Saying "I don't know" when you do not know is actually a sign of strength. Lying is a sign of weakness.
@310rko5 жыл бұрын
And humility
@tommythenice67995 жыл бұрын
Yes i totally agree, i hate to see other people trying every acrobacy conceivable just to avoid saying the words "i don't know"... I think is so childish and immature!
@nickleach85895 жыл бұрын
Yeah i was thinking the same thing lol i don't get how saying i don't know when you actually don't know makes you weak? So somehow by not knowing something means your weak? Lol
@courtneyjenkins59835 жыл бұрын
I think he was referring to those people who when asked to make a decision or asked what they want always say I don’t know.... I used to be like this. It displays a lack of confidence. But I agree, saying I don’t know in response to an actual question being asked is a sign of strength and vulnerability.
@unit47525 жыл бұрын
When I say I don't know its usually one of two reasons 1. I honestly don't know 2. I honestly don't give a shit. E.g "go left or right it doesn't matter"
@jpjp91116 жыл бұрын
I disagree that admitting that one doesn't know something is a sign of weakness. I feel it's a sign of honesty. If I don't know something, I will find out the answer.
@idktbh30076 жыл бұрын
Jp Jp exactly what i was thinking. It can also mean you have no interest in the subject.
@demoncore53426 жыл бұрын
Depends on how does your "I don't know" sound like. It can be honest and powerful, an apology, or a civil way to tell "I do not give a fuck (about you)"...
@DK-gw9jk6 жыл бұрын
Jp Jp Only a fool knows everything...
@jpjp91116 жыл бұрын
DK600 Yes, that is 100% correct. With each answer springs more questions. Thus the smarter we get, the dumber we become.
@DK-gw9jk6 жыл бұрын
Jp Jp Not sure how that works. Its perfectly fine not to know everything. I think its schools that teach us that we are dumb not to know answers.
@hanksmith85254 жыл бұрын
The best way to define a person's true personality is... who are they when they think no one is looking? Some people are natural born actors.
@maremike26912 жыл бұрын
Happens to me a lot. When I'm around people I know, I am completely shy, to show my true self. But on parties with just my friends, who I know would not judge me, I am a different person. Sometimes I just see myself changing, like from a third person perspective. It's like a switch inside me.
@pepito692 жыл бұрын
@@maremike2691 you meant when you're around people you don't know? I'm the same way
@dollydagger84922 жыл бұрын
"Person" originated from the word 'persona' which in Latin means mask. So in some countries once turning a certain age you denounce your title and go to the woods for like a month and find out who you really are...because we are only what others tell us, and words separate things, so if you can see what the world looks like without labeling with words then that is true enlightenment. These "actors" figured out the God-drama. Really, they are all you and without your perception they wouldn't exist.. like do you breathe or does it breathe you? So everything outside of your physical self is technically you, and your physical self just a way of experiencing ones self. So rather than thinking a person is the same person because that is who they are look at it rather another way the universe is trying to express itself to you or itself persay..theory of relativity is we are the environment we are in, so, really it's all you. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk...
@MartaKeller5 жыл бұрын
I love that you mention it's so important to read multiple signals and not rely on just one. There are so many generalizations when it comes to body language, with truth to them, but to get a true reading of someone, it's essential to keeping mind one's baseline behavior, the context and watch for multiple signals. Thanks for contributing to the body language conversation!
@AudreyC3796 жыл бұрын
Us introverts are great at reading pretty much anyone. Extreme extroverts often annoy me, no offence.
@Andihitshandis5 жыл бұрын
Audrey me too.. I stay away from em at all costs
@iamsquidzy5 жыл бұрын
Audrey I only prefer non attention seeking extroverts, ones that are naturally talkative & fun to be around
@yureft5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about being me. I didn't notice that you were uncomfortable since I'm an extroverted person.
@Darth_Skater5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I really just can't tolerate loud people. I enjoy being able to hear myself think and naturally reciprocate this to others. I am not in the middle, and unfortunately, extremes tend to clash.
@lukedubyuh31845 жыл бұрын
@Ghaz Laz hahahhaa
@barbiesdiary50166 жыл бұрын
Being shy does'nt mean they have a weak personality.
@TheMooseMan255 жыл бұрын
For most it does though. They're just not confident to show it.
@user-cv3uk1qe1o5 жыл бұрын
Barbie's Diary yes it does
@queenv31755 жыл бұрын
But it does.
@ItzzNoxygen5 жыл бұрын
Yes it does... XD
@pelinkizilkus38845 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by weak personality?
@a.c.7494 жыл бұрын
When my TV is off, it shows signs it was bullied as a child, when it's on, its confident, sure of itself, and the center of attention.
@maxpayne9304 жыл бұрын
And i avoid eye contact not because i don,t like pple it,s cos i am weak u see:)
@-sorrymasendeshita-30394 жыл бұрын
i’m an only child, but i disagree with the confidence, attention seeking, and arrogant part. i am insecure, not confident, i feel powerless, and i straight up don’t care about most things
@tinkinova45945 жыл бұрын
With saying "I guess" or "I don't know"... that can be a sign of emotional intelligence or honesty, not necessarily a lack of confidence. Sometimes adding "I don't know" lightly after a strong statement allows that statement to be better received by others. Or sometimes you ACTUALLY DON'T KNOW and admitting so shows maturity and courage. This video is full of presumptuous generalisations.
@blazepyre48705 жыл бұрын
It comes down to how you say it. If you say it in a way that shows that you accept your inexperience in a subject, you will be seen as more confident. However, if you say it in a way that indicates that you aren't willing to own what you say, or are otherwise insecure of others perceptions of your statement, you will look less confident.
@blackspiderman18874 жыл бұрын
saying "I guess" from my experience usually shows lack of confident. It's not saying the person isn't confident but maybe the question he was asked makes him not confident about making that choice. For example, If my girlfriend ask me "Do you want to watch 'The Notebook' with me tomorrow"? (Assuming I never saw it) And i respond, "Sure, I guess"..........................I'm not really confident about watching that movie. I dont' think i will find it interesting but because my girlfriend likes it I will watch it for her sake. Now if she ask me "Do you want to go watch Avengers Infinity War tomorrow" (assuming I never seen it before)I will respond "Heck Yeah"..........................See the difference. The first one I wasn't confident about watching the movie while the second question I was more confident because I expect based on my past experience that I will enjoy the movie. So there is some truth to what this youtuber is saying.
@shaunbarnett29724 жыл бұрын
Being able to ready body language accurately is an incredibly helpful quality/skill. People rarely verbally tell you exactly what they really think but the truth will always be revealed very precisely via their body language, unless they've been trained in the CIA to manipulate it lol. I"ve tested out my housemates numerous times with various things by recording their conversations when I'm absent using a digital voice recorder,, and what I hear them say has ALWAYS reflected their body language (when I'm present)) exactly and I mean exactly. You have to be careful to interpret things in context and of course take into account a person's age, gender, state of being at that moment (tired, exhausted, angry, emotional, happy, etc etc), even ambient temperature, all of which affect their body language. Once learned, you can always tell exactly what's going on in a person's mind without them saying a word. It's basically like a superhuman power and it's well worth learning and practicing. One little facial expression given by someone for a fraction of a second can speak volumes about what they actually are thinking/feeling at a given moment, despite what they may say. And one thing I've learned is this. People generally speaking, are polite to another persons' face, not out of kindness and altruism, but through self-preservation. Historically, if you were horrible to the wrong person - in person - you might get a knife to the throat or similar. But being polite and kind always maximised your chances of survival in a cruel world full of dangerous people. Over time, we as a species have developed 'manners' to help us survive, it has nothing to do with caring about the other person necessarily. And so we see people being 'kind' when directly in front of another person, and yet super aggressive and mean when sheltered/protected, for example, by their vehicle. This is precisely why this is the case and is something I've learned through watching people and analysing their body language and behaviour. When in your vehicle, your survival is more dependent on another's approach to driving than it is on your own personal behaviour, and so we get angry when someone 'endangers' our well-being. This is why manners go out the window, at least much of the time. There are no hard and fast rules, of course there are many exceptions and a person may 'let someone in' however they're not actually doing it because they care about the other person, they're doing it because it makes them look 'good' and 'kind' and others are more inclined to then be 'kind' to them. EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING boils down to survival and reproduction. From manners to falling in love, to emotions, to friendships and relationships, to money. Everything revolves around our own survival and the passing on of our own DNA to the next generation. It's inherently built in to every single thing we feel and do in life. It's all absolutely fascinating and when you truly understand what is going on and why, it makes life pretty easy actually. Good luck to you all in life. And happy people watching! Love and peace!
@damiandennis37402 жыл бұрын
Make a book lol
@Try_Again_Garage Жыл бұрын
You made a great point here
@MrGuggisberg Жыл бұрын
For decades, I have attempted to mask or mute my emotions and microreactions, because I noticed people get offended by my expressions or that they were gunning for my reaction. It strongly annoys me when people try to read my face or emotions, as I am proactively neutral or stoic. I imagine your methods work on a majority of non self-aware people, or those too in their feelings. It's too bad those types make it the norm behavior.
@legendarylightyagamiimmanu18215 жыл бұрын
“The introvert needs time to recharge being alone when meeting many people.” You could not have said it better thank you!
@carrie76365 жыл бұрын
"Yeah, I guess" can mean disinterest in the questions, annoyed or just agreeing to leave the questions. There are variables.
@DG-bi2yj4 жыл бұрын
11:55 Bad example: wearing all black at a gym. - Black is a known slimming illusion - Black is a neutral color that’d make it easy to wear to a place like a gym where how u look isn’t as important, also harder to appear dirty - virtually everyone grown up in modern society felt “bullied or weak” as a child at some point - it’s more so the narratives you want to create in interpreting people
@leokins25363 жыл бұрын
Agree with this as well. I wear black to the gym because its a neutral colour and white gets dirty easily.
@beautifulflower13443 жыл бұрын
I wear black every day all 😂I just love the colour,it's simple,classic and goes with anything
@roseccy26665 жыл бұрын
A personality can’t be weak, a personality is their traits , the real personality traits eg funny or nice cannot be ‘weak’ they just have different traits maybe not as loud but under the surface still have a good personality
@RedZero205 жыл бұрын
Good personality and weak personality are two different things. Someone could have a great but weak personality and vice versa. Also environment/situation matters, which I'm pretty sure is mentioned in video.
@liadanryan-gerhardt71895 жыл бұрын
Elle Gibbson: excellent point. If you wouldn't mind expanding on the difference between good and weak personality, please
@MrURBETTA5 жыл бұрын
So traits can definitely be weak. By weak I mean not good for anyone. Arrogance, stubbornness, lying, depressed, mad, all traits that can go into someone's personality that do not help them in life. Remember were all human, every personality trait exists in all of us, it's just up to us to let out what we want. We have to learn to control our own personality. I know this to be possible because I used to get mad super easy, didn't like it, so I thought to myself(because it's all in your head, your mind), what can I do to stop getting so mad. Everyone has their own way, same thing can be done for any emotion. Knowledge is power, knowing how to control ones emotion makes an extremely powerful human. Not knowing can lead to being very weak, probably a good person, nice person, but not strong. Btw every heard a woman say she doesnt like nice guys because they are too weak?
@greyrock9284 жыл бұрын
Everyone has the capacity to be weak. It's not strength u Exhibit by ignoring your weaknesses and presenting them as a strength. Delusional and not self aware is the label I would call a person who thinks like that. Everyone has weakness somewhere. Nothing to be ashamed about. Know thyself and work on self improvement
@lifeofty84565 жыл бұрын
Ah eye contact that one threw me off I was chatting to a girl at the bar and suddenly her pupils enlarged turns out she was sniffing some substances 🤣
@jrlopez1027.4 жыл бұрын
FBI OPEN UP
@trishannan81254 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 crack up
@maxpayne9304 жыл бұрын
@@jrlopez1027. Did u bring warrant? FBI-no Good then fuck of cos i am holding flame thrower:)
@StumpStudioPlays4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@ifroxxx12265 жыл бұрын
00:47 "according to science, the human mind and body are directly linked" No shit...
@shivunplugged96755 жыл бұрын
Not looking someone straight in the eye isn't always a sign of weakness. I totally look through people sometimes because I don't want a deeper connection with them, especially if I have cause to have my guard up. I'm highly sensitive to other's energy and will limit our contact, including physical.
@shivunplugged96755 жыл бұрын
@FuckYou PayM3 no it would make the average person weak, it makes me smart. You'd have to have a spiritual nature to understand.
@lindar.48825 жыл бұрын
Shiv Unplugged Me too.
@aronhighgrove41005 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it can be a sign of submission, *but* it can also be a sign of respect where you are in the stronger position, and don't want to make the other person feel awkward or analyzed. People far too often assume only one possible reason and then jump to conclusions.
@tlc9384 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree
@Zimbeshte4 жыл бұрын
Yesss🔥🔥🔥
@elvischambers31786 жыл бұрын
You are about 75% accurate with most of your assessments.
@stablebodycontrol21866 жыл бұрын
I think the same, but he explains very well the 75% with a nice music.
@THaNaS1s6 жыл бұрын
He cant talk abour everything in one vid
@KevsUploads6 жыл бұрын
Y'all don't listen at all.
@rollercoasterwolfboy67956 жыл бұрын
Elvis Chambers whats not accurate?
@stargirlvampire6 жыл бұрын
You forgot the ambivert which has both introvert and extrovert traits. An introvert or extrovert can become a ambivert and also can return to their introvert or extrovert personality.
@marmac835 жыл бұрын
A characteristic shared by most human beings.
@smmusicplus964 жыл бұрын
Seems like a balanced approach. Healthy even.
@jamesreardon14724 жыл бұрын
Yea, amd all 3 can become a lil uzi vert
@miikahardy52424 жыл бұрын
James Reardon HAHAHAHAHA
@erinstott83615 жыл бұрын
Yes, emotional intelligence is one of the most helpful concepts I've ever learned and studied EVER!
@jounmtripple5845 жыл бұрын
Your videos have completely changed my life. When i go anywhere people respect me especially girls I can read their body language and they are very attracted to me they will always look for ways to strike up a conversation with me. One thing i have learned in life is that if you make yourself less available, talk less and play hard to get, people will always respect you because they can't understand you that's how it works.
@colton13686 жыл бұрын
Your videos are great. Out of all the self improvement channels of KZfaq, your channel is the most helpful, keep it up.
@mimicloving5 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhh his TV is black! How suspicious of him
@EnderTitan5 жыл бұрын
This is honestly hilarious.
@weo1weo1weo15 жыл бұрын
looool
@brianchatman97104 жыл бұрын
Lmao well we must all be trynna summon Satan cause I haven't seen too many TVs that arent black
@mylovesongs24294 жыл бұрын
I have two Samsung HDTV's that are black. Oooh! Beware of me! I am wicked!
@officiallyaries47254 жыл бұрын
Um mY Tv Is PuRpLE So Im A ShOW OfF
@Zbxwzz3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always been naturally good on reading people and body language but learning more about it has made me even better 😂
@stevelenores56372 жыл бұрын
Go read a book. This is a horrible video on body language.
@artemtsarevskiy27852 жыл бұрын
It’s not really horrible, it just leaves a lot unsaid because a short video won’t cover all of this science
@SamoreIntuitiveChats2 жыл бұрын
Same
@tinkinova45945 жыл бұрын
In so many ways no. This video is so incorrect with bias, sweeping statements.
@adamwinkler41485 жыл бұрын
They're called stereotypes. Naturally they don't apply to everyone
@Djk12464 жыл бұрын
“AcCorDIng to ScIEnCe”
@BB-yc6ow4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God for real this dude is armchairing it big time!he says some pretty f****** stupid things during this I watched a couple of his other videos and was like yeah he's all right and then I watch this and I was like holy crap
@1life7444 жыл бұрын
@Crebs Park what happened to you in childhood that made you this angry?
@gamesake9994 жыл бұрын
He's the guy in training mode explaining why he's the best because he's mastered combos. Goes into a match, and gets bodied.
@elishi68056 жыл бұрын
most of the info is good... you can't be too quick to judge people though. Maybe the color black just matches his hair color and looks good on him
@droryud6 жыл бұрын
Lol you gotta quit using dead space music.
@333rdAlchemist6 жыл бұрын
Dror Yuditski I never noticed lmao
@strongwill36376 жыл бұрын
Dror Yuditski lol it's to make the video more suspenseful
@yanzhong99876 жыл бұрын
Dror Yuditski hell yeah. I watched it at midnight all dark. Something just dropped, so scary with this bgm on😂
@hackman36 жыл бұрын
Dror Yuditski 🤣🤣😂😂😆😆😆😆some people use headphones the music is loud on headphones lmao. i thought it was only me
@AlexisMaria5 жыл бұрын
Creeping me out!
@ItCantRainForever25 жыл бұрын
Its called being an empath. It's a gift from God.
@DontbeF00Iish2 жыл бұрын
This video is so much filled with information its crazy, it seems like a full book in a video. Great job!
@noahrainville4506 жыл бұрын
I am exactly that guy wearing all black at the gym and I use to be physically and emotionally weak... good stuff bro
@ContinualImprovement6 жыл бұрын
I love micro expressions.
@CluelessEngineer6 жыл бұрын
Continual Improvement I love microagressions
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@kaisersozshye25255 жыл бұрын
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@Dorlinedainwen4 жыл бұрын
Art of war: act strong when you are weak and weak when you are strong. Sure use body language but that does not mean make assumptions about people... that will get you in big trouble.
@ripka174 жыл бұрын
You had me agreeing with almost everything and sort of at a neutral for the stuff I didn’t just fully agree with... until you got to wearing Black. I wear all black at the gym, going out, in a lot of situations actually. I choose black because it is one of my favorite base colors to layer color on. Red and black is a favorite combination. My business colors are yellow and black. So I would disagree that it comes from a dark place or that no one would know why they do it. Great videos, keep em coming.
@alfredtheassassin_ Жыл бұрын
Im glad someone agrees. Black is a practical color that goes with anything as well as white and sometimes even blue .
@kimlarso9 ай бұрын
@@alfredtheassassin_and gray 😊
@zereacristosnew66346 жыл бұрын
SORRY but this is stupid, sometimes being humble and kind makes people look week. you will never know a person until you really know them and even then they might surprise you
@davidhenningson47825 жыл бұрын
Used to frustrate me when I'd try to be nice to someone (how I was raised in my conservative Christian family)... and occasionally a person would interpret that "gesture" as "a sign of weakness." People are always trying to figure each other out, usually takes some time to master.
@kaiekaie5 жыл бұрын
kris so i do my best to be mindful because life experiences made me humble, (hey that rhymes lol) but I am also confident. Many have noticed my walk and my ‘talk’. I choose certain words and understand that phrases said and how it’s said makes an impact. I remain kind even if a conversation may get aggressive, I stay mindful. The generalization that a humble and kind person is weak has it’s exceptions. It helps to truly know yourself. People cant make this judgement just as you said, “you will never really know a person.... and even then they might surprise you”
@rawr71795 жыл бұрын
Very very true!
@nataliek8785 жыл бұрын
Listen, psychology is a very diverse field. You have to realize that these types of videos NEED to be taken with a GRAIN OF SALT. Psychology is a proven science, BUT it's based around theories. It takes EXTENSIVE research to truly understand when to apply each bit of knowledge on body language to another person. These can be referred to as "clusters". Body language clusters need to be looked for when assessing a person based on their microexpressions. Again, if you can't grasp theories, psychological analysis will be hard for you since psychology isn't based on concrete facts, it's based on knowing what to look for and in what condition it is taking place.
@haicimchase50285 жыл бұрын
David Henningson I learned to know myself and master myself rather than try to figure somebody out. I need to be aware of what I’m doing rather than someone else.
@blueyognog6 жыл бұрын
You talk about this like you properly know what you're on about but the fact is that this school of psychology fell out of fashion in the early twentieth century. It's Freudian Psychoanalysis and does have some good points to make but issuing blanket statements about someone's personality due to the colour of their clothing is simply wrong. Take for example your man in the gym. What other reasons are there that he would wear all black? The behaviourist may say that he looked up to his dad, and when he used to work out with his dad as a kid, his dad would always wear black, so the behaviour is replicated. The cognitive psychologist may say that his school's sports kit was always black, so when he thinks of sports kit, the schema he has built up in his head of what a sports kit needs to look like will include that it is black. The evolutionary psychologist may suggest that because this man feels that the gym is a scary place, he instinctively wears colours associated with distance and power. The humanist psychologist would hug him and ask why but humanists aren't very god psychologists so we'll overlook them. The point is that you can't make huge sweeping statements about a person's character and past from something like clothing. Much more digging is required to figure out why a person acts like they do, and while the Freudian interpretation makes sense on the surface, without the introduction of other psychological techniques it's simple armchair psychology.
@deathblaizer5 жыл бұрын
You make some valid points there, I will say however i noticed alot of these traits showing in friends of mine. So some of this information is true.
@Tammylovesyou915 жыл бұрын
Bernard Castleby thanks for your anecdotal evidence Bernard. I believe it now.
@kewi15 жыл бұрын
To be honest, semi of this stuff is true but what you stated as well is also true. People started giving colors meaning since the Boston Tea Party. Purple was all the rave in the rich and wealthy department; as for white was a sense of purity. As for now Red represents being a blood and blue a Crip, which I find ridiculous. All these colors are owned by the color wheel. I like red cause of it being a nice color, doesn't mean I'm associated in a gang. Same with wearing certain clothes that get passed for you being a fan of team or something in school this is very common.
@blazepyre48705 жыл бұрын
To test if these statements are true in others, you need to see multiple patterns of behavior which point to a certain kind of thought process. So you are correct in a sense, but the information can still be useful.
@thethinkingbeing98175 жыл бұрын
Chief Whip Haha Dude I was wearing a bunch of tacky clothes and then I went on a talent show. I did most of the singing in my group and I was actually pretty good. Then for some reason the majority of the girls in my group were sitting in a sort of circle around me... 😏
@kollegahbitchez5 жыл бұрын
This Video helped me to understand a basic concept of life... In the last two years i took a deeper look into spirituality and the hermetic principles. Currently I´m thinking about the principle of cause and effect. Although I have already seen similar videos in the past, I was able to fully understand the cause of body language and behavior. Thanks for making this video!
@bradstyles43274 жыл бұрын
The music is so inappropriate it makes you feel like you're listening to a horror story 😅
@diegit95124 жыл бұрын
or playing escape room🤣
@bradstyles43274 жыл бұрын
@@diegit9512 yeah rit lol 😂
@bradstyles43274 жыл бұрын
@@diegit9512 yeah rit lol 😂
@JRdaPharmacist6 жыл бұрын
Walking style plot twist: im in a wheelchair
@Skitdora20106 жыл бұрын
Someone could read you by how you use the chair to get around if someone else isn't pushing you around. They can see if you make jerky movement, many starts and stops, or if you move smoothly and confidently. They will read you by how you sit in the chair slumped, scrunched, rigid, relaxed ect as well. A confident person in a wheelchair will sit somewhat erect but still relaxed and they will move the chair in fluid purposeful movements, making eye contact and smiling at times.
@wulvershon89485 жыл бұрын
Skitdora2010 W
@thethinkingbeing98175 жыл бұрын
JRdaPharmacist Yeh! Why can’t the wheelchair substitute as a sexy vehicle? 😤
@smmusicplus964 жыл бұрын
Eye contact.
@tlc9384 жыл бұрын
lol
@AsleepWarrior6 жыл бұрын
I love the background soundtrack with this video.
@pohyokelo5 жыл бұрын
I wear black because it is easier for work ~ looks more professional. I spend less time choosing my wardrobe items. I am lazy. Not because I want power. 😂🤣😂🤣
@ok80773 жыл бұрын
Did you not hear what he said
@robprice63985 жыл бұрын
I feel like a lot of this is only accurate some of the time. People aren't always as consistent as this suggests. Also, he talks about being able to read people, when really its more about making assumptions about people. I think the part about people's eyes dilating is probably fairly accurate, but there could be a lot of reasons someone is walking or speaking a certain way given whatever they are dealing with that day, the topic they are discussing, or whatever else may be having an effect on them.
@theshiznut6 жыл бұрын
You're consistently one upping yourself video after video! Keep it up, your videos are as good as gold.
@antcri7306 жыл бұрын
My car and the rest of my junk is not an extension of my personality, It's what I can afford.
@specificsykes6 жыл бұрын
ant cri lol
@lynnmckenney19876 жыл бұрын
yeah, the whole "your car and clothes are an extension of yourself" only really applies if you can afford to choose your clothes and vehicle.
@davidzales48215 жыл бұрын
The argument could be made that your actions and decisions throughout your life determined which posessions that you currently have. I can play the blame game all day, but when it comes times to face reality, it was ultimately my choice to be where I am today. Of course there are other factors like upbringing and genetics, but i believe that in MOST cases, it is our own free will that shapes our lives.
@theresaschmidt82905 жыл бұрын
Saaammmeeee
@mike_js29365 жыл бұрын
Or how you manage your finances 👍
@emersonsrandomvideos2485 жыл бұрын
Dwayne "the rock" Johnson was exactly that - putting tons of muscles. He was bullied as a kid and grew up to be what he is right now. Good thing is he became an accomplished as an adult.
@robertleo80062 жыл бұрын
do you actually believe that? lmao… and bill gates grew up middle class too
@soniadawson85485 жыл бұрын
I'm the oldest.. and I got no attention. LOL, I guess my upbringing contradicts this video... I was forgotten even... so I learned how to be self-sufficient. My middle and youngest sisters were taken care of emotionally and financially. Even tho I was the ONLY obedient and responsible child in the family, bringing in excellent grades, no boyfriends to distract me... I only received criticism, and no help financially after high school. HA! Even today in our 40's my parents bought them new construction homes 2016 and 2018, and I live in a dusty old home built in 1980. LOL
@Thegoat_4822 жыл бұрын
Have you told them about how they treat you?
@Thegoat_4822 жыл бұрын
Speaking up is one of the greatest power
@arifftupar29386 жыл бұрын
I can read people and you just make me more better
@ada92136 жыл бұрын
Damn its true i always wear black cloths and excersise so i can dissapear my suffering, i dont excerise to be like most of the guys who wanna atrract and show off to girls, but i see it as a way i can find calm compared to the people who drink and they think beer will take their suffering away
@LPrulezhard6 жыл бұрын
Alexander Becerra agree. I work out to stay fit and be healthy. Showing off is just a bonus
@mgal62346 жыл бұрын
Alexander Becerra Excellent choice...so many of us choose to numb our pain the easy way. It’s hell on earth. I wanted to tell you that because so many people are addicts...food, drugs, etc. You made an amazing life decision.
@ada92136 жыл бұрын
Melissa G thank u so much i hope u have an amazing life remember u can and u are the best, i dont know how ur life is but try to go beyond ur limits and the result will be unexpected but great
@mgal62346 жыл бұрын
Alexander Becerra thank you, that meant more to me than you will ever know!!
@ada92136 жыл бұрын
KRYMauL yeah just dont turn it into an addiction
@beastwuest21585 жыл бұрын
I love how to talk a lot about the behaviors of the oldest child and youngest child but very briefly address the middle child just as they are raised
@juanpunchman52724 жыл бұрын
I’m an introvert therefore i can expand my mind into the 5th dimension and read peoples thoughts, and personalities. I can also go through walls without disrupting matter.
@introvertreed60094 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert too. I'm so introvertive that I can travel all the way back into the early 1500's. I can walk on air,water,and walk through fire without getting burnt.
@mikelancaster28924 жыл бұрын
the knowing of one thing to understand ten thousand things. knowledge determines destiny.
@goxr3plus_studio6 жыл бұрын
Perfect as always, i love your channel since 1000 subscribers ♥ ♥ ♥
@_A_A_1016 жыл бұрын
This shit is life changing!!!
@daxinventor35424 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. I learned as a child that this world is extremely complicated and if you want to attain your goals, you need to concentrate on it day and night. By developing a concentration level which is very high, I always get what I want in this life. Another secret that has served me well is that nothing is ever what it seems to be and women are subject to change at a moments notice, which is also cool because by women in my reality changing, it gives me something to always think about because I love a challenge.
@roxannehiga79494 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Komol tata. Video. Excited. Happy. Healthy video.
@maxamillion21406 жыл бұрын
I'm the oldest sibling but also the only child in two different families. My parents divorced right after I was born, I'm sure I have multiple differences in birth order psychology. But I'm usually the dominant leader of all groups as a result of this, I was always required to lead as a child.
@ezzymedina87945 жыл бұрын
Way to brush over the middle child...just like everyone else!
@alyssaisaperson4905 жыл бұрын
Too true
@kewi15 жыл бұрын
Honestly this is accurate when it comes to siblings. Gave my whole little sister a read for her life telling her about herself and this was exactly it.
@jeniwatkins32975 жыл бұрын
It's real. Like it or not
@mjk66185 жыл бұрын
@elEzzy Medina Hahahaha! Sooo true! Hahaha! Great "Case-in-POINT!"
@vlopez0784 жыл бұрын
I was looking for someone to point that out, lol just like he said no attention for the middle child!
@roxannehiga79494 жыл бұрын
Smart. Video. Thank you so much. Video. Excited. Video. Excited. Happy. Healthy. Video.
@AMANRA35 жыл бұрын
this is why i can hear the same sentence as someone by the same person and get a different meaning...love this video.
@CommandoMaster6 жыл бұрын
Great video! SO MUCH INFO on Psychology packed in here!
@TheSh_dow6 жыл бұрын
I love this video because it explains a lot of my personality. Can you give me your sources? I really want to go deeper on this subject. Do you have a book to recommend? Thanks!
@julioseviltwin23046 жыл бұрын
Your inability to search this book out for yourself reveals a lot.
@TheSh_dow6 жыл бұрын
@Julio_says I posted this comment right after I watched the video. There were only few comments, I was hoping for a response from the author. But since you seem smart, can you give me your best guess for the book title? Thanks
@julioseviltwin23046 жыл бұрын
I could, I could recommend - not guess - more than one book that would help you out.., but I'd rather teach a man to fish... finding the book yourself is the key ... ;) I'm not being smart on purpose. I apologise if I came across as such.
@tubebeep1256 жыл бұрын
You dont come across as smart, just an arrogant guy who cant offer some help, im not much of a reader, but thats why i watch loads of yt videos, but i would like to make a change and find some good books on this topic, if you or the channel can recommend books or authors for me that'd be great, like wise i have just finished watching the video and will do my own research to find a book.
@julioseviltwin23046 жыл бұрын
Hi Dennis; Best place to start is ''GoodReads'' website, put the keywords in the search of what you're looking for, a world will open up of every book on the topic, the reviews will help you decide which one is best for you.. check it out, fantastic site with good, honest people who dont hold back & it is the best book review site online, also, many books are available online as 'audiobooks', if you know anyone who is familiar with popular download sites they'll be a great help to you.. :)
@elysidibe6992 жыл бұрын
Passivity doesn’t mean you have a weak personality at all. Passive people are usually calm under a lot of situations, and portraying a serene mind state during challenging circumstances is a great power to have that a lot of “active” personality people can’t practice because they are either subject to their emotions or passion
@jeffalan63394 жыл бұрын
True so very true. I grew up so poor even those dirt poor were well to do in comparison. I was bullied and a loner. I learned how to handle bullies by ignoring them or using words instead of force. Allowing me to now be very good negotiator, I make certain of my money, bills are priority, then food, next gas, last misc. I try to improve myself by learning or studying others I can relate to.
@knivze.5 жыл бұрын
keep in mind a lot of this is generalizations. I’m the youngest child and i got a hell of a lot more attention than my older sister yet i’m the one who loves to wear expensive brands and likes to show off and she like to wear low key things like thrift shop type clothes
@MartaKeller5 жыл бұрын
Exactly - many generalizations that can be helpful but can also be misleading.
@rohinirathour47495 жыл бұрын
Great video - so insightful and the illustrations make what could be a complex topic so much simpler, easier to digest.
@ezekielgalva62325 жыл бұрын
I learned more about myself from this video than my entire life. Great video
@prettyboibozo36194 жыл бұрын
This is so true, I used to be picked on when I was in middle school. That’s y I joined the gym and became one of the most muscular kids in my highschool
@AthenaBaucum5 жыл бұрын
"According to science"
@MegaBaddog5 жыл бұрын
yes missy. women barely invent anything in the west with decades of affirmative action.
@griggsmccoy54895 жыл бұрын
it’s been 6 months since your reply but was that really necessary?
@griggsmccoy54895 жыл бұрын
madmarvin99 talking to you btw
@re86184 жыл бұрын
“According to popular regurgitated lies...”
@re86184 жыл бұрын
Griggs McCoy It was necessary because it’s true. Women need to understand they were created less powerful than men, and for a very good reason. If women cannot realize that, oh well. I will continue to preach that I belong in the home, rearing my children to walk wisely in their lives...eek....yaaak...I’ll probably move exclusively to Reddit to receive my downvotes.
@saminarose806 жыл бұрын
I don’t like this video! First the BG music is annoying because it makes me think something creepy is about to happen!!! Also about the content... We can use words differently and walk differently based on the situation! Just to say these are weak people and those are strong is too general and judgmental.
@nicolegrandi62585 жыл бұрын
Samina Yaghouty haha about the music ...it's true
@andreasleonlandgren30925 жыл бұрын
Thing can be general AND situationspecific
@pimpsidious5 жыл бұрын
Samina Yaghouty wrong is not what you are saying is how you are sayin it, but from your picture I can see that you maybe too young to understand this
@MegaBaddog5 жыл бұрын
there is a reason women rarely contribute anything to society. single parent children are the worst, that is the only thing you disliked and really hated in this video
@rougestan5 жыл бұрын
There now, hush girl, seems like you’re walking away from something negative since young, with the music and being judged and all. It’s all good now no ones judging you yeah. With that being said there’s a sale for black clothes now. Just saying. 😄
@MiketheNerdRanger5 жыл бұрын
I don't know why, but these kinds of videos bring out the superiority complex in people. In every video I watch on this topic without fail, theres always at least one. It's a bit unsettling.
@tamann73 жыл бұрын
I like people who say I don't know if they don't know i can work with someone like that. We can find out together but if you act like you know and you have no clue you have loss me as a person in your life. And we weren't compatible so it's better that way.
@hemeothunder6 жыл бұрын
women show sexual interest only through body language. ...but most. dudes still believe that she gonna let you know through verbal.... communication.🙄
@saultorres59886 жыл бұрын
Yes brother
@isaactorres59086 жыл бұрын
hemanth kumar true true
@rollercoasterwolfboy67956 жыл бұрын
Shaddy Raddy922 yh womanese
@oddhauze50006 жыл бұрын
hemanth kumar So that's where the disconnect happens! 😂 I never thought about it like that before. My only problem is that I never know how to respond to a man's "verbal cues". I'm a bit lacking when it comes to being coy.
@milleziano6 жыл бұрын
So you never had a woman telling you she wants you sexually?
@ameliakay73585 жыл бұрын
The background music was used for Mass Effect 3 :)
@shawnellis37304 жыл бұрын
Btw love the videos.. I'm glad to hear that someone out here in the world is dropping knowledgeable things that are truly going on in the world!!
@mariorosa8952 жыл бұрын
Excellent video keep up the good work. Do more about this video.
@mjk66185 жыл бұрын
The actions placed upon you as a child ultimately DO play a solid, (albeit subconscious), PART into Adulthood. This is inevitable and true! And although generalizations are undoubtedly presented, many aspects of this video are totally SPOT ON! Thank YOU! 🌿💕🌿
@mjk66185 жыл бұрын
Btw... I'm a New Sub! 💕
@DarkClawGaming-lr9qm5 жыл бұрын
Hey hey hey, 2:12 , do you see a candle stick, or two faces!?
@kristopherryanwatson5 жыл бұрын
very insightful...love the sense of mystique in the background music. very stirring of mystery. haha
@thefilthywon52495 жыл бұрын
According to science the mind and body are linked..... seriously 😂😂😂👌 mind blown
@claireopolot56765 жыл бұрын
THE FILTHY WON hogwash I tell you!
@mbhatia81776 жыл бұрын
you're brilliantly genius freind.
@halmittens4 жыл бұрын
Ambiverts be like: *what do you mean*
@stephanielim55444 жыл бұрын
When I lie I make sure to look at them in the eye holding it for 15 seconds then I'll smoothly avert my eyes and try to occupy myself into doing something. My sister's a psychologist even had her masters degree, and her being a psychologist just helps me bettering myself on my manipulation skills. I'm an Ambivert btw, and an INTP type. That's why I'm very good at being analytical and perceptive.
@blackspiderman18874 жыл бұрын
it's not just eye contact you know that shows you're lying. It's tone of voice, body movements, etc. For example, some people think no eye contact means your're lying and that's true many of the times, but there are people who practice their lie before hand. Therefore they will make full eye contact but what they say sounds so rehearsed that a perceptive person can tell they are lying despite making eye contact. It's usually easy to fool those people because it's almost impossible to prepare for any circumstantial question that may be asked so once they run out of rehearsed material they will start displaying the usual tell tale signs of a liar.
@dmtdreamz77062 жыл бұрын
Love is what allows you to move millions of people, to rally them, to inspire them, to give them a vision to do something, love is what allows you to land someone on the moon, love is what allows you to tackle slavery or oppression of other sorts, love is what allows you to care about the environment, clean up the environment, to create better schools and that's ultimately all that people want. What do people want in the world? They want to be able to love. To love their family, to love their children, to love their nation and then to go beyond that and smoke DMT. Then we made love. Or rather we had an experience that vaguely related to making love but was a thing unto itself. We were both howling and singing in the glossolalia of DMT, rolling over the ground with everything awash in crawling, geometric hallucinations. She was transformed; words exist to describe what she became - pure anima, Kali, Leucothea, something erotic but not human, something addressed to the species and not to the individual, glittering with the possibility of cannibalism, madness, space, and extinction. She seemed on the edge of devouring me. “Reality was shattered. This kind of fucking occurs at the very limit of what is possible. Everything had been transformed into orgasm and visible, chattering oceans of elf language. Then I saw that where our bodies were glued together there was flowing, out of her, over me, over the floor of the roof, flowing everywhere, some sort of obsidian liquid, something dark and glittering, with color and lights within it. After the DMT flash, after the seizures of orgasms, after all that, this new thing shocked me to the core. What was this fluid and what was going on? I looked at it. I looked right into it, and it was the surface of my own mind reflected in front of me. Was it translinguistic matter, the living opalescent excrescence of the alchemical abyss of hyperspace, something generated by the sex act performed under such crazy conditions? I looked into it again and now saw in it the lama who taught me Tibetan, who would have been asleep a mile away. In the fluid I saw him, in the company of a monk I had never seen; they were looking into a mirrored plate. Then I realized that they were watching me! I could not understand it. I looked away from the fluid and away from my companion, so intense was her aura of strangeness.²
@michaelresurreccion55966 жыл бұрын
By "Strong/Weak Personalities," I think you mean "Extroverted/Introverted."
@markmorales54246 жыл бұрын
Michael Resurreccion what I was thinking the whole time
@randalhighben5866 жыл бұрын
Completely wrong.
@Satan666Official5 жыл бұрын
Seems like it. I tend to see introverts have the strongest personalities when you get to know them.
@juliedorman18585 жыл бұрын
This may be somewhat accurate, but their are way too many variables he's not even mentioned.
@RedZero205 жыл бұрын
Does proper grammar usage count?
@akhilmendez56744 жыл бұрын
Brother watching this class 1.5 years latter and wow not that same guy your amazing haven’t made it whit women’s yet but everywhere else is amazing thanks again brother ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
@tdotlegend925 жыл бұрын
Wow bravoe, very well said and put together
@dyingoddess5 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with living with your parents the entire life? You pay less for water, electricity, gas, rental if youre renting the house....provide em support if they have problems or they can help you... Why the concept of family has changed so much in 50 years? You wanna live alone? It's ok Wanna live with ur parents? It's ok You meet someone who wants to go to another place and you have to leave your parents in the future? It's ok FFS stop stigmatization of people that keep live with theyr parents
@alexandrabaker66775 жыл бұрын
Yeah but being with the parents is sometimes not worth cheaper bills.
@Ice.muffin4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more. I'm in my mid twenties and can't see myself leaving them anytime soon and I feel perfectly fine with the idea. Maybe we'll keep living together for the rest of our lives, as long as that is ok-feeling for everybody, where is the freaking problem..? Move out and go to what? Solitude? More fake interactions and "relationships"? Yeah right, thanks but no thanks, at least what I have with them is genuine enough.
@jaefast56846 жыл бұрын
Ambivert problems: "You're so outgoing and extroverted, why dont you go greet so and so?" Me **mumbles**: oh god no ill stutter again or I'll say the wrong thing or... **anxiety attack** Another day: "You're so quiet, maybe you should sit in the corner to do the paperwork while we work with the customers?" Me **practically yelling**: please no... I need attention and love I wanna make a new friend and give them cookies, maybe they'll become my roommate! Wtf mind why you do me like this WHERE DO I FALL?!
@blackychan85706 жыл бұрын
Jean Fox umm...yes?
@Oreocookiduder6 жыл бұрын
I feel this so much
@sunchi116 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@ayo70595 жыл бұрын
I can relate all my friends fall into the other two categories and when they talk about introverts and extroverts they can't place me and im like "oh I'm an ambivert " and they're like "what even is that"
@puertoricanguy65 жыл бұрын
jellyfishlover 01 hurts that i relate
@rebornmoron2926 Жыл бұрын
This video is based on Sigmund Freud and Adolf Adler's theory. Placing importance on The children experiences , birth order . They were Psychoanalysts however their theory were criticised saying that their approach were more philosophical rather than scientific in nature but we can't deny their theories. Appreciate ur video
@allraiders4205 жыл бұрын
When the “according to science” statement came up I tuned out
@jrlopez1027.4 жыл бұрын
Wait...why
@vincewarren12716 жыл бұрын
If my face is scruffy then I wear all black. It matches me better. Besides that, at the gym I tend to match colors. Red with red, blue w blue and so forth. There's always outside variables interacting with why a person does what they do. Good video!
@stanleeloy007 Жыл бұрын
Most of what you say is assumption. There are different types of people. Situations are different and always changing. People who appear confident most of the times in a given situation can also be unconfident in certain situations. And visa versa. People don't come with a handbook or a manual. So stop calling some weak and strong depending on your analysis and experience.
@vincewarren1271 Жыл бұрын
@@stanleeloy007 your comment was worthy until you went off the rails in your last sentence. I live in a free country buddy.
@josueg50976 жыл бұрын
Great video! Your such a smart person 👌🏼👌🏼
@darkkiller77446 жыл бұрын
You're* ironic much
@1BitcoinBeliever6 жыл бұрын
It is not ironic, he was referring to the guy in the video.
@fesfers5 жыл бұрын
K & R Boyd No it is not. They were referring to the guy in the video not himself lmao. We all know you're means you're. If anything this proves you're not smart yourself with your lack of reading comprehension
@BeOutstanding4 жыл бұрын
Great Content Thank You Ffa Cough, sniff dishonest I think guess...weak persona Strong voi Look at many signs Eyes hold Black dark power Walk
@freyahenderson70575 жыл бұрын
I have severe anxiety and to make eye contact for longer than a second is a struggle to me, I refuse to believe I have a weak personality
@KenBowler5 жыл бұрын
building ckodi 18!.1
@joycerhythms5 жыл бұрын
Your definition of a weak and strong personality is warped and negates the advantage and disadvantage of displaying such traits
@craigplug93986 жыл бұрын
Bro your videos are awesome don’t get me wrong . But this is very subjective man . So much Half truths , sounds like your just having fun and talking . I️ get the message but make sure to mention that what your saying is from your own experience, research, or what you’ve observed in your own life . This isn’t 100% truth
@tysl22296 жыл бұрын
Well no shit sherlock.
@rollercoasterwolfboy67956 жыл бұрын
Craig Plug most of it is true
@blueyognog6 жыл бұрын
you'd be surprised
@mikeemery83826 жыл бұрын
Bobbi Werner
@mikeemery83826 жыл бұрын
Craig Plug
@gratificationgaming43144 жыл бұрын
Is this why actors are so versatile? Because they’ve mastered the art of body language?
@RamonDaniel5 жыл бұрын
12:12 - Good points but if you have a tv any colour other than black or grey you probably put milk in before the cereal
@walter81546 жыл бұрын
you should write a book
@fightsmart68366 жыл бұрын
SlapYourGrandpa nice name
@lukiona6 жыл бұрын
he did
@aronhighgrove41005 жыл бұрын
You mean it would give him time to think more and generalize less?
@bestowalternative28016 жыл бұрын
Amazing as always
@xatrazx15044 жыл бұрын
Watched this high asf now my mind is completely blown... it always goes back to proving something and it’s some how always connected wtf