life Even When I Went The Wrong Way & Thought I Was Gonna Do It My Way… Even As We Just Laid My Dad To Rest A Few Months Ago.. I Get It Now!! Amen!!!

Tuned in!! Can’t wait ❤

Great tips, advice, knowledge & wisdom as always. Thanks

Pastor Blake your words are always refreshing in helping me prepare myself as lady (wife)of excellence.Thank God for your ministry.

I love your teaching!! God bless you and your efforts to enhance the lives of women.

I needed to hear this. Thank Bishop RC

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! No better teacher than a GODLY man!

This is the one I needed! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Well said ❤ RC has helped me sooo much!! He’s literally my earthly father. He’s taught me things that my parents should’ve taught me. I’m so blessed to have found him.

Thank you Bishop, to God be The Glory!!!

Thank you for this Bishop I needed this conversation.

Here's to a great lesson right here! Thanks Pastor RC Blakes for this one.

Thank you pastor Blakes for this message 🙏 much needed!!

🦋Just like you said, it's the rhythm of the relationship. It just flows like a dance when you're compatible. 🦋A lot of women especially the black woman have preachy tones. That's something that we have to work on. Men don't like to be spoken down to. 🦋Not being vulgar is a challenge for a lot of us because that is how a lot of us in our culture present ourselves. I curse when I'm mad but to speak like that in everyday conversations, I try not to. It doesn't look good when men do it either. Men shouldn't get a pass and BURPING is a huge turn off. 🦋As far as a partnership goes. You are partners. Equal. As in equally yoked. You are both leaders in the relationship and I would love to walk side by side with my partner and not ahead of him. I haven't felt feminine in a long time since my appearance changed. I am tall and fat. 🦋As far as being dignified, I have to disagree. You are in a profession where your image is very very important. I know how it is. I was a pastor's daughter. I was around a lot of serious people who had that type of composure BUT every dignified man does not want the serious type. Some men like a more exuberant type of woman. I'm in the middle. I don't like too serious but I don't like too exuberant. And just because you don't act dignified it doesn't mean that you don't have any dignity about yourself. Sometimes that could come off as self righteous or too uptight. I am quiet. What's the scripture? A quiet woman is like rubies to her husband. Something of that nature. My motto is just be yourself. Don't try to be someone else. Thanks for the tips

Thank you Bishop ❤this is so appreciated.

Thank you for sharing your fatherly wisdom! I needed this!

I heard during a ministrations in Church a Word of knowledge that God will send me a destiny helper that God will use to teach a and speed up my purpose Driven Marital Destiny....Marriage! Now I know you're that man God have sent to achieved that in my life. God Bless you sir!🙋🙏👰💍🙇💑👩‍👩‍👧‍👧

Amen, thank you. You nailed it Bishop! from a " thriving widow with a purpose"

Thank you sir! This message, i needed to hear it.

Great word! Thank you RC 😊

Sooooo good Bishop, sooo on time. Bless you sir! I thank God for your teachings.

My Lord! This was awesome and a very much needed teaching. Thank you Bishop!!

This is a wonderful teaching Pastor Blakes!

Such valuable and tender input. Thank you RC 💕

I cry when I hear this song because I been through so much, sometimes I even got numb to my circumstances being too pensive. Your ministry is so encouraging and really uplifting!!!