These inspiring talks are what TED Talks used to be.

This isn't just about saving boys; it's about enriching our society by ensuring that every member, regardless of gender, has the opportunity to develop into a well-rounded, contributing individual. This is the challenge we face, and it's one that we must meet with open minds, determined hearts, and a willingness to reassess some of our most fundamental beliefs about gender and parenting.

I’ve spent the last five years learning how to teach my students that involve criticism without producing a defensive posture. I literally had to deprogram 16 years of education and reinforced ideology that taught them what to think not how to think.

A HUGE thanks to Jordon Peterson for being instrumental in bringing so many good speakers from across the world and across fields of expertise and knowledge, to give us a much needed sane and humane prospect for our future as a human race. We’ve gone so low and so far that it’s going to be a long way back to healthy civilization and prosperity of all families once again. God bless all these speakers and thinkers. God bless us all.

I'm happy to see this. Thank you. Warren Farrell needs to be heard by everyone! We, as a society must do better for everyone, or we will all lose in the long run.

I grew up dad-deprived because of cancer. I recognize a lot of the symptoms described in my own life. Now, thanks to a military pension, I am able to still provide while being the homemaker for a working wife (who was home when the kids were little), homeschool my two grade-school-age kids, and hopefully be the valuable dad-presence that many kids with working parents miss out on. Yet I wonder what wounds from my childhood I'm carrying forward into how I relate to them. I see the wounds of divorce in other families. I also see how even the absence of dad during the day is manifest in some our fellow homeschoolers. Kids need men in the classroom. If they're home, it would be good if more dads could be as well, at least part-time, especially as they move into the tween years. Our whole society is built around a nuclear family where even in the conservative ideal the man is gone most of the time, and the kids are institutionalized. Would that there was a way both parents could be with their children, and that children could spend more time with each other without adults around, and around grandparents, and around neighbors. We have isolation built into the system.

This speaker got more audience applause than any other I have listened to so far. Compelling!

This man is a hero

Warren is a legend

If anyone out there needs it, there's a book called 30 Days to Reduce Depression by Harper Daniels that I liked. Taught mindfulness exercises. Too many people suffer in silence and feel hopeless today. The world can get cold, but the ultimate peace is always found inside.

I think I've been neglected by my dad almost my entire life. When I really try to think of the things he taught me growing up there's very little that comes to mind. My parents have not been seperated and he did support me and my sibilings financially and still does even after i reached adulthood and got a job and I'm very grateful for him for that. But when it comes to teaching me any social skills I can't think of a single thing I got from him. It's not like he doesn't have social skills or a sense of humor himself, he's the funniest guy in the room and my aunts uncles respects him greatly. I was always angry, agressive and never knew what to say in most social situations which made me an outcast throughout most of my education years. Thankfully my mother tuaght me right from wrong and to focus on my education but I still got picked on for being awkward and got in alot of fights with my bullies. I love my father from the bottom of my heart but other than being their financially he was barely present in most of my childhood which pisses me the fuck off especially since he was a freaking teacher that taught at my freaking high school for fuck sake. My younger siblings have a very shakey relationship with him right now and they've been getting in alot of fights since I left home. I still suffer of social anxity and emotional issues and I can rarely have a meaningful conversation with my colleagues at work but it's heaven compared to my almost everything prior. In the past three years I think I really got to know him since I've been talking to him almost everyday through the phone. He's a kind, funny, smart guy and very chill most of the times but he really should have been there for us emotionally. I'm the only one of my sibling that talks him at this point and I can tell that it's taking a tall on him. I tried to be the peace keeper between them but it doesn't seem like they're willing to let past grudges go. Hopefully we can patch things up as time goes. Anyway sorry for the long winded life story 😅. I just felt like I should get that out of my chest one way or another. Thanks for reading if you made it all the way to the end!

WE NEED EVERYONE TO LOVE AND BE LOVED ALL LIVING BEINGS

Wonderfull!!! God bless you

A very insightful talk!

I'm glad they reposted this without the technical difficulties. Great talk. Thanks Warren!

Marrying a tradesman is not marrying down! You will be marrying a man who takes cares of you and your children when things get tough.

Gently awesome! Hope his messsge grows.

Illuminating.

Thank you and God bless you.

nice thoughts

We have to be together in this fight, and share this knowledge. We need to study ourselves more as Jung said especially in times of AI Thank you for an execllent video

Bravo

Helpful wosdom. Many thanks.

I came back to because somebody had said that the speaker gave basically all his 50 years experience in this single talk. I was not disappointed, amazing talk. When one Sex suffers, all sexes suffer.. .

Fun fact: Warren is 39 times more manly than Dwayne The Rock Johnson

I posted this comment in the last iteration of this video and I think it needs to be said again and it got a lot of interesting comment responses (paraphrased since the last one because it got deleted): Warren had a bunch of good points and his diagnosis is correct, but his prescription needs some changes. This "gender liberation movement freeing both sexes from the rigid roles of the past" that we apparently need seems like it will unfortunately be poison to the vision that ARC seems to be wanting to show. Gender roles come as an innate part of the 2 sexes that comprise human beings and they arise (or are designed) as part of the needs that each sex (and people in general) require to be fulfilled and the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual 'tools' that each sex can use to achieve this. I just think it's important to mention, as the 'story' that ARC seems to be telling is that we need to progress as a society, but also be routed in tradition and history - to not just be looking forward to where we are going, but also backwards to where we came from...and what we should take with us.

Haven't watched yet, but the title is correct. Love has been inverted in males. External love counters internal hate.

I'm glad they fixed the technical issues from the first upload, but as a side effect, they wiped all the comments from there, which sucks.

Rip men F The system 😆

Mr. Farrel has my undying respect

I’ve been around since the end of the last war, oh there were such admirable men then, not only had they done their bit but they could put up shelves, imparted wisdom to their families and as we all got more prosperous gathered in good natured gangs on Sunday mornings to mend their cars. Then came the sixties and the world started to belong to the young and males stayed young till their forties. Few embraced masculinity, most wanted to be playboys forever with fun, sex and freedom, at least that’s what magazines and the media said. We can see the results in the people who run our country now. The old order which lasted for thousands of years has been kicked out of the window and older people a senile liability where once they were respected for their wisdom. Not advocating putting the clock back but education could do with a make over because it appears to be very difficult to become sensible well rounded people.

I disagree with the equal care parenting. I have a child to a previous relationship. I had 100% and then she came back. I left the country. It's not always best to uproot a child week about, month about, day about, whatever about !! Look at what's best for the child. What matters is QUALITY TIME. (with no conflict) I worked government, social security, for 20yrs. I can list dozens of examples of how equal care only made lawyers rich. Give the money that you would spend on lawyers to the ex and the child. Even if you lose...... your child wins. And at the end of the day, you can put hand on heart that you did what was best. And you can stand before God knowing you put yourself last.

The most relevant talk of the year.

so sad. so painful.

10:20 "Of 23 communications skills I teach, the most important is [how to] handle personal criticism without becoming defensive." Good point. My understanding would be that you have to let yourself become defensive which is a form of anger in a place where you don't disturb others and let the anger out with primal screaming or beating inanimate objects like a pillow.

Fantastic.

Warren has been preaching this issue for years, yet society listens and barely any one cares.

Re-uploaded to include his slides. They should have included them before posting the video the first time.

Tie speaks a disclaimer

Oh my the man playing with the baby. Where can I get that?!?!?

Well he could have gone for an different tie

Why was this re-posted? Oh, maybe to include graphics?

Asmon brought me here

The problem is men are no longer men, not that we don't have enough men in care giving jobs. Again, address the disease not the symptoms.

He's right but he's addressing the symptoms of the problem, not the problem. The problem is not small (otherwise he wouldn't be addressing it), the problem is a total cultural problem. A total problem needs a total solution.

Better to be dad-deprived than live with a useless alcoholic dad.

I made this comment on the first upload, but I still find it weird that the one of the larger applause line from the audience is the addendum he adds about how hard single mothers have it. I'm not against him adding this, but it is an obvious fact that is commonly accepted/know, so I don't think it is necessary. What does make confuse me a little is that it gets significant applause when it is not directly related to the solutions proposed or the symptoms given of the Boy Crisis (title of his book and topic of the talk). It gives the impression that the audience is rather disengaged from Warren Ferrell's points in the beginning of the talk.

A wonderful video by Warren. But I think its important to mention that even if you are a father with a great marriage, a good job, an even tempered personality, and do every thing a modern father is expected to do, you will still have a target on your back. In fact, the MORE involved you are in you're children's lives--- the more you are the face of parenthood for your children--- the more targets will be on your back (and theirs.) I learned this the hard way. My image of myself, even as a child, was to be super dad. And so I set about being that thing very early in my life. I got together with my wife in high school, I got my education, my wife and I created the perfect egalitarian marriage filled with love and understanding and patience, I got a great job, we bought the house on the hill, and we had our children. In that time I happily washed bottles and fed the babies and woke up late at night for the kids and took them to the doctor and schlepped them around at work when we had no other options and played with them and wrote and printed children's books and if for some reason I couldn't take them out to show them the beauty of our world, I took them with me to an inward world of fantasy and storytelling. I also wanted to support my wife in her career. She was working toward CEO at her company of 15 years, and in that company she was competing with men who had stay at home wives that carried the challenges of child rearing. I wanted her to have an equal shot, and I wanted my daughters to see what a happy, successful woman looked like. I look back now and shake my head at how naive I was. I never stopped feeling that target on my back. It didn't help that my kids were biracial and to many observers, didn't look like me. "Are these yours?" "Were you going to leave those kids in the hot car" "Oh, is daddy baby sitting today?" "Does Mommy know they have that bruise?" And so of course eventually the thing that I feared would happen, happened. My daughter bumped her face in the night and got a bruise. My wife was away on business. So I did what a good father did. Went to the doctor's office, got the xray which came back normal, and because she was healthy and otherwise uninjured, sent her to school. Every step of the way I knew that people would see a father alone with his daughter, who had a bruise on her face, and it would only be a matter of time before someone assumed the worst. CPS was called and the children were yanked out of school and interrogated. They cried when they got home and they cried all night, because their worst fear is being taken away from their parents, who have built a Peter Pan childhood for them. After I spoke with a family lawyer, he confirmed my suspicions: this never, ever would have happened had it been your wife with them. Now myself and my kids trust none of the people we are supposed to feel safe with: doctors, nurses, teachers, principals... My lawyer tells us we are now under scrutiny, and if it happens again, we should pull our kids from school. I've come to realize why men are so reluctant to step up into the role that I've stepped up to (and the role that I love and adore and which has brought me such happiness). If you do everything right and everything you are told that a man and a father should be, the same people who would criticize you loudest for failing to be that man will punish you for it once you are there.

Solution: The Rabbit Effect. Parents need to connect emotionally in the developmental stages of a child.

John Lennon and Yoko Ono are not good examples of parenting. Nice tie by the way.

Try Mary's advocates before you marry.

the 18 to 25 y.o. girls don't seem interested in men currently. Kinda hard to romance a rock.

Uhhhh...didn't John Lennon treat his first son like shit? Just asking.....

Some single mother's sons do fine.... proceeds to list Democrats. How about scrapping no-fault divorce? How about when divorces DO happen giving custody to the not-at-fault parent?

So when I work for these corps and I only get 4-15 hours a week it's because the single mom covered in tattoos needs those hours more? The woman whose married deserves those hours more? The 16 year old with a box who can get a boyfriend to pay for her stuff needs those hours more? The woman whose ass can't fit in the isle deserves those hours more than a dude? Go get a boyfriend, go back to your husband, they can stay at home with mommy and daddy, go talk to the simps that value you. Why do you I have to sacrifice my Time Energy Attention and Money to compensate for there failings? Explain that to me? If I'm doing 30 carts, 15 skids, cleaning and taking care of customers I think I deserve 80-90 hours a week from these companies? Where is my army of GPT3000 lawyers to reprehend some feminist funding and drug war funding? How about that?

Went well right until the end. John Lennon was a terrible dad, ask Julian.

Have read this guys books. His diagnosis is good, but his solution is maleism. The answer is for men to rediscover Christ and adopt the role God gave us.

How about "get married...have children...don't divorce"

so why are all these women having kids out of relationships/not protecting the relationship/choosing a reliable partner instead of sleeping around?

I learned literally nothing I already didn’t know from this vid. Idk how or why some consider this a great presentation.

What I don't like about these studies are, you can tell whatever false story you want with them. I love men, families with dads are better. However, when he said things like, kids with dads are more empathetic, mature, have higher self-esteem, and are more independent, how does he know that was taught ant not just genetically passed down? The men who are more mature, have higher self-esteem, are more independent etc., are more likely to attract and keep mates in the first place and most likely passed those same genes to their girls and boys. It would be equivalent to centuries ago, people saying tall kids are tall because dad played with them more, they did rough and tumble play more, they enforced boundaries etc., How about the obvious, tall dads pass on tall genes because women like tall men in the first place. These studies need to control for genetics and stop assuming so much of how a kids turns out has to do with if mommy and daddy read to them bed time.

I like Warren Farrell's work, but he really should stop dining out on his story about John Lennon taking time out to be a stay-at-home father. With a bank account like Lennon's, there was never any chance Yoko would leave him for being a beta-male. If he was an average guy, she'd be gone in a flash. It's called Surplus Mate Value. Come on, Warren - you can do better.

These people constantly interrupt the speaker with their applause, this is a typical american habit. This is very rude but they don't even realize. 🤨

Its pointless to have these talks when 2 out of 3 parties decided to keep things the same. Those being state and women

Bruh don't wear colored Tie FFS

What is he a doctor of? Misogyny?

This is an oximoron right feom the first moment. Guys need more sex? Even more? Dont they already have everything they can? Women suffer way more - focus on that pls

Anti-feminist conservative blather.

Soft men create hard times. Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create soft men....