Self Sabotage in Your 20s | are you the villain of your own story?

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2 ай бұрын

Riayn Christina & Paloma Malfavón chat big sis advice for self sabotage in your 20s, Riayn's newest season of life and how sometimes you're the villain of your own story.
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@jenniferbriggs8465 2 ай бұрын

Update to my previous woo girl moment: I PASSED THE MATH TEACHER TEST! I'm now able to teach math!

@meganjs 2 ай бұрын

WOOOO

@jennicole3229 2 ай бұрын

As a fellow teacher, the math exam is hard! Good job!!

@Caribbeanflower. 2 ай бұрын

Congrats!🎉

@TheAlipop13 2 ай бұрын

WOOOOOOOOO

@katepark709 2 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉

@natgars 2 ай бұрын

I used to like the dynamics with 3 because Sierra used to be the mature or the one with more insights. But now I feel I’m knowing more of the 2 of you, and hearing both just maturing and growing together is really good. Congrats on the good job. Also, miss Jess so much 😢

@angelicamarie3771 2 ай бұрын

My woo girl moment is I just got a new job that I've been loving after being injured in a car accident and unable to work for the past year. Im only allowed to be part time but considering there were times I was in a wheelchair last year this is HUGE for me💖

@Ahsoyun 2 ай бұрын

My woo girl moment is that i have finally started to feel myself after a really tough breakup. I genuinely believed I couldn’t find peace or happiness again but I am finally reaching a healing point and I’m so proud of myself. Thinking of you Riayn, I love you girl

@meganjs 2 ай бұрын

I’m just starting to date after a 2 year break from dating. Finding myself was so important as I lost my identity in relationships. You got this ❤❤

@graciegormanlove5723 2 ай бұрын

my woo girl moment is my parents are taking me to NYC for the first time since becoming a mom and we have 1st row seats to Harry Potter on broadway! feeling so blessed to have some alone time with my parents and 2 sisters and thankful for a fiance to watch our son while i get some mama time ❤️

@KaleighGal 2 ай бұрын

"ive always been told i have an attitude so I do" period! being told "you have an attitude" but it was just my raw emotions but it became an "attitude".

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

I kept this dialog of SATC movie: Samantha ask how often are you happy? And charlotte says "every day, not all day every day, but every day" That help to try to find something good in every day even the smallest thing maybe you can see it at "not every second has to be" The scene is at 1hr 58min of the movie

@kirstenholder7270 2 ай бұрын

I remember seeing this episode of SATC, and when Charlotte said that, something clicked in me - since that moment, I let the day be what it is, but also appreciate the parts that gave me joy!! Thanks for the reminder @Viry1905

@daceyhayman3623 2 ай бұрын

my woo girl minute is that my fiancé and I both got cast as leads in the local community theater! small steps to big dreams 💕

@kirstenholder7270 2 ай бұрын

That is amazing!!!! Have a great show together!

@diamondpayne5959 2 ай бұрын

The realization that not every moment is going to be enjoyable: that has helped me so much with chores! I used to be so confused how everyone was getting this stuff done and not being miserable. Not I realize that just because I don’t enjoy it doesn’t mean I shouldn’t do it. Sounds so stupid but this took me until I was like 28 to click

@AmYpR 2 ай бұрын

My woo girl moment is after a terrifying stand-still year of the most distressing conglomeration of symptoms that multiple doctors and 7 different specialists couldn’t figure out the source of, my neurologist finally nailed the cause and now i can finally - slowly - begin physically and mentally healing 🙏🏻

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

Wooo🎉 answers are always a relief, I wish you the best possible path to healing❤

@AmYpR Ай бұрын

@@Viry1905 biggest relief. Thank you so much😘

@syerega 2 ай бұрын

Definitely missing Jess.

@annetttek4952 2 ай бұрын

And sierra

@ajiseimei Ай бұрын

Missing both ❤

@Jenalamah 2 ай бұрын

Missing Jess too! 👋

@isabelcisneros7436 Ай бұрын

I love this! Ryan, i love your honesty about getting over being the victim! I love that taking accountability is sooo important! Proud of your growth!

@keirra9110 2 ай бұрын

i started my 33rd chapter two weeks and two days.

@chloeanne1237 2 ай бұрын

I don’t really get how Sharpay wasn’t a villain, she had no boundaries with anyone, she didn’t care how she got to the top even if it meant being cruel, and she does things to others out of bitterness and jealousy most of the time. You can be the best and also be a good person. Also Troy was never ‘her’ man. He was never interested in her. 😂

@lindsay_co_ Ай бұрын

Thank you for this episode. Thank you for being so transparent 🥹 Seeing your growth is so inspiring.

@liviastine Ай бұрын

Just turned 25 and this podcast makes me feel so much less alone 🥺 I think I just hit a season finale and am starting a new season with this new birth year LOL

@iambatman9420 Ай бұрын

My woo girl moment: in the last 2 months, my husband and I bought a house, got pregnant, and got married! He is the most amazing life partner and I'm so excited to embark on all of these journeys with him 🥰

@stefaniagironzuluaga1496 2 ай бұрын

I do theatre and I fought my food schedule SO much!! Finally I said screw it. I’m eating dinner at 11p every night. And honestly. It’s so much better that I have the routine versus fighting it!! It is insane to eat so spread out but I have snacks and the consistency is nice.

@faithhladik Ай бұрын

entering my 30th season of life on June 28th and I really feel that "new season" vibe. I'm here for it!

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

I'm on the bright part but I can see some storms coming! But the good thing it's I can prepare for it ❤

@kirstenholder7270 2 ай бұрын

This conversation though!!! All the best on the new season ladies, you know I am here in the comments rooting for you always

@velvetstonebraker9874 2 ай бұрын

LOVED this episode!!

@saraw5377 Ай бұрын

I miss hearing Jess! Her input is always the best

@rioandlilismama 2 ай бұрын

I'm currently in my frazzled mom era, with "two under two!" 😅

@kyliekathleen 2 ай бұрын

I actually needed this episode so much today. There are things within myself I really need and want to work on and I feel like this was the sign I needed to really focus on that self work. Thanks y’all ❤️

@mahesha8995 Ай бұрын

Don’t get me wrong I love the dear media studio episodes for our favorite girls but I miss the original setup, mostly because I miss Jess’s insightful comments and take on things. Please make Jess your future guest and get her in front of the camera!! ❤️

@stephanieraiola3833 2 ай бұрын

I love this podcast it is truly my favorite part of Wednesday

@Itsamandalau 2 ай бұрын

Seriously makes Wednesdays so much better!

@heyheyhey7988 2 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this. For the last 1.5 years, someone I used to consider a very close friend suddenly turned on me. It's been difficult to lose a friend that I've confided in but honestly worse than that, it has made me question my self to a degree that has damaged my mental health. I've done everything I can do to make peace, take the blame in the name of making peace, not retaliate. I've chosen to remain kind to them even though they have said really terrible things about me to people close to me behind my back. I thought I was the bad person and it was making feel crazy. Turns out, she has done this to other people. A switch flips in her brain and she decides to hate people for no reason. She hates me because she thought me being nice to others was making her look bad because she would regularly bully others and then I would be there to support them and she had a problem with it. I can't change her view of me but I can realize that I'm just the villain to her and I can't control that but it doesn't mean I'm the villain in life. She's just a narcissist.

@clairejoyce86 2 ай бұрын

So resonate with the whole yeh give advice but its ultimately your choice as its your life not anyone elses. You were explaining how you moved and that some werent happy about it but you did it anyway good for you well done 👏 i resonate with that as i decided to have a baby by myself (im going to be 38) and many gave their opinions as if it was going to change their lives 😅 and now im pregnant and i couldn't be happier 😊 x so yes you do you dont let others influence you into not taking a decision thats right for you and is going to make you happy ❤ xx

@lexih104 Ай бұрын

Don't normally comment but I would say I'm getting close to the end of a season of trying to get my physical and mental health, really my life in general, back on track by starting to take the proper steps to get better, like trying to take walks outside more and looking for a new doctor that will take my health concerns seriously

@rebeccaernette1749 Ай бұрын

My parents were against me marrying at 18. its been a year, I feel free and happy, and my parents love my husband and coming to see us and we love seeing them. it just took them some time.

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

Tianguis/sobre ruedas = flea market❤

@Jenalamah Ай бұрын

A tip, have a get ready basket/drawer. Start with it empty. Then the next morning as you get ready, after you use the item, put it in your get ready basket/drawer. Do this on a weekday and a weekend, soon it'll only contain the items you truly use on a daily basis in one spot!

@dixiekildoo3549 2 ай бұрын

Needed this episode 💕

@poetrynerd1109 2 ай бұрын

My woo girl minute is actually a reference back to last year's episodes. You guys had a episode where you asked advice. And I had asked about balancing the situation of being an adult living at home with your parents post college. I am happy to say in a month I move into my first apartment and start graduate school!!

@marisagpedelatorre Ай бұрын

Street fair is "una feria" in México and free marketing is "tianguis" in México

@maylynncendejas3811 Ай бұрын

My woo girl moment is that I just graduated college with a Bachelors in Education degree in Special Education & Elementary Education and a minor in Psychology !! ✨🍾

@meganc2123 Ай бұрын

I feel like I am in the middle of seasons UGHHH. I am waiting to move out with my long long term boyfriend and we both have said we are ready and want to do it but both have adhd af and always wait for a “perfect moment” or for a reason to finally just do it. Then we have these life goals like eating better together, working out more, being more productive together. But right now we are stuck and for no reason at all just self sabotage at this point LOL

@gypsycobrambo1542 Ай бұрын

I' M almost graduating and I am so scared to start my ' real' ?? life after school for so many years. That will be my new season!❤

@julierogers6369 2 ай бұрын

Currently in my engaged season, enjoying life with my soon to be husband.

@timmer13 Ай бұрын

The season I’m in is the middle of my college season but unsure if it’s just a speed bump in my relationship or close to the end 😔

@cristinarubio4362 2 ай бұрын

Paloma, I think a tianguis would be the equivalent to a farmers market since it's typically a weekly think (or biweekly) and they have pretty much same type of vendors and it's local farmers and stuff.. but tianguises (tiangui? Lol) are better in my opinion 🙃

@zzabellaa7972 2 ай бұрын

In theme with being the villain or really being your own saboteur, my woo (non-binary) girl moment: I overslept and was late for work (very unlike me), and instead of spiraling the rest of the day, I gave myself grace and acknowledged I'm not perfect 😅

@emilyfredrickson9009 2 ай бұрын

I'm in the hurry up and wait portion of my life. I have the money to buy a house but none of the houses I see I actually like! I also have to wait until August to start my new Bachelor's program after leaving the last one which I hated. The last season of my life is definitely over, I just feel like the next one hasn't started yet lol

@Taywanee 2 ай бұрын

My champagne/golden birthday is coming up at the end of the year! 29 on the 29th 🎉

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

Woo girl moment : I have my tickets for legally blond on sat at 2pm 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@agirlandheriphone4728 2 ай бұрын

I feel like riyan needs a mental health break. Love you girl

@heyshay3337 2 ай бұрын

Happy belated birthday Riayn!

@winnyveldman8306 2 ай бұрын

Riyan, maybe look into the 4:) anneagram 4 has more to do with the mundane and the insane haha. And feeling stuff.

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

I also start re-watching Grey's anatomy but pairing with private practice the one with Addison

@TheAlipop13 2 ай бұрын

First or whatever the kids say these days

@Itsamandalau 2 ай бұрын

Love the topic of this episode and how you girls are self aware of there being many angles of the "villain" perspective

@Viry1905 2 ай бұрын

Girls how long it's the play?? I need to plan my trip to L.A.🎉

@ronifurr 2 ай бұрын

My golden birthday was during the pandemic 💀

@Jenalamah 2 ай бұрын

Lolol farmer's market?

@jordynmcmullen3034 2 ай бұрын

My woo girl moment is that I graduated with my Bachelors of Arts this last weekend!!! I did so with a double freaking major in psychology and linguistics - now time for a masters in communication disorders and sciences to become a speech pathologist! It’s giving boss woman 🤩🫢