Thank you! Excited for your upcoming video on BPD and disorganized attachment style.

I've known for decades I have abandonment issues. But it was only recently I realized this created in me a humiliation issue, which informs my attachment situations. I over attach to people I let in. I'm overly vulnerable in relationships. I'm the king of commitment and loyalty. I never cheat. I never ghost or backstab, etc. And yet, I worry about future abandonment from others. So. Anyway. It's so much work just being a healthy human in this world. It's worth the work. But it's work. Which is partly why I watch your videos and Dr. Tracey something, and I go to therapy. To improve myself. Thanks for doing these vids. I don't always comment but I watch every video. Super helpful.

Very informative, thank you. Having HF BPD and cPTSD it's always been confusing when my counsellor says I have attachment issues. Due to lack of trust I don't feel I want to attach to anyone. But, watching this has started to make sense of what she is telling me.

Ty Kayla!

If people want to learn more about attachment styles, I highly suggest the podcast episode “Anxious Attachment and the Anxious x Avoidant Pair” by Imi Lo of Eggshell Transformations and Jessica Baum. Also, currently reading Jessica Baum’a book “Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love” - reading it with my partner and it’s helping us :)

Your videos are so informative. Thank you. Anything on how romantic partners can handle their partner’sdisorganised attachment wld be very helpful. How does this differ from splitting?

Never really looked into this before, but I definitely identify with the disorganised attachment style. Seems like a bit of a mess 😅