Problem is, if your primary reason for doing things is for the validation of others, you're just setting yourself up for failure.

i wish i could get girls :(

​@@acethemain7776Drink enough alcohol to make you brave and no more and go to a club. Try to get girls. Repeat untill success

@@acethemain7776 You can

Also… kind of lame bar for measuring self-worth

yeah true. i mean cocaine addiction didn't ruin my life. it was my choice to snort cocaine. nothing wrong with cocaine. it's my fault. we shouldn't make it illegal 😉😉

that's flawed reasoning. I mean they literally said "doing this", thereby blaming their own actions.

It can completely be the things fault. Sure it might be partially the persons fault for doing it, but the thing still caused it

Thats what I'm thinking, shit happens, life happens, but it's your fault if you sit there and cry about it rather than improve your situation, this logic can't be applied to everything, like, murder, you can't improve if you're dead. But ultimately, how you choose to react is the thing that helps you, and if you react by throwing a tantrum, of course it doesn't get better

​@@Fernandez218You're goddamn right, every move you do has consequences.

Even dropping %17 to %13 makes significant difference.

He just failed at it and drowned himself in Shame. And just to cope he blames self-improvement

😂😂

The eternal bulk can be cruel

true lol

*cough cough* Andrew Tate

​@@hakerananasek Andrew tate is not worse off i mean yeah he may be piece of work but he is definitely richer and excalty knew what he was doing his intentions may not be normal though

I dont think he understand *SELFIMPROVEMENT* its more of a *SELFDESTRUCTION* thing

​@alex ander if someone tells you wrong scientific facts, would you blame science? 'Improvement' literally means changing your habits that will improve you life. If your life doesnt get better, you did not apply 'self improvement'.

​@alex ander True, but a lot of people need to realize self improvement is mostly subjective to the person. Yeah, of course being healthy and confident will always help but it's still a subjective term. It's about what that person wants ultimately.

Absolute facts

lol i was thinking the same thing, but some idiots r gonna get offended and start arguing. Best of luck u might be going to get some hate

Or maybe he just made a bunch of dumb choices and didn't want to own them.

@@wrongthinker843 or maybe you didn’t even read the original comment ya cro magnon. Your username adds up

not only that the useless podcasts, courses and products that feed on people's insecurities and unrealistic expectations. I see guys hating the gym because they can't get the results they wanted which is ridiculous. you don't just work out and eat healthy for looks, it's for your physical and mental health. I don't need to spend money to strangers who will teach me how to work out or eat through the internet or make me buy some essential-oil like product that is absolutely useless or even harmful.

It’s the beard, all he had to do was shave it off lol

Lol

Good thing he didn't go for a British lorry driver look😂

Better at stuff like what? Define everything, how do u measure self improvement. For example in the gym I just measure the weight in lifting? What do I measure with self improvement

@@dosomestuff1949 You're thinking too hard. It's really simple. Whatever you wish to improve, you just measure it over a period of time to see if you have. For example, have you been consistently eating healthier, sleeping better, better grades, focusing more on tasks, etc, over time? Very simple. Not easy, but, simple.

@@DefeatLust the thing about grades is no matter how hard I try I just never get a 99 percent, i alwyas get low A ‘s and best and I’ve hit a plateau on that’s what do I fo

​@@dosomestuff1949 by the way you talk you must be a 12 years old. Self-improvement just means instead of just sitting and blaming the world for what's happening to you. you take responsibility and try to improve yourself. Now imagine if you didn't work hard you wouldn't even get low A's you don't have to always get a perfect score.

​​@@dosomestuff1949 improve knowledge, improve fitness etc. It's more so to be the best that you can be.

Cope

Insane amount of cope

gym comes first hoes are an afterthought. set your priorities 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

The girl is the only thing I want. Even at 35, 45, 55+. I only want the 18 year old cute faced basic white broad. I don't want or need anything else. I guess if you got the Rachel Brockman type of brown it might work. But this whole self this, self work effort this and that doesn't COMPUTE with my SPERG BRAIN DAMAGED BRAIN. And there's no 'treatment" or "cure" for autism disease brain. Unfortunately core brain shape and structure being different means I can NEVER be rewarded by what you are rewarded by but feel harsher punishment than you do and more effort and exhaustion from the same things that you do...

extreme amounts of copium detected

Haha, love the profile pic btw

Young Khamzat didn’t have a beard and had longer hair. He still wasn’t good looking. This dude has a decent jawline and pretty boy blue eyes

That’s the plot behind redpill. Profit off lost young men.

​@@Limonaid nah that's the surface, the plot is actual self improvement

You got it.

The argument can be made that losing friends that are not wanting to also better themselves is good for you. Better to have friends that want to grow and will motivate you toward it than ones that will celebrate when you stumble. A good friend will tell you to get back on the horse when you fall, but a bad friend will say, "I'm glad you've joined us on the ground again."

Two things are possible, one that the people you lost were not conducive to your growth as a person and you are better off without them/they themselves have not attained the level of growth they need and resent what they don't understand, or that you came across as self-righteous and obnoxious/preachy when you started learning these new things and didn't stay grounded when expressing stuff to people (even if you didn't intend to do it, it can happen).

Embrace Muh-sculinity bruh fr fr

he doesn't look masculine in either pic

Yea I wish the KZfaqr and everybody who are in these comments practice what he preached. With all the tribal helping out the bros and all that but. Be so ready to judge and dismiss someone else's journey because they don't look like the stereotypical red pill bs. This is why I just improve myself and never follow KZfaqrs like this guy being rude to the man who didn't have a good improvement

​@@mellomations449 Maybe that's not really self improvement is it?

I’ve watched a few of this guy’s videos. He is very likeable and genuine. I have not seen this specific video but I feel as though this clip has been removed from all context and he had some explanation further down.

Why not? He probably ate fast food and grew a discord mod beard but blames it on self improvement. People these days be like

Exactly my thoughts. Just making fun of his appearance like some immature kid.

No amount of self improvement gonna save your ass from getting beaten up by this kid named mueen khan kzfaq.infof0yMkdh6ZkM?si=z6xNfGFLtP2TYtB0

"Dear Ann Landers: My self-improvement actually wrecked my life. What do I do now?" Signed, Confused.

haha lmao

he definitely has the look of that demographic

definitely did

none of them tell you to shave your head grow an ugly beard and become fatter

​@@roghider3552nutty pervert

How do I start improving myself and how do I measure this? And what should I improve?

@@dosomestuff1949 How: First, what is self-improvement really? It's a broad topic to begin with. But in general, it means to improve yourself in multiple facets of your life. For example, improving your physical health, looksmaxxing, improving diet, sleep, getting rid of bad habits (like porn, drug use, any addictions) etc. Measure: This will be largely qualitative. You don't need to worry about 'measure', you will see progress within the first few months though. After the first year you'll notice the significant changes in my opinion. However, it's important to assess that you are progressing in your chosen goals. Each goal has their own nuances for progression that I won't get into but you should do your own research on that. (That is another big part of self-improvement: knowledge.) What: This is largely up to you and your own goals, some examples were mentioned in the "how" section.

@@anzarv okay, let’s say for example I want to improve my looks, how do I measure short term progress in this to assess whether I’m progressing or not?

@@dosomestuff1949 Up to you bro. At the end of the day, find out what works for you. Taking inspo is fine, but as long as you feel good, look good, that's what matters and that you're better than yourself yesterday.

That's what I'm saying I hate how this KZfaqr and people in the comments forget that just because self improvement is the new crazy for a bunch of degenerate men. While judging a man who became less due to the stress of always "trying to improve" base on the over simplefication of masculinity that's sold in a nice package of capitalism. Sometimes improving got nothing to do with going to the gym or eating healthier sometimes it's staying away from movements like a lot of these red pill tubers preach to men who barley follow the practices which lead a lot of guys like him in this video which is sad

@@mellomations449 What are you on about? Capitalism? Hahaha. The western world is feminizing more and more and becoming degenerate, and the only thing that is getting in the way is 'le capitalism' you complained about. And no, self improvement doesn't really have to be related to the red pill movement, which too be honest isn't a necessarily bad movement even though there are bad actors in them who spout out the worst advice.

keep up up the energetic comments king

Yeah, but I would recommend people to stay away from gurus that say "get a buzz cut". It's different for everyone, do what suits you and compliments your goals.

@@pureone8350 Someone who just chooses to do as told deserves to get scammed.

@@wrongthinker843 I guess I would agree with that, it's a learning experience for them.

Same

Relate heavy to this. But at least you can achieve authenticity after much of the work had been done

​@@ColemanOrWhatever I agree. IMO finding the aspects of yourself you love and focusing on improving those even further is a good start. It builds self-respect required for working on your shortcomings as well.

he is getting older too and he doesnt know what style fits him,and also is more fat and have less hair,also looks depresed.

​@@SrZakachu yea thats why you should enjoy or make something with your teen life because life is going fast

Embrace Muh-sculinty bruh fr fr

lmfaoo true

small hats brain wash women women like fem men men become fem to attract women society turns to a hell hole Its true but its because of the small hats fking shit up

If women are into feminine looking males are they really even straight?

@@johncrow2852 Br00tal LesẞianPill lol

For me, Mark Manson milking his book's reputation a bit too much on KZfaq. My best self improvement book is Atomic Habits by James Clear. I like the author is genuine and he bolster his advices with his personal experience. Even if not the whole book, I recommend you to read at least preface.

@@nghtbot340 thank you for your book reccomendation, i will read it once i have the opportunity

it is indeed a really good book. I’ve read it twice already and it helped me a lot to find the thing that I define today as my purpose and that purpose is that thing that launches me out of the bed everyday and reminds me to say „fuck it“ to everything else that stops me from working hard towards it.

I am pretty sure you have never read a book with that title because it doesn't exist. =p

@@kristianjensen5877 im portuguese so im not sure if its correctly translated and im lazy to check it rn, in portuguese it's "a sutil arte de ligar o foda se" :p

Like his tiktok talks about how working out is bad because the more jacked you are the less attractive you are I’m not even gonna comment on that and let that statement do the talking for me at this point plus his “points” always assume the world is simplistic and most things can be put in a catch all bullet point as if every girl thinks and feels the exact same which is pretty insulting to say the least everyone is a individual with preferences based on numerous factors and hey big brain what if she’s not picky and likes both or just not give af about that stuff at all … good grief I guess I’m just a lil peeved that here’s another person with the let’s shame ppl who work hard and train to do stuff not many ppl can do who I feel deserve respect like good lord you get shamed for being fat skinny jacked or anything really at this point unless your just a genetic god or something

no its just because he was female gazed and then he male gazed aesthetics wise. Shaved head and beard attracts other mens respect, not 18-25 year old girls attraction. His old looked attracted women because that's the aesthetic they like, he's above average facially

@@rottedyouth woman do say they like beards and some of the things he tried to do, now that I’m older I will say your supposed to try out looks and see what works, but also it’s not as simple as having a beard or whatever he didn’t play to his strengths much to like you hinted at he already could attract girls so he should have leaned into his already established strengths and incorporate small changes to feel out the “vibe” positivite or negative everything in moderation bigger or drastic is not always better

"You have to remember not to remember to think. It's a lot not to think about." -- Leslie Nielsen

I feel like you just can't find a middle way. Sleeping at 7 pm is nowhere practical. If you can regulate it, 6-7 hours of sleep will actually suffice. But if you want to sleep 9 hours, you can simply wake up at 6-8 am. Personally, I sleep at 10 and wake up at 5 and it easily suffice me and I don't think it's tiresome.

I had this phase where I used to try do everything that all these self improvement youtubers did. I knew it was good for me, but I never really looked at how I can find a way to implement it into my life instead of trying to be someone else. Now I do keep some of the habits but I live by Bruce Lee's saying of "absorb what is useful, reject what is useless".

We all have this phase I swear

@@amberlerae6033 yup, but at some point we gotta realise it

yep, I've experienced the latter two (even ended up looking like the guy in the video lmao) and my life wasn't ruined, although for a while I thought it was. If anything, those things turned change from a nice-to-have into a necessity and I ended up better for it. It's easier to keep climbing than to start climbing, and when you're stuck in a ditch your only option is to start climbing. All you have to do is keep going after you're out and eventually you'll find yourself on top of a mountain.

What’s wrong with his look? I’ve seen rich people look like him.

fear/stress can also lead to a pretty bad and debilitating burnout. Dont overdo it. Depending on your circumstances the health loss of stress may or may not be worth it depending on intensity, duration, reward and what not .

@@b-doi1211 It can be worth it for some people, if they are used to being stressed then a stressful workout plan might be beneficial; however if you lived a life of just sitting all day and doing nothing with barely and stress then a workout like that will lead to a lot of changes, they can be bad, so gradually go up there. For me I was working out since 10 and at the age of 15 I put a really heavy workout plan but it worked out for the best, my hair is fine and all, just a lot of spots (cause of the stress), but everything else seems fine.

guy looks like a classic victim of the starting strength meme. improve numbers weekly at all cost, even if your weight on the scale is rising faster than the weight on the bar

​@@voskresenie- i dont see the benefit of just increasing your lifts if you arent a powerlifter i mean why get fat just so you can say you lift 100 something kilos on bench and that doesnt even make you a good fighter quite the opposite getting fat and bulky like a powerlifter makes you slower less agile and you will get your ass whopped by someone more mobile with lean muscular build

@@Bulgarian_supremacist1483u still need some good amoiunt of strength for fighting so u don’t get tossed around lmao. I had some fighting knowledge before I started lifting but it wasn’t shit because my strength just wasn’t this

@@dosomestuff1949 i mean going for powerlifter level of strength like above 100kg bench 150+ deadlift/squad and such, having strength is important but going for just numbers wont do any good. do you think eddie hall can beat some middle weight fighter half his size? He wont be able to even land a hit, in fighting you mostly need speed and thechnique

@@Bulgarian_supremacist1483 yea exactly

Yes Bro 😂

Yes! I’ve just recorded a different video where I use that word as an example!

Deutsche Sprache, geile sprache

am german, never heard of that. thanks.

Some people become egomaniacs when on self improvement and consequently end up like this.

What did he do wrong here then?

@@clickbaitpolice1750 why tf are you asking me, idk what he did, but if he says that self improvement ruined his life that means that he did something wrong in his path of "self-improvement"

@@fubkegt4964 I’m not only asking u I’m asking ppl in the thread too

He didn’t lose hair at all, his hairline looks completely healthy. He just shaved it.

thing is jocko doesnt even have a beard

IS "SELF IMPROVEMENT" FOR YA'LL ALL ABOUT BECOMING A NEW PERSON AND TRYING TO LEAVE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR OLD SELF BEHIND OR IS IT IDENTIFYING AND FIXING YOUR PROBLEMS IN LIFE?!!

@@sfridisow185 I don’t see how the two things you listed are different from each other. If you have issues in your life, which you identify and work towards fixing, then youre undoubtedly going to become a better version of yourself. It isn’t about being someone else, it’s about constantly putting in the work towards becoming the best version of yourself. So I really don’t see how those two things you mentioned are different.

WHAT?!! THEY'RE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!!! BECAUSE PEOPLE START "SELF IMPROVEMENT" BEFORE EVEN THINKING CAREFULLY ABOUT WHAT PROBLEMS IN THEIR LIFE ACTUALLY NEED THE MOST FIXING!!! AND THAT'S BECAUSE SELF IMPROVEMENT HAS BECOME A TREND!!!

@@sfridisow185 “self improvement has become a trend” Good, so people are trying to better themselves? I don’t see what your issue is really. Also, is there any particular reason why you type everything in capitals? You’re already making a pretty stupid point to begin with, but it just looks even dumber in capitals lol

Hustle culture is absolute fucking garbage and is not self improvmenrt

likelty what happened

redpilled advice doesnt translate to self improvement tho, if you only watch a guy that talks abut teh women you are watching one of those womanising love gurus, its child logic

@@panzerfk0626 redpill advice is teid with self improvement

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never had them his hair was his looks

@@beganitdidnt6535 those are still looks... name checks out.

@@CollagenExpert not really he went bald and people were coping by saying it was a "bad haircut" truth is what u look like bald is what u really look like

@@beganitdidnt6535 His hair is a great part of his looks. Most “chads” I know you worship would look terrible or not as good without hair on their head. The haircut unified his looks as it’s looksmaxed. His hair is apart of his looks. It depends on the persons skull as Brad Pitt still looks good without hair. However you’re denying that looks give you points in looks. He also gained tons of weight too.

@@CollagenExpert yeah they wouldnt look as good but still good the point here is is that this guy cannot pull off the bald look which means he probably cant pull off any short hairstyle and i dont worship chads women do its just reality and common sense observation he barely gained weight lol i see fitness trainers purposely gaining weight just to lose it and they even looked great overweight

Nah, I'm actually obsessed with it and I'm fine,

@@GustavoHenrique-ok5su Give it some time and you will realize why it ain't good

@@pedrogarcia137 My friend, I've been doing this for 15 years before it even became popular, it may be bad for other people or for you, but for me it's still good, the world doesn't revolve around what you think.

@@GustavoHenrique-ok5su K, I hope it keeps going good for you. Have a good day

thats dope, but i wonder why he decided to change his haircut like that because of this "self improve" thing he does or just because he is trying to be those "gym beast" looks and girls started to leave him and start blaming on becoming a "men" 😂 *theres something fishy with his story or he is just that stupid"

@@AKDHFR it's bullshit for sure. He looks worse than before, he gained bad weight and his beard just looks messy Has nothing to do with improvement