Wow, that means a lot. ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for watching and sharing.

@@7Aheadfamily do what’s best for your son

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Thanks so much, that is so kind of you. ❤️

Yes! He loves just being with us.

Thank you so much for watching and sharing your story ❤️. Glad our channel and videos have been helpful. That means a lot. ❤️

@cindycuevas8668 you mean he started talking at 4? How did you do it?

@musiclist4792 ABA therapy really helped. He can ask for help, tell us when he wants or needs something. Still very basic, but huge improvement!

Yes! He is normally such a happy kid, that’s why the medication’s have been such a struggle to be OK with.

Yes, faith and prayer is what gets us through. 😊 we might have to look into this other medication you mentioned. Thank you!

Yeah, we just still have not found a medication where we feel the side effects are not worse than the desired result. ❤️❤️❤️

@@7Aheadfamily I had an irritable mood with mine for about two and a half weeks when my dosage was upped from 40 to 60mg

Thank you for sharing ❤️ yeah there is so much to it. Do you feel like you’re in a good place now?

Thank you so much for joining us. ❤️ glad to hear that you have found a medication that works for you. If you don’t mind us asking, what is it?

Thank you! Yeah, it has been quite the journey, if you don’t mind us asking what medication ended up working for you guys?

Exactly, what non stimulant you used eventually, now we are all curious... 🙂

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Yeah we’re ADHD and autistic too. They recommend strattera for people on the spectrum since we are very sensitive to stimulants due to our autism. (I am on strattera) My son is 7 and has both autism and adhd, and I have been very strict about not having him on any meds for his adhd due to his autism.

Thank you for sharing.

Yes. Ezra has regressed quite a bit. He was better potty trained when he was in Preschool than he is now. It’s important to keep on trying and teaching, which I am sure your kids are doing. ❤️ it’s a journey.

You are so kind. ❤️

Thank you! What country do you live in? We love seeing where people are from that find our channel!

I can remember many times going to great lengths to conceal, transfer, and even burying food I didn't want to eat.

Thank you ❤️

Wow, yeah, that’s very interesting. I can see Ezra in that comment for sure!

Thank you! Agreed ❤️

So true! Thank you for sharing ❤️.

Tell me about it. He could go for so long!

Thank you!

Congrats on the baby

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Yes! For sure. He actually has some, but we couldn’t find them at the time.

Very great thoughts! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️. Yes, Ezra does love going to the bounce trampoline place, and Adam and Benson take him when they go often. We also have a trampoline outback as well which he does enjoy for a little bit. Yeah, it is definitely challenging to find a way to burn off all that energy naturally. 😊 we will be in great condition for a triathletes or some thing if we can keep it up. 😊

You’re so kind ❤️. Thank you.

​@@7Aheadfamily se me olvidó comentar sobre caminar así como lo hisieron con Ezra , también a mi mi hijo caminamos hasta que se cansa , lo dejo correr afuera sin zapatos, incluso toma tierra y juega con ello, también muy importante darles agua más si toman medicamentos, a la larga otros órganos como el hígado se entorpese , estoy contenta ver a Ezra sentado con papá por unos segundos y poner atención con el libro , saludos❤❤❤

Thank you so much for sharing! That is awesome you do similar things with your boy. Yes! Water is very important, and sometimes it’s difficult to get him to drink. 😊

@@7Aheadfamily The only way my son drinks water is with a medicine dropper

Wow! That is so hard. So sorry it’s so difficult.

So true! That is good to know, thank you for sharing your story ❤️.

I wanted to add, my son went to the Boston Higashi School, where they would run /jog every day. This really worked, the endorphins released in his body made him happier, and the activity kept him from being distracted.

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Yeah. We’ve seen that with Ezra too. ❤️

Thanks! He got in 5 miles that day!

Yes, indeed! We have our camping video coming out tomorrow, he was wide awake at the rise of the sun as you’ll see in that one. 😊

@@7Aheadfamily 0k cantt wait to watch it!

Thanks yeah it’s a good one I think. 😉

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Thank you. We are trying different doses and types of medicine as well. It’s so difficult that he can’t tell us how he feels, so we just have to observe

@@7Aheadfamily you are welcome and use observation to your advantage of how he feels, through his iPad how he feels. Both you and your husband learned how to get Ezra to eat breakfast is going on walks.

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Thank you for sharing. I have heard from another person, I know, that being on meds for ADHD makes life "boring" do you agree?

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Thanks, yeah, I don’t think he been on medication for quite a while at that point, but maybe could have been correlated

@@7Aheadfamily Sometimes the effect stays for life. It develops not in every child, but anti ADHD medication has been noted as involved in the problem. .

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That is a really good idea. Thank you for sharing

That is awesome! Thank you for sharing ❤️. Awesome thing to do, we will do that. 😊

Good idea. Do you know What apps is it?

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I see. The beginning of this journey can be very difficult. Is there support or are there services where your brother and his wife live? Can they get help? And can I get a diagnosis for their child?

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Thank you for saying hi and introducing yourself. Happy to have you here

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@@7Aheadfamily I want to meet you soon

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That’s a good idea. We aren’t allowed to have those types of pets where we live.

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Yeah, you really have to get creative sometimes 😊

Yeah, that’s where we keep ending up as well. 😊 thank you so much for watching and sharing your story ❤️

Cool, please let us know how it goes!

We have a video of him using a custom leash with a link in the description about custom leashes or harness

Here is the video kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r7h1mNWgxp7Fh4E.html

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Yeah, I believe that, we have a lot of followers from Australia.

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Wow! Sounds very familiar. 😊 If you don’t mind us asking what medicine did you wind up using?

@@7Aheadfamily we use vyvanse. It processes differently in the body and has more of a longer lasting mild effect. It does decrease the lunch appetite but we can usually get at least some cheese and juice in him. He eats a decent breakfast and dinner. (More cheese, yogurt, fruit, bread). 🤷‍♀️

Thank you for sharing! Yeah, that’s the latest one we tried. That’s awesome and it’s working for you guys!

@@7Aheadfamily it’s very potent. I wonder if his dose was too high. Ezra doesn’t look like he weighs much. My guy is around 67 lbs. It does make him really irritable if he doesn’t eat any lunch but thankfully he is old enough to realize that now.

Yeah, I think that’s Ezra‘s problem, we just can’t get him to eat with the medicine. How old is your son?

Thank you for sharing! What type of tea works well for ADHD?

Green Tea or Chamomile. If Ezra prefers sweet, a small tea spoon of honey work with some milk. To dilute the bitterness.

7:39 Ezra is saying “hurry up,” I think. He wants to run 🏃‍♂️ Ezra seems happier and more calm with meds. He could also be growing and maturing which might mellow Ezra out.

Awesome thank you!

That would be nice. 😊

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Yeah, that’s definitely our preference as well. ❤️

Your right, it is nice to get a second or third opinion if you are feeling wary❤️

for me its way easier to risk not sleeping or being slightly tired at work late at night as apposed to being completely incapacitated for the first 2 hours of the day

Yes! I think Ezra thrives when we have a good routine.

Good thoughts.

Sometimes. We’ve heard that too. Thanks for sharing.

Great Ideas! Thank you for sharing, we repeat his sounds often and he loves it. ❤️❤️❤️ We should do that more though, try to change it into a b or a p.

Yeah, sounds like you have your hands busy trying to keep up to your little guy as well. 😊 It keeps us young anyway right. 😉

@@7Aheadfamily because of some medical issues this time last year I came out of the hospital barley able to move in a wheelchair and they gave me no physical therapy but you know what did? My son. Because I had no other option then watch him 24/7 I was eventually able to use a walker and now I'm using a cane. But all of that progress in one year with no physical therapy was definitely cause he's a wild child. So in this case it was such a blessing he's so wild! 😅

Wow! Yes, there comes advantages to struggles as well. ❤️ Glad you’re able to get around so well now!

I appreciate your comments so much, because I feel like you're speaking for Ezra, in some ways. I see that a lot of what you just explained is happening to Ezra. If you don't mind me asking, when your ADHD medicine wears off, how do you feel? Ezra has a hard time at the end of the day when his medicine is out of his body. He seems to become angry.

@@7Aheadfamily I crash at the end, and when I crash, I lose all the motivation I had before, and I feel tired. The worst part is when it wears off while I'm in the middle of doing something, and I basically abandon that project because of the lack of motivation. Also if I go the day without eating when I crash I feel sick for the first few hours. I also do a lot of very repetitive stims, like rocking back and forth for multiple hours. That one is a stim that doesn't take a lot of energy, so it's a good one when I crash. Maybe when you notice his medicine wears off, you can distract him with an activity that doesn't take a lot of effort like watching a show he likes, and let him play with his cords and wrappers.

@@7Aheadfamily I have a feeling that he might feel angry, cause of the loss of motivation, and because of the strong urge to constantly stim , which is it's mostly uncomfortable because if a person on the spectrum tries not to stim , it makes the urge stronger, but if they're on ADHD meds then that crash will make them tired and restless at the same time, so the uncontrollable urge to stim and being tired causes frustration and anger.

Such great advice! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

You’re describing him exactly! He started, banging his head at this time as well, and I’m guessing that’s why. Thank you 🙏

That is a great idea. Simon was honestly very easy to potty train. He had a few accidents but hates being wet, so he goes in the potty, I has very few accidents, usually just in the car, when he feel he doesn’t have a choice. Ezra will hold it until he can get alone in the closet or behind a chair, so we’ve been trying to put him on the potty regularly, and try to give him some privacy too. It has been a challenge. I really appreciate your ideas. They are really insightful.

@@7Aheadfamily I actually thought about asking in my question above whether Ezra hides when he needs to poop but I initially decided not to because I thought it might be too intrusive to ask about. Out of curiosity how long has Ezra been hiding before “doing his thing” (as it were)? I have heard that most kids start hiding before doing this somewhere in the two to three year age range. The fact that he is hiding is actually a pretty significant sign of toilet training readiness. It also means (as long as he is not being punished for accidents) that his ability to feel embarrassed is beginning to develop. Based on this I have to say that while his language skills don’t seem to be coming along all that much just yet that his social skills seem to be coming along a bit. In fact, my own ability to feel embarrassed didn’t begin to kick in until I was in third grade (around age nine). That puts this aspect of Ezra’s social development a bit ahead of where I was at that age. Also my parents recently confirmed (during a phone conversation) that while my language abilities were fairly normal (especially by about third or fourth grade) that my social skills were very basic for someone my age all the way through grade school and for a bit longer. For example, while I was toilet training accidents never embarrassed me and my sister and mother have both confirmed that I did not hide at any point during this process (unlike an average “neurotypical” child). Like me, my sister is also on the spectrum but she actually started hiding before “doing her thing” at about the normal age (from what I have been told). In other words her social skills were pretty consistently ahead of mine (including having more friends during her school years than I had). She has what is currently considered to be level one/mild autism. (I have what is called either Right Hemisphere Syndrome or Right Hemisphere Deficit Syndrome (depending on the source). Some years ago I read an article about it online titled “Asperger’s by Another Name”.) In addition, my sister started reading books around age two and started understanding some of them a bit later. She also remembers dates very well and hardly ever forgets when anyone’s birthday is. She is also four years older than I am which may have given her an edge in some areas. Like Simon, though, I usually did not like being wet. It was not just wetness from accidents or spilled drinks that I didn’t like it was wetness in general (with the exception of baths and showers (I usually enjoyed those)). I think it was pretty much that along with having sensitive skin that explains why I toilet trained at all. In college when I took Sociology 101:General Sociology (back in the 1990s) I heard (during one of the professor’s lectures) about the M&M method that I referenced in an earlier comment. I remember this was in connection with a lecture about classical conditioning vs. operant conditioning. The lecture mentioned the importance of getting results with a reward every time (or close to it) initially and then randomizing and gradually phasing out a reward until one is no longer needed. He illustrated this concept by mentioning that our parents most likely used M&Ms during our toilet training (My mother was one of the few who did not because she was unfamiliar with the technique.) and then said something along the lines of, “Show of hands, do any of you still need M&Ms?” and in this class of as at least thirty or forty students not a single hand went up. The professor followed this up by mentioning the role of embarrassment in the process of toilet training (Specifically how rare it is to see kindergarten students in diapers (in the absence of incontinence or any developmental conditions that would account for it)). I remember after thinking back on this lecture (later that day) being surprised to learn that for most people toilet training is more motivated by social factors than by more simple considerations such as itching and rashes. I didn’t realize until then just how unusual my own toilet training experience was. For now this pretty much sums up my thoughts and observations on toilet training.

@@7Aheadfamily On the subject of Simon’s accidents in the car when he feels he has no other choice I noticed that in the video about the trip to Dollar Tree that Simon did not appear to be crying like many kids would after an accident. I’m thinking that this is pretty common with kids on the spectrum because I didn’t cry after accidents either when I was little (or at any age really) and from what I have been told neither did my sister when she was younger. I also didn’t notice any other signs of Simon being upset but it’s possible that I missed something given that understanding body language still doesn’t come naturally to me. This makes me wonder if maybe Simon (in situations like this) feels pain or discomfort and then closes his eyes and pretends that he is on the potty so he can do what he needs to do and be able to feel more comfortable. If so then it would technically be an “on purpose” rather than a true accident. Even so considering his age and developmental level I would not consider it to be misbehavior per se. Therefore I do not think that he should be put in time out or otherwise punished for doing this. That being said it’s probably not too early for you to find some developmentally appropriate way for Simon to begin helping (in small ways) with the cleanup process by handling you wipes, small towels, wash cloths, or other safe and non toxic supplies that you need to use for the cleanup process.

I think you’re right! These are some great ideas. 😊 we can definitely have Simon help clean up. Thank you!

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your experience, and so much great information on potty training! Yes, we are getting closer with Ezra, just missing that last piece for him to communicate with us, or go to the potty on his own when he needs to go. Hopefully soon!

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Are you able to get some support or help locally? Do you live in the USA? If so, what state are you in? There is support for therapy from each state.

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@@7Aheadfamily you're welcome. It's a longer acting type of Ritalin. It's delayed release and helps the level to stay more consistent during the day. ❤️🤗

Yeah, that sounds more like what we need. ❤️ thank you!

@@7Aheadfamily you are so very welcome! I'm very glad that my comment helped.

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Thank you ❤️. Agreed!

I can’t remember, did you tell us which medication that you ended up going with?

@@7Aheadfamily Yes. I'm on quite a handful, but the main ones are Lexipro for depression, Risperadone for my autism, and for ADHD I'm on Clondine. You have to be careful with Clondine or your Blood pressure can drop. I'm also on iron and Fludrocortisone for my salt intake (I have POTS).

Wow, that is a handful. Thank you so much for sharing. We will look into some of these ❤️

Yeah, that sounds like about where we’re at. ❤️ Thank you for sharing your story!

So true! Yeah that’s where we’re at. ❤️

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Yes. We are actually working on switching schools with Ezra right now but here are some videos on that…

Ezra's LIVE School Update! kzfaq.infoF20ROExUSvE?feature=share

Autism 2nd Grade School Ezra's 1st Day | Severe Autism kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rL-Kf9mfzs7bZ58.html

Sounds very familiar. ❤️ Yea, Ezra loves his leash thankfully otherwise he would have been dead by now.

Thank you, so much for getting back to me. I pray that my grandson gets diagnosed soon if he has it. Yes, the leash is life saver I couldn’t agree with you more💯I love the style you have bc it gives him some freedom. I checked with Amazon they don’t have the kind you have,so I will keep looking.

We will pray for your grandson as well ❤️. Here is what we use for the leash. The guy is really good and gets custom measurements for the child. And the second thing is just the retractable end that we use…

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@@7Aheadfamily Thank you, so much for your prayers and the links for the leashes.

Thank you for the advice. ❤️ prayers are powerful!

We appreciate you sharing you ideas!💕💕 Thank you!💕💕

So glad things are going better for you! Thank you for sharing ❤️.

I also don’t like milk on my cereal. I eat cereal but without milk. I usually eat either Raisin Bran Crunch or the Special K cereal with the chocolate pieces. The one with the dried strawberries also works.

I love the ones with the dried strawberries as well. 😊

Autism was at 21 months and ADHD was it six years old. Usually people who are diagnosed with ADHD. Have to go to school first. It’s a requirement in the US.

@@7Aheadfamily Why do many people show symptoms of ADHD but end up being misdiagnosed ( told he / she doesn't have it ) , something similar to what I went through 3 years back ?

Not sure, but in our experience, the ADHD diagnosis was not nearly as rigorous , measured, or scientific.

@@7Aheadfamily Can ADHD symptoms be masked at early childhood making it harder to diagnose until adulthood ?

Typically, it’s some thing that is found out because of struggles in school. Not sure if you saw our video about it…

These are meds for ADHD. Though, there are anti-depression meds that can help too. Talk to a psychiatrist about what your concerns are and there are different meds that can help. They aren’t for everyone though. A lot of Autistic people choose to stay off of meds.

He will make a lot of noise sometimes but other times he goes to sleep quickly. His bedtime is usually around eight thirty. ❤️

Thank you for sharing. That is very true. Especially with certain types of medication, they need to be tapered off and not just go completely off all at once. so glad you found something that is helpful to you.

@@7Aheadfamily that’s what happened with my anxiety meds. My doctor said it was OK to go off them but I got put back on the meds a year and a half later after I went on, then a year after that my dosage was upped so my focus would be better at my job

That’s awesome! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️.

Thank you for sharing. Sometimes it is difficult to sleep and it's so important to get a good nights sleep.

That is so awesome! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️. What do you feel? Has been the most helpful thing for your boys in developing their ability to communicate and speak?

Honestly . Time. The signing never worked for them , they just never got the hang of it . We didn’t have the speaking tablets at the time. But I can see where that would be helpful, but coukd become a crutch . We did all the regular speech therapies in school and some out … and to be honest with the ADHD, it took all they had to give their focus and effort in school. Once they came home , they just needed a soft place to land , where they could recoup and relax and they did not want to have school/ speech therapy mixed with their home world . For years when they were younger ( once they began school) I tried and tried and it’d end in meltdowns where we got nothing much accomplished . So I let them lead . As my husband always said “ some kids just take longer to cook “ lol. But being the worry wort I’d be like “ but what if they never get there , what if they never get much better” and my husband would say , “ They will in their time . And if they don’t what are we going to do ? Kick them out ? Lol… We’ll deal with it then “ My children do not have the added issue of autism , though they do exhibit some characteristics . One has always stimmed . But has learn to control it in front of others . He works full time in a warehouse , but I can hear from his room when he’s watching tv and stuff his hands clapping and stuff… lol… My youngest son with the more severe speech apraxia …. He has always preferred to be a loner and that has always worried me endlessly …. But then I look around at our family and me and my husband are not very social creatures and get almost all of our social interaction from coworkers and family … and Dalton being a smart kid just learned this early . He’s like “ mom , I deal enough with people at school all day , I don’t want to come home and deal with them” We did play dates all when he was younger and I’d have kids sleepover … and he could never wait till they left … lol. I learned follow their lead . With the speech as they were younger and even know ( my oldest has mostly out grown it , except for people thinking he has an accent … 😂) but my younger son the best thing is don’t interrupt when they are trying to get the story out … even if it’s killing you inside to give them the words …. Unless they ask…. Give them the time they need to put the words together . It frustrates to be interrruptrd when they know what they are trying to say , but the words are getting jumbled . Let them work it out of their mouth , even if you know what they are trying to say . And lastly when they were younger we never acted as though they were different or had a problem ( as with you ) both our children were effected so to us we didn’t quite know what “ normal “ was . And in a way that is a blessing . Particularly for your children . I don’t know your stance on religion … but I learned to give it to God and trust he’d guide me with what I should do to help them . We still have difficulties to this day , driving has been a nightmare with the inattentive adhd , but it’s just taken longer … social things are still an issue for both …. But like my husband said … They just aren’t done cooking , they will get to where they are meant to be eventually . Where they are meant to be may not look the typical path or may not even be exactky as you had wished or envisioned and that’s ok . Everyone is different , there is no normal as far as I’m concerned . And some of what is so called “ normal” im glad we didn’t have … the partying , the sleeping around , experimental drug use , worrying where they they were some nights …. I’m glad we skipped that ! You two are amazing parents and are doing everything in your power for your boys . God Bless you ! When they are little it’s much different. As they get older and even some now … follow their lead …. As I’m sure you already do ! Ps… I began watching these videos because I am in the process of trying to get hired as a paraprofessional. We had an amazing school district with amazing aides and teachers that were instrumental in making my boys successful . I’m trying to learn all I can about autism , so if I am hired ….which it’s looking pretty good …. I will have some working knowledge on autism . So thank you for all of this !!

Thank you for sharing your amazing experience! We do have a very strong faith in God, that’s what gets us through. 😊 that’s awesome that you’re going to help others ❤️. Here are some videos that we did with a doctor that might be of interest…

Playlist - Videos with a Doctors Professional Opinion kzfaq.info/sun/PLLCliYhgnbla95cuUgsvUd0CWgsxe-1ZY

Thank you so much ! That’s so kind of you ! It’s my turn to give back and I want to be that God Sent that I had for my boys in school .

We did, but Ezra didn’t do well on it. He got more hipper active.

Agreed! Yeah, we’re in the process right now. 😊 he certainly loved visiting all the national parks.

@@7Aheadfamily I would have too!

Well, you can join us through this playlist if you would like… 😊

National Parks kzfaq.info/sun/PLLCliYhgnblYXAtWqsvQUKqlrENzK4UOx

My child was diagnosed with severe autism but she is doing well talking fully toilet train and do lot of things together with us fully following command and reading and just started writing it took me long time to come this far I do lot of therapy at home by myself

Congratulations! That is awesome. 😊 yes that is a great technique. And thank you for sharing.

That is so awesome! Great job. 😊

What do you feel has been the most helpful for your daughters progress?

@@7Aheadfamily yes it was very hard and hyper I do lot of hyper therapy like trompline comparison massage rocking I don't go until she says if she isn't sure I ask her to say and give her the word try this I am sure it will take time but will happen

Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️ that is where we continue to end up as well. 😊

Thank you for sharing. It is quite a unique journey for everyone

Yeah, such a difficult decision as the parent. I wish he could tell us what he wants. Hopefully someday soon. ❤️

I work out a lot and I've found that I need to keep my routine or I get cranky and my intensity is greater

Very good thought! Thank you ❤️

That’s awesome! What kind of workouts do you do? And for about how long?

I think working out really helps Ezra

We haven’t tried Adderall. That is usually for when you’re older, not really for kids. But that is some strong stuff, I heard.

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yes, true. He this day he walked 5 miles

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We have 5 kids. They are introduced in Thai video kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ip-nm9VotNHYYmg.html this was over a year ago though. So the kids are a year older now.

I think it’s important that the child has their parents involved in their life.

@@7Aheadfamily Of course,but when he listen your heart,in.finish of the day...is so smart to.understand..you do not know what to do..no quilty

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@@7Aheadfamily And....he not like it...what???? The scene with the book... Sensibility....what he want.....not in your arms???

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We’ve heard of it, but haven’t looked into it really.

Great questions! Thank you for watching and reaching out. Ezra has ADHD and autism. Here are a few previous videos that will hopefully help make more sense…

3 Signs Your Child has ADHD and Autism kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z69dpqVi0dbbp4U.html

Autism and ADHD New Medication Results for Ezra kzfaq.info/get/bejne/orJ0jJd0tN7RlJ8.html

Also, to further answer your question yes, someone with ADHD, and no autism would have similar challenges, however, with Ezra it’s more difficult since he is nonverbal and has difficulty in helping us understand how the medication is affecting him.

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I’m not sure I understand