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Why do men get married just to cheat?

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The Shumake Way

The Shumake Way

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@janiceparkerson4727
@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage is for grown folks which includes maturity, self control, accountability and responsibility.
@reginadavis8611
@reginadavis8611 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a nurse I’ve worked in nursing homes for will over 20 years and when I tell you that they are filled with lonely men a huge amount of those men are blk men. They have destroyed their marriages and relationships don’t have healthy bonds and relationships with their children. They literally die alone and heart broken. It’s truly sad to witness this happening and a lot them aren’t even reached 60 years old yet. The numbers are growing every year. I don’t know who they are listening to but I suggest be a good man and father to your love ones.
@TBQBCollections
@TBQBCollections 2 жыл бұрын
It sad but true and they be the main one saying women is going to die alone because we women refuse to settle for less
@vector3d654
@vector3d654 2 жыл бұрын
Hey we need more of these stories out... Idk maybe start a tik tok chain of nurses or something.. How about that?
@erind2261
@erind2261 2 жыл бұрын
Now that's an interesting point ☝️
@PinkshadesofNyy
@PinkshadesofNyy 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not surprised
@danilejai7801
@danilejai7801 2 жыл бұрын
The Chloe_ channel went in on this phenomenon.
@eurykah9011
@eurykah9011 2 жыл бұрын
As my grandmother once said. ‘Don’t fix up no man. You’re fixing them up for someone else.’
@chynadoll77cyn59
@chynadoll77cyn59 2 жыл бұрын
Lesson learned the hard way, but I know now. 23 years was a waste!
@cvzdez
@cvzdez 2 жыл бұрын
Divorces are high because women can leave these days and not suffer
@lelo46
@lelo46 2 жыл бұрын
My husband cheated on me so much. It gets worse every time. Divorce will be finalized next month though ❤️
@fitnessen2860
@fitnessen2860 2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy that you’re being strong and not sticking with him. I hope and pray real love Will find you ❤️
@TBQBCollections
@TBQBCollections 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations I’m happy for you please know your worth ladies I left my kids father at 6 month pregnant I refuse to allow my son watch and grow how he treat me consistently keep cheating back to back
@janiceparkerson4727
@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you 🙏💯.
@noirefit5954
@noirefit5954 2 жыл бұрын
Good job love. It’ll hurt for a while but you will see how huge of a weight is lifted off you
@danib915
@danib915 2 жыл бұрын
What finally made you leave? Congrats on protecting yourself by leaving.
@fsco7153
@fsco7153 2 жыл бұрын
I've never understood how people can get married and constantly cheat. Why not just remain single?
@jess_is
@jess_is 2 жыл бұрын
Men benefit greatly from having a wife. They want the benefits of having a wife and the privilege of the single man to sleep around. My father was/is like that. He likes to sleep around but always wants a wife.
@fsco7153
@fsco7153 2 жыл бұрын
@@jess_is That makes sense.
@Darline_ox
@Darline_ox 2 жыл бұрын
they want their cake and eat it too
@RobinZipporah
@RobinZipporah 2 жыл бұрын
Those men need a maid, a cook, a bed partner & likely a woman to keep her eyes on the finances & home fires burning... A Wife!!
@janiceparkerson4727
@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. That makes no sense to me 👍💯.
@vanaphill2454
@vanaphill2454 2 жыл бұрын
They get married as a cover to look respectable then they cheat.
@vanaphill2454
@vanaphill2454 2 жыл бұрын
Especially men of the church do this.
@gymeni
@gymeni 2 жыл бұрын
@@vanaphill2454 YES! EXACTLY!
@EdenSophia118
@EdenSophia118 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of these men are sociopaths. They marry to appear NORMAL in the community.
@sunshinerae7230
@sunshinerae7230 2 жыл бұрын
Narcissists wearing a mask!
@gymeni
@gymeni 2 жыл бұрын
Whenever I’m approached by married men (which is more often than you’d think), I ask them why they’re out there cheating. Almost always, they shrug their shoulders.
@angelicapickles_
@angelicapickles_ 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. They don’t care AT ALL
@kaylam8707
@kaylam8707 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I've been perused by more married men than single men. 😡 That is terrifying! We're really living in some dark times.
@lashandamatte
@lashandamatte 2 жыл бұрын
Same here... but they will throw you under the bus though
@Brandy3319
@Brandy3319 2 жыл бұрын
Same here... The amount of married men that approached me in my twenties helped solidify my decision to not get married... It really opened my eyes. I crave companionship but dag... I feel like I’m left with the option of perpetual singleness or dealing with mistreatment~~ good luck out there ~
@aminabangoura865
@aminabangoura865 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaylam8707 this has been going on before we were born, just ask the old folks they will tell you.
@rosebellcarter2695
@rosebellcarter2695 2 жыл бұрын
I have a saying......"once you go to her you can't come back to me". Men are not that great for any of them to be cheating on a woman.
@TheLeslieMichelle
@TheLeslieMichelle 2 жыл бұрын
My ex-husband was a cheater. After we divorced, I was still paying for his transgressions. But I have to be honest, if a man knows he's never been faithful (and will never be), he shouldn't get married. It's totally unfair to his wife.
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of these guys are sexist and could careless about a woman's right to choose the type of relationship that she's in.
@TheLeslieMichelle
@TheLeslieMichelle 2 жыл бұрын
@@sparklesp9304 I agree, but you forgot about male chauvinism. Some men literally think they're superior and they feel, as women, we're supposed to take care of them...even when they go out here and cheat because as the old male adage goes, "That's what men do." These types of men don't always think about us, look at the consequences, or see a problem. If you don't want what they want, you can't support their ideals or lifestyles, or you literally think independently...they see that as a reason to cheat. And it's sad.
@AlonaBallardBuckeyeJeans
@AlonaBallardBuckeyeJeans 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you don’t associate with men who are cheaters. So many men don’t cut their friends off that are complete dogs and just say “that ain’t my business”
@ForbsieLaLa
@ForbsieLaLa 2 жыл бұрын
Joking around with my nephew as we were watching something yesterday and I asked if I could have a friend and he said no I am not allowed to cheat. I told him to keep that same energy for his friends as he gets older. I really hope we have set a good example for him. I try.
@alexishill3342
@alexishill3342 2 жыл бұрын
I think he cheated because men with this mindset are happy to let someone "stabilize their ladder", but she's nothing more than a tool for them to get where they really want to be in this life, including beside the beautiful women they couldn't get without the prosperity their wife added to them. Nothing but a typical narcissist. Everyone is a tool to these treacherous people.
@YoJoRockThaBeat
@YoJoRockThaBeat 2 жыл бұрын
Have you heard of this new phrase amongst men saying "It's only cheating if women do it"? It's worrisome because it shows that us men are falling further into utter depravity if we are trying to claim total monopoly on infidelity. Smh.
@UniquelyVickie
@UniquelyVickie 2 жыл бұрын
Not to mention cheating can be deadly for any of the parties involved including the person being cheated on. For this reason I wouldn't tolerate it.
@Juspeachy13
@Juspeachy13 2 жыл бұрын
This! Yes! I remember listening to a radio show where this mistress was talking about how she was stalking her boyfriend’s wife. She signed up for her pilates class and started going to the same nail salon! The host asked her why she was doing this, and I forget her answer, but I remember it was a creepy reason, like she wanted to study her.
@noirefit5954
@noirefit5954 2 жыл бұрын
@@Juspeachy13 she wanted to imitate her so she could act like her. She had the life she wanted. And you’re right, that’s creepy af
@bonafide_forever
@bonafide_forever 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 42 and I’m just going to ASSUME that I’m older than you. So I see you like a younger brother. I truly am proud of you for embracing your morals and values. THANK YOU for being transparent and straightforward in your delivery instead of catering to ignorance for a profit. God bless you brother🙌🏽
@theblackbookexperience8325
@theblackbookexperience8325 2 жыл бұрын
He is young. In his mid 30s. I agree his message is needed
@liahlove8297
@liahlove8297 2 жыл бұрын
Like I have a friend that is married and that man was with his wife since 17 and cheated on her so much, like at this point all I have in my heart for her is pity. And I noticed he started messaging and calling me everyday and I know where he was going with that and I told him plain not to call me. I will not date a married man and be the reason why another woman is hurting. I am so against it and also I don't want to be out here willfully sinning. No sir.
@kaywisseh
@kaywisseh 2 жыл бұрын
You go girl! That’s what I’m talking about! So many women dishonor themselves by sleeping with married men. It’s refreshing to hear like minded females like myself!
@Seek_Truth
@Seek_Truth 2 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a sign of lacking spiritual connection. Simple put, the relationship is all physical. No cleaving involved.
@rosebellcarter2695
@rosebellcarter2695 2 жыл бұрын
And money. Many people stay in marriage only for the money.
@Seek_Truth
@Seek_Truth 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosebellcarter2695 Your right. Money is something superficial. Cheating in relationships is a relationship built on external or superficial things.
@dreamweaverkhronikles9206
@dreamweaverkhronikles9206 2 жыл бұрын
And lack of mental and spiritual growth and discipline. If pple date first without that then why should anyone be surprised anyways at what happens later🤷🏾
@HoneyBee4163
@HoneyBee4163 2 жыл бұрын
Most of the time, women allow and accept this non-committal behavior before marriage. Then look closer and expect a change after married. Does this make sense?? No
@kannaiahkannaiah3821
@kannaiahkannaiah3821 2 жыл бұрын
AND I would also like to further add that BOTH men and women should STOP SLEEPING AROUND, LONG BEFORE they decide to commit to one person. Once the commitment to one person is made, then the fidelity can be maintained. The point is to be monogamous with yourself and live within your body long enough without sex at all BEFORE getting involved in a commitment that requires fidelity. Speak on it brotherman - you ain't never lied.
@trafficcontrol2420
@trafficcontrol2420 2 жыл бұрын
This. Right. Here.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 2 жыл бұрын
If a man gets married just to cheat then it's bcuz he knows that being married will draw more women to him. In fact, some single fellas actually sport a wedding ring to draw women to them. And then too, he may have married for some other reason. Like for security or personal image for example. He married to get a particular thing he want for himself from that woman he married. Which stands to reason why he would cheat. He's not really there with her as a companion and partner and thereby sorts his fulfillment elsewhere. So it's very important for women to learn how to read men for what their true motives are before getting involved with one.
@misslady5029
@misslady5029 2 жыл бұрын
You just described my former boss. That's why I quit.
@MrJuiceHugo
@MrJuiceHugo 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. Women thinks we can’t speak for men. Yes and no. We can think the way men think. No, we just don’t wanna destroy the relationship.
@aminabangoura865
@aminabangoura865 2 жыл бұрын
Men who gets married because they got a woman pregnant usually cheats .
@dreamweaverkhronikles9206
@dreamweaverkhronikles9206 2 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah? And I hope they all don't cry later when they catch something uncurable and end up alone and infested... Hah!
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 2 жыл бұрын
@@dreamweaverkhronikles9206 Guys like that don’t care. They’ll be delighted to spread their incurable disease. And some of them won’t be able to bear being alone when they get older. But the good news, is that what goes around comes around, so who they settle for down the road won’t truly love them and will surely jack them up. Beat him up, take his money, and things like that. It’s what these blokes deserve, so don’t feel sorry for them.
@BriannaLifeCoach
@BriannaLifeCoach 2 жыл бұрын
The Bible says to guard your heart because everything you do flows from it.
@ChavisGreenard
@ChavisGreenard 2 жыл бұрын
As a married man of God, I FULLY agree with this whole video!!! 💯💯💯💯
@ibragg93
@ibragg93 2 жыл бұрын
Here is the problem we men need to drill into our skulls. We are representing GOD since we are made out of his image. We suppose to be logical and firm in discipline. When we are growing up we are not thought to be leaders, but have fun and plunder, rather than be mature to be leading. It’s not about being good to women and children, it’s about representing our creator in legacy and passing it on. We are going to have to answer to GOD for not following his instructions.
@dday3322
@dday3322 2 жыл бұрын
Which includes being good to women and children! They are a blessing to you, otherwise there's no legacy nor good in you!
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 2 жыл бұрын
This is AWESOME! You just unlocked a Scripture for me. Thank you.
@cvzdez
@cvzdez 2 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about the amount of blk women who got stds curable and unusable from their husband but their wife was faithful. Mem covering for men. Degeneracy.. Some mem walking around with side pieces going to friends houses out with their boys.
@mssouthernlady222
@mssouthernlady222 2 жыл бұрын
Stay the course. Your forum will grow because it is built on a solid foundation. I am so pleased to see young men like this. It gives me comfort knowing that a remnant of strong black men exists.
@janiceparkerson4727
@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын
God always have a remnant.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@ms.evegene
@ms.evegene 2 жыл бұрын
Right on
@butterfly11222
@butterfly11222 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up marriage was a joke to me. I saw the women give their all while the men were rewarded for bad behavior. 😒😒 I’m trying to change the thought of it but its just getting worst now in today society.
@jaredstokes2423
@jaredstokes2423 2 жыл бұрын
Love wife like Christ live the church. Christ never was unfaithful to the church
@gymeni
@gymeni 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but they *never* quote this verse! They will, however, forever and a day talk about the Proverbs verses about virtuous women and “wives submitting to husbands” though.
@jaredstokes2423
@jaredstokes2423 2 жыл бұрын
@@gymeni you right but it’s hand and hand. Men gotta be doing the right thing for it to happen. If it’s not happening still there’s something wrong with the woman.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this was a tough subject to hear you speak on. As a married woman you never want to hear that your spouse cheated. Especially, as a “good” attentive woman. It’s heartbreaking.🥺 Where do you go from there? There is nothing you could do to make him desire you enough to be faithful, trustworthy or honest. It truly is a personal choice to be intentional with your love for one another. It’s Scary! It’s like having a faulty security system. It looks nice but if you ever need it, you’re out of luck. Not exactly what the doctor ordered. Right? I’m ecstatic that you’re a true man of God. 2 Timothy 1:7 Keep being upstanding; Love your wife as the Holy Bible instructs. There is no reason we don’t have more men of this caliber. Thanks for your contribution to manhood. 🙏🏾Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB
@porsha379
@porsha379 2 жыл бұрын
This is a real epidemic in the BC . As a single woman I honestly get hit on or propositioned by married men than any other man . I have had single girlfriends that date married men and they tell me that these man don’t even want to use protection. ITS CRAZY and SCARY 😧 I don’t fool with taken , or married men .. period and I tell my single friends that even try to do that is realize you are low level participating in an entanglement that can potentially hurt so many people as well as yourself. I have seen BM TOTALLY destroy their lives due to lack of D discipline
@yellowbears1
@yellowbears1 2 жыл бұрын
Great commentary please keep this coming. Not a lot of likes because you're saying something men and unfortunately some women don't want to hear. Start bashing, disrespecting the black woman and your page would be flooded with likes. This world is twisted.
@Saggie1111
@Saggie1111 2 жыл бұрын
And this same man will holler from the top of the mountains...I want submission! Sir, you have to be a positive leader to get submission. Women should not be submitting to mess it's not in the natural order.
@ULuvJanae
@ULuvJanae 2 жыл бұрын
I truly want to be a wife one day. But it’s hard. I’m 25, so I’m still young but nearly every marriage I’ve witnessed in my life has had some type of infidelity. I’m thinking really what’s the point? And another thing. Men don’t travel with the boys…that’s what women do-travel with the girls. When men do it, it’s couples-based.
@RobinZipporah
@RobinZipporah 2 жыл бұрын
Don't bother getting attached to a woman if you want to sniff the population.. stay SINGLE
@UniquelyVickie
@UniquelyVickie 2 жыл бұрын
I suggest you open your options to groups of men that value marriage and family.
@vector3d654
@vector3d654 2 жыл бұрын
Same 18 here tho I'm scared that I'll get cheated on. On top of that divorce rates in my country is 1% but the mgtow guys are scaring our men out of their wits and now they've started to hate women and started with the pump n dump trend.... My parents would like to get me married and I understand their concern and do pay heed to them... I'm just a little oblivious at this point.
@Aniexo_
@Aniexo_ 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 25 as well and I have the same concern. I’m turned off by marriage I don’t know one woman who is happily married. Then people would say marriage isn’t for happiness it’s a “duty” lmfao I don’t want that duty man
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 23 and same thing
@bonnieoliver8461
@bonnieoliver8461 2 жыл бұрын
That's the big bang theory on cheating, very interesting how people who cheat and think they can get away with it because it always comes back to bite them in the butt, look at how many people are walking around with chewed up bottoms. So sad. Love you and the positivity you are putting out here, keep it coming. Peace be with you and blessings always.
@ForbsieLaLa
@ForbsieLaLa 2 жыл бұрын
Even as a woman I knew what I was and was not ready for and I was not going into anything I knew I could not fully commit to. I always wonder why men marry however fully well knowing they have no intention of being committed. You are wasting these women's time
@newnightstarhair4572
@newnightstarhair4572 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ! Hope all the men/women who cheat can hear that it is not hard to be faithful. It is a personal choice. With God help everything is possible.🥰🥰🥰
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s definitely a personal choice.👏🏾🥰
@MidnightMoon88
@MidnightMoon88 2 жыл бұрын
❤️💯🙌🏾
@misstd158
@misstd158 2 жыл бұрын
You give hope to let women know that they are some good black men out here
@Cupcake4me
@Cupcake4me 2 жыл бұрын
This is something I can never get my head around. I know of a man, who constantly cheated while his boys were growing up. He once brought a woman home, and his boy came back from football early-they were 10 and 12ish at the time. He gave them each money to not tell their mother they’ve seen a lady in the home with dad.
@mahogany_honey
@mahogany_honey 2 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this new genre of men keeping it real about relationships, love, life, etc 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾love to see it
@denesejamerson2356
@denesejamerson2356 2 жыл бұрын
It's been a minute since Shumake dropped nuggets on us; But my, my, my, he resumed the lessons! Thank you Sir.
@ULuvJanae
@ULuvJanae 2 жыл бұрын
“I’m past due for another video. Way overdue.” Me: Uh yeah! Where you been?! Lol
@lynfoster6493
@lynfoster6493 2 жыл бұрын
Mine cheated before and after we get married for 17 years i let him go
@aminabangoura865
@aminabangoura865 2 жыл бұрын
So why did you married him if you knew he was cheating before you got married to him?.
@Zigzagzodak
@Zigzagzodak 2 жыл бұрын
You stayed 17 years. You didn't let him go.
@christynechellet9436
@christynechellet9436 2 жыл бұрын
They also think you have to go through all kinds of bs just to prove your love. That’s why with me 1 strikes your out.
@sarahmoses1910
@sarahmoses1910 2 жыл бұрын
I met a guy exactly like this. And when I asked him why get married if cheating is what you wanted to do. He says she doesn't give me the kind of sex that I want and I don't love her the way that I should. When I mentioned this to my mother , she said if a man cheats on his wife then he will cheat on you. He got upset after doing some research I found that he was NO good , the biggest liar full of jealousy, drama and confusion and very controlling. I cut ties immediately and moved on . I couldn't believe how he ran from pillow to post with no consequence about the things that he's doing. Bad energy.
@eyesaidit5195
@eyesaidit5195 2 жыл бұрын
Talk about it King!!! This takes courage because it seems most men are afraid to speak up to one another…
@christynechellet9436
@christynechellet9436 2 жыл бұрын
Most of time these types of men are just selfish. They figure they can just do what they want and the wife is just supposed to be there when they are ready to be a husband. The level of stupidity that these men display is unreal. I was married to one 🤦🏾‍♀️
@trisha1989
@trisha1989 Жыл бұрын
🚩 I wonder why the other couples chose to go on the trip with him or even continue the friendship! I could NEVER be a part of a circle that everyone knew about his cheating except the spouse! 🚩That’s soooo disrespectful on so many levels 🚩
@BriannaLifeCoach
@BriannaLifeCoach 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I was dealing with a married man for a couple of months I kept asking him 1000 questions and he kept on lying and eventually his wife showed up to the hotel and luckily I got out of there without her knowing that it was me she was mad about. I had no idea until she came to the hotel and started tripping. She was messing up his car but anyway that’s another story I got out of there quick and told him to delete all my stuff in my number and never talk to him again. That was the first time that ever happened to me and I’m 30 years old but it’s crazy how people can be married and do stuff like that . I personally believe you should never give somebody your whole heart because they have the power to destroy you but that’s just my opinion I don’t care if you’re married or not don’t ever give anybody that much power.
@cvzdez
@cvzdez 2 жыл бұрын
Men thay you get when they had nothing can be a problem because some people have the women they have depending on the one they could afford.
@Tel934
@Tel934 2 жыл бұрын
This is sad...sorry to hear this
@ladybluelotus
@ladybluelotus 2 жыл бұрын
Straight facts! It is not hard to be faithful. And to be frank it's easier.
@CatharsisByProxy
@CatharsisByProxy Жыл бұрын
I also don't hang out with people like that. Problem in a small town for me is there aren't many people left. It's a drug-torn town with very few people around in general. I've considered moving cities just to change my environment.
@karrey2706
@karrey2706 2 жыл бұрын
There's something about a smart man that makes him so attractive...like this one. No disrespect intended
@lonepheasant3489
@lonepheasant3489 Жыл бұрын
My ex husband just used me as a slave breeder and then gave his new lover back then what was mine to her after and left me for dead and drove off into the sunset to live happily ever after at my expense the end.
@Scole23786
@Scole23786 Жыл бұрын
You are a man with good strong morals and integrity. Keep putting these videos out, and let more women know there are good men amongst the sleaze ball cheaters
@dominiquei3800
@dominiquei3800 Жыл бұрын
Married for 9 years and it only gets worse with time. My divorce is in the works 🙌🏾
@diadash
@diadash 2 жыл бұрын
Your the only real man talking out here!
@VonnThaDonn
@VonnThaDonn 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this becauseeeeeeeeeeeeee its really ridiculous
@Silver.Forest
@Silver.Forest 2 жыл бұрын
Talk about it and tell it as well.
@slimgirls78
@slimgirls78 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing but a phonies, stay clear BW, run with every ounce of strength you have, run through traffic, but above all else, keep running and do not look back, if you want to experience a second of peace on this Earth.
@cvzdez
@cvzdez 2 жыл бұрын
Do many my blk men known how to have viable healthy relationships at all I really question that..? Not their mothers either Do therr relationships actually have connections and conversations of depth? Do they talk to their friends about deep emotional things ?
@Jenjenn1111
@Jenjenn1111 2 жыл бұрын
Selfish, immature, wants their cake and eat it too…that is all. I hate liars and cheaters. There is no excuse for cheating. If your not happy just leave. Too many men are controlled by their other head, it’s actually weak. Also, too many men are conditioned to think that cheating is normal and acceptable. Women also need to stop entertaining married men too…and separated is still married. Stop empowering these disrespectful losers!
@erickalucas5660
@erickalucas5660 Жыл бұрын
Excellent analysis and commentary! 🎉
@musclegurl8302
@musclegurl8302 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this message and giving us real talk 👍💐
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 2 жыл бұрын
He didn't respect her.
@consciousgoddess_
@consciousgoddess_ Жыл бұрын
i LOVE this channel ❤
@kaygeeRandomness
@kaygeeRandomness 2 жыл бұрын
Luv your content
@amaj_lex
@amaj_lex 2 жыл бұрын
It be the women who look at us single women crazy. No you need to look and confront your man. Somebody got one time and it's on. I got the indirects. Give me that direction and it's on I'm not playing with these women 😒
@vivianwade3185
@vivianwade3185 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@CeeSparks
@CeeSparks Жыл бұрын
Some cheated b4 marriage. The women typically k ow this going in. One is trifling, selfish, and undisciplined...the other is in denial with no self love.. well, neither seem to have self lobe in that respect.
@APositiveLifestyle
@APositiveLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
Good question (smile)
@yana212
@yana212 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your baby
@jesuslittlegirl2710
@jesuslittlegirl2710 2 жыл бұрын
PRAYER WARRIOR, PRAY 🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️AMEN, HALLELUJAH
@trafficcontrol2420
@trafficcontrol2420 2 жыл бұрын
Disgraceful.
@terrylu1843
@terrylu1843 2 жыл бұрын
We know that men cheat but explain why they keep a wife when they know how they are.
@shenquejames7598
@shenquejames7598 2 жыл бұрын
It's because marriage has more benefits than being single for men. Even in unhappy marriages stats show that married men live 7 years longer. This alone is a major benefit. Not to mention financial benefits and domestic benefits.
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 2 жыл бұрын
Because they're sexist and don't respect a woman's right to choose to only be in relationship with them if they're monogamous with her.
@janetharden8669
@janetharden8669 2 жыл бұрын
Say that !!!!!
@zero1188
@zero1188 2 жыл бұрын
things change down the line never know what will happen. not justifying it but just saying
@nataliesparks4829
@nataliesparks4829 2 жыл бұрын
see, eh! as long as you have taken a vow before God and man saying that you'll be together in health and in sickness in richer or poorer till death do y'all part or as long as y'all shall live, you have no justification or excuse to back out it means your word means nothing tell me if you were to take an oath to be in the army do you think you'll back out so easy?, if you fail to accomplish your mission if you fail to follow orders if you commit treason or any type of bs there will be serious consequences it's because it's a do or die affair and that's why we take each other for granted assuming we try as much as possible to commit to ourselves in marriage as if our lives depends on it or assuming we hold our words accountable life would be so much better because there will be trust when you are the man if your word and there will be competency but yeah because we take ourselves for granted especially the people who love us so dearly.... something we can't do outside like our jobs or our friends or ourselves we do to the people you just don't deserve
@CaraCmplx
@CaraCmplx Жыл бұрын
Then just leave
@jamesmorales9531
@jamesmorales9531 5 ай бұрын
Cause you can’t cheat when you’re single
@symartin7534
@symartin7534 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@kingdre7492
@kingdre7492 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn’t benefit men in any way so it’s best to stay single. Imagine being faithful for years just to get divorced and can’t find another woman because you wasted all your best years being faithful. Pretty women don’t like old divorced guys
@itypethetruthnobshere8975
@itypethetruthnobshere8975 2 жыл бұрын
I put it like this even if you eat your favorite food everyday and even if you switch up the spices its still the same and eventually youll get tired of It. Somedays I just want some mcdonalds
@kingdre7492
@kingdre7492 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn’t benefit men in any way so it’s best to stay single. Imagine being faithful for years just to get divorced and can’t find another woman because you wasted all your best years being faithful. Pretty women don’t like old divorced guys
@Aniexo_
@Aniexo_ 2 жыл бұрын
So you cheat just in case it doesn’t work out..?
@BM-tx2ph
@BM-tx2ph 2 жыл бұрын
@@Aniexo_ men logic, dumb as a rock
@sunnisideup444
@sunnisideup444 Жыл бұрын
Then why is it that statistically speaking, men who are married live longer than men who are not married then?
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