The ‘SLOW DATING PROCESS’ for Long-Lasting Love- Dating Advice

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The ‘SLOW DATING PROCESS’ for Long-Lasting Love- Dating Advice

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The ‘SLOW DATING PROCESS’ for Long-Lasting Love- Dating Advice. What is the ‘slow dating process?’ Here's the formula to creating a long-lasting love.
00:00 Introduction
02:40 Exploration Period
03:26 Rushing: Too Fast, Too Soon
04:13 Observation Phase
05:25 Your Investment
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@sharonmckay2886 5 ай бұрын

Great advice. Pace is hugely important! Two sayings: • Too soon Too Ripe Too Rotten. • Dating = Data collection.

@user-yt8hm4oc5r 5 ай бұрын

I am all for slow dating process

@jessicadelafuente9419 2 ай бұрын

This came at the perfect timing. My bf and I made it official within two weeks we are three months in and he has done everything to show me he only wants a future with me. I’ve never met a secured man that allows me that space to relax and not deal with inconsistency. He gave me a promise ring for our 3 month anniversary. He talks daily about making me his wife. He wants to move in already. I love his transparency but I believe that I need to stand up for myself and needs and slow down. If he loves and wants me he will understand. I definitely don’t want to invest so much if me so soon.

@ClancySayce Ай бұрын

Might be worth reading up about narcissists. Some red flags here.

@carlpacheco2058 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Susan, as a person actively working on healing from CPTSD, I’ve come to realize the only way for me to have a healthy relationship is to take the slow approach so I don’t jump into the toxic patterns of the past falling for unavailable people, users and abusers and instead pace myself and date with structure and really seeing if this is a good fit for me instead of jumping into something and then trying to retro-fit the disfunction into something workable (which never works).

@lucyloo7457 5 ай бұрын

❤Thanks Susan! I need this right now. Bravo 👏.

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

Hi LucyLoo! Thanks for this comment. Happy this is exactly what you needed right now.😊😊

@kelebeksky 5 ай бұрын

Love this ❤ unfortunately too late for me. I went full in with the guy I am getting to know. It just feels so natural 😢

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

Maybe it will be okay… sometimes you have to trust your feelings and your instincts. This bit of advice that I’ve given in the video is about people who leap far too quickly because we know too hot too soon is not a good starting point. If you were able to build the connection and the communication, you may be fine. Rooting for you.!!

@kelebeksky 5 ай бұрын

@@SusanWinter 💜 definitely communication has been a big part from the beginning. Thanks Susan, you are amazing 😍🤩

@mesCheerios 5 ай бұрын

Hope you had a great trip Susan ! Your advice is so logical, I think a lot of us are getting the information we should have got when we were kids but many of our parents didn't know either. I hope slowly slowly we can help each generation get a little bit better at relationships.

@YouTubeUzername 5 ай бұрын

Even when it’s hard to hear you’re right, as usual. Excellent video! Thank you!

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@jeanp.1303 5 ай бұрын

Great advice as usual! 🤗 🐾

@mikyl-fo8rh 5 ай бұрын

A very wise instruction Susan.

@lex6819 5 ай бұрын

Slow dating is easier to do long distance

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

haha, yes of course

@igatti9923 5 ай бұрын

The good old process of learning, acquiring info and know-how in communicating, and the precious iteration method which allows people to create common and correct neuropaths in order to reach a healthy synergy with the other person. Like learning mathematics and a new language :) that means a new planet.

@marte1376 5 ай бұрын

Susan when will live shows return? I miss you and need more than one hour of your wisdom

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

This Thursday!!!! I’m back from Asia

@marte1376 5 ай бұрын

@@SusanWinter awesome!!

@smoothtruth 5 ай бұрын

❤@@SusanWinter

@debralondon2402 5 ай бұрын

So true. Thanks

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

🙂

@ben_angel 2 ай бұрын

I made the girl i was seeing wait 4+ months without giving an answer to what i wanted. She kept asking and also wanted me to come off the dating apps. During this time she sprung on me that she was in love with me too. This weekend just gone she ended things and now of course I want her and i feel awful, feels really painful.

@Lioness_of_Gaia 5 ай бұрын

Thank you, Susan!! ❤

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! Keep roaring!!

@Lioness_of_Gaia 5 ай бұрын

@@SusanWinter 😽💨💫✨💛✨

@samanthacampbellxx 2 ай бұрын

How slow is too slow to expect commitment from someone?

@Wonderwoman79G 5 ай бұрын

Thanks Susan, I requested this topic a while ago.

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

yayayaya!!!!!

@MrDetwaa 5 ай бұрын

“Oh you’ll get to something something.” 😂 so true. Love you Susan!

@user-em3ov4iw2d 5 ай бұрын

You give the best advice. So true!

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

thank you!

@jankeizer407 5 ай бұрын

Always worked and works for me like that but so far encountered only woman who wanted to move very fast and I had no nice experiences in life but great learning/insights. Now I no there's nothing wrong with be but this is a great quality of me wich stands out and projected me for not going into instable relationships. How good these woman are looking. I think a lot of handsome woman atract(ed) handsome men without these qualitys and I faced a lot of confused woman. As i'm highly intuïtive and stick to that ❤ And no i'm not perfect, I learned and it helped me releasing my mini-trauma's and examples everybody should be IN a relationship constantly and asap🙏 Thanks for another aknowledgement about this matter Susan. It's often the mothers who can and should learn their sons how to not get into fast and fickle relationships and set the healthy example. Be active as a parent in that. Thanks

@chilloften 5 ай бұрын

It’s so true, and necessary.

@sgallo8393 5 ай бұрын

You’re amazing Susan. Thank you for all your incredible advice

@godgracequitay1975 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this helpful reading!

@gabbypage6929 5 ай бұрын

Ive know this for

@vmalocha1 5 ай бұрын

Thank you!! I really need this right now. 😊

@kiki6288k 5 ай бұрын

You are great, you explain so well! thank you

@EricSmith-vr7qp 4 ай бұрын

I'm in Love with this Beautiful Woman she wants to take things Slow and I'm Fine with that I want us to be a Great Couple

@Youalleatmuffins Ай бұрын

Just exactly right. So poignant for mr right now 💯

@joy222duhwrld Ай бұрын

we haven’t exchanged numbers yet we’re just flirting and it’s been a month lol how slow is too slow?

@lyndamcmullen5506 5 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

@SusanWinter 5 ай бұрын

THANKS LYNDA!

@rosswardrop465 3 ай бұрын

Don't bother.Stay single.

@H8Magnet 5 ай бұрын

WTF. Are we really taking life advice from people with mental health issues???

@destinychild4659 5 ай бұрын

What are you talking about? No-one is forced to take advice from her or anyone here. Where do you get these mental health issues? 🙄🙄🙄

@suziechampagne357 5 ай бұрын

@H8Magnet If you don't like the content then skip to something else. For the mental health issue in your comment, seems to me you are projecting. This is a respectful community so take your negativity elsewhere