Body Language Analyst Reacts: 2023 Grammy Awards (Ben Affleck & J-Lo, Kim Petras, Sam Smith & more)

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What Is Happening with Ben Affleck and J-Lo? What was Kim Petras thinking during her acceptance speech, why was Sam Smith annoyed with the audience and how did Harry Styles melt everyone's heart with kindness? Find out now!
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Study on The Universal Display of Pride:
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Study on Widening the eyes during Fear/Surprise
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TIMESTAMPS
01:48 Kim Petras and Surprise
10:50 Sam Smith and Disappointment
19:47 Beyoncé and Humility
29:35 What is Happening with J-Lo and Ben Affleck
33:30 Harry Styles and Kindness
38:55 Master Profiling Technique
#bodylanguage #behavioralpsychology #psychology #analysis #grammys #jlo #benaffleck #jenniferlopez #samsmith #harrystyles #kimpetras #beyonce #liedetection #howtoreadbodylanguage #thebehavioralarts

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@justamom3 Жыл бұрын

Your interpretation of Kim's comment is great. Kim is German and they structure their sentences differently, my grandmother and mother's first language is German so I was used to it. She realized when she was saying it she was translating incorrectly and tried to correct but then figured everyone gets the point. Loved the video.

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Ahhh. That makes perfect sense. Ok, I’m locking in option #3 then. So glad you commented 😊

@mammo7647 Жыл бұрын

I love to listen to people who speak different languages, every language seems to hold a microcosm of culture and attitude, and it’s seems a bigger reveal how they translate to the separate language. ❤

@dorisbanana3467 Жыл бұрын

Agreed! As a native German speaker, this literally translates to how you’d say that phrase in German

@katfromthekong414 Жыл бұрын

I am German and live in an English speaking country and I can confirm this too. When I switch between languages it's easy to get the sentence structure wrong or use weird phrasing that only works in the other language.

@vatrafeutanduk6627 Жыл бұрын

Understandable I took German class and see the I interpretation. Also I would love to see how passed off he would be as well reacting to how Steven Avery nephew was gaslighted by police and dectives honestly I think he may need to get involved in this case becuase this is that bad. There's a documentary called making a murderer and I Know there innocent.

@hammock_full_of_rats Жыл бұрын

I studied psychology and went on to a masters in clinical mental health, but people exhaust me, and I ended up in animal behaviorism working with birds 😅 you satisfy that psychology hole in my heart thank you so much! I may not be practicing with humans, but I appreciate this so much!

@emptythoughts3060 Жыл бұрын

I love animals… wish i could work with them instead of humans. 😢

@gulturgut798 Жыл бұрын

Hey, I also study psychology and am thinking about jobs later. What do you do with the birds?

@amjo4545 Жыл бұрын

That’s cute. And true. Ppl exhaust me too. I was taking psych and abnormal psych. To figure myself out. But had to drop out. Trying to get grant to go back. But that made me laugh.

@cazziecol Жыл бұрын

The more I learn about Harry Styles, I see a really kind and loving person. You're totally correct. In an interview, he said how his mum is a special person who doesn't have a bad word for anyone. I think she did a great job of bringing up her son

@emptythoughts3060 Жыл бұрын

I dont know much of him, but so far what I’ve seen, he seems like a classy guy who is for a change kind!

@isaiahduran3567 Жыл бұрын

Didn't he sleep with a married woman that he worked with in a film? Seems like a great person!

@michellemcculloch Жыл бұрын

@@isaiahduran3567 I agree.

@kimfinnagan5809 Жыл бұрын

I love your honesty in your analysis-Not looking for the most salacious opinion. And your positive attitude. 😊

@silenceisgold758 Жыл бұрын

You like your favourite celebs praised and put in neautral zone and not trashed or better-EXPOSED. You just like positive being said and not truth.

@stacyr3743 Жыл бұрын

Yelling at people to give a standing ovation is the equivalent of demanding an apology. Even if you get compliance, it becomes a completely meaningless gesture.

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

I agree.

@B__746 Жыл бұрын

Yep super tacky.

@DPBida Жыл бұрын

Dude is pulling his best PC Principal getting pissed at Brett Favre for not clapping enough

@Jwlz29 Жыл бұрын

Demanding your acceptance. It’s still a no from me.

@franciet99 Жыл бұрын

I got from Sam wanting them to give a standing ovation to Kim was the thought ‘can’t you see how wonderful she is?’ then a flash of disappointment that the audience couldn’t support Kim as Sam thought she should be supported.

@ellenlove7065 Жыл бұрын

I am a Great-Grandma, I’ve enjoyed 79yrs of life’s experiences and have loved every day. I have enjoyed your videos for some time but this one has been the best. I loved Harry Styles and his music for some time. I’m sure I’ll never get to know him or any of his friends; but you confirmed my opinion of him with your expert opinion. Thank you and thank you for all you share. Don’t stop!!! Ellen Love

@mandyinseattle Жыл бұрын

33:50 That's so beautiful that Harry styles shared that moment with his fan and almost bowed down to her. She'll never forget the moment

@giselahilgers4250 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this great analysis, as always. I want to add my observation to Harry Styles, who obviously was not feeling 100% well that night, who had that huge problem with the platform turning the wrong direction during the performance, and had to hear ppl shout Beyoncé should have deserved his Grammy. My impression was, that with all these different emotions going on inside him, there could not have been a better person than this beautiful superfan lady to give him the Grammy. This was such a warm, granny-like unbiased safe hug that was so good for Harry as well. There was as much receiving for himself as giving to her imo. It was my moment of the Grammys.

@barbarageorge7848 Жыл бұрын

I loved the super fan awarding him the Grammy!! Not sure who was more excited!! ❤

@kittmarie8285 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@judytinker3392 Жыл бұрын

Why people try to humiliate a celebrity like Taylor Swift and Harry Styles? It’s so bad!!!

@wendydaros5676 Жыл бұрын

J-Lo and Ben’s interaction could be me and my husband any given day! LOL Joking and teasing…I feel like he said something like “I should go interrupt Trevor’s bit.” And she gave him the “Don’t You Dare! You Behave!” and then Ben straightens up with feigned confusion about “Geez, what’s so wrong with my idea?” 😄

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Hahaha that pretty much sums up the vibe 😆

@amandawoods847 Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts first thought he says "going to bathroom", and her super swift response is "No, wait a sec". Couldnt have him leave her side, especially when nearby cameras, and closeups being actioned. Just a thought for those particular reactions. Really enjoy all your broadcasts, many thanks.

@kittmarie8285 Жыл бұрын

Haha! The way he was eyeing Trevor, i think you are right on! :)

@TheCriminalViolin Жыл бұрын

@@thedepthsofrepair I would've done it anyway, whether it pisses off my spouse or not haha. That's actually a brilliant idea!

@mrs.h2725 Жыл бұрын

I’ve only heard negative things about JLo with ppl’s interactions with her, but my lasting impression from her was a lil doc she had on VH1 or MTV back in the day about her fashion line. She basically said that she could care less about animals suffering for the fur industry and she’d continue to use fur unapologetically. She was showing her real self, and her real self is gutter trash.

@nursenicole222 Жыл бұрын

When I saw J-Lo and Ben Afflecks interchange it completely reminded me of when a husband says something he thinks is funny and she thinks is inappropriate and she had a motherly reaction to keep him from taking it any further. IMO innocent and normal.

@girlietwirlie754 Жыл бұрын

That's what I saw too cus my husband says Lil jokes to me sometimes during serious events and I have that reaction lol

@phillipgalan660 Жыл бұрын

Motherly? LOL

@SuperAnnaspanna Жыл бұрын

I think he was being completely inappropriate, from her reaction and then his reaction to her. Either way, normal stuff 😂

@southerncross5360 Жыл бұрын

I don't know how anyone in the audience could keep their body language in check. The last few years have proven to be hideous, most don't even watch it at home. Idk but if I'm Ben I'd want to get the hell out of there. Can't imagine this is his cup of tea, the same can be said for the majority of people who saw it as trash.

@lynettenelson3701 Жыл бұрын

That's my thought too 😁

@rachyface618 Жыл бұрын

This is one of my favorite videos, not only for the education, but also for the displays of kindness. 💜

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Thanks 🥹 🤗

@DreamingCatStudio Жыл бұрын

I didn’t watch the Grammies; your analysis was so interesting and insightful. I love how sweet, respectful and appreciative you are toward them all. Loved hearing about your profiling and yes please! More about that.

@Ballerina11AA Жыл бұрын

I love how honest, open and real you are. You’re not trying to appease these celebrities or subjects of the videos or anyone. You just seem truthful and straightforward😊

@helenperez9828 Жыл бұрын

Ballerina11 AA you are absolutely correct 100%! I have been wanting to comment this exactly, not just this but several before. But I always get distracted by the video content for that day. 😊 idk if that makes sense but yeah!! Best comment!

@Ballerina11AA Жыл бұрын

@@helenperez9828 Yes! Sometimes it's so hard to find honest people these days...especially online.

@Ballerina11AA Жыл бұрын

@@helenperez9828 and thank you!

@susandebruin8648 Жыл бұрын

As an English second language speaker, here is my opinion: With Kim, when she uhhs, she is German and would feel all the emotions & communication in her head in German when she tried to speak English. Also, when she speaks, she needs to translate everything in her head into English. When I am emotional, my English grammar is incorrect and although I am fluent in English, I struggle to speak English which make me feel insecure in my competency in English as everything inside me screams in my home language.

@mermaiddiyartist8119 Жыл бұрын

That makes sense ❤. Just know you’re amazing ! The fact that you speak a couple languages is amazing in itself.

@ActionCat2000 Жыл бұрын

I could DEFINITELY see this in Bad Bunny's acceptance speech. He tried for English, but you could basically see him just mentally throw up his hands, and Spanish just poured out. I don't blame him, either! When you know exactly what you want to express, it's best to use a language in which you can.

@Evanthebat15 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you, English is my second language, Spanish is my first and when I am very excited/ frustrated or anything emotional my mind is trying really hard to translate not only the words but grammar which leads to me either freezing up or having like a word salad due to them being complete opposite and my mind is getting overwhelmed like "Shoot, I messed up, ah just forget it." That flight or fight response hits.

@tiffanymichaels2429 Жыл бұрын

I've heard people call their native language as the language of their heart.

@trenttaylor6382 Жыл бұрын

Pausing at 44:11 - and I’m gonna guess that Harry is more than likely the type of person that collects moments & experiences based on his mannerisms, the way he holds the award back and away and focuses more on the feelings and emotions of the experience and people around him. Am I right? I’ll continue watching now …

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Woohoo!!!! 🎯 🥇 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

@satanxkxtten Жыл бұрын

Harry Styles is such a sweetheart. That was the most genuine moment I've ever seen! I wonder how he stays so humble after so many years of fame? Thanks for the awesome analysis, Spidey! ❤️ Edit: After watching a bit longer, I think he stays so humble because he doesn't collect people or objects/things. He collects moments and experiences, which keeps him humble while he lives a life around rich things and popular people!

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Yep. Great point. People who live for moments and experiences tend to have an innate humility and subtlety to them

@Nyalloyd Жыл бұрын

Socionics talks about filling time with events as being a dynamic trait vs filling space with objects as static trait.

@JoniDiMaggio Жыл бұрын

I'll never forget his first time on TV when he auditioned for X-Factor. Simon asked him why he was there. Harry said his mum thinks he's a good singer. Simon said all moms say that and Harry said I know that's why I'm here so you can tell me if it's true!! He was so cute and charming even back then.

@billej-m3659 Жыл бұрын

I think this too

@wendyshapard1883 Жыл бұрын

The profiling information was super interesting. I was literally in a meeting yesterday where the fact that we both collect knowledge and information helped me move the discussion forward. I did it instinctively, but Spidey helped me see why it worked.

@natalieclark5819 Жыл бұрын

I follow a couple behavior channels, and Spidey is the only one who includes data from studies that included people who have been blind since birth. Excellent info!

@basking_in_it Жыл бұрын

Ben Affleck's look about being at the Grammy Awards would probably be my own look, having to be there. There's nothing wrong with not having the same taste in music and not wanting to be in a room full of people much younger than yourself, and I have the feeling, that's where Ben's head is at. He's there because he's doing the "husbandy" thing to do, being there with his wife. But does he *want* to be there? I highly doubt it...and I can't blame him. I'd be waiting for the night to end, as well. 😁

@deannalassiter2088 Жыл бұрын

Except you must have missed it when she quietly chastised him

@charisma-hornum-fries Жыл бұрын

Pretty arrogant and conceded. It's one of her most important nights of the year business wise and he acts like a toddler without his toys. It's making them look bad. (Her reaction too by the way)

@jasonhartless3797 Жыл бұрын

It's really difficult to pretend to be happy when you're not.

@derekhunter5040 Жыл бұрын

@@charisma-hornum-fries "Pretty arrogant and conceded." Umm... It's Ben Afleck, what else would you expect?

@derekhunter5040 Жыл бұрын

@@charisma-hornum-fries also to concede is to acknowledge or give in, he's actually conceited.

@kathrynregier_kind1maui Жыл бұрын

I really loved this one Spidey! It’s Saturday morning here in Maui and this uplifting and entertaining analysis was a great way to start the day. I appreciate the way you use your own gestures illustrators and facial expressions to emphasize and explain. The list of written options combined with added pictures and your very expressive and engaging personality makes learning so much easier and fun. Mahalo!🌺

@joanneblack7697 Жыл бұрын

No matter what's going on ... positive or negative ... we love the way you tell it Spidey! And we love you! 💓

@jomangeee9180 Жыл бұрын

yup, but too much repetition and ridiculously long videos, just unsubbed

@AikoFox Жыл бұрын

This isn't an airport. No need to announce departures🤫👋🏽

@jomangeee9180 Жыл бұрын

@@AikoFox lmaol go find a safe space !

@AikoFox Жыл бұрын

@@jomangeee9180 😂 Its not that deep. Try to have a good day and touch some grass honey.

@jomangeee9180 Жыл бұрын

@@AikoFox I will u 2

@BluEyed.Alicat Жыл бұрын

LOL your examples that you act out are so on point. They make me laugh and help me understand! Thanks for all you do. You alone got me into body language, then I mentioned you to my dad and he said he knows you! He is a novice mentalist and advanced magician! You rock Spidey!

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Ooooo that’s awesome! He must be a huge hit at family events 😊

@BluEyed.Alicat Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts especially when I was a kid! ❤️❤️thanks for replying- so cool. Can’t wait for your next video 😊

@Aryannas-mama Жыл бұрын

I'm low-key obsessed with anything you cover, Spidey. Sometimes, we don't know what would be interesting to us, until you learn a little about it. Since finding your channel, my interest has peaked and can't get enough. Thanks for sharing your experience and being relatable

@staciannliveyourbestlife9461 Жыл бұрын

I would love to see you analyze the litigants on judge Judy, especially ones she accuses of lying or says she doesn’t believe them. 😊

@Whoamidontknow17707 Жыл бұрын

Great idea!

@smiley27b Жыл бұрын

I love that idea!

@Woolhelm Жыл бұрын

Me too, great idea 😃

@Soshi701 Жыл бұрын

Judge Judy is scripted.

@shoshanadepaz8321 Жыл бұрын

Yes I'd love to see that

@daytrippera Жыл бұрын

I would love to watch a video about what makes an actor give a believable performance regarding gestures and facial expressions (e.g. Al Pacino in the Godfather, Tom Cruise in a Few Good Men, Meryl Streep in The Devil Wears Prada, etc)...

@Digmer Жыл бұрын

Amy adams in everything she does xD

@shelleymusleh439 Жыл бұрын

Love this idea!

@Lizzypoohxo Жыл бұрын

I'd LOVE that. I've also always thought about what would be the difference between great acting and a genuine emotion. Some actors I'm sure put themselves in an emotion and have a genuine expression so would that affect how a specific actor's baseline is determined?

@xxyes8879 Жыл бұрын

I would love to see a video on that too, but it might be hard for spidey to do it on his own - might need to team up with a good actor

@MWah747 Жыл бұрын

Adam Sandler in "uncut geeems". He did a good job.

@katrinat.3032 Жыл бұрын

Spidey, for the first singer in the red dress, when she had the bilateral arm shrug where the elbows came out, I felt that it represented making a space and stepping into it. In other words, she said “ my mom believed me that I was a girl “, and she had a moment of relief in saying that (a mental/emotional process to say that), then the elbows was to make space. Her confidence rose and her elbows made space and walked into what is her current self. All in a split second.

@Mirandajane84 Жыл бұрын

People yelling at Harry like he gave the award to himself…it was so sad. I understand wanting Beyoncé to win but it wasn’t Harry’s fault that she didn’t.

@CoffeewithCarey Жыл бұрын

Also love your line readings! When you imagine and state the possible inner dialogue and act it out with the body language and facial expression - Fabulous and such a value!

@apocketfulofprose Жыл бұрын

With Kim’s arm gesture: I don’t really think this is what it is in this situation, but sometimes if I’m wearing a dress or top that is a bit uncomfortable I will move my arms in that way to make a slight adjustment or make myself a bit more comfortable. I think because of how the gesture lines up with what she is saying it’s more likely to be one of the reasons you mentioned, but thought it’s worth noting that those fancy award dresses can be a bit uncomfortable, not breathable, or feel a bit unnatural so I might subconsciously look for a moment where I can adjust myself.

@skwerl81 Жыл бұрын

I was actually thinking along the same lines, but wondering if it was more about her not wanting to move her shoulders bc of the fit of the dress. Like, feeling like she's sort of vacuum sealed in her dress, so not wanting to mess up the way it's fitting on her... so just moving arms instead of shoulders. I hope that makes sense!

@TSquare7741 Жыл бұрын

And it seems likes Kim has a bit of difficulty walking in their shoes… 🤔

@O2life Жыл бұрын

I thought of that, too. Sometimes the shoulder straps are just a little loose and it feels like any sudden movements might make them slip right off. I'm definitely not going to be shoulder shrugging wearing that.

@mary-janereallynotsarah684 Жыл бұрын

@@skwerl81 vacuum sealed in her dress 😄 I love how u put that. Yeah that dress was super tight and she has the veil. Looks great but must be uncomfortable.

@garlicgalore Жыл бұрын

Love, love, love this video, Spidey- so fascinating and just a pleasure to learn things from your knowledge bank and fair-minded presentation. That Harry Stiles moment started out right also because Trevor Noah is an aware and generous man - taking almost an awkward amount of time stop, cross over a bunch of people, and include the fan/guest in the presentation. I loved that, too. I've got to say, being able to do these spontaneous things at such a huge venue also takes a secure sense of self because it's going off script for what's "supposed" to happen. Loved seeing all the people you showed here. (Re J-Lo and Ben, it must really stink to be having a glitchy day when you're famous!)

@barbaraclair7494 Жыл бұрын

That was a class move by Trevor!

@rebirthoftragedy Жыл бұрын

His best video, for sure.

@shawnalrea Жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed the profiling information and would love more! Thank you for this video. I really appreciate how you share your wisdom and insight with kindness, compassion, and a fun spirit instead of using it to cut people down and be critical. I always feel uplifted after watching you.

@cerisewilson4428 Жыл бұрын

Harry’s manager, Tommy Bruce, has been a part of my extended family since he was about 10 years old. According to Tommy, Harry is a really nice person and that is clearly reflected here.

@raqraqwolf Жыл бұрын

❤

@Stellarchild Жыл бұрын

Wow Spidey. This one was such a pleasure to watch. And it helped shine some light on a part of my personality that I had denied myself for a long time : I collect moments and experiences. It’s just who I am. Going through a difficult break up right now, from my best relationship ever, but the wind has changed and life takes me elsewhere. Takes me inward. Thank you for making this very positive video on such a sunny day. Bisoux from Montreal.

@nostalji75 Жыл бұрын

I wouldve placed Harry Styles into the "people collector" group. Sure he enjoyed the experience and wants to take it in, but his focus was imidiantly on the people around him. The way he engaged with that lady and the other nominies made me think shareing this moment with them was his top priority.

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Yeah that’s great reasoning and the truth is if you communicated with him with that in mind it would be quite successful. Like I said a lot of people have two collections and he can very well be experiences and people. The vibe checks out 100%

@nostalji75 Жыл бұрын

@@TheBehavioralArts Thank you for your affirmation! I see myself mostly in the second category: collector of "knowledge and information", so naturally I love your systeme and this channel in general. Super insightful as always

@maugoddess Жыл бұрын

You're interesting, engaging, kind and I love your content! I was super excited about the profiling, even got out my notebook to write it down... would love to see more 🙏

@LawNerdAmber Жыл бұрын

So much support from this consumer! What a fun and positive video! Thank you Spidey for bringing some joy into this week

@angel_d99 Жыл бұрын

8:33 wow! That was really beautiful... I noticed he was waiting for her but then everything else... Wow, how genuinely gracious and thoughtful.

@Andreacosta448 Жыл бұрын

Loved the analysis on Harry, he really is an extremely kind soul❤️

@LoveFitsAll Жыл бұрын

I read that as sold out. Yes he's sold out

@Andreacosta448 Жыл бұрын

@@LoveFitsAll 😂😂

@LoveFitsAll Жыл бұрын

@Andrea Acosta good sport. He does seem nice tho

@bbsv13 Жыл бұрын

He literally spit on someone

@mariee.5912 Жыл бұрын

@@bbsv13 that wasn't true.

@Overthinker50 Жыл бұрын

Do you think when Harry was on the stage hugging the fan, that it was also an opportunity for him to take a moment with his back to the crowd, connect on a one to one basis with someone, to compose & ground himself, before going to make his speech?

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

Oooooo great call. Very possible

@noeliamartin1498 Жыл бұрын

I love your videos and the way you express your knowledge. You blew my mind with the collectors!!! Thank you so much Spidey 💖

@tiffanyhanson3701 Жыл бұрын

The more I learn about Harry Styles the more I find he is a super genuine and kind person, and a lot of people seem to feel the same way about him. Your analysis just reinforces my opinion !

@monicasolair321 Жыл бұрын

Spidey I really enjoy your break downs. I watch other body language channels but your content is very informative and insightful. Thank you! You’re very talented. ❤

@therockhub6020 Жыл бұрын

Yet another fantastic video. Thanks Spidey. I always watch your videos with fascination. I’m even slowly working my way through past videos that you posted before I found your channel. Today’s video was both fascinating and really sweet. I also hadn’t seen Harry Styles win and acceptance speech until I watched your video. I think seeing you talk about it like this heightened my appreciation for his moment and graciousness as well.

@ShiraP26 Жыл бұрын

Really loved this! Again, like your previous video, I really enjoyed you breaking down your own performances and techniques. I would love to see more about profiling and your own performances. Appreciated the lighter and happier analysis as well! Thanks Spidey!

@ethalinia Жыл бұрын

This is one of the most valuable channels I've ever come across. Your analyses are always spot on, you educate us in such an entertaining way, and this video in particular just made my day. I have never considered your content to be negative, but I do agree that the conscious focus on the positive energy is a breath of fresh air in a world that's so negatively oriented. Moreover, these artists are our role models and it's nice to realize that they're just wonderful people :).

@cabarnone Жыл бұрын

As someone’s who’s first language is not English, I think that your are right in saying her behavior is based on the fact that what she said will do. Often when I get things wrong, I do the same. I just realized some of this myself, with you pointing it out. Thanks!

@TheHartsa Жыл бұрын

I love Spidey's videos because I get it all the time that I find myself doing exactly what Spidey's pointing out. It increases trust to his analysis because there are many things that we can confirm that are from our own life.

@joekellycanfield6779 Жыл бұрын

Wow, I loved the profiling. I think it's fascinating! I would really enjoy learning more. Thanks for a fantastic job as always!

@kittycatmommy2364 Жыл бұрын

I love the way you analyze people and situations and I also love the way you show examples by your expressions which makes me understand the feeling behind what you are saying. I would love to sit down and have a conversation with you spend the day with you and then have you tell me what kind of person I am! LOL I can relate to a lot of things you say and I appreciate your videos so much. Sending love and hugs.... Linda

@burf90 Жыл бұрын

This was a really fun video. I love that you analyzed lots of people and reactions, not just one or two. That makes the event come alive in a completely different way. Thank you!

@ruthherring6035 Жыл бұрын

Spidey, I love how you focus so often on kindness. It says so much about you. Thank you for the tips at the end. I’m a moments and experiences person myself.

@Tasha22Bella Жыл бұрын

Another great analysis Spidey.. Thank you!!! I'm definitely learning, I'm finding it so much easier to spot things that used to take me a few relooks. Wishing you all the best on the travels and shows/conferences you have lined up.. Take care of yourself 🤗💛

@alexandernearing9663 Жыл бұрын

One of the best videos you have put forth. I particularly like that you interrupt your own dialogue to show the moments that you are talking about for reference. Much more engaging than having to jump back to review. Well done.

@rachellejones6254 Жыл бұрын

I really respect Sam for not saying anything and letting Kim take her moment. I think it’s a great way for people to show and give class.❤️

@mistybehaviours Жыл бұрын

Until he asked everyone to get up

@PostWokeWorld Жыл бұрын

I love this one, it’s one of my favorites. The positive focus and the Harry Styles interpretation made me smile. Thank you thank you. I learn so much from you. I’ve studied Meyers Briggs for years to the point I’m able to accurately(for the most part) choose which of the personality types a person is. I’m so excited to read the new book you mentioned. I’m also excited to learn the “collector model” you presented. you’re awesome and I appreciate you ❤

@TheBehavioralArts Жыл бұрын

You will LOVE 6 minute X-ray. I find it much more simple and applicable to every day life than Myers Briggs personally.

@bobbiefrederick3819 Жыл бұрын

Enjoyed this very much. Hoping you will be doing a Vanderpump Rules interpretation in future posts.

@mb-cee140 Жыл бұрын

I think this is my favorite of all your videos. LOVE the positive spin on body language analysis and the “collectors” analogy. Would love a deeper dive into how to use those insights to connect and communicate better with people in our lives. We need a Spidey Master Class!

@kirencja1 Жыл бұрын

Yay!! Grabbing a popcorn and ready for another insightful analysis 😁

@Whoamidontknow17707 Жыл бұрын

Please share, I’m all out of popcorn! Lol 😆😉

@leerichards2313 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate your love and appreciation of people! It is almost infectious. And I really appreciate your doing more human analysis. The BP are great at interviews and interrogations and we love them for that, but you share insights that are more 'people watching'. And it makes a good contrast. I'd love to see you, Rob, and Chase just watching random people and gossiping about their stories!

@neva_nyx Жыл бұрын

Full face cover: overwhelming awe. That's what the movement always says to me. Could be sadness, etc, but overwhelming awe on top.

@desireeschafer6873 11 ай бұрын

Love the profiling info added in here! Such a fun extra element to cover in your videos. I checked out the book 6 minute X-ray & it is 🔥!

@pollydavenport4776 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the info on collection at the end…loved it!

@caroliamurri3872 Жыл бұрын

Yowza! How informative Spidey!! Got Harry right with moments and experiences! I'm learning so much from you! 💖

@juliehuntington Жыл бұрын

I find everything you talk about so fascinating! I’m trying to absorb as much information from you as possible as I have a loved one who continuously lies to and manipulates me. Thank you so much for your content! Keep it coming!

@B30pt87 Жыл бұрын

I'm SO glad I subscribed to your channel. Every video I watch teaches me something that I am glad to know. I love that you're a good person & I respect your skills and what you do with them. Thanks!

@sandyfika2201 Жыл бұрын

Love your videos! Nice to see Chase Hughes get a shout out. He and the Behavior Panel are great. I find your analysis of people very much in line with what I learned from them. I really enjoy your stuff! Plus it's nice to see a Canadian in the field!

@Yogelaine Жыл бұрын

Affleck is a big baby child. He can't stand putting her first.

@thomasrios3913 Жыл бұрын

It’s not that I loved the profiling information at the end but I actually found it to be some of the most useful Information you’ve shared and I’m already thinking about people in my life and what they collect. Also seeing it applied in your performance was incredible. Interrogators don’t get that validation because they keep what they see to themselves. It’s crazy that you present the profile and get that confirmation that you nailed it. Wow wow wow

@PaulWallis Жыл бұрын

Brilliant. Your analysis really helped me enjoy these moments at the Grammies. You're a pro, and so gracious. Thank you!

@nikkib8811 Жыл бұрын

I didn't think I'd enjoy this as much as your other videos as I'm not that interested in the rich and famous. However, I enjoyed it immensely and learned such a lot. You showed that they are people, with responses, joys and heartaches like all of us. Thankyou for showing the universality of body language and how much we all have in common, famous or not.

@alyssaheller7860 Жыл бұрын

I love you doing this Spidey! Love focusing on happy moments to see very genuine and natural/normal behaviors etc. Sam Smith seemed like such the gentleperson for being that way toward kim. Letting her have her moment. Sam really comes off as considerate, kind, conscientious, respectful, loving, gentle, gracious, and so many good things. I like this moment specifically top, because I think it is really revealing about who is truly is.

@susanlovendahl9803 Жыл бұрын

I loved this episode. You blow me away with your analysis. The way you explain things. Sheesh! I think you were spot on discussing people in this situation. I am a Harry Styles fan. It was the first thing I noticed when he won. (Real time) As an older woman that loves Harry I really related to his graciously giving the spotlight to her. I do love Harry's music, but more than that his interactions with people and experiences. Thank you for what you do

@MikkIsUnTameable Жыл бұрын

LOVE the profiling lesson/tips at the end!! Would love lots more of that kind of content! It added so much, in context with the content that’s already amazing. Thanks, Spidey! 🙏

@mikhailb5645 Жыл бұрын

Profiling sounds so super interesting! The whole collectors theory is fascinating! You yourself, Spidey, seem to be a mix of collector of things and experiences, based on what I've noticed. I am eager to hear more!

@svittalk6037 Жыл бұрын

Here within an hour. Thank you for all the awesome content! Body language analysis is so much fun 😊

@raqraqwolf Жыл бұрын

❤

@natalieclark5819 Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh, I love this concept of grouping types of collectors! Understanding more about this could be so helpful in lots of ways!

@beckycastleton1343 Жыл бұрын

This was amazing!! I always so appreciate your analysis and learning more about the many things you share. I found the profiling extremely fascinating and would love to better understand how to tell which type of a collector each person is.

@noise6869 Жыл бұрын

I always enjoy every video of yours sooo much! It's amazing how 46 mins go by, listening to your explanations about behaviour. Thank you so much 😊

@LanaAnneMD Жыл бұрын

Harry-moments/experiences; people!! Love this Spidey!!! I was sooo hoping you would do some of these types of +ve analyses!! AWESOME!!💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

@Ms.Delphine1204 Жыл бұрын

This was so good. I really love your analysis of Beyonce. It's spot on. She's expressed before that she has social anxiety and doesn't like being the center of attention unless when she is performing.

@ms.lyonsabroad4212 Жыл бұрын

This was really fun! I really enjoy learning from your videos😊 I would love to see more on profiling. I work in a really diverse profession, and I think this could help me understand people better in order to promote the best interactions with them!

@melindap44444 Жыл бұрын

Great analysis as always Spidey! Love your reviews just wholesome and transparent. TY 4 your information. Always welcome

@kirencja1 Жыл бұрын

It's very interesting what you said about the mouth blocking during experiencing the emotions. I think the most common sign of it we can see on all the proposal videos where so many usually girls cover their mouth and I think it also may show their insecurities, like maybe my teeth aren't 100% what I'd like them to be, maybe my mom was telling me all my life to cover my mouth or not keep them opened, maybe I am insecure about my facial expression when I am showing that shock, or simply I am not sur eif my lipstick hasn't bled on my teeth. Food for thought eh?

@yourcommentmakesmecomment.3423 Жыл бұрын

Totally agree! I always cover my mouth when I'm laughing in public because I hate my teeth. I don't want to do it and it's very deliberate. I also stop myself from giving a big bright smile and that often makes me look like I'm smirking. I hate it but I'm still not prepared to show my crooked front teeth. It sucks and I'm not blocking my '' true feelings'' about a person or situation, except maybe my self hate lol.

@MsLaurjean Жыл бұрын

Me too!

@musicismagic3001 Жыл бұрын

I couldn’t help myself from sharing these wonderful lyrics that have always been precious to me. “I can't remember all the times I tried to tell my myself To hold on to these moments as they pass” Adam Duritz and Counting Crows

@TheSmilingWeb Жыл бұрын

Waw! This was incredible Spidey, as always! I'd love to have more content about profiling, it's so intersting. I'm definitely a collector of moments and experiences and and my boyfriend of knowledge. I often tried to make him want to do more and he's always surprised that I don't necessarily want to know more. Now it's clear! It's gonna change so much about our own perspectives. I love that! Thank you!!

@thalitahiebert2994 Жыл бұрын

I would 100% love to learn more about profiling!! I never miss your videos, Spidey. They’re one of the highlights of my week🤩

@tracylavigne6182 Жыл бұрын

You are great at this! Thanks for the valuable learning

@aussiejubes Жыл бұрын

I definitely reckon Ben Affleck took the opportunity to tease J Lo because his body language is the exact same as my dad's, who always pretended to be put out when he got told to stop lol. It's the exact reaction he's looking for. And then he pretends he's only just seen the camera & nothing is up. It's all exaggerated which tells me he's mucking around. Particularly because he knows he's a grumpy meme, & he really played that up all night lol. If you're sober at a drinking event, you have to make your own fun lol.

@marjoleinewelters1728 Жыл бұрын

Loveing this one! Its upbeat and a nice switch, with a great valuable end! Awesome peek behind the curtain there! Love 6mx indeed, this collecting idea is a nice add to the human needs map haha. Would be cool if you and chase did another little collab where you compare the profiling tools you both use in day to day life and just add on eachothers knowledge and have some fun with that 😄 Love your little gettogethers 😉

@marynugent2424 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the focus on positivity. I enjoy your show. 🌺If you have the time, I would enjoy knowing more about how to communicate with the 4 groups you mentioned. I think it would be helpful in communicating with clients, employees, co-workers & family members.🌺

@harmonydesroches Жыл бұрын

The seat filler from JLo & Ben's table posted a video. She said they were lovey dovey & cute all night. The moment you covered was actually JLo showing Ben that he was a meme again for his "I do not want to be here" expressions/vibe. I'm not a huge fan of either of them, but they do seem to be truly in love so I hope they last.

@shrutefarms4741 Жыл бұрын

All of it (awards shows/celebrity) is so stupid to me. Peacocking and patting themselves on the back is exhausting to watch.

@Ecerine Жыл бұрын

Yay another video from you! I love your videos

@erikaquiceno3852 Жыл бұрын

Love this video especially the info about what we collect. Thanks

@vickieliupakka2975 Жыл бұрын

I love your positive take on this video ❤

@nt3833 Жыл бұрын

That moment between Jen and Ben was really funny. I would love to know what he said 😂. Yes, please do videos on how you profile! That’s so interesting how you can pick up on things so early in meeting someone.

@heidistewart1108 Жыл бұрын

I’m pretty sure J-Lo is saying “don’t drink, don’t drink” & Ben replies “Relax”. His face is saying “I need a drink”, so it wouldn’t surprise me if that’s what he said to her! 😂

@Chicasueca79 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely LOVE everything about this analysis! Thank you for doing this on an event such as the Grammys, I've never seen an analysis like it and you are absolutely PHENOMENAL.

@kananiwolf256 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. Your sneak peek behind your show is fascinating ❣️

@laurenlaforest Жыл бұрын

I think it was a combination between hiding vulnerability, and trying to be polite. I believe Kim was really nervous because it was her first win, and it can be scary to stand in front of a huge audience. Love your analysis, Spidey!

@NicolaMaxwell Жыл бұрын

Oh I didn't know any of this was a thing😂 If it's a Spidey upload I'm here!🤗♥️ Thank you, love to you and family 🥰🐢🐍

@kib7406 Жыл бұрын

Your channel is one of my favorites. I'm interested in the subject matter but I love watching because of who you are. Thank you for being genuine, well-intentioned, fair and considerate, as well as open. No matter the subject, I come away from each video with renewed faith that there is kindness in this world. It's the same positive impression I get from Rob from Law & Lumber. You've got great taste in guests too :) Thank you.