Saying "I don't know" when you do not know is actually a sign of strength. Lying is a sign of weakness.

I disagree that admitting that one doesn't know something is a sign of weakness. I feel it's a sign of honesty. If I don't know something, I will find out the answer.

The best way to define a person's true personality is... who are they when they think no one is looking? Some people are natural born actors.

I love that you mention it's so important to read multiple signals and not rely on just one. There are so many generalizations when it comes to body language, with truth to them, but to get a true reading of someone, it's essential to keeping mind one's baseline behavior, the context and watch for multiple signals. Thanks for contributing to the body language conversation!

Us introverts are great at reading pretty much anyone. Extreme extroverts often annoy me, no offence.

Being shy does'nt mean they have a weak personality.

When my TV is off, it shows signs it was bullied as a child, when it's on, its confident, sure of itself, and the center of attention.

With saying "I guess" or "I don't know"... that can be a sign of emotional intelligence or honesty, not necessarily a lack of confidence. Sometimes adding "I don't know" lightly after a strong statement allows that statement to be better received by others. Or sometimes you ACTUALLY DON'T KNOW and admitting so shows maturity and courage. This video is full of presumptuous generalisations.

Being able to ready body language accurately is an incredibly helpful quality/skill. People rarely verbally tell you exactly what they really think but the truth will always be revealed very precisely via their body language, unless they've been trained in the CIA to manipulate it lol. I"ve tested out my housemates numerous times with various things by recording their conversations when I'm absent using a digital voice recorder,, and what I hear them say has ALWAYS reflected their body language (when I'm present)) exactly and I mean exactly. You have to be careful to interpret things in context and of course take into account a person's age, gender, state of being at that moment (tired, exhausted, angry, emotional, happy, etc etc), even ambient temperature, all of which affect their body language. Once learned, you can always tell exactly what's going on in a person's mind without them saying a word. It's basically like a superhuman power and it's well worth learning and practicing. One little facial expression given by someone for a fraction of a second can speak volumes about what they actually are thinking/feeling at a given moment, despite what they may say. And one thing I've learned is this. People generally speaking, are polite to another persons' face, not out of kindness and altruism, but through self-preservation. Historically, if you were horrible to the wrong person - in person - you might get a knife to the throat or similar. But being polite and kind always maximised your chances of survival in a cruel world full of dangerous people. Over time, we as a species have developed 'manners' to help us survive, it has nothing to do with caring about the other person necessarily. And so we see people being 'kind' when directly in front of another person, and yet super aggressive and mean when sheltered/protected, for example, by their vehicle. This is precisely why this is the case and is something I've learned through watching people and analysing their body language and behaviour. When in your vehicle, your survival is more dependent on another's approach to driving than it is on your own personal behaviour, and so we get angry when someone 'endangers' our well-being. This is why manners go out the window, at least much of the time. There are no hard and fast rules, of course there are many exceptions and a person may 'let someone in' however they're not actually doing it because they care about the other person, they're doing it because it makes them look 'good' and 'kind' and others are more inclined to then be 'kind' to them. EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING boils down to survival and reproduction. From manners to falling in love, to emotions, to friendships and relationships, to money. Everything revolves around our own survival and the passing on of our own DNA to the next generation. It's inherently built in to every single thing we feel and do in life. It's all absolutely fascinating and when you truly understand what is going on and why, it makes life pretty easy actually. Good luck to you all in life. And happy people watching! Love and peace!

“The introvert needs time to recharge being alone when meeting many people.” You could not have said it better thank you!

"Yeah, I guess" can mean disinterest in the questions, annoyed or just agreeing to leave the questions. There are variables.

11:55 Bad example: wearing all black at a gym. - Black is a known slimming illusion - Black is a neutral color that’d make it easy to wear to a place like a gym where how u look isn’t as important, also harder to appear dirty - virtually everyone grown up in modern society felt “bullied or weak” as a child at some point - it’s more so the narratives you want to create in interpreting people

A personality can’t be weak, a personality is their traits , the real personality traits eg funny or nice cannot be ‘weak’ they just have different traits maybe not as loud but under the surface still have a good personality

Ah eye contact that one threw me off I was chatting to a girl at the bar and suddenly her pupils enlarged turns out she was sniffing some substances 🤣

00:47 "according to science, the human mind and body are directly linked" No shit...

Not looking someone straight in the eye isn't always a sign of weakness. I totally look through people sometimes because I don't want a deeper connection with them, especially if I have cause to have my guard up. I'm highly sensitive to other's energy and will limit our contact, including physical.

You are about 75% accurate with most of your assessments.

You forgot the ambivert which has both introvert and extrovert traits. An introvert or extrovert can become a ambivert and also can return to their introvert or extrovert personality.

Yes, emotional intelligence is one of the most helpful concepts I've ever learned and studied EVER!

Your videos have completely changed my life. When i go anywhere people respect me especially girls I can read their body language and they are very attracted to me they will always look for ways to strike up a conversation with me. One thing i have learned in life is that if you make yourself less available, talk less and play hard to get, people will always respect you because they can't understand you that's how it works.

Your videos are great. Out of all the self improvement channels of KZfaq, your channel is the most helpful, keep it up.

Ohhhhhh his TV is black! How suspicious of him

I’ve always been naturally good on reading people and body language but learning more about it has made me even better 😂

In so many ways no. This video is so incorrect with bias, sweeping statements.

most of the info is good... you can't be too quick to judge people though. Maybe the color black just matches his hair color and looks good on him

Lol you gotta quit using dead space music.

Its called being an empath. It's a gift from God.

This video is so much filled with information its crazy, it seems like a full book in a video. Great job!

I am exactly that guy wearing all black at the gym and I use to be physically and emotionally weak... good stuff bro

I love micro expressions.

Art of war: act strong when you are weak and weak when you are strong. Sure use body language but that does not mean make assumptions about people... that will get you in big trouble.

You had me agreeing with almost everything and sort of at a neutral for the stuff I didn’t just fully agree with... until you got to wearing Black. I wear all black at the gym, going out, in a lot of situations actually. I choose black because it is one of my favorite base colors to layer color on. Red and black is a favorite combination. My business colors are yellow and black. So I would disagree that it comes from a dark place or that no one would know why they do it. Great videos, keep em coming.

SORRY but this is stupid, sometimes being humble and kind makes people look week. you will never know a person until you really know them and even then they might surprise you

You talk about this like you properly know what you're on about but the fact is that this school of psychology fell out of fashion in the early twentieth century. It's Freudian Psychoanalysis and does have some good points to make but issuing blanket statements about someone's personality due to the colour of their clothing is simply wrong. Take for example your man in the gym. What other reasons are there that he would wear all black? The behaviourist may say that he looked up to his dad, and when he used to work out with his dad as a kid, his dad would always wear black, so the behaviour is replicated. The cognitive psychologist may say that his school's sports kit was always black, so when he thinks of sports kit, the schema he has built up in his head of what a sports kit needs to look like will include that it is black. The evolutionary psychologist may suggest that because this man feels that the gym is a scary place, he instinctively wears colours associated with distance and power. The humanist psychologist would hug him and ask why but humanists aren't very god psychologists so we'll overlook them. The point is that you can't make huge sweeping statements about a person's character and past from something like clothing. Much more digging is required to figure out why a person acts like they do, and while the Freudian interpretation makes sense on the surface, without the introduction of other psychological techniques it's simple armchair psychology.

This Video helped me to understand a basic concept of life... In the last two years i took a deeper look into spirituality and the hermetic principles. Currently I´m thinking about the principle of cause and effect. Although I have already seen similar videos in the past, I was able to fully understand the cause of body language and behavior. Thanks for making this video!

The music is so inappropriate it makes you feel like you're listening to a horror story 😅

Walking style plot twist: im in a wheelchair

I love the background soundtrack with this video.

I wear black because it is easier for work ~ looks more professional. I spend less time choosing my wardrobe items. I am lazy. Not because I want power. 😂🤣😂🤣

I feel like a lot of this is only accurate some of the time. People aren't always as consistent as this suggests. Also, he talks about being able to read people, when really its more about making assumptions about people. I think the part about people's eyes dilating is probably fairly accurate, but there could be a lot of reasons someone is walking or speaking a certain way given whatever they are dealing with that day, the topic they are discussing, or whatever else may be having an effect on them.

You're consistently one upping yourself video after video! Keep it up, your videos are as good as gold.

My car and the rest of my junk is not an extension of my personality, It's what I can afford.

Dwayne "the rock" Johnson was exactly that - putting tons of muscles. He was bullied as a kid and grew up to be what he is right now. Good thing is he became an accomplished as an adult.

I'm the oldest.. and I got no attention. LOL, I guess my upbringing contradicts this video... I was forgotten even... so I learned how to be self-sufficient. My middle and youngest sisters were taken care of emotionally and financially. Even tho I was the ONLY obedient and responsible child in the family, bringing in excellent grades, no boyfriends to distract me... I only received criticism, and no help financially after high school. HA! Even today in our 40's my parents bought them new construction homes 2016 and 2018, and I live in a dusty old home built in 1980. LOL

I can read people and you just make me more better

Damn its true i always wear black cloths and excersise so i can dissapear my suffering, i dont excerise to be like most of the guys who wanna atrract and show off to girls, but i see it as a way i can find calm compared to the people who drink and they think beer will take their suffering away

I love how to talk a lot about the behaviors of the oldest child and youngest child but very briefly address the middle child just as they are raised

I’m an introvert therefore i can expand my mind into the 5th dimension and read peoples thoughts, and personalities. I can also go through walls without disrupting matter.

Perfect as always, i love your channel since 1000 subscribers ♥ ♥ ♥

This shit is life changing!!!

Very interesting. I learned as a child that this world is extremely complicated and if you want to attain your goals, you need to concentrate on it day and night. By developing a concentration level which is very high, I always get what I want in this life. Another secret that has served me well is that nothing is ever what it seems to be and women are subject to change at a moments notice, which is also cool because by women in my reality changing, it gives me something to always think about because I love a challenge.

Thank you so much. Komol tata. Video. Excited. Happy. Healthy video.

I'm the oldest sibling but also the only child in two different families. My parents divorced right after I was born, I'm sure I have multiple differences in birth order psychology. But I'm usually the dominant leader of all groups as a result of this, I was always required to lead as a child.

Way to brush over the middle child...just like everyone else!

Smart. Video. Thank you so much. Video. Excited. Video. Excited. Happy. Healthy. Video.

this is why i can hear the same sentence as someone by the same person and get a different meaning...love this video.

Great video! SO MUCH INFO on Psychology packed in here!

I love this video because it explains a lot of my personality. Can you give me your sources? I really want to go deeper on this subject. Do you have a book to recommend? Thanks!

Passivity doesn’t mean you have a weak personality at all. Passive people are usually calm under a lot of situations, and portraying a serene mind state during challenging circumstances is a great power to have that a lot of “active” personality people can’t practice because they are either subject to their emotions or passion

True so very true. I grew up so poor even those dirt poor were well to do in comparison. I was bullied and a loner. I learned how to handle bullies by ignoring them or using words instead of force. Allowing me to now be very good negotiator, I make certain of my money, bills are priority, then food, next gas, last misc. I try to improve myself by learning or studying others I can relate to.

keep in mind a lot of this is generalizations. I’m the youngest child and i got a hell of a lot more attention than my older sister yet i’m the one who loves to wear expensive brands and likes to show off and she like to wear low key things like thrift shop type clothes

Great video - so insightful and the illustrations make what could be a complex topic so much simpler, easier to digest.

I learned more about myself from this video than my entire life. Great video

This is so true, I used to be picked on when I was in middle school. That’s y I joined the gym and became one of the most muscular kids in my highschool

"According to science"

I don’t like this video! First the BG music is annoying because it makes me think something creepy is about to happen!!! Also about the content... We can use words differently and walk differently based on the situation! Just to say these are weak people and those are strong is too general and judgmental.

I don't know why, but these kinds of videos bring out the superiority complex in people. In every video I watch on this topic without fail, theres always at least one. It's a bit unsettling.

I like people who say I don't know if they don't know i can work with someone like that. We can find out together but if you act like you know and you have no clue you have loss me as a person in your life. And we weren't compatible so it's better that way.

women show sexual interest only through body language. ...but most. dudes still believe that she gonna let you know through verbal.... communication.🙄

The background music was used for Mass Effect 3 :)

Btw love the videos.. I'm glad to hear that someone out here in the world is dropping knowledgeable things that are truly going on in the world!!

Excellent video keep up the good work. Do more about this video.

The actions placed upon you as a child ultimately DO play a solid, (albeit subconscious), PART into Adulthood. This is inevitable and true! And although generalizations are undoubtedly presented, many aspects of this video are totally SPOT ON! Thank YOU! 🌿💕🌿

Hey hey hey, 2:12 , do you see a candle stick, or two faces!?

very insightful...love the sense of mystique in the background music. very stirring of mystery. haha

According to science the mind and body are linked..... seriously 😂😂😂👌 mind blown

you're brilliantly genius freind.

Ambiverts be like: *what do you mean*

When I lie I make sure to look at them in the eye holding it for 15 seconds then I'll smoothly avert my eyes and try to occupy myself into doing something. My sister's a psychologist even had her masters degree, and her being a psychologist just helps me bettering myself on my manipulation skills. I'm an Ambivert btw, and an INTP type. That's why I'm very good at being analytical and perceptive.

Love is what allows you to move millions of people, to rally them, to inspire them, to give them a vision to do something, love is what allows you to land someone on the moon, love is what allows you to tackle slavery or oppression of other sorts, love is what allows you to care about the environment, clean up the environment, to create better schools and that's ultimately all that people want. What do people want in the world? They want to be able to love. To love their family, to love their children, to love their nation and then to go beyond that and smoke DMT. Then we made love. Or rather we had an experience that vaguely related to making love but was a thing unto itself. We were both howling and singing in the glossolalia of DMT, rolling over the ground with everything awash in crawling, geometric hallucinations. She was transformed; words exist to describe what she became - pure anima, Kali, Leucothea, something erotic but not human, something addressed to the species and not to the individual, glittering with the possibility of cannibalism, madness, space, and extinction. She seemed on the edge of devouring me. “Reality was shattered. This kind of fucking occurs at the very limit of what is possible. Everything had been transformed into orgasm and visible, chattering oceans of elf language. Then I saw that where our bodies were glued together there was flowing, out of her, over me, over the floor of the roof, flowing everywhere, some sort of obsidian liquid, something dark and glittering, with color and lights within it. After the DMT flash, after the seizures of orgasms, after all that, this new thing shocked me to the core. What was this fluid and what was going on? I looked at it. I looked right into it, and it was the surface of my own mind reflected in front of me. Was it translinguistic matter, the living opalescent excrescence of the alchemical abyss of hyperspace, something generated by the sex act performed under such crazy conditions? I looked into it again and now saw in it the lama who taught me Tibetan, who would have been asleep a mile away. In the fluid I saw him, in the company of a monk I had never seen; they were looking into a mirrored plate. Then I realized that they were watching me! I could not understand it. I looked away from the fluid and away from my companion, so intense was her aura of strangeness.²

By "Strong/Weak Personalities," I think you mean "Extroverted/Introverted."

This may be somewhat accurate, but their are way too many variables he's not even mentioned.

Brother watching this class 1.5 years latter and wow not that same guy your amazing haven’t made it whit women’s yet but everywhere else is amazing thanks again brother ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

Wow bravoe, very well said and put together

What's wrong with living with your parents the entire life? You pay less for water, electricity, gas, rental if youre renting the house....provide em support if they have problems or they can help you... Why the concept of family has changed so much in 50 years? You wanna live alone? It's ok Wanna live with ur parents? It's ok You meet someone who wants to go to another place and you have to leave your parents in the future? It's ok FFS stop stigmatization of people that keep live with theyr parents

Ambivert problems: "You're so outgoing and extroverted, why dont you go greet so and so?" Me **mumbles**: oh god no ill stutter again or I'll say the wrong thing or... **anxiety attack** Another day: "You're so quiet, maybe you should sit in the corner to do the paperwork while we work with the customers?" Me **practically yelling**: please no... I need attention and love I wanna make a new friend and give them cookies, maybe they'll become my roommate! Wtf mind why you do me like this WHERE DO I FALL?!

This video is based on Sigmund Freud and Adolf Adler's theory. Placing importance on The children experiences , birth order . They were Psychoanalysts however their theory were criticised saying that their approach were more philosophical rather than scientific in nature but we can't deny their theories. Appreciate ur video

When the “according to science” statement came up I tuned out

If my face is scruffy then I wear all black. It matches me better. Besides that, at the gym I tend to match colors. Red with red, blue w blue and so forth. There's always outside variables interacting with why a person does what they do. Good video!

Great video! Your such a smart person 👌🏼👌🏼

Great Content Thank You Ffa Cough, sniff dishonest I think guess...weak persona Strong voi Look at many signs Eyes hold Black dark power Walk

I have severe anxiety and to make eye contact for longer than a second is a struggle to me, I refuse to believe I have a weak personality

Your definition of a weak and strong personality is warped and negates the advantage and disadvantage of displaying such traits

Bro your videos are awesome don’t get me wrong . But this is very subjective man . So much Half truths , sounds like your just having fun and talking . I️ get the message but make sure to mention that what your saying is from your own experience, research, or what you’ve observed in your own life . This isn’t 100% truth

Is this why actors are so versatile? Because they’ve mastered the art of body language?

12:12 - Good points but if you have a tv any colour other than black or grey you probably put milk in before the cereal

you should write a book

Amazing as always

Watched this high asf now my mind is completely blown... it always goes back to proving something and it’s some how always connected wtf

Black and grey wearer here. Quite accurate