Teachers, what is the biggest red flag you've seen in a student?

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@Playingwithproxies
@Playingwithproxies Ай бұрын
Getting fired for reporting to cps while your a mandatory reporter sounds like a huge employment lawsuit
@sarahm8695
@sarahm8695 Ай бұрын
Came here to say this. I am gobsmacked.
@gnojoe6359
@gnojoe6359 Ай бұрын
You’re*
@raarasunai4896
@raarasunai4896 Ай бұрын
@@gnojoe6359dude. Get. A. Freaking. Life.
@raarasunai4896
@raarasunai4896 Ай бұрын
I agree with our narrator. If people are getting fired for reporting abuse, education is doomed
@nyotamwuaji6484
@nyotamwuaji6484 Ай бұрын
​@@raarasunai4896education is already doomed.
@SusanBaileyAmazingEstate
@SusanBaileyAmazingEstate Ай бұрын
I’m always suspicious of the mom “who didn’t know anything about the abuse.”
@nationalinstituteofcheese3012
@nationalinstituteofcheese3012 Ай бұрын
Why?
@HokageAjRulesTheWorld
@HokageAjRulesTheWorld Ай бұрын
i was assaulted at 8 and my parents didn’t know anything until i told them almost a decade later, things happen, they know now but i didnt tell them and the only signs were my depression but that was signed off as being situational as i was also homeless for a period of time. i think my parents going through so much at the same time didnt help them not picking up on the signs though
@ninia-ti2ik
@ninia-ti2ik Ай бұрын
@@nationalinstituteofcheese3012 Because at some point your kids going to say \ do something to show signs . They arent going to sit there quietly (some might but not all) Soo you cant always say "i didnt know"
@izzybell1892
@izzybell1892 Ай бұрын
Happens all the time my mom never knew my uncle had groomed and assaulted me till I told her at 14
@availanila
@availanila Ай бұрын
It's very common actually; no man or woman wants to think the worst of their partners and very few are looking for it (and even amongst these they're at risk of ruining their families worse especially if wrong.) Also, don't forget the amount of access parents have to their own children, unmitigated anf unsupervised.
@sarahm8695
@sarahm8695 Ай бұрын
The fact that the school cared more for its image than the students and that the teacher got FIRED for literally following the law is disgusting and horrifying.
@moblinmajorgeneral
@moblinmajorgeneral Күн бұрын
That's an expensive lawsuit for that teacher, and that case will probably be pro bono
@RobloxianBros-jd7kr
@RobloxianBros-jd7kr Күн бұрын
We need to enforce homeschooling so this does not happen homeschooling also applies freedom to parents
@ItsContraa
@ItsContraa Ай бұрын
12:57 seriously, if you get fired for making a CPS call, be glad you left the crap place.
@pokemagetech
@pokemagetech Ай бұрын
No. You sue. You drag it out into the open, force them to suffer publicity 1000x worse than they would’ve for the report itself. And even if you somehow lose, they won’t have standing to counter-sue, because you haven’t defamed them.
@Allantitan
@Allantitan 29 күн бұрын
@@pokemagetechnope they defamed themselves already
@pippagrey9633
@pippagrey9633 Ай бұрын
Making the assaulted student alternate days with the assaulter is just punishing the victim again. If I were the parent of the girl, I'd be insisting that the school figure out a way to deal with him and let her have her proper education.
@MischieviousJirachi
@MischieviousJirachi Ай бұрын
So many of these stories have the root cause of homelife being disrupted, negligent, or dysfunctional. It's amazing how intervening early and actually dealing with these behaviors will help, yet this video is just a snippet into the massive amount of households that refuse to act on them.
@wolveswithtea
@wolveswithtea Ай бұрын
That kid scream crying whilst staring at the teacher smiling maniacally with no tears would be FUCKING TERRIFYING
@BeKindAllTheTime
@BeKindAllTheTime Ай бұрын
"Fourth graders are typically very sweet, light-hearted, and not bratty yet." I want to know what fourth grade class they're talking about because I went to a private LUTHERAN school in fourth grade, and my classmates were throwng around inuendos and swearing like nobody's business. They knew exactly what they were saying, too. The third and fourth grade teacher said that our class and the class befotre us were probably the worst two classes she had taught in her 35 years of teaching at the same school. My teachers from 7th and 8th grade completely agree. There were fights everywhere, we were almost a year behind on material because of class disruptions (which resulted in everyone coming close to failing and having to repeat), vaping in the bathrooms, death threats from students to other students in THIRD GRADE. Third grade! For years, I've been wondering how the parents can just let their kids act like this. The parents act like their kids can do no wrong, when the teachers and classmates are saying otherwise. The students even acted in these ways toward their parents, as I saw at sporting events. I can't blame any of these behaviors on mental disability, because the only IEPs in the class were for speech impediments. We went on an overnight field trip to a summer camp in 7th grade, and my classmates had ZERO respect for anyone, even the camp leaders (as I was told. I had a migraine from the heat, so I had to stay in the cabin for the entire trip). The class after mine went to the same camp the next year, and they were still talking about our class, saying that the other class was so much better, and I don't blame them. My classmates sucked. They still act like this sometimes in high school. I hope they grow up soon, because I don't want to know where they will end up if they don't.
@lovelysakurapetalsyt
@lovelysakurapetalsyt Ай бұрын
Compulsive scab picking and such can be a sign of stuff like depression and anxiety, and to some degree can be a thing with ADHD or autism, where the texture feels wrong so you try to get it off. For anxiety and depression, it usually comes from needing some kind of physical input to stop thoughts, so many turn to picking scabs so they don't harm themselves worse
@pokemagetech
@pokemagetech Ай бұрын
For the autism, it can also be the OCD-like behaviors that can come with it. (I would know.)
@lovelysakurapetalsyt
@lovelysakurapetalsyt Ай бұрын
@@pokemagetech Absolutely true!
@sonyabruns
@sonyabruns Ай бұрын
For ADHD it could be a form of fidgeting too. Sometimes a fidgit toy could help change that behavior.
@lovelysakurapetalsyt
@lovelysakurapetalsyt Ай бұрын
@@sonyabruns That can also be true. I'm someone with autism with ADHD-like symptoms where fidget toys don't help me, and I'll scratch out my scabs anyways
@lambybunny7173
@lambybunny7173 Ай бұрын
It's also known as dermatillomania. Absolutely sucks I have OCD and autism and I have it bad with my lips. Any time I feel that the skin is "uneven" I have to peel it even though I know it'll hurt. Sucks majorly
@luckyslob3359
@luckyslob3359 Ай бұрын
Every child deserves parents, not every parent deserves a child, and some kids are just straight up nightmares
@teutonicsniper2502
@teutonicsniper2502 19 күн бұрын
Wow, so original 🙄
@WendyDarling1974
@WendyDarling1974 Ай бұрын
I threw up a lot of red flags when I was a kid based on the content of my stories and essays, coupled with my behavior, which was pretty atrocious and odd (before things were diagnosed). My parents would be contacted because I had adult themes and violence in my stories. Very well written, but with stuff that a second or third grader shouldn’t know about. I wasn’t getting it from my parents or any violence or sex at home, I was just watching TV and reading books above grade level and didn’t know it wasn’t appropriate for school. When I was around 9 I wrote about a girl who introduces her mom to her new boyfriend and her mom goes ballistic because the new boyfriend’s dad had raped her in the past. Later on in the story, the mom’s rapist stalks and kills her. I didn’t know rape was off the table. Honestly, it’s got to be pretty difficult to tell the difference between a child’s active imagination versus actual issues and situations they’re dealing with. I can see where you’d want to err on the side of caution but I’m also quite glad no one ever proceeded with anything legally with my parents. It wasn’t anything bad going on at home.
@lordvoldemort5586
@lordvoldemort5586 Ай бұрын
I was an IEP kid and let me tell you there are some very interesting people in that program. I remember in particular we have one girl that everyone in the actual group of kids would call Miss psycho, and not to be mean. She once punched our pregnant teacher in the belly trying to cause a miscarriage; another time she ran off with the wheelchair of our one-legged teacher's aide because she thought it would be funny to watch him hobble after it. And if she got mad her fits were so bad that the teachers weren't even allowed to handle them anymore they had to call the resource officer that was stationed at the school to handle it. The last time I saw her was after my school locked her in one of what they called The quiet rooms which was basically just a closet for the kids that they didn't know how to handle. It had a small window that you couldn't see through a desk that was screwed to the wall and if you were lucky a chair, she was not though. I was actually in the room next door to her at this time because I had argued with the teacher earlier in the day because they were wrong on something they were teaching us and refused to admit it but I had a chair. It was right after lunch time and surprisingly the secretaries had remembered our food this time. This meant she had a tray screwed on desk and the window. She use the tray to break the window then open the door from the outside which is the only way you could open the door. After she was free she decided to open my door to free me, which was honestly quite surprising, before going to the secretarial desk and holding one of the secretaries at glass point. I stayed in my closet for the hour long stand off that ensued. The resource officer eventually got the upper hand and she was taken out in cuffs screaming she would quote "blow this building sky high." Another boy broke one of the other windows using his head the next year and was apparently laughing when the paramedics arrived. I think part of the reason we all went insane in those rooms at some point or another but it's basically a 10 by 10 closet where they could shut the lights off to quote "keep us calm". Many of us spent most of the year in those. It was basically like giving students solitary confinement for a very small crimes.
@SoulDevoured
@SoulDevoured Ай бұрын
Yeah that's um ... Literally torture and child abuse.
@lordvoldemort5586
@lordvoldemort5586 Ай бұрын
@@SoulDevoured oh I'm aware there's multiple lawsuits from kids that were put through that currently pending. I chose to not go through with a lawsuit but many other people decided to
@TheStarsTwilight
@TheStarsTwilight Ай бұрын
It's truly horrifying here about how common abuse like this is in dedicated special ed. schools. The dehumanization of literal children is mortifying to hear of.
@redjoker365
@redjoker365 Ай бұрын
@@TheStarsTwilight I'm a survivor of our extremely carceral and underfunded state psychiatric hospitals. Cops and hospital employees actually killed a patient at one by dog-piling and suffocating him. Virginia Central State Hospital. I was at SWVMHI in Marion, and that place scares the shit out of hillbillies who aren't afraid of going into the pitch-black coal mines The places are horrifying and degrading, but at the same time I saw a patient on the pediatric ward during our marches to the chow hall. He was a 16-year-old kid whose father wanted a football star. So daddy dearest kept giving him steroids and other performance enhancing drugs until all that was left in him was rage. He broke people's arms like they were nothing I don't really know what the humane option is in these cases. Having been over-medicated several times before, I can tell you that a life sedated isn't worth living. We don't have the resources yet to keep them in gilded cages so large that they wouldn't know they're confined, and then there's also the problem of keeping them in solitude being torture, but also keeping them around others is too dangerous. Any kind of physical restraint can eventually get worked out of. As horrifying as it sounds, I think the only option that spares their lives and keeps their minds in tact if all other forms of therapy fails is permanent physical disability, like having a surgeon rupture the Achilles tendon on opposite legs every couple years
@sdaspo4909
@sdaspo4909 Ай бұрын
Say what you will about her but at least she cared about her fellow tortured children enough to free you from your cells
@StephBer1
@StephBer1 Ай бұрын
The day Twin Towers were destroyed my daughter was in 4th grade. I took her to school, not sure if school was cancelled or not. One of her classmates, who was also a new friend, came running up at school, telling us that her aunt had fallen out of the window of the 80th floor of one of the towers! She was crying and I started giving her my condolences. Then she pipes up and told me she was being transported to the hospital with a broken leg...after falling 80 floors. This kid was know to lie and I let it slide but I was really angry with her, as it was a terrible day, and told her that it couldn't have been the 80th floor. She doubled down and started screaming at me that it was. I told her I didn't believe her and it was a terrible thing to lie about. Later that day, after much thought, I went and saw her mother about it, wondering if she needed some help. The mother told me that she wasn't lying as she did have an Aunt who lived in New York. Apparently the mother thought that any sliver of truth made the lie not a lie! About 6 weeks later they moved her to another school. Good Riddance.
@theshinypeliper8813
@theshinypeliper8813 Ай бұрын
The story about the op using urinals with his pants all the way down got a chuckle out of me
@GaskyChan
@GaskyChan Ай бұрын
Basically doing a Butters from South Park
@sunnyandthechlo
@sunnyandthechlo Ай бұрын
I graduated high school in 2001 and they knew NOTHING about mental health. I was picked on almost daily by teachers, one in particular couldn’t go a single day without saying something horrible or sarcastic to or about me. Instead of asking if anything was wrong I got bullied. And I was a good kid, straight A’s until my mental health made them slip and never got detention for bad behavior, just things like being late or not bringing a note after an absence.
@pufpufpuffin
@pufpufpuffin Ай бұрын
That really sucks, especially coming from teachers. I'm sorry that happened to you.
@VOID_Mootove
@VOID_Mootove Ай бұрын
By the way IEP isn’t just disabilities. I am a IEP kid but it’s because I am advanced, so I have a different education plan that normal students.
@Doggo226
@Doggo226 Ай бұрын
I also have an IEP, but it’s for both reasons. I’m a grade ahead in math, but also get to wear headphones and leave class 5 minutes early.
@thatkingdomheartsguy9615
@thatkingdomheartsguy9615 Ай бұрын
Wouldn't reporting abuse and getting a child away from an abusive family be good for a schools reputation.
@J4SP3RS
@J4SP3RS Ай бұрын
you can hear the sadness and empathy in his voice throughout the video :( it always pains me to hear these stories and i have a feeling of dread listening to them yet i always stick around for the entire video
@reneelibby4885
@reneelibby4885 Ай бұрын
Kids teach themselves how to cry???? Normal kids? I wouldn't know - I had a very abusive childhood and had plenty to cry about. Except I better NOT cry.
@themurmeli88
@themurmeli88 20 күн бұрын
There is nothing normal about a kid teaching themselves how to cry, ffs. xS
@bdawg1118
@bdawg1118 18 күн бұрын
Absolutely not. I’ve never seen that before. It is most definitely NOT normal
@siqxyre8473
@siqxyre8473 Ай бұрын
20:10 nothing enrages me more than this op It’s so obvious this kid is being sexually abused and what did they do? Send him to homeschool to isolate him with his abusive parents. It’s absolutely heart wrenching to see how little empathy op has for this poor child. I hope op feels the guilt weigh on their conscience forever.
@midnight1978
@midnight1978 Ай бұрын
While I get that many of these kids are really terrifying, I mostly just feel sorry for them. They're kids and most of them probably have or had some deep rooting issues that just get overlooked or ignored. And if the kid acts up they get send to a different class/school where it most likely will continue. Out of sight out of mind.
@user-pi7gc4wg8k
@user-pi7gc4wg8k Ай бұрын
The kid who cuts bugs in half and looks for crayons to eat will have a great career in the Marine corps later on in life.
@randystanton1224
@randystanton1224 Ай бұрын
I could have been many of these children. Addiction, prison, crime. Almost 40. So much was ignored, in the 90s no one listened or cared. Guidence counselor once said his dad beat him w a broom so things werent that bad. I didnt have time to get to the bad parts. Lifes hard.
@localcompanion
@localcompanion Ай бұрын
I never got attention growing up, and the only thing i really knew was discipline. My mom treated me like I was a trophy, never really giving me the emotional support i needed while only giving me physical attention and nothing else. I was never taught a lot of things either that a child should learn from their parents. I became a sneaky asshole in school. I would manipulate and use people to benefit myself and when i got into highschool it was more of the same stuff. I always knew how to talk my way out of trouble. When i turned 20, i went to therapy with the hopes of being diagnosed with ADHD so i could get on meds. Instead, after several sessions, i was diagnosed with ASPD + NPD (on top of ADHD as well as tendencies for BPD). Needless to say, i was taken aback and surprised all to hell. Lately ive been trying to make do with that knowledge and try to project something beneficial into the world. Have been a manipulator myself, i find it easy to point out things people may miss in relationships. If someone has problems with their s/o, they come to me. It helps me try to amend all the damage i did as a youth. Not sure where to go from here, but im taking it one day at a time.
@LaraKeller-su3zc
@LaraKeller-su3zc Ай бұрын
My younger brother is A.S.P.D. You can learn cognitive empathy, if you really want to. Obviously, it's in your best interest to follow the law as much as possible to avoid incarceration 🤷. You might want to go somewhere else & get a second opinion on your diagnosis. Most sociopaths have little regard to trying to amend any damage they may have caused or anything like that. N.P.D. can be treated.
@localcompanion
@localcompanion Ай бұрын
@LaraKeller-su3zc I never said I was a sociopath. I was considering going to therapy again but I really don't feel like I need to. My quality of life is decent enough and I don't really care too much to pay for something I feel I don't really need. After getting my diagnosis way back when I stopped seeing my therapist altogether after a while because I realized she wasn't gonna get me on meds
@LaraKeller-su3zc
@LaraKeller-su3zc Ай бұрын
@@localcompanion What in the hell do you think A.S.P.D. IS???🤣🤣🤣
@onyx_mango
@onyx_mango 25 күн бұрын
one day at a time is great ;) u got this! keep it going
@small_and_dangerous2068
@small_and_dangerous2068 Ай бұрын
6:12 Yes! Most children know how to make themselves cry or at the very least how to fake it. The difference is why they’re doing it. I taught toddlers up through the age of 5 and if they ever made themselves cry it’s because they didn’t want to do something, plain and simple. Take napping for example. I can see on a child’s face that they’re exhausted and need this nap, they know they’re tired, but they want to play so they cry to fight it and me. Some kids cry for attention, but they don’t usually make stuff up. Especially not things that drastic and it’s not constant and every day.
@mrnowak2835
@mrnowak2835 Ай бұрын
I remember my criminology teacher telling us she was only truly scared of 1 student in her life. He was massive for a 17 year old. He never talked and had that soulless look about him. Like the body was there but the soul wasn’t it was creepy according to her. She point blank refused to be alone in a room with him. When he finished school she felt relieved.
@LaraKeller-su3zc
@LaraKeller-su3zc Ай бұрын
That made me think of an old movie called " The River's Edge ". The protagonist was a kid like that. It's really good....& very chilling.
@Demonetization_Symbol
@Demonetization_Symbol Ай бұрын
Please don't hate students!
@toxinistired849
@toxinistired849 26 күн бұрын
taking away recess has been proven to make behavioral issues worse..... that one teacher just doesn't gaf.
@onyx_mango
@onyx_mango 25 күн бұрын
literally
@MistyEry
@MistyEry 20 күн бұрын
Agreed. It’s the one place kids can use up their energy.
@rynieryarom4277
@rynieryarom4277 Ай бұрын
Are teachers exempt from retaliation laws? Mandatory reporting ARE teachers responsibility, that means its part of their job. But they can get fired for doing their job?
@L0STDREAMER2415
@L0STDREAMER2415 Ай бұрын
Story 5 is one I relate to. I have a ton of scabs and red bumps on my arm and I have a tendency to pick at them over and over again. I always get told to stop, but I just can't stop.
@RabidWildCreature
@RabidWildCreature Ай бұрын
"he had an evil smile all while making crying noises" ooh. oh. dont like that at all.
@________stephens8251
@________stephens8251 Ай бұрын
as someone who was abused to the point of developing DID this makes me I wonder what my teachers noticed about us... and if they did anything
@aaron9797
@aaron9797 Ай бұрын
that is enough internet for the day
@AlexxitheVoidboi
@AlexxitheVoidboi Ай бұрын
14:29 Op's calendar math is correct. The next Wednesday after Christmas break was January 2nd. Yes, the 26th was a Wednesday, but that's part of the week of Christmas break.
@Moon_x_sun
@Moon_x_sun Ай бұрын
There is a week between Christmas and new years (if you celebrate Christmas on the 24th) :)
@Blitz0555
@Blitz0555 Ай бұрын
Didn't expect an Angron of the World Eaters cameo in one of those stories
@bubzilla6137
@bubzilla6137 Ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure OP meant the second Wednesday after Christmas, not the very next day. Obviously the next day would have been December 26th, but the second Wednesday after Tuesday December 25th, would have been January 2nd. Perhaps the wording was a little unclear, but I knew what they meant and I'm pretty certain they know what they meant.
@Damyyyy
@Damyyyy Ай бұрын
Not really affecting me now but back when I was in elementary school, my dad was a gang member + drug dealer and my mom was always at strip clubs etc... anywàys me and some of my other siblings were badly abused like them using needles and other stuff on us and always were locked in the dark of the basement (ofc not to go in school but most of the time..). I would always try to get signs to the teacher. Dont really remember exactly what I did though. The teachers always brushed the stuff off and claimed it was just fine not really suspecting things. If your in education dealing with children please dont ignore their behaviour like that
@heatheral-hammadi3046
@heatheral-hammadi3046 Ай бұрын
Once one has exhibited psychopathy they don’t get better.
@lambybunny7173
@lambybunny7173 Ай бұрын
This is blatantly false, people with ASPD (psychopathy is a heavily outdated term) can and more often than not are average people, just with more challenges socially than those who don't have it. With therapy and self-work it can be worked through and accommodated for. All mental illnesses should be treated as such, people are not evil for having mental problems and you have no doubt met people with ASPD, psychosis, schizophrenia, what have you without even knowing it because we are not what sensationalized media tells you we are. I have autism, OCD with psychosis, and NPD and with therapy I've been able to function semi-normally. It just takes extra work because society isn't built for people like us and people like to make us out to be disgusting horrible monsters when according to research we are actually more likely to be victims of crimes than perpetrators.
@lambybunny7173
@lambybunny7173 Ай бұрын
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK537064/ research I mentioned as well
@TheMrcbritt2
@TheMrcbritt2 23 күн бұрын
You cannot diagnose someone with sociopath or psychopath (or any other form of Anti Social Personality Disorder) until they are 18. Hell all young children have development that is essentially that of a psychopath.
@herstoryanimated
@herstoryanimated 22 күн бұрын
I was sat next to a reg flag kid at school, it was really hard. I was terrified of him, but was told "you need to be an example for him to follow" any time I tried to complain. He threatened me all the time, broke my things, tried to hit me with a metal ruler (left holes in my folder as I used that as a shield). I hated that class and learned nothing, since I lived in fear instead of being able to focus. If you are a teacher, please don't force other kids to have to deal with this. You're the adult! Both of us would've been better off sitting alone - he wouldn't have been able to assault me/threaten to, and I could've focused. End of the day, I hope he did alright, he had a lot of problems going on behind the scenes and was being bullied I think, so I don't really blame him for this, but I do blame the adults for caring more about trying to get him to fit in, rather than for me to be safe. I really think he would've done better with 1:1 teaching, and its shit that no one provided that for him.
@chloesibilla8199
@chloesibilla8199 Ай бұрын
There was this kid that would bash his head into the bus window while cackling madly. He'd also constantly try and lick me , id tell him to stop then he'd start back up a minute later, for that whole school year it just became a neverending cycle of pushing him away and literally holding him back the whole bus ride home, I got yelled at when I tried to sit in a different seat. We were on a short bus and half the seats were empty. I was being punished by the angry driver by being put in the front seat with that kid. What was I in trouble for? Complaining about the sensory overload of the short bus... because I was special needs and the whole bus REAKED like that fresh weirdly sweet chemical smelling plastic and there was this kid that would just SCREAM. That on top of the kid literally trying to push himself on top of me and force his tongue in my mouth for half an hour EVERY DAY for that whole school year and id have really bad panic attacks from it all...the panic attacks were the reason I was on that bus to start with.
@chloesibilla8199
@chloesibilla8199 Ай бұрын
Oh and that kid had the worst case of lobotomy doll face id ever seen, his parents had him on something that reduced him to a doll that sometimes tried to assault people. I still struggle with internalized ableism because of him . I wonder if he was even human anymore and if it was cruel torture not just letting his body rest.
@ChiquitaBanana-si5qq
@ChiquitaBanana-si5qq 18 күн бұрын
The comment about chronic scab picking being a “sign”: Was a school nurse, for years. My “frequent flyers who did this daily needed love. They did it for nurturing. I say that because after MANY days in a row I told one, “You don’t have to be bleeding to come see me. In the mornings, on your way to class, if you need/want a hug, stop and see me.”. The picking stopped. I did the same with the next, & the next… I had so many little babies coming for hugs, some it was every time they passed my office. 😭. I can’t think of them without crying. If I could have I would have taken them all. The “troubled kids” were my special visitors and any time they were missing, I always got a call from the office, “Is _____ down there with you?” Lol. They almost always were. Children seek out love, the problems start when they give up. Positive attention, understanding & acceptance cures many things.
@rainbowstreak9615
@rainbowstreak9615 Ай бұрын
When I was a freshman in high school, I had a classmate who said something "really funny" happened recently... "My mom hit my cat and she died." The whole class went silent and stared at her, until someone finally asked, "How is that funny?" She kind of started backpedaling, but couldn't really explain herself. I used to be friends with her, but I started getting a bad feeling from her after that. It sounds like my gut was right on the money, because she became a big bully later on. Despite claiming she was against bullying, she tried to start a cyberbullying trend against one girl for no reason. Luckily, I don't think many people joined in.
@catnoir1333
@catnoir1333 9 күн бұрын
Not a teacher, but this reminds me of a kid back in elementary. She peed in her chair, and then started barking like a dog. She started crawling under the desks while our teacher had us move over towards the door. Never know what happened to that girl
@nikotm2856
@nikotm2856 Ай бұрын
regarding story 5: i have similar compulsions (not to that extreme but i do sometimes pick my skin until it bleeds) AND i get itchy enough with allergies to *want* to scratch underneath my skin, thank god i haven't (but i have accidentally broken my skin scratching too hard 😐). this kid definitely had something going on. it's near impossible to diagnose mental illnesses in children under like, 10ish (especially things like sociopathy and psychopathy, pretty much every kid shows socio/psycho behavior a few times) and i only have highschool ap psych level knowledge so i won't say much about it but it does definitely seem like he may have something.
@ashleyn8735
@ashleyn8735 Ай бұрын
When I was in elementary, I knew these twins and one of them would always do odd things (in my opinion what I thought was odd at 9 years old) but one time, he broke open a pen and started to basically drink the ink. I knew enough about ink to know it was not good. The only thing I thought he did it for was to die. I told the teacher that he was drinking the ink from his pen and I hadn’t seen either twin in years until about senior year, I saw the twin who did not break open a pen and turns out it’s all good now. But that’s my red flag story😅
@marcmeinzer8859
@marcmeinzer8859 Ай бұрын
Had this tenth grader at Cleveland South High School in 1996 I called Nature Boy because he disliked wearing a shirt. One day Cleveland police detectives showed up to examine my attendance book to determine whether or not he’d been in class on a given day. I told them he was marked present but that it might not hold up in court because I had one of the girls take attendance for me. When they got up to leave I asked them which squad they were with. One of them answered “homicide”.
@susanmayer9791
@susanmayer9791 Ай бұрын
I was working as a high school secretary. As I was walking down a small hallway that housed the offices of the social workers I saw a young man sitting on the floor waiting for his social worker. He was crying, then he started ramming the top of his head into the cinder block wall. I ran up to him to stop him, then ran to find his social worker. She took over from there.
@cesarestrada3619
@cesarestrada3619 Ай бұрын
7:16 Story 5 sounds a lot like Bar Jonah a cannibal child murder and sexual abuser.
@jamie5661
@jamie5661 Ай бұрын
I feel like they should have helped that kid who seems to be sociopathic, he has even less of a chance as an adult now. The mother definitely should have taken her child to therapy when she was noticing the fake crying. Edit: I'm actually so angry at the people posting this that didn't help these children. It's not that hard, see something say something.
@corvusdominus9835
@corvusdominus9835 Ай бұрын
Society would rather slap a temporary bandaid on a on an infected weeping wound than do any permanent fixes because it isn’t profitable. I hate humanity for this reason.
@madisonh1280
@madisonh1280 Ай бұрын
Therapy isn’t a fix all solution and some people don’t know how to work with that. The programs they need are often expensive too.
@Midnightaperson
@Midnightaperson Ай бұрын
I was literally picking the scab on my head when the scap story came on 😭
@Lampe2020
@Lampe2020 Ай бұрын
That background footage was freaking me out more than the stories in the video (the ones I've heard so far, I'm only seven minutes into the video). The background footage is pretty close to the kind of dream that you half-control, where you cramp up to e.g. try to stop a wheel or pendulum, just for it to go even faster the other way. And I felt my legs cramping up whenever that dang ball didn't get pushed down when my subconcious wanted it to, or when it almost got stuck somewhere and I tried to lift it up with my will power, fully knowing that my thoughts will not have any effect on the video. I couldn't even listen fully!
@pokemagetech
@pokemagetech Ай бұрын
…you should probably see a psychologist…
@MischieviousJirachi
@MischieviousJirachi Ай бұрын
It's a game called exo one, but also I would definitely see someone about that.
@Lampe2020
@Lampe2020 Ай бұрын
@@pokemagetech Just so you know, I have already, about a decade ago. I have an autism diagnosis and I think the fact that my brain is wired differently is the cause for me feeling that way when seeing that. But I've heard from several people who also have the kind of dream I described, so at least that is something pretty common.
@pokemagetech
@pokemagetech Ай бұрын
@@Lampe2020 I’m autistic, too. Have you been screened for anything else?
@Lampe2020
@Lampe2020 Ай бұрын
@@pokemagetech Dunno, is after all already almost a full decade ago. I can't get the darn papers for it either even though I need them to be able to take driving lessons in Sweden…
@Toenail_VR
@Toenail_VR 4 күн бұрын
You can't blame the kid in story 25, bullying sucks.
@lemmingsishard
@lemmingsishard 20 күн бұрын
I like being alive too much to be a teacher
@peachturnover7641
@peachturnover7641 Ай бұрын
Trauma doesn't affect everyone the same. There are surely typical signs of abuse, but of course some kids don't show them.
@Baconator_JYSN
@Baconator_JYSN 27 күн бұрын
Some of these kids sound like they'd make horror movie villains blush
@bgaming9.
@bgaming9. Ай бұрын
unrelated, but you should start putting the name of the game in the background in the description
@Jack_Kennedy_is_here
@Jack_Kennedy_is_here Ай бұрын
Whats the game in the background, I'm kinda wanting to know because it looks like a good time waster.
@idk-dg1to
@idk-dg1to Ай бұрын
exo-one, hope this helps :)
@Jack_Kennedy_is_here
@Jack_Kennedy_is_here Ай бұрын
@@idk-dg1to Thank you, have a great day/night ^^
@Keyonne88
@Keyonne88 16 күн бұрын
Taking away recess has been factually proven to make bad behavior worse through multiple studies. Bro needs to update his teacher's education. (I have a master's degree in education)
@boneymeroney2674
@boneymeroney2674 Ай бұрын
Nope. While there might be a cute little nugget buried in the stories.... I noped out of this one after story 1. 😮
@Boogledigs
@Boogledigs Ай бұрын
In one schòol, a student was behaving strangely. He really unnerved me. One day, he stole newborn rabbits. They were rescued. We all became very wary of him. Years later, he was convicted of murder.
@Logan_Bishop_YT
@Logan_Bishop_YT 10 күн бұрын
Holy shit. That background looks really cool.
@silvertalon007
@silvertalon007 29 күн бұрын
The letter opener kid wasn't a red flag, HE'S A GOTTDANG ROAD FLARE
@julife.ka.3899
@julife.ka.3899 25 күн бұрын
41:33 'he used to crawl on the floor looking for crayons to eat, but that might just have been a kid thing' really REALLY drives the point of just how little these kids are
@suelviadomingos5411
@suelviadomingos5411 24 күн бұрын
Story 2 - ooohhh that child is a sociopath… Jesus
@Nina_KitYT
@Nina_KitYT 19 күн бұрын
Dang, now I know why my teachers hated me
@firehawkthechosen
@firehawkthechosen 25 күн бұрын
Had teachers scream in my face because they thought I was talking. Could never imagine one ever asking me if I'm being abused and that's pretty fucking sad.
@RebekkaJones
@RebekkaJones 24 күн бұрын
*couldn't *I'm *won't *didn't *doesn't *mom's *didn't *wasn't
@Kp-0-
@Kp-0- Ай бұрын
i never get adds gon this channel
@endernightblade1958
@endernightblade1958 Ай бұрын
lucky
@SoulDevoured
@SoulDevoured Ай бұрын
I get at least 4-5 every video. It's kinda annoying.
@Serial_Designation_X
@Serial_Designation_X Ай бұрын
i get less ads but not none
@finalhour4406
@finalhour4406 23 күн бұрын
The number of sociopaths and serial killers that we're around every day is ridiculous now.
@Abyssal_Art
@Abyssal_Art 22 күн бұрын
I’m a senior this year- last year a freshman or sophomore in band said that he was on parole bc he SA’d his little sister. I have to work with him in bassline this year and if he says anything else abt it I’m sending him to the director. I can’t deal with that shit
@D4viant
@D4viant Ай бұрын
Story 46 thus far the only one that actually made my heart sting for sadness
@BoxOKittens
@BoxOKittens 25 күн бұрын
I know I scared my elementary school teachers because of how blank I was. I remember literally choosing to cry once when I got hurt because I was curious. After a few minutes I decided it sucked and stopped 😅
@Majora404err01r
@Majora404err01r 5 күн бұрын
What is the name of the game being played throughout the video?
@uniquegeek2708
@uniquegeek2708 Ай бұрын
Story 2: oh geez no, doing put him in a drama class. It wouldn't redirect his energy, he would just use the info to be a more skilled sociopath. Same reason you don't send people with full blown malignant narcissism to therapy or psychology classes. They take that info to get more skilled at messing with people.
@DaDucko12
@DaDucko12 15 күн бұрын
I think the brian one was the dude thought it was funny to be able to cry at will and it ended up being useful later on
@annisaissadi9257
@annisaissadi9257 Ай бұрын
The audio is weirdly small
@Regrettable-Username
@Regrettable-Username Ай бұрын
What game is playing in the background?
@l3scOmgAming4370ARTGAMING
@l3scOmgAming4370ARTGAMING 24 күн бұрын
Brian being a drug dealer really makes sense,heres how:- sociopath-->grow to 18 y/o-->get a job-->get fired-->snort that pack-->love it-->decide to make other people taste this "beauty"(ofc drugs are the worst thing ever im just making it how he thinks in his mind,so dont think i like drugs,they are disgusting)
@vincentheartland2088
@vincentheartland2088 20 күн бұрын
Omg what game is this in the background?
@GitGoodGaming
@GitGoodGaming Ай бұрын
I don't think I'll be on here but damn I know I scared a LOT of teachers when I was younger... I've gotten a lot better as I've gotten older and have been graduated since 2012 but man my K-5 was nuts I threw more red flags than a soccer referee
@KOKO-uu7yd
@KOKO-uu7yd 3 күн бұрын
Story 23 ‐ there are those that just WILL NOT BE HELPED BY THIS! If you can not understand this, DO NOT TEACH *ESPECIALLY* SPECIAL NEEDS!!!
@libra818
@libra818 18 күн бұрын
I attended a school with a girl, who nobody really liked. She was quiet, reserved, and had very little interaction with other people, besides a couple of girls. that became less of an occurrence after one moved. I hardly ever saw her express emotions, either. (TW: BLOOD) One day, in science class, we had to dissect a cow heart. There were about eight long tables in the room, and she was in the back near a group of boys. I'm not sure what happened to set her off, but after sitting there doing nothing for a while, I saw the scariest smile I have ever seen on anybody. Then, she began laughing as she stabbed a small bit of the heart she had dissected, over and over again. I have never heard somebody laugh like that. It was psychotic. The boys at the table were rightfully freaked out. Eventually the teacher came over to see what the fuss was about, and the girl just put her head in her arms. I should probably mention, that I know this girl was bullied. And as for her home life, I heard from somebody else that it certainly wasn't pleasant. And I, along with everybody else, knew she self harmed. One of the things I noticed about her, was she really liked animals. From rescuing a lizard from a group of kids, to releasing a bird out of a window, and saving a ladybug. She wasn't heartless. I truly don't know what her case was, but wherever she is now, I really hope she got help.
@Lilacx25
@Lilacx25 8 күн бұрын
I wanna know what the game in the background is!! It looks so fun and pretty! Also these kids are wild…
@TheSwampChicken-II
@TheSwampChicken-II Күн бұрын
Bruh, I had a fucking IEP and I was sometimes scared shitless of other folks who had IEP’s. IEP or no you can still be scary as fuck.
@bethroth7623
@bethroth7623 Ай бұрын
What is the game going on in the background? It looks really interesting.
@uniquegeek2708
@uniquegeek2708 Ай бұрын
Story 10: beginning of that sounded like the twins in my mom's classroom who had FAS. Their mother did drugs and alcohol while pregnant. She was also the school trustee. Tons of fun to deal with, considering everything.
@RobloxianBros-jd7kr
@RobloxianBros-jd7kr Күн бұрын
In my school we the kids with anger issues would be forced in a room with a guy with 0 special ed experience and did not learn anything despite this im doing good in home school
@RobloxianBros-jd7kr
@RobloxianBros-jd7kr Күн бұрын
I used to know a kid that once innocent but has since gone to juvie and talks about 18+ stuff he was in seventh grade
@lovvii9160
@lovvii9160 22 күн бұрын
What game is this?
@mehpoorheart
@mehpoorheart Ай бұрын
It's 5am and I just got done sobbing to a mha ep of dabi and now I'm watching this so I can distract myself 🫡
@thatoneguyffs
@thatoneguyffs 5 күн бұрын
I was one of those nothing kids and my parents were poor so only option was do nothing and see what happens and the only thing I can say is dont upset them like at all. It may be difficult but it will build until a meltdown happens
@Distriived
@Distriived Ай бұрын
It's surprising how smart a two year old can be. We told our son he could get a toy if he could start pooping on the potty. Well I caught him in the bathroom using a piece of toilet paper (this part blew my mind that a 2 year old would be germ conscience) to pick his crap out of his pullup up and put it in the toilet. If I hadn't caught him halfway through doing this I probably would have believed him. 😅
@ratedsforsisters2717
@ratedsforsisters2717 Ай бұрын
16:48 this reminded of the time in middle school a boy held a knife he made of tinfoil to my neck in art class. Just snuck up behind me. I think I was just confused when it happened. He was a weird dude. Has done worse things but that was all after middle school. Got a criminal record as a minor for stabbing someone with a pencil because they either insulted or hit on his female cousin (I can’t remember). It could be a lie though too. He, again, was weird. Yet oddly nice to me at times
@Emanuel10348
@Emanuel10348 11 күн бұрын
He probably was a psycopath or something
@meroleona3951
@meroleona3951 Ай бұрын
I was a pre-k teacher for awhile but we also watched elementary schoolers before school started, one kid who was known for making trouble came up to me one day and said "Miss mero are you a mommy?" "No I'm not" "Good, I hope you lose your baby" His mom didn't care
@listen_beforeigo
@listen_beforeigo 28 күн бұрын
story 24 sounds ALOT like my old school
@JustHumans682
@JustHumans682 16 күн бұрын
Bruh I always pick my scabs AND somtimes not wven notice
@rarelymary
@rarelymary Ай бұрын
Off topic, what is the background video? Is it from a game or just a mood video? Edit: It looks like Exo One. Looks really nice!
@threestans9096
@threestans9096 21 күн бұрын
13:05 highly highly illegal to get fired. OP should have known this.
@I-AmWealthy-Bee
@I-AmWealthy-Bee Ай бұрын
Story 26 is just utterly horrifying and disgusting.
@jennifercirasa1444
@jennifercirasa1444 26 күн бұрын
I think it’s so funny that dudes all like “I feel so bad for them. I hope everything’s better now. I wanna know what happened to the poor abused child. “. No you don’t. You don’t care. No one does. Cause it’s most likely the same addict that you straight up judge for being broken addicted and/or homeless.
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