I was on tinder for 2 years. I’m 6’4”, 200 lbs, average on looks and make 70k. I got about 20 matches, 18 were bots the 2 that weren’t didn’t reply. I’ve never been more suicidal than when I used Tinder.

The top 1% of men (absolute chads) get loads of matches but for the rest of us yeah

I've been on tinder for 6 years and in those 6 years I only got around 30 matches. 30 matches in 6 years. Not joking, it's that bad. And out of those 30 matches I did not get a single date, they all just ghosted me after a brief conversation. My point is don't waste your time on tinder, I wish all men would stay off of it so it goes out of business.

Even when you post acceptable pictures you still don't get matches

Deleted tinder after a day. Never again

Dating apps profit off of lower percentile men

Men on tinder are not serious, I got so many matches but they either ghost you or asking stupid questions

I created a female tinder account just to see what type of men I’m competing with and let me tell you 🥵 every single right swipe was a match as a female from 18-60 year olds over 1000 matches within 4 hours and getting messages every minute from guys. So yeah 99.9% men have 0 chance lol

Tinder is a business, but the fact people dont wanna date is their fault

The problem with Tinder and other dating sites where I live. Is that most of the women on there are the absolute bottom of the barrel kind of people. Not just talking with looks. But a lot of their attitudes are awful. Or they have so many other issues going on. That they are just a giant walking red flag. It's very hard to find a sane woman with morals, values and respect.

The reason why you never actually meet most of the women there even after matching with them is because the men and women are there for 2 different reasons. Men are there to meet up, and women are there to get attention..Most of them have no intention on ever meeting uo with anyone.. this is why a woman will match with you and, at the same time, never respond to your messages. That in itself can be frustrating af.. The best thing men can do is stay off all these apps

From what I've read, if you swipe right too much, the algorithm devalues your profile. So just blind swiping right will essentially make your profile invisible. That being said I swiped based on whether I'd actually like to meet the girl or not and my reply/match rate was about the same as his.

I tested this. Saw a handsome looking guy on social media. I took his pics, make a tinder account. Got some matches, 0 women replied🤦🏻‍♂️ tinder is a scam. No way an attractive man couldn’t get no responses.. what hope does the average guy like me have on tinder then.

Only time tinder is viable is for men who are traveling. Do NOT use this garbage if you’re in your hometown or America in general. Complete waste of time

Tinder does not work for black people I get tons of matches no response

I got no chance on Tinder. But if i go to club, I can score hot girls pretty easily. But the relationship always end up with problems. Now the only solution is online date, which is every man is a loser. 😢😢😢 looks like im gonna stay single for the rest of my life 😢😢😢

The pressure men face to look like male models is crazy

It's female validation

I just get their Instagrams and message them there. Tinder is a waste of time.

I’ve never been on a Tinder date or even gotten a number. Matches fizzle out before a sentence or two. If they get back to me late, I know it’s because they wanted something else first. Hard for me to be excited at that point.

Nope, y’all just don’t know how to use Tinder or Bumble. It’s the easiest thing in the world. 1.) Don’t ever just say “Hey” say something clever to catch her attention 2.) if she ghost you reply, “This is so us, me doing all the talking and you sitting there looking cute” OR “You didn’t leave me on read, I left you speechless” 3.) Your going to go back and forth on the meet up. Be assertive and just pick a spot but act like you never been there before. 4.) If you want a kiss, say something like this, “If you look at me like that again, I will be forced to kiss you.” She will prolly say something like “Look at you like what.” And you say “Just like that” 😚 5.) Stop being a simp. Be decisive, point out your boundaries, and have fun.

Been on it 4 years non consecutively. Only time I got above 5 matches was when I boosted my profile and half of those were bots

I got hella matches on Tinder when the pandemic started in early 2020. The choices were single moms, dog moms, fatties, bisexuals and married women. Boń A petit! 😢 Ended up smashing two very fit girls who leaned more towards traditional dating roles. Problem is that their mental issues showed up HEAVY within a few days of meeting them.

Tinder doesn’t work if your thirsty , make a couple solid right swipes every couple days, make a solid profile, you’ll get matches if you over swipe you don’t get shown and get no matches

Ive been on 20 dates this year, 5'5 185lbs. 🤷🏾‍♂️

I saw this reality in action when I tried tinder in the Dominican Republic all of a sudden I was the prize and I had many dates lined up. I was the preferred stock being a Caucasian and could pick and choose whom I wanted. Something I had never experienced in North America. No wonder American Women are hell beasts to be avoided.

get off dating apps !!!

I'm 5ft 9 have a bit of a belly , was awkward with girls and after 3 weeks on tinder I met my current gf but I spent years on tinder 2 3 years ago and never got 1 match

Tinder takes into account how much you swipe to try remove bots, Best to not obliturate the swipes

guys.... GUYS i did it. I Deleted Tinder. im free.... im finaly free. now i am fed up enough with this nonsense that i will just go up to people in real.

Those 183 people must have been feral looking tinder has some of the worst profiles

I swipe right on girls that would have approached me first irl but on tinder, they don’t even look at me as a human being gg

I get matches on Tinder. Not swiping right on every profile increases your ELO score. Your profile becomes more visible. Your photos, bio and location plays a major role. Having traveling photos, photos with friends, photos with women, photos of hobbies gets matched. The problem with tinder is there’s a ratio of more dudes than women. This breeds more competition. Better off cold approaching in real life

I have probably swiped on hundreds of people on dating apps but I am not having any luck! Where are some good places to meet people. I just wanna find love😞

I’ve been on about 30 Hinge and Bumble dates in the past couple years. Zero Tinder dates.

Week 2 on bumble and ive already two numbers secured. Had tinder gold for almost a year and only get likes from women who resemble grimace

I literally got 700 and some matches in a year and a half. and then the algorithm changed and hardly get anymore

Was on bumble for two weeks. I bought premium for $150. I didn't get a single match lol

I’ve never messaged anyone on tinder but I’ve gotten quite a few messages and only about 20% of them will give you a chance to hang out. The other 80% of people who keep in mind messaged me first will just stop replying.

I got a 3 year relationship from tinder.

Tinder was good from 2014 to 2018. The ratio used to be 3 guys for every girl. Now it’s 30 guys for every girl. Girls are just pickier because they have too many options and that’s not including the guys in her DMs or friendzone guy friends who are secretly in love with her. In reality we all have poor social skills because of our second life online. Actually talking to girls in person will make you stand out. An old coworker of mine deleted all his socials and he probably sleeps with at least 30 new girls a year. He’s not watching Pron, in girls DMs, mindlessly swiping on girls profiles or liking her pics, he’s taking action and not making excuses. He’s mastered talking to girls in person and girls seem to be drawn by his presence.

I get tons of matches in caribbean but few in US

Bro today I just put all my ballz in a hardcase to be protected from bullets. I texted her and she just deleted our match. Happened twice now. Could have been an accidental right swipe but then I wonder why they keep the match for so long instead of directly directly deleting it.

That doesn’t mean that man people swiped left in him. It’s more likely most didn’t even see his profile

damn. i been on for 10 months and got zero matches. but yeh i aint paying for shit.

Ah man it's mad it's pot luck right place right time i was on there for like 6-8 months probably had like 4-5 matches and only had one conversation with a girl fast forward a year and a half and we are still together good luck lads there is someone out there for everyone 👍

I’m like a 6 and I’ve been on plenty of tinder dates. Currently going on 7 years tinder match. I keep seeing this statistic stuff for tinder but idk how it worked so well for me.. maybe you guys need better first lines. Honestly I was saying crap like “guess the difference between me and my couch; my couch pulls out” and getting replies.

You have to be 7+/10 to get success on tinder. Anything below 7, then youre just wasting your time

“hey something actually came up rn would u be down tomorrow night?” This give me a vibe of never texting me back. I got her snap like how do I reply back for tomorrow?

Damn tinder has change a lot since I’ve been on it like 5-6 years ago lmao I’m glad I’m off there cause they putting all your business out there now no type of privacy you can’t even swipe a lot without someone seeing what you swipe that’s crazy

Man YEA RIGHT tinder is legit asf

F**k paying for it 😂😂 it’s sooo expensive too, such a rip

As a bisexual man, there’s a reason why I get way more likes from men than I do women. Unless you’re like a solid 10 (which is arguable) Tinder is a lot more harder for guys than girls. For example, I know some girls that are average at best and take really bad pics and can still get a ton of attention but for guys, you can have 4 good pictures but if that 5th one is terrible then your ability to be attractive is questionable. So don’t be so hard on yourselves.

Damn he got matches? 😂 It would be a miracle for me to get a date

I'll say this it isn't a scam... It definitely depends on multiple factors regardless, looks play a part I'm not gonna say big part but depending on what your trying to do on tinder looks are important. Being able to read the type of woman you're talking to is important which is a reason I feel pics are important, like a lot of people say. Picture say 1000 words and they do. Bios are a hit or miss, You really don't need one because even the people who tend to only go for good bios will definitely still talk to you if the pictures hit right. Now if your pics don't hit I feel the only other thing that helps is how you carry the conversation. Can you? Are you actually a interesting person that's keep people talking to you? You gotta take that chance

Your math is wrong. It does mean 173 people swiped left for every swipe right. It’s not a ratio. 80% of those accounts could very well be inactive. We have no way of knowing how many swiped left.

Can't lie this guy sound hella unemployed 😅 who has time to be swiping this much

🤣well tinder ban me when I stop using it and came back to it saying I'm permanently banned

Bruh i was on there for months, swiped on thousands of profiles, got like 3 matches, 2 were OF girls trying to promote their content and the other one never responded and then unmatched me weeks later

Lmaooo ngl that’s sad bro. My stinky ahh friend would swip all day on there and got lots matches

When i was single i met my fair share of girls . I never had a problem. Im not the best looking guy but i always made them laugh and i guess that hooked them 😅

I’m 5’8 and I get at least a dozen matches a week with beautiful 8-9-10/10 women. This mindset is dumb. Are you working on cool hobbies? Are you lifting consistently? Are you sober? Are you a good person. Do you have good hygiene? Do you have a good career. Do you have photos of you doing cool stuff? Do you have a short and well written bio? Guys who put in effort get an unbelievable amount of matches it’s not about being a “chad” it’s about having an interesting life, being competent and confident, and having your shift together. Stop complaining and get to work.

Tinder is primarily an ego stroke. People want to match to feel that adrenaline from feeling attractive. Rarely anything moves past the initial match

Tbh I’m shocked he got matched at all lol I do maybe 5 matches a year i

What I've found is that most men believe they're more attractive than they are (same applies to women, but that's not the topic of discussion right now). A lot of you should try serious looksmaxxing before getting on these apps. If you are physically fit and well-groomed (straight + white teeth, neatly trimmed facial hair/no facial hair, relatively clear skin, clean hair with a cut that frames your face well, etc.), you will have an easier time attracting women than if you are overweight, have crooked or yellow teeth, and look unkempt while also having unflattering photos on your profile.

wayback 2017, i tried tinder for 3 months, and i didn't get swipe right... zero success

Bruh I got a match the first night I had tinder and got a date and we hung out, I had tinder for about 5 months found a new girl to meet almost every week, I got into a life threatening accident and one of those tinder girls stayed with me in the hospital took care of me, met all my friends and family and I believe I’m going to marry this woman. Tinder depends on the person tbh cus I have had a good experience on it and I think I’m a below average man.

Brother did tinder, “ turn out they ugly people so never did tinder myself, so never dated either, i also watched catfish growing up. I’m a very smart person.

My girlfriend cheated on me on tinder and when I try getting tinder I got nobody

Wow he got matches ? Lucky boi

Bro is a expert on dating apps

I downloaded tinder to try it out. I’m average looking, average heigh. I had it for one day and had 15 matches and one was absolutely perfect. We hit it off right away. This was not a hookup thing either. Both of us wanted long lasting relationships. We are in the process of setting up dates. It can be done boys. Stay strong.

my tinder matches capped at 9999+ a yr ago lol

I would love to see his profile

my brain is not math-smart, i’m so confused 🫤

What’s crazy is that this isn’t even bad. My stats were astronomically worse 😂

😅 I've been out a few days on tinder

I just have tinder for shits and giggles

Trent Alexander-Arnold spittin fax

When I was on tinder in Cali my first 5 likes were matches all about location

I've met heaps of chicks off tinder, probably has bad pics

I must be doing something right. I can get a few matches a day and a few dates a year just on tinder.

But I appreciate him measuring tinder for its fullest potential for all of us

*Doesn't get dates from 176 women* *Blames the app* LOL

Where do you seen those stats? What’s the app

Waste of of time. I feel like tinder created them fake account to waste people time and to get money of you.

I have a gf now. When tinder first came out? I had way more matches. These past few years something has changed. Before my gf I had matches there and there but it was very common to get matched but get no response. I feel like it's actually easier in person. Tinder you need to really be materialistic and have professional level photos.

Isnt the same anymore. las year i made a account and hat 140 likes in 3 days no premium. now i broke up with my gf, made tinder same profile but maybe 5 likes in 2 days

I’m not a chad but I’ve had success on tinder, however, it might be my age (I’m 19) maybe younger women have lower standards. Because I am by no means a successful guy, I’m 5”11 and I’d say I’m fairly average looking, I just have good game and do fun things

I use tinder premium, i got 30 match in one month no joke and i'm like a 5.5 or 6 man. They all ghosted me or ignored me, but finally i got one date. BTW i used tinder for 6 years and it's first time i get a date

I can't relate. I'm a popular user. I match almost everyone I like

And just think, the ones thats DID match....ALSO wouldn't actually talk to him....AND the LITERALLY TWO who were willing to respond and "talk" limited their responses to "k" and nothing else ever.

I tried Tinder to see if it isas bad as everybody says. It wasway worse. I don't get how anybody still has this app. It's a best Frustration, my worst was 2 ☠️threasts within the first few hours. It's not onlyawaste of time, it can be dangerous, anybody you reject can become a stalker. And remember: it's less than 20% women. That's why guys with blurry drunken selfies don't get matches. Other guys put in the efford.

Thats online dating culture for ya smh...its not just tinder

As much as I hate tinder ima say it's on the guy for not having dates. Maybe he doesn't know how to talk to women and get them out on a date.

Sounds more like a skill issue than a tinder issue

I really am not into my looks or whatever. But hey , maybe I’m doing something right🤷🏾‍♂️ Just joined tinder one month ago in a predominantly white country. I’m not even 6 foot tall , I get to go on dates with much taller and wealthier girls. And I’m talking about the blonde-blue-eyed babes of Eastern and Scandinavian Europe…🤷🏾‍♂️ Keep bio short, have good pictures, if you have a nice body keep it in the middle of the stack (shirt off in nature doing something physical or onlooking)… experiment with different approaches.

i got 0 matches a year while swiping only right so that gotta mean that i have minus date rate xd

Can't even get one match 😒 🙄 😕 😑

I get hundreds of matches, don’t pay a cent and have met and gone on lots of dates. Just don’t be ugly