Hahahahaha

Lol

PURITY N IMPURITY BOTH ARE TRUETHS OF LIFE WHICH YOU FOLLOW IT BECOMES UR BENT OF MIND

Lol

Genuinely yaar

Like giving all their money to someone?

No, that wouldn't be seduction. That would be manipulation/abuse

id vs ego. good observation

Well said , I agree

WOW 🤩 Thanks for sharing ❣️😃🙏🏽

Hahaha

Jason Katsanis: you gotta PAY for those.

It depends on how good looking he is and how crazy she is.

Then don't be a creep or harass anyone not that hard

@@monroejordan2299 the best way to not be a creep is to not be creep? Thank you! Gosh, why didn't I think of that? 🤦‍♂️

good one

saved me lots of time ty

i love you

❤thank you

Thank you for saving my life. I couldn`t stand her talk beyond 5 minutes.

Austin Williamson hahaahha

Lol

Ahhahahahahhahahha me too it’s 3:07am flm

Guanine C5H5N5O that KZfaq rabbit hole son

I started watching a video of cheating in college for a discussion board project and ended here. cheating, seduction, whats next!!! lol

After all; she did get a Ted Talk…

Mine is that this sometimes works if you're attractive enough, otherwise you'll end up in jail soon

Thanks, you saved me 12 min. Now I can close the video and go work on my school assignments.

Exactly such powerful insights !!!!! What a load of BS the worst one I’ve ever seen but then I only Managed like 6 minutes!

Thanks for saving me 12:48 mins. 👍🏾

She kinda normalized harassment too

I mean, she talked about the "distinguishability" (not sure if that is a word, but okay) of the "no that means no" and the "no that means maybe". Most of the times we can understand this through body language, context and speech tone, we are humans after all, we comunicate in various complex ways. As she said, "the last thing we want is to insist on a no that means no"

No still meant No in 2013.

@@Pedro-tl8zw if you think someone means yes when they say no, and they really meant no, that’s not gonna defend you if they take you to court for harassment. 9/10 times, no will mean no. Unless they’re clearly joking, there’s no reason for you to assume otherwise

@@brandonm1708 "unless they're clearly joking" And how can you know that? Through body language, context, voice tone... we have complex systems of communication, we are biological humans that communicate our complex emotions through these systems, not a machine that needs to be programmed with the logical statements every time. it is a matter of well manners, you should notice when you are bothering or anoying someone (and we are capable of noticig it)

lol

Looool😂😂😂😂

lol

Lol

FlezzDurjis i so swear

What did she mean Danny? From this speech I took that as a writer I can seduce people with words to make then want to continue reading and eventually buy the book after finishing their coffee. Is that a good example?

American women are masculine.

What happens in Cuba.....better stay in Cuba unless you're okay with jail time.

@@kizito8888 That shows how Americans are not free in the land of "free". Life is micromanaged to the extreme.

Danny Villarroel: mira. No te engañes. Una cubana mulata me dijo una vez. Nos acostamos con mas negritos que nosotros, y nos casamos con más blancos que nosotros. La seducción no está lejo del interés de cada uno. Parece lindo lo que la señora dice, pero la verdad es mucho más prosaica. Un saludo.

Did you watch the full video?

different culture

@@nicholaslandry6367 pretty sure she didnt, or didnt get it

The western way of thinking is applied here and it’s quite selfish and unfair to the example that was offered by the speaker… I’m sure calling someone Linda has a different connotation to what catcalling is

This is before the Mee Too movement.

The best perspective in these comments by far. I love the way you think Dani! :)

🤝🤝

yeah everyone even Charles Manson i guess?! /shrug. Everyone is beautiful , love peace and freedom mindest

@@Volkskomissar Way to misunderstand the assignment.

Ha!

lmao

Hilarious haha Well played.

that's basically it. but kissing is the first step and rapist go straight for the intercourse

You were either A. a white male. B. a black male or C. an asian male. She clearly said Cuban.

Seduce / dance her way to becomin a pm 💄moved well though catchyyyyy

As she sais this a product of advertising, maybe we would be attracted if we didn't idolize the "perfect" body?

@@rhyswollaston9146 It's a product of humans having eyes. We see someone and we know if we're attracted to them or not. The "perfect body" is in ads because it is viewed as "perfect", not the other way around.

dance is also to much sexualised, not all seduction (or dance for that matter) ought to lead to that direction, but possibilities are keeping tension and connection in a two way relation

Seriously. She’s offensive.

Well said!

CJWarlock you are obviously forgetting that she started the talk by grinding all over a guy.

You are obviously forgetting that she immediately went on to say that "The word seduction has been sexualized so many times that we can't even imagine it as a positive skill-set." You were obviously too busy checking her out to hear what she was saying, lol. It seems she's a little too good.

readyrepairs She actually didn't touch the guy except around his head. I agree however that she is swine upon the intelligent people and talks I come to TED for.

After seeing so many misunderstood comments, I just have to thank you for getting it. Thanks Doc!

Very well said. "I just don't feel like it's healthy in some other cultures around the world for a married couple to be this randomly seductive unless it's with each other. What do you guys think?"

Loyalty and integrity are a thing. Seduction also has its place and it is not always the only way or the way to be used to express your confidence. Confidence comes from self acceptance and integrity comes from holding oneself accountable to the right ethics. That talk on confidence and body language is all good. Seduction is not bad as long as it is presented formally within the limits of your environment, to be balanced with the yin and yang of both people again.

Married or unmarried the power of seduction; also the power of persuasion, suggestion, etc. all align.

@@Shyamazha I don't think it's very healthy to have her vision of self confidence. If your confidence depends on your power of seduction it means it essentially comes from outside. But when you get lonely, when you loose yourself and don't get to go to many events anymore, you understand that confidence needs to come from within. What you said is so true : "confidence comes from self acceptance and integrity comes from holding oneself accountable to the right ethics". For me, as long as the seduction isn't a need for you to feel confident, it can be fun in your everyday life :)

well yea a married couple... it's good to do it on one another, someone could even make a claim that it's necessary for an exciting marriage - because the passion in marriage always fades away into something else... but if the most important point is being seductive in a way that I see myself as beautiful, as attractive, if I love the parts in me that give and recieve pleasure and intimacy, and I'm free to play and dance with these parts, then it's the same as in marriage. Is it more difficult to seduce a stranger than someone who already knows you and have a lot of history with? That's an interesting question... What if the partner doesn't respond, doesn't see you? that can be disappointing and can lead to even insecurity, anger... and here comes the art of seduction again, but it takes two to tango...

@@Michael-bf1dt the comment was 6 years ago lol.

@@jelll4063 LMFAOOO

Decades of communism will do that to ya. I mean if you have issues with poverty and supply of almost everything, what else is left than to play games?

wrr

Mihail Stoyanov lol I thought so too.lol

Haitian Girl94 what does it mean cringiest, sorry im a spanish speaker

get over yourselves hah

Mihail, were you at the physics department at Catholic University in 1984?

Me too. I suffered for it tho. I am healing tho. I will overcome this.

Shut up

can you tell me how it's helpful in day to day life

@@inainaty171 People will be drawn to talk to you and pay attention to what you want and want to get it for you. That is what seduction does. It makes people cater to you because THEY want to do that for YOU.

Lmbo! Without getting arrested and fired.

🤡🤡🤡

I think she went right over your head. She’s talking about something that is very natural, beautiful and powerful, something as ancient as humanity itself, and you’ve reduced it to some ridiculous corporate thing.

take it, own it and use it. your skills, your proposal, without caring whether it is accepted or not cuz you know how good it is..

LMAOOO

bro do u know the name of the song ?

@@RohitSharma-zj6ox se me va la musa by Osmany Garcia

Not communism. Just lack of certain types of advertising possibly being a good thing.

Adverts are evil :D

Libra Cayes absolutely !!!!!! She is a Genius, a very hot sexy smart one!!!!!!

Libra Cayes maybe 😅😅

Libra Cayes eu

perikaveera, you are totally right as for seduction part. However, trust me, there's still bunch of girls that don't really care much about looks and are interested more in personality. Women are generally built to be less visual than men, and not to mention the fact that tastes vary sooooo much that what may be considered unbelievably ugly by one culture or a person, it could be considered pretty attractive to another culture or person so don't lose hope bro! Trust me there's always someone waiting for each of us :) Patience is not one of the best virtues for nothing!

well if you think your looks are really out of the norm and you suffer from that fact, then maybe you should take some actions. Go to the gym, at least you are not short, being medium height is good, you can be fit and not look like the "short guy that's trying to make up for his shortness with being muscular". Have facial surgery, a facelift, a nose job ? Maybe fix your teeth, work on your breath if it's not so fresh. you're not bald so praise the lord. The pressure to look attractive weights down so much on women, it's crippling, I know, I am a woman. It consumes your life, you have to spend hours to shave, pluck, brush, straighten, curl, anoint, hydrate, moisturized, conceal, enhance etc...etc....We lose hours every week in a pursuit of a perfection that can never be attained. It is exhausting, and mentally damaging. I have accepted that I cannot compete with other women if I do not shave or put on make up, because if I don't I look bland (no, my cheeks and lips are not naturally rosy, and my eye lashes are not naturally that dark and thick, and I actually do have dark circles, under that coat of makeup) Worse I can look "gross" if I don't shave like other women (when females become women, they grow hairs, I don't understand why society shames us for becoming adults and try to make us revert to the bodies we had when we were 10...sick sick world we live in). So, when I want to "see" a man (casually, like in finding a sex friend), I start dressing a lil bit more feminine, no more large tshirt and sneakers, I put on a nice pair of skinny jeans and some heels, and a lacey blouse. I used to date men, but not anymore, I never want to get stuck in a relationship in which a man tells me "my friends tell me you are ugly, but you are pretty when you put on make up so put on make up when we go out". I know I am not good enough as I am and I need enhancement when I go in public with my partner, but I don't really want to be good enough anymore. This is the society we live in Perikaa, you have to accept it and change because society won't change for you :/ It's hard for every body and remember, we are all struggling. Good luck to you. XXX

Rosumisorimu Thank you dear.

perikaveera You are welcome.....btw just so you know, I'm a male ahahahaha...and a straight one at that :D :D :D But what I've said stands! Many girls I know are obsessed with the sense of humor, intelligence etc, and care little to none about looks. Or the ones that do, they have rather weird taste that would be considered by many cultures and other people as "very ugly". So chin up bro! ;) I'm not the most handsome guy either, but it doesn't stop me from living my life to the fullest ;)

Because he is not sure how to act . In today’s society are confused . Will she flip on me if I make a move and accuse me of harassment. If she says yes will she regret the yes later and say she really did not want to but you the man should have known this!

Yeah if this was a guy doing that to a girl this video would be taken down in seconds

Exactly.that is basically harassment.

Honestly I think it was staged. No pun intended.

Lilian Budianto thank you so much! You literally voiced my thoughts.

I agree, you'll get arrested and/or fired at my job.

@@mimimaddyworld6517 You'd get arrested for being charming/self confident at your job? Think you missed the point of this

@@mimimaddyworld6517 ofcourse you will if you do exactly what Cubans are doing. They seem to have evolved when it comes it character and tapping into emotions. In fact the exact opposite might happen if you do it the right way. Even people hidden in rocks like to check out the confident sun pouring in

Yeah true that

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Let me remind you not to watch this video

Sean the Prawn the whole talk is awkward. seduction, arousal, shes weird

***** i dont doubt shes a real good person irl. but this talk is weirder hhhh

piero

Sean the Prawn I was looking for this comment lol

Cringe!!!

Thank you! I was going through these comments and starting to think I was the only one who didn't immediately see sex when they watched this. She even says early on that seduction isn't just about sex. I guess people want to go with the easy conclusion instead of stopping to think about what she's saying.

Well said.

Nikki Berry regarding the "easy conclusion" - and this is just a thought I just had and didn't follow too deep: maybe fear plays a role too, along with knowing to be one of the repressed people that society spills out way too often. So hating her is easier than admiting to be inhibited - even easier than to change yourself to be more open-minded. So hate her instead and maybe find someone else, who's just as thick, to join and hate together. It's a way to connect to others, too - just not as pleasing as seduction. As said, just a simple thought. On the other hand I would advise against too much sexual seduction within our culture - people aint used to it and many would certainly get it wrong, being pissed afterwards. So when going to charm someone, always make sure not to deliver the wrong message. Finally regarding myself: I'm charming to people I meet over the day; in the store, on the street, at my workplace. So much that I've ben called "someone who twists people around his finger" (translated German saying - don't know if that fits in English). But I dont "use" people and I'm very confident, that the people I met live a happier day after seeing me, because they always leave with a smile on their face that wasn't there before we met. It's not getting to something I wouldn't get otherwise. It's not exploitation. It's just being sociable and nice. There's nothing wrong in seducing someone into sharing a simple smile :-) ...and I'm happy having found D Jnsen s comment in contrast to the weird one that received 107 likes and 113 answers O_o

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Confidence and fearlessness have nothing to do with being conceited, manipulative, and self-serving. She advises being deceptive and fake in order to manipulate others. There isn't any way to put a positive spin on that. What she's describing isn't seduction; it's faking seduction.

Right on the button. I felt like it was complete narcissism disguised as education. What she was really trying to do was to get us all to re affirm her own views of herself. I Have heard the same thing said a hell of a lot better by better speakers 100 times.

100%

TED talks have become like a 3-D blog.

I think y'all just missed the point lol

Then tell us what we are missing dude

True. A bit deceiving

Same she starts by introducing the power of seduction in our everyday lives and it just became a list of how to seduce someone

OMG YES.

It's making people like you and gravitate towards you. In other words being a leader

@@Angela-hx4eh ll

better than watching all the 'rumba' video , thanks !

Thanks, adhd

And being able to express it. :)

Yes this can work very well for a beautiful and curvaceous 25 year old woman but for a homely and portly 60 year old man, not so much. 😁

@@rm-jl8wy if that's what you want to think

I genuinely think people who express their desires probably have more control over them than countries which attempt to shape and mold their instincts (America)

If that how you understood it. I understood it as an attitude.

She does preface with it can be used for good or for bad

Harassment is not respectful , it says I want you whether you want me or not. But being charming is like an invitation, it says I like who you are and my door is open to you if you change your mind. There is a huge difference

Yup. Hi 👋

LOL. Says the shirtless guy with no head. How many books have you written?

Jess Gee bio2020 is just saying (if you can't understand plain English) that she shouldn't be on TED after only one book! What has him writing a book to do with this valid opinion? That's a bit of a snarky, facetious comment you made there. It doesn't change the appropriateness of what he said. Have another try! Was that the best you could do?

So writing books is the access way to TED Talk...? I don't think so!

Jess Gee super funny and cynical of you but the guy has a point …

That's one of seduction she had that succeed. So shut up.

what didn't you agree with, out of curiosity?

Music Films & Bastille story of my life but hey try everything and keep doing whatever works for you!

Because most speaks are unready to make that speach...

Hot apeing 😂

Music Films & Bastille they're purposely trying to make you Fusion in the United States it started that way a long time ago with propaganda and now that the internet is flourishing propaganda of emotional confusion psychological confusion of the human body and men and women and how people should and could and possibly get along it's all about that just messing with people and turning them into cattle

I'll save you babe. Let me get my cape.

Love this!! I feel your spot on.

Exactly!!!🎉

PERFECT

The best to do with your money is to invest

True though unfortunately mine always end with losses

You do not really need someone to tell you how to invest your coins, you can make research on your own and trade with expert to guild you through

I have heard of many brokers I do hope they can help me

People are scared of investing because they are scared of been scammed of their hard earn money

Classy Chloride (i.e. Cl minus)

ME TOO..it was cringe

You see gentlemen... it’s precisely that kind of tone and mental perspective that repels women from you. lol and makes sense. You’re here to understand the art because obviously being close minded with tiny egos hasn’t exactly won you the best of life’s offerings. lol

@@Leeohlin89 A lot of wierd assumptions there lol

@@Leeohlin89 god no, that was incredibly awkward sis. So forced and she is really fetishizing Latin American culture. Coming from a Latin American.

@@Leeohlin89 If this creepy works on you, I don't want to date you anyway.

Not even feminism, its Just wrong and harming by reinforcing the stereotypes. 'She said no but she really ment yes', ugh, I hate it 😑

In my humble opinion I think that, the "no"that turns into" maybe", that turn into "yes" is itself a form of sexism, and show us that sexism is in us, in all of us, man and woman.. No one would conceive a no, turning to maybe turning to yes, if we were free from sexism We would simply, once asked, answer what you really feel whether is yes or not... That "no" that the Cuban woman says in the story here, is not an real "no" but is based on a sexist cultural weight that we all have on us that manipulate our behaviour.. Maybe if sexism didn't exist she would have said "yes" as first answer.. Here is what they are talking about, the presenter said that cubans are able to read if a no is a real no, means they go over the first sexism barrier that doesn't allow that woman to say, at first, what she really feels.. Here we are not talking about, manipulating the others with mental strategies, harassing someone, or forcing someone to say yes, here we are just talking about reading between the lines using our inners senses, in that place where disparities and misconception don't exist, reading in that place not made from words, sexism, feminism, here we are talking about desire, and being passionate about life and this is a non verbal language that is not attached to human issues, and it go beyond our society cultural heritage. To me just reinforce the idea that feminism is necessary to make us live our own life as free people, and I didnt feel this video's message was going otherwise..

@@marcotognetti1047 thank u for this text

@@marcotognetti1047 Yes you are absolutely correct. A woman saying no is also a fault of men.

Men also say no that turns into a maybe that turns into a yes. Don’t ignore human nature or you’ll never understand anything. (I work in sales).

Apart from the discipline people also lack the ability to attract rather than be desperate

😁

And yes the concept of flirting is what she used to prove the importance of seductiveness. However, I advise that we think about these TEDx talks a little deeper to receive the full benefit of their knowledge, by applying all of these topics to life in general. Seductive pretty much means extremely attractive. Kind of like when you can't take your eyes of something. Now the strength of seduction is all about the presentation, which is why she stated that it is like an art. We have to open our eyes to see that we are being seduced and are seducing as well every single day; at work, home, online, church, with family, friends, kids, everyone. Its not all sexual. See Americans tend to take things at face value, and never give it a second thought, which is very judgmental, unfortunately. That's called stereotyping...

Yes both of you! What's interesting is that all these comments are about sex as advertising (or as used in advertising). She said off the top it was not about that. It also seems that point about learning yes from no from maybe was missed entirely.

Precisely. We are each each other’s teacher.

Seduce using body language, harass and that persons desires to get what you want, show confidence and people will be more open, be the boy/girl you want, be your boss who you want to not hate you.

your photo says you didn't

do u want play the game of seduction with me? i'm sure it will be just amazing

***** I see ur point .I can't completely agree with you though. I believe(as soon as I understood her), she treats seduction not only like the means of getting what u want,not only like the way of manipulation. She says that to be able to seduce someone,u have to be self-confident first,u have to love urself and believe in yourself enough to be able to accept your nature and be satisfied with just who u are,when you feel powerful,you can make others obey to ur power,when u are ready to keep on going without fear of failure ,without fear of being rejected-if u have all of this pieces of jigsaw puzzle put together,you are self-sufficient enough to seduce someone. It's not only about playing games,it's about necessity of self-belief,self-pride,about being accomplished. Don;t u agree?

***** "It's onto the next person who is willing to play along"..hmmm..well,I believe there are different ways to seduce (depending on what exactly u want to get from that one who u are attempting to seduce),that's why I think there is a big difference between "seducing" and "playing". If two people don;t mind ending somewhere in the bedroom ,then yeah, they just start " playing" with each other,to make "the game" more interesting and such a game won't last long,But anyways it is mutual consent Seducing is another thing.Of course,u can seduce instantly by getting naked or dancing striptease which would be simply to do,but the real power of seduction is to "get what the other person is missing and give it to them",to get into someone's head and heart ,to possess their thoughts,to learn them "from inside". Manipulating is to make ppl believe everything they do is their decision To be Seduced means to be tempted,means to lose ur head and not being able to resist,even if u realise the other person can use u.

***** |What do you think of my previous comment?

Anastasia Аre you neglecting me huh?)

OUH MY.... (you know..)

+pooleroes GAWD! ehheheh

oh my gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawd

Both Jewish

yupp!!! hehehehe

What is the name of the song at the beginning of the video????

If it works in Cuba or outside the US. Don't do.

You’re right , but she said “often she’s visiting Cuba” Well I know people from Cuba living terrible 😞, so they know is the only way that they have ...

Plus she's a woman. She has the luxury to talk this way cuz she's not the one who has something to lose in such a scenario.

that is the thing: my impression is that there is no point of this talk. It confused and she appears to be the judge in her own case. It's all over the place and makes no greater sense.

😂😂😂

Good comparison.

Wtf is wrong with people

youre mad awkward.

Hey shutuppp:[[[

I kinda liked it ;) just being honest~

That's what makes it health....it's good to get that feeling once in a while

I had to skip it, it made me embarrassed for them

Yes it takes a long time. But I don't understand the "There wasn't much to learn from this talk as the information is very subjective and condensed". What?? Why would more information be less to learn? 😂 rethorical question by the way haha, have a great day.

i agree

not really...it's not necessarily about being openly sexual

Khala, that's what most cultures regard it as and its understandable why: if someone seduces someone else, then obviously that person being seduced believes the seducer wants sex. Its not rocket science.

Jonathan Po

if she worked in arab nation or in Dubai and seduces a man she would get raped ?

Because seduction is advertisement of the body. It is a body language that means clearly come one let's do it. There are types of seduction varying from active to passive, like wearing revealing clothes or doing appealing movements. That's really shame.

VG

BS

Oh look who is talking to her mirror

So what did you 'get' 'her point' to be?

Confidence and Success begins internally. Nobody can give you a feeling of inferiority without your permission. If you're damaged because of your childhood education you have to grow outside your comfort zone. So everyday you gotta do smt that scares you in order to grow. You are beautiful because you exist, nobody scales your beauty unless you expect them to do so. That applies to your body as also your mind. So just imagine yourself as the child, dancing around the people who love you and just feel loved, appreciated and sexy.

Its true what your saying but some people would see flashing a smile as seduction. Think of the pretty girl who get stick for flirting, if a small smile even remotely crosses her lips at the opposite sex... you know for me this subject is 'subject' to subjectivity, and personal perception of the meaning of seduction. It is a bit borderline though the way she is talking, or words she is using, people could take it wrong, but words have different meaning for different people, so its hard not to use your meaning as oppose to the meaning the person who is saying it is.

***** I can see what you are trying to say here :) Thanks for your insight girl Peace

Audrey Adams Your welcome, these talks are interesting though, its good to hear all views gives even more insight as to how people perceive each other and how people place meaning on people's actions or language. And personally I think seduction is a natural non forced thing, if people find you charismatic and are drawn to you, its because its natural not forced, if you force it, your fake.. she seems a bit of an attention seeker unlike the other talkers.

***** "if people find you charismatic and are drawn to you, its because its natural not forced, if you force it, your fake.. she seems a bit of an attention seeker unlike the other talkers. " I second that! And yes I dont like the shallowness of her speech thats what prompted me to comment in the first place. Thanks for your kind feedback :)

Actually, keeping this attitude is called "having a good contact with the inner child". The "inner child" is a term that means inbetween others to be creative, explorative, to have a positive attitude, not to be too stressed and judgemental, and having a courage to realise that positive creativity... with a smile". Your pathological disapproval of that concept tells people only that most probably you may feel socially unfit and tend to convince yourself of being bit by stiffly sticking to artificial rules of artificial behaviour. It must be really gray and cloudy in your small, inner world. Please stop to impose it on the happier and more fulfilled ones. ;)

CHANELL BARBIIE, I think she stands in front of her dance studio mirrors or her bathroom mirror seductively dancing as she sprays 7 cans of Vidal Sassoon on her hair, 2 cans at a time, and Seduces and teases her hair for 7 grueling hours, the hair becomes aroused, stemulated, then stiffened, then sedated in olive oil, with a pinch of Jasmine on top for 70min, as a result it grows up to 7 inches a year. Try it Chanell, all you have to do is convince yourself your worth it!...

I know, right? I spent a lot of his video wondering how she got that volume!

Tammy Starcher She has naturally thick very curly hair. If you blow it out without chemical straightening, it will have great volume like that.

lol sigh

Even if she bought half her hair, it's still hers, right?

Probably wouldn't hurt to go to Cuba

It reminds me of the KZfaq ads that say "You can become rich with these 3 EASY steps" then you check out the ad further and then it says "Pay us $3000 to learn these 3 steps". All Charlatans.

@@superjayman6 I'm not knocking this, as one may spend one's time in whatever way one wants, but can you seriously teach something complex in 12 minutes?...Unless getting on a plane to a climate change threatened country and immersing myself in a culture is a simple matter. And I suppose I'd better start studying chicken coop videos to acclimate myself to the process. Ta-ta, oops, double entendre...Yuck

Okay now I am not gonna scroll through the comments more

what she told was the definition of seduction to the people and what it actually meant . As she said at first , the definition of seduction has garnered the reputation of wrongdoing and biased , but it is nothing but the art of influencing someone . That's how politics work . Whole country gets lured with the idea of one person . In fact , that is how KZfaq and all media works even . I mean what's click bait for then ? Low key we all want to seduce some group or someone with our idea

Boom! Feel that. And theeeen playfulness has its meaning and purpose.

Those who seduct you with honesty and kindheartedness are kept by you within friendzone borders.

@@user-lr4dy1op3i yup.

***** Seduction does not have to be sexual. The whole point of this video was to demonstrate that seduction could help people gain in other ways than just sexuality. Yes, the art of sexual seduction may seem shallow but implementing the same principles in business is what makes it productive. Seduction is a powerful tool that can be used for either shallow or beneficial purposes.

Welsh Guy Yes that did happen. Although that was one of her examples, her point was that seduction can be used for other things as well. I wouldn't say her ted talk was shallow, but rather it is misleading and not structured well enough to get her message across

I wouldn't say it like that lol

Florian Melzer Then Lirzra would do well to use a dictionary every once and a while. "Seduction", in its most popular English vernacular, is a deliberate act to charm or persuade in a manner that is specifically _sexual_. Without that keyword, there's no need for the word to even exist. Whereas "seduction" is sometimes used synonymously with the more general terms charm or persuasion in a nonsexual way, this video is decidedly about the sexual mode from her examples of voice, body language, arousal, and flirtatious behavior. Ask yourself, what do you think the recipient expects the seducer is offering when she acts that way? Her platonic friendship? Her life advice? No, it's sex or something related to it, implicit or explicit. If that's the seducer's actual goal to begin with then that's fine, but Lizra's description of seduction as a power to be used in everyday life to "build connections" implies its use outside of that purpose "to get anything". In other words, use the lure of sex to get things you want. That's her message regardless of how metaphorically she flowers her speech with talk of empowerment. According to Lizra, the trick is to know how to use seduction and when. Note how she doesn't answer _why_.

Sylis Vandomeur I think you have a point and I also think her ted talk was not structured correctly to convey her actual point. It's ambiguous because of her "flowery language" whether or not she really is referring to getting things through "sexual acts" or not. She might have been dancing in a "sexual" way but it is ambiguous whether she is using this as an example of seduction as in persuasion to catch her audience's attention or if she is making a statement and telling people to get the things they want with sexual endeavors.