How soon , last case I couldn't help but Google it 😂

Can’t wait for part 2 nowww!

Hehe saw that 😜

I watched it before you privated the first one

I thought I would have to cheet and go watch this case on another youtube so I am that it publicly and not private but I had been watching eleanor neele for 3 and half year 🤶🏻

Deeply ingrained self-hatred masked as homophobia.

@@PorcupineGirl yes sadly

Yeah, as someone who's been nearly hate crimed for being with their partner, it's not fun. We've gotten plenty of stares and ugly looks (we live in a very conservative area) and a few "f*cking d*kes" throw at us. And all we're ever doing is holding hands while we walk.

i hope they are brutalized in jail for the rest of their lives

its bc those people are sad individuals who will never achieve anything in life and will be once forgotten when they die. they start shaking with rage when they see someone in the lgbt, who is achieving and living life to the fullest, and realize that they can do everything better than they ever could.

It’s so ignorant and selfish. So aggravating because they don’t have to worry about it daily so they can ignore it. When people say something doesn’t exist or they don’t really like to worry about it is quite a funny way to say “I don’t have to care about my rights or safety because it’s always been given to me automatically.”

I'm still trying to understand cis

Well they're correct. There are plenty of people who don't care for homosexuality, but that isn't a condition requiring a term. Calling it a phobia is ridiculous. We don't call dislikes phobias.

@@bevcrusher4177 since these terms are fabricated from society and culture, yes it does exist. it takes on a new meaning, not like the anxiety disorder that causes “phobias”. it utilizes the word “phobia” to describe that people deep down are scared of things that are different than them and in turn act out in foolish ways (like calling people slurs). language is not always just merriam webster defined.

This story was also 2010

Always

I hope everyone listens to this comment

@@haeymzmdlcccc i hope so too

You know it ❤️🙏🏾🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🙏🏾❤️

🏳️‍🌈💖

Please don't get offended. Were u born a female? Are u a man that's attracted to men?

@@sheslaughter1 Yes to both

as another gay trans guy i completely agree :)))

@@oliverwurdinger2326 nice 👍

Bi trams man here and i agree

Lol. Yes. That part.

Someone’s gender also doesn’t concern anyone

EXACTLY! it is no one's business your sexuality and your gender. Just let people exist and vibe✨

I dont get why people are homophobic if you know your straight what is someone being gay gonna do to your straightness thats why i think homophobic men are closeted but are scared to come out because of this disgusting world we live in.

and gender.

@@sophie-yq5ft w h a t

Amen

The light in the dark tunnel 💕

@gAhHh im smart omfg i go to sleep listening to Eleanor bc her voice is calming and I think I accidentally did that in my sleep wtf

@@sophie-yq5ft I managed to forget what you comment was

Had this video on my watch later for a little while now and as someone who is also fluid and trans non-binary I couldn't agree more! Eleanor did amazing and was so respectful! Thank you so much for validating both identities; Kedarie and Kandicee in the video! May they rest in power!

hi, no hate at all but how can you be gender fluid and non binary? do you feel female one day, make the next and then don’t feel any gender some days? can you explain it to me please? :)

I love gravity falls ♥ sorry but your username just made me smile cause its my son's favorite show lol

@@poppie188 Okay so I might be TOTALLY wrong and I hope one of the folks in the comments feels comfortable correcting me if I'm wrong! But I looked it up because I was also curious, and it makes a ton of sense when you read the definitions! Non-binary doesn't mean "genderless" as much as it means "does not associate as strictly male or strictly female." Gender fluidity varies in both identity and expression, so some people may express themselves fluidly while identifying as male or female. However, there are then folks like Kedarie, who sometimes feels male and sometimes feels female, and his identity changes on some days as well when he may feel extra feminine and identify as Kandice. PLEASE correct this if this is incorrect! You will not hurt my feelings lol.. Not looking to spread misinformation but I was curious myself and wanted to share what I found so we can hopefully all be more educated and inclusive.

@@averyrose2262 it’s ridiculous that we have to look up how someone identifies…. And there is still debate on what it means…. Like who the hell has time for all that?? It’s like people want others to be confused and then get mad when they don’t get it right….I feel people can do whatever they want unless they impede on someone’s else life.

Brought me to tears! Such a wonderful family to support him. Ugh this is heartbreaking

He was amazing, and super funny. I miss him.

Me too. So touching. I hope all hearts heal and hope this wonderful angel rests in peace.

This was my best friend sister and I wouldn’t even wanna try to under their pain

!!

RIGHT.

Girlll exactlyyy??!!!!

@Cian MacGana No one is talking about death penalty. We are talking about a person murdering another person because of their sexuality. Respectfully, if you want to discuss death penalty and abortion, make a new comment so you can open up that discussion. Let’s not get sidetracked here.

@Cian MacGanaWhy are you talking about abortion when no one has brought it up and when you don't even have a uterus?

Haters gonna hate

Also religion also has a big play in people’s beliefs of gay people which is just. Sad.

@@tammyferrer9946 i still don’t get why people use religion as an excuse for homophobia isn’t religion all about love and respect?

@@annamazule7882 I agree with you. Definitely not using it as an excuse

I can answer that question: I didn't know that there were different sexuality or pronouns. When I did learn about it- many other kids has already had certain bias towards people who were associated with different sexuality. They were very mean and making mockery of them. It's gotten to a point where someone would be bullied and harassed for being different. I have gotten influenced and gotten the mentality being different was bad or forbidden. That continued for few years until I have learnt more about different sexuality and pronouns from my partner. My partner helped me see through that disgusting mentality and helped me realise that being apart of different sexuality does not mean something bad. I shouldn't discriminate someone because they have a different sexuality. Since then, I have been learning different sexuality and pronouns- I try to use the pronouns that makes an individual comfortable. I do not have any discriminatory thoughts towards someone of a different sexuality thanks to my partner. I will try to help others realise this as my partner helped me so there are less people to suffer through harassment/bullying for being different.

Nobody should give a shit if someone is queer. If it "goes against your religion", then just accept that not everyone has the same beliefs as you Also, if you say that we're "forcing it" and you shit on LGBT people for not being christian or any other religion, you're a hypocrite 100% love you and your daughter

Im a nurse and i work 12 hour shifts so when im doing paperwork or some kind of work that im not directly with pts o do the same thing. I turn on these videos and a few others and let them play while i work and it really does make the day go by faster.

I do this for my housework, it really does help

@@shazzmatazzgaming1488 same here I always have her on when I’m doing bits around the house

Her videos r chill n her voice is super calming

Kedarie was actually really supported in the town. Kedarie was a helper.

Me too. My heart actually ached at that part. I'm scared to finish the video

🤧

I swear to god

@Victoria Ganeva this one of the only cases that actually made me tear up. Especially because I’m gender fluid too, he didn’t deserve that...

This is an important distinction!

And if not raised influenced

I will have to agree with this Before coming out as gay , even I was sort of weird thinking about homosexuality but education and self acceptance helped me a bunch And my brother on the other hand is still the same idiot😊

Yes, racism and homophobia is taught

My father was raised to be severely racist and homophobic, but since I came out and he’s been exposed to other views, he’s become a strong ally. I just wish kids were raised to be accepting and choose their own views.

I really hate watching hate crime murders because it’s so sad and awful, but I want to contribute by bringing light to the cases.

This world sucks. Cases like these get put out of the spotlight way too fast, and that really doesn’t sit right with me. Everyone (excluding murderers and other disgusting humans) deserves a full life.

@@millie3milk808 what do you mean by "contribute by bringing light to the cases" :)

@@millie3milk808 your right, one way to contribute to these horrible issues is by sharing, no matter how disgusting it is the more you know the more you grow. Put a light on this horrible people who do horrible things. SHARE SO BEWARE BITCHES!!!!!

@@kadylynch5110 I think by like bringing attention to the case. Making sure people know about it more

Because they're uneducated, childish and pathetic. They can't take responsibility for their lives choices like an adult and change the way their life is going. Also meth.

Anti whiteism is supported, and promoted by Hollywood, and all media. So you tell me?

@@lapislazulii141 Don’t equate pro-poc to “anti whiteness”, silly. And “Hollywood” being pro-poc has nothing to do with bigoted & homicidal white people.

@@lapislazulii141 how the hell is “Anti Whiteism” promoted in Hollywood? Not only that, you need to stop making things all about you when this has nothing to do with you. Based on the other comments I’ve seen of yours, I can tell you are racist and homophobic. Disgusting.

@@lapislazulii141 ew, i think i saw you on another video too. gtfoh

@@allykulhmann508 used to be my sisters account

thank you :)

thank u sm

you’re the type of straight people we love, thank you so much

@@JOKERWOKER_ exactly

It's happened to straight people as well. But usually a girl will get another guy to do it for them. But yes its crushing regardless.

Yeah, it's not only fucked up, but it can be absolutely soul-destroying.

we've seen that happen in NYC

@@brycepriar3185 they never said that it doesn’t happen to straight people???

it's not only heartbreaking, it's also jaw breaking.

If it were a girl who approached them and said they liked them but the feelings were not reciprocated they certainly would not punch her in the face for it. A reasonable person would be flattered, kindly say thank you but I do not feel that way, and move on. But no. People have to be violent and hateful because someone is different.

I was hit on by a lesbian. I was flattered, but I declined.

@@mango.ariyyy I think it's the first one most of the time. They don't want to be seen as gay themselves.

@@emileelamica7701 thats not true. "Ugly" girls most certainly would get shit too. I was kicked in the vagina for having a crush on someone in highschool. Like enough to bruise me. I still dont understand why anyone would react with violence if a man or a woman expresses their feelings for you, i agree with you there

Exactly u cud have simply IGNORED him! Turnt him down ! But beat him up?? Smells insecure abt ur own sexuality to me.

Same I'm actually gender fluid as well as pan and this video simultaneously makes me happy because of the education and sad because of the poor kid

😂😂😂🤡

@@venessam4907 ??

@@venessam4907 what's so funny

@@venessam4907 🗿

that's why i love Eleanor, shes so inclusive of everyone (:

So true I don't see a lot of true crime up here doing a broad range of cases it's always the same throughout them all.

Im not being rude but race doesnt matter

@@qtbubblez5803 it does in situations like this, quite often poc murders don’t get taken seriously or get solved because of the systemic racism. this means that when true crime youtubers cover cases like this, especially unsolved ones, it can bring these poc to justice. in this i’m not saying that cases involving white people always get solved or taken seriously i’m just saying that it is a very big and real issue in today’s world.

@@qtbubblez5803 it does especially as black people do not get a lot of coverage at all , so it does matter when someone is making a difference and actually including different races in their videos

OMG IKR

In my opinion a lot of times its cause their scared of their own feelings. They aren't able to live freely so they hate people who do. When you "come out" its cause u know exactly who u are. When u hate someone for how they live their life i think its cause their not living their true life.

I ask myself the same question every day.... I’m gender-fluid (they/them and he/they) and I’m questing my sexuality about liking men and I ask myself every. Single. Day.

@Ana MX I have a question... do you support lgbtqia? Because I am getting mixed vibes

Religion.

No😂😂😂

@@venessam4907 yes

This!!

Ikr? I'm also a lesbian and I personally don't have a problem with people not supporting the LGBT+ community. If someone doesn't support it, that's fine but actively discriminating against the LGBT+ community is just so disgusting.

the only time someone's sexuality concerns me is if I am looking at them as a potential partner, then it is "Hey, are you interested in dating" "yeah sure" or "no thanks I'm not into women" then it ceases to be my concern.

honestly the hate people get , at the end of the day love is love , love isnt gender based at all so why does it bother people , im bi and no one in my family knows because a lot of people dont understand i just hope one day even if its hundreds of years from now that people see lgbtq as normal and accept it

I genuinely will never be able to fully understand why some people think sexuality and ethnicity concern them. Ethnicity and sexuality is absolutely nobody’s concern and is never an issue, yet people try so hard to somehow make it an issue, specifically their unnecessary issue. 😐

Ikr I always say that to the minority who are homophobic it doesnt matter that I'm gay

Exactly! As long as they're good people, it shouldn't matter who they are or who they identify as; live and let live and just get coexist!

SAME, I wish he was my friend

Exactly. It shouldn't concern you who the person loves because love is love. If I knew this guy and was his age, I would've loved to be friends with him. We probably would've gotten along great. I wish he would've been able to live his life and not having it end before he could've found someone who made him happy

@Mary Jones were you ok when you came out to the people you did!?

A year later, but I feel the same way. I’m crying right now

I’m pretty sure it was Omari (I worked with her and she told me parts of the story from her view cause they were friends)

Ikr my sports bra’s are like 25$... that’s an amazing friend

@@samanthacarruthers8811 I hope she’s doing okay now, I’m sure that was a hard time.

This is sick tbh

@@womansphere4349 sick??

is* and still is

@@aqxka I’m sure they wrote was because kedarie is no longer here. But he will always be a beautiful soul

Also, while I'm here, I appreciate those of you that have commented to correct my description of gender fluidity/non binary/trans terms... You can do all the online research in the world, but nothing will teach you as well as an explanation coming from those people themselves - so thank you! I feel lucky to have such an understanding and polite audience - and I thank you all for being so kind with corrections as always Xx

You're deserving of kind audience! Maybe even a bigger one! This is definately the best true crime KZfaq channel I have seen and I am happy to be a subscriber!

This case was hard, but I loved how you held respect for the LGBTQ+ community and went through the trouble of explaining the terms and making sure they were understood.

💖thank you for covering this heartbreaking case Eleanor

Xoxo

i completely agree with your comment, its so sad that for once a person who fully is accepted by their family and has the chance to grow into a beautiful human full of love and happiness was taken from the world.

i agree, it’s not that often that i see poc families that are as supportive and accepting as his

definitely agree ! a lot of poc families do not accept this lifestyle

@Rochelle Gomez umm he was accepted by his white peers and the hate he got was from other POC. Privilege had nothing to do with this. He was murdered by Homophobic POC

As an Asian I agree, he deserved so much more, my family ignores my feelings and would probably kick me out if I was gay (I’m bi and will NEVER tell them) but I’m so glad he had that little support to be himself :(

Hi btw I loved your comment but here's a tip for next time just for more education xx! I wanted to make it clear that African American isn't a synonym for black some people get it confused. Some black people aren't African American Xxxx

@@rachelle9518 thank you ! I actually do know that and shouldn’t of used that. At the time of typing that I felt like saying “black” was the wrong term to use idk why and that’s why I said African American but your absolutely correct . I think it goes back to when I was growing up and during THAT time of being corrected of not using the term black and using the term African American . But thank you I always trying to use the most respectful words possible because I would like people to do the same for me , what would be best for me to edit that to to be the most respectful ?

Honestly, I share many of her videos with my son. He came out to his dad and I two years ago, at age 15. The closer he gets to 18 and flying the coup, the more terrified I get, thinking of him out in this big, evil world :( Not everyone is willing to live and let live. I get scared of what could happen. I know I can't hover over him forever, but I want to share enough to keep him ultra alert, aware of the dangers that he may face. My son is amazing. His sexual orientation should not concern ANYONE else. He's not out there trying to "convert" anyone, he's just living his truth!

@@gabriellewitts4746 Hi there, I perfer to use "POC" (person of color). It pretty much includes everyone and is respectful.

@@GenXfrom75 I know that it’s still scary and still a lot of people are judge mental and prejudice towards the lgbt community but I’m happy he is apart of a time and generation where it is much more acceptable and there is a HUGE community standing behind him in support.

oh hey! i found a fellow genderfluid :)

Hello fellow genderfluid human! ❤

She lost her baby because some "person" didn't like Kedaries gender expression, as if it had anything to do them. People make me so mad 😒

I found her facebook. Damn she loves her children (as any mother should) She’s so strong. Along with his siblings. He was comfortable to be who he was at home & honestly not everyone in the community has the chance to do that. That alone boosts my respect for her by a million !!

Same thing I was thinking like no fingerprints on the bottle and I know somebody know what happened 😕

Being from Omaha and not hearing about this saddens meso much.

I live in Iowa City and this is the first I’ve heard of it. Seems about white, doing you think?

He was so sweet I miss him so much 🥺❤💔

I’m sorry for what you going through. Glad u living your truth😊

Omg Im literally going through the same situation. My heart broke with this one. Glad to feel that there is more People like me out there tho...

What does gender fluid mean? X

@@Dobetter15 gender fluid is when their gender changes. It's a little different for each person thou as to how, why or when it changes and what it changes to ect....

@@mylife-23 oh ok I think I understand thank you that is why they want to be called they .

That's what's called a "Homegoing" as opposed to a funeral. The atmosphere is one of celebration of life.

@@PorcupineGirl i love the idea, I’ve never seen some thing like that before and I’m truly amazed

Peace*

Right!

I want to be thee ABSOLUTE BEST FRIEND OF kedarie!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you serious?

@@womansphere4349 About the spelling correction, yes yes apparently she is

me too, I made sure to leave a comment thanking her for doing that as I'm sure someone learned something today! She also did it very respectfully and I'm happy that she clarified that the definitions aren't 100% concrete :)

@Ana MX gender is a spectrum you where probably thinking about biological sex but even at that there is still more than two but go off i guess

@Ana MX babe you are so uneducated its literally embarrassing i see you are not going to go and actually educate yourself so there is no point in anyone interacting with you.

@Ana MX gender and sex are not synonymous. In terms of language, they compliment each other because people have been using them incorrectly for a long time. Your reproductive organs may make your sex biologically "male" or "female". Just because you are born with these organs, doesn't mean you associate or identify with social gender norms. i.e. things we may now call sexist (boys like beers, cars and fighting vs girls like glitter, make up, cleaning). I think everyone deserves to like what they like and be whoever they want to be. Life is too short and humans are far too complex and interesting to be split into two categories and we should embrace individuals who truly love themselves. Respect and love those around you.

@@bubblesbop8245 it's really sad when people can't say, "thank you for educating me on a topic I realise I was being so ignorant about." and use that knowledge to better themselves, isn't it?

same! every parent should be like that. i will always accept my children for whoever they decide to be. and i will also teach them to respect other people who may not be the same as them.

What a coincidence was thinking if I killed someone I'd want her to cover it... where you from?. This is a joke ..

@@andrewmorris28 LOLLL

@@andrewmorris28 HAHSHAHSHAH I CANNOT WITH THIS COMMENT😭

Same tbh lol

@@andrewmorris28 End my suffering , actually end my abuser

@@GamingNat just as bad as saying "shim"

@@micheller2283 what how is saying them as bad as saying shim, please elaborate

Hey using they/them pronouns are usually most proper with gender fluid or nonbinary people highly recommend using they/them instead of (him/her) cause it doesnt come across the way you intended it and I feel like you didnt mean it in a rude way so thats probably a better way to go about talking about people just using they/them pronouns or just refer to the person by their name to avoid pronouns as well if that makes it easier for you.

There will unfortunately always be hateful people. And society has been in a mess about sexuality for hundreds of years (I blame the Dark Ages and Victorian "sensibilities" for a great deal of it). It will take much more time than only a few decades for human beings to truly understand that love is love. Too much work was put into the education of hate.

@@karma901 they're saying "shim" Is as bad as she/he not they

And the funeral! I don't know who the killer is yet, but I hope they saw all that love for him and realized their hate wasn't validated, it wasn't welcomed and no one agreed with it.

Shut up u baby 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@emmahollow8898 Shut up u troll

Me too. I would dance and sing down the hall with him.

yup

HAHA SAME

YEP-

I was soo confused lol

Me lol

I so appreciate this comment! There is never any shame in not knowing something, and I'm sorry if anyone has ever made you feel that way!

@@rsukut5866 Thank you very much for your kind words! I'll be honest I don't understand or know a lot about these new and different terms but I'm learning bit by bit, and as long as the individual is happy and not causing any harm that's the main thing. Xxxxx

I’m just learning about non binary people and I subbed to a person who’s non binary and that helps me learn

🥰love this

better still, an lgbtq+ black youth. double representation and awareness! lgbtq+ poc aren't represented nearly enough in mainstream media.

@@thedragonsunicorn exactly!!! ❤️👏 she's sticking to her word and her promise! that alone makes her a queen 👑 👏

It’s actually really pathetic how many true crime channels I go to look at and there’s literally none, or extremely few, cases featuring BIPOC, especially since those are the cases that receive the least media coverage to begin with 😢

@@MiVidaBellisima i know its really upsetting to see 😔 but its people like Eleanor who are trying to stop that and spread the topic to all races and not just primarily white cases. that alone give me so much respect for her ❤️👑

im not genderfluid but still a form of multi gender and honestly i think youre doing fine

@@the_homun_system thank you!

I think using they/them pronouns works too because it doesn't assume someone's gender, especially one whose gender fluctuates frequently

@@boonemorris very true I’ll keep that in mind- however I read that somewhere that’s for people who are non binary or genderqueer

I was thinking his mom probably regretted moving, but then again he could have easily been murdered in Chicago or anywhere. It’s kinda like moving a teen girl for getting targeted but then she gets raped. You have that risk just for being a woman. And apparently so do people like Kedaire. It’s not women or lgbt that need to change, it’s society. BUT DO protect yourselves. It’s not their fault.

Yeah, makes sense and it’s completely fair like I understand but why are other issues not represented as much. Pride month should be a thing definitely but what about all the other issues?

@@eshalk14 agreed, an example being war. They get a minute. I don’t think it’s fair

@@eshalk14 I agree with you 100% there are so many issues that members of the community face and problems within our own community that deserve to be addressed!! But when highlighting WHY we have a pridemonth to non-members I think understanding that we can be literally murdered adds so much gravity. When I wrote my comment I was just baffled that this happens that this actually happens to people just for being themselves and its a looming threat all of us have to deal with. It's still a human life that was taken away and its just another important reason why we celebrate LGBTQ+ lives every June not the sole reason!!

@@marshy287 Yeah it’s horrible

@@kozumekenma4449 its a common misconception but veterans have 2 months if i remember right

I think they were gay too. They found two used condoms at the house of the killers.

I think she is bisexual herself so yeah

@@khadija8470 yeah Eleanor is

periodttt

You do realize that this was an overwhelmingly black school and the black community in the US is extremely homophobic. The boy they told Kedarie liked was afraid he would be called gay and bullied next.

@@phangirlable that seriously doesn’t excuse punching someone in the face tho?

@@phangirlable and...? This is no reason nor an excuse.

@@christinas.-b.3820 It is a reason (this is literally what reason means). lol It's no excuse but the extreme homophobia and transphobia in the black community that sometimes turns deadly needs to be addressed.

😂😂🤡

Ignore the first comment, 🏳️‍⚧️ I hope you are doing well 😊

Same for me. I live in the middle of nowhere, just scraping the Bible Belt.

Solidarity to all my lgbt siblings ✊🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️