The Effects of Social Media on Relationships | Mayurakshi Ghosal | TEDxYouth@DAA

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5 жыл бұрын

Mayurakshi Ghosal, a sophomore at DAA, explains to her fellow high school students the significance of building deep and meaningful relationships, characterized by a sense of trust, understanding and connection. She helps her audience recognize a fake relationship, that is often built due to the over dependence on social media apps like Snapchat and Instagram, and lists simple and easy-to-follow steps to turn those fake relationships into meaningful ones. Mayurakshi Ghosal, a sophomore at DAA, explains to her fellow high school students the significance of building deep and meaningful relationships, characterized by a sense of trust, understanding and connection. She helps her audience recognize a fake relationship, that is often built due to the over dependence on social media apps like Snapchat and Instagram, and lists simple and easy-to-follow steps to turn those fake relationships into meaningful ones. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@kelseymusulman7694
@kelseymusulman7694 3 жыл бұрын
Find friends outside of social media. Someone who was with you in a hard time doesn’t forget. Keep talking to them.
@Millennial_Gardener
@Millennial_Gardener 3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯
@sanesanity9056
@sanesanity9056 4 жыл бұрын
Brave girl coming out there to talk on this important topic
@bsanders113
@bsanders113 4 жыл бұрын
I got married and have been off social media ever since. I never understood the big deal of it.
@biggerbitcoin5126
@biggerbitcoin5126 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I would do after I get married. No social media whatsoever......I mean what's the point.
@nifflofair6685
@nifflofair6685 2 жыл бұрын
So you were on it before you got married?
@bsanders113
@bsanders113 2 жыл бұрын
@@nifflofair6685 here and there but I still had profiles. I officially deleted them a few months after
@StopThatSquirrel
@StopThatSquirrel 3 жыл бұрын
I think the Snap streak is definitely more of a Gen Z teen thing, but liking on IG and FB are kind of the equivalent. I've had people call me out for not liking something and it's like uhh, I have a life and don't spend all day scrolling this stuff...
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@neveragain733
@neveragain733 Жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with a girl who was heavily addicted to texting and social media, and a ton of other apps. In the end she chose her phone over me. I lost out to a square piece of plastic. She was ever fully present when we were alone. It was all about her phone. Was like having a 3rd person with us at all times.
@captainkay
@captainkay 5 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE. DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW PROUD WE ALL ARE? AMAZING.
@anishabanerjee3545
@anishabanerjee3545 5 жыл бұрын
Well done! It's great that you identified this issue and shared your personal experience with this.
@TheDiamond915
@TheDiamond915 3 жыл бұрын
I lost so many friends I made at school since the 4th grade just recently because of political views on Facebook . The most stupidest way to end a friendship is through social media talking about opinions. Sometimes I feel like something drives that ability to forget who your actually talking to and become a totally different person through the screen. Almost like it possesses you. Cause I swear it made no sense to argue after everything we’ve been through to end a friendship not even talking physically with each other about it. People used to discuss topics in person if it was that serious at family gatherings or on trips or whatever now people stay quiet in person, are on their phones most of the time and talk a storm up on social media as if that’s the real world. It’s bizarre.
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@antoniospatsis4145
@antoniospatsis4145 2 жыл бұрын
In Greece we have a folk saying: If you want to be lost, you will be lost. Whatever it takes. When social media introduced, many masks (as we say in greek) have fallen.
@tradingwithwill7214
@tradingwithwill7214 4 жыл бұрын
Streaks sound insane even for social media
@kevshelby1679
@kevshelby1679 4 жыл бұрын
This world becomes more and more psychological ill...
@shawnhampshirehick101
@shawnhampshirehick101 3 жыл бұрын
Planned by the elite for population control?🤔🙄
@hananokuni2580
@hananokuni2580 4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the rate at which ideas and knowledge are exchanged now - as opposed to just 20 or 30 years ago - has something to do with it. Sometimes I think taking a break from social media is a good thing.
@nomalevolence
@nomalevolence 3 жыл бұрын
I think this is super important and she did an amazing job explaining relationships
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@sang01me
@sang01me 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to this video, I learnt what a streak is.
@lamyabroussard6975
@lamyabroussard6975 3 жыл бұрын
Great job! This topic is one I've really agreed should be covered. It's so good to you as a student share it to your peers. Your perspective was insightful and very important to have come from you, about you and your peers. I've always believed this can be applied to adults and romantic relationships. Thank you very much & keep up the good talks!
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@aryamore6343
@aryamore6343 4 жыл бұрын
Many of us might be even scared to share this video. I don't why I'm feeling like this🙁
@poha9514
@poha9514 4 жыл бұрын
This is the topic i extremely wanted thank you.🖤🗿
@saguaro1689
@saguaro1689 4 жыл бұрын
Ive never had profiles in Instagram and snapchat and never gonna register there
@liluhaas
@liluhaas 5 жыл бұрын
Really important
@jessicahart4689
@jessicahart4689 3 жыл бұрын
"use a land line at your friends house to call your driver or parents while picking you up"..lol so relatable!
@oscaranthoney8436
@oscaranthoney8436 4 жыл бұрын
very well executed! as a sophomore terific effort! cant wait to see where this enthusiastic minded girl goes
@Josh.3579
@Josh.3579 2 жыл бұрын
Social media is so addictive 😩, I wish people can go back to talking face to face and living a better life instead of scrolling a screen everyday and become more addicted looking at who has a better life etc Social media doesn't show us what's really behind so screen, u don't see the pain u only see the happiness in photos and videos.
@jayabhandari3009
@jayabhandari3009 3 жыл бұрын
beautiful very well articulated
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@shannonpollard3964
@shannonpollard3964 2 жыл бұрын
Fake friends and real friends are a part of life, everybody goes through it of all generations, people are going to be who they're, and some people being value the same things, in the same way that you do, it sucks especially when you attract those kinds of people and you realize that you need to weed those people out and work on yourself. But people who based their friendships of social media clout, social status and everyday text messages to validate your friendship with someone is very unhealthy.
@sofianasaruddin
@sofianasaruddin 3 жыл бұрын
You speak my mind so accurately.
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@kelseymusulman7694
@kelseymusulman7694 3 жыл бұрын
I guess I’m a boomer. 😂 me and my buddy have helped each other move every time a family member needed it. Moving sucks, I know it, so I’ll do it with my buddy any time he needs it. Cause he does it for me. I’m not a yes man unless I know the investment is there. And it never has to be equal to mine. It’s about willingness.
@268Jamal
@268Jamal 8 ай бұрын
4:15 Interesting research!
@aryamore6343
@aryamore6343 4 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to share this video as it may result people to ultimately judge me
@BernonCars
@BernonCars 4 жыл бұрын
The ones who judge you aren’t your true friends
@Krishna56382
@Krishna56382 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@sarahjane9644
@sarahjane9644 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t think people took social media that seriously lol
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@BernonCars
@BernonCars 4 жыл бұрын
Glad I deleted Snap a while ago. Frickin pointless app.
@AbbasKhan-ot7fx
@AbbasKhan-ot7fx 3 жыл бұрын
Ive been deleted that since 8th grade
@vasupraddeokar2099
@vasupraddeokar2099 4 жыл бұрын
Yeahh
@danirk1455
@danirk1455 3 жыл бұрын
this hits deep ngl!?!?!??!?!?!?
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@matteociaramella6610
@matteociaramella6610 2 жыл бұрын
feels weird to watch this. I'm 17 and I barely ever text all of my best friends. We only interact at school or when we're out together
@TheNotoriousDev
@TheNotoriousDev 4 жыл бұрын
I don't use snapchat, will this society accept me?🤔
@vatsalsaxena8813
@vatsalsaxena8813 4 жыл бұрын
It absolutely will. You're not alone brother :)
@rajurastogi610
@rajurastogi610 3 жыл бұрын
Haha I left instagram, twitter, fb 6 months ago. Never looking back... social media is destroying family system in India.
@altamasha8243
@altamasha8243 3 жыл бұрын
@@rajurastogi610 Very good u will leave in peace
@drehardin
@drehardin Жыл бұрын
😤 Frankenstein.... The invention with good intentions, now owns the creator.
@sfsf7067
@sfsf7067 3 жыл бұрын
Same to me i moved shool then i moved back after 4 moth and my friends didnt Even came to me
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@DavidAdamBishop
@DavidAdamBishop Жыл бұрын
Oooo look at me I started a Ted talk with a prop
@poha9514
@poha9514 4 жыл бұрын
What if i don't have friends👌
@sallylemon5835
@sallylemon5835 3 жыл бұрын
No friends = no problems 👌🏼
@ArchanaMehta-pn4hm
@ArchanaMehta-pn4hm Ай бұрын
Yes v teue
@cameraguy2328
@cameraguy2328 Жыл бұрын
May ALM-1 po bang nanonood ngayon?
@thedigitalcitizen275
@thedigitalcitizen275 5 жыл бұрын
why 3k views and 17m subs something looks like a scam
@mayukhghosal3406
@mayukhghosal3406 5 жыл бұрын
Bro the subscribers are from the ted x company not the person who is presenting
@feliciapattinson9591
@feliciapattinson9591 4 жыл бұрын
This shows people aren't really interested in these topics
@JoeM370
@JoeM370 8 ай бұрын
This content is a powerful guiding influence. I read a book with related messages that impacted me substantially. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@rajashekarswamy8964
@rajashekarswamy8964 Жыл бұрын
ನಮಗೆ ಇದು lesson ಇದೆ ಅಂತ ಬಂದೆ ಗುರು ಆದ್ರೆ ಈ ಅಮ್ಮ ಏನೇನೋ ಹೇಳ್ತಾಳೆ 😂 BA3d sem
@cool-as-cucumber
@cool-as-cucumber 2 жыл бұрын
You want to India and had no internet access? Really.. ?
@samyakjain3989
@samyakjain3989 3 жыл бұрын
there is internet in india, thats why so many indians on comment section
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@toddlagerholm2304
@toddlagerholm2304 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone ever see movie idiocracy? Thats our life!
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832
@mahmudabdullahisaid8832 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation? 🇦🇷
@rexmaximus8331
@rexmaximus8331 10 ай бұрын
nice knockers
@amanshah560
@amanshah560 2 жыл бұрын
L + Ratio
@houseofexcellence01
@houseofexcellence01 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting topic but bad presentation
@alpharomeo910
@alpharomeo910 5 жыл бұрын
10 points for efforts...Coz it takes a lot of effort to find a place in India where there is no Internet..Lost interest as soon as she started off
@joeymhango1556
@joeymhango1556 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe she didn't have money for it? Or rather she was too busy to get the right things to connect her fone? She isn't saying there is no wifi
@aaron4104
@aaron4104 4 жыл бұрын
So that made you lose interest ? Wow
@tutulzaman3273
@tutulzaman3273 2 жыл бұрын
She cant straighten her right hand
@toad15fan
@toad15fan 3 жыл бұрын
cringy
@40III
@40III 5 жыл бұрын
Didn’t realize people take Snap streaks that serious. We definitely in different times when it comes to friendships.
@floofyfoxxo744
@floofyfoxxo744 3 жыл бұрын
@@chandlertrey5403 I know it's been a week, but... come on, dude. That's just an awful thing to do. Just, why? I get this might be a bot, but I'm honestly just confused as to the point of that kind of thing.
@lfb256
@lfb256 Жыл бұрын
I once had a 450 day streak with a friend. We both started working at Disney at the same time, and we had met in a Facebook group and requested to live together, which didn’t happen, but when I left Disney, we kept the snap streak going. I know I wasn’t using the snap streak to meaningfully communicate with her, it was my more competitive side that wanted to see how long I could do it, especially since I have ADHD and I have trouble doing certain things on the daily because I forget or get distracted. When the streak broke it was bittersweet because it was a task that I had managed to do everyday for over a year, but also a little bit of a relief because I didn’t have to do it everyday anymore. I’m still friends with this person, but I don’t really use Snapchat anymore. All that being said, the streak was the main reason I started using Snapchat regularly.
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