When my step dad got arrested for domestic abuse, my school assigned me a counselor to make sure I was okay. I expressed my self hatred to my counselor and told her I was constantly terrified that everyone hated me and I deserved it, and she literally said "well if people don't like you then you must be doing something to cause that". That was super helpful.

6:23 my guidance counselor actually said that to me when I had to have surgery and was absent from school she said “ I just don’t think you’re trying hard enough “ middle school was literally the worst thing I’ve ever experienced and I’ve had 4 open heart surgeries

Some of these are actually terrifyingly accurate of the school system.

I once went to a guidance counselor in 7th grade about how I felt like an outcast at the school because I didn't have many friends. We had also just moved to the area that summer. And I put in that I had social anxiety to my counselor. She told me that doesn't sound very truthful because she saw me walk off the bus everyday with this group of people and that she's seen me talking to people at the library. In reality the group I walked with off the bus was my sister and brother, obviously I'd be hanging out with them. The people I talked to in the library was the librarian's assistant and a couple girls that were picking on me.

Because my medications for my allergies and asthma are called "steroids" I had multiple kids in school try to tell the counsellor that I was "doing drugs". I wasn't. I had a perscription.

The one with “grace bullying” this happened to me. The school wouldn’t do anything. I got jumped by multiple kids. I had bruises I even had broken fingers. The school did nothing. My parents did nothing. I told the school what was going on they didn’t care. So I learned how to throw a fist and I learned to fight. I kicked the shit out if each and everyone of them even some boys until they left me alone. I hate to promote violence as it is wrong. But when no adult will help you. You do what you need to do.

i love my guidance counselor, i’ve never talked to her about anything besides schedule mistakes and grades but my friend is genderfluid and they emailed our guidance counselor to tell her that they wanted their teachers to call them by their nickname and be aware of their pronouns, she screenshotted the response and sent it in our groupchat and the guidance counselor was a sweetheart she’s amazing

These videos are soothing but infuriating at the same time

Can we Stan Nicole’s mom? She is amazing person who actually takes her daughter’s mental health seriously and stands up for her daughter

"Samantha here is some bread for you and your poor family" BAHAHAHAHAH

My guidance counselor laughed because I told her I was stressed about how my mom I felt like my mom is trying to replace my dad with her boyfriend. I was 9.

0:40 When teachers say your shoulders are “distracting”...

It’s really funny how guidance counselor’s think that we can trust them. Like the only people I could discuss this with is with my family, and my close friends in warm place. Which is the exact opposite of guidance counselor office

If Teachers Say That,”Your Shoulders are “Distracting.” Say That, “Why are you looking at my shoulders anyway?” “They shouldn’t turn anyone on.”

when they say it's all confidential, they're lying.

When I first entered middle school I was so overwhelmed by the school, and there were so many kids older than me. So, my guidance counselor set up a day to meet with me, but every time I went to her office she always had someone their. Then, she didn’t even acknowledged my existence.

I hate how guidance counselors feel the need to be apart of your personal life

"And let's talk about our Lord Jesus Christ." I can't get over that line- XD

Man, the Kylie thing makes me so happy for my school. I'm a trans male, and my school is basically an LGBT safe space. When I came out, my guidance counselor added my preferred name to my student file, and even changed my school email even though I told her she didn't need to go that far. All of my teachers haven't even batted an eye when I told them my preferred name, and I've even had a few substitutes come up to me during class and quietly apologize when using my birth name while taking attendance I really hope that everywhere can be like that one day! And if I live to see it happen, I'll be the happiest guy alive :)

As a future school counselor, this compilation makes me so angry because they are true when it comes to "old school" guidance counselors. Which, we are trying to step away from because there is more to counseling than just academics. "Guidance Counselor" is now considered a no-go kind of word and we really try to emphasize on School Counselor. This compilation is one of the reasons why I wanted to come into school counseling, to get rid of counselors who act that way and include more resources, advocate for students, and actually listen to the students and their needs first before anything else.

Im glad I didn’t have a guidance counselor like this. Mine actually helped me through a lot of my fears, and concerns. Sadly she moved but I’m truly grateful of her.

The one with Kylie is LITERALLY how my highschool treated me when I tried coming out!!!

“Samantha here’s some bread for your poor family” I was crying😭

i have a bad teacher story. so my teacher assigns SOOOO much homework. my parents are divorced. i go with my dad twice a week and i have to do my homework while i am with him. i get NO time with him when i have homework. one night i lied about homework and said i didn’t have any so i could have more time with my dad. then i got in trouble for not doing it and my teacher said my “excuse” was “unacceptable”

My school actually has professional Therapists hired separately from guidance counselors. The GC's mainly deal with the school side of things while the therapists are there for mental health issues and personal things. Confidentiality applies to them as well. One of them is really sweet and would ask me every day if I ate and always give me something from his own lunch if I said no.

My home town school (HTS) counselors vs out of state school (OOSS) I went to for a year: My HTS put the counselors in the cafe to control the cafe lines and while I had a panic attack and was self harming they ignored me. I had all but one F in my classes and only passed my acting class. In my OOSS they found notes on a computer which I did often in my before school they found out I felt really suicidal, talked to me, took care of me, and took me to a psychiatric ward where they would take more care of me, then talk to me seeing if I was any better. I passed my classes.

“ my toxic best friend spread all my secrets, stabbed me in the back and made me depressed” “We’ll have you tried writing an apology letter?” “Wtf”

Earlier this year rumors started spreading that i was dating a boy at school. I was called down to the office and the guidance consular basically outed me to everyone as a lesbian. I felt horrible and didn’t talk to anyone for a week. I also got called down for wearing fishnets and a chocker. I hate my school.

10:36 A random girl at my school attacked me for no reason and she was in boxing the teachers said I shouldn't start fights and when I told my mom what happened the teacher who framed me for the fight got angry at me saying as was "lying" and being "overdramatic" BRUH I WALK PAST A GIRL AND SHE STARTS USING ME AS HER PUNCH BAG HOW AM I OVERDRAMATIC?!?

YESSSSSSSSS THIS IS MY FAVORITE SERIES. also if you’re not already planning on doing it, are you gonna do the mom series??

My school told a girl to not do football. She is now the country’s most famous footballer. The school goes on “ we made her!” Like no she practiced at night and you yelled at her because she was “just a weak girl”

Right before covid hit my mom went into a coma from a gallbadder surgery. She was in it for 6 1/2 months. Meanwhie i was in 8th grade with my little brother and step dad at home. I go to a guidance counselor to talk about grades because i was having a really hard time focusing. I told her what happened and she said 'Dont focus on your mother dying, focus on school'.She told an autistic kid, with her mother in the hospital literally dying to not focus on it and focus on school.

My shoulders and knees should not turn anyone on

Presley: *walks in classroom* Mrs. Hatred: DAMN IT PRESELY!!!!!! TO THE GUIDENCDE ROOM!!!!

I remember in my elementary school the guidance counselor would yell at the kids for very small things. And yes, her name was actually Mrs. pain but spelled with a y instead of an i.

I just wanted to let you know that you are helping me through hard times so thank you for everything that you do🥺💖💖💖

About the dress code one.. one time I asked one of the teacher why I can’t wear ripped jeans and they said that it’s cuz it’s can be “sexually distracting”… if someone is sexually distracted to my kneecaps than I think you some other problems to deal with than my outfit.

This is so accurate. Especially the telling all the students your business. I went to a catholic school and the priest got me in a vulnerable position and I told him about my parents’ divorce and he told all my classmates about it. People would stop me in the hallway and ask me about my parents’ divorce. Good times.

my guidance counsellor called me in once and my dad had just died and my mom was an alcoholic and i burst into tears about how miserable i was and how i had no friends and she was like "i'll rebook you soon" and i never heard from her again

Guidance Counselor:Well the boys Me:Well instead of asking her to change maybe teach men to respect women

"I'm like your big sister, we're family now" um, miss girl-

My middle school guidance counselor was absolutely terrible. She never cared when a student was bullied, she was always upset, and would never actually listen to the students. My highschool guidance counselor, she is a different story. My friend has bad anxiety and the counselor has helped her so much. She is what we need. It would be great though if my advisor would stop trying to fill in that role.

One time the guidance councilor summoned me and then just.....didn’t show up. This happened twice until the other one, who I had never met/had no idea why I was there took pity on my and tried to be useful.

Yes she made more omg can't believe I didn't subcribe yet

This isn't supposed to be a hate comment ( I love the vid) but watching this gives me legitimate pain cause its way to relatable and the way she is acting it so genuinely it makes me infuriated at the some of the characters she did a great job

9:17 another elementary school story that I die to this day of how ridiculous it was is me and my friends are in the exact same situation when you’re caught jeweling we were not we’re elementary students at that time. And so basically my friends and I were extremely bored and so we took sticky notes and we folded them like juuls and I do not get caught personally which are very thankful for and I’m glad neither of my friends are snitches only one of them was a really close and actually trusted. But I have this really crappy reading teacher that I like is as bad as probably the guidance counselor’s you make the skits based off of had a hatred towards all three of us. But for Jay our reading teacher had an extreme heat for him. So when she was talking to him because she legit had and a juul. So he snitch on me because he just did and she said something along the lines of no no you do not pull people you were sitting next to you into your problems. And so my other friend I’ll call K. Was also caught folding up sticky notes and so she was sent to the principals office same with Jay and I sat there in fear the entire rest of the day the next day I get in trouble for lying about a broken water bottle to read my other comments for the story mind you the water bottle incident happened a month prior those little biatches ( also the story in the video is very different but nonetheless they thought we were drooling which we weren’t because we were in freaking elementary school)

Ugh, the way the counselors are treating the kids in this video is gonna make me cry.. But still, I LOVE the effort this tik toker puts into her posts

I’m surprised how good my schools GC is. Our advisory classes have a private google form so students can schedule appointmens, the offices have Candy and fidget toys to relieve stress. One of the counselors even hosts pride club and we talk about our struggles with homophobia in our families and at school, we’re planning a display to put in the display case the school uses to show off students art, and everybody brings snacks for the end. Anyway, most of students go to them and it’s ACTUALLY a safe space where we can talk about our problems and they help us plan out ways to help, or just let us vent. I feel so bad for people who have guidance counselors like the one snerixx plays.stay safe everybody! ❤️

A note to teachers aaa bout “distracting clothing” If a student wears a shirt that has something like a half shoulder, etc, and it’s distracting the kids, ask the kids who have been distracted by something as simple as a classmate’s shoulder. Blaming the clothing isn’t always the best thing unless the outfit is actually problematic.

I’m just gonna day I was lily. (You know, before school closed) I had severe panic attacks, and she gave me a squishy and told me to get water and go to class.

The one with nicole and grace really hit me, I and my sis got bullied but many people, the school ALWAYS brushed it off and acted like it didn't happen, and had the gall to be confused when I punched the one that hit my sister and throw her glass on the ground.

I can relate to this so much. I've been having mental problems, and I don't think my school actually cares all they care about are my grades.I think schools need to understand that students are people not objects

Literally my guidance counselor literally SPILLED ALL MY FRICKIN SECRETS SHE SAID SHE'D KEEP EM A SECRET BUT BASICALLY NOW ALMOST EVERYONE IN MY SCHOOL KNOWS ABOUT MY SECRETS

I have a more lighthearted story about my GC. So last year we turned in my school stuff on my birthday, my GC says "Tell *me* I said happy birthday!" And I go "I'm right here"

When your guidance counselor guesses your sexually bish I'm both! Mine just never understood UwU

unfortunately, you nailed this. my school used to have a really awesome guidance counselor but then they fired her because she disagreed with the headmaster, and now we have one kinda like this

The bullying one was so true I reported a guy for making fun of my weight and he admitted to it and then all he had to say to get out of trouble was that I kicked him. I did but I think he can take one kick while I was now self conscious because that was not the first time someone had said something like that in the end he got out scot free and I got a call home because “once you retaliate there is nothing they can do” that was in 5th grade and I still have body issues so thanks vice principal you were so helpful

"So your name is gizzle" "No it's yezel" that's literally me pronouncing anything ✨🐱🖐

12:54 "lets talk about our lord Jesus Christ!" I CANNOTTTTT

This is why I don’t talk to the guidance counselor

5:52 I hate the freaking people that will be Bullies around people their age and people younger. And then they’ll go up to adults in a be the freaking angel princess that every adult wants. In elementary school a girl pushed me what I was talking to one of my friends my water bottle flew out of my hand fell on the ground split into three pieces the girl proceeded to jump on it. I went to go tell the teacher who is outside. And I said blanks name pushed me and my water bottle broke. The teacher then proceeded to say maybe she just pushed you quote for quote. The worst part about it her little minion friends picked up the trash put it in a bag and then after school that day while I was playing basketball through my water bottle at me.

The bullying one happened to me. Most of the people in my class would make fun of me, throw stuff at me, take photos of me against my will and everyone told me ,,they're good people'' well they were good until they weren't. In the end, when I finally spoke up, I was told I'm overreacting, that they're good people and didn't do anything wrong, and I was the one that got in trouble. The teachers and counselor tried keeping the class ,,unified'' with everyone being friends but it didn't work out. Because they were blind to all that happened.

Ok I actually like my school guidance counselor for one reason She give’s me coffee every day before lunch

Tysm for making this!

This made me sad and just... I want to hug all the kids and help them. Oh my... I can see how the system and toxic parents is failing them :(

Okay but, Kylee deserves way more and I know she's not real but like- she deserves better!!!

Schools are always doing all these assemblies and health lessons about bullying and how to tell a teacher, but when you actually tell a teacher they say shit like "bUlLyInG iS a HaRsH wOrD" or say they'll "see what they can do" but never do anything.

It was my understanding that high school guidance counselors are more like there to tell which classes you need to take to help prep for college, ed plans, and scholarships. Like more similar to a college academic counselor but they try and help you pass your classes. For instance, if the problem was someone's mental health, then they'd refer them to an actual mental health professional. However, I've noticed this alot. One time my high school guidance counselor tried to play "family therapist" for one of my friends and ended up making her home life worse.

as a trans guy in a very conservative town, the kylie skits hit HARD

My counselor pulled me out of class to talk to me about your grades once. I got a 45% on a math test. ONE TEST! I was basically told that I wasn’t trying hard enough and if I worked harder I would do better.(“if you just applied yourself more you would do better” and “if you just studied a bit more I’m sure you would do better”) This went on for 15 minutes. I was pissed off that day. My mother wasn’t very happy and I wasn’t allowed to be alone with the counselor anymore. Win win situation for me. I didn’t ever to have to sit through a boring one on one talk with her again and no one ever commented on my grades again.

Your videos are getting me through recovery from a very painful gallbladder surgery, thank you for being awesome 🤩

I love this series

0:48 "The boys can sEe YoU" Me: *laughs in gay*

11:14 I relate with this since im biologically male but I classify as female and some people including teachers are so rude about it!

"Samantha here's some bread for your poor family." *Aggressively Throws Bread at Samantha*

The one with Giselle is literally my life. My parents own a pharmacy and I guess we have a little more money than some other people do. Anytime I tried to talk to my guidance counselor about anything they never actually helped because of my parents jobs. It also kinda felt like they were amazing me because of my current situation.

“This is a safe place, we can talk about anything!” My brain: no. You’re a complete stranger still to me, I will not share all of my internal struggles. As far as I know, if I did you may be silently judging me for every word I say. What...What are you writing down? What are they writing down, ANSWER ME!!! hhhhhhhhhh

My school doesn’t have a guidance counselor. WE HAVE AN ACTUAL THERAPIST.

As a school counselor I personally only call kids into the office if there’s been report from a school staff, parent, or other students who request a student be seen. I will only call a student in if there is a very noticeable issue. I get that it’s weird going into the office and talking to a counselor so I try not to get too personal.

these are so true 😭😭 one time i tried to tell my guidance counselor one of my deepest secrets and she literally was like 😀what

This is so accurate😭 I went to the guidance counselor one day because I had a black eye (I’m not physically abused, my dog jumped up and accidentally hit me in the eye) and I was in there for like 15/20 minutes while they were asking me questions. I’m so glad I never had to go back after that day.

the guidance counselor is the best at my school because she helped my brother and she’s really nice 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

“DRUG TEST FIRST” made me die laughing. 😂😂😂😂

dude at one point (about the rumours of a girl being with a boy), that totally reminded me of me and my friend Sora (not his real name cus I don't want people who are racist against french people to comment down mean things about him) where a bunch of girls made rumours about Sora and I being together as boyfriend and girlfriend and I was like " Bitch just because a boy is my best friend doesn't mean that we like each other " (that was at my old school but most of my classmates are still in the same school that I'm in so that means that the rumours are still awake, tho it slowed down a bit)

yeeesssss i needed this, mom sires nexed maybe

These Tik-Toks are really good that they made me feel as if I was there. 😆

THE MENTAL HEALTH AND GRADES GET MY NERVES SO TRUE! OMG

"are you sure you're not using any drugs or alcohol" flashback to middle school when i tried therapy for the first time and when i said my friend had introduced me to k-pop and that it was really helping my depression the therapist got this incredibly concerned look on her face and went "and what is k-pop? is that a ... drug?" MA'AM

We have a saying for people like this counselor, "Bless your heart".

Amazing news! Today I found the perfect therapist! She’s so good for me, and she’s so warm! My old therapist was cold and I always felt like I was on the spot when having anxiety counseling. But now I have someone that’s really gonna be helpful!

The one with Kylie, I'm transgender and I have to deal with things like this all the time. I'm constantly misgendered and people use the wrong name for me. It just- really gets annoying after a while. I've told people multiple times yet they don't listen to me.

I went to a guidance counselor because this 50 year old lady yelled at me and all she said was ok try talking to the principal and I already talked to him😐

The dumbest thing my guidance counselor has ever said to me. So I was talking about my dad to her (my dad is a big cause of my terrible mental health) and I told her I might of gotten my anger issues, and she said "You get nothing from your parents..." And this made me just go "Are you stupid?" I didn't say that I just thought, I mean she was really pushy and would blame my mother for my issues and that my father was a good person, I mean this woman. I'm still shocked.

16:29 Me who's dream school is UCLA and has already planned everything my whole college experience in detail like...

I'm so glad my counselor isn't like this, she has ally flags in her classroom, it always looks so bubbly and inviting and she's really understanding If I had a counselor like this I wouldn't even bother going to their office-

I love this 🖤🖤

0:44 I loved her outfit :0

This makes me want to become a guidance counselor who actually helps kids

Honestly, I am so glad that my guidance counselor is wonderful. She like always emails me about how I’m feeling and if she wants me to go talk to the social worker about my anxiety.

Bro imagine being in elementary school and going to a guidance counselor because of a controlling bf and you had a really dramatic break up lmao... wait- that’s was me oops