Be honest: Would you allow an attractive nanny in your home?
@TheAlkebulanTrust3 жыл бұрын
Yes of course but attractiveness is in the eyes of the beholder
@toniaroyal70863 жыл бұрын
No!!! Actually no one at all never trust people around my children there were a select few that were allowed to be around my boys.
@Mrzcakesn63 жыл бұрын
Would he allow a fine muscular body building looking sexy fwine (fine wine) man to do the yard work and house maintenance? That's the question...🤣😂
@melissalitus88793 жыл бұрын
Nope, it's not because she's attractive. Nowadays, you can't trust people around your kids! Sorry no Nanny for me, idc if it's a male or female no one around my kids. Y'all see what's going on in the world
@LuzdoSol003 жыл бұрын
I am confused on that one. But i am capable to hire a model with cameras around the house to see his truth scale levels. 🤣🤣🤣😍🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@llthompson073 жыл бұрын
Poor Adrienne. Israel notices. Because of his age & experience, he’s smart enough to not show it.
@ms.hjohnson68203 жыл бұрын
The reason this is even a topic is because it’s happened to women who trusted their spouse enough to have attractive workers in their house! You can think you know him, but no one 100% knows anybody but themselves.
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@ZGwoo8883 жыл бұрын
Yes plus inviting them into your home can make it easily accessible for temptation
@ms.hjohnson68203 жыл бұрын
@@ZGwoo888 100%! & I do believe that people’s general emotional state changes seasonally depending upon what they’re experiencing in life. A partner could be in an insecure phase n suddenly the flirtation is a temporary band-aid where previously there was zero possibility.
@Msladyrae923 жыл бұрын
That part. I absolutely love A but she has to be a little more realistic . It isn't totally insane that Israel would cheat. Anything is possible
@isaacc78923 жыл бұрын
I love how even when she knows her opinion is not popular, Garcelle finds a way to make it understandable. She keeps it real and is not worried about being liked
@Msladyrae923 жыл бұрын
And loni will do the opposite. She will try and make her opinion the dominant opinion and doesn't want to ever agree to disagree
@BlackBerri833 жыл бұрын
Garcelle the only one keeping it real 😂
@therealfan44303 жыл бұрын
Yes I love her
@eccentricityxoxo53783 жыл бұрын
Yes always!
@sallyh66833 жыл бұрын
Seriously!!
@zey75763 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's not saying she doesn't trust her husband but it's also not good to tempt him. Like don't bring a beautiful woman in the house and leave her with your husband. Like seriously why is link and Adrienne not understand this. It is better to Safe then Sorry
@joliegeo82773 жыл бұрын
She really was the only one keeping it real
@ib23043 жыл бұрын
Most women aren't going to hire a nanny that's more attractive than them and honestly there's nothing wrong with that.
@Dtzeo5033 жыл бұрын
It goes the other way around with men too. There are insecure men out there.
@ib23043 жыл бұрын
@@Dtzeo503 I agree. Most men aren't going to want someone who looks like Brad Pitt to be their nanny either.
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
@@bsbgirl85 exactly.
@chrisgrace813 жыл бұрын
Massa silverback --who is that??
@omphilemoerane25693 жыл бұрын
@Nina Aden right. Imagine going through the effort of proposing, incurring debt for a wedding and home and kids only to throw it all away just cause someone looks good. I think men cheat cause they assume we will forgive and stay because otherwise it makes absolutely no sense at all why someone would take such a big risk.
@CoachLove3 жыл бұрын
She's intelligent. He wouldn't want a handsome man around, so why have a beautiful woman in the house with your spouse? Keep temptation away.
@Tressesbyjoanmary3 жыл бұрын
“Everyone that’s good looking isn’t necessarily attractive.”
@malaikapaul63153 жыл бұрын
That's why I like Garcelle answer She always keep it real. The rest just want to say what makes everyone happy And yet I know for sure either one of them won't recommend a beautiful woman around their man.
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They others are lying to appear more confident. Who cares. Take care of your marriage, your household and your family. Who cares about pride.
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
How long are women in this generation going to pretend they’re okay with stuff solely to not appear jealous at the expense of their marriage? It’s not wrong to purposefully decide not to hire a Barbie doll to help your husband resist temptation. And there’s nothing wrong with that. If your nanny is so beautiful that (in Adriennes words) you yourself notice as a straight woman, you are testing the limits with your man hiring them to be in your household. Don’t do it. How many more stories do you have to read about other people’s experiences, to realize that it’s probably not the best idea for your marriage to hire a gorgeous nanny who holds everything down except for the most stressful conversations that are mandatory in a marriage. You’re literally offering her up on a platter if you decide to pretend you don’t care. You’re MARRIED...you’re made the biggest commitment of your life. Why are you ashamed to admit that you don’t feel comfortable with your husband being around a woman that he probably fantasizes about - which is normal, but you’re inviting that into your home. People have urges. The more available the situation, the easier it is to do something. Fight for your marriage ladies, the way your man fought to put a ring on your finger. I don’t know about the rest of you, but if I’ve ever said a man was getting too friendly at work for example, my husband was not okay with it. WHICH IS NORMAL. If you don’t want a committed relationship then you need to say so before marriage. And that has absolutely nothing to do with being insecure and everything to do with the promise that was made to me upon proposal and the covenant we made between the two of us m before God. SMH. If you don’t believe in all that, then I guess this comment doesn’t apply to yoiU
@caylachristian56353 жыл бұрын
SO WELL SAID
@RawiyahSofyah3 жыл бұрын
Fantasy does lead to temptation sometimes, especially if they are in the home. Those that said they are so secure that they don't care are the first to jump at their husband's throats and file for divorce if the man so much as texted her or failed their overly high expectations.
@mbtilover35753 жыл бұрын
The women doesn’t even have to be a attractive there’s a clip from how I met your mother where they say after a period of time a man is around a woman if she’s his secretary or business partner or etc that he’s going to start finding her attractive. He may not do anything about it depending on the man but it’s like why put yourself in that situation. Very silly
@mbtilover35753 жыл бұрын
@@RawiyahSofyah yes fantasy leads to doing the real act all the time. People in committed relationships should not allow themselves to fantasize even about celebrities. Your mind is very powerful and your subconscious could one day lead you to the exact fantasy you keep picturing
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
@@mbtilover3575 see..exactly - this is even more unsettling. People need to be cautious about the situations they set up for their partners, unless they don’t want to be monogamous!!
@Akilarae3 жыл бұрын
Glad I don't have this problem I can't afford a nanny. I take care of my own kids and clean my own house like I'm sure most of us do!🙂
@itsQueMajor3 жыл бұрын
As a cleaning business owner, you’d be surprised how many don’t clean their own house. 😬
@dashiahunter58883 жыл бұрын
Some people work really long hours and sometimes don’t have the time or energy 🤷🏽♀️ Healthcare workers have been working around the clock this last year . Let’s not make people feel bad for not “cleaning their own home” 🤣
@spirituallyyoung52953 жыл бұрын
Right!
@246hatta3 жыл бұрын
You can't afford it. We can
@BrandyD17773 жыл бұрын
Even if I could, I don't want a nanny....they are my babies and they will know me. I can clean my own house & take care of my child(s). I don't care how she looks, I am secure yet if I ever chose to bring someone into help, he can look but if he plays, I will thank her for taking him off my hands.
@daniellalove1433 жыл бұрын
It’s sad us women feel like we have to do stuff like this.
@mrsx25963 жыл бұрын
As much as I understand where it all stems from It just very annoying really 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@veronica50802 жыл бұрын
Im gobsmacked sis.
@osazemenamu70343 жыл бұрын
I understand that if a man wants to cheat, then he’s gonna cheat but I feel like it’s different if you putting extra obstacles in his way and tempting him😂😂 They still human🤷🏽♀️
@HA4203___3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@FlwrPetalsOnVenus3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne would be the one who’d cheat with the j lo look alike 🤣🤣
@tessa41813 жыл бұрын
This is the funniest comment in the comment section
@Dtzeo5033 жыл бұрын
Yup Adrienne been giving us Bisexual vibes since revealing her dream about Tamara.
@MelissaOhh3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@Dtzeo503 Just so you know, thinking about a sexual encounter with someone of the same gender does not mean you are not straight.
@paigez76803 жыл бұрын
I don't get it. Something is fucked up in our society. There's some weird obsession or something when it comes to men and nannies or maids. I've been a nanny for a long time now, and I can't even count the number of times people think that I'm sleeping with the husband or he has made a pass on you. And I'm like absolutely not. Its a weird stereotype. I'm sick and tired of it. Its so wrong! I'm there, just like most nannies to help with the kids. Period.
@angelinasulejmani76883 жыл бұрын
Can I ask you if any of the husband's made a move on you ? If you don't want to share I understood .
@marianna123773 жыл бұрын
Because here it is the most common thing. And most common for wife's killing their husband.
@user-rp5gi6vo4c3 жыл бұрын
I’m a nanny too and I completely agree
@selinavalo3 жыл бұрын
Wow, ok 😳
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@angelinasulejmani7688 I would like to know as well.
@rafeenaabrahim433 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is such a liar. Her husband cheated on his previous wife so let's not take anything past anyone. Adrienne knows she wouldn't like it if a STRANGER not her friends or family who are attractive..would be around her husband especially when she's not there. Lol she fronting!!!!
@Sssssssslf3 жыл бұрын
right! glad I'm not the only one who saw straight through her! I don't know who she tryna kid!
@bookbag64323 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is not about men who want to cheat, it is about opportunity. I would not steal, However, if I saw someone drop stacks of cash on the street and no one was around, I may take it. Do not put yourself in a difficult situation for no reason. Only hire very old prude nannys who are super strict. Hell a nun would work too.
@lstarsabb3 жыл бұрын
Good point lol 😂😂😂
@TT.31233 жыл бұрын
This comment is everything!!!
@MaMgazi2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@kassandracastillo54223 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is really the only one who has the experience to talk about this subject. Yes of course a man who wants to cheat on you will cheat regardless and putting a beautiful possibility accessible woman is like playing with fire why even give them the opportunity? I trust my boo but why put a golden ticket in front of him? It’s also not being insecure it’s called being too naive. Let’s be real y’all.
@kassandracastillo54223 жыл бұрын
And also not saying every man is the same but why risk it?
@nysiahc3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@maryamk15353 жыл бұрын
Agree
@dayannetemblador97693 жыл бұрын
@Nina Aden THIS! thank you!!!! I see attractive men everyday but I don’t feel the need to cheat on my husband. If hiring someone attractive causes you to feel like your man will leave you then you never had him in the first place.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@Nina Aden Right!
@LMLification3 жыл бұрын
Nope, people are crazy. I do not need some strange person, man or woman, lurking around my home and getting too familiar and comfortable. I can clean, cook and handle my own errands.
@dhenderson3193 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s not even about attractive.. a dont want a male nanny period
@babydollers25863 жыл бұрын
Speak for Urself, not everybody wants to be u or is like u. Calm down, not that serious 🙄
@LMLification3 жыл бұрын
@@babydollers2586 I did speak for myself and said what I said. That is why this is MY comment. If anyone disagrees, they can keep scrolling along...Have a nice day. Bye.
@KhalilCabreraYMoreno3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is simple minded, Loni is unrealistic, Garcelle is keep it real.
@ashleymya63953 жыл бұрын
Garcelle looks like a doll😍
@carriemtsh96483 жыл бұрын
Who would blame her after all the stories of the husbands that cheat with the nannies, sad thing is the good nannies are gonna find hard to find a job
@thrilla723 жыл бұрын
It's more to do with the fact that nanny is the one taking care of the children. Probably very feminine. It's attractive.
@elim87923 жыл бұрын
@@thrilla72 ok?...it’s cheating regardless😭😭
@thrilla723 жыл бұрын
@@elim8792 I didn't say it wasn't.
@Icey86823 жыл бұрын
Garcelle the only real one on this panel. You can be in the most secure relationship ever, you don’t bring temptation into your own
@mbtilover35753 жыл бұрын
Exactly! this is like saying that if you stop sleeping with your husband that because he’s a a honest and committed man there won’t be a temptation for him to cheat.
@JasmineJones-wh1tv3 жыл бұрын
2 words: Arnold Schwarzenegger. Her looks are irrelevant.
@ajemroberts39033 жыл бұрын
Big point!
@Goldniz3 жыл бұрын
She wasn’t ugly she was an average woman
@KickinitMary3 жыл бұрын
The comment I was looking for. Exactly! Lol
@sofiarodriguez67683 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! I was thinking the exact same thing. Famous men have cheated on some of the most beautiful women(beyonce, jlo etc) with average at best women. it really isnt about looks but rather about the thrill or the sneaking that gets them off.
@mstwelvedeadlycyns3 жыл бұрын
@@Goldniz Yes she was
@donnadaniel30803 жыл бұрын
Everyone is pretty in their own way. Clean your own house. How about a man to clean with muscles?
@annatar64533 жыл бұрын
If a man has muscles, he goes to the gym. If a man goes to the gym, he has money. If a man has money he ain’t gonna clean anyone’s house.
@donnadaniel30803 жыл бұрын
@@annatar6453 you never know remember there was a celebrity who had a manny and he was packing.
@donnadaniel30803 жыл бұрын
@## who hires a woman to take care of their children? Or a stranger?
@ocean88863 жыл бұрын
@@donnadaniel3080 why u triggered? I’m a father and even I wouldn’t hire a maIe to care for my daughter. Tisha Campbell was rped when she was 3 by her maIe baby sitter.
@Geo-is1cu3 жыл бұрын
@## aren’t u a woman? Why u simping for men
@Goldniz3 жыл бұрын
People need to understand it’s not about the looks it’s about the behavior and the attitude. Maybe we need to stop treating men like kids in a candy shop. Some men get hit on but never act on it and they will tell their wife because they are just honest and they value their marriage.
@miriammwaibula3 жыл бұрын
Damnn I don’t think i will ever have that amount of confidence and faith for a man the way Adrianne does for her husband. I ain’t hiring no JLo look alike nanny around my house
@Msladyrae923 жыл бұрын
It's beautiful yet cringe because he has been unfaithful before. Routing for them for sure.
@veronica50802 жыл бұрын
But heres. The thing sis, if you dont have faith and trust in men, why fucking marry them then?!!
@miriammwaibula2 жыл бұрын
@@veronica5080 I don’t trust anyone 100% i leave out a a certain percentage to protect myself from destruction. I can never say things about other people with that much assurance … I don’t even wish anyone to do so for me because we are all human and our hearts are bound to evolve or change.
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
I'm sure she was probably just kidding or joking around hopefully cause Mmmmm 😐lol
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne said how so? About the pool boy fantasy and kept talking 😭😭
@SallayMusic3 жыл бұрын
i thought i was the only that noticed that 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she said do tell and continued to talk 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she talks too much and interrupts people alot
@id33893 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is taking as if a wife is responsible of keeping “temptation” out of her husband’s life. AND HE CHEATED ANYWAY. That’s ineffective and antiquated. Nannies and maids are not there to be regarded as potential sexual objects. I completely agree with Ade and Loni. If he’s a real one, he won’t trip.
@babygirl49493 жыл бұрын
Yes but I think it would be a lot worse if he was cheating with the bitch that she paid to take care of her house. Yes cheating can happen but that don’t mean you gotta bring her to your damn doorstep. I’m sure it stings worse when it’s with the nanny.
@veronica50802 жыл бұрын
The b word? Really?
@Msladyrae923 жыл бұрын
Even if I trusted my husband . I believe in lessening the temptation. You are ASKING FOR TROUBLE by inviting temptation into the home. My mom always taught me that. I would def be curious in hearing a man's opinion on this. Women and men think so differently
@vkdeen75702 жыл бұрын
it depends very much on your relationship if its rocky or u don't have good intimacy I wouldn't risk it. but if ur a good woman/wife/gf with good chemistry with the guy and he's not a dick then it won't matter so much. perhaps the best way to explain it is an example. I run my own business and there are a lot of regular female customers. there was 1 in particular that 100% my type who literally used to come in 3-4 times a week and we chatted often at work..... had I been single I'd of been all over it. but I had a long time gf at the time. the reason I wasn't jumping at the temption is coz my gf was awesome. she'd send me suggestive texts/pics sometimes in the day and when I saw her after work she was also so excited to see me...made me feel super valued. we had a good relationship. if that relationship had been bad or she acted like she couldn't be arsed to see me or made me feel devalued or taken for granted or it was boring or we had a bad sex life etc etc then I would of likely taken up the temptation don't go out of your way to put temptation but at the same time if ur secure it won't matter.
@lilmakori3 жыл бұрын
That wife needs to work on her self esteem and maybe examine why she doesn't trust her husband to not stray
@jillianetuk51893 жыл бұрын
exactly
@lilmakori3 жыл бұрын
@Nina Aden you got the nail on the head
@christiansoldier773 жыл бұрын
LILIAN MAKORI You are supposed to keep your mate from temptation
@lilmakori3 жыл бұрын
@@christiansoldier77 my mate's supposed to be strong enough to resist temptation
@christiansoldier773 жыл бұрын
@@lilmakori Your car is supposed to be strong enough to withstand an impact from another too
@nsreen38073 жыл бұрын
I think garcell is right idc what anyone says
@Fridarida3 жыл бұрын
Same they are not being real!
@shivairas67173 жыл бұрын
@@Fridarida just because they have different opinions, doesn’t mean they are not keeping it real.
@Fridarida3 жыл бұрын
@@shivairas6717 lol i know I just didnt explain. what i mean to say is that I feel that most women would want to be the "star" in their home. but hey.
@jayekisses3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne REALLY needs to STOP talking over everyone! It’s so annoying because I’m trying to hear what the other person is saying but Adrienne is either cutting them off or talking louder over them that I can’t understand what anyone is saying. I get that there might be some technical difficulties or lagging in the ear pieces but I hope on the monitor she can see that some else is trying to talk. Plus u can tell that the ladies r getting frustrated when she does it to...I mean just look at Garcelle’s face when she was talking about her fantasy at the end
@Sandra-sr7ww3 жыл бұрын
Yeees! I was thinking the same thing!!
@charonleonard97223 жыл бұрын
She definitely talks over them especially during these topics. I think she’s grown up a bit because it’s interesting that she said “a man that wants to cheat on you will find a way to cheat on you regardless...” but if you go back to the video when Tamar was on the show and they all had this same conversation, she said most men cheat because their women are mean and not kind to them. (I’m paraphrasing) I’m glad she knows The Real now.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
This is from the beginning of the season. They have gotten a lot better at letting each other speak.
@kizzyhartsfield66603 жыл бұрын
There's a delay. They aren't in the same room. Just zip it
@caylachristian56353 жыл бұрын
It’s not always about someone having a natural wondering eye. Sometimes people who never thought they’d mess up get heavily tempted and fall. Anyone will cheat with anyone that’s true but if you’re with someone like that there’s already an issue. I think it’s more a question of the nanny’s professionalism and boundaries. But don’t always pin it on someone being a bad person. In your home is personal. You have the right to decide.
@nq65083 жыл бұрын
I hate the argument that men will sleep with anything. Not all men are the same. If the man isn't attracted to the Nanny, he's not going to fantasize about her. If she is pretty, you are making it more tempting for him. Next he will think she is sending him signals and then boom. Now you gotta find a new man and a Nanny. Its almost like taking your man to a strip club. If she looks like broomhilda, he's not going to pay attention to her.
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
Sure, not all men are the same, but they are not blind. They will definitely notice the hot nanny.
@CourtneyAverett3 жыл бұрын
I understand where that woman is coming from. However I agree, if a man wants to cheat he will. On top of that the person they cheat with doesn’t always have to be attractive.
@angelinasulejmani76883 жыл бұрын
Sometimes man don't cheat becouse they don't have opportunity and than you give him one . Attractive female and him in the house .Lol you can't be sure .Even those who never planed to cheat on their wife will do when they are too close to something.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@angelinasulejmani7688 There is always an opportunity to cheat.
@gabrielahernandez41603 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is so real!!!!! I love her so much. I love how she doesn’t pretend to be perfect, like the other girls sometimes do.
@shashavengesayi60553 жыл бұрын
If you worry about your man giving into temptation then why are you with him? As Adrienne said, if it ain’t the nanny it will be someone else
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
But why be the one instrumental in serving temptation on a platter for your own man? Men are visual by nature. If my man struggled with an addiction, would I bring the substance to him and be like “this is here in front of you and I’m bringing it to you so I don’t seem insecure, but don’t touch it though”?! Or would I do what’s in my power to make it a bit easier for him to do what he needs to do in OUR household? Ultimately the decision is his, but why would I test the waters lmao
@bonolomarumo75053 жыл бұрын
Temptations are natural and happen to any man no matter how great they may be. Personally I'd rather flee away from situations that could trigger possible temptations especially if I have the means to control it.
@dalidzucheredi24953 жыл бұрын
The babysitter also needs to be professional if she is very serious she will do her work only...I had one and her eyes were on her work.
@omphilemoerane25693 жыл бұрын
Some are looking for a come up. They pretend they're there to work meanwhile they're plotting to take your place cause they're jealous that your husband is taking care of you. I know someone with that experience.
@getoveryourself.75163 жыл бұрын
It really depends on the women and how she acts around your husband, as well as how your husband acts with other women. However I do agree that if it’s something you’re not used to then you don’t HAVE to confide if you don’t feel comfortable. Every relationship is different, so some will care and others won’t. It’s like parenting, you shouldn’t judge someone’s parenting so you shouldn’t judge someone’s relationship.
@angelinasulejmani76883 жыл бұрын
You can't really tell how someone will act unless they are really close to something . It's better to be safe than sorry.
@omphilemoerane25693 жыл бұрын
Exactly. My mom's friend had to let go of her kids' nanny cause she would do strange things like greet only her husband in the morning, ask him how he slept and then walk him to his car when he left for work. She never once mentioned the nanny's looks, just her inappropriate behaviour.
@snenhlanhlankutha13403 жыл бұрын
Adrienne needs to let them talk 😔
@carissasnyman28913 жыл бұрын
When did the real become the Adrienne show
@NileshR123 жыл бұрын
Tree Monsters get their freak on too 😂😂
@stacey.adrianne3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle: Would you hire a hot guy? Loni: Yes I would.. 😂😂😂
@RawiyahSofyah3 жыл бұрын
Completely fair. Men are human. Why tempt them? You think they don't have feelings? Why even have that in the house. It's common sense. Don't look for problems.
@MMM-id3dx3 жыл бұрын
as women we need to stop making excuses for men. We are all humans and have temptations everyday both men and women. It's all about having control, self respect and respect for your spouse.
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@zey75763 жыл бұрын
@@MMM-id3dx it's not an excuse. It's the same having an attractive man around your woman and leaving them alone. It's not about gender it's just about human temptation
@madilynandujar71553 жыл бұрын
@@MMM-id3dx factssss like I’m a woman and there have been times where I felt attracted to another man being in a relationship. Stop making excuses for cheating men, cuz I know there are A BUNCH of men that will NEVER cheat on their partner....it’s just the type of men the majority of women go after these days.. you want the bad ones and step on and ignore the good faithful ones.
@RawiyahSofyah3 жыл бұрын
Attractive is one thing yes they need to keep it in their pants but if the woman is half naked with juicy tatas bouncing up n down and he's trying to enjoy his peace in his home then he's only human and the babysitter needs to be dressed appropriately. Many an attractive woman is dressed appropriately and know how to be professional.
@kwynkaq3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne always overtalks when they talk about cheating 🤔
@galaxiebby98043 жыл бұрын
I really like the addition of Garcelle, especially now that she seems more comfortable.
@aquariangypsy88923 жыл бұрын
I dislike when Adrienne can’t respect someone else’s opinions and beliefs and can’t see past her own perspective.
@omphilemoerane25693 жыл бұрын
This particular topic is a sensitive one for her. She doesn't want to believe her husband could cheat on her the way he did on his ex wife😒
@HH-gv8mx3 жыл бұрын
I’m 100% with Garcelle on this one. No skinny little waist, tight buns, booty short wearing nannies in my house! No need to invite problems
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
I mean they don't always have to be skinny or thin tho I should say its just the principles not many nannies or people these days or skinny or thin as you mentioned as you might know thick and heavy are the new style these days
@nombulalicharitytile60553 жыл бұрын
People are forgetting Mildred the Maid 🤣
@yahainHotPink3 жыл бұрын
Loni's face about the blonde babysitter was funny. 😂😂😉😊
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
This has happened countless times. It’s an actual issue. It really is asking for trouble. They’ve been multiple stories of this. Gwen Stefanie comes to mind. Also what is Adrienne on about. She know she wouldn’t hire a hot housekeeper/nanny. Also, Israel has cheated before. His internal “constitutional” is questionable at best.
@britbritnicole3 жыл бұрын
What happen to self control and respect, it’s not always because the girl is “pretty” if he wants to cheat, he’s gonna do it regardless.
@thrilla723 жыл бұрын
It's got more to do with seeing a woman being nurturing and playful. It's attractive.
@thrilla723 жыл бұрын
@Nina Aden How is your point relevant to the discussion? Nobody said it was unattractive when the biological mother does it! Also, mothers do not do it for free. The father is supporting her and the children in some way.
@jaeesmichelle3 жыл бұрын
this is why it's harder to get any job if a woman is interviewing. what difference does it make if she's attractive? and if she thinks her maid is hideous, what makes her think her husband has the same opinion? that's ridiculous that women hold each other back because of insecurity. and it's also ridiculous to blame it on 'culture'. ALL the women in her culture have not been cheated on, that's a family curse if every woman in her family has been cheated on if the man has literally any access to an 'attractive' woman. that's not culture..
@MajesticMyronn3 жыл бұрын
If you need to go through all of that... maybe you shouldn’t have the person in your house ... why invite someone in your household that you don’t know for a fact u can trust , nor can u trust your husband while she is around... like that to me is more of an issue than having an attractive/ unattractive woman as a nanny! But idk that’s just me
@hollyshropshire64583 жыл бұрын
Awe I wanna hear Jeanine’s POV with J
@jyn883 жыл бұрын
I would assume that it would have been a no to attractive nannies because not long ago they did a topic on how much money would it take for you to let someone sleep with your man for one night and I believe she said no amount. She mentioned something about feeling better if the woman was ugly though. I think she was also against hall passes.
@babydollers25863 жыл бұрын
Why she don’t need help she ain’t got kids
@unnderneath3 жыл бұрын
What Adrienne said is so true! "Not everyone who's good looking is attractive".
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
I always what's the difference since good looking is good which= attraction looking but now I kind of understand it now
@toniaroyal70863 жыл бұрын
Just get an older person. Why tempt him.
@daniellalove1433 жыл бұрын
He could get tempted by an older lady lol
@toniaroyal70863 жыл бұрын
Possibly!🤷🏽♀️
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Exactly Thank you!!!🤦🏽♀exactly what I said lol
@Carlyon1003 жыл бұрын
Tree monsters or hot help is irrelevant, if a man gonna cheat he gonna cheat.
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
Thanks for keeping 100 Garcelle!
@mariaoviedo58813 жыл бұрын
"tree monsters R Us" that was so funny, can't believe the other two didn't laugh LOL
@thenameskayla61393 жыл бұрын
This is a weird stereotype. I was a nanny to a couple families for all my college years and I couldn't tell you how many people ask me if I'm sleeping with the husband or if he made a move on me. Maid/Nanny affairs are pretty rare, in my opinion. I was just trying to pay off some of my dept, nothing more lmao
@FA-dv5he3 жыл бұрын
I think it's beacuse you always hear about those celebrities cheating with the nanny. Lol
@tealeafs3824 Жыл бұрын
It is a weird stereotype indeed. I've heard more stories about husbands that had an affair with their sister in law, than with the nanny. I personally know two cases where the man married the sister in law. Your own blood betrays you, let alone your husband.
@talllensis3 жыл бұрын
Im here for Garcelles honesty LOOL
@TheSherrijunert3 жыл бұрын
Maria Shriver would probably disagree!! A cheater will cheat.😘
@NiasCutNDry3 жыл бұрын
Just because someone is Beautiful it does not mean they don't have standards. Preach it Loni!
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Mmmmmm
@kristinaharris96093 жыл бұрын
Its unfair for an unattractive woman not to get a job because of another woman's insecurities. This goes on all the time. I am an attractive woman and when i go to get a job its difficult. If the interviewer is an ugly woman or not as attractive as me, she is not hiring me but I have all the qualifications to get the job. But if I go to get a job and the interviewer is a woman and she is my equal or somewhat attractive as well, she will hire me. I always know which one will hire me and which one wont.
@teamlovepanda3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle: There will be no talking by such pool boy 🤣 we ain't there to talk 🤣🤣🤣💀
@kimberlygonzalez33843 жыл бұрын
How about leave the cheating husband n use the alimony payments to pay for the housekeeping 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ajemroberts39033 жыл бұрын
Lol Garcelle got Adrienne! Be real Adrienne, you are lying! What happened with Joseph and Potifers wife?! He had no intention of being with her but he ran! He didn’t sit and say I’m strong God fearing man and she can’t make me, HE RAN OUT NAKED! What does that say? He wouldn’t even take the risk, and this is the point and the real Adrienne. I trust my husband but I would NEVER bring fire into my home. You must be crazy. Not only that, I don’t know their intentions, act like you don’t know women out here. Lol @ pool boy Garcelle you were the realist in this conversation 🤣
@britbritnicole3 жыл бұрын
What’s that got to do with this?
@nokuYN3 жыл бұрын
You should trust husband if he thinks she is pretty so what its fact that he sees but should know not to every attractive woman he sees if he wanna cheat he's gonna cheat it don't matter of the person is pretty or not.
@ajemroberts39033 жыл бұрын
i think my explanation was very clear. Take care.
@norbertdelicieux14543 жыл бұрын
I can't believe they don't believe with garcell. I'm a man I would be tempted. I am sorry
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your honesty. Men are by nature very visual. If my husband had someone around that looked like a Victoria’s Secret model or something...I’d be dumb to think he wasn’t fantasizing about her lol. Especially in her element doing house chores and keeping our home well kept or whatever. Women are more into the personality and how someone makes them feel, but it is my understanding that men care a lot about physical attraction for the most part. Sooo yea, why would I knowingly tempt my husband? LOL and in my own home of all places. And also..He’s only ever going to see the very best version of her, because she’s there to help. She doesn’t have to talk to him about finances, the kids, or anything that would cause stress. Which makes her look even better. YEA, NO THANKS!
@kelseystramel53493 жыл бұрын
You should be honest, that would save so many women from heartache but then you shouldn't be married if you wouldn't be tempted. My husband wouldn't be tempted.
@elim87923 жыл бұрын
That’s your own problem that you need to work on🤷🏽♀️
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
@@elim8792 that’s how most straight men are wired, and this is a known fact since time 🤣
@norbertdelicieux14543 жыл бұрын
@@kelseystramel5349 ok let see if you see a 6'feet man well built and your man way over weight and nude I bet you .you would think twice
@anitaspencer38853 жыл бұрын
There are 2 words they’re called “SELF RESPECT & another called “SELF CONTROL”. Not every woman out there covets their neighbors husband. Some of us are very happy with what /who we have, thank God.
@a.sydney50363 жыл бұрын
Like you said. *Some.
@risarena95633 жыл бұрын
Adrienne and Loni are doing their best to not tell her to stfu.
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Who???
@dianachilds55993 жыл бұрын
I love ❤️ Garcelles blunt honesty
@ILoveMichaelJ4Life3 жыл бұрын
I miss them in the studio but at the same time I do like them doing the show this way because I feel like it’s more intimate and I guess because it just feels like real girlfriends having real conversations. Like these conversations remind me of me and my girls and I’m sure it’s relatable to a lot of us.
@kwanelechili26393 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is talking over the other hosts lately. Strange
@LovedByYou3 жыл бұрын
Why is Lonnie confused? Now she’s against house cleaners... girl let whatever it is goooooo
@sheillyjanice35143 жыл бұрын
I love how Garcelle keeps it real and doesn't feel like she has to agree with the rest of the girls 💖
@Amberrechelle3 жыл бұрын
Some people are just very confident with who they are and what they have and I love that about Adrienne
@fionaj73403 жыл бұрын
Adrienne your pretty friends walking around your house and hiring and paying a JLo look alike to work in your house is not the same honey. It takes a different type of man to hit on your friends, but you sure as hell don't hire temptation sis. If he is a cheater, he'll cheat anyways....but I am definitely not making it easy for him in my house. 🙄🙄
@florencetogor76183 жыл бұрын
Thank you Garcelle, you´re the only one that is been very very real about this topic
@rrtlife21673 жыл бұрын
The mechanic!?! LMAO
@tdotwire1013 жыл бұрын
Once you have a child your mindset shifts to protective mode. protective of your kids, your household and your husband/boyfriend. I dont think majority of women will honestly feel comfortable hiring a gorgeous younger nanny to watch their kids. I wouldn't hire any female nanny. And I would never hire a man nanny. The only man my kids need in our home is their father.
@cocopuff68103 жыл бұрын
adrianne no dude is getting with a woman for her personality
@SatyaEmerging3 жыл бұрын
So it's okay to essentially discriminate against someone in THIS instance because of their looks, but not okay to do so in others because of how one "looks" in other ways, e.g. the color of their skin (or absence thereof), facial features, hair type/hairdo, etc? Really? How interesting and ironic...
@SatyaEmerging3 жыл бұрын
It's disheartening, but unfortunately not surprising, to see how people will perpetuate certain stereotypes while being outraged at others. Women's desirability being based on the color of paper bags - or toast? Reprehensible! Potential customers being directed away from certain items or areas in stores because it is assumed that they can't afford certain products because of their skin tone and/or perceived financial means - even someone like Oprah Winfrey - is seen as completely unfair. Women still being paid less than men because of their gender is viewed as being wrong and just plain dumb. Yet it is perfectly fine to make snap judgements about an individual's character just based on certain physical attributes? Really? Isn't the bigger picture being missed here?
@rebecapressley29063 жыл бұрын
My momma always said never let another woman into your home
@veronica50802 жыл бұрын
Are yall mothers from the fifth century?!!!!
@adamsey_mame90433 жыл бұрын
Who cares about hot or not, he the job done!!!!
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Exactly but I guess you still have to watch out for those who are too helpful too but yeah I agree as they get the job is done that's all that should really matter
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
If someone is going to cheat, they are going to cheat.
@Nanaannanna3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle calling A a freak for hiring a hot employee is hypocritical when she mentioned her pool boy fantasy does not require communication. A just said she’d be nice to look at and G took a hard left turn. She’s projecting her insecurities onto someone else who is very secure in their relationship. It was so uncomfortable to watch this competition-like-conversation between them. I love how A didn’t let it bother her & just went with the dynamic of her marriage.
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
I know right she was mean here lol and this isn't the first time I heard her say that to Adrienne before in a live episode she may just be joking but when your listening to it from a different perspective it sounds wrong and kind of looks bad😕 I like her just saying🤷🏽♀
@keekee72603 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is so old school and it shows in every situation they talk about
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Well I mean she is the oldest and come from the older geneation like loni so is that supposed to be a bad thing😕🥴🥴🤔
@bdiomande3 жыл бұрын
That didn’t make a bit of difference for Arnold Shwartzneger and his nanny/baby daddy scandal....
@jalissavillafane61733 жыл бұрын
I think the only issue with that double standard of a male baby sitter is he as a father wouldnt want a guy acting like a father to his kids
@christianvictoria20193 жыл бұрын
Like Adrienne said, if a man is a cheater then he's gonna find someone to cheat with lol, hot nanny or not. Don't deny a pretty woman a job just cause ur insecure..
@veronica50802 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!
@marylinehappy85043 жыл бұрын
100% Fair , you have full right & control of who got rights & access to your home. Your partner might be okay but in times of tension, whether we want to admit or not, you don’t really know how strong you are until you face a certain situation. Hence whether we like it or not, on this one I will say stay on the safe side, it really won’t change much. Yes your partner can cheat but as any other flaw , don’t put temptation right in front of you & think you too strong. Wisdom will push you to stay far from it.
@hannahbean96553 жыл бұрын
Thank you Loni!!! I got my Morals and standards in check.
@tyshemayoung33893 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is the only one keeping it Real today.
@lenmaldita32473 жыл бұрын
I work as a nanny. I don't wear sexy clothes around their house or even when we go out I always dress appropriately, I don't also wear much make up when I go out with the bosses only brows and a liptint sometimes I do wear foundation but very minimal. I don't also wear accessories except my watch and earrings. I have been working for my bosses for 5 years now and I've never had any problem with them, I travel with them too, wherever they go I go. When I'm on day offs that's when I wear I whatever I wanna wear, make up and all.
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Oh wow you must be a good nanny and they must be a nice family then to allow you to go on vacation and trips with them together and everything wow cool😕😎
@Fashionista12433 жыл бұрын
It’s not about them cheating on u with that person it’s more of ur husband having a different eye for her and he’s tempted
@tashas82873 жыл бұрын
Adrienne know dam well she would feel some type of way to have someone that’s pretty. her and Lonnie fronting ! Adrienne dancing around the point and she would NOT.
@TheAlkebulanTrust3 жыл бұрын
In the end it's the husband that makes the final decision but don't get why hire a Nanny when the wife can do those duties instead. If she is that insecure that is her best option...true or definitely true?
@jillianetuk51893 жыл бұрын
agreed
@nokuYN3 жыл бұрын
People got things to doA. lot of countries outside the USA use maids and nannys
@Boss_babe293 жыл бұрын
The Alkebulan Trust, Not everybody wants to be a stay at home mom zeeeeeee.
@jaykay50863 жыл бұрын
So if you’re a nanny and you’re hired, your boss thinks you’re ugly