We women need to accept to move on when a relationship is over and forget about the ex forever. No point needing anything from your ex. They should give you that settlement without you asking for it because you earned it. Move on and be happy. Feelings changed. That's what I'll do. Not easy but I'll put in all the energy in me to forget about someone who doesn't think I'm worthy 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

I do not know why everyone dumps on this woman. She was around when he had nothing and before anyone knew his name. People need to stop to think if the shoe was on the other foot. How would they feel? Just saying. She has made an investment in him and the family. All of a sudden just cause he is famous sh is not good enough. People really need to stop and think about what they write. Steve has done something that most people kill for.

You reap what you sew. 8:42....This woman was his second wife. She was living with him since 1989 but he didn't divorce his first wife until 1994. He had a wife and 3 kids when they started living together. Now that it has happened to her she is upset and mad at Marjorie for doing the same thing she did. If he will cheat with you he will cheat on you. Its not so fun when it happens to you is it? But she needs to stop trippin because I don't see Marcia (Steve Harvey's 1st wife and mother of his 1st 3 children) in the news talking about how Mary broke up their home. But I bet she is getting a good laugh at Mary crying about Marjorie breaking up her home.

This lady is still very inlove. Spent a lot of time detailing their encounter. Her face lights up as she speaks about him.

Mary is young looking too, physical fit and smart. I think she was naive and young when she met Steve. Hope she get compensated.

Mary u are a beautiful woman and u will one day get over Steve, time heals all wounds, just pray and pray with suplication and everything will be alright.

She invested 3 years with him, they lived together 3 years and she did not know until his mother told her, by that time she loved him, invested in their relationship.... he didn't tell her how was she supposed to know? When she found out she sat down with his kids and estranged wife and negotiated a nice sum of money each month to go to his wife and kids and made sure that their families lived a blended life with no child left behind... now that's a heck of a woman....and p:s Mary DID NOT GET THE MONEY LIKE YOU GUYS THINK SHE DID.... NO MAM, SHE DIDN'T. ONE HOME WAS CHEAPLY NEGOTIATED BACK TO STEVE AND ONE SHE WAS EVICTED OUT OF AND ONE SHE SO GENEROUSLY GAVE TO HER ASSISTANT BELIEVING SHE WAS HER TRUE SISTER FRIEND ( her assistant turned on her afterwards viciously) THE 40 THOU DIDN'T START UNTIL 4 YEARS AFTER DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS AND IT LASTED FOR ONLY TEN MONTHS. CONSIDERING HE WAS ALLEGEDLY WORTH 100 MILL AT THE TIME YOU CAN SEE WHY SHE FEELS CHEATED AND SHE WAS.

I think it's a good thing that she tells her truth . I watch Steve Harvey show every day and he gives all this advice to women mainly black women . And to think he cheated on his wife with the woman that he is with now and then married her . That's crazy to me . We listen to a lier every day on the radio and TV and I have heard him talk bad about Marry on his show lots of times about her and his first wife .Well if I can listen to him talk about her then I think Mary should have a chance to say what ever she wants .

Steve I'm looking at you a little differently now

I Love you Mary. Watch what God do for you. I won't say nothing bad about Steve. Stay strong. Something good come out of your pain

There Is Always 2 Sides To Every Story!

All three of their names begins with M... Marcia, Mary, and now Marjorie. You really reap what you sow....it doesn't make him any better. How sad...

Mary is so pretty when she "Smiles" : ) I wish she would do more of that and just move forward. I know it's hard...believe me. Time Heals All...

Steve is very transparent. He tells us most of these things. Ms. Mary sounds like she's still a little emotionally attached which is understandable but she needs to really move on if haven't already. It's life.

I've only watched the first minute, but can see that Mary has clung to every minute detail of her meeting Steve H. I think women take longer to heal emotionally, and I hope this process brings her the closure and reconciliation with her son she is hoping for.

I think May Harvey just wants to talk about her take with Steve.

Steve is UNTRUSTWORTHY I CANT STAND THE SIGHT OF HIS BIG WIDE MOUTH

Mary Harvey your sweet and beautiful you hang in there sweetie GODSPEED....

❤ Thank you for sharing.

....But that raggedy box should have been a warning to you .....

this interview was from like 2009...why yall raggging on her like this just happened? and i would be in my feelings too if i held that man down when he didn't have shit but then leave me when he finally come up, for the side chick who got kids by drug dealers.

It's sad what she's gone through Steve is definitely wrong that much I can say. regardless of that man's ego, he was a married man and cheated on his beautiful wife. I feel for this woman I really do. I hope and pray she is well and doing okay.

I remember Steve telling that story on his show... wow so it was Mary

My heart really goes out to you Mary! I know how strong you are and how hurtful and devastating it can be to lose a child through a deceitful arrogant individual. I used to hold him in such high regard (in my ignorance) until I heard your story. Please forgive me but I was unaware of what he was really like. I knew that he would always praise his current wife on the Family Feud and make sarcastic remarks about "exes" but I didn't know the half! I used to wonder how his children felt when they heard him praising her and no doubt knowing how he treated their mother. He is very transparent and has proven to only be true to himself! When he is done with her (in the very near future) she too will have to bare the brunt of his brutal attacks. He will no doubt assassinate her character by telling the world that she was a fifty-cent whore who bore children by two jailhouse cousins. He will also claim that she could have been anybody's woman who had change for a five! I know how this type operates. You are a beautiful woman who will RISE!!! He will be on his knees and broke down begging your pardon on his death bed, but until then he has to live with himself ! What a miserable existance!

Mary did NOT know until she moved in that he had left his family... she wanted no part of this confusion and felt bad and wanted to leave but was talked through it because she did love him at this point.... she herself decided to do right by his estranged wife by making sure that his estranged wife received money on a regular basis.. and so forth watch "unwinewithtasha" "Steve Harvey lies part one".... and she explains Mary's side and how SHE was sideswiped by this news herself.... watch it..

The same you got him is the same way you lose him

seems like she is reminiscing more than anything. I thought he was supposed to have done you so wrong? The last thing that I would do with a guy who did me wrong, is to recount meeting him so lovingly. Her story never really gelled anyway.

@LeahBBanayan She is someone who just wants her story told!

1989 ? His oldest son with his first wife was born in 1991 .... he did his first wife so wrong wow

She is so happy when taking about Steve Harvey.

Don't know all the facts of these three marriages but really terrible if he was married then began romancing Mary like that. That is so wrong and so cruel to play with a woman's heart and emotions like that. That would be truly horrible to go through and they had a child together too 💔 She seems like a nice lady who is still so heartbroken over this. Who wouldn't be?? There are two sides to every story but she is still grieving and divorce is so painful. I completely understand. I hope and pray she is in a much better place in her life now and she is happy 🙏💕

I HAVE BROTHERS AND I UNDERSTAND WHAT TOO MANY MEN HAVE DONE AGAINST THEIR WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS... I TOLD MY BTOTHERS" uncles and cousins you are not getting me mixed up in this mess against ALMIGHTY GOD and these women... AMEN

Mary Harvey read the book When Empathy Fails by Kathy Marshack.

I think she is a very, very classy lady! i'm sorry you had to experience such a traumatic incident, however, we all do, and YOU WILL SURVIVE!

Steve has done something wrong...He has always struck me as a shufflin, jive talkin, think his sh!t dont stink, NINJA! He will get his...He could have done better by this woman from an emotional point of view...I beleieve he will suffer the consequences. Marjorie, Watch it!

It's very funny how most people out here writing all these nasty things about Steve. Firstly it's not always a man who is responsible for a breakup. A decent woman would have never gone to such an extent. Listen to what most of her words are, "house, money, material things being taken away from her". What if she was the emotionally abusive one? A man would not just take a child away from his mother based on her not being able to provide financially. Why didn't he do that to his first wife? Learn to think with logic before you make some comments. Also a marriage doesn't "end" when people get a divorce it ends way before that... There's going on legal separation and how sure are you that he cheated? What if he got with Marjorie when he was already separated? I'm a woman and I've been in an abusive relationship and played victim for sooo long that when I finally moved on, I'm ashamed of it but I was very emotionally abusive to the next man I dated and didn't even realise it. It's after a friend of mine pointed it out and I was in denial. I went for counselling and let go of that man peacefully.... And I know there's no excuse for cheating but I realised he cheated because of how I would talk down at him and be nasty and act like a victim all the time. That shit isn't healthy man! All of this still didn't get her child back to her.... Why because she went about it the wrong way. God will bless your ex in your face while you remain bitter and miserable. People change, what and how is not meant for you will never be yours. Let go and Let God. Move on and just be a better person. Dragging someone's name down the gutter won't ever uplift yours!

I can't really say anything because we don't know the true story and he just may have not been happy and it takes 2 sides she is telling her side of the story. Sometimes men do make mistakes and one thing for sure if a man is not happy there is nothing on this earth that can make him love you or stay he went on and found his true love. He looks very happy with his new wife and it's seems that they are very compatible together and business minded.

6yrs is not long.We got ur back, Mary. He needs to be praying on the morning Show about how he did u! He"s a fast talking N... & learned how to make a living off it! Hang in there girl. U were there & held him down at the beginning. We gotcha! In our prayers. Whst money & fame does, wow!

How is she bitter? Mary I'm stronger now from hearing your whole story. Not your whole story, but your truth. I'm getting better now. You have strengthen me with your pain. You trusted your heart to someone, and you just knew he love you. You look better then what you been through. You are strong. Your story change me. Pray for Steve, and I know you do. Money change people. You can't even hate him because it's not in you. Greater is coming. As for your son no women should be without her child, for another women to enjoy. God gave him to you. Soon as a person who come into success , and have a life with you before success leaves you for someone who they feel is what they need at time and God didn't ordain it, it won't work. You don't build with someone and bring them into a place and life and put them back in the place where you both started and say she'll be alright. I see he didn't take your ability to yet love his corny ass. Thank you for being a strong black woman. I'm not going to say I hate him. I will say in due time, he going to wish he never hurt you. Your trust in God says everything. He think he did something. You seem like you'll never if you had your son, keep his son away from him. You're not bitter. You're a black woman who loved to hard. You put up with his mess, and he going to wish he never hurt a strong, courageous, beautiful black woman. Don't listen to the negative that people say about you , it will only bring your past up about he done. Consider the Bible story Job. God is going to bless you with more then enough plus your Son.

Mary, you are such a good hardworking woman even before you met Steve ..I totally get what you were saying! True that!!!

Thanks for the tip. Be resolute. Don't feel guilty when you blow these dogs off. Just because they're persistent, doesn't mean they mean you any good. Fast forward and it's the same old game. Don't waste your time on them.

That's a dirty MoFo

Bitter, yes! Right to be angry, yes! But at the same time, she should have waited to tell her side before a judge. I witnessed my cousin loose her children in a bitter custody battle & she lost her mind. That was not nice! I am sadden that she is going through such a horrific ordeal. I had no idea. She should write a book on how to survive it. This doesn't effect my thoughts about Mr. Harvey. Everybody makes mistakes. God will handle the two of them.

There shall be better days ahead Life must go on God will see to it! Put God first and Live

Women should never give men control over their emotions to this degree. He did her wrong. In no way am im dusputing that. However, continuing to rehash what was & what could've been doesn't help, it hinders. Healing & moving on is the best revenge.

Mary, listen lady! The best thing is get over him and stop posting videos!!!! Write a book and make your millions that way! Stop being so free with your business. Wise up, lady!

if she knew he was cheating why didnt she leave

So what it's over she can't let go... get a life cause he's living his.

I wouldn't believe anything she said !! No makeup !! drab clothes.poor little me !! No way.!! Steve Harvey is a good man. His children prove that.How much are they paying her to blacken his name.???

And her purpose for doing this is...................... Its 7.5 billion ppl in this world and trust me, nobody is going to watch this video is going to think differently about Steve. Why try to trash him now? Just move on with your life.

Happened to me the same exact way. Lol!!

You people need your facts. He did not leave her for Marjorie, that's why the judge tore her apart about her lies. And she sounds bitter! This is irrelevant! She was the one with him while he was married the first time. So that' s pretty much what she gets! As well as she was not homeless. You cant live off 40,000 a month and granted another 1.5 million or something of that figure.? Lady get a life! This is really old but this is pathetic! Someone should expose you for what you did ma'am. How are you going to help other women when you were dating him when he was married!?!

I hope you find closure and find the most Loving relationship so you can leave your nightmare behind. next time instead of supporting him in building his career look out for yourself. May God continue to strengthen. you.

god. See's. he. will. fight. my. battles

You can't help other women until you help yourself! Get over it! Stand in front of the mirror and say "He's just not into me!" Nuff Said!!!

did anybody who lost the title of the book she read was Why Should I think like a Man and the title of the name of his book is Think Like a Man wtf

Moving iceasy if you did not lose anything from the relationship but when your child/rent are taken by the rich man because you do not the same financial muscle, then moving on is not as simple. You're kicked out with stretch marks, older, emotionally scared... and watch someone enjoy the life you helped to build? We love these men when no one was there for them, but when they are established, the first thing is to get rid of the old cow?

This is so sad.

You get them the way you lose them smh

Oh, Mary stop weeping. Let it go, please let it go. There is a song out there "It's over". Give up. You are not going to get it now. Anymore dirt should be swept up and thrown out. Don't drag the old stuff into a new year. FORGET it dear.

People in these comments act like they never had a RELATIONSHIP that didnt work out. Yes u move on but hell its hard and takes time period how he did her its hard to wrap your head around that shit.

Steve was not her first husband, there was a Mr. Shackelford, what happen there, Mary tell the Truth.

but their divorce still isn't final

a women scorned

Well at least she is not making no money out of this story cuz sh ecould have had gone to shwos, given exclusive inetrviews, written books, movies etc.. and she didnt!she came on here and said her story!!

let it be keep moving

Bitter She describes the classic interaction between AA male & female upon approach. The female for whatever reason justifiably or Not has a negative, disinterested, maybe even miserable attitude upon a male approaching. Whats new. But now we're supposed to feel remorse for her for being dogged by a man she initially blew off if the first place, and eventhough she's actually better off financially now then she was before she dealt with him. Really?

@Gene1952t wow you took my words out my head! lets go further......if steve was broke,would she even bother? this is reaching at best.

whats done is already done...She dont need closure, she wants to expose him and put his business out there!! We all have been cheated on or we did the cheating...

You can take the boy out of the hood but you can never take the hood out of the boy. Ive never liked him on the show I just plain old never liked him

Awww I think Steve is regretting divorcing his first wife:( some times in married life you forget the love & you stop making time for one another, & you feel like there’s nothing there, but that’s where married ppl go wrong.... if they would stop & take time away from each other when Things get hard & live apart first before jumping & divorcing 99% would find there way back to each other & they would come to realize they love each other .... in a marriage long term we tend to take each other for granted, we stop showing love & respect & appreciation toward one another, if married couples would show & put each other first the sparks would never die or burn on low..... we get lonely in a marriage & think we want out, & when that happens it becomes the biggest mistake of our life’s, to lose the one person you don’t want to live with out, your love never dies it only grows stronger.... we get mad & feel like we hate each other & want to be far away from each other, & really if that’s what we feel at the time in a marriage then go be apart & take time for your self to think, & see what life would be like with out that person, do this before jumping in to another relationship, & divorcing the one persons you once loved & didn’t want to ever be apart from.... bc what happens when you jump in a new relationship or cheat on your partner all because your lonely & you took each other for granted & stopped showing love toward each other, that’s when we run to someone else & at the time we think where in love & want to be that that new person , but in reality it’s just want we was needing from the real love of our life:( just didn’t know how to fix it.... because what happens when we jump in a new relationship with the person we was cheating on our spoils with, when the new wares off & you start missing your one & only love, it’s to late we fucked up & now feel we can’t turn back :( you realize it wasn’t worth you losing the love of your life for, & you think why couldn’t I have done this or why why! Oh god what have I done!? Now I’m stuck with this woman I don’t know I don’t like & don’t love what in the hell was I thinking😱🤮😭 the excitement & the loneliness causes ppl to do crazy dumb things.... & then feel it’s to late to fix & get the love of there life back,,, if only we would stop been so suborn & selfish & been mean to the ppl we love & stop taking them for granted we wouldn’t lose each other, start living & showing each other how much they mean to u & start seeing how life would be with out that person first before jumping in the ocean & getting eat by blood thirsty sharks😦

screw that! there divorced, so why she cant move on like he clearly did. nothing more than the classic bitter ex. she even violated a gag order during their divorce which landed her in jail for it. the simple classic "bitter ex syndrome":!!! just saying and screw what you might think bout my comment. #teamsteveandmarjorie

#SurvivingSteveHarvey

This lady need to move on... karma karma karma move on.

@KingKunta83 12 years??? They only divorced 5 or 6 years ago. Do the math. Where do you get your information from? Also a woman who's supposedly getting 40k month in alimony isn't going to be complaining about being left without collateral and a decent property. Your logic (or the lack thereof) is piss poor.

She just need to move on,and get over it. she stuck in the pass.

I was think he talks a lot of be but now knowing this woman too broke up a home u reap what u sow lol that rule applies to everyone

Oppression? She is just a hostile ex wife and needs to move on.....

#WHY!

@KingKunta83 Uhmm, makes me wonder now. I didn't know she was getting that much. How is it that she's digging her way out of the grave now. What's her motive? Perhaps, she's trying to make her way to the spot light to earn more money.

Steve has a video on KZfaq " why do woman wants closure" it may be dedicated to you since you are looking for closure, look it up I think you can potentially benefit from it.

She has an old essence book of Steve Harvey that's how you know she wants his money

She is out of money and hopes Steve will pay her to shut up. She is mad that Steve is successful and she is on the outside looking in. And if she knew that the gag order was going to be lifted off Steve ,she probably would have kept her mouth shut. She got $40,000 a month for 5 years, a lump sum of 1.5 million dollars, and she got 3 houses! If she wanted her son so bad, she would have fought for him. No judge would take a child from his mother unless the child was in danger of neglect or abuse.

Think Like God.

mmmm... maybe so. i do believe loads of people use religion and God's name to push what's convenient for them, (i.e. slavery & gender oppression, etc.), on other people without examining the context (circumstances & time frame) the scriptures were written in. thanks for the reply.

MARY LEE HARVEY DESERVES $10,000,000.00 DOLLARS PLUS. SHE WENT THROUGH A LOT INCLUDING ADULTERY OFF AND ON FOR YEARS... Steve know Exactly what he did to his Ex-wife Mary Harvey..

The second girlfriend or wife always batter than the first one why?

she is determine to mess with him

can someone tell me everything that's happened with Steve and his wives? I'm too lazy to go look into it so can someone summarize everything?

yeah just. to. fall back. into. another. run. around

I'm. sorry. u. should. have. ran

He admitted that he cheated and that he was wrong for it. I'll bet he's thinking it wasn't worth what he's going through now. I am glad that he's moved on and has changed his life for the better. From the way he talks, he has turned his life over to God and that He's in charge. From his ex-wife's statement from this video, he's going to need God now more than ever. This woman is hurt and she's not going to rest until she feels he's suffered the hurt she says he caused her. I am not shocked.....

Now Mary his whole game sounded like B.S!!! I feel for you but we all play our parts in why relationships work and don't work. But at least you got with a man with some money. Half of these ladies posting about how bitter you are have been in your position and were left with nothing. Just count your blessing and be glad the SOB did not damage you more. I an sorry for your lose. Your son will come back to eventually.

Stop strolling down memory lane , Steve has moved and so should you !!!

She should accept it and move on. Steve traded you in for a sexier younger woman. Life happens

Marcia, Mary, Marjorie, M????.

just to be known as steve harveys ex wife.. its a marketing scheme

Wah 😵

Does she have anything else to do in her life besides post on KZfaq?

Steve is very Happy Mary.............Are you still single? I'm funnier now