At 36 years old

Learned this at 16 through listening to Dave. I was working in fast food but my family were draining me dry whilst they had nice cars and mortgages. So glad I learned then.

I was burned like that before at 19. One of my parents is a gambling addict.

Compulsive would be watering it down.

@@fonz-ys6xu I know the toll addicted parents take on their children. I’ve never seen my dad sober in my life. There’s a lot we then need to learn as adults to make up for the “education” we got at home. You sound like a strong person. God bless you.

😊... in our tradition, when someone start to behave out of character or start to do demiging things to himself or people around himself we ask... "Which devil has entered you?"

​@@lillysnet9345 nigerian??

😅hilarious

Flip it on them and start hitting them up for money before they even ask you. Tell them you're broke.

@@SerErryk 🤣🤣🤣

I just block them

Right, that's why I mentioned in my comment, "suitable work."

You should really get help with your anxiety it’s ganna hurt you in the long run 🏃‍♀️ good luck 🍀👍

Hi Jackie, hope you are well. My friend actually has social anxiety as well and it's not easy to be around people at all. Hope all goes well with you my friend

If only I did that, when I wanted to! But a precious lesson was learnt.

If I'm not mistaken, God gave your comment a "Thumbs up", just before I did.

God can't send messages.

​@@maxxedout2020sorry bud but that's not true

It sounds completely crazy. This whole clip blows my mind.

@@anthonybrown06 The whole clip is really stressful to listen to.

@@Austenfan177 , you'd be surprised at how many people tell me they can't work because they don't respond well to authority and have difficulty around other people.

@@Austenfan177 That sums it up

@@Austenfan177, I don't think anyone does. But, that's the beauty of old school parenting. It builds character so we're not always chasing the next best thing. Now, I get it. If things are absolutely unbearable, then yes, by all means, change it. But, also keep in mind there's no utopia. You have to make it your own.

One of the reasons I told my high schooler that he has to have a job this next school year. It's good to deal with the public, a boss, and co-workers. And making money is important too!

Same. I had CRIPPLING shyness and social anxiety before having my first job. Turned 17, started working and now I can walk into a room of strangers and strike up conversations with anyone. I also had trauma and emotional damage growing up like the girls in the video, but learned to adapt! There is hope for people like us lol. Now my problems don't rule me, because I have the will to fix them, and God has also helped so much.

This is so true. Same for me. Whatever happened to facing your fears? My 17 year old son would turn in applications but never go in or talk to anyone or follow up on the phone. So I put him in the car and drove him around to place after place. Sometimes they just need a push. He ended up getting a cash job for a stranger that he was so excited for.

Me too! Best thing 😊

I was extremely shy. But need forced me to push myself. I have an extra job interviewing people on the phone. I actually hate it, but what can I do, I need the money. I'm never going to be an extrovert, but I am a highly functioning introvert.

This generation is weak

Bro, this is insane right? They can work in Amazon they don’t need an Inter🤣🤣 now a days there are job when you literally don’t have to interview 🤣🤣 I know they won’t make 200k a year with an Amazon but at least they can eat without asking this couple

I'm shy too but I had no choice but to work. I can't imagine being so dependent on others. You could lose everything the second they gain the strength to tell you no.

😅

He’s right

Where is he going?!

@@sonalioberoi He is clearly introducing the other personalities into the Ramsey Show because he is over 60 years old. He can't continue to do this forever, and honestly at some point he has a life to live.

@@agjios ah gotcha, thanks. My first thought was whether he’d announced his retirement.

@@sonalioberoi he has said that he wants to always do the live shows as long as he can but he clearly takes a lot more time off these days and it's very rare that there's ever just a show with Dave only. The newest thing I saw was that for the first time some of the thumbnails where he's on the segment are the co-host not him. So it's just a gradual transition. Which I get. If it was just only Dave and then suddenly one day he wasn't there it would be really jarring and probably hard for a lot of people to want to watch the show at all. It also lets them see how different co-hosts do and how people respond to each.

He has a lot of experience in life, a lot of his wisdom comes from that too. Nobody can tell where the younger hosts will be in the future. We could be surprised!

You better PREACH!! I absolutely agree.

I understand. I'm like your wife but it's my parents. For whatever reason we feel guilty saying no. I'm going to get the book Dave recommended. Maybe try getting it and going over it with your wife.

Please let me do it if you don’t feel like it.

@@AmberCaprie I’m definitely buying the book. I may disagree with Dave from time to time but when it comes to digging yourself out of the mud it’s Dave’s words coming from my mouth to friends and family. His teachings got me out of the mud and once we started making traction and saving money boy were we blessed financially!

@Hershey - If she has cable, that’s the first thing she can dump to have more money. I’d make her cancel any unnecessary things that are taking her money before I’d help her.

@@hersheyskwertz9315 Yay. Fairly new listener here. He made me change my finances within 48 hours.

atleast their single

@@mikemcbeth3216 Problem is they did NOT want to be single.

I'm glad my wife makes my son do chores at least. The school doesn't even give him homework. When I was in my early 20's just out of college, I had a BAD experience trying to teach disrespectful kids and I left the job. I was unemployed for seven months and living with my dad before working various jobs from being a tutor to working at a grain elevator. Eventually I got an accounting job, and went back to school for accounting. I'm really surprised my dad didn't push me more during that time I was unemployed. I think it was because he was just happy I was back home since my mom died a few years before, and he felt bad for me that I had such a bad teaching experience. I'm happy to say now that for the past 10 years or so the worst thing I've ever bummed off of my dad was an ice cream cone.

They don't need to move out to learn life skills. Many 20 year Olds at home with parents but they WORK and do CHORES so they can save money while learning independence and life skills, not freeload and complain. Living at home doesn't give an adult a pass to be a bum and this is on the parents RAISE YOUR KIDS RIGHT in the first place.

I think it makes more sense to kick them out to college..at least then they will ger use to being independent and by the time they graduate will more than likely not want to live at home anymore after having freedom from parenta rules...after i graduated frm college i got a job and moved into my own place many friends moved in with

That’s so sad and I bet it was exhausting and embarrassing. Sorry you had to go through that.

If you gave her money, it would have sped up her demise.

I am so sorry you experienced that in your life. You did the absolute right thing🙏🙏🙏

You did the right thing. The money would only have supported the addictions. I know the weight and guilt of your decision. It was the right decision. I pray God wraps you in his love and fills you with his grace. May the peace of the Lord be with you!

Very VERY few.

My brother had Down Syndrome (he died 23 years ago). He went to a special sheltered workshop. They gave him a laundry basket full of papers and his "job" was to transfer the papers to another laundry basket. The workers would then have him start all over again.

@@happydays1336 - surely they could've been more industrious with him?

Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

@@lennoxmutterick6434 However, if you do not have access to a professional like JUDITH ANN PEACE, quitting your job to focus on trading may not be the best approach. It is important to consider all options and seek guidance from reliable sources before making any major decisions. Consulting with an AI or using automated trading systems can also be helpful in managing investments while balancing other commitments

@@Lourd-Bab Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!

@@lennoxmutterick6434 Judith Ann peace is her name

Lookup with her name on the webpage.

Usually end up resenting the giver!

Hold on, we're going to send you a copy of Ken's new book from paycheck to purpose.

She always looks like she wants to say more than she does

It's sad when you must keep your joy and success secret

My Dad's side of the family didn't care whether my parents were doing well or not! It was all about them and they knew/know how to play my dad to get the $$ out of him. He still pulls crazy stunts behind my mother's back.

The other way is if you give someone money and then thry come back and ask for more, then you do it again...they now think you've got money! Also because there is no interest and no consequences for not paying it back, it's better than a bank. Word gets around the family that you gave money and now everyone is asking to help their "emergencies "

I'm picturing Ruth from Ozark but not as self-motivated.

That's how she has been able to keep doing this for so many years - always an excuse for everything.

My thoughts exactly. I don’t think anything is going to change.

They turned natural anxiety into a mental illness.

50 shades of gray!

So true!!! And they want you to feel bad for doing well!!!

Don't forget going inside of restaurants.

Love Your quote, travel agent for guilt trip!!!

@@front331what?!

Ikr? I hear "trauma" stories and think that's a walk in the park on a sunny, autumn day. 😂🤟

But people will use it to get what they want....Aren't you a Christian? So if you are you would be helping me!

Yep! I was born and raised in Cleveland and you are absolutely right!

or maybe you simply lack the comprehension to understand them. They were simple basic analogies. k

@@blackspiderman1887🙄

Another ramsey boomer tootin his horn and speaking for the Bible..apostles everywhere with their millions..just like the Pharisees 😆..

I’ve gone to interviews for practice without even wanting the job. I too was once a very shy 19 year old. Not anymore. 😬

I sweat 😓 every time I interview! Hate them but hey I need to do something 🙄

@@frankcardano4142 I'm going to try your method ! I'm horrible at interviewing. Hopefully it will help me find a job where I need to be!

@@meleenabradley3017 I only wish I applied it to dating. I hate dating.

@@frankcardano4142 I met my husband in a Ta Chi class . We were friends before we started dating. I knew he was the one for me.

They obviously don't want that.

There’s also this one thing in the Bible called “leave and cleave”. Also honor and respect your husband/wife.

@@toddseales8222 Some people think it's ok to just dump their parents when their parents get old and feeble and can't do for themselves anymore. If they really do need a nursing home, there is nothing wrong with that, but to just say "I don't want to take care of my parents when they are old and need my help" is a totally different thing yeah. I don't think that would be biblical honestly.

@@Sheryl777 no one is suggesting letting them starve.

@@janelleg597 I hate to say it, but I've seen too many people who just did not want to deal with their parents whatsoever (sadly) even if the parents had been fairly good parents to them. There is a lot of selfishness out there in the world even among people's kids. So yeah some of them would just let their parents flounder unfortunately.