It's funny how we think that other people actually give us any thought at all.My husband told me his counselor used to say to him"You are not that imporatnt", whenever he felt slighted or injured by someone else's thoughtlessness. I know I would think of the downstairs neighbor before I would renovate(especially after living downstairs from someone with lttle children who ran everywhere and had no bed time), but not everyone thinks like I(or we) do. And you are so right about perspective. My husband sleeps with a fan on and it drives me crazy. I now ive next door to him and sleep in silence, and strangley, sometimes I actually miss that fan,LOL

Yea yes yes!!!! This hit home perfectly!!!

Thank you so much, I needed to hear this.

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Thank you for this excellent reminder 💜🙏🏻

So in my previous Apartment the people upstairs used to do carpentry during the daytime and sometime during night they used to use granite polishing machine on their floor but none of the neighbours one position to say anything because that person wasn't power and was doing so to invoke feeling of anger among the so that he can only beak them down. So that force me to think creatively and I thought that he is also a human and he cannot be using this machine during the entire nights so there will be some limit so he is to do it for only 15 20 minutes and then he is to stop and then we use to go back to sleep again. That how we could complete our ears that Apartment till the time are owner asked us to leave because he wanted to move in. But interestingly the next Apartment I moved into within 2 months of 8 there also I faces similar issue so I apply the same resolution as well. So at that time I thought that universe was double checking me if I was will follow the right path again on not. Haha.. but that's not all in this whole episode and whole resolution in everything I learn that external environment may not be according to you but your internal environment can always be according to you. And even more important than that I learn that it is only about prospective it is a small thing if you compare it to the other from other people are going through in the world. And that's not some motivational line that is a reality actually. While I am suffering from carpenters noise in the day and just 15 minute of disturbance during the night there are people who are suffering from a lot of things which are invirable actually relative to my condition. So I learned being happy is a choice we make irrespective of the situation... and I just love your video and your channels every video you make is like what I want to hear so much in love with your content

That’s helps me with a current issue in a surprising way. 🙏