Showing your hand early on is a rookie move honestly women talk too much too soon. The man should be doing all the talking at first why? Because he should be on the hot seat to earn your love and attention.
@Highlyfavoured_2 жыл бұрын
When they ask what I’m looking for, my reply is always ‘I’ll know when I find it’. I do not give them the blueprint.
@ginam28172 жыл бұрын
This right here!!
@tracey52152 жыл бұрын
I like that!!
@asiyahad-deenislam52892 жыл бұрын
I learned this years ago. I would never show my hand. I’m about letting time show the truth. What I’m looking for, let’s play it by ear. I never share my past with a guy either, good listener will hold it and manipulate it to their favor. I’m cool. I’m playing the game of wait. Long wait is truly the best.
@goodwill3742 жыл бұрын
My mistake was my level of boundaries. Once I got ahold of that concept, I was well more protected. People couldn’t just come in my life cause chaos and leave anymore. I was tired of feeling like people could and do anything and everything to me and there were no consequences. I was tired of feeling like a victim. I learned boundaries….. haven’t been played since.
@aliciawoods89252 жыл бұрын
Always let a man be himself. Observe him. This man got mad at me because I never told him how much I liked him. But I could see clearly that he wasn’t that interested in me. He only started to show interest when he seen that I was doing well for myself. He dated two women all while knowing me. He tried to play me but he ended getting played in the end. I moved on from him when he started “liking me” and wanting to be with me.
@vanessabell71542 жыл бұрын
This same happened to me soon when I move away from a disgusting area. This guy all of a sudden want to live bomb me and saying he miss me. I'm not falling for it. I'm tired of this 💩 Blessing 🙏🏾
@misslady50292 жыл бұрын
My brother (may he rest in peace) used to always say never give people ammunition to use against you!
@Bribribri7242 жыл бұрын
This is part of why I got rid of all of my socials but 1. They will study your posts and stories just to approach you with a mixture of all your interests so they can love bomb you. Whenever I decide to date again it will need to be with someone I met in person.
@janiceparkerson47272 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯.
@slickdawg59762 жыл бұрын
Simple fyi, the vast majority of men understand that fundamentally all women share similar desires within a relationship. These desires although not exact in terms of proportion, are all routinely similar. If a man is seeking a casual sexual relationship and has mastered the "art of manipulation" his true intentions are extremely difficult to identify. (until sex is obtained) Unfortunately men who desire long term relationships/marriage utilize the same tactics/dialect as those who exclusively desire sex. The difference is however men desiring long term relationships/marriage will approach the situation from a position of genuine interest and courtship, forgoing any manipulation. Only time will reveal which man is sitting across from you on a date.
@Bribribri7242 жыл бұрын
@@slickdawg5976 You make a very good point. Either way it’s smart to try to be a good judgment of character in these situations. I also acknowledge that men and women can’t always dodge a person that’s not meant for them. Sometimes people are meant to teach you lessons so you don’t choose the wrong person again. It’s the risk we take when dating or even making friends, so I try not to think too hard on it. It’s just my job to make sure that I’m not one of those manipulative dishonest people that I don’t want to come across.
@slickdawg59762 жыл бұрын
@@Bribribri724 agreed
@goodwill3742 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s been about a year for me no social medias. The “let me get your Snapchat” vs “Can I call you sometime?” Literally made me delete social media. I tell people you want to get to know me you have to do it the honest way I don’t have social Media for you to study. All I have is KZfaq.
@eccentricreign31572 жыл бұрын
In the beginning, a man will send his representative before you see the real him.
@margaretwince27482 жыл бұрын
So true.
@Sofondra2 жыл бұрын
I call this giving a road map to your heart...the wrong man will be the right one long enough to win...
@jnp4442 жыл бұрын
I read a story where this man was house sitting for a family. He had a thing for the daughter. You know what he did...he read her diary while the family was gone and knew the ins and outs of that women. He won her over and they're married now. Although he straight up invaded her privacy, the tactics are the same. He found out what he could and became her prince charming. Only difference was she wasn't the one to give away what she wanted in a man. Be careful ladies, seems quite a few will do anything to LOOK like the one for you. Don't help them with this manipulative tactic. Bait and switch happens all to often claiming too much precious time from us
@filmadcamp15122 жыл бұрын
Is the man a good husband though?
@jnp4442 жыл бұрын
@@filmadcamp1512 I don't know. If you have to do all that to get someone in the first place, I can't see a marriage being that positive. Probably why what he posted was a confession he said he would never admit to.
@filmadcamp15122 жыл бұрын
@@jnp444 I dont see "reading someones diary" as a lot (all of that). It's an invasion of privacy for sure but if he used it to be a good partner and IS a good partner then it can be overlooked if he's consistent.
@jnp4442 жыл бұрын
@@filmadcamp1512 We can agree to disagree. We don't know whether he is or isn't a good husband. If this is something he'll take to his grave, he cleary understands that reading her diary to get her "is all that" because he broke her trust right from the start. Also, if he was a good husband, I'd think he'd want to tell her because he's continued to be that way. Guess we won't know but to get her, he was shady af. I hope you find someone like that since you see it as okay. Have a good one
@filmadcamp15122 жыл бұрын
@@jnp444 Yes we can agree to disagree. I was not seeking agreement. Simply engaging in a discussion based on a point you brought up.
@vivianwade31852 жыл бұрын
All these views and hardly no thumbs up!!!! People, hit the thumbs up button!!!! Do your fingers hurt? Show your appreciation, hit the thumbs up button, it's free!!!!! He's a good man!!!!
@TheShumakeWay2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@vivianwade31852 жыл бұрын
@@TheShumakeWay just stated the truth!!! May Jesus Christ pour blessings all over your life!!!!!
@TheShumakeWay2 жыл бұрын
@@vivianwade3185 Amen
@IndigoWarriorAngel2 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on what you say. Tell him that you believe in waiting for sex till marriage. The wrong one will run for the hills🤣 Sad but true. I encourage everyone to be this way God's way is the best way🙏🏾
@goodwill3742 жыл бұрын
Narcs might see it as a challenge
@ayanadavis94496 ай бұрын
This the one. 😂 They be out of there quick!
@UniquelyVickie2 жыл бұрын
I say simply a man that is his authentic self. Period!
@kayslay8882 жыл бұрын
this is the way
@theblackbookexperience83252 жыл бұрын
This is the same line I've used many times. They're confused and tells me all I need to know
@goodwill3742 жыл бұрын
I like that
@tonisanders32892 жыл бұрын
Some women just talk too much.
@TheMobileNest2 жыл бұрын
When a man asks me what I’m looking for, I tell him I know it when I see/experience it. I need to see what he wants and doesn’t want to be, do and have. I stopped talking too much 🤣🤣🙌🏽
@TheeSimoneB2 жыл бұрын
Keep it vague.
@Tarotcooks2 жыл бұрын
The mistake that keeps getting women played -A man. 🤣
@q.t.gamingfamily2 жыл бұрын
I agree completely. Men who are interested in me are who they are. If they meet or don't meet my standards, giving them my list won't do anything to make him.
@mstenderonie2 жыл бұрын
Get rid of the list. If he’s a God fearing man then he will have all of the qualities of a good man and a good husband. Check his fruit!☝🏼
@AmieSinger2 жыл бұрын
Poker Face!! Never reveal your hand!!
@belindabradley23252 жыл бұрын
I think we all needs to focus more on our heavenly father and he will give us what we need
@batteleyyachtlife99572 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@francescamiller43402 жыл бұрын
Yeah, It's like DMX said in that song I've Played U & U Played me what u really want from me!
@janiceparkerson47272 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂.
@sunshineabc94372 жыл бұрын
Thought provoking Content for sure…..👍🏼
@thehaweseffect2 жыл бұрын
Love is a battlefield and you need to understand exactly what is going on in order to have some success Yes there is a problem with over sharing information I'm so happy you are saying this as a man hopefully it will sink in
@onlylikemindedbw2 жыл бұрын
I made this mistake ...
@BriannaLifeCoach2 жыл бұрын
I thought this was common sense lmaooo
@my.02242 жыл бұрын
Brief but potent!
@minervasworld10022 жыл бұрын
That is absolutely true.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. That’s a true thing that you pointed out. And basically, my take on it is that it’s just a woman telling a man how to play her, although it doesn’t seem that way to women. Don’t tell a man what you like, but instead observe how he is. And ladies, don’t listen to a man telling you what he like either. Just peacefully walk away and forget about that one bcuz he’s a narcissist whose only good for playing games and being played. That is, if he has something to be played for. Such as a lot of money, or he is very dumb and easy to set up for something foul. That sly vixens will run their game on.
@zero11882 жыл бұрын
a ma telling you what he likes make him a narcissist ?
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy2 жыл бұрын
@@zero1188 Yep. I seen guys like that up close. And a narcissist is exactly what they are. Telling a woman what he like, as if she’s there to serve him. Narcissist! Only a naive woman who don’t know the ropes yet would listen to man’s wants and actually try to fulfill them. And she’s going to get the punishment she’s due for doing it.
@zero11882 жыл бұрын
@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy seem more like you just afraid and moving in fear thats why i ask
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy2 жыл бұрын
@@zero1188 You can call if fear if you want, but I call it choice. A person can choose to suffer with a narcissist or not.
@filmadcamp15122 жыл бұрын
@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy That doesn't make him (or anyone) a narcissist. It just makes them straightforward. If he tells you what he likes then you can just decide if you can offer it to him or move on. Likewise with yourself telling him what you like. Both people sharing their likes and dislikes is called effective communication. Now if he tells you what he likes but doesn't want to hear what you like, then that is a different story.
@batteleyyachtlife99572 жыл бұрын
I don't have a list. I dont want a man. I am happy. I don't want his money. I don't want his child. I don't want his piece. I don't want his house. I don't want no man. I want peace. No need for a list. Simple.
@arleneaugustahair83932 жыл бұрын
I was definitely going to say emotions and talking too much.
@callisabrown63342 жыл бұрын
Wow, those demons (not all men) just keep getting worse and worse. 💀
@BreYAH72 жыл бұрын
Scary to date online, I think it’s DESPERATE!!! 🙏🏽ATL
@onlylikemindedbw2 жыл бұрын
Hmmm .. may I have your opinion on why?
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner2 жыл бұрын
I used to think the same way but it’s hard meeting anyone in my area my age
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner2 жыл бұрын
@Ms. Sally but isn’t that lowering your chances of meeting someone ?
@IndigoWarriorAngel2 жыл бұрын
@Ms. Sally pray to God about what you want, God hears and answers the prayers of his children.
@LOVELY-1312 жыл бұрын
I have social media but never put my personal business out there. Im a news reporter in my mind and thats all I report majority of the time 😂 When I do get married my social media will still b just that💞
@illyannadeshields98352 жыл бұрын
It would be common sense .😂😂
@lplyons86852 жыл бұрын
Facts
@agreene48182 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the excellent advice!
@dawnrobinson84332 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this great advice
@coryjackson69442 жыл бұрын
Good morning ☀️ You dropped some gems 💎 today in a succinct manner , stripped down and unfiltered. Thank you for not hiding the information in fluff! May God continue to Bless you + your family ❤️
@AJD72332 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@Eadrene2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, if a man asks you what you're looking for, all you need to say is ''I'll know it when I see it!!''
@sharonbushong95592 жыл бұрын
I agree
@KK-bq3ns2 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@jameia2 жыл бұрын
Gems.✅✅
@charmainethomas57762 жыл бұрын
WHEW 😮💨👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@gorgeouslady56122 жыл бұрын
I want a woman that Cooks! Exercises! is Cooperative! Agreeable! and has Qualities that are fit for King!. Woman leaves!.
@Forget-me-not1442 жыл бұрын
So a woman can't talk about her standards and expectations with a love interest???
@sparklesp93042 жыл бұрын
No.
@Forget-me-not1442 жыл бұрын
@@sparklesp9304 With this subconscious gagging order, this is the very reason why so many women compromise on standards because of fear of being made to feel uppity, and then get disrespected because those men perceive she has no self esteem. So it's best to just tell a man what you want or expect when he asks you, or keep your mouth shut and study his performance to realise if he's the right one or one in a million. You need to date a million just to realise the one true love it's ridiculous and time consuming. The sure sign is the ghosting they're on, so you must be swift to block them sorts for good. No mind games that's going to drain your energy. Call for wisdom with modern men (beasts) who feel self entitled for proving nothing.
@correctingirresponsiblefin30962 жыл бұрын
Or he could realize his shortcomings and strive to improve himself sincerely. I had to watch videos to learn how to take care of a younger woman. When you really want something you have to break a couple dozen eggs to make an omelette. I don’t want the pussy I want the woman. I broke a lot of eggs but I found the woman in doing so. Good hunting
@rhenettabelcher79572 жыл бұрын
Why you always talking about Women, how about focusing on Men? unsubscribing.
@shawnlove45022 жыл бұрын
Because women are his fanbase
@Price89032 жыл бұрын
🍪 There’s women who appreciate his content.
@jazzy92822 жыл бұрын
He’s trying to help women , why do you have to announce you’re unsubscribing? Just do it and move on.
@chichi15582 жыл бұрын
BYE Rhenetta! Hope u find betta!😂😂😂😂😂
@chanelking7152 жыл бұрын
His page is really for his daughter to leave behide if anything ever happened