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Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both. -Niccolo Machiavelli

Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me , weak is not what you’re going remember about me. - Al Capone

My wife has often told me that I scare the hell out of her, she has seen me get angry with others, and she knows there is violence inside of me , and that I will cross that line when necessary. Have a strong marriage 43 years and counting.

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

As a woman, the only reason I have ever been scared of men is because I recognize men are physically stronger than me and not every human is a good person. Also, to the men in the comments, remember there is a huge difference between someone being scared of you or not understanding and someone not wanting to engage with you because you seem disinterested in talking to them. My impression from a lot of these comments are that you guys understand women just as little as you think we understand men. Anyways, great video as always Alexander:)

Alex forgot to mention the real #1 reason she should be scared of him. He is bigger and stronger physically. Even 5-feet woman wants a minimum 6-feet tall man because she wants a big dude who she can be scared of, so that he can also scare away and protect her from bad people.

One of the girls who was one of my “best friends” would just strait up to face say she fears me, and I’d be like why?? Anyways beyond the point, but she’d come over to my house 2-3 times a week, loved spending time with me. I wasn’t into her, but when she first told me that I thought she was going to stop talking to me

Can concur about the fear part. Once, i confronted my cheating girlfriend. I'm 6'1 she's 5'4, i looked her dead in the eyes. The power i felt after i knew she was scared was cathartic. Nothing happened physically of course, but it was that moment that i became aware of my power.

Watch the full video for explanations but these are the reasons. 1. She Doesn’t understood you. 2. You can’t be controlled. 3. Those men are dangerous. 4. You have high standards. Great video 👍

You’re giving women too much credit for actually thinking. Their lack of thought is why they keep going for the same guys and keep ending up with the same result. Is he attractive? If yes, that’s it. They like to go on about what they like, their standards and boundaries and all that goes out the window because the guy looks hot. Her friends have to be envious and jealous and you have to be toxic to create drama she can talk and complain about and be the centre of attention in her peer group. Women do not care about you as a person. Remember that. You’re easily disposable. There is no point to a long term relationship with a modern women. They are not worth it. Men need to be selfish and just get out of it what they want because that’s exactly what women are doing. The Disney fairytale of women being these delightful, soft, feminine creatures who will love and respect you is well dead. The quicker men wake up to the modern woman and their insufferable behaviour the better they will be.

As far as her respecting you out of fear, I'd say it's more like respecting you out of fear of losing you because she sees your value. The degree to which "fear of a man that is perceived to be capable of protection by force" matters is based on how feminine the woman is. Less feminine women prefer less masculine men. Some women want a skinny boy they can boss around. Hyper feminine women want a man that looks like he could tear a piece of sheet metal or pay someone to do it for them.

I feel better now. I've always felt a little bit scared of men. I get along well with most people but always felt kind of put off or guarded around guys. Now I understand why and that it's OK and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with me.

She will definitely be scared, and run for the hills, when she finds out you don't have as much money, as you said you did.

All of this is attractive to them until SHE does things or acts out in irrational negative way and that same "bad boy highly masculine aggressive" man turns on her. Then you hear them vilifying all men and talk on how they don't want that. I wish we would stop trying to rationalize women's immaturity just to get laid. Be masculine men, but also be smart.

In marriage the State enables wives not to be scared of their husbands at all. Men still have responsibility, obligation and are held accountable, but now have very little authority or respect anymore in marriage and society. And women know this.

Most men scare women simply by committing the crime of not being a 'chad'

How to make a girl interested and chase you? Ask her what her "toxic ex" did wrong and be that guy.

Women rather share an Alpha than be exclusive to a loyal Beta.

the more i delve into your content and the more i try to find my "immovable stoic masculine rock", the more i realize that i don't actually need women. if i can handle everything on my own, there's nothing they can bring these days to enrich my life and experience to compensate the stress, chaos and headaches they inertly bring into a relationship

My conclusion of dating women is I want the face/body of the hot woman and the mind/personality of the ugly/fat woman .... sadly the two of these seem distant relations

When I see a woman crying, I feel nothing. It doesn't affect me. I have seen too much to know that it as important as one fly, which is around. Guys be pragmatic and try to build the life you want. Be honest to your self. Once you build your life the way it depicts your believes, there would be many women, who would like to move in. Decide then who you let in.

Yeah I could have sworn you covered this topic before what a slightly different approach but very much the same message about how fear is unnecessary thing for women to have

I don't really think this would work as a dating strategy because the avg female nowadays is completely oblivious to her own value and thinks she's too good to be dating men in general

Be alpha. Don't be beta. Got it!

Alex. You say "they are driven by femininity". I disagree. Rare, few women demonstrate feminine traits anymore. I once dated a truly feminine woman and it was highly attractive and intoxicating in a good way. I don't encounter feminine women at all anymore. They act like dudes, non-female, hormonally imbalanced, repellant. I miss real feminine women.

What if women are too afraid of me? Being autistic makes my face mute of expression so it's difficult to tell if I'm happy, worried, sad, exited, disgruntled, angry, or stressed out. Women seem skittish around me and they act completely out of their typical sphere of normality around me like a foreign object they like but are too afraid to approach or be around. Not sure what to think or do about it.

As a woman, I can say this is true. I don’t know that I’d use the terms afraid or scared but it all just refers to the masculine vs. feminine polarity. Most women are not going to be attracted to wussy men. Our primal brains like to feel protected and safe with our man but that means he has to be somewhat menacing to anyone outside the relationship. We don’t want men that are pushovers and have no spine. That is not attractive. We don’t want to be more fit and physically stronger than our men. We don’t want to be the mother to our partner and our children. I like strong arms and a hairy chest. 😂

You are describing my husband of 40 happy years. Your advice is right on!

Great work, love you bro

Hey @Alexandergrace5350, how does this vary if you're talking about challenging, adversarial, "comfortable" relationships within family where theres a degree of expectation around safety, ling term security etc?

You do not have to make women fear you. Just be your best self. Be kind and courteous. Do the right thing.They are going to leave you anyway. Your concious is clean. Do not get married.

Women are scared of me but not for a good reason. It's because of how I look.

I had all these 4 traits and yet she left me because she got too scared.

Amazing video

That reminds me of two older AA women say this to one another, back in about 2004, I think it was. I was working in Philadelphia, and the two ladies were talking about some news-worth incident that happened where a woman acted outside the then conventional gender role expectation. She acted like a man, basically, and got away with it. I'll never forget the one woman saying to her partner "these women nowadays have lost their fear of men." I was married at the time, and I was a little bit stunned.

Good video

Alex always great stuff, and good luck guys trying to find the “one”, but after many years trying, I have given up on women, I’ll just live my life and do what I want, when I want, how I want.

What about when youre too scary? Many women have told me im scary, but too much. How do you ease it back to a light touch?

I'm 5'4, no one is scared of me. None of this applies to me, since women dont find my attractive anyways.

I agree with your points but some respect has to be mixed in with fear

There is no respect without a little dose of fear. Just think about teachers you respected as a kid or teenager. Those ones who weren't at least slitghtly scary, weren't respected.

good video

Can you make a video expanding further on the "how"?

I theorize that point 3 tends to be evidence for why, according to poll statistics, the shorter a woman is the taller her preference is in men. The greater they fear for their personal safety the greater their attraction to that which is more physically imposing(generally assumed as taller men.)

Even Jennifer Melfi fantasized about Tony Soprano.

Sage Words Mate

In some relationships she needs to be scared of you sometimes. In some relationships fear isn’t needed. Not all guys are scary. For me I’m very scary and I like it. It gives me control of her. Girls can’t talk against you when they’re scared of you and they can’t be a bad girlfriend if they’re jealous

Fear and arousal are connected, at least in our brains.

You know what... Just recently I was wondering if I had scared too much of a certain lovely creature I like very much. The situation was rather semi-formal and ended with a nice smile on her part.... but the impression never left me that I was (well, exactly), scary to her and she was very nervous. She's a young and quiet girl who, on average, can speak my language; I'm well-built and hairy as a gorilla at which point I start instructing her 'with what and how' and.... well I had the impression that when she looks at me she non-stop stutters, doesn't know what to say, blushes for no apparent reason.... It's nice to know that it's okay 😅 I guess I'm too used to my loud and feminist women.

Respect and Fear are directly linked. Do you fear fighting a lion?

I love it. I have a lovely wife for 33yrs. I will never hesitate to make a huge carryon. I will never be controlled. The military could not do it, and a woman can’t. We love each other very much. I

Guys, women have to EARN your respect. Never for one second EVER give her your respect just because she's a woman, that inflates the ego of narcissistic women and abusive women as well.

Marraige and relationship should be based on dependency. A dependency is when both need each other. Sadly we live in a world where everyone is independent and can live without missing each other or needing each other too. Social media destroyed what it used to felt like missing someone and needing someone.

Respect yes but most do it without it but yes sometimes it comes to fear. Sometimes people are habitual line steppers late, insulting & entitlement so yeah need more.

this is hilarious to hear that because so many people told me i'm aggressive because i'm assertive and i know what what i want. so many weak men out there.

I reckon a lot of women have come home with me after a first date because they feel fairly safe, so there's probably a bit of a balancing act with the whole 'scary' thing.

good vid

Look for subtle things, like does the woman want to walk ahead of you, rather than beside you. Does she introduce you to her friends? Use you as an excuse for her own bad behavior? Of course, this could work the other way around, but I'm a guy, so...

1:34 i can argue with "being scared thing" but *this* is true. As a young woman I've always wondered how is it like to be a man and I know that I will never be manly and it's just blows my mind lol. Like, how men are manly??? I can't even explain how i feel about this

I would rather be "FEARED THAN LOVED"

Bro you are a genius

If they have no fears of him they have no respect for him.

Greatest power of all is getting through things with so little Almost all Wemon need so much to get through things ATTENTION SHOPPING DRAMA ET ALLLLLLLLLLL

They shouldn't be scared of you but they should respect you greatly

but HOW do i make them scared of me?

I read years ago…a scared woman is a horny woman. Makes sense now.

Late to the video so I think few will hear this: My baby mama (we were never married) told me "my mom is intimidated of you" I said "good" and nothing else. In hindsight I should've said "okay" but the point remains, women should have a fearful respect of men. They should see our power and be intimidated, but know how we use that power. That's why women like bad boys. Bad boys use their power constantly and that's attractive to women. It's just a mistake to think that "bad boy" is committed to using that for you. The generally use it for themselves at others expense. Men can see this, women just think it's strength.

1:29 lmfao

they called me the women killer in 91

"No man ever tried to rob me, women have!" Some guy who got divorced. And yet these nuggets are saying they're sacred of men. Nuggets am I right?

My physique and eyebrows make be look like a mad douche

I wonder if this is accurate for Japanese girls?

The only thing woman ever felt for me was disgust and hatred as I am someone who's below-average Lookswise

What do they offer though that’s the biggest question

This might of topics but Does anyone know definition of toxic masculinity?

I get called every name under the sun when I say things like this. I know I'm right, though. So fugem.

These days the women are the threat to most guys but i get what your saying alexander.

Thanks for the Male Pep Talk. I appreciate your hard work and devotion to your field and I thank you for posting your excellent videos. . I just don't agree with some your statements on this video i.e. women just don't take some these dangers from as that serious? .

1. - 4. We don't care; best of luck.

Can you sort comments by gender? I like reading the perspective of women after viewing these types of videos.

To keep women interested, faithful and receive best sex keep them in a perpetual state of uncertainty, jealously and insecurity. They should know your boundaries, fear of being of replaced by someone much younger. They should complain about you to their gf but never leave. Women gets bored of vanilla, subservient guys who puts the on pedestal.

What about the bear?

We live in an age of deceit. The means by which we have arrived to such prosperity has been erased and painted over, . . . in the western world.

My woman is scared being around me, but it's because of me bumping into her, given the 30 kilos weight and 20 centimeters height difference. She is a muscly 50 kilos and 165 centimeters, not a small woman, but still catches a stray elbow or a random hip and shoulder tackle.

can someone explain how to be feared wothout being a dick? i think it's quite hard to find the middle ground

I don’t sound like Alexander so I don’t have this problem

Every time a woman is scared of me I get the cops called on me

I gave my ex wife general anxiety disorder.. so much so, she cheated on me with a beta male. I obviously kicked her to the curb with no remorse. Smh.. I’m not sure anymore what men in this modern day society where women are too impulsive and can’t control their emotions.

Abcd

this is the only video i have seen of yours but it sounds kind of blue-pill to me.

I tell my wife of 31 years, "Just because I have not beat you does not mean I will not start." We both laugh, but we laugh because there is something real about it....

I know for a fact that women are scared of me. Many times when I am checking out at the cash register the cashier girl will keep messing up and can't keep herself straight. Nerves.

I'm going to be honest as an African American male this is something I've always noticed with "black women" in particular... so many of them are attracted to the "diligent/hoodlum" type, anything aberrant of that doesn't really seem to get their attention. White women are pretty much the same when their open to dating black men, they either want an LL Cool J type because he they come across as overly confident players or they want a Tupac type that just seems to have that dog in him. But I've also asked myself why do women constantly feel like the need to be protected? What kind of lifestyle or shenanigans are women involved in that they basically need a personal body guard to protect them 24/7?? Who is after them and why?? Are they just overly paranoid?? I've struggled with being friend zoned multiple times since I was in highschool and now it's to the point where I just don't even want to be nice a guy anymore, I'm not saying I'd be overtly mean to women in public, but more like just stop showing any concern for them all together... meaning if she finds herself in a precarious predicament, that's her problem, not mine. I've been following a girl a Twitter for the past several months who has an extremely huge ego because she has multiple social media accounts where she is followed by lots of people, often talks about her crush, who appears to pay her no attention. I tried being a "nice guy" to see if I could get a response from her, and that did happen, but only because after I bought her things she realized I had money. I even privately messaged her just explaining I wanted to get to know her... but nothing has come of that yet... However she has been complaining for the last month or so now about how lonely she is and how she wants someone in her life, yet she, seems to want men that have no interest in her instead of trying to get too know ones who do... Women are in my opinion just victims of their own selfishness desires.

Cannot believe in math and evolution at the same time. Do the arithmetic on chances of DNA, suitable environment, etc.

But this is also true in reverse, should we be also affraid of women? :-D maybe the fear that she cheats us comes home with another guys kid leaves us and takes half of our stuff is just to have someting to men to fear :-D this makes us more attracted :-D I agree we should not be her other girlfriend, but fear is never good. Especially if you deal with people who loves revenge... maybe this is why there is so much revenge from them, because of the fear.The women I know who are in a stable relationship who also have some control and does not fear. She also does not understand men, but accepts and don't care not fear.

1: i have a knife

If she disrespecting you it means you're a beta.

My mrs is about to move overseas with our kid and i cant do anything about it .men are screwed in this system