For the first time in my life, I have learned to stay single. I have been single for over a year now, no dating, no entertaining men. If I meet one and see the brokenness in him, I walk away. I'm saving myself for the King that God is going to bring into my life in His timing. I will no longer settle for grown boys...people who will use and hurt others to gratify themselves, and have nothing to offer, no growth, no commitment, no peace, nothing.

Broken people are not satisfied with healthy, normal people. They are used to the dysfunction because they never healed, and will sabotage a good relationship because of that.

I remember living a my ex and I was pregnant I would binge watch your videos you really helped me understand my worth to leave, he was handsome, wealthy, & I was in love so I thought but your word allowed me to trust in God and I’m just grateful I left because after I did he showed me exactly who he was by getting a the girl he was cheating with flaunting her to hurt me not seein the baby etc. I did nothing but love him & he had pleasure in breaking my heart. The devil must be mad, he tried really break me to prevent me from serving God and telling my testimony and helping others I’m now delivered from fornication and idolatry in men and marriage, anger, and deep wounded hurt God is so good

My soul tie was so bad, that I started dreaming about him. I barely made it out of that situation with my sanity. Now I'm all about my growth and happiness. I can't wait for this covid thing to go away, so that I can start solo traveling internationally again. Traveling and talking to God was so healing for me. Be blessed and not stressed ladies.

I love reading the commentary. It helps to know that you're not some isolated rare case .

Pastor Blakes, when you say “every woman is a queen. A stripper is a queen on a pole, she just doesn’t know.” This shows that you are truly a spiritual man regardless of religious affiliation. A spiritual person is in touch with his soul and therefore sees the divinity in every person. Many blessings to you.

I used to be an escort YEARS AND YEARS AGO. And let me tell you soul ties are real. Women in that line of work have heavy spirits. Which is why a lot of them numb themselves emotionally with drugs or alcohol or just build up a wall. “Soul ties disconnect your spirit from your consciousness.” Truth

I’m hurting and missing him. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. Praying the Lord will heal my heart and touch me with the spirit of forgiveness. Lord, touch my soul. Amen

This pastor is nothing short of a genius! I've never heard things broken down the way he does it. I am binge watching!

You can be bound by a soul-tie without even sleeping with the person. I was lured by mere words (a so-called online "relationship") and it took root in my mind and soul. Pray to God for healing from within in the days to come

I broke down tonight! I finally forgave myself for my allowance and acceptance of being "discardable" just for the "hope" of being seen...I can no longer live as an inferior...a renewed mind has begun!

I'm a Queen!!👑 and it took me this 2nd half of my life to see my Worth! N Values!.

It takes years to get over and through the aftermath of these relationships.. The intermittent reinforcement damaged me terribly.. You become addicted to these relationships and the withdrawal is absolutely horrific…

When you read the Word, healing ncones faster.. and when you set your desires to be in the will of God.. He will order your life. ...and things will keep getting better. You will be drawn only to relationships that alignment with all you are becoming...and will be quick to identify unhealthy relationships. Spend time reading the Word of God to renew your mind, heal your heart and to pull you forward to God ultimate blessed will for your life. You will know who you are and what you deserve

Insanity: Repeating the same behavior, over, and over, again, expecting different results.

Thank you for telling it like it is. I finally found and realized the truth. I have been celibate and single for 5 years now. I have been cleaning up my mind, body, and spirit. I thank God for the revelation. I thank you for the word.

When he said, "Can I take my time tonight?", I'm over here nodding my head like, sure, sure of course you can, I got time for this class is in session👌👂👀📝🎓 💎

It’s so funny that he always speaks of dating. I found along my healing journey that I never dated- just jumped into situationships with randoms. The dudes many times today are not even taking us on dates just bringing you to an apartment to “chill”.

I am 69 years old and have never heard such words from the church. This ministry is desperately needed! Thank you for letting God use you in this way. Carol Moger

Your ability to share the Word has saved my soul!

Wow this video came right on time I can’t seem to stop thinking about my ex non stop the soul tie won’t leave me alone it’s so draining I wish I didn’t meet him

Fasting is denying the flesh of what it wants not just food. You really are truely a blessing which makes perfect since. We been manipulated by other pastors it a shame to be learning this at 52.

Thank you for speaking the truth it's been three months since I left a toxic relationship. Thank God I'm recovering from trama. I learned a lesson about waiting on God and not man

This man right here has definitely help me with relationships soul ties... keep speaking to me

You have a very comforting and pleasant demeanor. Thank you for everything you do 💕

I thought lust was love! How wrong I was!!!

"A soultie disconnects your spirit from your consciousness."

When he started fussing 😂❤️ it’s ok pastor we need tough love sometimes🙏🏽

Wow! "When your spirit is disconnected from your Consciousness, you struggle to discern right from wrong" That statement slapped me right across the face! Thank You! I grew up in church but was never taught about sexual relationships leading to soul ties. This is so important for young ladies to learn sO they are fully aware of the consequences instead of hearing, "don't do it because it's a sin" I can't thank you enough! You have not only helped me personally but you have made a lasting impact on my 14-year-old daughter. Some things are priceless.

Thank you for doing these sermons. No one taught me about relationships or men and I made a lot of mistakes as a young woman. I wish I knew this growing up. I wish I listened to the Holy Spirit when he warned me to stay away.

Deliverance in this area came into my life. I have abstained sexually for 25 yrs. During that time I was healed in so many ways. So right in knowing that when sex is not necessary any longer we are healed and can move on in peace. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THAT YOU DO

His life, yep sorry it was for my life Lord forgive me for allowing the enemy to deceive me. No one is perfect.

I've practiced abstinence 3+ years twice. I'm currently doing it again. Both times I eventually fell weak. I put my rose colored glasses on and gave in. Please pray for me💜

I was once an adulterous then I found your videos. I wanted to get and this ministry help me to see who I really was.

This message needs too be in a bottle on a shelf because I know this will sell out! I'm in a soul tie rehab right now..No sex no Male company!!! Thanks for being so transparent 🙂

Thank you Pastor..My own father never taught me this...so this is for me..the cycle stops here..amen ...interestingly, my last relationship ended right before the quarantine. I thought it was me, I did something wrong but God freed me to heal...now finally I got it...and I turn 40 next month. God thank you for waking me up and bringing wholeness ...help me heal COMPLETELY In jesus name amen 🙏🏽

Thank you for all you do and provide online. My life was affected for many years over a soul tie with my ex husband. I just recently as in the last year came to realize what I was dealing with, through The Holy Spirit revealing to me that I had been dealing with Narcissism as I also was raised by this demonic entity. I am in the process of recovering who I am in Christ Jesus..

The realness of the Pastor is making me laugh! Our Pastors are such a way, you wouldn't dare have certain conversations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

'If you cannot be transparent, you cannot be transformed. If you cannot be transformed, you cannot be delivered". THAT'S KNOWLEDGE. THAT'S WISDOM.

I see myself as a Queen, and I'm a great woman and person. I know I deserve better than what I've had. I did the inner work to heal, change, and grow. That and patience are key to having the relationship you want in due time. Waiting on God is necessary. This was a hard lesson to learn.

I wished there was this same amount of effort and focus geared towards men to be better husband. Maybe there wouldn't be so many broken women if churches and all these social media counselors and love gurus talked to the men instead.

I have been working on myself, looking at myself, my mistakes, my vulnerabilities, my healing. I have also studied narcisissm and how to heal from it. I also watch you RC Blakes. I thank you. I am healing. I can look back and see how far I have come. This week, the Narc ex has gotten in touch. He wants to get back together (I have told him several times that I am never going back.) I refuse to indulge him. I know that He is hoovering and I feel sad for him. However, I know that he is not my business. My business is to heal and to keep moving forward with my life.

My God … this man is so real!😢 He just keeps touching down!! God bless you sir ! God bless you ! God bless you !🙏🏽💯

Bishop I hear you say often that you're not a licensed therapist or counselor. Sir, I beg to differ!! This video is BAR FAR THEE BEST ONE in my opinion. This is not only for the women, but for the men as well. SOUL-TIES are plaguing people all over the world. Having been attached to so many different souls, I have been effected negatively in most of my relationships/situationships. My broken consciousness had kept me from knowing my worth. God bless you for your knowledge and your desire to teach and tell folks how it is and why it is. You've helped me tremendously aa

I am leaking tears right now...... I'm struggling with this,I knew this guy was not for me & I still tried to maintain a "friendship"with him not knowing he was having sex with a man..... My God, I'm thankful for the clarity,but I am so hurt and angry,even with my self,This message is a blessing & the scripture makes it even better ♥️♥️

Isaiah 40:31 but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Thank you Bishop for speaking life to me 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank you Pastor....i am watching you from Papua New Guinea... because of you...i realised what i have been through for 11 years...i feel at peace now knowing the truth...please pray for me. Thank you jackie

I moved on from the last soul-tie a year ago. I made up my mind that I was done and cut off communication with my ex-narcissist. I started my healing journey from that relationship. He continued to cause destruction and torture in my life even without contact from me, violating protection orders by stalking repeatedly, tampering with my car 4 times, and I have had to deal with detectives, police, and court officials for over a year now. The charges and cases are mounting and still ongoing. I still have to deal with the aftermath from that horrible relationship and I have been no contact since 5/12/20, throughout all of this. It pulls the scabs off every time I have to keep retelling my story to them and dealing with the fact that he has not been brought to justice yet. So it can be a catch-22 for some of us who have actually severed the soul-tie but still have to deal with the aftermath while moving forward.

Thank you pastor Blake's. I love your messages. Some people won't conquer things, if you don't confess it! I'm glad I matured, and I don't let the truth offend me. We have to look at ourselves inside

True Intimacy determing love vs. Lust soul sick lust and perversion is not love

Amazing, when you mention demonic union...it is so true like even we could call soul ties = demonic ties. It is so hard to break free from them. NOT KNOWING THAT SCENT CAN BE DEMONIC AND FOR LIFE...soul calls lust and perversion LOVE..omg..i am trying so hard now to repare my soul in a complete loneliness from men. MANY THANKS!!!

Today is the first day I let go of my soul tie. Honestly, I am feeling, "what now ?" Its only been a few hours and something inside me needs to hear from him . I feel the need to tell him again how devastated I am , maybe he will get it this time? Maybe he will somehow soften his heart or maybe I need to be more soft and the submissive woman he needs and I'll get the man i know is wanting to come out and love me. BUT my heart , although broken, knows this is only my own self talk in its attempt to give me hope and escape the reality of the truth. My soul is battered and hope that it is strong enough to love me. To assure myself that I am all that I need. I survived one of the most miserable and difficult years of my entire adult life. I started watching pastor blakes for several months now and the information you share gave me the courage to realize I have the power and strength within to break free of this past relationship. I've had zero male role models in my life and thought this is how men love and I just need to accept it. I tell myself repeatedly, no , no, no I'm just as important as him. My feelings are just as worthy as any other human being. I will continue to watch and read your valuable lessons, right now, your messages are the only solid and grounded advice I desperately need in my life. Today is day #1 and its almost over and I'm afraid ill slip up and read one of his incoming messages and put myself through even more self doubt, almost like a continuation of his punishments that serve absolutely nothing but to hold me down or keep me in check until he decides I'm worthy! How long does this feeling linger??! Even now that he's not here I can feel his energy so strong and mine so weak. I'm just ready to be happy , God thats all I want before this life is over. You're right pastor I have no self worth , I need to forgive myself, and struggle with my self definition! How do I determine this after living a certain way for so long now???!! Im ready to start listening

My number one is to reestablish and reconcile my relationship with God Almighty. 🙏🌹💕🦋

I am 72 years old and have had a life changing awakening. thankyou Pastor Blakes

He was Passive Narassist that messed up my physical reasoning. I've always Loved and Served God. I was younger than he,by 16 years.He was able to reset my thinking.But,the Holy Spirit guarded me in my Soul and Spirit and I walked in God's word.A strong hold God had set to protect me!!!This I now know!! I'm now having to pray constantly allowing God to reset me and in my mind better thinking thoughts to get healed from all of everything that wasn't good!

At 30 mins that hit me hard. I have been trying for years. I still don’t know what this intimate relationship really looks like for me. So I’ll keep my kids, cat and dog. Do the college I want and move forward. But I can’t figure out that love thing. So I wanna put that on the back burner for a while. Like seven years.

That's all it was I can see clearly now I thought I was in love. My Dad tried to tell me he's a loser etc Thank you so much Pastor for the wake up call❤️

Thanks for speaking life into us. I have never heard any man of the ministry speak so real about intermingling with the opposite sex in the world. My father didn't talk in depth about dealing in relationships with men. I am thankful of your real talk teachings mixed with prayer for healing and opening up the awareness of men/women.

This is REAL TALK! Straight no chaser women. This is TRUTH so please if you have not already fell for the okedoke don't! I struggled early in my now 12 year marriage due to an ungodly soul tie. God delivered me but Pastor Blakes knows what he's talking about when he says it becomes hard to distinguish love versus lust. The soul tie said he loved me but he really didn't. I was young naïve and dumb to believe him but then now my husband truly loves me and I found it hard to accept believe and receive his love. How backwards is that? But that's from the Devils game book. He knows the more you're broken it's all the more difficult to be set free.

It's true the difficulty to distinguish between genuine love and pervertion. I hear you say a broken soul may struggle to identify true intamcy mistaking perversion for love. But I want to spin that... Sometimes the process of healing, God help you to move forward and may even bless you with True love from someone and the flip side becomes... That one can find the true intamacy and the Small places of hurt (that hidden root) that may still remain causes one to be so hyper sensitve (guard against future pain).that one can mistake love from perversion... Now that's the saddest case. One has to heal fully so that your spirit and your heart and your Consciousness operate In a whole and healed way. Thank God, that healing in full is at the cross.

13 good years of my life i gave him in our marriage but he left , leaving me to raise 5 kids , how cruel can life be💔💔💔💔😭😭

There comes a day you when you wake up and think to yourself, what did I ever see in him ?!? 🤔

Shut it down!!!! Amen! Three years later and this is STILL a word!! Shut it down- get delivered!

You made me cry big tears 😭 thanks for opening my eyes, I’ve been listening for a while now .. out of narcissistic marriage and a year later still healing thank you!!! So much!!!! I owe you the world

I ended a soul tie relationship back in 2018. I had a build up of toxicity, about 4 years worth. You definitely helped me heal, thank Pastor Blakes for your insight let by God.

Many PASTOR'S don't teach on this I believe is because it still hurts too much 💝💝💌🔥🙏🏼🙏🏿

I love Lisa... told you, "yes you do have something else to do". She made me smile. I so enjoy your videos. I have been abstinence since my husband passed in 2009. And I am very comfortable within myself. God has blessed me to adjust to life beyond him. l will admit the first two years was hard for me. l miss him even today, but God kept me here for His purpose. I stay busy with family and friends helping them since l retired. After 29 years of being cancer-free, I was diagnosed again in June. 3 surgeries since then, I asked the Lord for 30 more years. I will be 70 yrs young this coming January. Most folks don't think l'm this old which is good. God bless you Bishop and Lisa to keep working in His vineyard. Much love.

The aftermath of a soul-tie. 1. You may struggle to find a balance with true intimacy.You may find yourself incapable of receiving true intimacy. It is hard to recognize what is true intimacy, what is pervasion. The soul looks at lust and perversion and call it love.

I’m in my process of healing I was stuck for 10years in a relationship that was going nowhere, I always felt like I wasn’t good enough , Now I’ve been healing and it’s been hard to move on after the soul tie but I believe God will bring my King and I’m preparing myself for when he arrives. Thank you

This was very good! I've "shut it down" for the past yr and pray for my husband to come into my life. Seems like it's taking forever

I went through a violent domestic attack a few years ago and on my journey to find healing, God brought me to your you tube page. I listen to your messages most every night for the past year now. I did not have a mother or father present during my childhood, so I raised myself. I have really learned so much from you and how women should be cherished and treated. I feel comfort but also challenged by you. Your the father figure I never had growing up. I’m very grateful that I was led to listen too your messages. Thank you from my whole heart for submitting to God’s calling. You are the only male pastor I have ever heard speak life into specifically woman’s lives.

Pastor RC Blakes - It is like you have a window into the broken consciousness of men and women. Never stop being you! This is truely your calling! I have had my dad, mothers boyfriends, men ive dated young and old, male pastors, I also been married 15 years and you have taught me more about my worth and value that any of those men combined. No monetary gift can match what you have given me.

This is the true "woke culture" that EVERYBODY should be assimilating to. Because it's not just regular truth.... it's God's truth....THE ONLY truth! God bless you and your family Bishop🙏🏾❤️

Pastor this is one of the MOST POWERFUL lectures ever! I went to La area yesterday and saw sleeping Queens prostituting themselves. It hurt my heart.

Yes, the thing that keep me as straight as I am is the fact that I don’t like bad consequences. I’m smart enough to know that every action has consequences whether good or bad.

"You're always better than what you've done!" Preach Bishop! Love You!!!❤💯

Good evening sir. You are really helping me to get over a 3 mo. toxic relationship. Short time yet, a painful experience that I am overcoming slowly but, surely with God’s help. Thank you for your wisdom sir. 🎖😊

78yrs been in a situation for 11 years. I give God all the glory just a turn on and learn something after all these years. Thank you.

I am so surprised to find out that "A soul tie disconnect your spirit from your consciousness"! But i can say, from experience, that you are right and this is true. When I first heard the expression "soul mate", which is so widespread in English speaking youtube channels and particularly in US, i thought it meant a more divinely oriented type of relationship, some type of Godly connection that was meant to be.... But I can see clearly now that the term was created possibly to disguise some of the most pervasive types of sexual perversion, manipulation and narcissistic abuse of all sorts... Thank you for waking me up, Mr RC Blakes!

This is brilliant. Beautiful. The one thing that the world doesn't want is a Woke Queen. 💖👌

SPEAK 2 MY HEART LORD..my daily prayer..and this is definitely what God wants my ears 2 hear..everything u have said is so on point..thank u..I am being delivered..God is directing me..through ur words..thank u😊🤣

After 17 years and 2 kids he left me for someone else after being there for him through his incarceration. Lord knows I've been hurt by him by this hurt is so different 💔. I don't know if I can ever recover!! It takes everything in me to get up and go to work everyday. I just want the hurt to stop !! I need you lord 🙏 ❤️

I'm so grateful to God that my friend cares enough for me to send me your link I just started listening and have been blessed to hear these messages

It's like you know what I need to hear KZfaq Dad. I really appreciate you. I tried to share one of your messages with a new person ,but on dead ears they have. If they don't understand. I'm not going to make them understand. The world will wake up them. SMH. THANK SO MUCH. You've given me an understanding that my father didnt and I wanna say thank you again.

I would prefer a man that cannot preform sexually but can give me the love and respect i deseve !!

I have been following you for some time and your teachings have changed my life forever. I'm forever grateful.

This was the Conversation of Conversations!!! Your voice is a balm. And i feel this message is a conscious energy of wholeness. Thank you Pastor

Thank you all of your words. They have helped me so much. I’m a fatherless daughter as sadly my mother wasn’t taught well either. Thank God you have changed and become a vessel for learning. Not on the cerebral things but the emotional things.

You r a true example of what a real man is👑❤️👑👑

Hi pastor I am from Albany, ga. and you have transcended my life And changed me with your messages and through the word So much so that my 11 year old daughter constantly says I love listening to RC Blake's she knows you and I pray that I will be able to continue to raise her as a single mother to be a conscious Queen...I can do it through Christ so I want to thank you God-bless you and Sis. Lisa❤🙏

As I’m currently healing… you are the best conversation I’ve had thus far 🙏🏾 thank you for helping to open my eyes and heart

RC Blake’s speaks 500% truth ….AMEN….like the father I didn’t have …your wisdom speaks volumes of truth

Hallelujah- the Lord has spoken and you took the words right out of my mouth. God willing the growth doesn’t stop here. Thanks for being obedient and sharing his words.

Breaking soul tie of 8yr toxic relationship. This video found me 2 years after you uploaded. Your videos have helped to bring so much clarity especially balancing being in feminine energy.

This really bought things full circle for me. It gave me a better understanding of what a soul tie is. I seen so much of. self in this sermon. This was such a blessing to me.

This is the conversation needed by the world together. Thank you pastor

God is good! I received The Life Recovery Bible two years before the Narc. It is for people in the drug and alcohol addiction but, it has and is helping me with this setback in my life.

I glad I’m 20 and I’ve found you you’ve helped me so much thank you I can’t wait to see what my future holds for me …I been feeling I’m old and ugly and undeserving cause of the man I’m with but I’m coming to terms that it’s coming to a end and I’m being redirected for better I’m finally finding my self love worth and peace

I am watching this a year later. These words of wisdom need to be shouted from the rooftops. People who think relationships/ marriage it's just about the two individuals don't understand the effects upon the rest of society.

You’re a true inspiration with every message that’s delivered. I’ve learned so much within these last few months of listening to your word. God is good, Thanks 🙏🏽