Thank you! Excited for your upcoming video on BPD and disorganized attachment style.
@dougable Жыл бұрын
I've known for decades I have abandonment issues. But it was only recently I realized this created in me a humiliation issue, which informs my attachment situations. I over attach to people I let in. I'm overly vulnerable in relationships. I'm the king of commitment and loyalty. I never cheat. I never ghost or backstab, etc. And yet, I worry about future abandonment from others. So. Anyway. It's so much work just being a healthy human in this world. It's worth the work. But it's work. Which is partly why I watch your videos and Dr. Tracey something, and I go to therapy. To improve myself. Thanks for doing these vids. I don't always comment but I watch every video. Super helpful.
@1968leg Жыл бұрын
Very informative, thank you. Having HF BPD and cPTSD it's always been confusing when my counsellor says I have attachment issues. Due to lack of trust I don't feel I want to attach to anyone. But, watching this has started to make sense of what she is telling me.
@andyveres3982 Жыл бұрын
Ty Kayla!
@arlo3v Жыл бұрын
If people want to learn more about attachment styles, I highly suggest the podcast episode “Anxious Attachment and the Anxious x Avoidant Pair” by Imi Lo of Eggshell Transformations and Jessica Baum. Also, currently reading Jessica Baum’a book “Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love” - reading it with my partner and it’s helping us :)
@drc4563 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are so informative. Thank you. Anything on how romantic partners can handle their partner’sdisorganised attachment wld be very helpful. How does this differ from splitting?
@onthelinecommunity Жыл бұрын
Great question, I’ll make sure to do a video about this!
@navn Жыл бұрын
Never really looked into this before, but I definitely identify with the disorganised attachment style. Seems like a bit of a mess 😅