STOP CHASING & Enter Your Bad B*tch Era In 70 Minutes Instead!

STOP CHASING & Enter Your Bad B*tch Era In 70 Minutes Instead! | Sabrina Zohar

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Today we're shedding light on a rampant issue - the overflowing, toxic dating advice online. In a sea of 950 million search results on relationship advice, almost 99.9% of it is misleading and might be holding you back from the love and romance you're looking for.
If you're tired of chasing men who simply aren't serious and ready to step into your Bad B*tch Era, we’ve got you covered! No more watered-down versions of yourself, and no more tip-toeing around what you really want in a relationship.
My guest is none other than the dynamic Sabrina Zohar - a dating expert and relationship hero who's been there, done that, and broken the cycle. She's debunking the overused, underwhelming dating tips that are great for online quotes but terrible for your love life.
Before you strut your stuff in those "bad bitch" boots, you need to get crystal clear on what you want and how you want it, and that’s what we’re about to get into!
Chapter Markers:
[00:00] Introduction to Toxic Advice ⚡
[09:36] Bumper Sticker Love Tips 🚘
[18:32] No-Text Trigger Healing 🤳
[25:29] First Date Romance 💋
[31:32] Put Out Situationship Fire ❤️‍🔥
[39:42] Are You The Red Flag? 😜
[48:57] Not Everyone Is Ghosting You 👻
[56:48] Change Your Dating Style 💅
[1:03:27] When You Can’t Avoid Triggers 🫠
Power Insights from Sabrina Zohar:
“If you’re dating somebody and who you are isn’t working for them, consider this a blessing and walk the f*ck away.”
“The pinch doesn’t match the ouch.”
“A girl knows she wants to date but not if she wants to f*ck you. A guy knows if he wants to f*ck you but not if he wants to date you.”
‘I didn’t ask for the anxious attachment style, but I’ll sure as f*ck heal through it.”
“A trigger is my problem, not yours.”
“Meet yourself with compassion or meet yourself with blame. You get to choose.”
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@LisaBilyeu 5 ай бұрын

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

@The_Mim 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Lisa 😊 💓 🎉

@laureldell7377 5 ай бұрын

Lmmfao.....too true

@high8health 5 ай бұрын

@LisaBilyeu can You ask Tom if he can have Dinah Jane on his show as well. Thank you for supporting Dinah and having her.

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

I’m a Big personality too!!! 😂😂. I hear you girl

@kimgordon3695 4 ай бұрын

2:30 💜 permission granted!

@AnyaSul 5 ай бұрын

My heart is so ready for relationship, but my childhood trauma is not 🙄

@Kathryn-cw6mv 4 ай бұрын

I hear you. I hope you’re working on healing so you can take your power back.❤

@latoyamalone1423 4 ай бұрын

I hear you, now rewind, look yourself in the mirror and press record: “I am enough and I embrace my childhood trauma because I’m ready for a relationship.” You deserve all the good life has to offer. Peace and love on your journey. ❤

@hecallsmetiana 4 ай бұрын

Yo, this struck a nerve… So relatable

@enhanceyourfeatures 4 ай бұрын

😂love this comment

@esrablogger7797 3 ай бұрын

Best comment ever

@-._.-KRiS-._.- 3 ай бұрын

I find that matching his effort, not his energy, works pretty well. If I just responded to a deep conversation we were having and he doesn't respond back for a while, I don't keep trying to continue the conversation until he replies back. If he never replies back, that's an answer, and I don't have to feel bad about walking away. I can be secure enough with myself that it was a nice experience to open up with someone and connect vulnerably without being attached to the outcome. If he does reply back, with effort to what I said, then I know he's still interested in connecting. But I don't have to prioritize my response back knowing he hasn't been prioritizing his. I'm not trying to play a game (and I hope this isn't one), and I want to be respectful and understanding of his busy life, but matching effort feels right.

@laritafrancois2184 3 ай бұрын

I agree with you

@andriavinithalobo5813 3 ай бұрын

Damnn sooo rightly said.

@BrooklynBaby-1 3 ай бұрын

Stop texting 💬 paragraphs is the answer

@nohmyclaire 2 ай бұрын

Yesssss

@unkn0wnr0ckstar 2 ай бұрын

thank you for this!

@Tania_888 Ай бұрын

This came at a perfect time. When the student is ready, the teacher appears. ❤

@weightlosshacks00 3 ай бұрын

The only part I disagree with is that hookup culture is at all healthy, it's pretty damaging. I had one hookup turn into a stalker that lasted years. Please be careful ladies.

@CatalinaFOIA 3 ай бұрын

Agreed. Hook up culture is extremely dangerous on a multitude of levels from stalking, to diseases, including STI's... it is NOT worth it.

@risdaaprilia7021 2 ай бұрын

i do agree. and also everytime you hook up and give your body to somebody its damaging your soul. your energy is shared to so many people and will left you souless.. you will feel empty..

@springfauna1465 Ай бұрын

@@risdaaprilia7021I wish more people knew this because it's more important than they realize!!

@AutisticBarbie Ай бұрын

❤

@sunflowerroark5170 Ай бұрын

I wouldn't hook up quickly.

@spyroluver0951 2 ай бұрын

trust your womanly instinct ladies. Keep safe while dating, no matter the age, meaning: 1. Tell family and friends close to you where you are going, who you are with and his car rego. 2. Get yourself to the date and back yourself. 3. Don't unload all your trauma, negative experiences from family and friends and exes. They can use that against you. You are valuable and deserve to be treated well. You're saftey comes first Queens 👑

@tanyasharadamba1264 4 ай бұрын

"Choose something ... do something every day for yourself." ❤

@enhanceyourfeatures 4 ай бұрын

Exactly ❤

@FeminineLogos 4 ай бұрын

“Stop waiting for his text” - time to block him.

@Tratamientos44 2 ай бұрын

Yes block Him prevents that he back only for ego

@FeminineLogos Ай бұрын

@@Tratamientos44 They are always bored, have a roster, and when their top 3 or 5 females are unresponsive they start thinking where they can get their dopamine fix. Then they remember the good women, knowing the good ones have genuine emotions and empathy and won’t let them on read. Wrong. We are not dumb anymore. So just block him. As I used to say as a teenager, my door was open all the time for you, and yet, you chose to leave. Now I don’t discuss, when I feel something is off I block him immediately, let him go back to his league, focus on my work and wellbeing and new men are there in minutes (when you detach, completely).

@FeminineLogos Ай бұрын

Dear ladies: • breadcrumbing - time to block him • manipulative - time to block him • financially unstable - time to block him • not loyal - time to block him • aggressive - time to block him • love bombing - time to block him • devaluation phase - time to block him • stealing money from you - time to block him • hiding his phone - time to block him • watches red pill content - time to block him • no small gifts - time to block him • bad in bed - time to block him • not completely compatible - time to block him • calls you after 10pm - time to block him • has no friends - time to block him • stalking you - time to block him • forcing you to do anything - time to block him • weird way of thinking eg satan!st - time to block him • lazy af - time to block him • thinks men are superior - time to block him • spends more time doing his makeup and hair than you do 😁 - time to block him

@Transform_with_Tea 3 ай бұрын

Awareness is the first step but changed behavior is actual growth 🌶️

@Jacquelinerenees 3 ай бұрын

Accepting yourself is 100% the key

@theresaparks4883 2 ай бұрын

He was ignoring my calls and texts intermittently. I got tired of it and Blocked him. I’m not chasing nobody! He’s a Coward and Disrespectful! Why would I continue to support that behavior because he always comes back when he’s ready! Well I’m not ready indefinitely ! So BLOCK AND GOOD RIDDANCE!

@kre8504 Ай бұрын

I ended up blocking a guy who was playing me. He wasn’t listening to me & expecting me to brainlessly, follow. I may be blond, but I’m not dumb, nor am I going to suck up to him to have a relationship. It’s rather stupid, of him to expect me to blindly follow. I’ve been around the block & not going to play along with his game!!

@kingdom_manifestations Ай бұрын

The words I see that stand out about your post: "brainless" "I may be blonde" "Im not dumb" "stupid" "blindly follow"-- as the lady said in the video--- "what's the real trigger here? What memory in your subconscious memory bank has brought you to this conclusion about him." What do u feel? Sit with it.... get to the root cause. I'm also doing this sane exercise myself going forward so just know there's no judgement at all.

@kre8504 Ай бұрын

@@kingdom_manifestations I think In getting to the root of it, was that he wasn’t listening. I finally had to cut him off. I think his ego got hurt, because it wasn’t long B4, I realized texting him was a waist of my time.

@vaska1999 Ай бұрын

@@kingdom_manifestations There's the root experience and then there's your current experience of being ignored and disrespected. The current one you can step out of by walking away from the person who's belittling you .

@flyandshy00 Ай бұрын

Why you call a man? First mistake, if he's not connecting with you for 5 days and you have been to like 2-3 dates - block.

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

Now I don’t care if they abandon me and I’m like whatever. I am so healed. 😂😂. I got this now!

@july7578 3 ай бұрын

You have a point

@AdrienneAliciaGodsDaughter 2 ай бұрын

Riiight 💯💯💯

@Portia620 2 ай бұрын

It’s funny when they go. You can’t bring up your act. You can’t compare me to your ex and I’m like how am I pissed to not repeat the past I expect you to compare me to your ex cause I’m sure you don’t want your ex do you?😂😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. Wow double wow Somebody comes to me and says that I’m the one they just know and they got butterflies and God told them in the first few minutes. I’m quite concerned because there’s nothing wrong with saying all this person beautiful whatever but that’s not what is it about my ex-husband did the same thing and he left me because he said he didn’t like who I was like the inside in the outside guess what the outside is gonna deteriorate !!!!

@Portia620 2 ай бұрын

The same guy gaslit me by telling me. I don’t think you’re ready for a relationship. I’m like OK therapist but last time I checked, I hired a therapist to help me with dating and she told me to date you.😂😂. I think we should see the therapist about what I did.😂 is Mr. GQ too good to be true right by saying I shouldn’t bring up my ex-husband last time. I brought my ex-husband. There was like a little argument. I’m like there’s two arguments. We made it to the f… date and you got to be kidding me! This feels exactully like my last just wrapped up in a prettier package. My ex didn’t have any money at all. A big reason I avoid these guys. I think they’re better off with the sugar babies. There of the ones that tell them exactly what they wanna hear and they’re perfect for them and they perform all kinds of tricks for money but it’s a shallow relationship go get that I’m far from shallow. I’m real and I’m gonna tell the truth.! 🙏🥂

@nompendulomqala8512 14 күн бұрын

I wish I could have your mentality!

@bonniejones7919 5 ай бұрын

Great wisdom. I'm 66 and widowed and started dating. Knowing this information is priceless. I'm much calmer and empowered and at peace. Thanks young ladies! You're awesome. 😊

@BetterTogether300 5 ай бұрын

@bonniejones79..dont forget condoms...avoid stds get tested

@BetterTogether300 5 ай бұрын

More seniors r getting stds cuz of dating in these years. Be careful...get vaccinated against .etc..guardisil.....

@heartonic5309 5 ай бұрын

Wow ! You're brave. I'm done with dating..at 45 ...it's no longer worth it.

@chriskahlson 5 ай бұрын

Open, trusted, shared with each others digital devices, I have nothing to hide, how many women are uncomfortable sharing because they are concealing digital deception ?

@martharosario1657 4 ай бұрын

I'm 62 and out of a relationship for 7 yrs. Thanks to this advice, I know how to ask questions but also how to answer them. It was a struggle, but worth the experience journey. Thanks ❤

@flolacandola9396 4 ай бұрын

I have anxious attachment style relationship the more I listens to other podcasts the more I get depressed, when listened to this lady Zohar I understand myself more. I love this lady so much I feel set free.

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

So if they don’t text that freaks you out? I do that with my kids and drive them nuts!!! In realionships I’m like they are busy. My poor kids

@enhanceyourfeatures 4 ай бұрын

From what she said…You just need more activities. Go have fun and find yourself

@annealcantara6952 3 ай бұрын

I feel you so much! I'm going to start changing!

@heidicarlson1740 2 ай бұрын

She is the only one that makes sense and helps you reach your authentic self which is where you need to be!

@Jacquelinerenees 3 ай бұрын

I dont know who this woman is, but shes VERY intelligent and real. What she’s saying is 100% legit

@helendavies5252 Ай бұрын

Yes!! I wish I'd heard this this time last year, which would have helped me with a situation I've allowed myself to be in. I've bought dating advice from men (online). Listening to the woman and with the help of a therapist and I'm going to brave up this weekend and ask what the hell it is he wants from me and I'm going to tell him what I want .

@Rozie32 15 күн бұрын

I m the same as her! Very very real shit !! 😂

@birdysing 4 ай бұрын

20.50 The 3 steps：super profound 1. What was my trigger? What disregulated you? 2. Feel the physical sensation in your body for 90 seconds, identify what the sensations are. Focus on the feelings. 3. What is the narrative? Do you have the facts to support this narrative, what are contrary? Try to reframe it. When did you feel it for the first time? Don’t self-abandon. Be there for yourself when it’s uneasy, discomfort. Don’t project your past to the other person you are seeing

@tinyelephant77 4 ай бұрын

Thank you

@kimgordon3695 4 ай бұрын

❤

@LaughingLead 3 ай бұрын

I am currently in this process, she is exactly right, walk away from people who criticize, want you to be different, those are most likely narcs, abusers,etc. I don’t care who doesn’t like me, I appreciate those who do!

@Jacquelinerenees 3 ай бұрын

You mentioned that we are afraid to feel the uncomfortable feelings because it reminds us of the most painful experience we’ve ever had. 100%

@risdaaprilia7021 2 ай бұрын

oMG!!!! That is absolutely true. thats why i dont like to be single and afraid to be with myself because it reminds me during my childhood im all alone at home and i hate it. i hate to be alone

@CaliJen Ай бұрын

So much this! When I feel them pull away (which I guess is healthy to some regard) my abandonment issues are super triggered! In this new relationship he has pursued but as he’s pulled back a bit I am angry at myself for believing this time might be different.

@Sherry1092 2 ай бұрын

I love that I don’t relate to any of this anymore. I’ve done so much work to heal my trauma and lack of self worth. It’s soooo possible!

@nikhat779 2 ай бұрын

Hey, could you guide how you did it?

@Aisha_babii 5 ай бұрын

The point she made about not asking certain questions because we don’t want to answer them is very true for me. I don’t ask because I don’t want to have to answer them myself 😩

@c.j3087 27 күн бұрын

That’s what we need: mindfull insights, remain conscious and deep thinking. Not turning relationships in mental games and general conclusions.

@TheIloveme9 3 ай бұрын

Digging DEEP with my therapist, breathwork and ending with visualization and meditation, self forgiveness has helped me finally allow myself to succeed and accept and love myself. I’m 52, raised 3 daughters on my own, completed nursing school, and overcame addiction & an abusive childhood of sexual abuse & a mom that hides from everything. NOW I love the bad ass I’ve become- I’m strong and deeply loving & emotional. If a man I meet doesn’t like that- NEXT! ❤ Thank you for your content Lisa!

@marlenehaigler6603 2 ай бұрын

I will always be straight, genuine, transparent, and real and loving if that's not what someone else wants they're not right for me. Thank you so much. This is how I've been feeling.

@CatalinaFOIA 3 ай бұрын

This information is coming out so fast... I put the speed on 0.75x and it is perfect! 🙌

@Lea-pj5em Ай бұрын

Thanks for the tip! 💪🏼

@yvettem.holland5072 Ай бұрын

Thanks

@CherrypieLola Ай бұрын

Same here!

@discovercarmelle4573 4 күн бұрын

THANKS FOR THE TIP! This definitely helped!!!! 🙏🏾✨

@Amazingme17 5 ай бұрын

44:58 So true I've had a lot of men get upset because I don't text back fast enough. I'm a FT worker, single mom of 3. Sir, you're not my current priority. Accept that I'm busy & I'll respond back once I slow down for the day. It's a major turn off rather than them simply asking my next availability for a lunch date, etc.

@cheeewio 5 ай бұрын

Omg this is absolute GOLD. I wish I watched it before I made the decision to stop seeing someone I really liked. Things I could’ve said if I wasn’t operating out of fear / anxiety. I wish I had said, “I really like you and developed feelings over time.” Initially I wasn’t too interested nor did I feel a “spark.” As a result, I couldn’t be myself around him because I had my guard up and I held back. I wish I would have been more open and let my walls down and allowed him to get to know the real me. Instead, that wall drove him away as a result he didn’t put in the effort I desired. Oh well, a learning lesson and I will def need to work on myself and my growth. Tbh we barely dated but I feel kind of heart broken that I let that go 😭.

@Amazingme17 5 ай бұрын

Don't beat yourself up. You'll have plenty of times to practice this tactic.

@Darima2 4 ай бұрын

I do that too. I just found out I have a fearful avoidant attachement style so now Im learning about it to become more aware of how it manifests. I took 2 tests online so I suggest you do that. One is on Personal developemnt schoool website which is also a youtube channel here. Really eye opening.

@kimgordon3695 4 ай бұрын

View it as your heart opening 💕

@lunarsann5499 2 ай бұрын

dont give up, and explain dont ignore the feeling tell him the feeling.

@helendavies5252 Ай бұрын

Yes!!! This is me. At first he showed lots of interest, and I wasn't too sure about him. Then as time went on, the more I found out about him, the more I began to like about him. I was afraid of showing my true self in case he didn't like me. There were many things I wanted to say and didn't. We weren't in a relationship where we were dating, it was an online and phone relationship. We met up several times. Then he told me he'd met someone and I was heartbroken and hurt. A could of weeks ago he contacted me, I braved up and asked about the other woman, he said they'd seen each other for a couple of weeks. I am now going to be brave this weekend and ask what it is he wants from me and why he actually contacted me, as he hasn't replied to a few of my messages. I'm not going to put up with being messed around any longer!

@YF-ey7uq 14 күн бұрын

The no texting but is what I'm going through right now. I've got panic attacks. I do realise this situation is triggering and wakes up the past trauma. Hardest thing I've been through since the narcissistic abuse

@alwaysandi5867 5 ай бұрын

This is mic drop, mind blowing. Helping me reframe sooo much. Things I've felt deep down......validation.

@lynnewint3112 4 ай бұрын

I don't like texting either, unless you reach out I won't either, and I'm completely fine

@ashleyalba2193 2 ай бұрын

This is the FIRST time I don’t have to play a video xfaster and actually slower.

@OTF-nv1bw 2 ай бұрын

Thaaaaank you! Sabrina talks so fast!

@sp4rkle81 Ай бұрын

@@OTF-nv1bwshe does

@amaliahettinger3485 Ай бұрын

Haha I’ve had to rewind so many times bc she talks so fast!

@zhuifeng Ай бұрын

i put 0.75 speed😂

@SheRahMusic 5 ай бұрын

I left my marriage not because I didn’t love/d my partner. He’s very narcissistic and always blamed others. When I broke up he said to me that I’m the one breaking up and what he’s doing on dating apps 2-3 Days after our break up is non of my concern because I was the one breaking it. Throughout the whole relationship he lacked understanding and empathy Communication about my feelings never been important and always blamed back to me. That at the End he said he regretted me because I never respected him as a man while I put up to his bs for years. Started my own career after staying home with kids for 8 years and now I’m the bad one, just like all the other exes !!! This break up been very very hard I saw how much I need to heal…I wasn’t the perfect one either but emotional and physical neglect hurt her very much. You are married but still alone…that’s not a life I’m 26

@brandirobinson8430 4 ай бұрын

I understand. 24 years off, and on with my narcissist . They'll find another victim. Have pitty for the next one.

@kimgordon3695 4 ай бұрын

Be sure to heal b4 dating again. For me it took 5 years. Otherwise you' ll attract theSAME

@cc1k435 3 ай бұрын

I'm there, too, in my 40s. He's the one who's never going to learn a thing. Be glad you are capable of it. Find a support group for trauma and/or domestic violence, online if you have to. It can help a LOT to get feedback from people who have been there, for sure. ❤

@vaska1999 Ай бұрын

He said things just to hurt you because a narcissist can never be wrong, you know. Start a new hobby, join a group that shares an interest you have, fill your life with activities so you don't sit around replaying endlessly the nasty things that man said to you. And when the memories come, imagine a huge big mirror in front of you, facing his way, so everything he said reflects back on him, without even reaching you. Try this a few times -- it really does help.

@hayley5684 3 ай бұрын

Slept with mine 1st date nd 10 yrs later still here, but I think the common pattern is I didn't think or was not looking for anything serious or I probably would of held off and acted like a princess 😂

@quynhvu2381 5 ай бұрын

My experience if a guy really is interested he would text next day and show consistent pursuing behaviors in planning for dates. Good advice for not taking rejection personally. Thank you.

@angelm6497 Ай бұрын

Less than 2 minutes in and I have total respect for this woman. I like her and totally agree with her. I think these fake ass apps are building a very rocky foundation for decades to come.

@lorrainecurry2501 2 ай бұрын

There’s a great book. Never Chase Men Again is the title. Every woman should read this. It’s also on audible.❤❤❤

@TheCakediva08 4 ай бұрын

I really needed this. I came across this by accident. It is a sign that I need to be more patient and not self sabotage and loose the best man ever.

@SRHisntSilent 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely love how she spoke about this topic

@Jacquelinerenees 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for also stating that this shit IS GOING TO COME UP in relationship. Ive had ppl tell me how much work theyve done alone and that they are solid and ive watched them crumble in relationship.

@Khem3 4 ай бұрын

I haven’t checked in with myself with how I’m feeling, when someone does something that I find painful.

@JessforR 3 ай бұрын

I'm excited to finding this channel. I have been dating, and I don't have time for the games that so many people recommend. Boundaries, healthy attachment, yes, but I'm not chasing and not maintaining interest in people who aren't good for me.

@alcudiababe1 5 ай бұрын

I agree fully with the woman's opening advice about the anxious attachment if you try and become what you feel the other partner needs like if they didn't like it when their expartner didn't talk about their feelings and shut them out and your naturally a private person - then you'd be abandoning your true self to meet their needs when a simple conversation could be had where it is communicated that you don't talk about your feelings because you deal with yours differently but if you don't do that and have that conversation you are altering your personality for another person. I was actually thinking about the relationship between me and my husband recently but here's the thing, I don't feel self conscious around him like I have to live my life by rules. For example not to swear just because he wants a lady like woman, or to pretend to be okay when things are bothering me because he doesn't want drama - you know things like that - I'm literally my full self around him and I feel comfortable. I don't feel shamed, or embarrassed or like I should have tried to gain his favour - we bicker over things we disagree with. It's healthier to argue in a relationship because people who really don't there's a problem because I don't work to appease him and therefore I'm not stressed with that burden of needing to be self conscious over what I say, how I say what I say (I am that way with my parents but that's just how the dynamic is between us) but because I'm not that way with my husband I'm happier and healthier because I'm not in an anxious state of needing to please him and because the anxiety isn't there mentally I'm free. I don't have to think I have to meet all of his needs for him to like me but if I know he appreciates it when I run a bath for him using my bath bombs I'll do it because I want to make him feel like I care for him..

@kimgordon3695 4 ай бұрын

What does saying "NO" ~MEAN

@HoneybeeHearts52 4 ай бұрын

I'm not even 10mins in, and this is so damn good and spot on! I love how real this woman is! Speaking the truth!

@enhanceyourfeatures 4 ай бұрын

So real

@aideavila726 2 ай бұрын

I love this because saying no to a partner is like a punch in the gut for them and it has ruined relationships for me because they expect a yes all the time.

@justacoginthefkery 5 ай бұрын

This was such a good episode! I know I've come a long way since my abusive LTR, 5 yrs of singledom & entering a new healthy relationship. It was nice to hear confirmation that I have been on the right tracks, but also how I can improve in areas where I've felt confused or unsure moving forward. 💗🤘💋

@chanbriajackson4679 4 ай бұрын

I needed this video. I realize the more i heak the less tolerant I am of bad behavior and I take inconsistencies as a no and not take it personally

@risdaaprilia7021 2 ай бұрын

i dont need playback speed 1.5 times, sabrina zohar talk already so fast. but i always love her! seems like she is my sister and always telling me the truth about real life dating. i know its not fake because its from her experience. i literally follow her anywhere

@lelaslipgloss1728 3 ай бұрын

This has been the best podcast in years! Sabrina killed it Lisa I am so grateful for your platform and what you do for us ladies! This was the reminder and validation I needed!!!!

@federicagarciacarrero6513 4 ай бұрын

So, in defence of younger folks: I’m 23, and I’ve spent the past 5 years working on myself, on all the childhood trauma, cellular memory, family karma, perspective on relationships... I’ve done lots of different types of healing sessions from psychotherapy, hypnosis, coaching, family constellations, numerology, tarot reading, you name it. I do think people from my generation (aka gen Z) are more open to therapy and to understand where our behaviour comes from. I’m not saying we have it figured out, but we do are opening ourselves to make things differently from an earlier age :)

@profilingmanipulation 3 ай бұрын

Thats epic, I'm gen X, 44, I did it all in my 30s & obviously still check in & stay interested in this kind of self work & learning. I think it's amazing what you've done, I only hope my teens are as healthy & I've done a good job & all this pain & self work has been worth it & I've broken the cycle. All the very best to you going forward, never forget to never accept less than YOU deserve, dont settle.. 🥰

@valeanualecsandra6233 3 ай бұрын

Good job you started so early

@cc1k435 3 ай бұрын

I admire several things about gen z, actually, and a lot of them come down to their open minds. I feel like my generation (x) has been transitional in some ways, maybe not enough to benefit ourselves all the time, but I hope we leave something better emotionally than we got. ❤

@MiaCaraAnna 3 ай бұрын

Gen Z just have access to more information at a earlier age

@emilyw9818 3 ай бұрын

Gen Z is the best!!! I have 3 children that are gen z and their emotional intelligence blows me away!! I have hope for the future of this planet because I know the souls coming in are so evolved! Thank you for doing your part to do ‘the work’. As someone who has also spent over the last five years healing, I know it’s not always easy. 😘🥰

@vvbanx5760 3 ай бұрын

Omg...this is one of the REALEST podcasts I've heard. It's exactly what I needed, in this phase of my personal journey!!!🎉

@zmazzyhtx 3 ай бұрын

Holy shit I could not agree with the intro more. I always thought the dating advice like that is so manipulative and I never understood how it would get me a relationship I actually wanted. Being authentic is absolutely key. That’s why dating is such a nightmare these days, no one is who they are, they’re all playing games. So over it. Excited to listen to the rest of this.

@angelalucero64 3 ай бұрын

This woman is phenomenal! I feel so much better after watching this video. I have been feeling more confident in my current mindset and life and this confirmed everything for me. Thank you

@astrogirllll 4 ай бұрын

Love the section on the first date romance. Sooooo insightful

@ArtemisDeer444 7 сағат бұрын

Loving how fast paced this interview is... A delight for us listeners with fast minds! Great information too 🙏👑

@donna3252 2 ай бұрын

Two of the most powerful women talking I’ve heard to date … so informative. I never wanted you both to stop talking ❤ thank you 😘

@ri3706 2 ай бұрын

She came out the gate swinging. 💀 Love this.

@mzunipeg67 2 ай бұрын

This by far was the most riveting interview I have seen with you. I can so relate to Sabrina and she gives me hope for healing even though I'm still on my forever journey. Oh my so much relatable to her and the examples are so wonderful. Just beyond an awesome episode.

@Genxmom 5 ай бұрын

This is pure gold. Thanks you for explaining this so well. ❤

@RoseMoke 3 ай бұрын

What ever words goes out will come back .. becareful of what you said...

@andrewc.2952 5 ай бұрын

Oh. My. Gosh. This is literally the moment for me this week. Wowwwww

@amystefko5484 Ай бұрын

Sabrina, you have all my answers girl. I'm gonna turn this around. I finally get me. Understanding myself is huge. Thank you for being real!!! ❤ Nearly word for word has been my life. The anxiety- so much control. Now I can see it, I can take my life back! 🥰

@Chosen302 2 ай бұрын

I absolutely hate when men have text conversations. I keep it super short and then I just stop responding

@CanLatinchick Ай бұрын

This is by far the best channel I have watched on this sort of thing. I will be unsubscribing to the other stuff I have been watching and subscribing to yours, it's so real and eye opening. I did the highs and lows for 20 years with my ex. I am in a new relationship now and get those thoughts of wow this is too constant, too steady, no drama but it's because I don't feel I deserve a healthy relationship. I need to work on myself and my own abandonment issues so I can stay in this healthy relationship where my boyfriend shows up for me and my daughter every single day. I cannot thank you enough for making me see this part of me today. God bless you both :)

@sarahoberrauter2434 15 күн бұрын

This is the most eye opening relationship advice I have ever heard. Thank you so much, I'm in my twenties and this helps a lot🙏

@juliesaville9241 4 ай бұрын

I agree with the mirroring is fabulous! Being the one who chases as a women is devaluing yourself I’ve done it. It’s like the natural process was reversed. Not right. Wonderfully honest podcast /interview xx

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

Did that in my marriage and never again! I don’t even get excited anymore. Dating is strange. I’m like sure now let us See how long this last. 😂😂. I just have fun with it and don’t sleep with them or kiss them. Not holding my breath

@woboznz 2 ай бұрын

I agree, i have to let the man come towards me and if they don't, i don't chase them. It's not the man for me then. It's just human biology I'll never chase a man again...

@robyn.lavender 4 ай бұрын

THE best podcast I've seen. Thank you for helping me take accountability 👏

@selopibani3220 2 ай бұрын

Gosh that part where you talked about your “little me”… really got me 😭

@andreac.6779 2 ай бұрын

“If you are not having the conversation bc is detrimental, imagine if you don’t “!!!! Yay

@helendavies5252 Ай бұрын

Yes!!! I wish I'd heard this late last year when I wanted to ask someone about what was happening between us. I am doing that this weekend.

@head_in_the_clouds 17 күн бұрын

Remember ladies.. effort is always a direct reflection of interest! Text or no text.. never ignore your gut feeling it always knows what's up!

@rokcsatr Ай бұрын

I love how she talks i learned so much

@jegedeoluwanisola7883 3 ай бұрын

This session is healing... thank you.

@yokonono2171 Ай бұрын

The guest has fresh perspective. I like that she sees things in a more positive constructive light. Very good

@nourelhoudakhemidja2960 4 ай бұрын

Well im not a native speaker but I love how sabrina talks , lol talking too fast and making the point is really a super power

@andreaberkovic8029 2 ай бұрын

This was one of the best eye-opening podcasts ever, thank you for this interview! Love Sabrina's energy

@gracepurcell7825 2 ай бұрын

Watching & listening to her guest Sabrina is like watching/listening to myself..guessing we've both had similar CPTSD and childhood trua/wounds..and I have high energy, talk/process fast and have been told to take it down or I'm too much which I now reply "then find someone who is less!" 😅 and we've have done THE work and are now more self aware..I give the advice she is giving to my friends. And I got some good AHA moments here too..thanks for this discussion. 💚🙏

@choosetruthalways7995 Ай бұрын

Both my parents were narcissists. So growing up with this type of parents was molding ourselves into a life of selfless service to everyone who needs help. And still feeling like not doing anything special.

@iam.chloelevy Ай бұрын

3:30 OMG Thank you Sabrina. I didn’t expect this but when you said « can I go back to that little me and give Her permission to say no », tears came out of nowhere.

@artismagical 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your authenticity!

@Diana-kt5gc Ай бұрын

This speaks to me on a whole other level. I am her.

@trudiegordon6327 2 ай бұрын

Sabrina is excellent and gave me peace of mind with her explanations - brilliant.

@Amazingme17 5 ай бұрын

I enjoyed this and loved hearing her self reflection and then how it's best to handle situations 🎉❤

@purplefler4579 3 ай бұрын

This is the best interview so far!! 😎 Eye-opening, really ❤️ Keep talking this fast, love it!! 🌸🌷💐

@a.pieceofpie 4 ай бұрын

Balance. Balance is what it's about.

@IAMBRITTNEYLASHA 2 ай бұрын

This was so good! Sabrina your perspective is so needed - especially the probing questions. Thanks.

@flyandshy00 Ай бұрын

If a man is disregarding your needs - he doesn;t care about you, get soemone who loves you. But remember, you have to lose yourself first. If he wants - he will. If he's online - he has a will to text someone else, you know what that means. Everyone is on their phones 24/7. You can text on a shitter, it takes a few clicks. If they do not - you know where you stand, especially if you both agree to be as a real couple. Even I chat with my friends everyday.

@chrisefloyd5905 Ай бұрын

I so needed to hear all this today! It really helped me with all these thoughts going through my head! Thank you ladies!!!

@cristenmichael3872 2 ай бұрын

I love your videos . They seem to pop up exactly when I need them. I use the Im chosen manifestation video nightly and sometimes in the morning! I’m really trying to stay positive and persist in my new story .. today has been trying… getting triggered because of my old story (and being on my period isn’t helping lol ).. wrote that story down today and crossed it out . Writing my new one down .. persisting in patience too .. doing the work and I got a sign saying I’m going in the right direction. .. So long story long lol Thanks for. your help!

@MiZShortiiE 5 ай бұрын

This is such a good episode! Thank you so much! ❤ I love that I'm able to see and u derstand more about myself and others

@flying_like_a_heroine 3 ай бұрын

Loved her tips on how to emotionally regulate ❤🎉❤ brilliant. 80% of the healing happens in the body. 20% intellectual - feeling is the secret to healing 🎉

@Passiyona 3 ай бұрын

I fell in love with this episode, thank you

@marediththaele1076 4 ай бұрын

This is really good getting a lot of insight from this interview

@vickig6080 3 ай бұрын

Such a fantastic conversation. Still a work in progress for me. Thank you

@batyahjones5763 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely love this I needed this video this morning ❤

@vallyhigh 3 ай бұрын

This was a damn great convo! Such authentic insight, thank you both!🙏🏽

@trudiegordon6327 3 ай бұрын

Yes the emotional attachment to relationships is the best explanation I have heard ever. It is because we are insecure not the relationship. If he is angry and never happy with you it is his problem not yours. I would rather this lady did not use the f word though. We can discuss this without the angry f word.

@madalynnewton5488 12 күн бұрын

I appreciate this women's wisdom and experience.

@BK22-2Fish 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely loved this interview. Thank you both so much! 👌🫶👸

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

I’m glad she gave us permission to sleep around! 🤦‍♀️😂. Not me! Not doing anyone unless I’m 100 sure!

@user-kg7yv8ih1v 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Portia620 2 ай бұрын

@@user-kg7yv8ih1vI have options but no connections that are deep and epic! These men nowadays are weak. They abandoned ship fast over the little thigns…so telling!