Let Me Be a Messy Feminist: How Liz Plank is Breaking Free From Toxic Men and The Biological Clock

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Before we dive back into the final episodes of our What’s Underneath: Masculinity series in partnership with Man Enough, we are kicking off the new year with an episode featuring Man Enough co-host herself, Liz Plank!
In this episode, Liz, an activist, author of "For the Love of Men," and co-host of both the "Man Enough" and "Synced" podcasts, shares her journey of becoming a self-loving feminist, complete with imperfections and contradictions on the path to embodying her own beliefs. At 36, Liz is breaking free from a lifetime of body image struggles, toxic dating patterns with unavailable men, and the pressures of starting a family in her 30s. Instead, she is wholeheartedly embracing the richness of her single life. Inspired by the summer of Barbie, Beyoncé, and Taylor Swift, Liz is confident that women no longer need to be in opposition to men or to act just like men in order to be powerful, but can rather define their own lives and culture on their own terms.
Directors: Lily Mandelbaum & Elisa Goodkind
Producer: Melissa Bindi
Director of Photography: Carli Rabon
Camera Op: April Maxey
Sound Mixer: Rommel Suniga
Editor: Mariana Blanco
Intern: Mya Constantino
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0:00 My Pattern of Letting People I Date Treat me Poorly
00:40 People Put Women in Boxes
02:17 What Does Your Style Say About You?
03:19 Defining Our Own Culture of Womanhood
04:30 People Assume I’m Dumb
06:50 Growing Up in a Culture of Misogyny
08:00 Recovering From an Eating Disorder and Learning to Be Okay With My Body
10:42 Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men
12:34 I Surrendered To the Idea of Having a Family
15:08 I Feel Vulnerable When I Have to Beg Someone to Love Me
16:16 When Do You Feel the Most Beautiful?
18:43 What An Honor to Be in My Body
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@LO42191990 4 ай бұрын

For some reason, I haven't been the biggest fan of Liz. Something about her annoyed me. And I think I've discovered in this video, it's because I see a lot of myself in her and I judge her for feeling the way that I do especially when she seems to have so much more than I do - the figure, the look, the bold style, the career. And I recognize that that's all my own insecurities projected onto her, when I should be comforted knowing it's not just me struggling with these things. I think I learned more about myself in this video, so thank you for this interview. And I'll check my judgement at the door next time I consume her content.

@sieurchan 4 ай бұрын

you're an awesome human being

@SuperClare 4 ай бұрын

Eloquent.

@itscrystalstevens 4 ай бұрын

this was so self aware and honest

@XSaphir Ай бұрын

Precious!

@jenymaryjane Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I learned from reading your comment too 🫶

@pcossunshine6031 4 ай бұрын

I really like the “when do you feel the most beautiful” question. Because- I honestly feel the most beautiful when I’m swimming in a river alone, or jumping off of some low cliffs, or climbing a big hill and I get to the top. But I guess FEELING beautiful and LOOKING beautiful are 2 different things for me.

@tipsycat27 5 ай бұрын

I do really weep for our generation because I feel like we're really paving the way for future women by doing the suffering in our lifetime. I see more and more women move through their 30s single and childless and feel like they "failed" in some way. It is not failure. Society failed us. It failed us for pressuring as to work and be independent and our own bosses, and then failed us again when it also expected us to be wives and mothers before 30. It failed us by making it seem "worthless" to be entering your 40s without husbands or families. Yes, we have biological clocks. But love and family and community and partnership does not die with your eggs. That is an archaic mentality that belongs in some dusty old medieval scripture. Love comes in SO many shapes and forms, and can be equal or even stronger to the traditional family unit. Shit, you could even HAVE the traditional family unit through other means. If you were meant to have children and a husband by 36, it wouldve happened. But life, God, or even yourself deep down, wanted something different. Take ownership of that and be excited about the rich life youve had and are still GOING to have.

@TierraJaiAwakenings 5 ай бұрын

Beautifully written !!❤

@if-i-stumble 4 ай бұрын

you put astoundingly accurate words to this , thank you!!

@christinaapostolopou 4 ай бұрын

This comment moved me so much, thank you

@tiffanydeg4262 4 ай бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽

@clara4942 4 ай бұрын

I’m 39 and I swear, over the last few months it’s as if I’ve woken up from a bad dream of feeling like I was a failure for not getting married and having kids. Then I realised (and it really hit home over Christmas watching the women in my family do ALL the work), that I don’t want a husband or kids. I LOVE my life as an Aunty, a mountaineer, a writer, a sister, a nature lover, a lover of Christ, and a volunteer, a reader, a chiller, a well rested and resourceful woman! Ha! I don’t stress about how I’m going to afford kids (and a husband), about being worked to the bone, particularly mentally. I don’t fear loneliness beciase I have people all around me and several who I can have deep emotional connections with. I feel totally nourished. And most importantly, when I retire, I will actually get a retirement. Non of the baby boomer women in my family ever get to rest nor know how to. They are always serving someone. Then they are frazzled and emotionally unavailable. They simply can’t put up boundaries and they have half lives for it. They all grew up being told their worth comes from how hard they work. It makes me so mad. I can’t have a meaningful conversation with any of them. But they will sit there and nod politely when their husbands start up about conspiracy theories. And this is what finally did it for me. I refuse to be drained on the alter of marriage or have my worth defined by how hardcore my work ethic is in the caring realm (caring for grown ass men who can cook their own breakfast). My mother also worked full time. My father never once cleaned the home. He worked her to the bone. THANK GOODNESS that will never ever be me. 2 cute dogs and fab gal pals and a male lover who sleeps at his own house is all I want.

@alexagates 5 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this interview so much, I’m really happy y’all had her on! My thoughts on the beauty thing: I think there is also a shame that comes from being objectively beautiful/pretty when you have the societal awareness that a) you have social capital over other people because of it, b) you wish that for all people, it wasn’t a defining characteristic and that pretty privilege/the halo effect didn’t exist but also c) you don’t want to experience the negative side of all of these benefits as someone who isn’t physically attractive would experience. No one really wants to feel pain or be rejected so it’s a tough place to be where you hold privilege, wish that the world wasn’t the way it is, but also if you’re honest, you would prefer to not be on the negative side of this societal reality. definitely just an opinion but I struggle with this daily.

@monica1808 5 ай бұрын

💯

@SD-fk6uk 4 ай бұрын

oh wow. i have had these feelings for years and never ever ever have seen or heard this thought articulated in such an on-the-nose way

@tracyguillemette6255 5 ай бұрын

I could relate so much to the beauty thing. I am 60 years old and feel relieved that I don't get noticed for the outside of me. I was always screaming inside, my outside is not me!

@vetisyka 4 ай бұрын

I'm 26 and you just put so much of my struggles into words. Thank you ❤️

@estenas.8799 4 ай бұрын

I finally understand the blessing and privelege I have to be single and childfree by choice in my 40’s. I was in a series of abusive relationships in my 20’s and 30’s, partially bc I felt I needed to be in a relationship to be considered worthy or loveable and working towards creating a family by any means necessary, and at my own peril. Programming deeply ingrained from early childhood. Now accepting myself, loving myself, dressing how I like, living in my integrity, enjoying my career, enjoying my friends, family, hobbies, travel, music, books and date when and who I want is a privilege many women in this world do not have. I’m so happy to know other women are awakening to our power and beauty. We are more than just a potential wife, sexual partner or mom.

@josephshumake5989 5 ай бұрын

I'm just really happy Liz Plank could break free from HER--toxic relationship--to Men. Accountability is important and attachment wounds can be difficult to undue. Good for you Liz😀

@dkm6054 5 ай бұрын

Oh wow, the way she feels about beauty and how if she senses it's important to you, she doesn't like it is something that I've always felt about sexual attraction but have never known how to express it and the way she expresses this so simply resonated soooo much with me. I feel like I can appreciate beauty, but I always get this icky grossed out feeling if I hear someone solely focusing on superficial attractiveness.

@fawng8017 5 ай бұрын

Agreed, like I want to be seen as beautiful but that's just window dressing. I want some indication that they at least appreciate something other than that

@Silvermoonscorpion 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely. And most folks think I'm the weird one bc of this.. but I doubt they've been objectified. Or, they liked it.. ? Absolutely gross.

@juanitapardogarcia3153 5 ай бұрын

Growing up in a family where beauty is the most valued aspect of being a woman has brought me on a journey to find my value beyond how I look like through having acne for over 10 years. It has been very painful and hard, but also very profound. Hearing Liz talk about how beauty should be the least interesting about her hits home, and makes her even more beautiful overall. Thank you

@Etwasxy 4 ай бұрын

Being a single, childless woman in my 30s, this spoke to me in so many ways and left me feeling empowered. Thank you so much.

@DerpGear 4 ай бұрын

I listen to KZfaq while I work and I love this channel. As someone who didn't even really watch this, but mostly just listened, THANK YOU for being here. She put into words a lot of how I feel in relationships or around other people and it really meant a lot to have someone say that stuff that resonated so highly. Thank you.

@jessietipton6718 4 ай бұрын

I’m super solo at 36 with no children. I relate with everything Liz is saying so much, including the pop culture of the time we grew up in and how disrespect was normalized and reflected in the way people treated others. I think many people our age are still recovering from whatever has happened to us as the result of the choices and reactions we have had to combat or protect ourselves from those far away moments of trauma in the past that can still feel so heavy. Thank you, Liz, for the vulnerability and for your perspective on how you absorb and process the many feelings of living differently than most. ❤ I am definitely feeling more in touch with my wisdom after this interview.

@Highvibin213 4 ай бұрын

I’m going to be 43 in February and I am single and childless by choice. We recognize our worth and stop accepting bread crumbs. We deserve a baguette . I no longer will let unhealed unavailable men steal my light. We must ask ourselves why we are a magnet and what the universe is trying to show us . Solitude and inner engineering is the key to a much higher frequency that most humans do not vibe with and that’s ok you will find your tribe! ✨we only get hotter with age and we all have different stories . I dropped the program of believing that being childless and single is a bad thing 😊 Happy New Year✨

@drek9k2 4 ай бұрын

Everything new agey you just spouted is only missing talking about "manifesting" for the complete redflag picture. Absolutely positive this is a white American. If you had compassion you'd be teaching young girls how to avoid making all the terrible mistakes you made, like find a good man, don't do drugs like alcohol or coke, don't even bother focusing on your career, don't try and make yourself the husband you wanted to have. I've seen guys do the same shit, the he she men are all white dudes calling themselves lesbians for a reason, rather than actually learn how to be a man and grow tf up they try and internalize the pretty girl they desire but don't feel they can have and destroy themselves because no one is giving them a good example how to be a man, just like no one gave these white American girls an example of how to be a woman. That's why meanwhile all the good guys are going to Thailand or finding nonwhite girls because those women know how to be wives, mothers, and supportive friends.

@peachesandpoets 4 ай бұрын

Yes!

@JEEDUHCHRI 4 ай бұрын

Like attracts like.

@ChanoWilliams 4 ай бұрын

I didn't expect to connect with Liz's comments as much as I did. I've always been fascinated by the thought of still being my kid self even at the age of 39. I still ask questions, discover and learn. I continue to gather more information, ask harder questions, and exert myself to discover. I, too, never thought my life would be where it has wound up and continues to unwind. I thought I'd be married by 25 easily! It depressed me for a bit, but then I learned to stop putting that unnecessary pressure on myself and to just enjoy life. I've traveled, made friends, enriched and been enriched. I have so much more to offer now at 39 than I did at 25. Especially where she talked about someone being emotionally unavailable and not being able to give to them. It's so true, whether romantically or platonically. I'm so fascinated by others, but if someone isn't even remotely fascinated with me then I just need to move on. "I know what I got," so they say. Haha Thanks so much for this interview and for Liz's willingness to push herself outside of her comfort zone!

@SG-kt2xp 4 ай бұрын

So many of these videos have a statement that’s so simple but taps into a very internal “ah ha” moment for me. Those quotes resonate with me so deeply that find myself repeating them back when I need to hear them. Thank you!! ❤

@VanessaDiazNYC 4 ай бұрын

Loved this! It's super relatable. Thank you!!

@daveedson32 5 ай бұрын

I love Liz. She's a brilliant communicator. It was fascinating to watch the progression of her answers sloooooow down as the layers came off. There was much more intentional, in-the-moment thoughtfulness heading into the end.

@yb32 4 ай бұрын

This resonated so much with me, as I am also 36 years old and have similar struggles. Especially the part about being bullied by the whole class as a teen and being stuck in the wrong relationship because of my patterns. I'm so happy that I came across Liz, wish her the best 💖

@tiffanydeg4262 4 ай бұрын

36 years old too..She described our pre teen/teen years perfectly. I love how honest our generation is. we're doing the deep inner healing by understanding ourselves.

@jackiew4363 5 ай бұрын

I loved this, related to almost everything she said. It’s really nice to see someone I look up to as a brilliant mind, also be so open about her struggles, and where she is at the moment. As women- or even just as people- we’re lead to believe that if we are struggling we are worth less to the world. Her sharing helps me reinforce that even if I am in pain and imperfect, it doesn’t negate my intelligence or possible impact on the world. Thank you Liz and thank you to this channel. I cried for most of this video lol.

@wendyrosedavis1037 5 ай бұрын

Thank you For All This Means And How It Made Me Feel

@hamsabee1511 4 ай бұрын

Love this channel, love Liz (synced squad✨) and love this video! 💚💚💚💚

@katdujka4760 4 ай бұрын

This helped me OUT SO MUCH. she broke down toxic relationships in a few seconds.

@purseypurslane 5 ай бұрын

Amen for this video, it's been way too long -- or I've been asleep! I enjoy these as well as your former 'what's in my closet' series, please do more of those showing amazing women and their homes and clothes. That's true STYLE!

@MsMizz1 4 ай бұрын

Love Liz!!! 👏🏾 I think I came across her 2018-2019 on IG and loved her since. Kinda hope she joins or participates in a different podcast soon. The men she cohost with now are cool but can see her doing better/different. Good to see you Liz Happy 2024.

@Stephanie-hn3yn 5 ай бұрын

Wow I can relate to her answer to the beautiful question so much

@marvinraphaelmonfort8289 5 ай бұрын

love the disco ball hat and grown up sippy cup. and the swan bag. and the denim jacket full of patches! and the pink jacket and slides. and so fun when the ruffles were revealed. and sparkly top =] and bright green pants! so insightful. the question about beauty is like the evolution of this channel, no? but i think other guests have answered in similar ways about not wanting that to be the marker of who they are. loved this! thankyou e and l 🖤💙💗💚💛🧡💜

@shilohbell1573 4 ай бұрын

That looks like the MOST uncomfortable interview place. I love love love Liz! ❤️

@yasminmaley2237 4 ай бұрын

I’ve missed this series! ❤

@kurenno477 4 ай бұрын

@Liz - YOU ARE MAGIC!!!!!!! Your heart echoes through your intellect, your words. Your clothing to me reflects both your heart, mind, heart-mind combined. Tears of recognition when you spoke of your twelve year old body-self also being present in your adult self - we are all like this, bearing or brandishing, opening or shielding, our hearts. And our hearts, our true unarmed hearts, are with us through all of it. Do you think the more unguarded hearts attract the more guarded ones? And the guarded attack the unguarded because the unguardedness, or willingness to be unguarded regardless of past pain, frightens them, brings them to the edge of what unhealed past wounds are making them feel unsafe in the present? So they act out to externalize their pain, make it the other person’s, not theirs? Grace, dignity and integrity to you always.

@lily__pinto 4 ай бұрын

Love her with all my heart 💗

@jasminag.6358 4 ай бұрын

❤❤You rock girl!

@lace_a_base_1 4 ай бұрын

Wow wow wow. I have new hero, Liz, who is younger but so brave and so enlightened. I feel she is speaking my life. Tres props❤

@Rebecca0010 5 ай бұрын

I love this. I finally came out as lesbian two years ago and I was involved some terrible narcissistic men, wanting to feel pretty in general. ❤

@Mickey2Mad 4 ай бұрын

Being a les pretty much eliminates u from a convo . Because why would lesbians need men lol

@thatsaboysname 4 ай бұрын

True beauty has nothing to do with being pretty. Being pretty is social capital and based on how others perceive you. Being beautiful is when you feel deeply comfortable in your skin. You can feel beautiful brushing your teeth or petting your cat etc. It’s too bad we’ve conflated these terms.

@CharisseKenionYT 4 ай бұрын

Love your videos and found Liz refreshingly real. I also wanted to share I don't enjoy the implications of the word 'childless' - I don't know why it bugs me so much to be honest! I choose not to have kids, and every day I feel more secure in that decision. But there's something about this word that points to lack and I don't enjoy that.

@egl3369 4 ай бұрын

I agree that what we look like is just one of many aspects of who we are, and it feels weird when people hyperfocus on it, or it's the only thing they comment on.

@aliadan22 4 ай бұрын

🖐🏾 hey girl me too! 36, single, no kids and FUCKIN HAPPY, CONTENT AND FULLFILLED!

@ourbeach4001 4 ай бұрын

I'm 37, single and childless, live alone and it feels amazing. Took a while to get here but wow, 10 out of 10

@rachelklein2989 4 ай бұрын

She seemed so beautiful just as they asked her when she feels the most beautiful. Her body but also her essence. I hope she finds peace of soul and body and mind ⭐️.

@lamyyartifex 4 ай бұрын

Wow.. It´s as if someone took the right words and managed to put them in the right order to describe perfectly how I feel in my 30´s❤

@LaurenOliviArt 4 ай бұрын

She’s beautiful!

@RetroNerdGirl 4 ай бұрын

Relatable.

@rosej.234 4 ай бұрын

Beauty. YES.

@whosaidthat4299 5 ай бұрын

I need those bangs 😊

@lyssasletters3232 4 ай бұрын

Wow!!!!!!❤❤❤❤

@randilynn2422 5 ай бұрын

“It could be a musical”. I fucking love that!!!!

@dandeleon23 4 ай бұрын

That was really interesting what she said, her 8 yr old hands are her hands now and vice versa with my very own hands... my body has... grown

@Diesjjj 4 ай бұрын

I wish I could say that I’m happily single & childless. I just feel like a failure.

@bu11ymaguire 3 ай бұрын

Its hard being alone. Those who say otherwise bring dogs cats etc and are still miserable. But if you chose this then you should live in the present without thinking much. Keep yourself open for what you want. If a good guy comes then its good. Otherwise don't rush things ever because it will fail anyways. And always remember that there are people who dont even have stuff to eat or a place to call home. So you shouldn't fret over the future. Take a vow with yourself that you would never panic about thd future, only fear when pain is in present. The problem is usually 10% but our mind makes 100. You will see and accept things for what they are and leave it to the cosmos. You will appreciate the things you have that many dont and will be more accepting of whatever hardships you face. Nobody can do it all. And its ok. The good thing is you are truthful to yourself. This will help you face any hardship. Those who lie can never face and come out with truth. If you are completely truthful to yourself in the present, then you will know you aren't actually suffering in the present, you are suffering thinking about the future..

@Diesjjj 3 ай бұрын

@@bu11ymaguire Thank you for your voice/words of reason. 🫶🏼

@camillecope9960 4 ай бұрын

Brilliant mind, brilliant outfit, brilliant interview!

@carlaalhinho9554 4 ай бұрын

She is so beautiful

@helene6541 4 ай бұрын

What a beautiful, real and considered human. A wonderful interview ❤

@behoney00 5 ай бұрын

Jenna Rink IRL, in an amazing way

@kaylahD_ford 4 ай бұрын

Thirty, flirty and thriving!

@TruthSeekerJunkie 2 ай бұрын

Im curious how many bodies does it take to turn out like this at 36. Living a free spirit will create soul ties to the individuals. Realistically, she want a family and kids as the people who she grew up with has now what to fix whatever issues. It's good she is bold, knowing the truth, and is happy. As a young lady seeing this I will make sure I find a husband that loves me not to turn out like this! I'm now seeing that truth lies within the saying "when you were young, you look like your father and when you get older, you look like your choices"

@lauram4344 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@lwandie260 4 ай бұрын

hope yall can have MONICA PADMAN on in the future

@sharonmassey2923 4 ай бұрын

Style Ladies, I've wanted to ask this for a long time: Why are there two "whys" in your last question?

@if-i-stumble 4 ай бұрын

9:00 growing up in a confusing environment…

@thisisfrenchtouch 4 ай бұрын

I like the concept of stripping literally and figuratively, it's cool and it's always good to hear Liz Plank.

@teacake6941 4 ай бұрын

Liz could write another book just from her experiences on "The Man Enough" podcast

@MarcellJjr 2 ай бұрын

its a new generation and feeling in 2024 vs the 50's. This is our reality now and it's different but like she said ok. This is a choice and she's happy. Im on the oposite end though and want kids one day. hopefully I will find someone this year 🤞🤞happy spouse happy house vibes!

@DorthyanneLarsen 4 ай бұрын

Happily single and childless at 49🎉

@amirtalai 4 ай бұрын

This was uncomfortable for me to watch, but only because the idea of sitting on a tall stool like that made my back hurt LOL

@Modelscoutingwd 4 ай бұрын

We are perfect to begin with, we are just not what they thought we were. Hey, big deal 😅

@GalaxyFluke 4 ай бұрын

I’m 36 but I desire a husband and children and I’m sad I haven’t reached that life milestone

@VS04 4 ай бұрын

My good friend got married at the age 42 and had a baby at 43 with fertility treatment.

@bu11ymaguire 3 ай бұрын

@juletaurus 4 ай бұрын

People still make a fuss when a woman is 36 and single? JFC. You have GOT TO be kidding.

@rNeyshabur 4 ай бұрын

I think if every woman stops to think about it, they’d realise they’ve had disordered eating (maybe even an actual eating disorder) without realising it, cos the need for us to be skinny is beaten into us, and whenever we lose weight it is ALWAYS praised, as though we weren’t as worthy prior to losing it

@figgettit 4 ай бұрын

self-hate personified

@MrPukestick 4 ай бұрын

Oh these are Calvin Kline ads

@minaochoa2729 4 ай бұрын

No disrespect but I pick up some insecurities from this young lady. If you can’t answer the question when do you feel most beautiful???? Is important for all woman to feel empowered and make choices. There is some work to be done from the inside. Sending love ❤️

@juliemoses1909 4 ай бұрын

The thing about Liz Plank, I find her really annoying. Then, I realized she is basically me, only 30 years younger. Kind of disappointing the younger generation has had some of the same experiences I had.

@mokicezario 4 ай бұрын

the karens karening

@joshua_Willson 4 күн бұрын

@inked6880 4 ай бұрын

I just ended up feeling sad after listening to this woman.

@user-bl6rs6rt2s 4 ай бұрын

why ?

@inked6880 4 ай бұрын

I think that she cares about what others think about her too much. Lacks the confidence to say NO, eg, if she was uncomfortable with the idea of doing the interview she would have been able to just say no. Uncomfortable in her own skin, covering herself at the end was uncomfortable to see. Not being able to accept compliments, if someone says something nice about you, just say thanks and accept. Unable to articulate thoughts and feelings very well left me confused as to what she was really trying to say

@Eve_Y 4 ай бұрын

The continuous stream of ads every minute got on my nerves! I couldn't even enjoy the video I clicked on. Why do we live in a society where the content we choose to watch is not what we get, but instead, we are forced to consume capitalism at every turn? It's frustrating!

@fionasimagination 23 күн бұрын

You are actually not in the same body. It's a copy of the same information, but by now all the cells you had as a child have died and you are made up of new cells entirely.

@Futuristbillpicone 2 күн бұрын

Maybe men are happy about this one breaking free..

@snoochieboochies2011 5 ай бұрын

Everyone is put in boxes by people goofy

@maneskinnnnn7190 5 ай бұрын

only by smallminded people goofy

@katjamiranda7138 4 ай бұрын

Every Woman ( and of course man) should own the freedom to live a life they feel good with there is no wrong or.right...sometimes life goes his own path and we should do the best out of it..

@Infinitesimal-ho7it 4 ай бұрын

She was naked from the beginning.

@gabidickson986 5 ай бұрын

Me me me thats all i hear

@miaomiaou_ 4 ай бұрын

It's an interview about her full of questions asked about her. Cmon now lol

@jedidiahspencer3437 2 ай бұрын

Why is she wearing a shower loofah

@yuktim4906 5 ай бұрын

first off, i love your videos. this one is wonderful too. what a fantastic person liz is! how is it, though, that every time a sane us american opens their mouth what comes out sounds like a ted talk? i mean, i guess, you're doing quite a bit of editing here but i've noticed it in conversations as well and it's strange and pretty annoying for many europeans.

@gorgeousguerilla 5 ай бұрын

What do you mean by saying that Americans "sound like a ted talk"? Just a curious European here (FYI she's actually Canadian)

@jumpscare1530 5 ай бұрын

Sounds very rehearsed and inauthentic

@tothemax0729 4 ай бұрын

Already in the first 20 seconds she couldnt properly articulate herself. "And then i uh get into a r.. really *awkward physical gesture* and then yeah itll work" is complete nonesense.

@jeffreybayes7072 4 ай бұрын

What the heck is this? A scripted comedy bit? Kind of seems like it, and I hope that's the case. If not, whoa. Maybe she's choosing the wrong guys or meeting them in the wrong places.

@mariahconklin4150 4 ай бұрын

I don't know who this is but I already don't like her she just seems fake.

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 5 ай бұрын

Liberals make me laugh 🤣

@ima.m.1658 5 ай бұрын

Conservatives make me laugh

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 5 ай бұрын

@@ima.m.1658at least we don't live in clown 🤡 world 😂

@spanian7521 5 ай бұрын

Talking about narcissistic men while abandoning the possibility of potential natural male partner for whom female partner is one for the main reason he exist is pretty narcissistic on it's own...

@keenanmartin7691 5 ай бұрын

WTF are you talking about?

@GetOfflineGetGood 5 ай бұрын

That's not women's responsibility.

@fawng8017 5 ай бұрын

That sounds like a him problem

@nicktaylor6724 4 ай бұрын

just like this sounds like a her problem?@@fawng8017 eye for an eye and the world goes blind...

@keenanmartin7691 4 ай бұрын

@ShoTon1 Firstly, I'm a woman. Secondly, just repeating OP's words is not explaining what they meant. Try harder.

@czipendejs 5 ай бұрын

she looks like a different person and the begining than at the end. I don;t think it's fair, sorry, just imho

@fawng8017 5 ай бұрын

Not fair how?

@czipendejs 4 ай бұрын

@@fawng8017 if man has "fake hair" it's pathetic and funny, right? here - no problem. What would you think if man has hair in the restaurant and then, at home, take them off his head

@fawng8017 4 ай бұрын

@@czipendejs oh I see what you mean... yeah it's really not fair that men aren't socially as free to alter their appearance like women can. but I think if you want to, you should just do it too. why should women be the only ones who can completely change their hairstyle for an outfit?

@czipendejs 4 ай бұрын

@@fawng8017 oh, no, no. I would like to say that women use their "socially as free to alter" to cheat. It;s simple - if I see your photo I believe what I see, but suddenly you have no hair. Not fair and more importantly, how can I trust you if you cheat? Women say "I accept myself" and have fake fingernails, hair, breasts, lips, teeth, nose, eyebrow, etc... By the way, when man use some simple tricks to change themselves women definitely don;t accept that. So, it;s not about "man cannot wear smthing".

@alexagates 5 ай бұрын

I haven’t watched yet but I LOVE LIZ PLANK! I’m going to watch this on the treadmill, I’m so exciteedddd 🥹😍🥳