1. NTA nate seems like a really considerate guy, always checking if your ok. I think if you tell him it makes you uncomfortable things will get better. You really need to talk

4. What the heck! Op’s girlfriend is entitled to think that she should get the money, that he needed to tell her and pay off her debts, she kind of sounds like a gold digger if I’m being honest.

1, You guys need to talk about it to figure out what you really want and your priorities 2, What ? sorry but if op's is important for the friend , should have a seat to her and the bf , this bride sucks to much to not care at all 3, ok ... this is weird 4NTA, That's op's money and was use for good reasons 5, Well the wife knews that was phones off and she can be independent

Ngl Nate seems like a douchebag and a good person at the same time it’s your own fault that he’s doing this but then again he shouldn’t find other women desirable even if allowed to do so, unless you are interested in polyamory (no shade being polyamorous is fine) anyway I think you shouldn’t have said that’s okay if u don’t feel it is and Nate shouldn’t be interested in other women get better communication

Maybe you should also see other people

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