Exactly...children's upkeep is very important to us biko

@@ngozichy5276 As you use it to take care off yourself and forget about the children. Isn't why is so important?

@@nnan6070 how is it possible to "forget about the children" when they live with us. So we will be looking at them and not feed, clothe and educate them and use the "upkeep" for ourselves?

@@femilicious its not adding up💀

GBAM….well said.

God bless you sir for this naked truth

God Bless u God Bless u and Bless Ur Generation...

Women could exploit this power too remember? You just can't say that

It's very easy to recognize a great father 🙌may u live long enough to enjoy Ur children children sir 🙌 some of them don't even think or remember that is woman that gave to them 😢

@@federalmoney8795 granted but in the case of marriage, men have a upper hand because women are handicap because of their love for the children. My father kept us away from our mother after they separated just to spite her. knowing the anguish she would be going through not seeing her children. In his quest, he didn't care how it affected his own children. Our mom bought us toys one time and he gave them out but he never bought us a single toy till he passed 2007. I feel hurt just talking about this incident and it's over 20 years. She earned better but we couldn't receive anything from her nor see her until I went off to boarding school. We had a better life, food, and housing when my mom came home after he passed on. I know I'm still affected by this, I'm thinking of getting counseling.

My dear marriage is deep. Trained to take care of yourself is not enough. Pray to God to give you a responsible person that has fear God Thank you.

true

Wise

Yeah

Good intervention

It's not an awkward mindset. Biblically, marriage was to be a forum for the perfection of the will of God. This is the only institution where people should offer their body and soul to each other, confide in one another and become prayer partners. Bitterness and divorce is so rampant because many do not first of all know what marriage is all about. Let's go back to the Holy Scriptures.

Pls how can I reach her please

Yes pls oyo state Ibadan especially

We take cases from all states of the federation and also in diaspora.

Yes, honestly we need it in Ibadan Oyo state. Bigger you Judge Funmi

@@justicecourtadmin3674 please how do I lodge my complaint ma, I lived in USA, but need an incorruptible Judge like you ma. God bless and keep you for us your honor

@@eunicefatoberu1395 kindly logon to the website to submit your case.

Thank you, you've said it all👏

So you will seek to stay in a domestic relation than separate in peace right.

Infidelity kills marriage,not only separate

They both are to blame What u saying is just support the woman which is unfair Life as a man is already hard enough...

This is very sensible

Clearly the lady is a cheat... when women start cheating the man will start misbahaving

Hahaha

Exactly

So painful

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I rewind too to check.

God bless you ma

Why una no dey blame woman too once u hear him

Cool

Men and their insecurity issues Couples should learn to trust themselves for no reason You're the best judge funmi.

How could you be so sure! I hate women like you

Yeah he bes take care dem chilren!

He hasn't been doing well for them even when he was together with the wife and now, he isn't ready for anything if not for the court ruling. He was even lying about his income, imagine.

You got it right

You are so right 🤣

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Please what is ""awon omode yi sha""

The only thing you saw in the whole show was him beating the woman

@@pharrellblessing8355 so what else did you focus on? No one has the right to hit another person

@@midi6615 do you know how it feels to know your legally wedded partner is cheating? I'm not in support of his reaction though

@@midi6615 so to you infidelity is OK right??? Not surprised..... Well domestic abuse is, wrong but let's not support bad attitude and infidelity in marriages

@@adesanyaoduwole9625 so from my comment you already made a conclusion that I'm okay with infidelity? Ridiculous My point is no one should lay their hands on someone regardless of their gender unless that person is attacking them and they have to defend themselves. Simple

So what did the man go through. Listen to him carefully and feel his pain. They had it good until the woman started rigmarolling around promiscuity

@@truthforetold893 what pain?? The pain of having to take care of his children which was really the point 👉 👈

@@joseph9531 There is a case of alledge promiscuity on the part of the lady, on several occasions he had caught the lady with evidences of meeting up with the lover .The emotional pain of someone else banging your wife, and possibility of the children not being yours. It's painful. From all indication she had something up her sleeve

@@truthforetold893 if he were not sure they weren't his he'd do a DNA test but because he didn't contest or allege that then he's responsible to take care of his chilluns. This is the main subject not this side foolishness. They can do as they please with their personal lives but the children must be taken care come hell or high water 💧 Oga!

you will meet such woman and breed her as a wife ijn ,since you don't wanna have sense 😝,you go learn am by force .

Why judging from one angle? Are you truly normal?

All blame on the man. No one talk about the woman infidelity

@@olasunkanmiolayinkasamson6139 am not supporting infidelity, both of them cheated, so no comment.

What lead to beating? Was it not bcos she cheated

Tears is another way of deceit crying does not mean she’s innocent alway find a better way to get the truth

Women are going through so much in homes........when they re-act or complain, they perpetrators twist truths with so much lies and domestic violence.....most times.

I can't even look his face because i feel ashamed listening to him

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I'm sorry for the experience. But please be assured that marriage is beautiful. Have a spouse who fears God. That's all you need

That's your bad

Dear ,be prayerful and look for a responsible partner by firstly being a right person , God will guide you aright

I swear

People are still balling in marriage believe me,I'm speaking from experience

Oh some ppl are great story tellers

Even the judge didn't say he has more than one wife. It could be allegations. Didn't u hear when he said the friend was dead for a year now? What's ur problem?

@@cleverjay286 but the wife talked about more than one woman, so if one is dead there are still others. Kids are expensive to take care of, if you have more children, you should have more money especially when you and the kids mother are separated

@@blessingajayi9672 Do u know what allegations are?

@@cleverjay286 what is your point? All what the man said were merely allegations without any tangible prove

Amen!

@@joseph9531 lkhob

@@joseph9531 lkhob

Very serious case

You think d man is not cheating hmm. Na him push d woman

@@ifeyinwaezeh as an African a man have an affair doesn't give the woman the authority and right to do the same, the question is who married who, did the man marry the woman or the woman married the man, so it means the woman has a seed of infidelity in her, by nature the reality is that men can be polygamous

@@TMS26164 u are sick african man my foot, because of ur 6 cloths n drinks so u think she doesn't have feelings ? Nonsense who married who, so marrying her she's having diesel in her body !

@@TMS26164Will you shut up there?

Crocodile tears indeed

Are you serious at all??? If itwas true won't he be here with the proof as his wife just did here with his numerous girlfriends even sending her messages to taunt her???? He is just an irresponsible and insecured man. Who tells his wife that another man should cater for his own biological children when he is still alive??? Later they will say the wife has poisoned the mind of the children. When a child can in actual fact remember how their mother was treated. Nonsense!

he is cheating yes that is right but that does not give the woman a reason to cheat too if she is a Christian when she sees that she would have done it in a better way rather than paying back with cheating she is lucky it is not some family that has some deadly oath like my family if the wife u paid on her head cheats she falls sick in less than one week and if she does not confess what she has done she dies in 7weeks and if the man supports him by not allowing her to do the normal tradition he will be the first to die that was what that killed my uncle who is pastor. they are no problem without a solution and the woman would have reported her husband for beating her it is a criminal offense for beating your wife

@@norbertteco9904 this one na long story, the damage has already been made. The man shouldn't have cheated and the woman shouldn't have cheated as well but the bone of contention now is for the man to take care of his children

@@norbertteco9904 so the man is not a Christian and heaven is only for women.... listen to yourself. You acted as if its ok for him to cheat. If you see nothing wrong in a husband cheating, then keep quiet when the wife cheats. The Bible said, thou shalt not commit adultery, it didn't say it to women only.

Thank you exactly

Is a pity all this is taking place in Nigeria married women sleeping with other men outside their home what a pity

@Citrus Fruit he didn't bring the case up she did?

Infidelity or no infidelity, take care of your children, be responsible to care of them. Unless you didn't called for them into this world. If it's blood that's flowing in his vein, he should know that no matter what, they are his children and he should make living for them. Fact.

@@funtvwithmrimarhiaugueghos143 and she even started the infidelity she was talking about

@@ojoolukunle2151 yeah men should take care of their kids no matter what happened in their marriage

How do you mean? Are you justifying infidelity?

No excuse for infidelity…. she should respect herself and kids and walk out first

If that is all you see then you need glasses

@@teenuharde5440 You clearly can’t understand the words been said here 👍 you need ear drops 💧

"A responsible man", why are they there, because he's not supporting his children. He abandoned his children and started another family. Are you ok??

God also save us from cheating irresponsible husband 🙏

Responsible man indeed He couldn't even defend any of the cheating allegations. They are both guilty of the same thing. Both of them are irresponsible abeg

Infidelity is already involved. Reconciliation and counseling is hard.

The woman clearly stated she was in court to compel her ex husband to provide for the kids not reconcile the marriage

absolutely

D wife mentioned d man's girlfriends, calls, pregnancy scan results, etc.... So with all dis, d woman shud still b faithful? Upon say she stands 2gain frm cheating while d husband will b d one 2spend money going after oda women. Men shouldn't tink dat they hv monopoly of cheating

I agree with you 1000%

I thought it was only me o. Imagine! Someone that was pregnant with his child. And he was even smiling saying it. What a cold-hearted soul.

Very true

Just shut up na! Stop! This is a failing marriage! Stop attacking the man! Hush it!

You are right: once the juju leave their eyes, wahala deh!

It's funny how you missed her consistency in cheating

@@chijindu cheating does not give the husband the right to physically her…. Or is that your consensus?

I just love the way mummy funmi smile and listen iriri lagba, weldone my lord.

you must be a cheat too for passing such judgement

Don't mind him. His phone is always going bad. His daughter came to him to say she knows mummy's password, like he didn't ask for the password, abi? Mr. surely cooked up stories!

I think the beating wasn't addressed by the Judge because they've both decided to move on and not live together anymore.

@@Trendinggist247 she should have warned him for the future and let him know how bad it's to beat a woman. Thank you!

@@sabuaspiller3935 yea, you got that right ✅️

The women in the comment section are acting as though it's normal for the woman to cheat because the guy acted irresponsible. No excuse to cheat wives

God bless you for saying this, I was surprised too😮

Great Exploits , Tosin Ayoko and rest . Are you really believing his watery lies . He’s just Narcissistic ; Projecting his wrongs on his wife . Why didn’t he say the kids belong to the guys mentioned . The main thing is that he’s irresponsible . And a mad person that detest his lies cos it too obvious . May you all never meet this kinds as a brother - in law .

They both cheated on each other but like the judge has been saying....it is not about the couple but the welfare of the children. As such, the man has to take responsibility for them.

About the infidelity charges against him or you had selective hearing....

How?

@@ojoolukunle2151 You are asking why knowing fully well that while in the marriage she was seeing other guys which no man will take unless a dead man 👨.

You're a pretty lier

Thanks

It is not fair on the kids

I noticed

There is more their story i think '

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣but men can texts other women???

@@kiss-so7ty it’s wrong but when comparison come in between a man and a woman then the problem never stops. The man is the hunter and a woman is always the victim, a man can get a child outside and take care of but very and almost impossible for a woman to get pregnant in her matrimonial house by another man then she is still there if the husband is aware. Taaaahhhhhh

You see some women with children but different fathers means the woman is there for experimental purposes, the men have seen that she is good to taste their fertility and move on elsewhere. Women should just respect themselves and stop comparing men because they are always the victims.

@@ngoeemail3068 this mentality right here is the problem, another human is experimental purposes??? Im glad women are being defended now from men like these...

You forgot to say he has a dry cleaning business too

@@omowunmikuponiyi1189 he also took out loan and set up business for the woman which he's also paying back.

@@sijisiji8100 paying his kids school is abt the children it’s a duty ,like the judge said all those shop thgs were issues when the going was fine.now can we ask the kids to suffer cause the love failed btw both of them?

@@omowunmikuponiyi1189 it is absolutely wrong to put all the bills on a man especially the ones with a low income. It's the duty of both of them. That's why I said as Africans we copy wrong systems from the West. If our nation is functioning like in the time of Awolowo, you don't have to pay school fees for kids up to secondary school. My father withdrew me from private school in early 80's when he couldn't afford it anymore with distance problems. Guess, if this guy pass on tomorrow due to stress, that's when the woman will appreciate his little effort while alive. The dynamic in present day required woman to contribute in the house when you know the one you married is not very good financially.

@@sijisiji8100 he did that out of jealousy because he is suspecting his wife, she was doing something before he met her. Men with unnecessary Jealousy