The ideal man and the ideal woman according to Ayn Rand | Yaron Brook and Lex Fridman

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3 жыл бұрын

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@MultiAlanR
@MultiAlanR 3 жыл бұрын
Ayn Rand was just being honest. Most women are attracted to powerful men. And most women are okay with a man opening a door for them.
@jamesevans2507
@jamesevans2507 3 жыл бұрын
*if the man is tall and good looking
@sessaly7197
@sessaly7197 3 жыл бұрын
I'd agree with you that most women are this way. But the thing is, no educated person ever questioned that really. People today think that there is a somewhat sneaky agenda to erase differences. That's not the case. Most feminists just argue that there is also a (not so small) minority where things are different and even the opposite way. Yes, there are also men who look up to powerful women and women who enjoy being above men. That doesn't invalidate the preferences of the majority.
@johnjones1870
@johnjones1870 2 жыл бұрын
@@sessaly7197 Yes they did question that really. What you said is just incorrect. There is a sneaky agenda to erase differences. They want women to go into male dominated fields, they want women to be more masculine and aggressive, etc. They want women to be like men and vice versa. Transgenderism is another example. That is the case. What are you talking about? That is not what most feminists argue. "Feminists just argue there are exceptions" wow there are exceptions, who would have though that? (fucking everybody). There are super rare exceptions, sure whatever. That is not what feminists argue. Feminists argue that women should not seek to be with a man who is above her, because that is sexism. "women are attracted to men who are above them". You think feminists like that statement? Wow. Stop doing that womanly thing where you just _make_ a term mean what you think it should mean. You don't own the word "feminism".
@albertoeng6255
@albertoeng6255 3 жыл бұрын
The ideal man is that who takes responsibilities for his own behaviour and sayings, the one who bears the burden of his life no matter how difficult it is and still lives virtuously. The ideal woman shares the same values.
@albertoeng6255
@albertoeng6255 3 жыл бұрын
@@freddymarcel-marcum6831 Thanks 👍🏽 English isn't my first language (I'm studying it) so I often make mistakes like this..
@albertoeng6255
@albertoeng6255 3 жыл бұрын
@jeep23862 I agree with you when you say that is subjective, but I not agree that they are "highly". There are general traits that are accepted in our societies that makes a person good or ideal, for example a person who tells the truth or doesn't commit crimes is generally accepted as a good person. The same thing as a person who is responsible of his own acts and behavior, the other way around is certainly perceived as evil or bad. Beyond that we start to see those subjective aspects.
@adarsh_3007
@adarsh_3007 3 жыл бұрын
That sounds very much like Dr. Jordan Peterson!
@johnjones1870
@johnjones1870 2 жыл бұрын
The ideal man is someone who you would label toxically masculine. Why do you think that guy gets so many women? He should lead his wife, have authority, be aggressive, and yes, have responsibility. The ideal woman is sweet and nurturing and caring. She isn't very aggressive, and follows her husband. Men and women are different. their ideals are different.
@jankom.7783
@jankom.7783 Жыл бұрын
​@@johnjones1870 Ideal men are not aggressive towards women. They do not have to. Toxic men are aggressive towards women because they are not respected by them
@andym2241
@andym2241 3 жыл бұрын
Stop being hard on yourself Lex, you do a great job and get great guests. Thank you
@tuxillo
@tuxillo 3 жыл бұрын
@@elck3 what would be the purpose?
@Joecool20147
@Joecool20147 3 жыл бұрын
tuxillo possibly so he stays on that grind and never underestimates the task before him
@tuxillo
@tuxillo 3 жыл бұрын
@@Joecool20147 sounds like a good goal
@tinselinkl
@tinselinkl 3 жыл бұрын
7.9 billion people, I want to stay curious, go down that rabbit hole and explore questions that pops up but i'm quickly shutdown by experts or people in general classifying me with my current profession & previous choices in life. That's why we have less thinking and emotional crowd. They get busy dismissing others. They get busy fighting in tribes that don't really have solutions. They don't look inwards and start within their family unit. No trial & error. Eventually the curious ones, just stops and joins the crowd...crying in the end it doesn't even matter. And they go on having children and the cycle continues. The rift between tribes grows. Outsourcing thinking, responsibility & accountability.
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
Try again. You can do better
@tinselinkl
@tinselinkl 3 жыл бұрын
@@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd it's a struggle.
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
@@tinselinkl there are no answers. But what I enjoyed in this discussion was the theme of the guest that we have to take the failed research of others and use it in respectful recognition that we can spend time researching answers without having to repeat their failure.
@tinselinkl
@tinselinkl 3 жыл бұрын
@@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd totally agree and these should be open to all. Not for elite few. Information shouldn't be a monopoly but we should increase good information.
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
@@tinselinkl the problem is rewards. How do you compensate for time invested. It's why so much research is trash. It just serves it's masters, not inquiry. The rapidly fleeting open internet was excellent at it. I fear it will be a memory soon.
@johngalt1927
@johngalt1927 3 жыл бұрын
Who is John Galt?
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
If your asking you already have the wrong answer.
@TheJeremyKentBGross
@TheJeremyKentBGross 3 жыл бұрын
Who is Anonymous?
@mayasamsara
@mayasamsara 3 жыл бұрын
The ideal man does what He must while holding himself accountable to his actions, and never betrays his path if success or prosperity rewards him. . The poem the Road not Taken comes to my mind.. The ideal women realizes the fact that the masculine is incomplete without the feminine..
@cynergyyy
@cynergyyy Жыл бұрын
Yesss🔥🔥
@clarezigner6028
@clarezigner6028 3 жыл бұрын
For me, the Ideal Woman fully realized is Dagny Taggart, who is everything a woman should be and every little girl ought to WANT to be.
@individuationportal
@individuationportal 3 жыл бұрын
Super interesting
@davidp5262
@davidp5262 3 жыл бұрын
Sooooo what’s the ideal man or woman? I didn’t hear it in this clip. He doesn’t even describe her ideal man.
@jacquelinerendell
@jacquelinerendell 3 жыл бұрын
Howard Roark 🥰
@PostModernTruth
@PostModernTruth 3 жыл бұрын
He explains an individualist view, less the specifics. That the ideal man or woman has come from a portrayal Ayn Rand's ideals.
@Undone545
@Undone545 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelinerendell and John Galt
@jacquelinerendell
@jacquelinerendell 3 жыл бұрын
@@Undone545 Yes! And John Galt!
@TheJeremyKentBGross
@TheJeremyKentBGross 3 жыл бұрын
Atlas Shrugged is ironically largely just a chick romance novel about a fantasy self insert female character who is a highly successful CEO, who only f***s even more highly successful male CEOs that invent everything that moves society forward. But I'll grant you that they are pretty ideal characters, and she absolutely nails the communist mentality in all her evil characters like a perfect marksman that's got their number. But then, her folks were done in by the communists I understand before she escaped to America, so she knew what she was talking about and had a vendetta. Still.. it's Twilight, if Twilight actually had something to say. Give it a read. Not the best book ever written for sure, but it's educational.
@Undone545
@Undone545 3 жыл бұрын
I have only read atlas shrugged and ayn rands how to write fiction/non fiction. But in all of the above she makes the case of characters embodying philosophies by action. I definitely agree with the guest she was showing her own sexual fantasies, and I'd argue most women. As dagny taggerts internal monologue and love interests display what we would call hypergamous trends.
@ChristopherTreeChronicles
@ChristopherTreeChronicles 3 жыл бұрын
Was expecting some reasonable discourse in the comment section, why I did I’ll never know
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
You mean adoring sycophants who don't dare disagree with you
@ChristopherTreeChronicles
@ChristopherTreeChronicles 3 жыл бұрын
@@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd Yes exactly! Everyone must conform to my world view or else
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
@@ChristopherTreeChronicles or else what, people might not agree? Are you implying what? Starting to suspect a snowflake
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
@@Daniela-pr7rz possible. Also possible you don't know how to apply it
@tekannon7803
@tekannon7803 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Mr Fridman, Thank you for this videocast and thank you Mr Brook for your interesting views that enlighten us all. I was happy to hear Mr Brook's take on free will, not only because it lines up with mine, but that we must be careful to hear all analyses of things portraying the mysterious human psyche. There is a tendency to hear one esteemed person's view and stick with it.
@TheKoderius
@TheKoderius 3 жыл бұрын
Yaron is an Israeli, Lex is Russian - both communicate via English with an American accent and technology to convey wisdom to the masses - Ayn Rand`s would have loved this.
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
Yep two people who exploit the natives of the land that took them in and tell them how they should change what made the country great.
@phamnuwen9442
@phamnuwen9442 3 жыл бұрын
@Laërtu Yaron is an atheist.
@motivationforbreakfast
@motivationforbreakfast 3 жыл бұрын
My comment disappeared 😕
@kevtherev8194
@kevtherev8194 3 жыл бұрын
But I still don't know the answer.
@nickchikago
@nickchikago 3 жыл бұрын
So atlas shrugged is about repressed sexual desires, its starting to make sense now.
@TheJeremyKentBGross
@TheJeremyKentBGross 3 жыл бұрын
It's Twilight with a vendetta against communism.
@livondiramerian6999
@livondiramerian6999 3 жыл бұрын
The ideal is different for every person.
@Mr96akaal
@Mr96akaal 3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@ivankaramasov
@ivankaramasov 3 жыл бұрын
I know one thing about the ideal woman: it definitely wasn't Ayn Rand.
@Earthgirlinthesun
@Earthgirlinthesun 2 ай бұрын
Mistake was worshipping men. Cuz we all know if it’s a man or a bear… we’re gonna pick bear and hope that they’re busy😅
@nicktanner8231
@nicktanner8231 3 жыл бұрын
Why do you delete comments which challenge your way of thinking? Why can’t you win in battle of ideas?
@oliround
@oliround 11 ай бұрын
Superior philosophy
@sampragyaagarwal6325
@sampragyaagarwal6325 3 жыл бұрын
MGTOW4LIFE🇺🇸
@DioneWaurioBecker
@DioneWaurioBecker 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant
@jonathan2847
@jonathan2847 3 жыл бұрын
Libertarianism sounds great until you think about it.
@nickarteaga175
@nickarteaga175 3 жыл бұрын
Rand was not a libertarian. She was an outspoken critic of libertarians.
@phamnuwen9442
@phamnuwen9442 3 жыл бұрын
How to get likes without making an argument in 2020: 1. Write something to the effect of "X is bad". That's it.
@jonathan2847
@jonathan2847 3 жыл бұрын
​@@phamnuwen9442 Determinsim. When you think enough and understand this relatively simple fundemental principle you understand libertarianism is entirely flawed. Thus with little thought libertarianism can be understood to be fundementally flawed.
@phamnuwen9442
@phamnuwen9442 3 жыл бұрын
@@jonathan2847 The fact that you think you "think enough" doesn't add anything to this discussion. The rest of your reply is word salad, except for the argument for determinism. Did libertarianism (do philosophies think?) really _avoid_ thinking about a huge number of issues? In what sense does avoidance exist if determinism is true?
@johnjones1870
@johnjones1870 2 жыл бұрын
No. The opposite is true. Libertarianism sounds fucking horrible to most people. No government social spending? how selfish! What you said is true for socialism however.
@MNMLSTN
@MNMLSTN 3 жыл бұрын
Would like to see a marxist on the show one day
@albionicamerican8806
@albionicamerican8806 3 жыл бұрын
Also Rand's vision of the ideal woman makes no sense. If all the world's girls decided to become sterile career women like Dagny, the human species would go extinct. Instead most women fulfill their nature by becoming mothers, despite the negative way Rand portrays mothers, children and family life in her novels.
@albionicamerican8806
@albionicamerican8806 3 жыл бұрын
@@DeathEater93 Why does Rand in _Atlas Shrugged_ have a character describe the 8-year-old girl who needed braces as "mean" and "ugly"? And why does she portray the drunken factory worker who knocks her braced teeth out as an agent of vigilante justice? And why does Rand not have Dagny react with horror at hearing this story about the physical abuse of a child, which you would expect from a psychologically normal woman? You have to be a real sociopath to show gratuitous violence towards a child this way. BTW, I'm pretty sure that unionized American auto factories in the 1950's offered their workers and their dependents dental plans as part of their compensation. Yet Rand portrays her fictional auto factory's dental plan as an unspeakable horror because it offered a little girl orthodontic work.
@bamm3707
@bamm3707 3 жыл бұрын
If the perfect man existed on earth everyone would hate him and end up killing him.
@arnavrawat9864
@arnavrawat9864 3 жыл бұрын
Nietzche was a power tripper. I noticed the power fantasy in Ayn Rand's description. I somehow got the sense that Ayn Rand's protagonists are unbendingly perfect. Which is kinda toxic. Ps - I don't know jack shit about Rand's works
@micahellis293
@micahellis293 3 жыл бұрын
Haha... your honesty is appreciated. I see so many people who make dismissive comments about Rand's work, and it is painfully obvious that they have not actually read any of it. They are just repeating what they heard somewhere else (probably their university lit or philosophy professors). You are kinda correct. Her protagonists are unbending, but not perfect. Because the books take place over a long period of time, you see them learn and grow and correct misconceptions. They are "unbending" on their values, but their values do mature, and in some cases, change. I think that is the case with most people. I know my values are certainly not the same as they were 20 years ago. Her stories do, however, revolve around a battle between an objective good and evil. If you literally know nothing about Atlas Shrugged, I suggest you stop looking in to Ayn Rand, and read/ listen to it (the audio book that is narrated by Scott Brick is amazing). The more you look in to Ayn Rand, spoilers are inevitable. When I read it for the first time, I knew nothing about it, and there was real intrigue and mystery. After you have read it, by all means, read and watch other Rand content. Her words. If you rely on the opinions of her detractors, you will get a mix of misunderstanding and misrepresentation, and some pure collectivists who despise individualism.
@arnavrawat9864
@arnavrawat9864 3 жыл бұрын
@@micahellis293 @Micah Ellis I definitely notice the thing you say about people attacking rand. They have strong opinions, sort of like it is all wrong or all bad, which is really suspicious. Because it's very black and white. I definitely relate to the message "stick to your core beliefs", as it is- it's a good message. You mentioned that the protagonists in her books undergo self correction on their beliefs also becoming more mature, which sort of makes them imperfect. But you know, change in beliefs doesn't show imperfection. It doesn't really humanise the protagonists. It may instead be a lack of information/experience. And once the protagonists have gained the right information they course correct their assumptions and beliefs and thus mature. A perfect person will stick to their beliefs, and as they gain more information/experience their beliefs will probably change. What i have an issue with here to be honest, is exactly this. A real human has moments of patheticness, and at times betrays themselves, while knowing what they're doing is wrong. They don't *always* stick to their beliefs. That's hypocrisy. I feel this is an unavoidable part of being human. And any protagonist that should be construed as "ideal" should have this notion of patheticness embedded in them. They overcome their patheticness when the time calls for it, but they aren't ever completely free of it. And sometimes they fail to do even this Now.. I don't know if the protagonists of Rand's are this category, as I haven't read Rand. But this is what i believe what an ideal "human" would look like. This doesn't mean that Rand is wrong about one particular thing, but that Rand's pictures is a good goal, which we should definitely strive for, but not the ultimate.
@rogersimpson6509
@rogersimpson6509 3 жыл бұрын
I struggle to see value in libertarianism, it's poor philosophy and an unrealistic response to despair or a difficult situation. No is or should be totally free, we all have responsibility to our environment in all its forms through context and relations.
@wtice4632
@wtice4632 3 жыл бұрын
I owe you nothing fascist
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
It's just like wokeism. It requires a willing suspension of reality to believe it wouldn't promptly be exploited.
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
@@GCKelloch shshh you might confuse them with inconvenience facts their "philosophy" hasn't figured out yet.
@nickarteaga175
@nickarteaga175 3 жыл бұрын
Ayn Rand WAS NOT a libertarian and did not like libertarians. She called them right-wing hippies. Objectivism is very different.
@chagoriver7159
@chagoriver7159 3 жыл бұрын
@@GCKelloch why would you reply to such a childish comment. libertarism appeals to children and edgy teens. an adult would give it 2 thoughts and realize it's dumb.
@AvalonMisty
@AvalonMisty 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for bringing forth that the use of the word "man" does NOT include Women
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
Karen. Can't even mock these people anymore
@sirdanielfortesque5812
@sirdanielfortesque5812 3 жыл бұрын
@@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd eh? What's your angle here? Please explain.
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd
@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd 3 жыл бұрын
@@sirdanielfortesque5812 if I gotta explain it, you won't get it.
@johnjones1870
@johnjones1870 2 жыл бұрын
@@dheujsnrhfydhehehshshhdggsd lol. Could be a parody. Never know
@flyingfrog7634
@flyingfrog7634 3 жыл бұрын
Atlas Shrugged is a TERRIBLE book. Just want to save any potential readers many hours of their precious life. Only a lunatic would put a 3+ hour speech/rant into a book. If you want the gist of Rand's philosophy, read The Fountainhead. Also, her philosophy is completely ridiculous. My guess is that most people who think her views are amazing haven't actually read them.
@cnhhnc
@cnhhnc 3 жыл бұрын
Ayn Rand? Second rate novelist, third rate philosopher. Why so many flock to her is beyond me. I've read many of the Great Philosophers, Ayn is NOT one! Read, Plato, read Augustine, read Descartes, read Kant, read Hegel, Heidegger, etc. Then come back and tell me Rand belongs in that group, lol! Heck, read Adam Smith and Karl Marx for that matter. Rand is an economic dwarf by comparison! In my college years, Rand fascinated wide eyed coeds who were conflicted about feminism. They wanted to be equal but couldn't wait for a MAN to sweep them off their feet, lol! Rand provides an out for disillusioned individuals who continue to feel they could have "been somebody" but are mostly failures in the Captialist pantheon of glorified but questionable entrepreneurs. Ethics of responsibility, compassion, and love are elided in the so-called philosophy of Objectivism. Think about what humanity would be without those for a moment. And how untenable this Hobbesian view of unbridled antagonism and competition, how unsustainable, how inhuman it is?
@cnhhnc
@cnhhnc 3 жыл бұрын
@Charm Ming I'm just a Libertarian Troll?
@robitster
@robitster 3 жыл бұрын
Lex you lose so much credibility with this right wing crap
@Avikpalui
@Avikpalui 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that you think his credibility is lost because he can have a discussion with someone different, tells me how far up in ur own ass you are...
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