Makes so much sense!

I hope you found the video and my opinion interesting and of value! Was there anything that you related to in particular? :)

TLDR: Relationships are fluid and dynamic. Relationships are not about ownership. Relationships are about giving your partner the best love you can, and whether they come back or remain committed is up to them. Most people operate in a tunnel of scarcity. If you are securely attached, it is your responsibility to speak up about your concerns. Devotion evolves with each emotional and circumstantial shift, highlighting the dynamic and often precarious nature of our bonds. Tangentially, and more alarmingly, is the lack of definition regarding our partner's perceived value, which fluctuates moment by moment, influenced by personal goals. These goals are nested within a hierarchy of complex cognitive processes that prioritize and deprioritize based on a reactionary substrate known as feelings. Consequently, most of us do not know what we want, nor do we understand why we do what we do. Achieving such awareness requires an enormous degree of cognitive capacity, to the extent that one's working memory would become overwhelmed, making it impossible to remain sane if everything were comprehended.

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