I am feeling and concluding the same. The cheating started in her advanced pregnancy, as is often the case with men from the Middle East, the Balkans, etc.

Why not? Muslim men have little to no morals. Hopefully, the cheating was consensual of an adult woman (or man).

​@@miovicdina7706where u from?

@@rajibhossain9918 The Balkans.

Why are you asking her?! She doesn’t have to tell you. Thats such a disrespectful question. No surprise that youre a muslim. Of course you go after a woman you incel

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And endorsement of incest.

@@TessaTheGoldenDoodle , yeah, I forgot that one.

That is why when I was a Muslim I hated marriage since I was a child.

That's wrong it endorse purity and not sleeping around with everyone If you watch closely most of succesul Marriages are from Virgin couples where there is not this ugly obsession with sex.

That's always how it is. In fact, there are islamic countries that do FGM which eradicates any feeling for the woman when she has sex. It's disgusting and horrific

Surprise, surprise!🤮

this would sound like a good title for a western magazine, wouldnt ? have you look at the media titles of cosmopolitan and other western magazines? how to please your guy, its all about how to please the guy message...that porn film 50 shades of gray, what was all about? women sexual slavery and shit...and the west was all over it!

​@@margaridamacgregor1471u missed the point of 50 shades of grey though.. that's about bdsm. Many woman enjoy it.. that's not sex just for a man

​@@margaridamacgregor1471🤔 Yes.😡🙄

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His other Islamic option is to marry a child.

may be you are just a ho3 and don't find getting your back broken by random men as big a deal.

you know the funny thing is that the same people who tell you zina is haram are the first ones to put a condom on lmao

​@@whiskey-biscuit9388what is Zina?

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So glad to be her friend!!!

They're both smart. I dont care about gender, they're both smart

​@@ElisaSarahYes.

Mormonism is on the same level (I'm exmo)

@@ASMRyouVEGANyetlol. We are same I think the Mormon leader took it from our book. As a Muslim I didn’t do with my wife after the first baby for 4 months as I thought it would hurt her 😢. Not all Muslims feel this way. My wife was a fanatic about Islam. We were always debating on Islam with me saying it’s a cult and she was no it’s my religion

Is wife now says is it in yet?

​@@ASMRyouVEGANyetinteresting both mormonism and islame founded by by small pennis pdfile.

@@abee4138 lol she and I are both out of cult.

Unfortunately a lot of Muslim girls are sewed up so their husbands will know there a virgin. They leave a very small hole to menstruate out off it's a very sick practice.

Another Nurse her. Hymen has nothing to do with virginity. Even medical proffetionals cant tell by examining you. Because the hymen streches when aroused and snaps back again. You dont loose it. I am a married woman and have problems with pap-smears because of my hymen being to tight. I would pass every «virgin test» 😂

I see this exact dynamic play out with my religious muslim parents.

If she lives in a non-Islamic country, then she can record his abuse overtime, then get that divorce. If she doesn't, then this is what she wants, and she's being your emotional vampire, and you can't save her. Don't let her drag you down with her.

Dude wnats to be the fragile vessel AND the authority

​@@LloydChristmas-vx2whsometimes it is hard to see the violence and to go away from it. And let's just be real, she most likely thinks / knows that her family will not accept it. So sometimes it is hard for people to go away (women but also men).

and some dumb westerners goes after these men....

Dont blame it on him, hes a dude so he doesnt know this and she doesnt sound like she knows either, she asked about it because she doesnt know either. Its simple all she has to say it will go back overtime, if the dude cant wait and has a problem with that then he is a problem. Doesnt mean need they need to break off the relationship just yet. Give them time to figure it out together

@@ThePeacePlant He cannot wait as he was taught to be a god!

Stop trying to make excuses for hij! There are no excuses for misogynistic pieces of garbage like him. Not all men are like this so dint you dare say its a trait of all men. Your comment is victim blaming! Men who respect women and love their wife dont do this

@@ThePeacePlantso don’t blame it on him.??? But blame her??? They don’t teach proper sex Ed in Islam and the men often perpetuate it.

@@ThePeacePlantyou are putting the onus on her lmfao. Bffr you are gross

Aw thanks

She is.

100%

I'm very confused. Not that it's any of my business but Sameer alluded to the fact that he is divorced. In one of his other videos he says 'my girlfriend'. He is re posting videos from his old channel on here. Like I said, it's not my business....but I just want to know the channel I subscribe to and watch is honest.

@@AnikaH1122 to be honest, I have no idea on the topic. 😂🫂. I'm just a jew born March 11th in Bethlehem 61 years ago. Go is my Father and rabbi.

Demeaning and belittling her to lower her self esteem so she will feel too low to leave

That is a GENERAL statement. Actually some women get very horney after menopause - it depends as well if they feel it's decent if they act on that. Other women have been treated so horribly in their relationship(s) that they decide to quit sex life during or after menopause. You know it's just not fun to get ra!ed by your betrothed or forced to intercourse by someone whom you'd like to vo#it on because he behaved just so demonic ...

God made women?? Evidence, please!

@rossini55 prove to me, that you are a random accident of chemical elements reacting in certain way you have no controller over, yeah, your chemical elements can make you talk to me! Let your random chemical elements make you believe you are clever, superiour and happy. I can live with that🤣!

​@rossini55 ever seen one? they're pretty cute. therefore god.

​@@hamsterbox4732The burden of proof lies on you since you made the claim god exists. You can't just resort to some nonsense and claim "haha chemicals can't talk to each other not reaaal" and laugh it off and think you won the debate

Life itself can have an effect on the hymen, for example, when riding a horse, exercising in a gym, or using tampons. Also, the hymen can be different in each woman, some are thinner and more fragile, some are quite thick, etc. A non intact hymen does not always indicate a lack of virginity.

Exactly.

​@@carolan3269Exactly.

How sick is that?

@@carolan3269 That is part of the myth. There is no thing as intact or broken hymen. If it tears, which is rare, it heals like everywere else. Its just a part of a womans body you DO NOT LOSE. I am a married Woman of 35. I have a hymen. Even women who has given birth has hymens. They dont brake. Sex workers have «intact» hymens. They have nothing to do with virginity.

A husband who is pulling his weight after a baby will be too exhausted to ask for nookie. My husband's libido and mine returned around the same time, as we started getting enough sleep and weren't stressed out. Also, for a regular person without sex addictions or a god complex, waiting until your partner is ready is not a big deal.

I want to point out that Islam was founded as an attempt to reboot Christianity and Judaism. Muhammad preached that Christianity and Judaism had gotten corrupted that he had been ordained to preach the “true original” message of those religions. Much of Islamic traditions were also practiced by fundamentalist and puritanical Christians before Christianity reformed and modernized.

​@robcubed9557 muhmmad is a corrupted man for destroying many lives

Christians don't have any problem with marrying a woman who is not a virgin .... I mean most

So who cares this discussion is about islam.​@@robcubed9557

@@robcubed9557 that's just simply wrong, provide a source for these claims

you still enjoy intercourse??

A child is a gift but having a living husband or wife is the best gift. Your children will leave to start their own life, and you’re left with your spouse. The bond of man and woman is beautiful

This man has habit of picking indivial cases and fitting his anti Islam narrative into everything.. many non Muslim men say things to their wives far more hurtful... Muhammad in his last sermon told his people to treat women gently or they ll be punished in hereafter.. Quran says don't say bad things to each other... Infact I have seen many Muslim men being more nice to their women after they become mother of their children... Obviously changes come in women body ..nd obviously not every man is angel or saint

^well men SHOULD be an angel or a saint considering the effort and pain the woman went through to birth his child. It’s the least he can do; it is his duty. His only attitude should be complete gratefulness for what she has done. That’s how many non-muslim men treat their woman after childbirth, like she’s a queen and pampers and spoils her and takes care of the house for the first few weeks after childbirth. As he should.

@@user-lt1jd1ye3v yes and also many Muslims treat their wives good.. nd many non -muslim also don't marry but impregnate random women and even do not take responsibility of their children.. and many non- Muslim...also cheat on their wives with multiple Xtra marital relationships.. many non- mus lims do far more bad things too.. seems like you ain't aware of the society around you

Muslim mens heaven is muslim womens hell. I thought you would have figured it out.

First time is insanely painful for women

Exactly what i am wondering o.o

I was literally wondering that too, like do the women have to go through virginity pain everyday? And 100 virgins a day, so more women all the time for each man? Are they new women or all the same as yesterday? Clearly the wife’s are the same, but that’s like 4 out of 100. So are rest new women everyday? We would run out women pretty fast.

@@lemon1657 okay i had it

Would you like your mom with 100 men?

What do you mean it's not idiotic? If it said "100 MILFs", THEN we're talking baby, bring those 30+ years old experienced hot women on!! But...not one, not two, not three, but one hundred completely inexperienced teenage brats??? You. have. got. to. be. kidding. me. What hassle. What a headache. Who wants totally clueless kids around him 24/7 for the entire freaking eternity!!! God. No. Allan please send me to hell, the crowd is so much cooler there.

It would still be idiotic even if both were promised the same. Sex crazed weirdos.

I saw another Ex-Muslim channel where it said Mohammed said that most women wouldn't get into heaven, they'd just burn in (aitch) (eee) (Elle) (Elle) just for being women anyway, so of course no such carrot was dangled before them. Just google it. Mohammed actually said it, more than once.

@@extemporaneous4545 You should go back and read it again, honey... This time try to read and understand whats in the text. Then ask your converted christian brothers and sisters why they choose for islam. Now here's the challenge....statistics...

Fact check There are millions of non Muslim men who say things far more hurtful to their wives..cheat on to their wives for years..women cheat their husbands ... For this man ..those people are saint but he has to cherry pick incidents and propagate his anti Islam propaganda.. I am a Muslim woman and I have seen men around me teating their wives v nicely .

Yep, I was given one by a female obgyn without either mine or my husband's knowledge or consent. Relations were awful afterwards and didn't improve until I had our second child 2 years later. I had a minor tear and insisted on not being stitched afterwards. Both me and husband felt an immediate difference. I share to point out to men that they shouldn't joke about this - the 'husband stitch' does no favours for men either. It's not enjoyable.

@@Lulusnotreadyforthis Thank you so much for sharing. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. That sounds quite traumatic. If you want to share more I'm here to listen. Support out to you and hubby.

Couple of facts ,if you're not circumcized like i am then your girth is slightly bigger with the foreskin.That's how god created men ,to remoce the foreskin unless medically necessary is a hige mistake.Not only it add girth but also lubrication from oil in foreskin also has antibacterial properties.

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​@@FriendlyExmuslimyou are both awesome people. Big respect from me to the both of you.

No, you pay and get very often in Islam, as courtship is not encouraged. Verliebt is not Liebe.... On cloud nine is the potent energy to propel you to the deeper levels of getting to know each other. Cloud nine feelings live of the desired projections of your wishful thinking. Once you know the other person better, the question will be how much will you be disappointed that the other person didn't turn out the way you wanted and can you adapt to that real person. The chemistry must be right, or it's gonna be very hard to get to a level of deep love which you need fir long lasting relationships.

😢😢.....not at all. In Islam, women are objects to be owned and used. Very sad, gender discrimination in every angle!!!

I don't think so

It all seems so transactional. Believers give prayers and jihad to A and therefore expect a good place in one of the better heavens. Men give dowry and provide and therefore exoect sx whenever they want to. It is all business.

It may well exist.. but there is absolutely nothing about love mentioned in a marriage contract - you essentially buy someone and get sex in exchange lol

You are a kind and empathetic soul. I wish you the best!

@@robertmoray988 I don't know about the Jewish reasons for not shaking hands but in islamic circles women/girls aren't allowed to touch let alone shake hands of men outside their immediate family. It's because all cousins can be potential marrage candidates in islam and if a woman/girl arouses a boy/man then she is going to recieve that sin.

@@robertmoray988 its just not allowed to do this

Keep your head down in public. Keep your head up inside. Best wishes.

Why are you a lesbian?

I am Muslim woman..had an arrange marriage..nd had big acne on my face..my husband Muslim man never said anything..after my first baby..my all acne was gone without any treatment.. My own relatives used to say that no one would marry me but I prayed to God and my husband is v handsome and good looking .,he looked like a model ,nd I had acne ....so don't listen to people...

And RightNow whilei am typing this comment,my same baby who is ten now .nd so far a muslim is telling me that mama you are so beautiful, I want my son to be good Muslim who knows how to love their mothers.. I have seen men around me taking care of their women...my own mother was paralysed for eight yrs nd my father was young...a Muslim man..but he didn't marry rather took care of her...

These all anti Islam ex Muslims,their existence rely on running anti Islamic pages..they cherry pick incidents and put their own anti Islam narratives..nd misquote verses .. I wish they had a good past

Glad you enjoyed it!

You ought to watch Christian Prince, Rob Christian and Sam Shomoun video

​@@anastasiamamis6441 With you on Sam Shamoun (idk the other two , his videos double as refuting Islam while also showing the beauty of Jesus and the Gospel

​@@anastasiamamis6441 With you on Sam Shamoun (idk the other two), his videos double as refuting Islam while also showing the beauty of Jesus and the Gospel

Yes I also sometimes enjoy his videos and how beautifully he propagates his anti Islam propaganda by cherry picking incidents and putting his own narrative As if non Muslim men are all saints . They literally cheat their wives . Do things far more worse but for him they are angels .. By the way I am Muslim woman.my father loved my mother ..he wasn't expressive ,little things made him angry sometime but he took care of my paralysed mother for 8 yrs ,though he was young,he didn't remarry.. My husband ,I had ane scars infactbig acne nd he was v good looking he never said anything to me.. Those are Muslim men too...my father had four daughters no son,he paid for our education and still he is there as a big support...that's why many Muslim girls don't have to look for "sugar daddies" I see my husband,he is a kind father to his 2 daughters.. This guy has lot of filth in his mind ..he should better work on healing himself..nd not spread hatred

There's a difference. Especially at 3 and more kids

Thats not true at all. Your comment is wrong and misogynistic. I know ppl who work in the healthcare feld and even they say women stay the same while men have horrible penis shrinkage throughout time. Its literally non existent. So of course these males complain about women because they’re inadequate as men. A vagina is a muscle. It goes back. Y’all need to go speak to an obgyn because your comments are sick. Why dod you even choose 3 and not one or two?! You have no basis in reality. 3 kids dont cause that

You are wrong about the husband stitch. It isn’t the vagina, it’s literally the opening that they stitch up, think female genital mutilation. It’s not the actual vaginal walls it’s the exterior. It is extremely painful for many women.

How do you think the penis will fit comfortably if the opening is smaller?? It’s not about the actual muscle of the vagina. It’s narrowing the opening.

@@diabloakland I never said it's the vagina, I said the opening got nothing to do wether the vagina is too tight or loose. I know the stitch is just in the opening

Then why are Christians attacking abortion rights? Why are they harming LGBT people? Also, Christians literally calls God their Shepard, it also calls for submission

As I recall there was a study that polygamous nations have more civil unrests, because too many single men have no purpose. Also I want to add that many men watch influencers like Andrew Tate and he promotes to sleep with many partners etc. there is a KZfaq channel, where Sterling Cooper(porn star) claims having many girlfriend is fine. And that he also has a small harem etc.

And women are never happy in these situations. No sane woman would choose it, especially if she didn’t have to.

The religion of the antichrist Spot on👏🏻

How many man have option only 1 percent men 😂 😂

Wrong

She won't listen until its too late. If you care about her, be there for her when she asks for help to get out. You cannot force her.

@@ElisaSarah ikr. But idk I'm just so lost right now. I don't think her parents will like this as well. Idk I have no words . And yes I can't force her and ofc I will be there for her no matter what happens.

@@Faceon6790I can recommend a book…. “ It’s All About Muhammed” by FW Burleigh. It’s an unbiased biography of Muhammed. It’s an easy and fascinating read. I promise you will be shocked when you read it, seeing what kinds of things Muhammed did and said! She will know how important Muhammed is to Muslims, how they are taught to obey Muhammed without question and to copy what he did. So she will understand how important it is to understand what exactly Muhammed said and what he did. This book used the same texts Muslims use to understand Muhammed’s life. So this book recounts the events of Muhammed’s life, the good , bad and the ugly parts. There’s a bibliography if she wants to read more. Maybe if she sees how Muhammed treated women, it might make a difference. I think too many western women see Islam and Muslim men as exotic, and just so different from what they have been raised with. I think the “cure” for that is to expose all the negative aspects of Islam , especially the parts that will have an impact on a woman in a marriage with a Muslim man…..the beating of wives, sexual purity , men’s control over women’s sexuality and movements , and custody of children ……..especially custody of children if they move to a muslim country ………And she will be expected to behave and dress in a particular way, if they move to a Muslim country. She will be entirely on her own, ( no constitutional,rights, tyenon,y rights she will have are those granted to her by Islam . And those are few and not nearly what so,en have in Ameeica or Western countries. ) The legal system is very different, favors Muslims over non Muslims ( so if she hasn’t converted that may be an issue) and she will be expected to dress and behave in a particular way that will be very different to what she is used to in the West…. and there’s the possibility of her husband either already being married to a Muslim woman in his home country, or marrying more women after he moves the western woman to his home country…… she may nkt be an,ex to leave if her husband and his family don’t want her to , and if the husband takes her passport ) and the divorce laws are very different , not nearly as easy for a woman to divorce a man in Islamic countries. And this may vary depending on which Islamic country her muslim husband is from. . Saudi Arabia is different from Afghanistan or Pakistan. She itbtotally dependant on her husband. And he may change dramatically from the person he is in a western country, where Islamic law is not the norm , and what he is like in his home Islamic country where everyone must obey sharia law. There’s another book “ The Reliance of the Traveler “ which outlines Islamic law. I got my copy off Amazon. Actually seeing in print , what Islamic law is, and how that would apply to a person moving to an Islamic country , may be the shock she needs. The other book “ It’s All About Muhammed” is also available on Amazon. Dont give up on her. Keep chipping away at her , and give her the knowledge she needs to make a good informed decision wirh these books. Tell her you aren’t trying to persuade her of anything, that you just want her to make an informed decision and to do that, she needs knowledge. Another possibility is to look for videos , articles, and posts by female ex Muslims….. and send them to her…… so she can see what the life is like, what Muslim men expect .

They are subjugated and won’t change

Thank you! Yes we do 😁❤️

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Weird way of them to say they have small dicks, but okay i guess.

Evil men

Yet they watch a ton of porn.

Absolutely! We are a spark of the Divine. Our essence is energy.

Rightly said. Unfortunately, the indoctrination does not allow those guys to see things from this perspective.

He can clap 3 times and repeat Divorce Divorce Divorce. Women and baby on the street. That's all it takes to get thrown out

That would be considered to be arrogant or rebellious and the woman is allowed to be beaten by their husband. It’s in the Quran 4:34. There are 3 things a man can do if he suspects arrogance or rebellion. 1) Consul her (tell her what she’s done and to fix it), 2) forsake her in bed (not have sex with her or sleep separate from her, 3) beat her.

Thank you!

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Where does the Quran prohibit a Muslim husband from striking his wives? Where does the Quran strictly prohibit a Muslim husband from r@ping his wife?

Theres an interesting video on KZfaq about short term marriages, I think in Afghanistan(?) Basically the man goes to an imam and tells him hes horny so the imam suggests a 24 hour marriage but not to tell the woman or she won't agree. Then they trick a woman into thinking shes found a husband when in reality shes married to him so he can get his rocks off then go back home and she never sees him again and she is regarded as spoiled goods. It's not a widespread thing but there are imams who will do it for money without any hesitation. Muslim men are so selfish.

Yes virginity seems to be for all the losers of the world.I had a few virgins and even if it's nice to be their first and all ,i'm glad my wife had experience before we got married.

I didn't see in other culture, not in Western culture or even in Chinese culture.

In India parents put white sheet on first night so if she was virgin she will bleed India and Hindus are just as f up ​@@thinkie12

lol this is what many people don’t know. 😂 just cause some girls are wilding doesn’t mean they are loose.

Your turn will come.

@@FriendlyExmuslim are you offering?

You wish 😝