I said this to my sister too. They dying before they time too cuz they got no woman looking after them and they kids dont want no business wid em either

Soo true I work in the healthcare field and they be lonely with no visitors!!! But back then was like papa was a rolling stone S**t not no more 😂😂😂😂😂

It's true, but the men these days are teaching each other to place ALLLLLL the blame on women in the relationship! No matter what issue existed, the new age men say it was the woman's fault! It's ridiculous! They never ever acknowledge that marriages end a lot of the times, because women have FINALLY HAD ENOUGH of the bad treatment in said marriage!

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So true

My Sister Too. She Is As Free As A Bird.

Truer words have never been spoken. You should make a video😁

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Similar situation here. I resolved in my heart a long time ago to do things God's way, no matter the cost. I have always desired a husband and a house full of babies, but God asked me to do something else. I also resolved that I was not going to pout, beg, be angry or desperate about it, but I was going to embrace and enjoy all the wonderful things that God HAS given me. I have seen many friends, acquaintances and peers go through what she has gone through, and there is no judgement here because it IS hard to let go of something you want dearly. I think the only reason that I got through the most difficult part of this (Ages 20-40) was #1 God crushed my stubborn will. #2 I grew up with a Mom who modeled self-worth, so I understood that I was the prize (or as the Bible calls it, "A good thing"). Now I have gotten to the place where if God doesn't give it, I don't want it, and I have learned so much discernment. She is brave to share her story. Loved her honesty and vulnerability.

Exactly!

So true 🎉

You’re exactly right. That what God said he create his son a helpmate. Not a door mate or an atm. We are to help and add to what a man already have. Not be use and a bruised by them. I’m not getting married until God chooses him. I was just like her but physically bruised I been single with a peace of mind for 5 yrs.LOVE AND VALUE YOURSELF FIRST

Thats Scripture! HE said a man findeth a good thing and told women I will be ur Husbands - If he dont love you like I Love you - like HE instructed a man to love a woman… then shake the dust from off ur feet & leave like a thief in the night

He's been persuading me to move in. He don't got sh!t. I said let's work 3 month to buy all furniture. LoL he blocked my number yesterday and still don't pick up my calls today. BOY BYEEEEEE

​@@ŚĘŁÁH-111I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT

She glowed😂❤

She loves her babies and sisters, and they love her. She will not die alone.

@@hmm-zoolol mos def🥂

That made me tear up. So wholesome

Yes ❤

Exactly

So true. Any man that did not provide is just a user.

That part

Those women don’t get better treatment just cause they have money, they just get more money lol

@@homemadeeasy9418 Right, they get abused in every way too.

No. She suffered years of financial emotional abuse due to her own poor decision making, including poor selectivity in mate…just like a vast majority of modern women. The issue is not with men, but your poor decision making.

​@@user-oz5vl2ho8v Perhaps, but not guaranteed. Some people are good at concealing their true nature. You may be right though.

@@user-oz5vl2ho8v YEP...AND MEN ARE NOT OPEN WALLETS. If you want a rich guy go for one BUT he comes with a whole other set of issues. Honestly she sounded like a child...most men now don't want to get married really what we get for handing out all of our income to somebody that is never happy as soon as she see her friends with something she does not have. Hot pass.

No, the issue is with both the man AND the woman. The man needs to take accountability for inflicting that emotional and financial abuse and the woman needs to accept accountability for choosing bum men. The blame falls on both of them.

@@BrickCityBella naa he can be the perfect man as soon as her friends man has more money or buys her more stuff. All of a sudden your man is no longer good enough. No man in his right mind is going give his wife everything she wants. She is never satisfied. Choose better men to have babies with and marry.

Its not even like we have the liberty to just pick anyway, that man has to like you back too in order for it to even get off the ground. Tbh it goes both ways

Right! Cause ima choose me each and EVERYTIME!

This video proves - if you accept less u will always get less. This old lady abdicated her own life decisions activity happiness to that son of a bitch. I hope women are smarter now

I realized that it's not that women have bad pickers.....The recycled rubbish is in an OVERABUNDANCE!!!!! So when you go with person after person after person, it's just what's there. You really have to LUCK UP on someone GOOD.

@@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297 exactly..they dont like that option..🤣😉

Life is about relationships. Many of yall fail in life when it comes to compromising with a man. It is a failure if you don’t have one long term. It starts to get real in your 50s and 60s without one

Facts

@@leonardmason3216 satin is a liar

Yup. No accountability is a satan trait. Raised Baptist since a kid. You?

​@@leonardmason3216Failure???? Seriously

💚 love this

Wow! You're one of a kind You need to go out and teach young men how to be a real man! Please. I'm begging you!!!

The one word you used that the majority of men know nothing about is y'all. Meaning both in this particular context. I have raised my children, which are awesome by the way, educated myself and currently in a good job. Unfortunately,every hurt I've sustained has been from a black man. I'm glad that you're taking care of business at home. Seems like you got it right. Maybe you should write a book schooling your brother's. I now have no desire to have something serious. Things start well, until the games kick in. SAD. WE CAN'T RETRIEVE OUR TIME. But we can make our future happier and spiritually enriched. You continue to value what you've been blessed with and the blessing will continue to flow.

May God continue to bless your marriage. ❤

If only all men realized that to keep the girl, you need to keep doing whatever you did to GET the girl. It's so simple. Hell, you don't even have to do 100% of what you were doing to get the girl, but dang, do SOME of it, not 0%, then be surprised when the girl leaves. I swear if a man does just 20%, a woman will do 100% back, that's how we were made. Kudos to your dad for being a good man, and for teaching his son how to be a good man! You, sir, deserve all the good things that come to you.

@marissachapman1022 Tired of getting ran thru huh?

What does celibate got to do with it?most likely you still do yourself so you still having a release, according to the Bible it is still sex.

​​@@OneDoorClosesOneDoorOpens choosing toys and a finger instead? If so, I don't see how it is an improvement, there is energy you pulling in from the unknown when you yourself a happy ending.

Me too exactly 💯

The celibate part is what I don't like. 😂😂😂😂. But... We move on.

🐈 + 🍷 = 🫵🏽……🤣

I know that’s right!

Not even for ONE DAY OR ONE HOUR! Cause please exit my presence *immediately* SIR. Life is too damn short to be trying to make stuff work smh.

I told you all the first red flag I'll be gone M.I.A. life's too short for the dum mess and he is Messi .😯😯😯😯😮😮😮.

The horrible husband gave her two daughters that she loves dearly and were worth the failed marriage. It's wrong to assume that she wouldn't have married if she had to start over without her daughters being born.

Yes you’ve all been ones the men you say you want. But why are only 1 in 4 of you getting married?

@@dcg590triggered ?

​@@cookiegirl891the definition of "facts" is triggered?

You should try living with women it's hell...

**it's not their truth it's their experience, there's only the Truth....

Yup. That truly 🤢 grossed me out. What a hateful being devoid of any warmth. You cannot fix that.

Omg! You are so right! 36 years married, at least 15 miserable. Single and thankful now!😊

I am just getting out of a 12 year situation, since the fool says that we are not in a relationship. Evil, jealous, angry, vindictive, bitter , broken man. He was never happy, holidays were always sad because he didn't want to go in half to buy the meals for the holidays. Never received any gifts throughout the years. But I never gave him anything, I treated him like he treated me. Just a sad, horrible person. He will be moving out soon 😂 and I never want to see him again. I realized not long after I had moved in with him that he was a bad person and his family was evil too. Luckily, he hated his family, so we didn't see them that often. I am 63 years old and I have never given my money to any man and I don't buy men anything. My sex is all I have ever given and if that's not enough then they can leave. Ladies, when he shows you who he is, believe him the first time because he won't change.

Wow am not married at 50 don't have kids but I feel it when you said this.. this is not what God meant. My heart goes out to you all but thank God for freedom

You are so right, and God bless and keep you for having the strength to be the one who tells the truth in your family. I know it's no easy feat firsthand ❤❤❤❤❤

Your mom should divorced him because if he dies, she will be left with his debts!

Thank you for sharing - and you are absolutely correct. The ones who are capable of change are perpetually asking for guidance, tips, and advice and you can regularly see that they are honestly doing the best they can (often with passable results).

40 YEARS?! Hope she has a hefty life insurance policy on him.

She might be holding on for afterlife purposes. I don’t know, but he has had her bound for a long time! And I have witnessed how men will definitely change for who THEY want to change for. And that’s the only time they will change-WHEN THEY WANT TO.

That demon was probably out with his other family. God is protecting us, we just have to pay attention.

@@homemadeeasy9418 - And he was, and I did (pay attention).❤️

That's what I'm talking about M.I.A. period.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏.

That’s the man YOU picked.

@@Laoriginal718 And she said she left after that didn’t she? That shaming energy you put out gonna smack you square in the face one day. I feel sorry for you.

Please how ? tell me more

It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.

$70k is something you should feel differently about....

I know that woman (Maria Angelina Alexander) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, she's my family's Broker for 3yrs till now and a very good one if you asked me. No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!

A CNBC news host spoke highly big about this woman and her loss preventing strategies. Been trying to reach her since. Thanks y'all for the info.

I don’t think it’s a Black thing. I think it’s a lo’ life, trifling, or narcissistic things. Women with poor discernment of all races complained about ‘Not knowing’. It’s good she acknowledges this and sharing.

BM and Men from other races, aren't attracted to, desire or marry BW. That's why BW are the least married and the most evicted 🤣. Don't get it twisted 😂

Most BW live and die by the creed that "A piece of a man is better than no man at all " and will use the bible to justify men who lack.

Hellllllllllll no

It's not a race thing Hon. Jerkoffs come in all shades and varieties, but the dust that clings to them is the same!!! I swear the last good day I had with my ex was our wedding day. Although he was just plain cruel once I was his wife. I've dated and been in relationships with men of every color of the spectrum and the entitlement, assumptions of gender roles, and actions are similar. For years I assumed I was the common denominator and gaslit hell out of myself, but all these videos of women of all walks of life, ages, and countries shows me it wasn't specifically a defect that I had. I have my issues like many, but this pattern is too common among so many women that it is glaring. And all the pushback from men over 4B really does highlight these fundamental attitudes that are the very reason why birth rates are dropping and women are opting out. I married for love. And I believed he truly loved me. But,I mistook his infatuation as passionate love. What he really wanted was to conquer and humble me...and a maid, joy toy, and arm candy for public events. He wanted to tame the mustang and have me dote on him constantly. When I realized he wasn't all that and a bag of chips as my students say, but a grown man who used every manipulation tool in his arsenal to control me and my spirit,I finally left him. Middle-aged now and had to rear my profoundly disabled son alone. Naturally, he abandoned us. Oh and he blamed me for our child's disabilities which is laughable because our son isa more impaired version of my ex. Ladies we can't expect or rely on someone else to save us. Nope. We have to save ourselves. Be the man that you would marry. Buy yourself that sparkly ring or whatever you want for yourself because the greatest love of all is to accept who you are. Life isn't a Bridgerton episode. As much as I love the show and thank Shonda for the visual fantasy,it is fiction at its best. If you have that kind of love and relationship that's awesome. Just know it's rare AF and it is okay to go it alone. Four B for the win!!!! If you want to join the movement we are here for you. If not, we wish you success, happiness, and love. Either way, women need to support each other. We are our tribe.

One is a whole number ❤

Amen 🙏🏽

Amen. The Delaney sisters said they lived to 103 and 107 because they did not marry. lol. Their choice. Beautiful women. Their choice.

@BlessedMasterpiece So true!! 100% agree with your comment.

Tell that to Vivica Fox....she's definitely whole. A whole lot of time wasted.😂🤣

Wise

I don't know you at all so you probably won't trust my advice, which I get. But I do want to say that 4 billion people in this world are men and there are so many kind hearted, self sacrificing men out there. If you don't want to get married, that is your choice. But I encourage you to try to make a male friend at the very least to learn a different side of of them then you are used to.

I salute you! I am grateful to be single and at peace as well...

Wow.

Come out

I really get what you're saying, and I genuinely want to be happy too. There's someone special in my life, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; I love her deeply. I hope she comes back, and I'm fully devoted to making it happen. We've tried therapy and other ways to make things right.

Saying bye to someone you love a lot is tough, but I had a counselor named Aurelia Maisie Goelet who saved my marriage from falling apart.

Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.

You should

It's beautiful when a couple work together ❤❤

TRAD to single moms married husband's who did ALL the work. That's not enough.

I was my husband's meal ticket. He was picky about working. My BAD. Karma bit him though. He died in 2017 from the flu. He also chased a widow. I was in denial. But I woke up!

Excellent advice.

I can’t figure out why nobody wanted to marry me I started working in 1977 Still working 2024 DONT SMOKE OR DRINK NO DRUGS DONT HAVE NO KIDS BUT WOMAN I HAD WOULDNT MAKE KIDS WITH ME BUT MADE THEM WITH OTHER PEOPLE ITS HAPPENED 4 times tired of being a stepdad telling me they trying to get pregnant by me at the same time taking birth control 25 40 years they telling me they which they had married me or had kids by me why now because I’m semi retired and they still gotta work what’s sad is some of them didn’t go get a job till they 35 40 yrs old and here they are 55 60 years old and nothing in their social security Got no social security credits what 2 to 5 points for social security good luck trying to work till they70

@BetterASKSOME1 Does it really matter? What matters is you like yourself. Sometimes I wish I had never gotten married.

So true

Same here, but I skipped over the marriage part thank God

Facts 🎉

Amen!

I've seen it first hand too and it ain't cool,I refuse to play that game.

I believe a man shldn't b a burden to a woman....nor shld she b a burden to him....Today's inflation requires both incomes but if the man want to provide all the finances and able to afford it....also with his wife in agreement of staying home, it shld b a choice

Now your momma said that,Also add what did your father say?

@@thementoringtime my daddy said “Don’t allow him to disrespect you, put his hands on you or embarrass you. Men do to you what you allow them to do. Love yourself enough to know what you deserve. When you love yourself first it will be easier to love others. Treat him the way you would want your sons to be treated. Be with someone who you would want your sons to become”

Facts

AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

​@thementoringtime lmao you thought you did something 😂

She chose them

All the more reason to stay away from these types of males. Better to be alone.

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​all that was and it available men see themselves as superior to women worldwide it's a very rare man that can live a happy peaceful life w his wife @@raamyasharahla535

​@@raamyasharahla535narcissistic comment.

That part 💯💯💯❗

There are men like that......They should open a damn SCHOOL.

I ‘m sorry but I got stuck on “ almost 10 kids”.

@@GCMickens , 5 of his own kids and 4 his nephews. We were treated equally. Some men only have ONE kid and cannot even take care of them. Still living in their mothers homes at 40. Those kind of men are good at using women.

Yea, let’s listen to THAT guy for life lessons.

Some women will tolerate cheaters who don't even pay the bills.

💯 ANYTHING just to say that they have a man..... 🤦🏿‍♀️

@@a.r.tavares1322 That’s when the women have lost all self-respect and all self-love. Truly a low point.

@@jaeeluv Yes, indeed. Very sad.

Wonder if she felt like she couldn't expect more from the second husband since those weren't his kids?

AMEN!!!!!!!

Say this again please!

Move in YOUR home !?? Why

Come on, wisdom!

Blessing that he moved in for a short time and God allowed you to see who he really was. Wishing you well🙏🏽🌹

THIS!!! The deception is Real😢 You would think being humble and honest would be appreciated...then they act confused and like a victim that cant take accountability then claim BW are the problem. Its up to us Ladies to set rhe standard and take no shorts, period. I wish you Peace and a long happy life my Sistar.🎉

I’m separated now and mentally I thought the year mark was gonna be a good enough reset… nope.

Financially setting you back.

True.....Most ppl try to make u feel guilty for wanting better in your life, even if it means being single Can't wait and rely on a man to put a smile on your face....Do things that'll bring u peace.....Especially, if u done that and been there with a man....Can't put Life on rewind

22 years😳😳😳

​@@fixthatface483No testimony without a test.

🤦🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️💯🎯👍🏾🤷🏾‍♀️

That's why they like the young ones. They haven't learned yet.

Especially asking for my phone number 🚩

Red flags, stop signs, wise counsel and everything else and still ignore it!!!!ARGGHHHGaHgRhfarghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yea..he's looking for some money...run sis..🏃🏿‍♀️

@@sjtalksandlife : Indeed. I disappeared from there.

So, they are still trying to scam retired women? Truly there's a bunch of scumbag men for every age group.

Some men think ALL women are desperate to be married. NOT!!!

Please...i know you almost laughed in his face. Some people think that because you don't tell all you know, that you don't know what's going on. 😂

#Lol🎉

Aww shes sweet❤

You can't buy love.very sad

Woooow!!.... powerful. 😊

Was he good in bed at least?

So why did you marry him in the first place???? Sounds like you chose wrong...who's fault is that??? Maybe deep down you know that's the only man that will ever marry you.

@@julesgordon1109 ......

Congratulations that you walked away and upgraded your life, we all make mistakes, the key is to learn from them which you clearly did. Congratulations on achieving that goal career wise, stay blessed!

I stayed in a marriage like this for 10 years. If I'm being honest it wasn't even out of love. I stayed because I didn't know what a happy successful marriage looked like. I deluded myself into thinking I could break the cycle. I also felt I had put so much into it that I was using that as an anchor to keep myself in a bad situation. I would leave and come back. Each time got worse. When I finally left it was like I got out of my own way. I have been thriving every since. I'm single, happy, and living my best life.

@RONALD-mf6dl You need to get out of women's spaces and STOP H8ing on this ELDER'S TRUTH. Weirdo. Smh...

​@RONALD-mf6dlthese women are victims of their own choices. Bad decisions equals bad outcome...that's a universal rule that applies to EVERYONE.

Me too, sis. It's amazing how my loser exes always find some other woman they can mooch off of. I'm done. Men are a DISAPPOINTMENT.

​@@brunoqnzbk7891 Don't blame all men. Are any of you consulting the Lord? Do you attend church, read the scriptures and put them into practice? God is the only true protection you have, he can guide you to a good man. However his words are often ignored

​@Vigilant40 unfortunately the majority are not so great, evidence is showing. 😢

Amen

Yes because you are enough!

Ma'am you're 62 years OLD ...you're one of those women who love to fool yourself that you're still young. Your a senior citizen😅😂

Correction: women

lol

I'd rather have a 4 legged dog....than a 2 legged dog

@@user-nk4xm1rd1k ah, i get the joke lol!

The perineal cat lady who never "settled". You can’t make this ish up!

@@0BV1ANGEL1CA the fuck is you saying???

Well ladies, be the kind of women that makes a man (not just a black one) happy to treat you well. But there is more that one way for a man to be good to a woman other than spending money. Look at how he shows up for you. To be honest, being the saver that I am, I happy for cheap dates especially if we are married. I want to see a big nest egg in the bank and you can't do that spending a lot.

BW need to stop having conversations about money with men, period. Men will show you how much they will care for you by the first or second date. Any selfishness is a red flag.

How do you know her ex-husband was black?

​@@MsLotusBloomsIf a man doesn't think a woman is worthy of good treatment he should choose someone he wants to treat well.

@@KCinspireMEI mean most likely. Bm are usually dusty too

Yep, ppl been snapping out n marriage's ending in gunfire n the children r the only survivors. When the late couples story is told, all u see is tik toks n live's where their making it look like a fairytale relationship. One guy set his wife on fire,literally sparked his lighter n flamed her. He told the police after he was arrested that " He wasn't even that close to her, like that" !!!!!😵‍💫 Marriage is the flex when u married to the right person❤

Yo u can fake till u make it at job but not when it comes to relationships! 😅 Even tho a relationship with man is like having a full time job since they take soo damb much from u!😢 I think the happiest couples never post anything about their relationship online! U know those couples who actually like eachother & laugh together! Those older couples who still flirt with eachother. It's so fun to watch a couple who have fun together & genuinely love eachother! But alot of couples just hate eachother...I'm like why are these 2 even together? He hates her clearly or they hate eachother! Or she just thinks he suuuuuucks because he does! Like she's sitting there glaring at him so hard I'm just waiting for his head to catch on fire😅!

Here Listening to yall sour grapes complain. Face it, yall aren't qualified for he type of man yall want. It's a sad reality😅😂😅

Correct

👏👏👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💯💯💯✔️‼️

She's the coolest gran❤

Honest.😊

You can't really think every man on the planet is unreliable and untrustworthy, do you?

Amen. Amen. Amen. Good luck

I love that idea 💡✨🪄😌💚

children are selfish and financially draining. Be prepared. We spin the same fairytales about children as we do about husbands

50/50… you got a job… if so, I’m ready!!! 😂

Is this an ad🤔

My first husband was wealthy. He was stingy and controlling. He was a trust fund guy and let me spend my money working retail on him before he revealed he had a trust fund. Just gross. They can be financially abusive from the other side, too

These problems are not just money, and having the things you mentioned aren't guaranteed to fix anything. Women "have their own" and still get treated badly.

​@@xletragedyxfinancially abusive?????? His money was never yours to begin with.

@julesgordon1109 spoken like an abuser. He didn't want me to work so I could enrich his property, then wouldn't buy me things I wanted or needed if he didn't agree with it. Do you know what financial abuse is?

@@xletragedyx This person is not worth arguing with. They were accusing and shaming others here also

Sad but true am learning

​@eternalabundance39 look up the personal development school. Subconscious programming. Game changer. You can heal that unlovable, defective, broken, core wound in 30 days. It will change your life. It is literally like factory resetting your brain.

Yes. Because you’re going in it in fear. Fear of being alone. Nothing works in fear

A lot of women knows deep down that they're not qualified for the men they want so they settle. This is a reality that women will never admit to.

So true,this is what happened to me. I didn't want to be alone and ended marrying men who were not good for me.

Many posters are taking the wrong message from her story. She wasn't advocating being unmarried. That's why she gave a shoutout to her two daughters she loves dearly. She wouldn't have had them without at least one of the marriages. And because of those marriages, she won't be dying alone and unaided in her old age. She got what she wanted out of those marriages.

Keyword, the Lord. Seek him out and he will keep you from these things

They do weaponize sleep and complain we don't give them enough when that's all they do. lol

Never called it “renting a man” a before but if that isn’t the best description I don’t know what is. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Lol I like how you put that 😂

That is literally all she had access to. She isn't some great beauty or any other kind of beauty.

@@dkbullock4871and you’re not handsome either, people marry people who aren’t conventionally attractive all the time

@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 says the woman with a ton of makeup on and a damn wig! I don't think you even understand what handsome means. The point, since you're slow, is WOMEN who end up with lesser men time and again is their fault. You all think you deserve something that you aren't. She's actually mad at the man SHE picked! Why not be mad at herself?!? Why didn't she pick a man with a damn job?!? Because she is as stupid as the rest of the women talking like her. But you're not going to blame her. No, you'd prefer making this about me. I'm doing just fine without walking around with a disguise. Can you say the same???

I agree

That's definitely the way to go

I love this comment! Good for you! I truly hope that the elder is at a much happier place in her life. I would say too, signing up to be somebody’s care package can bring about these results. If a man doesn’t consistently demonstrate the instinct and willingness to protect, provide, and cover, it might be a sign that that’s not what you want if you do in fact want a man who does have those instincts and that willingness. Most men are possibly not going to respect, appreciate, and do right by a woman who has shown them that they will accept just about any and everything from them, particularly all while acting in the capacity of provider instead of them. It is bound to end in the way that it began. Lots of males are looking to be wifed up by females these days and for some couples, that’s what they both want. However, if that’s not a woman wants, it’s best to not start it that way.

Smart girl

Yes!! Take every relationship seriously because it can make or break you.

You must date to marry & don’t try to fix a broken man

‼️☝🏿

She's obviously not telling us the full story of her marriages. There are two sides to every story. There must be reasons why she got married in the first place, and why she stayed as long as she did. People tend to turn off their critical thinking skills when someone is telling them what they want to hear.

​@@mel2000 Yours is the only balanced, non-emotional, and curse free comment here. This is the worst bunch of wretched miserable bw i've ever seen!

Exactly. I married and he switched it up quick……and so did it. I divorced him within one year. I already had a man waste my time…..but I was young and dumb. Not allowing it anymore.

@@mel2000: Take into consideration that she’s of a different generation. At one time, if you were sleeping with someone or dating them for any length of time, unless you wanted to be seen as a wh*re, you got married. On top of that, divorce was seen as shameful and scandalous, sinful even. It was to be avoided at all costs. People, especially women, were expected to stay in unhappy marriages and put up with hell and high water. Not to mention that many if not most women were financially dependent on men.

😂😂😂😂

I heard her very well

It's amazing how our mother's use to say, "I ain't one of your little friends ". But now, we have turned into that little friend. Because of my grandma I never remarried, obtained my degrees, and became a business and properties owner

They are looking for a Mommy replacement.

For the so called Christians, a woman was literally designed and created to be a helper or helpmeet. Anything outside of that, you are not fulfilling your purpose. Men should not be ashamed for wanting help.

No - a mom

@YshoniMashinini-ey7cl Poor decision making and poor mate selectivity…not once but twice. No sympathy here.

@AlbertNewton-bf6cr indeed

@AlbertNewton-bf6cr no sir. 😌

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@@marissachapman1022 just shameful 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Old saying, "He should love you more."😊

same😢