What happened?

@@FoundSheep-AN Hi. I left him. We attended one final counseling session where he told the mebthat he was not willing to part with the secret "friend" AKA potential back-up. That was all I needed to finally break ties with that pathetic man. Unfortunately we worked in a band together for many years and I had obligations that needed to be honored but this coming August will be my final gig with the band. After that I will make sure he will never see me again. I'm absolutely, 100% done. Never thought I'd get to thus point, honestly. The pain from finally realizing how much damage he brought to the peaceful world I'd rented for myself before meeting him is just devastating, I won't lie. I'm struggling greatly to regain some normalcy because I've been turned into a different person. Still keeping hope alive that I will be able to get to a point of trusting another man, but what a uphill battle. My life will slowly begin to get better as long as I keep far away from him. ❤️

I agree! I see a lot of religion & guilt tied in this too... People certainly have to do what makes them truly happy. Even if it means starting over again.

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.

I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago.He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem... 🏃‍♂🏃‍♂🏃‍♂

I agree, but just own up to your choices. If you're in a wrong relationship, leave. Don't be a coward and cheat, all while having your cake and eat it too. Even if you lose half of your stuff and both your kids. You want to be with Mr soul mate? Okay, go on then. Don't go behind my back and have me provide, all while you're getting the bottom knocked out. By someone else. I'm paying and doing the hard work for someone else to have all the fun? Fk that.

So?

and what is he saying ???

Emotional affair is womansplaining for leading a guy on/getting attention from a guy. If you're a guy talking to a girl and the only thing that's been happening is chit chat about nonsense with no physical intimacy then it means she's getting off on the attention you're giving her. It makes her feel attractive. Attention for women is like jerking off for men. Its a cheap, superficial pleasure fix. Don't let a woman use you for attention...

She has a partner u need to have a conversation about that. It’s deceitful if it goes on like this. Not fair to the partner

@@Mamaohhh04 Well since posting it has been discussed as directly as we're both comfortable, there's an understanding that feelings are there but can't be acted upon. I am not stupid, I'm aware she's not completely satisfied at home but that's life. She's got a baby on the way and she's made her decision. So we're focusing on being good friends and I made it very clear I have no intentions of trying to cause any issues there with her partner, it's none of my business what she does. I told her I wished things were different but they're not. She basically said in as many words that she found her partner and he's been the best person she was able to find and said she spent a long time thinking she needed someone, anyone and settled for him and alluded to being OK with things "till I met you" but alluding to things and wishing they were different does not change the reality of the situation. I've said to her a number of times I'm glad she's happy with her partner and the baby on the way and not once has she said she is or confirmed it. So she's not happy. Again that's my perception there but I know she's not happy. So, it's a strong friendship then that won't go any further and while I'd like more, that's going to have to be fine. Boundaries have been set and what will be will be. I'm 100% not going to be that guy trying to cause problems and get her to leave her partner. That's not the kind of person I am.

And this is the reason I don’t allow my wife to have male friends. And men quickly find out that they are not welcome in my wife’s circle. Your female friend husband is a weak man, I would have put you in your place at the very beginning, my household is not to be disrespected.

Yes, I won't lie, while your perspective is rather extreme. Her partner is weak. Not married either. If the situation were reversed, I'd have been involved in this. Not at the side lines saying nothing. Not caveman mode though.

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.

I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago.He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem... 🏃‍♂🏃‍♂🏃‍♂

but not on the lips in your culture? like if a married woman kisses her "buddy" guy friend in the lips upon greeting, even when her husband is near!? Is that ok?

He truly thinks you are an idiot!

OMG... Run

She moved into the other room to either sneak her new "friend" naughty pics or is already sexting since you can't see anything. She is projecting on to you. I suggest you really think long and hard as to wether your relationship is worth your sanity?

@@devintompkins9626 I think you’re right she’s had a history of multiple men in her life and she had three kids when I met her

Man save yourself more sexless years and run... I don't wish anybody life like this... If you know your worth and know you didn't cheat... run, heal and be happy again... You deserve that🤗

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Nah, you're just immature

Childish and egocentric

Sounds like modern women. Are you certain that you are not projecting?

That's an absolutely ridiculous statement...I'm a gentleman who would open the door for you as well as give you my coat if you were cold......

What the hell, bet 90% of people watching this are blokes

Just say that you are a misandrist and be done with it.

This will never work. You need to cut the cord and THEN you can start falling back in love with your husband.

It will not work because you have two strong a feelings for the outside friend. I suppose the only way it is possible is if you truly left and had no contact for several years. But you would definitely have to keep boundaries

You want your husband to take all the blame? What you’re doing is wrong and if u want it to work and have honesty and openness you need to cut ties with that friend.