Guided Meditation: Befriending Difficult Emotions - Tara Brach

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Tara Brach

Tara Brach

Жыл бұрын

Guided Meditation: Befriending Difficult Emotions, with Tara Brach
The RAIN meditation is one of the most powerful tools I know for working with difficult emotions and discovering the freedom of an awake, compassionate presence. In this short practice, we'll explore how to befriend difficult emotions with the practice of RAIN.
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@nandiniputtarudraiah3618
@nandiniputtarudraiah3618 17 күн бұрын
I'm the holder and the held...so profound! Resting like the ocean in vast, spacious awareness.
@bevdesanto
@bevdesanto 11 ай бұрын
I acknowledged my sadness. I said, "I see you, Sadness. Come. Let's have tea." I felt the pain in my chest as I acknowledged the sadness, as I accepted I am sad. I have tried for years to make people like me. Sadness reminded me to feel who I am, what I am, and accept me as I am. My eyes had tears for the first time in years. My chest is light.
@jessiallan8813
@jessiallan8813 8 ай бұрын
I've been listening to RAIN meditations for a few months now, but this is the first time I saw myself starting to attend to the next step a beat before the guide, and it was really validating how capable I can be at nurturing myself.
@ccsmith4991
@ccsmith4991 Күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this beautiful offering ☺ Reminds me to slow down for all the parts instead of speeding over them in order to get to a conclusion or decision or plan or strategy. Instead to be willing to be with the discomfort of not knowing what to do and allowing the inner parts to have their space and get their needs met. Then I not only feel better but the odds are way better that whatever action arises afterward will be coming from a truer, wiser place and therefore will be more fulfilling in the long-run💚
@JennaD14
@JennaD14 Жыл бұрын
The guttural cry came from deep with in. Thank you for the guidance of the releasing.
@natashatracy5010
@natashatracy5010 Жыл бұрын
I learned some new ways to nurture myself. I often forget that I need to nurture myself, and love this process and reminder ❤ Thank you very much.
@destineeberry3125
@destineeberry3125 Жыл бұрын
A great reminder to trust my goodness, even when myself and others around me doubt it. Lovely meditation ❤️
@isabelfalcon2846
@isabelfalcon2846 Жыл бұрын
I felt the quality of the living light and the divine support. I am learning to trust myself and surrender in the process. Thank you Tara very much .
@granvillelee-warner3551
@granvillelee-warner3551 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m reminded of Stephen Levine’s work/approach in his book “Healing into Life and Death” whereby entering “the pain” with soft eyes. I’m moved to send agape to everyone who is present. I’ve only recently (at the age of 65) begun to love myself with more understanding after a lifetime of being sensitive and deeply feeling those around me. Learning my personal and precious boundaries is a gift which I am just receiving with gratitude. I entered this meditation to approach my anger and will continue to accept and investigate the fear of loneliness that my newfound boundaries will inevitably create. But there is so much joy on the other side of this bridge. I’m grateful to you.
@deborahmartin5410
@deborahmartin5410 Жыл бұрын
I love your share and Tara ❤
@saskiaulbricht
@saskiaulbricht 6 ай бұрын
I'm all stired up today, I'm feeling rejection from my dearest friend, and this meditation has helped me see maybe I'm not wanting to feel this pain. Also it's cutting me off from others.😢
@SpiritualLatte
@SpiritualLatte Жыл бұрын
I learned I want to respect myself more, instead of anticipating others needs/desires. Also I learned to thank the fear for trying to protect me, thank you for sharing
@katecone7416
@katecone7416 Жыл бұрын
As always I feel peace after a morning meditation with you. ❤
@karensiorek1493
@karensiorek1493 Жыл бұрын
I am working on acceptance of a relationship situation that is causing me sadness and fear. It’s triggering some deep issues of abandonment. I loved the story of Mara…I see you, let’s have tea ❤ the entire session was so very helpful, I hadn’t heard of RAIN before and that is something I’ll go back to. The other thing that I really liked was picturing this issue as a wave on the ocean of my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you ☺️🙏❤️
@victoria-louisesweet767
@victoria-louisesweet767 Жыл бұрын
Remembering that it’s ok to make mistakes every day thanks to Tara ❤
@ncn141953
@ncn141953 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for reminding that ‘to resist is to persist.’ I will remember the importance of Recognising and Allowing.
@heatherbrowneyes
@heatherbrowneyes 11 ай бұрын
I had a triggering moment today that made me physically sick. I decided to do a little self care, so I listened to Tara tonight, and this message was so powerful for me. Brought the feeling of compassion comfort and love back to myself. I cried because I needed this so much. Thank you Tara for your words. ❤❤❤
@angelawright1486
@angelawright1486 Жыл бұрын
I loved the lesson about Mara and having tea with Ananda
@IntuitiveLiving
@IntuitiveLiving Жыл бұрын
What a healing experience 🙏 Thank you so much 🙌
@vanessamelchiori5096
@vanessamelchiori5096 Жыл бұрын
I was having a hard day regulating and came online hoping something would help me. I found this and I feel a lot better. I learned that I don't need to set aside a whole hour to meditate, I can use small moments of RAIN to come back to center. Thank you, Tara.
@brenda0101
@brenda0101 11 ай бұрын
I learned I need more forgiveness, love, acceptance from myself. Thank you so much.
@leila9628
@leila9628 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful! I learnt that all seasons, even the storms of the ocean can be accepted as part of my experience
@sarahmcallister2282
@sarahmcallister2282 23 күн бұрын
I learned that through the practice of RAIN I can truly feel more peace in my heart and soul. I have been listening to Tara for a few months and this meditation is the one that gives me hope again ❤ Thank you Tara
@sudeeptasanyal6542
@sudeeptasanyal6542 Жыл бұрын
I learnt how to sit with myself and talk, like a good friend would. And when I named the feelings out aloud such as fear, hopelessness it didn't seem too big and impossible anymore. Also it took me what's the worst that can happen, alley. And it wasn't wo scary then. Thank you Tara❤
@JoanneSampson-rc6fc
@JoanneSampson-rc6fc 2 ай бұрын
I am the holder and the held…wonderful x
@joannerigby5780
@joannerigby5780 Жыл бұрын
I felt a deep loss for a friend who is leaving to go far far away despite how close we are. It brought up a very painful childhood memory and tears flowed.
@marijkevv11
@marijkevv11 Жыл бұрын
@terryzigmund325
@terryzigmund325 10 ай бұрын
Namaste Tara. I learned (finally) what RAIN stands for, and I learned to really sit with, name and investigate my emotions (at least for the purposes of this meditation). I will continue to investigate them. I found the most difficult part was the nurturing, I will work on this too.
@GAILKROLL
@GAILKROLL 9 ай бұрын
I joined the cloud sangha and am in the Practicing RAIN group! Thank you Tara!
@zegearha
@zegearha Жыл бұрын
I don’t want to go to my parents house because I don’t want to let go of my mom, who died. I need to go through my parents things and clean out the house, but I’m facing a lot of inner resistance. This helped me connect some dots this evening. Thank you:)
@fry5544
@fry5544 10 ай бұрын
🧡 I’m so sorry for your loss of your Mum. I really fear loosing my parents one day and I wonder how I will cope with it. Seeing others go through it helps me see that I can survive it too. I wish you comfort, love & light & all the best with your journey of grief & healing. 🧡
@nourakhoury4971
@nourakhoury4971 9 ай бұрын
Biggest realization was that this fear and anxiety came about all in its own from a very deep place. And there was nothing I could do to control it but what I could control was the steps here: 1) recognizing, 2) allowing 3) seeing what beliefs it came with. And speaking compassionately to it. I felt a massive energy shift almost like a boulder being rolled over. It came about on its own but instead of being scared of it I was able to sit with it, and move with it. Work with and through it. Thank you Tara 🙏🏽 we need to carve out time to fully lean into these emotions
@daymegr
@daymegr 7 ай бұрын
I learnead to sit and let my emotions be without trying to change them. I feel then more at peace.
@mariafleet7254
@mariafleet7254 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.. I learnt My fear likes to keep me in sadness😢
@Britbrat31172
@Britbrat31172 10 ай бұрын
I learned that I need to have more grace with myself like a good friend would
@patriciaquaglia1795
@patriciaquaglia1795 11 ай бұрын
The most powerful, effective meditation I’ve ever done hands down. The steps of RAIN is what I learned and that I was not sitting with tea with my emotions.
@winter8646
@winter8646 Жыл бұрын
this was so peaceful, even so with my eyes closed. What I’m trying to learn more of is just understanding my emotions more and to not let them get the best of me. I don’t know how to handle my emotions in a mature way, my think is go distance, be nonchalant, or avoid it and I don’t want that to continue, it’s especially hard dealing with it when it comes to friends, closed ones, or even someone I care about deeply/love. I want to learn how to navigate through those emotions with self compassion and to work through them.
@studiopick5662
@studiopick5662 9 ай бұрын
I learned that I am worthy of my own attention, love and kindness.
@brenzventures
@brenzventures Жыл бұрын
That was very powerful , thankyou , my dog whos in spirit was in my nuture moment it was beautiful , in beginning i was doubtful an dismissive by the end humble and present 👐
@kimberleyplatt3914
@kimberleyplatt3914 Жыл бұрын
There's no doubt that meditation has been a life changer for me in a lot of ways!❤🙏
@jojonelson2880
@jojonelson2880 Жыл бұрын
I want to remember that I matter.
@littleking5257
@littleking5257 4 ай бұрын
I’ve been practicing meditation semi regularly throughout the past 3 years and I like to utilize many different kinds from guided to transcendental and so on. I stumbled upon this today and I had a break through. I have a very difficult time letting myself cry and I was able to release a lot of pain and cry today listening to your words. I hope you see this I’m sending so much love and gratitude your way. I’m going to remember this day. Thank you Tara x
@nicolazcable
@nicolazcable 6 ай бұрын
I learned that exactly what I 'need' from others I can provide my own self. I am here with you and I'm not leaving. We're in this together. We are safe with each other.
@frankgarcia4886
@frankgarcia4886 Жыл бұрын
This was a first for me, I didnt know how to encounter self in dealing with past/ present emotional pain. Thank you, Ms Brach, your guided meditation really helped. I thought dealing with this would be a long painful process, but I came away feeling different, better, before, I really avoided dealing with this, but reached a point where I was tired of having it in front of me constantly. Now I know what to do iwhen something painful pops up, again, thank you so much.
@kristietrosclair5855
@kristietrosclair5855 Ай бұрын
I felt the hurt/ rejection in my ears and heart. I received a voice saying… I am exceptional, never underestimate your value!
@digimook
@digimook Жыл бұрын
I led my first mindfullness of emotions meditation in my mentor group with Nico Hase yesterday. It went well and I used your ice to water to gas visualization ( gave you full credit of course!) and it went pretty well. I lost my nephew at the end of last month and its been a stressful couple of weeks and being able to do this has been very comforting to me. Thanks for your inspiration and kindness ( Jack too!) Namaste. One day I hope to be helping others as you do.
11 ай бұрын
Muchas gracias❤ I Want to Remember that there's always a vulnerable part asking for love behind the toughest face of the emotion.
@jonbanks7192
@jonbanks7192 11 ай бұрын
I learnt that I am able to give to myself what I give to others
@evegua4977
@evegua4977 Жыл бұрын
This 17:37 minute meditation really made me see my uncomfortableness. And why it was there so it was very helpful in that moment to let it go with understanding and care for myself and my emotions to be purposeful for me… 😮 to see how I could find myself at peace in the end of this meditation….❤Thank you I will keep practicing and healing 😇🙏
@Flooorenze
@Flooorenze 3 ай бұрын
I learned that touching my body where I am feeling the emotion helps me deeply to let it out.
@patriciaquaglia1795
@patriciaquaglia1795 11 ай бұрын
❤❤❤this. Absolutely
@johnburke6243
@johnburke6243 11 ай бұрын
These meditations have helped me so much. I see a person who was closed and blocked and is no releasing sliwly
@bineschiff2270
@bineschiff2270 Жыл бұрын
It is the best one I’ve ever tried ❤ I really felt a shift. My mind was very suspicious of it at first, but it calmed down and I almost managed to stay out of self judgement the meditation through. Thank you❤
@lizr9894
@lizr9894 Ай бұрын
I‘ve been living with very difficult circumstances for some time. Feelings of fear, regret, hurt and even shame are my daily companions. But, doing this meditation I was able to feel and more deeply connect with them using kindness, acceptance and forgiveness. My hope is that regular practice will get me through what comes without it making me sick.
@trudifarmer6929
@trudifarmer6929 3 ай бұрын
I had had a very upsetting encounter with a close friend and a couple of days afterwards found myself feeling deeply saddened and very hurt. I listened to Tara's RAIN meditation while I was washing the dishes and noticed an immediate transformation ... both in my state of mind (which became much calmer) and in my heart (which previously had felt as if it was aching physically.) Thank you Tara for this transformative and healing video. 🙏
@vsgurumani307
@vsgurumani307 Ай бұрын
This brought my attention to a key challenge for me with my wife. She is 67 n I am 76. Given our age, I want her to take charge of herself by grounding n seriously planning to take control of all aspects of her life. But she is resisting this, especially in matters of money. I realise the need to stay with this challenge with compassion n kindness to help her shift her position n change herself. Thank you!
@shoshashosha9257
@shoshashosha9257 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Madelyn.earth.daughter
@Madelyn.earth.daughter Жыл бұрын
My longing to be kinder to myself brings me kindness Radical acceptance Truth of who i am I am not the waves I belong to the ocean My soul desires a true belonging to life, I forget I come from love.
@starcupcake100
@starcupcake100 Ай бұрын
Yesterday I had such an intense ego reaction when driving - a pattern I am all too familiar with... I am trying hard to grow spiritually but when triggered like that I feel ashamed and angry - this has helped me to just see it for what it is and to forgive myself and move on. Not hold on to it... Thank you so much Tara❤
@julieroberts3871
@julieroberts3871 Жыл бұрын
Getting in touch with how desperately I am still trying to earn love by performing well--whether at work, at volunteer tasks, at hobbies, with friends and family. You name it, I'm trying to win it so people will like me. Sigh. And also recognizing how deeply unwanted and ashamed I can still feel sometimes when I come home to a house where I live alone. It's like the quietness proves I'm not loved, in spite of many, many wonderful friends and two sweet kitties. Makes me sad but also helps with calming the frantic anxiety--which is really just me running from all of that unworthiness, loneliness and sadness. Thank you, Tara. You've helped me a lot in the last 12 months, especially when you said if you are trauma triggered you can't really do RAIN until you're grounded and regulated. I kept feeling like a failure until I heard that part. I think it was Part 2 of The Awakened Heart. Putting one hand on my heart and one on my belly is now something I do every single day. ❤❤❤
@marjonoostveen2932
@marjonoostveen2932 Жыл бұрын
@theresa3896
@theresa3896 Жыл бұрын
I want to remember I can tap into this oneness when I am grasping for others to love me. I dont need others to validate my goodness. I am good.😢
@oldpineapple
@oldpineapple 2 ай бұрын
This has been so helpful, thank you
@andreadeans2520
@andreadeans2520 7 ай бұрын
Hi Tara , I’m not really ready go and speak about my depression. Ur important to me!! I like your longing to be kind to yourself and to others ? I heal with you , my bud disinformation about mental health will be a problem for me , but with you I realised I am bigger than I can be
@jemimajefferson1497
@jemimajefferson1497 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 this meditation arrived at exactly the right moment for me to connect with anxiety and fear, and understand that that part of me has been aiming to keep me safe. Now I can love that part and appreciate the good intentions ❤🙏
@katrinamaile1357
@katrinamaile1357 Жыл бұрын
My higher self deserves love kindness and understanding. She doesn’t need to be bullied by my mean girl ego. Sitting with self doubt and honouring low self esteem taught me that I have to put myself my peace and my priorities above all. Being gentle with myself instead of mean girl shaming myself and expecting results (self sabotaging). The key to happiness is within the moments I can let go of those doubts and fears and live with purpose ❤
@saraunderwood8943
@saraunderwood8943 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@lovingii
@lovingii Жыл бұрын
coming back to my truth not driven by fear & pain.. unlearning reactions to conditioning by consumerism & culture about my body as a woman.. making space for my being just as i am- in all of my flawed beauty.. seeing through the facade of unworthiness & inadequacy to my truth & the collective truth for everyone.. you are enough just as you are & you are so very beautiful my love 🌹❤️
@sueconnor5487
@sueconnor5487 6 ай бұрын
Thank you. I was feeling shamed for not being careful with my words due to feelings of overwhelm. This meditation has helped, and I will practice it regularly. 🙏💜
@acasyd
@acasyd Жыл бұрын
Loved this meditation it posed lots of questions that I am filtering ❤
@twillsJKZ
@twillsJKZ 7 ай бұрын
“You’re the holder and the held”
@GoshinJutsuNL
@GoshinJutsuNL Жыл бұрын
❤thank you 😊
@patriciaquaglia1795
@patriciaquaglia1795 10 ай бұрын
I want to be present. Being present, for me, requires love and care. I’m a beautiful spirit.
@AS-hb1pj
@AS-hb1pj Жыл бұрын
I realized that I have not accepted my feelings of disappointment in a relationship. When I did acknowledge them, without judging, or guilt, I felt warmth towards both of us.
@GratefulDeb270
@GratefulDeb270 Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@robcormier210
@robcormier210 10 ай бұрын
I am having trouble trying not to worry and be my own worse critic. My feelings of guilt and self criticism have helped me strive to finish school, land a good job and afford to support my family. I think deep inside is a feeling that if I change these habits then everything will fall apart. Ive read the Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer and it sounds so freeing/liberating to just let go and enjoy the moment.
@JanEkbom
@JanEkbom 11 ай бұрын
I learned to recognize exactly where in my body, especially several parts in my stomach and my liver where I practiced RAIN during following your meditation. I have always been angry at my stomach and even though I'm not unfamiliar with the fact that discord at one level is at the same time harmony at another level, I never did practice on my stomach.
@angelwolf5089
@angelwolf5089 6 ай бұрын
@JanEkbom I always read the replies but was struck by your comment that discord at one level is, at the same time, harmony at another level. So much that I noted it in my journal ❤ So well put.
@trudi1drinkell
@trudi1drinkell 2 ай бұрын
I sat with my fear and concern for someone so dear to me. I felt empathy for myself. Thank you.
@amyumpleby6096
@amyumpleby6096 Ай бұрын
I realized I was raised with a sense of lack of abundance. My mom's mantra was "we can't afford it." I think this I one reason why I'm a compulsive eater - there's a sense that this meal won't be available to me in the future.
@asiandermane7403
@asiandermane7403 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lekkerd1ng
@lekkerd1ng 2 ай бұрын
Fear is driving me to feel inadequate, yearning for something unknown, and worryingly comparing myself to others. I'm grateful for the RAIN technique for enabling me to feel the physical sensation of this emotion, as well as taking a moment to acknowledge it for what it is, rather than pushing it away. Thank you for this session.
@susanbarbella3477
@susanbarbella3477 3 ай бұрын
My fear of my illness and my ability to be with it and myself, not to abandon myself in depression. Namaste dear ones
@moiralou3634
@moiralou3634 5 ай бұрын
Thank you Tara🤍 Your voice is withholding so much love, which makes it so easy to soften snd melt in the heart, with whatever is
@nmsinvestsabm927
@nmsinvestsabm927 Жыл бұрын
"resting in your awareness is the real your-self" thank you ma'am. great!
@Sweet2Rani
@Sweet2Rani 7 ай бұрын
I started to cry ... so many emotions coming up....😏
@patriciaquaglia1795
@patriciaquaglia1795 11 ай бұрын
I wanna remember most of all meditating to have tea with my difficult and to befriend them like I would my best friend not just to release them , to give attention to them I feel1000 times better after doing it this way 🎉😊
@vickynewham5545
@vickynewham5545 Жыл бұрын
So, so powerful. Thank you. 💛
@kingoftube9139
@kingoftube9139 5 ай бұрын
I learned how 😢 I have a voice inside saying how much I suck at life and how I'm so scared of screwing up 😢
@joanthompson3813
@joanthompson3813 4 ай бұрын
This meditation helped me accept that I love my therapist, not romantic. My heart and body are full of love. Thank you Tara I've been meditating with you for 3 years it's changed me.
@krzyzanowskamm
@krzyzanowskamm 11 ай бұрын
First I felt a lot of self judgment, but it started to shift into hurt, selfdoubts and fear of falling again into unhealthy patterns of behaving and treating myself. Last couple days I've been visitng my caregivers and noticed how each day makes me more and more miserable... I thought it's because I can't solve their problems, that I'm not enough strong etc. and this meditation has showed that exactly those thougts are the reason of my pain right now and this is an old pattern of thinking. Thank You Tara, all the best❤🙏
@yolandaaranda653
@yolandaaranda653 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I uncovered the "fear" that I have been holding. Since letting go of a relationship. A migraine began and with that, intense pain. Tears started to flow. Grief, pain and fear which I have suppressed in order to move on.....Rain was very helpful. At least the migraine has subsided......😢 Grateful❤
@ibecomeeclectic
@ibecomeeclectic Жыл бұрын
I Can trust myself
@lindyn4
@lindyn4 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much so beautiful and what I needed I want to note take so I can do journal prompts of this, what I learnt it's like I was not allowing my emotions fully because I do not understand them they feel a bit irrational so I was judgemental towards them
@GoshinJutsuNL
@GoshinJutsuNL Жыл бұрын
❤😊
@suzngyn
@suzngyn 2 ай бұрын
Meditation starts 4:35
@snowdogarcticadventureco.9246
@snowdogarcticadventureco.9246 26 күн бұрын
Lean into your feelings and they will be easier to understand, accept and live with.
@jordana99
@jordana99 Жыл бұрын
I have trouble allowing my hurt as well, it hurts!
@jordana99
@jordana99 10 ай бұрын
My third time listening to this as I am struggling to work with my shame over my loss of memory that led me to lying to protect myself. I am fearful of growing older and more incompetent alone. How to accept this?
@shawnarodgers7630
@shawnarodgers7630 Жыл бұрын
when i am agitated or unsteady it's because i am not listening. i am not acknowledging mara.
@nickredman6114
@nickredman6114 11 ай бұрын
I find it difficult to ‘bring up’ the emotions of fear/panic and the hopelessness during meditation but they flood in when I’m not mediating - any advice?
@ktrecovers436
@ktrecovers436 Жыл бұрын
🦋🫂🦋 I learned how to accept the comfort I offer others.
@IG-yy6hw
@IG-yy6hw 5 ай бұрын
I felt sad and betrayed today by someone I had reached out for help to. It took me so courage to be honest and reach out to them . So when I was knockbacked I was hurt and angry and wanted to mentally beat myself up and blame myself. I watched you instead and practiced what you said and I cried but it felt like tears of love and hope. Bless you Tara I'm so glad I found this today ❤
@GoshinJutsuNL
@GoshinJutsuNL Жыл бұрын
❤😊
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